Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 77 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good shom first thanks for get such a clear oning stand especially appreciated the synopsis at the end second thanks for making learning on the plane the in to do my son took a picture of me but it's on his camera and he's sleeping third thanks for pushing learning during B it's very hard to have a good without re another example of ribus that many of us commit regularly listen to this you're going to like this one is going to a restaurant with a friend and one person pays the bill and the other person says next time it's my treat the bill is never the same name it's it's a I'm sure that we we're not over it's I went to a restaurant with a guy that that that's from that gamar that you know he he counts every ape ssky West hson New York after watching this sh a few times over PES perfecting his good morning rabai all week my 9-year-old told me he wanted to come when he's off from school so yesterday he was excited to come here I'm just the when he saw the die store AI image first of all there's no such thing as AI image in mdy there AI enhancement it helps but Yoshi does a lot of work over there AI he was very excited because he loves looking at yeah really AI makes the guy come in and out no em and the rec he recognized it from the art book he said he loves coming and can't wait until next time thank you for making learning exciting for making the gamar easier for me to understand especially explain beforehand what the gamar is going to try to do one of the reason I like to share so much is that you're acceptable of all people from all walks of life not a small matter David huser he's not here thanks so much always this from I love the stories it keeps me keeps me the up to date the story on about the that was very close to the King was from Spain where we have few hundred um views a day which we always forget to count so we're actually 2,350 not this is from jakova and that's R's brother he sits here in the Hebrew every day it's hard for me to put the two together you don't look alike but big says when we said in the so I said over there that you could see from a kid when he's younger what is so he brings here from the that's what he says says I think he's talking about the G those who take care of the kids and you see that a kid has cast you see he has um he's stubborn it's going to stay like that but gives it to a kid for a reason and like a sour esrig you just wait a few months and then it BEC sweet so K to Li from Toronto on his engagement to rif we from Toronto Ma and don't tell me this is from markazi it is I got it so uh Happy Birthday to Isel Bartlett who's in the hospital on his 50th birthday I want I had afterwards I didn't ask you to come up here and give me a can do it now 76 years old on 76 on give better now than ever should continue learning and continueing and continue giving off beautiful T to thank beautiful unbelievable okay over P I'm not gonna read the whole thing it's very very long but he's working very hard to sign up more people he had two Gars left and he was trying to unload them and who what yeah competition with art schol who who sells more garas K he went to a nursing home and the guy there wanted a gamar so he's on the way to MD Mitzvah and he stopped off into the nursing home this is what he does to get another person to learn to K the bar mitzvah people oh the guy the the father of the B Mitzvah boy asked if he could put up one of those stands with the MD people came over took pictures with it but nobody signed up he has one gar needs he goes over to a guy says he really needs the da and the guy says I'll do it on condition that you learn with me the da you show me what it's about I don't have good skills so he learns with him the da that's what it takes sometimes in order to get a guy to come to sh you have to sit down and learn with the guy so he starts giving him a whole thing about ribus and the guy tells him you know based on what you're telling me I'm over on ribus every day so the guy say oh it's time to learn you learn you learn basic how how to live life he he got him to whole long thing and uh and he oh the guy asked that he should learn with him every so often to make sure that he's capping the sh to which I gladly agreed we'll see where this journey will take us by Anonymous for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages I don't if you guys are are thinking about this this is that keeps on going through my mind and I'll just share with you that it's obvious it's obvious to everybody I'll just say it out loud that when you see all the anti-Semitism in America and the college campuses it scares me a lot for another reason that the anti-semite would rather hate the Jew and love the terrorist it's unbelievable when he has the two in front of him he rather take the terrorist the pro Palestinian the terrorist Kamas and hate the Jew it's an excuse to hate the Jew that's that's the sin that's how deep it is it's one thing okay you hate the Jew but you have the terrorism oh we're going to embrace the terrorism and hate the Jew it's unbelievable for the of our grand andt Anonymous from Lakewood in honor of anonymous from flush who hasn't missed the D since in other words Anonymous from Lakewood is sponsoring for that for that guy that wrote the the anonymous email with tishler Anonymous from Lakewood in honor of anonymous from Flatbush who hasn't missed the D since c [Music] b move the mic up oh yeah okay thank you yeah it is a little okay better from Lakewood in from Flat because now the mic is up one of the best such a Jonah on his yard it's unbelievable were holding down interesting that we're going to have at the end of the da today I thought it was interesting at least for me you have who gives his kala a ring and he didn't pay for the ring it's a great K the guy said take it whatever you have the same his twin brother does the same thing and his Kian is not good why what would be the difference they both didn't pay for the ring one is considered his and one it's not huh no not his kavana it's more the cavana of the store owner if the store owner pesters him to pay then it's not a we see a new the new of pestering people are knock on the door where's my payment so they were Ser they really want all payment before you acquire it completely versus a guy that that's not such a pest three lines down on we're not going to say what this is it's one of my favorite one I did I did 30 on a person hires somebody to draw water with a pale and rain comes that's a continuation of amazing that we had yesterday here's a to remind the because the guy shows up at work and it rains so whose fault is it it's no one's fault it's a 50/50 and nobody knew it's going to rain they didn't have meteorologist or whatever which remind just St why not throw it in Jonathan is here so by Jonathan I'm a pilot I don't know if you knew this yeah yeah right I didn't mention when Jonathan was in Shear other p no but what I'm trying to say is that the hardest thing for me as a paviter was the weather weather they give you books like this thick you have to know all the types of fog and all types of cumulous nimbuses and then all the types of uh you know clouds and and the the the highs and the lows and the the fronts and you have to know everything everything about weather it's like nothing to get to the it's so whatever that was the hardest part but anyway in those days they didn't have that kind that knowledge it rain the rain sh is I know so if it's a 50/50 we said if it's 50% you 50% me then the P loses why meni says so I want to tell you take this G I'm gonna I'm giving you a hint now and with the hint it's going to be hard for you to you take this I'm going to give you a real example a day today a real example that happened and what the diam came up from this gar I don't know how they figured this out what yeah but he didn't show up what he show it's too late when you showed up it's already raining you didn't start the work for what for saying to show up anyway there was a unbelievable principle in New York he that wherever he went like he took over this school boom like in Chicago they brought in this principal few two of them actually at to meet one of them now in first and also invit they brought it just changes the whole you know how it works a new CEO it's like a completely different School completely so so School heard about this principle and decided to him they made him an unbelievable offer and he signed it's true story signed the two-year contract the guy sells his house everything comes to within 2 three months they realize it's the kids in ate this guy up alive making fun of him American you I got to tell you how it works Riv so they said that's it we got to what are we going to do so they said listen we're going to we have to cut this and he says what do you mean I moved my whole family I I sold my house I have a two-year contract and uh and then they have a sh to the r we have to fire him should we fire him but and if we do could we give him uh Pim um compens compensation from from from money people are donating from me to the school how a work hold it they brought a ride from here from here that when you have a 50/50 the school had no idea that he's not going to be and he didn't know they both thought it's going to be great they found out later it's like a rain and therefore it's the principal problem I know everybody shaking their head I know when I saw it whether you agree with it or not it's unbelievable how some dying or whatever it is I don't know thought about this and put it here said listen when there's a 50/50 the P loses the the worker loses okay I I'm just pressing your buttons I know get you a little upset before she starts but they said you said they definitely should compensate him they should definitely find him another job they should even give him a job in the school maybe could teach kids privately oneon-one do whatever he can do and and he said listen it's a I'm people going to say they fired me after two months get consider everything but and the number one thing they said you got to fire him immediately because it's not good for the kids we have to care about the kids first worry about the afterwards but fire him anyway s but if a river came say he knows about this River he's been on this field for many years he knows when the river goes and comes to pay these guys like a pile bottle like a a worker who's not working low the low wage again he h somebody to draw water here in I found out it's true I said it yesterday a few people said yes which is also called IM the the the river stops middle of go all of a sudden stops no water then it keeps on going k it's one of these things especially if you if you have a river that that leads into one of these guys and people are watering their fields and everything and all of a sudden just dries up you're sitting there with a bucket a half hour ago you're getting water now you don't have any water so says the you're working they hired you for the day if it's something that usually doesn't happen say the the pum once again it's like the rain it's like whatever want to call it's the the workers problem if this is normal if they're from the city they should have known about it brought them from of and therefore what he has to pay them like a so this happens it happened to me recently hir A guy by the day right the Chinese tile guy you hire him say listen I need you to do the bathroom Okay a day I found out it's not 1,200 she 1500 she a day to the bathroom at 2:00 he's done now what you told him by the day and you told him about the job he wants to go home so if he can find now he won't do Spong that's already beneath him but he'll do anything you give him something to cut stone fix the steers here in front of the we had him do that also that'll do so says the if you have something that's a little bit less work than what he's doing give it to it's exactly the same amount you cannot give him something that's more difficult and you have to pay him you told him the day is 1500 you have to pay him 1500 she it's not his problem that there's no more work why do you have to give him you should give him as a the lower wage of a worker that's that's not doing anything says a new thing here these are the people the porters that thatle packages in there's something called a guy who doesn't uh what do they call it um no when when the muscle doesn't work uh atrophy atrophy you don't use it you lose it kind of thing like if you don't if you stop working they want to work they need to work they have you know they have ADD they need to work it's a for them to give them some more packages don't pay them like a pile of bottle why they don't want to be a pile bottle they want to they want to work as soon as they they feel like the the their health goes down they work out yeah so I started working out today and it's not good to just sit you have to do exercise so they they told you have to do exercise it's not good you're not healthy he's he says I do exercise he says when do you do exercise he says I do ex Shalom three steps back and three steps forward but seriously speaking the r ketki he used to walk every single day 30 minutes that was his thing but I thought it was also very nice that they said about him that he wouldn't talk to people it was only his wife him and his wife and that was a special time with his wife SH now there's no questions I'm sorry it's 101 30 minutes it's a good it's we talk about diet and exercise good stuff right one stone yeah Al I'll tell you you know what I'll tell you for me personal thing for me I like treadmill why because you could do other things on the Tre if you're going slow not if you're running like y probably runs 7 m seven miles an hour Max and you could learn you could do K there other things so you could do kill two birds with one s anyway [Music] okay so let's just show this case again it's a very cool case the the wording is a little difficult here but the case is very very simple the the guy says I want eight eight dinner to finish the entire job and he only fin finished half so what do you own four the problem is that it's going to cost the other guy forget what just happened to the eight it's going to cost the guy another six not four instead of cosing him four it's another two out of his pocket so we had a so you see here's the funny means it's going the thing on the right it's going to cost another six to finish the job you give them the guy on the on the on the left gets four so we're gonna see we have a here check this out it's beautiful who has the upper hand according to the worker has the upper hand according to the balab has the upper hand the they have an option you want to e finish the job okay of course we made up eight and if you want all eight finish the job what's the market for the wages went up they can make more money so that's why they left the is telling us the secret what happened like story happens all the time the guy realizes he can make more money somewhere else he's gone so he calls them up please come back listen so they say listen we can make more money if we go somewhere else so what does he say no typical what happens don't worry about we'll figure it out we'll figure it out we'll take care of it oh the the guy tells you the guy says listen is good listen because talks about how do you say English I'll spoil you but it doesn't work so well in English what are you worried about I can make double the amount if I leave you that's why I left you don't you crazy come back I'll take care of you I call so that the is I'll take care of you is mean zero nothing take care of you also another uh a guy said I'll take care of you he says listen uh it was an accountant he was working for hundred bucks an hour I says I don't want to work for you anymore like he's about to give the whole he says I need 150 so gu says don't worry about it we we'll figure it out when you're finished let's just let's get this done let's get it done I'll figure it out so the guy comes to him afterwards says okay we we spoke about it 150 he says no I said we'll figure it out I meant I'll give you instead of 100 I'll give you 50 that's what I meant by figure it out so obviously he has to give him at least 100 but I'll figure it out is zero doesn't mean anything so don't don't fall for that figure it out if you're the Bal say it as much well don't it's not nice to say especially with but I'll figure it out I'll take care of you you I'll spoil you all these are zero went and he convinced him to come back I thought that we're coming back because you're going to give us an increase I was going to give you a sandwich I was going to help you out a little bit with the food that's what I meant I was going to spoil n extra money why can't they say you signed up for something you can't no cuz there's no signing there's no sign that's the whole point we'll see in a second that a a worker could leave whenever he wants you can you're not a slave you told somebody yeah yeah yeah you ah here it's uh didn't go on I was doing it without it kiter here's the you like the food the food part this is what I meant I meant I'm going to give you a little extra food so and they're thinking to themselves oh we're going to make more money an hour no they only get the eight it started off they said we we'll work for eight then the price the market went up to 10 and they ran away so he says no what I meant is I'm going to give you a little p okay we said yesterday what's no here it's coming up it's coming up if they worked four dinner worth you give them four [Music] dinner what happened was the market you can find workers all day long for cheaper but the guy hired them he's one of these large guys I'll give you above Market everybody's making three an hour I'll give you four an hour coming to but then the market went up everybody's making for an hour oh so they thought we're always above Market whatever the market is we get one more above now we should get five that's true I gave you more because I didn't have workers whatever it is but now everything is everything's steady that's that's the most I'm asking to give I'm asking to give only four let's go back to here same exact story we made up a deal we're you're going to work for eight you only did half you deserve four now what cost the guy six to finish so the pile loses it costs him two out of his we take the two out of the worker's pocket so the worker only is only left with two means two dinner because once again he holds that the the worker has the or I should say the Bal has the upper hand the worker has the lower hand he loses once again what's the we're just taking these saying the reverse but it's interesting I think I think this applies to our day-to-day we always bump into into contractors into workers they finish their job they leave in Middle things they have an option they can finish the work and take whatever they you discuss with them over here it's where the the how do you see B in English the boss says I don't need you you guys are too expensive there's a whole shipment they just came in from these guys get them for much cheaper Shalom bye so he sends them away the workers begged for their life they want their job back before we said asked them to come back no over here they said can we please have work you begged me to come back to work for me and I told you I don't want you because I could get it for cheaper and you convinced me to take you back I thought take you back on the lower wage it's un condition that what we meant is take us back and we'll do better work so so on the the Hebrew art scroll better work means we'll work more hours we'll actually give you more come a little earlier come stay a little later don't take a lunch break not use your cell phone the whole time once again same question of course if they work the sell work they give them a they gave them they they offered their work for less money to begin with then the whole market crash you get cheaper labor the it's the same exact story as we said before maybe they are always slightly below Market these guys are always accepting if the market is four they take three but if the market drops the three they they'll take two so maybe you can give them two we didn't we wanted to take we wanted work we were desperate but that's it we're not going any lower than that says sorry that what and if there's a money money comes out of the pocket of the worker but the worker's hand is on the bottom the the B has the upper hand did really say that says that a worker could just pick up take his lunch box and leave whenever he wants why you're a slave of but not another human being what I'm saying in this because I know what you're think you're saying but we made up a deal but at the end of the day when you work for somebody you're a little bit of a slave you're little a slave you don't realize it you're getting paid but you're a slave you do he tells you to do tell pick up clean do this that that that work on the computer I'm telling you to work on I'm telling you to make phone calls you're sl because to show that there's no such thing as slavery by you can pick up and leave whenever you want now there's difference oh perhaps there is a distinction when a person says that I will take care I'll do this job for you I'm not working by the hour by the day I'm doing a job a CBL he's a contractor so a contractor cannot leave he he has to finish up the job he he accepted an entire job whereas a daily worker an hourly worker could leave and middle in in fact there is that's there is a there is a difference I'll prove to you that there is no difference between a contracted worker and an hourly worker a guy hires a work in the middle of the day he finds out that he had a death in the family or he has the flu so now it says there is no distinction there is no distinction between a contracted worker and a and an arly worker because it says he has to pay him half the day if he's a contracted worker the pro-rated amount again there is no difference you give him half the half the amount whether he's a coblin or a hourly worker now let's continue how do you know it's because there's only two options either and why have to tell me that the worst case that somebody died forget the death yeah like the death you all know about I had workers that 16 of their grandmothers died you look in their files the gra the mother died four times some of his children died he died he went his own came back the next day they don't hold they don't mom is not holding Cup who died my mom and then like six months later is a Mom what's going on no it's my stepmother my this okay can't be even if there's no nobody died the workers always in the right and he can just leave must be the other option you're trying to make a distinction in RAV that RAV maybe RAV said that only a Kon a contractor can't take it back but a hourly worker could over here you see there's no difference between one or the other right turning the that by Eric adman of bigger cup Consulting and with for bring into our lives there is between and that's the there is an enough Community between an hourly worker that could just leave the job and a guy that said I'll finish the job however when there's a loss he's causing you a loss like we had in the mishna like with the flax in the water you said you're going to come and take the fla out if you're not going to take it out you're going to ruin my flag and many others said situations but if it's just about finishing up the bathroom no so the tile of my bathroom won't be there so come tomorrow that's not a law so M just walk off the job but there is a says between but where is there no when there's a loss that's why they said there's no no difference that's why it says on top of the get whether you give him half a question says just show this real quickly first of all this uh we had this once before the pile could could take back could leave in middle of a job and this is M that we said yeah the Frack I hire you to do X and you do y I told you to paint my Frack to dye my frog black and you make it red oh no no no okay oops this one it says if you change the order it's your you're you're on the the other guy has the upper hand and if you take it back other guy has the upper hand when we learned that the Frack the dying of the fra it goes like okay so look at this Mna for a second just our M yeah if they took it just two ago if they take it back you hired workers you take it back what does it say they have the lower hand and look all the way at the end of the Mna in Red so repeated the same thing what do you gain what do you gain we're talking about two different workers one is a contracted worker and the other one is the daily worker the AR worker so you see there is no difference between the two workers you're telling me B there is a difference just when there's a a he then there's no difference over in the Miss doesn't talk about not and you see there's no difference they're both the same says you're right beautiful was in fact talking about both workers and did the same you ask me about RAV he holds that when it comes to a contracted worker we do penalize him he has to finish the job and an hourly worker not he he holds like in part of it but not not completely you got it wrong is saying he asked me a question from it says it's talking about something completely different it's not talking about a worker it's not talking about can a worker take it back and if he takes it back if he regrets and walks off the job we penalize him no we're not talking about a worker we're talking about real estate here a completely different thing you missed it science for different that you missed a person sells a field here my here it is I'm selling you a field for a th here take it and you give 200 out of the Thousand what is that he gave 200 if the seller takes it back depends who took it back if the seller say that I want to sell it so these are the two options 200 in cash or 200 from the property I want my back or give me property what kind of property it's give me 200 200 from it's 200 or 200 but fromus understands is the guy has different properties he has next to the overlooking the that's that's what the understood the is going to say no we're talking about in the apartment that I'm selling you you want $200 worth of my apartment you I I'll either give you in the best part of the apartment the part with the view or in the back of the apartment by the bathroom there's two in the apartment itself when the purchaser regrets the deal then the seller has the upper hand take your money back he decides how he's going to get it where what kind of property if he does give him property the wor a trick that this deal will stick for $200 you'll get the whole thing in the I'm cost a and he gave me and by him saying that he acquired entire ,000 property by raing and he owes me there's a there's a loan here of 800 he acquires the entire property he owes him the money this minute but unfortunately it's a loan and sometimes people don't pay back loans on time so you have a loan and you have to chase him for the money but the property is his for 200 now just get into the this little detail that we already [Music] said we said that when the seller takes it back he has to compensate the guy with either cash whatever he decides either cash or real estate and from the best real estate so we thought it means that if the guy has three types of properties he should give him from the best why why is he any different that somebody that's owed money the most can get is the the medre one the the one you forgot he put money down on a property Ines not so give him fromes why why should he jump and get property when I say I mean from that field he bought 200 he wanted to buy ,000 field he bought only 200 so he and you took it back you the seller don't want to sell it to him so give him 200 of the field in the best part of the field the flat part the best part it could mean even the best of his own property in other words why and this is imagine a guy he sees an unbelievable deal yeah he lives near B ches and he sees a $2 million mansion somewhere in so what does he do he drops everything he sells everything his car his suit of course his apartment everything and he has all these he's just going to have to borrow this I'll get a mortgage on that he goes through this whole thing and then the guy the says sorry not going to sell and he has nothing now nothing he doesn't have his he sold his apartment cheap he tried to get dud it quick he lost money so so the guy is a mazik he actually damaged him now maybe not to the point where you can go after him in court but there's a loss there there's a there's some sort of it's it's in the category of Maz okay I have a TI on you oh you're a mazic for that the tus says here here's the Poss in the T made a deal yeah we made a deal but there's no we didn't finish what you agreed you owe ,000 no no no no there's no contract yet we spoke about this and you said okay I'm going to sell to you so I run ahead and I go I do everything based on what you told me it's like a mishap kind of thing there's no there's no no money changed hands yet American law reliance promis Reliance promiser stapple a stole thank you well you went to law school really I'm learning new things about you every day why it's great how come this button is not working okay when you're you have to give the best St guy that's buying land which is a lot of money I guess I'm saying it happens when you have an apartment and you you figure this is going to be best for my family you heard about a guy that's selling something it's m unbelievable you go do whatever you can do to get out of it and go go step it up a little bit and you know you're going to take upon yourself more and you're going to lose a little bit on the partment that's here's I made it cheaper I want a fire s he's like not and when you go to so that's why he gets so in fact we are talking about the three different types of properties he's not getting the best of the B he's getting the best in because he's in he's he's there's a way to get the guy to stick to the deal by writing that he owes the rest he only acquires the amount that the 200 not the 4,000 person puts a security deposit down so I mentioned this but I'll mention again I have two friends in Chicago I know both of them very well they're both in the nursing home business and one wanted to move to the other guy's block he made him a great offer and in fact to show that he was ser ious he gave $500,000 deposit and the guy ended up buying somebody else's house they were friends then I don't know what happened afterwards and the guy says listen $500,000 Shalom you gave me a deposit and in real estate that's basically how it works deposit is serious you know you can't come through it's your problem I want my it's 500,000 so that's a little bit of an as Asar says here the guy never intended to lose the $500,000 right you ever had things like that so people lose 20 20,000 she I don't know what kind of deposit but 500 you ever heard of a $500,000 deposit lost anyway I know they he ended up losing a lot of money I don't know that it was 500 I think they made some sort of 450 or something but if I take it back like this guy like my friend he didn't want to buy the house the 500,000 and the seller says I'll give you a million dollars if you can't buy mine this is the famous concept really being but I want to I want to see where the Lo's from I couldn't find it today it's I think that's the okay fine any any you in in monetary things I can make any you want I can say standing here for 3 hours and then it's mine I can do whatever I want so I said you'll get a half a million half a million a million million what's the problem yes and it's it's an exaggerated thing here and you didn't really want it to happen you didn't think you didn't F you didn't think for a second it's going to happen no but it's not true let him he acquires that which is equal to the deposit why because in all holds it isn't and it doesn't work so this is very very important when a person says that my deposit should create a Kinyon that's bad I'm not saying that I want to acquire part of the house comparable to my deposit I didn't say I'm buying $500,000 worth of your house I'm saying my deposit should make a Kenyon that doesn't work deposit doesn't make a Kon if I'm saying I'm making a partial payment I'm paying $500,000 of a $2 million home then I acquire the whole thing I made a partial payment to the house but a deposit is not a partial payment no good if he paid a partial payment then he then he acquires the whole thing and then he has to pay so now the question is what's going on here does a deposit work it's kind everything or not which one is it so here's this new if you sell you tell a guy here take this SRI show to your Rabbi and he doesn't pay you is is it or not he comes after Su and he pays you well if you're the guy you're uptight about the money Where's My Money call him up three times and you don't get an answer then it's not his if you're Bader don't worry about it I'll get the money he'll give me I know this guy he pays every time so then he's so with the with the ring if he's a guy like knock knock Where's My Money where's my money it's all over no good I don't know it has to do with a guy Rashi sticks Rashi sticks in we'll see a little bit more Tom she sticks in that you see the guy was just selling it because he he had it he's forced he's showing you but it's more I think it's more like an attitude I don't want you you're not AC I'm showing you you don't acquire this you didn't acquire what your why I need all money up front there's people like that you pay me up front great not not buy pass you buy something from your friend and the guy keeps on bugging you for the money it's not yours fine stop right over here boyai have a wonderful day