Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 61 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good part one of a series here we go today we have a beautiful D of a great stuff on way we'll learn some as well and um I want to show you something very unique happened I'm not sure if this was coordinated or not but I want to show you the first email has nothing to do with it the second one and the third one and the fourth fifth sixth that all have something to do with each other I was traveling to with my friend and was so inspiring to see him learning the D and not skipping a day Mark you can keep on driving don't worry about this I got this almost this picture on the flight on the way back he and I are both s Williamsburg and I started to consider dot dot I always love to see learning with us especially after I showed the video of sat of the and one of two got insulted I don't know why but they said I should have been insulted but anyway hopefully these guys didn't even see it and they're learning to R said check this out so so we discussed the other day about the kabusa program in fact on our new website we already have a tab called Kusa but I think it's going to be bigger and better than this but I want to show you something very interesting dear Ellie I converted many years ago in South Africa and now live in Manya Nicaragua you and MD do amazing things however when I heard about the idea of having an MD brought me great being in such a remote place with no one to learn with makes trying to keep up with the D a real struggle I'm sure there are other in Latin America I can learn with but we really need a medium like mdus to act as a shotgun for others like me good you hear this from Nicaragua it's mind-blowing the the the different places that people are learning to with us unbelievable the a from Nicaragua Mak down here in Central American Nicaragua so that's email number one not going to believe it email number two Captain Mark AAL squadron commander in New York we are quite dear reelly we're quite excited to hear that MD is going to have a Kusa Cent I'm the commander of the US Air Force auxiliary base out of New York we are volunteers in the US Air Force this organization started a week before B Harbor our members will work all work are very busy so having a especially for is a real eye catcher and for sure we'll get a lot of guys to join that that would not have without having a we'll be sure to spread this to in New York who are all close here in New York City Commander Captain brother ofd mer dear REI I am a US Army soldier who recently returned from a deployment to South Korea I'm now safely back in my base in Virginia just found out about your new MD Kus initiative it already became an initiative they they figured Okay so so what I'm thinking is that they they they they're in cahoots over here if not it'll be a Pella but we'll get some emails no we didn't discuss this just so happened to be that six chaplain from the United States Army sent me emails only six okay here we go just found out about your new MD initiative I meet many people in my position I would be it would be a privilege to let other service members that I have a chance to speak with now about IND and all that it offers I've been in the Army for over 20 years and I've deployed overseas seven times this is demonstrated to me that without a Kusa would be almost an impossible task to keep up with an understand with blessings for all that you do Captain M jery Lawson MD doctor US Army Joint Base lingley Eustace Virginia something like that Dr Jeff monary dear belly I heard you speak about starting in the wife Russ speaking for myself I don't have a learning background work fulltime for a major military contract in Tamp Tampa Florida there's no one around me that I can learn with and I learn best oneon-one you missed it slow guy from Nicaragua sent he wants to totally change my feeling of drowning in the day in the day to one a feeling I can really swim and succeed at this honestly withouta I can't see myself lasting I started with bakama but with so many difficult contests and on having someone to learn with at least a few times a week would make a day and night difference to me I am sure I'm not only I'm not the only one you're doing an amazing effort but I'm sure for thousands of us around the world they like they like me struggle to keep this up all my best Tampa dear belly I'm an avid listener to your Shar when time permits and United and United States Army Rabbi chaplain station Columbia South Carolina originally from Lakewood this chaplain D edgert here's his picture this an amazing effort on the part of resource help people like applaud you for this initiative okay we got to get going here being the Garrison base Rabbi at the Fort Jackson South Carolina army base gives me the opportunity to introduce MD y to those that I meet being here you show my picture with Rabbi velv velv con watching online a few months ago good chaplain USA deell chaplain Aon Cohen Waterberry Connecticut you hear what's going on here I don't think there's a coincidence but you know what I like about it that these guys are organized and they sent out a message this is what I'm thinking forgive me if I'm wrong if I'm wrong send me an email tell me no all six of you guys sent in emails in dependently had no idea of each other but if not even if yes that means you're organized we're going to get this program going and you guys are going to help us organize it with the talents that you have from the United States Army of organizational skills and all that stuff we're gonna get this thing rolling my name is Chap Aaron Cohen you showed my picture a few months ago as we were learning when I was training in South Carolina you spoke about getting learning partners and it's an amazing idea it will absolutely change the learning atmosphere when we know we have a group of people to learn with we we will do our best to spread it to all the Jewish soldiers not just in the US Army but to those in the US Air Force and in the US Navy as well as well as all the Jewish soldiers who are connected to one another all my best keep the amazing work that you do chap iron Cohen Waterberry Connecticut so it's amazing listen this could pick up that's one part of the idea one part of the idea is to have a each person has uh basically somebody that he knows that will remind him to do the D about the D not necessary to learn to that very day you could do that as well butus system but I think the system should be in a larger system with a larger group within the group you could have within the but you have you are part of a group let's see all the army guys in one group 10 20 30 guys the Waterberry guys one group the nicara guys one group I think that's what will establish will make it much starer we'll have suim in these groups we're going to go to Los Angeles and really make a huge changes here in Los Angeles B right B shaking his head yes return forages da healthy baby the is sponsored for Sor that's it she's no longer oh my goodness yesterday we said refest Sor oh my gosh I wish somebody would warn me about this stuff s a 10-year-old girl let say there was a girl fighting for a life and this individual sponsored the sper we didn't have sper as a sponsorship but I don't know who this person is he asked if he can sponsor it he said I'll give $1,000 the this girl they asked me is that okay I said okay fine let's go um okay should her parents shouldn't know of any oh I don't like to start your him like this so it depends when you watching this year it's the sixth day whatever I can't even say it to to me it's the fifth day of the to you it could be anything it could be one plus 5 2 plus 5 and if you notice on the side it says it's about the Y they change it thank you whoever changed it is about is so I hope I okay I got to get my head straight here we're learning and we're learning thisor we are holding three lines from the bottom of let me ask you a question this is going to be discussed in the G when I was a I was learning in Berlin in New York and I had a very good friend he lives today in North Miami Beach his name is Mo Schwab he had a Chevy Caprice I think it was called you remember it was a cop car so one day I saw his keys laying around so I grabbed the keys and I took the car and they parked it three blocks away I knew he's never going to go there and uh I was says Where's My Car where's my car I parked it over here it's not there and you know a prank I'm sitting I like wow we got to call the cops he called the police he goes he comes four hours later I let him know that his car is safe and sound and you know I parked it is is that a mitvah to be had a big big Sim is that AA what's the I just I don't know I have these allergies keeps itch if you wonder why I go like this now Jonathan's fans get more tired to say about okay so we're going to see that it's probably not a good thing to do n show them this give me this wants me to show you this this is my father-in-law's diagram of a soio we also made a diagram but the point is he gave one of these to every person in the shield let me see if there's any oh yeah there's more stuff going on here this is how he does it he gives the sheer here the official she in the hotel and that's where I learned the idea I took his idea oh here's another one we we did a chart for this this is the chart of with said the question is is not good not good then he says he goes over here good answer anyway fine my point is you never know you do some some chart somewhere in a small little hotel and then uh 20,000 people are benefiting from this a day because of his idea Dr Michael fredman my father-in-law so um yeah we're going to see one of the things that we're going to see today that it's not a very good thing to do it might be also it's not a good thing to do three lines from the bottom of says in the we don't have to show the here's the your money you shall not give to a borrower by biting him and as we discussed yesterday there's two things one is called one is called we established yesterday that the Tor says two things just to give the person two dings he gets two so the money is and the says is on food says it says when it comes to money and ribus by food how do you know that there's two on each how do we know is going to say how do you know ribbit on money here's a great picture that Yosi put together lone sharks ribus lone shark LTD so it says in the you see over here in this and this important for later on this as I put on top is referring to the is referring to the borrower don't be bitten by your brother it doesn't say with with the way works or works it means don't get P don't bring upon yourself a bite it says now so what says oh [Music] sorry oh sorry I I showed you the wrong POS it says this is the that I am showing you how do you know the ribus when it comes to money so the gives you that says the word not how does that make any sense explains if it's not needed for the biting of money look at the beginning of the is already telling you the biting part money so if you say every day so all the way at the end it [Music] says okay so actually that's all the way at end sorry confused let's go back it says we we don't need it in this POS so we don't need it it's similar it's the same thing but we'll get to it all the way at the end of so here we have the idea of the word ribus by money even though it says the word but I don't need it so if I don't need it we flip it into to Riv now that we saw this POS it's talking about AA a borrower so how do know that these two AAS apply to the lender as well here so here says by the way in this POS it says right before we're looking for here it is I should have highlighted in the second line in the middle next to the red now by the it says also here's the this is the word so we have it says the word says word and we learned the two one from each other there's no difference between money and food is so whatever applies by ver because we have we have the same word so we learn one from the other and therefore one is called one is called R and what about a car and a bike how do you know that if I lend you my car and I ask you for two cars and return that's also R here we go the final line and this POS by the says every object R says I don't need now you know what the problem with that is what do you mean I don't need is not logic is something that receiv from telling you that says the word word so doesn't have the right to come and say oh I don't need gave it to what do you mean I don't need it so that's theor is going to deal with thator is going to say in fact there is for something else I don't need this so he says a very very simple thing check this out look what it says here's theor here's the so the way we read it is you see the Horseshoe under the word that's a so as he says that we could read it both ways we're going to put the two words in the center and it could go for the beginning of the and it can go for the end of the B otherwise why was it written this way it could have said he says let's see an inside period and the word would be in between the word great but because the two red words together is to tell you that go on above and then you read it again the two red words those two also go for the bottom part of the P which is talking about rib [Music] next ask the question that we just said says he's bringing you he didn't just make up nobody makes up comes from generation to Generation all the way from say oh it doesn't exist if there was no I could have I don't need but it still doesn't help me so why did says that the Mal on bikes and cars I didn't know that part that I don't know the Mal on I can learn from I learn from the way the says it without ex but the fact that there rib on computers and on other items not food items and money that I didn't know for that I need ex I'm telling you this is easy stuff and let's enjoy it all my [Music] why does the tell us that to take interest Riv does to steal and is we had a whole more than a whole many days maybe more than a week of up right in the end of pero you cannot take can you can't upcharge a six or no now they all come from the same Source you now all to take from somebody something that doesn't belong to you you're not charge him you're not steal from him now rib you're right rib is a big you're not taking anything from anyone you agreed upon this price you're not taking from it okay so let's assume that ribus is not part of the questionnaire that the question is more why do I need a you can learn it out of says you need all three h Tak is chopping okay I forgot to check if I'm on Internet on the Wi-Fi here hope it's okay so says if we would just say it by Ribs by interest it's a tremendous new idea that we' have never dreamed of the guy paying the interest he's also over on rib it's not just the guy receiving the interest so from that I can't learn anything because only say by Ste a person took something forcefully but when you go willingly to a store and you upay a maybe over when it comes to he doesn't know he has to be it's a little tricky the wording here he doesn't know that he has to be Mel a guy that gets upch charged he goes home he never he doesn't have a clue that he's just overpaid doesn't know maybe if he would have known he wouldn't have bought it to begin with he didn't know and he'll never know so it's very very severe and if it's very severe you can't learn from it can't learn one from one let's learn one from two this is a classicor and let me show you how it's done here are two on the top hey let's just let the just teach us these two things and what's the third thing interest let me learn interest from those two I can't why they have something special stealing and taking upch charging a six it's without consent but when it comes to interest there's two willing parties involved so I think that it's [Music] okay so therefore let's start over another two let's take Gaz and rib and now I won't the T doesn't have to talk about and I can learn from G and ribb he didn't go to the store to to purchase something but a guy that goes to the store or know is different he goes and he purchases when I purchase something sometimes they overpay that's just the way it is yeah how many women do you know that go and purchase uh purses that cost thousands of dollars they overpay but they want to overpay they go to the store they overpay that's how buying and selling works sometimes you pay a normal price sometimes you overpay let's say it's it's a new car uh a new phone that came out you overpaying that's how it goes so you can't learn from [Music] it let's start over says Okay so let's take the other two let's take ribb and and learn what Gaz so what are you going to ask I can learn from that doesn't it's not and what are you gonna say that know different that he doesn't know that he should be now we have a circle each one has his own little and each one is different but is a common denominator all three is taking something from someone else that doesn't belong to you so maybe I could learn from it you're right you could learn G from rib you could so the question is talk about stealing there a type of stealing that I wouldn't know from regular stealing and that is not paying your employee on time you don't want to pay him so why is that different than regular stealing because regular stealing means I go into your property I take something from you over here I'm not taking anything from you I'm just not paying you I'm withholding how's it called in English withholding wages withholding wages did I take wages from you I didn't take money out of your pocket I owe you money and I'm not paying you that's not stealing say you are stealing that's you're over un stealing I don't need a for that you shouldn't withhold wages wages telling over twice if you withhold wages you're over to says why say that you're over two witholding wages say you're over another goes say very simple answer this is you it's better we prefer to learn something from has nothing to do with what we said in the beginning of similar different very different withholding wages that we just said is in the par of of an employee so therefore it makes sense to give withholding wages a double wh me say that he's two times huh I know I don't want to say anything nobody some people sponsor you know you know little but they're spacing yeah they don't know shy did something like um a questionnaire to see if people still holding a lot of people sent in yet they did this sponsor Inon of my [Music] uncle you imagine losing a 10-year-old it's not you can't even it's not comprehendable nobody wants to think about it nobody wants to maybe it's a good idea to to sit down think person has a young child 10y old and the child is God God never coming back on on official Mitzvah motivators in honor of the sponsoring for for the daily learning the brothers for of our grandfathers okay so we can learn everything from everything learn from now I just want to point something very important now there was a they say there was a kid that later on became a reaba he was a big Master sat in the show learning a old man came in and accused him of stealing his walking can the stick so people told him in the show no no it's impossible this guy's a big he's a good kid he's a good kid he's a big learner he's a mass he would never be sign so the kid Hypes and he says even if I stole the stick I wouldn't be over on is in means don't kidnap stealing a walking cane is not kidnapping but there's another called so if you look over here it says so here the V says it's not because a complet different meaning the t is telling us that it's AER to steal to hurt somebody else so there's a need here what exactly happened did you steal it and you thought that you're going to give it back if that's the case the brings and the that then every body's over it people take things from people all the time and you know pretend that it disappeared and put back so you over signal so that's why the learns the that it means that you it's very interesting you stole it you're never going to give it back but you stole it to hurt somebody not to benefit yourself to me it's not but that's what they that's how they learn I'm not stealing because I want to use your bike I want to steal it to hurt you oh for that I need a pule but let's go the other way I'm stealing it to give it back I'm stealing it temporarily so so what's are you allowed to steal your friend's car to prank him so there's a ra that says that one should not do that even as a joke because it's similar to stealing it it it it gets you used to stealing so M they saying so let's say hitting your friend in a joking way should also be AER so because hitting your friend you're so you're getting used to hitting okay different things said whatever is physic or emotional too think you lost an object yeah but it's a prank it's a joke and everybody laughs afterwards it's problematic I'm saying it's problematic so the somebody asked the if he's permitted he had a father big similar to my father-in-law you know everybody has the code um I went into the house now during I had to get a safer I go in there and there's people in the pool nobody's in the house people in the pool so I thought maybe yeah yeah there's a bunch of groups they come every hour they going to the pool he's not even home nothing and just recently they had uh this person that was helping them and they were at this this lady actually cleaned my house a bunch of times they caught her stealing M straight out stealing taking stuff you know the silver everywhere it takes so you have a guy his house is open to to poor people and things are disappearing all the time so the son wants to know if he could save his father how should save him he's going to take the stuff himself not tell his father take it when time comes he'll give it back to his father right now he's going to take it so that's stealing Al it hurts him now it's not Al the opposite to prevent them pain but right now it's causing him pain so told him he shouldn't do it so he kept on pushing and he said listen at the end of the day my father's going to lose his money so basically he came out that if he supports his father he gives his father money from that stuff but it's not so simple before you you start taking things from people think about it another interesting what about some people say it's problematic I think says they should explain to your kids that you're it's but if they think you're training them some people say hey train them to steal something that uh I didn't like so much I have to say my older son he got a bunch of gifts and he hid the first and he and the kids were suppos to find that so it was good for this thing because they not train him to steal but on the other hand the kids were busy the whole s literally two and a half hours straight just looking looking not a single kid was at the say there the younger kids I'm talking about fine meanwhile one of the kids walking around with a nice fancy watch the whole thing great here's another one this is the the Son and the father I'm stealing from you I want to give you a gift I know you won't accept the gift I want to give you the egg I know you're not going to accept so what do I do I steal from you you sue me and I give you double oh so here I gave you double here's a way that I can give you money without you looking like you're coming on to me for favors you beat me in court what a all to [Music] do do have to say special when it comes to weights you shouldn't cheat people with the weights it's coming to say when a person buries his weight in salt says rashy then it actually increases the weight and that is good for a buyer not for a seller because now this the buyer gets more let's say is a one pound weight the one pound weight just for argument say goes to one and2 PB okay I know it's not that much but just to round it out one and2 pound so now when he puts his weight on a scale and the seller puts a bunch of strawberries on the other side he gets one and a half pounds for the price of one pound so that's that's good for the buyer so I told my who learned that it's the opposite that salt decreases the weight right the way we understand salt also it's it's harmful for metal so he said please don't say it in cheer because he wrote the cahoot tests and one of the questions is what happens when you put a weight in salt does it increase so he wrote the answer that it increases so I like no no no I got to say this in share first of all I was planning on saying it but second of all now people know there something called Cod this something there's a test it's multiple choice questions and the quicker you do it the better you score Etc so people should know got to make people aware once in a while people work hard to put the test together and people are taking the test but don't answer in this casee do not answer that it decreases the weight it increases the weight according to rash because we go according to rash [Music] says you need a special for that that's stealing the unbelievable that when you put that weight into the salt that's when you start being over now when you start using it deul in is that a word in a store it's when you submerge that weight and salt the clock starts ticking with a not very often you see in a that when you plan to do the a you're over on the he's planning on stealing with the sued by putting it in Salt boom you shouldn't do wrong when it comes to measurements and weights and liquid volume measuring land so you know they didn't have tape measures like we have today made out of material that doesn't budge they certainly didn't have lasers they would use some sort of rope made out of string whatever so in the summer it condensed how you say became smaller shrunk and in the winter from all the moisture it got longer so now if you're using the same exact string but in two different seasons so you'll you'll you you'll give this guy 10 acres and this guy will get nine acres or whatever it is it's a problem two let's say two brothers are splitting in yha this one gets a certain amount and this one gets the other amount this is we just had before you shouldn't submerge your weights in salt they shouldn't make it bubble up say when you you know you pour beer so if you pour it fast it it froths it Bubbles and then or like soda whatever it is then you put in a bottle you sell them and all of a sudden the guy walks away three minutes later he has a half a cup instead of a whole cup yeah but that's just the ear this is it looks like it's full you look at it wow it's a full cup and then without drinking from it it's half half the cup so the art schol says over here that is a half ounce in our days okay understand we're talking about a very small amount half notat I think it's very interesting because we're talking this is stuff that we lay every single day now P get all these measurements are much much larger than half an ounce certainly you're not to cheat people in those measurements why does the Torah mention leaving when it comes to taking interest I don't have to tell anybody where that is and by see what we have here oh what a shame okay it's fine oh soib here's the remember we had the one before one after sorry we and then it says right away right after it says I don't have okay when it comes to the MIT the MIT the wom they had many different husbands and only differentiate between so I will be the one who will avenge or Revenge the the person who says look I have a great idea scho you want to borrow money from me great interest 20% interest he you're not allowed on trips it's not my money I'm just holding on for a good I'm I'm telling you the million dollars I have here is not my money it's g money you're allowed to buy from a guy you want Oh Unbelievable Truth is it's my money do you know the difference you don't know hem knows the difference Hashem will take care of you will take care of the person that buries his weights in salt so I spoke about this a number of times we don't have to go into it again but is this it's Indigo indigo is very very similar in color to so the reason why I wear T today one of the main reasons because the the guy that uh came out with this whole thing he says that Kon is the same composition the whatever the numeric composition as even though is PL and this is only the I don't know if this is real Indigo or not something that looks similar to this it's the same I showed it once in she M15 R6 whatever the DNA composition whatever you want to call it of the plant is the same as that of a snake of this uh turus whatever it's called turus no um U I forgot the name of the snail but anyway so Meo that's why it makes a lot of sense this that a person who wants to cheat he could die because is very expensive even today it's expensive certainly in those days when they they didn't have the ability to go down and deep and and and dive and get it only knows the difference you could pass it off as real and cheap people will take revenge went to here the one on the Euphrates he told why does the talk about when it talks about and then it says what does have to do with eating bugs or I was the one that differentiated between the I'm going to take revenge from the person who passes on not fish as if it's why does it say the says should be in red but okay next time when it's not does it say what's the question what's the question what's the question why does it say like it says in in all other places I took you out of Egypt what's I lifted you up if that I took I lifted up from because this one thing in other words if they if K only gained one thing that they don't eat they're on an elevated level that they stopped eating dead rats that's enough because before they were on a low level they were like the M they were eating like today in China they eat it's a low level I elevated you you're because you are what you eat cabal you are you eat a Sher you eat trfe it goes deep into your n goes into your body you and embodies you so now you're not a Sher you're not a you're not a rat you're you're a elevated person I elevated you what how come it doesn't say this word by I'm the that doesn't allow you to take I'm the that told you to put on use regular words you're right it could be this is greater greater for doing all the other stuff rib scissors but to eat to eat a Sher is more disgusting so it's interesting the a person ribus is also something eating the sticks in and I saw this in in a few places there's like a pel on the P he says people who take interest is worse than eating kazer you see over here that look at the end of the day eating kazer is how much one LA taking interest we're going to see in the suas five La so yeah it's worse to take interest from somebody to E so says what's tus what's what's considered ribus so we went through the whole story remember maybe I should have shown that um so if you remember the the case like this what's tarbus let's go through the case the guy says give me a certain amount of wheat for a golden coin and then the the wheat went up in price to 30 from 25 for 30 so he says you know what what why do you want wheat you want you want your wheat so that you can buy wine you know what I'll give you wine but I don't have wine and the wine could go up in PR says what the first part of the is not only this the first part of was again what are the two conditions what are the two conditions of rib that first of all it's in a lone form and second of all it's Riv it's decided up front I'm going to take 7% interest a year it's decided up front and it's alone those are the two things so the first part of the Mish said straight out I'm giving you four coins you're going to give me back five that's ribus but this case that we just showed with the with the wi that's already that's already yesterday says first part of is second part is so it's interesting yeah when I don't know when a father takes interest from somebody else and then he dies the son the sad who learns in Kyo could use that money he doesn't have to worry about he doesn't have to return the money say what just the first part of M you in the the in the use the money but the Ron case of the the barrels of wine for the wheat and that you cannot use no you misunderstood certainly the case the son Ena to use the money but even Thea case the son could use the money so not to forget and that it should be a mus CH we we'll keep on repeating this but I think it's very very simple rib means it's referring to ribb [Music] how do we say very good [Music] say I'm sorry [Music] the first half the and the second part of is the dust of meaning if somebody takes interest from his friend that friend that borrower could go to bzden and retrieve his interest you cannot take [Music] back that's what we're tomorrow proving against says that even you cannot get back a question mark he gives he what does he do for for for living he gives out loans and he's goingon to live He's not going to live it's did terrible things he gets the death penalty and he cannot return this was given to fear you don't return see from the actual shall die his blood shall be in him whatever those who lend with ribb are similar to those who kill just like a person who murders someone else you can never take it back you can't res you can't uh resuscitate or what's the how do you say in English resurrect resurrect you can't bring him back to life and even if you do bring him back to life by the way let's say so I think a lot of say it's not the same person whatever whoever was over there when they when he killed them it's a whole over there you you do it's very possible there's no aan there's no you know his wife is M she got married and then he's he's back alive again so it's another person could be I him the bottom line is just like murder you can never take back so too lending with interest you can never give it back even if you pay you do some sort of restitution but you NE the is still there the a is still done have a great day have a wonderful day [Music]