Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 47 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning for coming every single day for the last week all the way from remind me your name because I oh no from what's your all the way from Baltimore Bo what a wedding last night B one of the nice most leic of weddings I've been to in my life and I've been to a lot of weddings so I want to show you something very very interesting something happened that I've been to more weddings than probably anybody in this room because I was a cater at least 100 weddings a year for a bunch of years and uh part of my job I used to hang out by the I used to make sure to be there make sure the wine and this and the bras and tell people what to do how many times to turn around I was very into the you know people go the wrong way I'll C you know something happened at the wedding last night that I've never seen in my life I don't know if anybody's ever seen it and let me tell you as follows the reason why it was like a spontaneous thing so another record for last night the himself the father of the AI does the da the grandfather of the is Dr abstein is here every day the the uncle of the hill is here the other Uncle Ellie he's the one that did the D very Stark and he told us about YouTube and everything else the father of the kimway who came every single day brought his son would drive him here find parking AK is always the brother-in-law of the who writes every single week in the's grandfather Kami also does the da the himself does the da who else and they were all under the and then this is what happened and the a shil okay so here goes they started singing that's me getting a br and then that I never seen a under the and then I never saw somebody got clapping for someone when they [Music] okay we're not going to show the rest that I didn't put in okay surprise the power of every word I hope that this email finds you well I want to share as the power of every word of Torah that you share you never know the positive imp can make about two weeks ago you mentioned in passing the idea of that aside from the lesson of the teach us about giving to outside our city that the Layar is to tell us that our Mitzvah of giving reaches a when we encourage others to give lar to tell others participated in a solid solidarity trip to Israel last month and decided to organize a PES gift and holiday greetings for the AL one of the killed and kidna October 7 whose family we met on our trip you encouraged me to go out of my comfort zone and solic the in two shs which I frequent in Montreal to participate in the Mitzvah with help many people participate greatly increasing the gift and number of H wishes all thanks the few words by yourself the power of the power of the power of thank you for every moment you invest in preparing the no word you say is insignificant this regards Gan Montreal Canada all of us in are thinking about our friends and family constantly ending for our safety oh so in case you're wondering why I'm here uh they canceled our flight and they didn't it's no longer flying out of very Str I was flying on Austrian so now instead we are leaving hopefully at 1:00 this afternoon to Cyprus from Cypress to Austria Austria be there for about 15 hours and then somehow like two days later we're going to arrive in Chicago and that's all worth it for my wife however we are also looking for opportunities to help wife members family members when they come up listen to this somebody's looking for opportunity from the of MD another we just said a the guy heard this thing he went and he did here's somebody else unfortunately iron H's father-in-law was n on of shabas and adawa another Canadian while it's a great miss to help any in this situation it's an expert privilege to help out an MD wire we MD wires in small out oftwn communities are always happy to meet fellow MD wires and help them out should they find themselves in our towns perhaps someone could set up a website to help find us and reach out if need us if you need us I hope everybody keep oning Adam Peters here's a photo of myself withon her in my hand this the first piece of mdy merch a phone stand from the seum here iron HS is on the right with the cap and the author of this email with his merch in his hand i'm relative newom y says Moi Dax from Wood New York I've only joined the beginning of B I had my own more m g by my friend Jeremy convinced me to just watch the first day was immediately hooked one thing that has become ingrain to me in these first 40 so days has been the the of sticking to the Y and the of not falling [Music] off it's almost PES and that's where people fall do don't be one of them stick to it last Sunday we were to marry off our firstborn daughter in all the wonderful craziness of the the wedding the sh I heard your voice in my head rabai don't fall off you can learn from a here he is went to sleep 2:00 in the morning the night before slept one and a half hours maybe every day it's the Y the Yi Dr epon is here they're here I I saw what time he got home I am behind on work email speech writing you hear this he's behind on work he's behind on emails he's behind on speech writing for Sher Brook and more but I'm current with the da belows a photo of me doing the da last Sunday at the Hilton midle where my daughter got married here makeup and all sorts of other seemingly important things going on around me but I've come to learn one thing the Y is every day even on the day of your daughter's amazing Bas with great appreciation to you for all that you do and the role that you play in what has become the part of each day the best part the be sorry the best part of each day says sincerely Mo woodmer New York here he is rabai doing the D somebody schling on the couch over there as you could see but he's ding away with the phone and all as we have reached our goal second goal the campaign is still open for who knows how long but we reached 1.2 million so I want to mention some of the highlights that I noticed this morning and I'm sure there are many others and I know I'm going to be missing people and I'm going to be insulting people but let me just say a little bit first of all yusi Klein an individual who has no background in this and has no background in making shabas but he made a Shabbat had no background in charity events neither did any no one in our organization he decided I'm doing it and he went with it and he worked out it's the very very first time they were doing it and it's a tremendous what's that that we as a family we came together we raised $1.2 million it's not an easy thing so many people went out of the comfort zone it's crazy 6 6,244 people donated 6,244 people donated 727 people took teams them here these guys right here took teams nakz over $3,000 you rais it's tremendous without a WhatsApp guy without what without a phone he doesn't have phone it's very hard he made phone calls what what people we just send that on status he's making single phone individual phone calls theary pH yeah actually have a little bit of a s the guys from charity told me never seen a campaign like this 47 communities we had Bells we had kabad we had this seven regions from around Australia raised money for us Australia my team alone 778 people donated to my team 7 a huge number so I just want to mention a few people Mark ashkanazi which I learned a tremendous lesson from him and we're going to learn this for next year he told me he wants to raise $5,000 and I put him in a I didn't do it to almost anyone he wanted me to do something and I said you want me to do do it then raise $20,000 for me he said no problem I want to do it so I want you to do it okay so we made a deal because I put him that pickle he started making phone calls and because of those phone calls he raised $52,000 that means that everybody here in this room could do it if they just pick up the phone M bski on his page it says like 40 something thousand he raised over $70,000 25,000 that's on my page goes to him he's the one that raised it ysf bilak $6,000 this was a big one Mo he's a regular guy he said he's going to raise $10,000 he raised it before anybody else so I called him out in bar park it was before the campaign even started he got the $0 said you got to take another 10 so okay I got another 10 and he raised $220,000 just a regular average guy Willie B from Englewood $18,000 Ellie aser the guy that flew in for a seeum here and he told me some crazy stuff he wants to because of the she he wants to give up uh PES in in the hotel even though he makes a lot of money there a lot with the and everything he wants he wants whole atmosphere all was a big one ell dman I mean ell dman raised a lot of money sh ran didn't want to take a page I put l on him because he talks against it he has a very very popular uh status and on his status he makes fun of the whole thing and it was M against what he preaches and he went out there and he raised over $5,000 is huge kin from laich raised over 5,000 Yi and everything else that you do yman I think they fall by the way flew in from marage and spent uh I don't know two weeks away from his family doing the whole thing to is still not back B he he had to do the the post and everything else and Gans I'm sure I'm missing people the tremendous with all the advertising and everything behind the scenes and who else am I missing every one of you everyone came forward and broke something table it B we're going to use the money for the right thing uh we're looking to hire more people to to to do better better art better artist better just get the organization going in the right direction today happens to be everybody loved this individual AI mandal's yard site here he is so young every day with another and M suing a picture had in his background um the just again the came together as a thing I said maybe we could learn a thousand D for for right it was before and the Learned 5,000 something D I forgot the number 5,700 5,000 over 5,000 D which was amazing a feat that we never repeated but it was the love that everybody had for him he's very very very missed H we should never have to repeat it okay the sponsor by Anonymous for the safe and speed return of all the hostages we have five of them that come from supporting bus and all my Endeavors we have six of them Ellen and I offici in honor of our son David becoming mitvah iron and Naomi mandle bound parents Yi and Carolyn mandle bound brother and sister and last but hardly least least my brother my son my husband on his yard side Mor sax in honor of son yehuda's wedding to attire lambden tonight brain in unleash your full potential and tremendous success in all my Endeavors it's okay to cry it's okay to cry Mo kki in honor of the wedding of zil to the gansy family 5,289 we learned in [Music] unbelievable in 15 days on mother of aim leing m Queens are of the month B by anous for an easy child birth his daughter and healthy baby raboa you know what are we able to do it real quickly we want to do the raffle the $10,000 raffle there's over 2 and a half th000 entries rabai here it goes by the way anybody that raised $10,000 gets a free room at the next shabbaton and all money basically goes to 10% off who's the winner and you going to blow it up to show us what what does it say one thing you know for sure it's not my relative wow Michael have just won $110,000 it should go to the right things for supporting MD okay well that you you won one something what happened I remember it was this the fancy that one no remind me seriously oh the shabbaton you won the shabbaton and you gave it to your daughter okay I I said it for a reason I I forgot where it was exactly okay we're holding the last words on no you're wondering I don't like to talk about it a lot but was on Zoom every single day for years the first one throughout Corona the the most spoken beloved by everybody and very young and suddenly snatched like this and it just taught us a lesson that you're not here forever and nobody knows no there's no guarantee for anything he's a pharmacist he knew about medicine and nothing doesn't help you got the the M Gary and I went to visit him he looked like he was okay just a month later whatever he was 42 years old unbelievable we seriously we all have to take mus from it nobody knows when when when the time is up a guy takes a bag of money let say he says okay sell me that thing for this does anybody have any idea any clue how much is in here nobody what do he say I have no idea can you keep I have no idea what it is so is that a bad idea why not yes okay so he says do me a favor sell me this for this it works so now you look you see woman how does the orange cost orange is I don't know let's call this a dollar you count the money here it's $10 so no means anything above a six the if it's exactly a six more you have to return the difference if it's more than a six then there's no more there's no more sale it's bottle so over here we're we're dancing on two kasas we're usingin to to make the Kenyon but we're also saying that ohim I recognize you from from before Corona no yes come get over here shim get over here shalim wow I don't think we ever met in person we did once only twice okay good that's why you look so familiar is this your first time in a rooll first time in this year first time in this year okay that's what I meant yeah yeah physically here all right beautiful thanks for coming wow okay remember who was that guy what was the guy Simon who's that guy that made a see him in Flatbush um no I know you but there's no that was your SC that he made first time in how many years that was your first time with us at how old were you then 5 you're 53 years old when you made your first see was unbelievable no but there's another guy that made a in his backyard like a like a he's on Zoom every single day okay whatever I keep on forgetting his name huh no no no before year times yeah we got to learn so there is you have to return the difference in the in the six even though there's no which you're supposed to do for since he didn't care how much money was in the bag similar to and we still apply the of it says in the comes from this meaning don't charge more than a six more than the the market price the what that's who feeling stuff so so we know a car is x amount of money it cost $6,000 you charge $7,000 or whatever it is you were over return what about things that don't have a set price that's another a sh exactly if he says sell me with this bag it works as so if I trade a pen for your house or whatever is it works so there's no a house is something else it's car but let's say I trade I do I'm C the car with and through a pen so it works so also a bag of money it would work the same way says if you don't care how much is in the bag it didn't count then it works like but what if the guy starts asking questions how much is that computer worth this item you're using is Cle I want to know what what it's what it what its value is so then do we say listen but you're doing in there it doesn't matter how much it's worth or once you open your mouth and you start asking questions now it's like a regular it's a regular sale have a guy in the marketplace holding on to a cow exactly what's the reason you're here in the marketplace with the cow he says I need a donkey I want to do some sort of trade he says I have a donkey it's somewhere not you don't really see it here how much is your cow worth oh so now he open his mouth and he start asking questions how much is it worth he didn't want to do a trade AIP he starts asking questions now the question is it is that does that make it once he starts asking how much something is worth this how much it's worth how much is a donkey worth you're donkey okay so the guy that donkey he did on the cow this is what happened he didn't do and then all of a sudden po the the donkey goes F so what should the be just like when a lifts up the pen the Kal automatically this K the stuff that he promises her she didn't do a kinon he goes like this so maybe over here he lifted set up the cow and that's it so the guy got the donkey whatever it works he got the cow he got the donkey and the donkey dies so the donkey died in his in his possession says no it's two x's it didn't work why there's no this was a this was a sail not AIP if was all I need is one guy to lift that's not what happened there this is a case where they're inquiring what the value of the cow what the value of the donkey is therefore it's more what are we talking about a bunch of idiots now look how Yoshi did a bunch of idiots here whack jobs when you do every time you doip what they don't ask how much is it word you do the do say how much is this pen word what so he he's he's a he just he he conveys his stuff to the without knowing that's how they do it maybe people are maybe they're not by the way the word means I am a lot of people are M on each other yeah most people have somebody that they're that that they're M they're they talking about so somebody came to and said to reel I I I feel like you're mockit on me so says that word is not in my vocabulary I don't even know what that means I don't have that in my my thing and everybody else so he says like this what happened was of course if you took you did Kip with one cow you pulled the cow then you kind of the guy's kind of the without even pulling it what happened was it was an incomplete because he wanted to do and it's very interesting because today it's very different today it's the opposite this guy had a cow and a sheep and he wanted to trade it forar today a cow cost over $2,000 I think back in the day when I was a little bit in the business it was over $2,000 I know here in C is like 10,000 she maybe close to $3,000 a donkey cost 100 bucks $150 there's nothing you can do with a donkey really today back in the day they used to use a donkey as a car as a sleer as a this okay everybody needed one today what are you going to do with it the meat's no good a sheep today was like 1,500 shek I think we paid right you guys also bought one than even more than that so, 1500 2,000 shek much more one sheap is much more than than a donkey the time of the was different a cow and a sheep for a donkey so if he only did on a cow if he did M on a cow then it doesn't then it doesn't work why because he had to do M on a cow and a sheep he only did on half the items that's why it doesn't work but of course the says of course Works without knowing the value you don't need to know the value it's not a good I saw a story I just want to stick it in here somehow with the the was he told us the Kila is a r crack crack Cal what c not it was it is it yeah I don't know it was it it was CRA okay I wasn't sure okay CRA out the Riva of CRA out he said I want to leave I want to leave so he said they said okay whatever then like a few days later he said I want to called everybody in he says I'm not leaving why he said this if it was like I wouldn't say it really but he this is a story about he said because there was a wealthy person that went in the marketplace and he saw selling bread and he said listen this is not there not for you such should sell bread let's make a deal I'll support you you'll learn you don't have to sell bread in public so I said okay he goes back there like a month later and he sees selling bread so he says what's this we made a deal he says I can't can't I have to sell the bread I don't I don't feel comfortable taking money from you so he SS into the entire and he says we made a deal he broke his deal I want says no so he said because when he when said when I sold bread I had to bake the bread and had to mix and had to do and the whole time was nervous that when I cut the wheat it's going to go it's going to wrap and then I had to make sure that the flower came out good and then I had to make sure that I make the right dough it's the right amount and then it's in the oven I'm not going to burn it I constantly was diving to hasem to help help help help now I feel like I lost my connection to the I don't need him anymore so said oh if so if a city has such that heing me that he wants to support the T and he's saying that I lost my con such a city I'm going to leave and he remained the r over there I just thought about because sometimes you think that the guy's he has it all good the guy's giving him money no sometimes this is a deeper story than what you think don't be mck maybe also we said that he says how much is in the bag I don't care whatever's in the bag sell me this pen for the bag and there you have to check how much money there is and if it's more than a six give it back perhaps how did he do how was the king the king was cuz he took the bag he took the bag and then the pen became his so that's through money and we had a whole Su yesterday we said at the end everybody holds you can't use money as in fact this was a money exchange so you how is the Kyon done with money ah but money doesn't work no he money does work why say don't use money for only say that if money acquires the produce and you didn't take the produce from the seller and then there's a fire he's not going to work hard to to save your produce so he said you know what you have to do M if you didn't do M it's the sellers and it's his problem so when it comes to fire I didn't say this in a long time but it's a famous Marsh fromant he says the the Riva he has a son that he doesn't get along with he barely speaks to them and he has his top talid the most beloved talid ever puts in all and the tal and everything and then there's a fire big fire the is going down in flames who who doesa save the son he almost hates or the tal he loves so much obviously he's going to save his own son because at the end of the day deep deep down he loves his son much more than he loves his favorite talet and the N is I have no idea loves us deep down he's our father what's the name something like that okay and the da you have to do the da on P says oh so why does it work here he tried he used money look he went like this he gave him a bag of money and he's kind of the item why does it work because money works with but it doesn't work with the so why does it work over here because this is a very strange sit situation hardly ever happens that somebody says whatever's in the bag I'll take said only use in a regular situation and this is a funny case and therefore money does work in this situation you learned like this and you weren't sure does he hold we said the name straight out there is no with money and therefore we are forced to say this whole that we just said that over here works as money because it's not that oh maybe he holds and therefore he says straight out I hold so therefore I'm forced to say just said so yesterday we had a volunteer and today we're not going to have a volunteer I have this pal thing here this is this is to to cover AA I want to ask if you could wear this just for a few minutes you able to wear this no I just won a million dollars I said yesterday they said you're going to wear it I said if he wears it a million dollar and mendi also I do the best okay anyways we have team players yeah put it on I was okay could you be the M could you hold it like this at least yeah okay and you hold it like this so at the is conveying stuff to the so who's the who's the who's the buyer who's the seller huh say anybody who's the what's the kala she's a k she's buying she's acquiring stuff from he's no no no but that's something else that's in the K okay yeah yeah so there's a buyer and a seller there's a guy and there's Aid the Rob okay the r you are the guy that has and you're the r okay but I'm saying the guy okay confusing it he's for the for the for the okay fine who has the that's you go to the r and the r gives you right is that how it works here the r gives you a pen and you go like this whose pen do you use with the guy okay so whose pen we using are we using the RS who is the K or we using the the guy that's selling his to the r the the seller or the buyer who has to provide the pen the so at a wedding for instance there's no that a third party could step in and you could use the third party's pen so that's why the provides his pen doesn't ask the because everybody get confused is the is the what do you do third part so now we have here okay again this is where theas are not good for me over here my says and in Yesa how do you say it love love said this is mish like when my father started singing and I'm like no waya I'm not doing that it's I don't care if it's m or not m we don't change the song this is how it is it's love and it's and it's Raimi and I don't care what the article says from now on SC no that's something else that has let's just go with I don't care yeah it's more because it's only one it's one C it's the one purchasing it's the Rob who has to provide the pen and that's how we pass that's why you all said the r gives the pen very good because he wants the wants the he wants to provide the pen therefore he acquires the he loves it he wants [Music] the says it's the sorry it's the I'll explain it later says look if he use this pen real estate so it comes out that first you you get the pen and then you get the real estate okay then it happens to be that the real estate real estate with with with a pen why M doesn't work on K you ever try to pull a building doesn't work so M doesn't work it works on a pen but how could you be and then be afterwards we learned opposite we all saw yesterday the first you acquire the real estate and because of the real estate if was here he would throw a bunch of fire at you here's the picture round Fireballs at you basically it means put you you think it works because of I give you a pen and that's how you kind of real estate that's how works with because you person like the brisky never accepted a present in his life only important we able to give him I think one of the so and then the guy gives him all the way towards the end of he looks out the window he says kind of accept so imagine you come to you try to give him a gift and he takes it from you that's tremendous covet wow what a covet so that I know they took it from you like we that a woman will if she gives a gift to this guy and he accepts it from her so she's masing to be that's how it worked over with the not with the p the reason why you don't know these is because you're fast asleep we know the first R and the last R and everything else is a big dream this tells us about the Kyon ofip you take off your shoe I got to say this even though I have no time tells his b or would tell his b the say listen marriage is like buying a pair of shoes why says he tells people like a muscle he tell people going to listen I'm this and this size bringing back a pair of shoes they bring back a pair of shoes he puts it on it's like M it hurts so he can't get mad at the B that brought back you told him the the size he says oh say this at the this is your shoe this is your size it hurts yes yes it's tight yes but that's what marriage is it doesn't it doesn't have to fit perfectly in the beginning it's a little but you got you got to wait you got to after time it stretches and feels good in the beginning it's not so easy some motivation Mish yeah it's mamish a shame I'm leaving in a few hours wow it could have been Mish and does anybody remember one one piece of advice anybody ever gave them okay means what does mean pay attention over here if you're just looking the article for a second maybe you're G to skip this means a sale what does s mean sale means what we're talking about we're talking about this a sud there not a so the t is telling you if you don't have money you give a pen and you acquire it that's when you have an animal that's merer you cannot be go what does go mean you can't sell it the word everybody in this room knows what is That's So what's the difference between we said oh so means barter I give you a a donkey you give me a cow that's slightly different whereas over here one guy is getting one thing and the the the is if you want to see what here two words that we're talking about the extra words here he wants to acquire the groceries so he gives him AO and that's how he acquires it now here is T real quickly so guy brings a carbon he says this is designated as a carbon this is uh back in the day we're getting we're still a little green so that one becomes oops I can't go through the whole thing again fine we're not going to go through the whole thing maybe y will do it basically he has one okay we'll do it I'll be Miss gab [Music] myself is the [Music] C is there okay kid he takes another animal that's better and bigger and he says that the second animal should be instead of the first one that's that's the word this instead of that you shouldn't exchange it so in the whole the famous story of R and so wasn't the most related to her in terms of in terms of and she wanted Rose and and they wanted to sell the field and I'm not very good at the story because you know was night but Bo the the go he didn't want to marry Rose he felt that he she was not allowed to marry because he didn't do the whole he didn't want to deal with it so Bo said you know what let me take over the field that you're supposed to inherit you're supposed to take over they wanted to sell the field I'll redeem the field but he's in he's in the the the go was in front of him so B said says let's do ainon so what happened says in the or who it seems like the was the simp this about the he removed the shoe gave it to and like that acquired the field listen it's not you could still say sorry the opposite I think the the was that the does but the way the bottom line is it's not 100% in the doesn't say exactly who did it so it could be the could be the this pen nobody cares if it's a not a you could use it fruit you can't use PS you could use fruit that's what we had yesterday why can't use fruit in other words has to be CLE but something similar to not fruit why could you use fruit everything what does he do everything is acquired through a sorry to be something like a shoe that's whole complete I've called over not a half a CLE a half of fruit we said and I even have a video of it from last night but I'm not going to show it it says in the in theba we're going to use this CLE that's kosher to do what is it has to be CLE not fruit theer what does it meaner you could use and this we don't hold like you use a clean made out of cow Dong Dong D whatever dong the whatever here I have a picture of it here's a guy eating Cheerios from cow D zevel things it's not very G and if you don't appreciate that that's my humor not Yoshi I got a preface I saw that he wasn't so into it this more like bathroom humor they used to make out of the stuff you can't use this for by the way if you skipped the email section today we did a raffle somebody won $10,000 go look it up says rash means to to acquire I thought thought it meant when I just read I thought it meant to acquire to somebody else you're the one acquiring it to be and not to transfer you're not the one transfering B the word b means to exclude a coin you can't use coins for comes to say let's say you have a bow that somebody did with you cannot use that bow or a pen for in honor my un offal motivators in honor of sponsoring for the daily learning by the brothers grandfather original is says to exclude a coin that if you on a CLE can't use the thing the cow stuff you don't need a POS for that you can't use it as you remember we had in the mishna what do we say it was anybody remember what aim was slug a blank whatever if you that generation this was this is what you used to make phone calls when he found out that B were tying a thread to the and they would lower it into the phone and the way it worked every like if you called a far away place every 10 seconds it would drop you had to put like 100 on it so they would just hold it up with the with the thread and they would make a phone call so he made a whole Dr he said listen this is stealing stealing from whoever owns the phone the is I don't know who stealing but he said I did learn a mus school when I found out that such a thing that no matter how low you fall as long as you're holding on by a string and that's the T we could always pull you out of there says okay so even there certain that you go let's say or whatever there's certain places that you you want to go on chabas you bring some sort of card you bring some sort of piece of metal it doesn't it it just shows that somebody just entered and the guy knows how many towels to prepare Etc but how does that fit in because we said you can't use you can't put it and put put the of the fruit into okay you just said it's for the then it says a second later two different things maybe you'll say it's an explanation of what you can't do Aon is the the the the coin wherever use in the in the bath house but I'll prove you from another place that says it in two completely different sentences but they agree there is no on that thing that used for the bath house but there is you see and the coin for two different things it's the slug it's a coin that doesn't have any depiction on it what is according to both of them we just said it's this blank should bring hold it in your hand he learns what's the word he learns that it means that you should hold it in your hand but not like holds that this money is something that you bring up to it has a depiction so doesn't hold it has has a depiction it it's a it's a coin without a depiction if you lift up the pre you go like this and you don't give the that's it you in fact the T tells us that money does acquire where's the Torah say it anybody remember from yesterday where does it say in the Torah that money acquires by when the sells something you give money and it's yours said said don't use money say that your wheat was burnt in the Attic says the G I had a beautiful mus from I'm gonna have to skip it what's the what's the big deal why he's going to save your weed because it's his but at the end of day whoever set the fire should pay for it no happen by itself and you don't there's nobody to pay for it if you say if you put it into you say listen it's the buyer but I'm going to make it the seller so that he takes care of it he's going to take care of it he's not gonna take care of it it's not true it says not [Music] money it says from the hand that's M to pull it from the guy's hand so you see over there we're talking about and it says the word is not something you you give someone you can't give somebody K so M coming to teach us that if you overcharge in real estate you're it's okay there's no you don't get back the you don't have to pay the difference why does it say the words teaches so what is do with these extra words a perfect thing does work both ways could the seller if he makes a mistake and he sells it for less than he's supposed to could he take back the the king what if he sells it and he lost a six he could take it back from this actual words you learn and the fact that it's close to the words also teaches another Whoever has the money he could take a back meaning since the seller has the money he's the only one that could retract not the buyer if you're telling me that there was a here and we're saying that the the sell took away and said he has the right to take it back why because he's going to make sure to save from the fire and he has a reason to why because if it goes up in in value he's going to want to undo it he could gain here a manitary gain because if it goes up in value he'll say okay done I'm retracting okay we could understand why only one out of the two could take it back you're telling me like that there's no k at all that happened here why cuz money doesn't acquire anything why can't the buyer take it back of 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