Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 41 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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is one thing from the whole there's a few interesting things I learned from this campaign one of them is that a certain of a guy from this room didn't take a page and I yell at him bar him yesterday that's a different but he talks a lot usually whatever but one of the most interesting things I'm giving $180 I'll take it these $18 you made in this campaign really over 3,000 5,000 behind this guy okay I'm not wow you're around the world what do you mean you don't live in any particular place I live next to you everyone gives it to you listen to this I have no idea what I wanted to say want you make it didn't take a page oh very interesting thing is that people loved sponsoring $1,000 for the Coffee corner 12 a bunch of weeks whatever it was not a single person sponsored the art of the day not a single person isn't that so helpful the art isn't that I don't I was I was shocked as much the coffee was $1,000 the art of there was like $180 or something not nobody took it interesting I don't think Yoshi was insulted at all I mean you mentioned it four or five times to me hey to read it anyway read what oh art of the day it's a double it's they did two sponsorships interesting must be a typo but we'll read it anyways art of the day here's finally art of the day by the kler family Ma and happy 80th birthday to ysf Kesler on the wedding of his granddaughter what a beautiful thing a birthday and a wedding shim ma to the parents and Sh Kesler may we only see simp from your children grandchildren and great grandchildren am Bo I have a question maybe one or two people are going to know the answer to this just for this it's worth it and if you heard this yesterday Benny or anybody else scream it up somebody who borrows something we know is the worst of the worst for almost every single thing everything you borrow an animal the animal dies you have to pay the whole thing unless it's give me an example where you borrow something and it gets stolen you don't have to [Music] pay you had intention to steal it first it's but did you learn the da before he learned what are you saying no say it aloud say it a loud I said maybe one person will know that is that if the owner is working for you he's doing something for you he's giving you a cup of water and as he's giving you a cup of water you say hey can I borrow your car ruen has a a Tesla and he's also giving you a cup of water he's giving you a cup of water say hey can I borrow a Tesla and he gives you the keys of the Tesla as he's giving you the water you could borrow it and you don't have to pay if it get stolen lost zero at least we learned one today now can go to sleep huh says the mishna we're holding B on the bottom if a person here we go we have pictures person had his friend watch a barrel for him what happened you you happened oh that yeah okay that's a Yoshi stick I did not ask for that but I'll tell you the truth I didn't ask him to take it [Laughter] out there was not a specific place that he had to put the barrel you can put it anywhere you wants this would be you have to put it on this stage right over here that's no you could put it anywhere you can put it here you can put it there what does it mean I the guy didn't pay for a spot he said watch my Barrel put in the bathroom put in the dining room wherever you want and the guy moved it and by doing so it broke fell out of his hand if he moved it for his own need in other words what do we call that a ghav you're supposed to was the barrel you're not supposed to use the barrel for yourself you use it for yourself you're ghav so it broke you're if you moved the barrel because the sun was coming in from those look at those windows over there coming in hurting the wine you moved it you did it for the wine now you put it back down you're a ghav you place the back once you put it back you're no longer so here's the question if you steal something you steal a car you Joy Ride come around you come back from the neighborhood you put it right back in the guy's parking spot you Potter what's the my question is do you have to call the guy up and say hey I stole your car I put it back in the parking spot you could just put it back in there is what's that do I have to notify the owner you use car I stole his car I stole this thing I put it back I stole candy from the candy store a we and tear even if you get it back that you're going into detail okay I I stole candy when I was a kid I go to the store I put down $5 on the by the by the register and I walk away supposed to tell so the M over here says the M says that once you put it back down your Potter so what is the mission telling us that you don't have to notify him there's no there's no notification here he put it back down so we're obviously going according to this Manar his name is Rish who says you don't have to notify okay now now we continue if the owner said I want you to put the barrel on this qual table that's it you can't that's my Mo I'm paying you $10 a month to put it on the table he moved it from there and it broke even if he returned it if he moved it for the good of the barrel you Potter but if he moved it for his own good you're question we just said you don't have to notify anybody if you steal something you don't have to notify the owner so why does it say over here if he placed it back down and then it broke why he returned it he returned it obviously this part of the mishna goes according TOA who says that you must notify and since you didn't notify so we have a contradiction between the r and the safe of the Mish and unfortunately there's no good way to get out of it says who's our Mna going according to that if you steal something just put it back you don't have to call up the owner and tell him what you did R right I was thinking about Seltzer and the whole book the whole all those things that he returned he had he notified everybody because you have to notify that's the that's how we goes according to you don't have to to notify the owner and therefore if you return it you take you use the barrel you return it to a certain place po the here's a guy that steals a sheep from the flock of sheep he's a learner scared the rest of the guys there and a kiss steals money out of a wallet you you just return it to the place that he stole it take the Sheep put it back in the pen with the rest finished which means that we learned 40 da in or on 40 [Music] of you must notify the owner it's not enough as as it would seem like there's a greater say not only if you put it back if there's no if there's no place for this Barrel so you could dump it over here you can dump it over there there's no difference you returned it it should be a bigger that there's a specific spot that's that it's sort of like that's the barrel spot even in that case you don't have to notify the owner certainly if he has a certain spot and he returned it to that spot so what does the owner care you took it from there you put it back it's right on the spot everything's good even though you didn't make a certain spot okay from the r we go like you don't need to notify the owner regardless if he has a spot a special spot not a special spot even when there's no special spot you just put it back down you're done finished it's return but now we have to understand how does it go together with the because it's never good when you have a mishna that doesn't have any names in it it's an anonymous mishna the the beginning of the goes like end of the goes like big problem there's a very specific spot you have to put the barrel the til of and the guy moved the barrel and it broke whether it fell out of his hand and this is the important to us B regardless if it fell out of his hand or if he placed it back down he returned it here you're even though you returned it you returned the barrel it says if you moved it for your own good you wanted to use it for whatever reason but I returned it so what do you see returning is not enough you have to make that phone call sorry I have to I have to admit I I wronged you I touched your Barrel I moved it but guess what I put it back oh now now you're done but if you don't make that phone call if something happens to it you're that cannot go like that must go like must notify the owner as the the same question but in the reverse that we asked before tells the greater even though there's no specific spot to put the barrel and you just left it there you're still certainly in a in a situation where there's no specific spot and you just put it back down that's not considered of course that's not considered returning but even if there's a special coffee table that I'm supposed to put this Barrel on so I put it back on that spot I would think I don't have to notify the owner being in I must notify as the the famous question how's it possible say Miss is telling us conflicting views in we have no choice yes in fact if you're able to explain the mishna according to one I will carry his clothing all the way to the Mikvah as such in other words will be so impressed with whoever gives him the answer and explains him the mishna told me I thought it was a very nice story about Rabbi militz if you open up your art scroll the front says RAB militz and every single art scroll we checked out last night even the Hebrews he was a tremendous tremendous what Z MTZ he was the General editor of the sh of all ourr he but he's saying all General he know everything and he was a tremendous onov and he went with a short jacket down hat and he take the bus every day you could see him catching the bus here on and he would just sit there he carry his things so R asked him if he could carry his one he saw he had a lot of Spar could I carry backs he said no so he thought to himself that maybe he's saying it because he didn't want to be he didn't want like I'm not regular guy so said but could I maybe help you as a friend that's a little elderly and struggling he say oh yeah that you could and he gave him his he let him use it I'm not don't be M me so I'm going to be to bring your clothing to Bic so now the gor says like this by the way there's a big Mas I want to pause here for a second because I think it's a big was tremendous one of the most um emotional stories for me and I said the story many times I might have said it just a few days ago but I have a little bit of a Twist to the story makes it more emotional there's a big mazl in mdy today which I saved for now because a lot of people skip the emails so now if you don't skip the emails H I got you so ma to RAB Gordon his son is getting married is got engaged to the daughter of M Wilner from Chicago who's RAB Gordon Gordon's the guy that was on zoom four years ago and it said Chop on the bottom and people ask him for three months who's what's chop one day it come we see his face and there's a like a younger man looking guy he says he's from Lakewood he's in Children's Hospital Philadelphia what's going on his kid has brain cancer the whole mdy went to action people started they set him up with computers cuz he couldn't communicate with his family he stuck there during Co they got him a computer with internet and this at home one of the kids wanted a kayak a 12-year-old so they delivered a kayak to his house remember the lime 20 foot k whatever it was a green kayak anyway maybe that's the boy that just got engaged who knows kayak guy the kiter well he's like 12 make him 16 no make a long story short can't make it short the they sent him gifts this the whole thing and one day we got the terrible news that his son was I announced it here I couldn't control cry people went to and one of the big stories I just mentioned SCH kin yesterday SCH kin drove from Heights two hours he thought he's going to go in and out he says you don't know me Isel says I do know you your name is SCH Klein I know you're from zoom and we realize that Zoom is more than you know it's not just oh watching here it's more of said wrote me an email afterwards that it gave him a tremendous that came and that he knew everything about him and to out a short while later we had a seeum in the five towns on and during the RAB showed up and he comes over to me and he gives me this says I want to give this to you what is this says somebody from mdy sent him this and this is the pillowcase that his son slept on and learned hundreds of hours of gar with him and he was Lifter on this pillow and I'm balling he says and I want you to use this by your s it was it was very very powerful and I did There's even a piece of mat over here you could see anyway I just thought I'd bring this here today because the engagement it's almost PES and this means a lot to me all right what I definitely will okay so the try to make sense of the mishna said he struggled perhaps we could say it goes according to go according to says that you don't have to notify after you steal you don't have to notify the owner he said in front of his the basic saying the same thing but slightly different one says that he took it basically this is what Dr Factor almost said before on a different thing like he took it un he wanted to steal it he was thinking about stealing it and over here saying another says he didn't want to steal it he wanted to be now we're going to learn a new mus today something called maybe we did mention I'm sure we did but let's talk about it for a second is to steal something that's in your possession you're watching it what's the difference between stealing and stealing if you decide to drink one cup out of that Barrel you're thirsty you have a guest you want to entertain him one cup so you want to steal one cup so you're responsible for one cup worth of wine is different since you're watching this barrel and you decide to steal one cup you become responsible on the entire Barrel you sat next to each other play you're very nice to me you didn't bother me I thought there going to be smoing this that nothing garnish let me let me alone recognize you he was happy you left him alone I I would think that but he sent me a picture of me on the plane make you feel was there any learning going on on the plane no don't tell that I Wasing the whole time what's the difference to be to to be included in this here let's just see this for a second so it says this we're going to talk about one right now we'll talk about the other soon second says you moved it what happens if you did use it so the says look at theend of you're swearing that you didn't do but the bottom line is you're even for if you did even for a mistake so what's the difference do you need to drink some of the wine or perhaps is just moving it yeah do I have to use some of it or not it's just a technical thing it's the same idea he has to actually drink from it he didn't we're not at the the yet we're just getting there we're trying to build this up a little bit so the bottom line is the guy wanted to steal it the guy wanted to do slightly different within the same idea the guy want use it how much is he does he have to use it not use it that's we'll see a little bit more of it later before even we get to theat we have to deal with this question not does say anywh that he he took he didn't he didn't take anything he didn't take any wine it says he moved the wine he moved the barrel you're right he didn't take wine what did he do he he used it as a ladder here we have a picture he has a bunch of birds on the top shelf so he used the barrel as a ladder what is that called another if you use something without any permission you are a GH of you used a guy's Barrel yes you didn't you didn't you didn't ruin it nothing you but you're not what call him a g not what he did it he did it yeah that's he's asking it's like he's scared of people that's scared of people okay technical I just thought it was very interesting because my wife showed me something she say you're not going to believe what's going on in America like K like this is like the worst so a woman you know in America you have the the the Tesla Chargers or whatever the the elect charge in front of your house you so a woman goes and she pulls up to somebody Rand some random house and she plugs in so the guy comes out with his phone and he says excuse me and she says what do you think you're doing taking a video of me says EXC you're on my property she says I don't care it's just going to be 20 minutes get out of my face she starts like he's the like he's a Russia for taking a video of her I'm going to call the cops on you she starts threatening him and this is real this is like these uh whatever they called what are they called the kons the no the the they deserve it they um entitled entitled what do you mean I'm just I'm just using some of your electric like there's no mus you know what I'm saying they you have to know the you have to be aware that just to take somebody's barrel and you think to yourself what is the big deal why am I allowed to take my friend's ladder he's my neighbor we like each other I'm going to take it from here to here climb up a few steps no that's different than taking electric electric you have to be you're literally taking it's not as expensive as fuel but it's expensive but over here we're talking about taking a barrel from somebody else and it's in my house I'm doing you a favor I'm watching it you hear what's going on here I'm watching your Barrel so what's the big deal I took it and I moved it over here I need to climb on ghav gin we got to get into our head says the and this is going to go according to the whole is what does say I steal something don't have to notify anybody so then the question is if the thing in the the answer is because the sa says that the barrel belongs on the coffee table and it didn't return return it to the coffee table had he returned it to the coffee table even though he used it as a ladder it would be fine why cuz I don't have to notify the problem is he did not return to the coffee table is gonna hold in that case if the barrel explodes you're that's the he doesn't like this says if you could explain to me the mishna I will carry you close to the to the Mikvah to the B it's not the B you clock in clock out you know one of these places you sit there for hours so says no it seems like from the mishna he did return it to the coffee table it says means that it went back to the place okay so that's why he doesn't like this doesn't fit in well to the he's not taking anybody's close to the I even a thing but I'm not going to say but I I didn't like it so much could be it's true could be not true if you believe in it great but there was like a Reb who said a good in this thing he was all excited that finally would have to bring his clothes and then he walked outside he saw old man he said I'm that's not the again between two fine little bit of a time do in order to be over on this idea called when you're a and you use something what if you use it as a ladder are over on you didn't you didn't take away from the barrel anything zero is that considered maybe I can prove to you that it's R says that you don't have to make it uh go down in value and if I know that R said that then what Le is going to say the opposite you have a Shepherd he decided he left all the animals by themselves and he ran to the bathroom in the city whatever he did he's allowed to says rash the certain hours of the day you're allowed to do that and a wolf came and killed an animal R just goes in to say a Ze is different than a lion it carries its prey back to the Den I love this cartoon I'll show it to you this is was by he says is like get no how do you say it in English um scr scr big lion and you see that he's drooling already this [Laughter] lion huh why oh that oh do you want to see this picture I took of a leopard okay says Potter he's Potter he had a right to leave you take a little break in the middle of the day you don't have to stay out there all day Potter however check this out you put your napsack or and your staff on top of the sheep and we ask why why he you took it off if the stick is still on top of the animal now you're what happened you didn't do a in order for you to be over whatever you have to you have to pull it there's other ways to do it he did one of these he tapped it with a stick but you causing the animal to move forward that's your Kion the ritv says over here somebody asked me last night I looked it says you have to have intent to be Co okay so you had intent to be Co over here I just want to insert this joke I didn't say it in a while got to say it this guy wanted to impress his his new his newly his K he just got married the other day he say I want to show you my horse my wagon the whole thing so they get on the the horse and wagon and two minutes in the horse stops guy gets very frustrated says go that's one you didn't go go that's two no no garnish three times he pulls out his gun shoots so the cow start screaming what are you doing what are you doing he said that's one and then they say that I'm a male shist I wonder why okay okay you know what sorry the kala was driving the wagon and she told the horse that's a much better all right fine what you guys didn't hear this joke in the last two months okay last time you said it you were interrupted by someone no yeah time is better oh just change it around all the jokes are going to be female to the male okay fine by the W lines but nothing happened you put a bag on top of the animal nothing happened so what do you see from here you had no right to put your bag and your stick on top of the animal that's called even though there was no you didn't the value of the the Sheep was $100 before you put it on now it's $100 know you don't need to take away from the value check out this beautiful picture he gave it a good whack and when you give a good whack it actually lowers the value of the animal not you took down from the value why in the world would would would we use such a strong language of like and a stick whatever no to tell you that it was it was damaging to the animal and in a very far this is also big in uh in life a lot of people didn't know this and I'm I'm assuming today also there's something called I actually went as a child to I'm not going to go into that story to with this question Dam means if you see on a chicken like a black and blue like a red dot a red lump you're not allowed to eat it it's they why because you can't kosher with salt you see the salt didn't wasn't able to take out the blood if you do see sometimes you see something like that it's called something that the the animal got a A Bang a Big Bang from like something whatever when it's alive then you're not supposed to eat it Ser down I said just alive I don't know if that's what black and bl black and bl so you're not going to eat that area you got to cut that out Ser anyway from the fact that said says that you have to use it and drink the wine you did it with a stick so Le says that you don't need to um lower the value so I just want to point out there's a rash here Rashi says that there's two things there's something called and there's something called okay both of them you if you move this Barrel you move this animal you could be over so what's the r here says rash that for one way or another maybe we're talking about that he's just there's another way to be what's the proof if somebody's what's the prove that maybe has to do says four lines from the bottom he says anything alive that becomes worth less because you use it automatically becomes there is no in that case it's it would be an immediate problem [Music] of says the now we have to understand what's the logic in Ley what why does Ley say that in order to be could be over on even without minimizing without taking away from the animal says in the name of his why are there check this out those six words are repeated identically by why have to mention it twice says the because in fact you don't and because it says by one I have a completely extra POS that what one is not similar to the other is completely not necessary I argue on my reash says rebi I say they're both necessary why why don't I need this very the simplest in the world just say the IDE what's more we just think about it what who pays more often than the other guy a paid guard always pays for he's more more severe so say it once say by say has to pay certainly a guy that has to pay for never pays for stolen items but does pay for something stolen so of course he has to pay for like and it goes as follows if you're watching it for free and somebody comes in the middle of the night and steals the Sheep you don't have to pay however if you decide to use it and use the barrel you so the just said in that case who is was stolen middle night or got lost so certainly if he decided on his own to use the barrel of wine say twice doesn't need to diminish the product Oh My Gosh okay four minutes official mitah motivators in honor of Dr Robert Leman for sponsoring garas for of Baltimore Gman Brothers for the Y of grandfathers this is a brand new one the Gman brothers were very very generous over the years and very big part of this year for of our grandfather an original real no sh sh I don't know maybe we have to fix that word I think it's okay says the no I need both I argue my re so if I ask you who's re remember the first says both of these again let's look at these Pim again there's one says I need both of them says I need both what does that mean I could say a very simple thing you guys remember from if I'm watching it for free and I lie I like your Lamborghini I'm watching your say oh I got stolen and I swear that it was stolen that's a case where has to pay kful is there ever a case said that pays never why cuz what's going to say it got stolen poof you have to pay on the spot he can never get out OFA he can never come to a situation where he has to pay C check out this beautiful picture it's very accurate in a way here you have a guy from budha Park he says the the cow I it got stolen and here's the cow peeking out of the door that's GH so of but he's saying great you're telling me is more than always say no I have a situation has to pay doesn't have to pay so it's not a good the opposite more the person who doesn't say that once in a while you have a situation where but every case in the world is more it's a birden in the hand right now you have to pay on every situation where it's stolen pays or I'm sorry pays for the object doesn't so is more yes there is a funny case where guy says that says it was stolen it wasn't stolen and he swears that's a case where he has to pay careful no it's one out of 100 compared to the regular stolen animal from says you know what these two let's go back the two and not necess not necessary why says I could learn them both from M what's the worst worst Sher in the world the worst sh in the world is a he he has to pay for everything so if I see that a sh has to pay for let's see in a second that's is able to use the car with permission from the owner and all the is his he could do everything with it he's the guy he's the like so to speak the owner now and yet as soon as it becomes his he's on everything he's it's not really it's not really asks it's not but okay nevertheless you see that so certainly who doesn't ever to use it doesn't ever to use it certainly if he uses it they should be just like why need one person comes to say that I don't like Ley I don't need to to to make it worth less very very simple don't get confused there I'm serious these are from the simplest things when you do the thing that you learning cannot be stronger than you think you learned it from right it's logic I'm learning a from B so I can't say oh and now a should be double as powerful as B it's just if you're learning a from B so it's whatever B has okay we're not going to say that now here comes this that we mentioned all the way in the beginning of this [Music] year I would think that so it goes like this there's a called and it's actually a that [Music] says if you're you're about to to lend your friend a car do yourself a favor and don't fall for the Trap when he says as he's borrowing the car can I have a cup of water because if you do that and he bashes up your car he doesn't have to pay anything why it says if he's working for you and then you borrow something from him you poter you don't have to pay why I don't know that's what hasm said so I think that that also applies to that's why I need the second tell me it does not apply that's a special so again why I need tells me that doesn't need you don't have to drink the wine to be over what about says that you do need we said according to R he do need to drink the wine so what is he going to do with that extra what do I do with the second one so first just said the owner goes to the the the judges so typically you go to judge what do he go to judge for for no this the swear if you look at theim the very you don't have to look at theim but the POS so would be it says so just like I'm sorry he makes himself he he could say there was a mistake how does he become po if he swears how does he when he says ghav it got stolen either or to actually get out of he must swear how I know this from the sex great day I'll see you tomorrow early at