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[Music] good morning welcome welcome to all the guests we're back with Mike chessel from the Everglades we're back with r Selzer from ra ches ah if you remember years ago I've been here for a few days thank you but if you remember there's a guy that used to send me like really Stucky kind of emails Bernie the burn he's awesome he's back I I saw today I just noticed today I saw that somebody got a dollar from berning the burn from burning from modan so I'm like gave a dollar that's interesting then I look it said that he he gave another to each and every one each team got a dollar from him so check the Sarah boys out here it is Bernie the burn uh-oh are my buttons not working here we go Bernie the burn $1,000 calic he's he's back I think it's him Bernie from modan been with us for like four or five four years five years I just going to read some of the Aras from the last few days I have to go through all them I will B go through every single one and over time show the good ones thank 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evenings when I really look forward to listening to you thank you r i here's Mike chessel in a video if you want to know who he's sitting right here next to me here he is this uh this is y and's son who just became a cin three good morning hey I'm here with Ellie Ben Zev from Chicago we came for a sper in Big cyer Swamp hey is that a piano what's that K kuub that's right another show May trying to buy time listen we don't just learn the do we live the [Music] do remember there's a piano in this what piano picture of that I do yeah oh oh Crown Heights got it boy have very sad news um he came here to the sheim Ley grer he was in a wheelchair wheelchair bound his dream was to come to our and he finally made it once he came with B there was a team so bar I'll show you some pictures you'll know who I'm talking about here he is he was just n and uh uh is the sh and and it's very sad for many many people all the B who took care of him a lot there teams that went with him he had a van and he came to shim he was there in chabas also he was there by the shabbaton here is another yeah here he is at the for bakama m just recently it's very sad and his family should uh should not know from any more Steve Israeli hey rebelli awesome to see you last week in B Park very inspirational appreciate all that you do for us and for the CL for cl definitely has changed my life and my family's life for the better wanted to share the pics of someone learning in lands land is the famous menufactory in Flatbush while I was ding just truly isi green motorcycle guy since not so accept and understand that I will not be part of the S Cruise not true you still you can still make it in somehow if there's extra spot or something we'll go back to those guys from sh no don't give up don't give up maybe there'll be a raffle that's right will raffle off one room here's a guy in lands doing the da Robert you are going to be entered into the raffle because I saw you gave a 100 bucks Anonymous for the safe no that was today anous the sa and speed return all the hostages come from supporting bu in all my Endeavors huge part of MD Ramy the youngest partisan oh yeah he's not a you got it that's the name of the book okay I hear and the Art of the month andon for easy child birth for his daughter and a healthy baby we today are learning oh yesterday in cheer I told how the wheat that I was showing the other day had Hol in it and I thought okay it's strange that each Colonel had a hole when I came back for my trip now my wife said you know that you left weed over here and there was hundreds of bugs that came out and spering in my house so she threw it out I said you know I really love the weed so today I got this this was the quickest present ever I said I said I told I said don't send me wheat from America direct from shim's Fields Buck free wheat picked by our grandchildren as for harvesting weed thank you for making learning gar free of and deeply rewarding with tremendous appreciation re berer no here he is in the back huh you come every single day how far away do you come 20 minutes beautiful 20 minute drive no fire unbelievable thank you we'll have to use this this is like this is like the real thing it's like in it's not even straight it's like it's like real wheat it's unbelievable I don't know where I got to got to find something oh very with a lot of care with a lot of care okay it's definitely Yash they said it's [Music] Yash three lines down T the sh Raba if you remember we had three categories we had sh we had Nan and we had ran Shi is someone who was captured went away and we heard a rumor that he's dead Nan is similar just we didn't hear any rumors we don't know what his status is r a guy disappears he disappears and he should have left instructions before disappeared and emptied it empti out his bank account and he did it so he's a guy we don't really deal with we don't deal with his properties all of them what's all of them we're going to see it's only one of these three so we have to know what all means all usually means more than one we pay whoever takes care of one of these three properties one of them we have to figure out which one we're going to pay him like a sheer crapper he's going to get let's say a third that's typical says what are you talking about if it's the first category what if as they announce oh the big release the Red Cross is going to bring your father home after all six months today six months right it's exactly six months from October 7th today is the big day the father's coming home what does this Fair do he runs to the field and starts eating fruits real quick start hopping off the tree why because now it's free as soon as his father comes he can't do it Z if he runs ahead V so he can eat all the fruit every single last one so certainly he's going to get a third if you can take 100% so you can get a third okay so we're talking about Rim what's RIM the worst category that what a guy disappears unfortunately it happens leader told me a story I said this over yesterday say it again story from London a guy disappeared they found him he got a call once oh we found him 12 years later the story is everywhere people decide they had enough they pick themselves up and leave for whatever reason they have a breakdown midlife crisis they're gone says the don't tell me gets like a share crab he gets a third when is we grab whoever goes into his property we we we kick him out and the reason is why because if he had time to leave he wasn't forced to leave he should have made arrangements he didn't make arrangements that's his problem he obviously doesn't want you in there okay so we broke it down it's not the first it's not the third it's the middle somebody's captured we have no clue we don't know what his status is unfortunately we know we know what's going we know about it today like there's people in Gaza we don't know what the some we know they're dead some we don't know we don't know even today there's rumors about certain people in Gaza that are dead yes or no rumors there's no testimony we don't know that's what a k is certain people they say 33 out of the 133 left are are dead that's what they say bodies right hold on hold on a second so who does this go according to according to they say say if you're you're the middle category you went away you don't know we got you can't go in there says is the same exact thing you put a relative you put somebody in there to take care of it and so we already said it can't be Shi a shi gets he could eat the entire amount a sh if a a relative goes into a captured person's property his own relative his father is captured he could go and eat all the fruit if he wants certainly gets a third so ifim is the same exact so we put a relative in there he could eat the entire amount certainly he'll get a third so what's the here says tell the is yes the middle category of is like but not exactly if a son goes into the property we don't chase him out however what's this compensation it doesn't get compensated like a like a father or a relative that we know is dead that we heard is dead if he goes and grabs food he gets to keep it but over here if you go in there relative goes in there's a limit he gets a third he can't eat all of the fruit ask if somebody spends money on so the famous will do it again a woman comes into the marriage let's say with a nursing home I use the nursing home because I know a few they're now married women who came into the marriage with nursing homes and that's called it's on their name but the husband unless that's could be they did a deal I don't know I just know that they had a each one of these kids the father gave them a nursing home before they got married right some sometimes people put different properties on different people's names so they don't have this liability whatever it is whatever the reason is kid has a nursing home gets married the husband here take a look it's married to this guy the husband gets to use or benefit from the now the husband is a smart guy says look there a nursing home let me invest a little bit let let me improve the nursing home let me do a little construction here he invest in the nursing home put in10 million into the building and it was a good investment for the time he thought he's going to be married for 25 years so it's a great investment problem is he got divorced Two Weeks Later by the time the checks came in just it just so happened to be that when he put all this money in the government put a stop on the on the funds you know you have to wait sometimes the nursing home you have to wait he got divorced now what garnished he put a nice investment and he lost it he put in a he didn't put any investment he's a typical real estate guy he squeezed the property dry also good it's she gets back the building the way she not the way she brought it in whatever it is worth today so if the building went down in value to 600,000 that's all she gets if it went up to $10 million that's what she get there's no there's no deal it's not it's not locked in like so barel so barel is locked in you come into the marriage it's worth a million that's what you get when you leave I don't care what happens the husband is responsible over not over here this is so again is we don't care how much he invested he can invest a lot he gets whatever he's able to take out that's what he takes out we don't compensate him for his investment so the question is who cares whatever he put in he put in whenever he took out he took out the question is how come according to by you say how much does Nim get let's go back to remind what do we just say Nim is not like sh sh the guy whoever works the field gets up to 100% definitely 30% Nim if a guy comes into the field and works the field the relative he'll get up to 30% why we just said if you invest in somebody's field a husband invested in his wife's nursing home he can get nothing if they get divorced bye-bye we don't compensate so over here when a father shows up from captivity why would he get 30% bye-bye he invested in Shalom why is it different than a husband and a wife say I'll tell you why whates it say here not maybe so this is the famous case of check this out we have a bunch of characters here we we're actually going to add more there's a father a mother a brother and aano if you look closely the brother is something special he's a starky guy and I don't know what half his shirt is down it's a it's a Mahal it's beautiful the father goes five the mother brother are left alone taking care of this youngster now again talking about in those days poverty was terrible people were dying left and right she needs to eat this kid so what do they do they marry her off oh here comes the guy yes another brisker like the brother ah they married but this this marriage is only the a marriage so if she wants all she has to do is Boom divorce what is it called again they told me last night what it called by the Arabs and by Arabs all you have to say three times it's over you don't have to write again over also because it's she could say whatever she says by oh so now we understand since she has the ability to get out of this marriage without even thinking one day the guy does something she doesn't like and she says she so she's not going to want to invest he invested in her property loses so therefore our gar is like that that's the similar case it's not a regular marriage regular marriage you invest and then you decide to get divorc that's your problem you got divorc you're the one that wrote again not the wife over here she's in charge so we got to be careful here since he's not positive that his investment is going to go to the right place he the husband of this T karer field in other words they'll just milk it and I'm not a farmer but the way I understand is you have to let the field rest you could ruin the Cara you just over overuse it you keep on planting and planting you don't fertilize there things to do to ruin it in order for him to have interest in the field and to treat it as it's his own we say Hey you get compensated you're going to get a third so we also we said you're right there is a case where a husband invests in the wife's nursing home he gets zero but over here we want him to to feel that his investment is going to go to the right place he shouldn't ruin the field so we say okay you get a third you have to know each each case is different in a situation where we're concerned that the husband's going to R ruin the field in that case he gets compensated a third and we just learned when we learned I just mentioned briefly what's any person who goes into somebody else's field you get he gets a third but we only came up with one case what was the case so what's the extra case you have a captured person you put a relative in there what is that called let's go back to the remind which one of the these are he went on his own nobody asked him nobody forced him he just disappeared then nobody goes into his property why because he he left in the right frame of mind he could have done it himself from the fact that he never told anyone hey take care of my property take care of my factory whatever he has obviously he doesn't want somebody to go in we're looking for a second case here it is says this is the when a person runs away he's like somebody that that's in captivity now we have to understand what does it mean he ran away whatever you want to call it I say kroo you say kago you say cargo you say carg what does the AR say okay fine the lady who did the theas here she messed up it says K by me I read what I see K what it means is taxes in America if you're familiar so very high taxes in New York much lower in Florida so people make a lot of money in New York it pays for them to run away to Florida so they run they leave everything behind they they have big mansions everything in New York and they live in a condo on the beach in Florida now the problem is they can't come back to New York because they come back if they spend they swipe their car to New York the authorities pick up on it right away if you buy a a flight from Florida they they they're on it so they stay there it's a whole mat they they do a they allowed to be New York 10 days a year whatever they have a whole thing I don't know how many days has to be a certain amount of days that you're in Florida otherwise this trick doesn't work that's running away running away from the authorities not to pay the taxes in New York but when you run away you're not running away from minute to minute you don't have a cop knocking on your door you go with isas you know exactly what you're doing you you you make some phone calls to the real estate agent in Florida I'm coming next week you do it like a mench so you can take care of your business there's a a famous MAA they say about the villain that he he was he was in gas trying to make it to and he noticed a b he says there's a guy that they knocked on his door he said pay the taxes say I don't have the money but come back in in the evening when the day is over I have today and I'll pay today comes back in the afternoon I still don't have it but it'll be fine so what happened was at the end the villain saw that this guy was walking the street and all of a sudden like this this guy in a carriage came the bottom line was that somebody made a deal with the Pates it's always the Pats yeah always the PS he tells the P I want to buy all your fruit part says I want $1,000 the guy says no I'll give you 800 part says no absolutely not thousand AR no they walked away but the guy realized that ,000,000 is also a good deal so he tells the Jew he says listen I don't want the parts to know that I'm to his thing I don't want him to know that I that I lost the fight you buy it and I'll get it from you so you said okay but I need to be paid the amount of the taxes say okay fine so that's how he got his money the last minute taxes if you have it gets paid up says the and then of course the story was also said about many different other rebas but don't believe it it's the story happened with the G says I you know what I realize now that it's not such a great story because they don't say about usually the good ones they had by always his taxes that's why no no was was was the V seen from the side it wasn't a v he saw the story happen saw it happen not okay wasn't good enough oh we're talking had time to to figure out what's going on the [Music] guy because of what do they what are they tou let's see if you know what it means killed somebody he murdered somebody and Rashi says oh we're talking about this kind of government that doesn't like doesn't appreciate people that kill they go after no cuz I guess there's some governments at certain times in in in history if you had a fight with somebody just duel it out you know whoever whoever kills the other person quicker wins no over here we're not like that the B they're very you know they had certain manners can't kill it's not it's not it's not a nice thing to kill and if you you killed somebody they they go after you fine are somebody who's captured and he left fruit to be harvested could be where's my wheat oh my wheat look at this look at the M we're going to use it he oh he had to had to harvest the wheat okay fine put it back no no no no no okay yeah you got to be careful with this thing here fight you thought that we were still in the emails just not you him you thought we're almost done with the grapes he had he left over grapes olives wheat dates okay you gotta you got to save it it's about to get ruined I have a question for how much does the trus get paid who says nothing who oh cuz you were there last night he's right he's right he knows the stuff AB tropus do he could appoint other people to harvest he himself usually doesn't Harvest he's the guy in ch so puts point he Harvest all these fruits then we put a relative in there how much does the relative get a third listen we got away for free putting this guy we point the guy for free so why do we have to put in a relative that's going to take a third let's get a guy that's going to do for free says we don't put for beards for Beard bearded people what does that mean anus works well for a small child a guy a kid y some some person that needs help you feel good reminds me here we got a bigad over here Michael was telling me that he adopted a girl five years old M he just fell into his lap and I'm not gonna say barab him very hard to adopt a kid it's like you know kid had trauma everything one of the first times can I say one of the first the first time I should say that he left the kid now is 16 years old so 11 years 15 10 years he couldn't go on a vacation without her she she's attached because of all the stuff that happened to her this is the first time he's inro by himself with his wife and the shabbaton one chabas that's m why because the kid is 5 years old if somebody came to him with a long beard and said hey take me into your house for 10 years and but you can't go on vacation he's gonna say it's because it's a kid right Michael something about a kid you do to a kid I'm not saying that everybody would do it you're a big T yeah it's it's hard very hard and listen the is it's unbelievable Jewish kid the whole thing unbelievable she's a bakov girl she goes to she's in bakov now her mother is not not alive anymore she came from a bad place yeah what it's unbelievable unbelievable okay so that it's very hard to get someone do to an adult we all understand sayuna check this out there's three three alas he says okay not so confusing number one and this is all logic a Min does not help us out with somebody's property okay you don't call up a 10-year-old and say hey we have a problem somebody is in Gaza in a tunnel and I need you to work the field it's just not something you do why cuz he's going to ruin the field he knows he's 10 years old okay that's that's number one a cut doesn't go into somebody it doesn't help us out with Fields number two and this is also logic let's say there's a minor who inherited a field you don't allow his brother to take care of it why because suddenly it's going to become the brothers the brother will just take it he'll grab it people will get greedy he starts off doing said and before he knows it listen I'm already helping him out for five years it should probably be mine yeah it is mine I think I if I don't if I can remember correctly I think Daddy said I should have his field also I don't know something so before fine next the next thing is that not only does a relative not help out a minor but a relative of a relative shouldn't help out a minor why because a relative of a relative will try to cop it for the relative for the close relative okay and for that we have a very nice chart it's a little bit over whatever so here's the chart you have a man this guy had a child with this woman okay you married Rock day get married unfortunately I caught on to this later on when Yoshi was already sleeping yeah so that's what I'm saying I had a all I did was I shrunk him to make him small I couldn't I didn't know how to take him out I could take him out but I wouldn't know how to do the the animation of the movement of it so I just made him and I wrote K okay because that's what's going on here Ruben is a minor he shares a father with somebody else okay shim you see shim is a GLE that's all I did okay so these these two guys are brothers from a father you see they share the same father not the same mother one is the one the one has a mother with the with the fish in the cart and the phone in her tickle no that's that one anyway that's that one this woman has two sons also from another so basically the the guy on the left left Ley is a brother with a guy in the middle this the minor on the right is the brother with the guy in the middle also the guy all the way to the right and the guy all the way on the left are not related at all in fact that's was like that RAB the if ruen let's say was a woman he would be able to marry the guy all the way on the left they're so unrelated they just share a brother but they're not related huh that's okay I'm not aware of that fine so the is that the guy all the way on the left Ley cannot help out little ruing guy on his field why since he's related to shim he is a brother with shim so he's going to steal the the field from Ruan the little guy and give it to his brother shim he himself Ley himself won't take it for himself he's like a stranger he won't be able to take it for himself that work but he'll lie enough and he'll tell people that's really his brother shim's field that's what's going on there yeah too complicated or not very simple maybe I mean the chart is like all complicated thing okay okay let's see inside number one doesn't help out and A's brother relative should not help out to because they'll take it for himself and not only that and not a relative who's a relative of the why you don't allow miners to do work and captur people's real estate because they'll ruin it and not a relative of a relative in the property of a so we're talking about a mother a brother from a mother like over here Ley all the way to the left is a brother through a mother with shim and now you don't the second that we had before that a brother should not help out his younger brother in the field why because he will take over the field and make it his own from here we see again a brother a 25-year-old brother should not help out his six-year-old brother in the field why cuz a 25-year-old will steal his brother's field but random guy a random guy off the street could help the minor why from here you see because what is he going to do this random guy that works the field he cannot steal the field from the coton what is he going to say oh I'm sitting in the field already for three years it's mine it doesn't work it's not going to work that's not kazaka the minor doesn't have what is talk me we should make it as a okay I'm saying it as if everybody knows but maybe there are people that don't know if you sit in somebody in in a field for three years with even without documentation it becomes yours why because nobody made a m nobody protested that does not work with a minor because a minor doesn't know how to protest so just the fact that you're sitting in the field for three years doesn't mean it's yours it means that the minor didn't know the bz put you in there so you see that you cannot perform three years of doesn't work for minor and even if this child became I got it Joseph I got it I'm holding it even if the even if the minor became a godle and he continued holding on to the field for three years it also doesn't work why because he was a minor and he had no idea he thought it's really that other guys how could he protest so what if he became 20 years old now we just turned to kidovations in honor of my uncle by official MIT motivators in honor of Dr Mrs Robert Leons and continue learning somebody wrote I should get his thing somebody donated from n I'll try to look it up again said thank you he hasn't learned in many years and because of Bama he learned and now he is continuing he's hoping to finish with us amazing [Music] stuff a 25-year-old brother should not help out his younger brother in the field when they're brothers from the same father but if they're only brothers from a mother maternal Brothers Lon is not a problem because since they don't inherit he can't he can't claim it's his field he's like a stranger is going to regret this or take it back retract I should [Music] say and the problem with two brothers from the same father is only when we talking about Fields but houses lesl a house to our neighbors and the neighbors will testify no it's the miners we know for a fact this kid lived here it's not the brothers we're talking about Fields it's only because they don't have documentation with uh what is it called your lawyer um not deed which shows you the uh what do you call it plat survey survey okay when if you have a survey and shows this then then we don't have a problem there's a survey this rumors everybody knows this young this minor it's his field and his brother won't be able to take it away from him says it's not true even a brother from a mother could cause issues and go around and give it to the other brother it's not good it doesn't matter if it's a house this also we don't we don't care that people know or don't know there could be issues even if there's a survey not a survey we don't allow a brother to help out a younger brother says the story there was a a grandmother who had three daughters here's the chart this from yamus the uh what nak is laughing as if re nak is laughing as if he never saw this the whole yam this so anyway we have we have the the older ladies she's so old that her clo clothes are already white not only her hair and she has a cane fine and of course she has Crocs there's no shil Okay so [Music] the grandmother and one of the daughters were captured here we go here you see captured Boom the other two daughters number three over here let's call her three with umbrella this is what happened she went by bye and she left a young boy the young boy inherits his mother the young boy could inherit his grandmother if the grandmother dies so the three girls will get a third of whatever the grandmother owns being that his mother died so he fills her shoes he takes her third the issue right now is we don't know if she died or not what do we do exactly if do you remember from Al who's the M who says that if there's a captured person we allow a relative to go in and get a third who's this who's the he says by we don't know the status there's no rumor if the grandmother died or not so perhaps we'll allow sister number one to control the property perhaps the grandmother died so over here is the very sad that I pointed out the other day and we know this all we're very familiar with this unfortunately says is all the way at the end is saying why would we think that the grandmother died because she was captured this's a great chance that the grandmother died they torture these poor uh hostages and therefore there's a very big chance that she's dead I mentioned 33 out of the 133 are definitely dead they say right there's a big chance that she's dead so what if the grandmother died so if the grandmother died then sister number three inherits a she's dead it goes down to the to the boy sister number one cannot take care of little boys property that's one of the said you don't allow a relative especially an aunt she'll say hey it's my property what do you mean I've been working this proper for 10 years it's mine so what's other choice allow the the child to take care of his own property no that's a problem perhaps the grandmother didn't die you cannot allow a a minor to take care of grandmother's property why he's going to ruin it voice I hear very nice here's the property half he give to the sister number one half you give to the minor and you app point in he gets and that that solves the problem once you're ready looking for an take care of the Minor's half you do this the same tropus should just take care of the entire field says okay rumors not not a or anything rumor the rumor has it that this the grandmother died so now the grandmother's property gets divided by three one part goes to sister number one to sister number two sister number three so sister number one definitely gets one part his mother died so he definitely gets a third there's no question that he gets a third what about the third third the one that really belongs to sister number two we don't know if she's alive or dead what do we do with that part so we take that part the third and we split that in half when you split a third in half what do you have a six that's called a Dan so you take a six and you give it to the sister so here [Music] goes a third you give to the son to the boy because his mother died a third you give to to to sister number one because her mother died she gets a third the final third with the for the woman that has a question mark on her woman number two you take that and split in half a six goes to the sister number one a six goes to the Yuka for that we appoint says the exact same thing as he said before since we already found somebody to do with a small kid and take care of the six so therefore we do this say that takes care of both six for the third the entire third says story go somewhere and he realizes that he has a brother he leaves his brother there he left his brother when he's a year old he goes and does business in a different country different place and all of a sudden his father dies and he takes takes the yusha and then his brother shows up sh I'm your brother he hasn't seen him for many many years he's not completely convinced that this is his brother maybe it's a liar I don't know who I want my share give me 50% I have no idea who you are who are you so it's very interesting the says over here in the he says look and I looked over there and this is very interesting if you recall in we had a story were Rashi AAR they they made them they were in a Orchard and the arst gave them fruit and when Mur bar isak showed up he says why did you give him this you should have G him better thear wasn't sure if he was being sarcastic if he was being serious you know that that sort of thing if I recall correctly yeah so who's this Mari bisak over there Mari Barak yelled at his zarus why don't he give more fruit to Rashi well Rashi and risda never saw each other they didn't live in the same generation tus proves that and why do I say because it says over saw he did it entire was n when R was alive R was rda's son-in-law remember the famous was his father was while was alive when R was the day was Rashi was born so it's impossible that Rashi ever saw yet one story happened with with rash one storyed with says has to be two different it's impossible they they never saw each other and rash never saw each other okay fine is right they couldn't recognize why he left without a beard he was young he came back with a beard so they didn't recognize him your brother old so you don't recognize him now they ask a question how did they not recognize y y looked identical to yov so they say what do they say Well it happens to be I'll tell you with me and I could explain this my parents left us in we lived in I had a sister that was born she needed medical attention they she was born early and they ran to America with her they left us for three months three months with my uncle uncle and Aunt so when my father came back my came back we're waiting for him at the airport and he walked right by us we didn't recognize him his yeah he recognized me I no I no what it means like he came out he came out and so the guy that took us to the airport he says that's your father that's he's coming like who his beard turned white in three months his beard turn I didn't recognize him I was with my mother another sh whatever fine so you know I don't know exactly the colors of their beard and they looked identical but they say you know everybody's in of blind until hasem opens up your eyes to see if hasm doesn't want to see don't see fine there's a nice M here that it's more for the Israelis in the sh those who speak Hebrew than the Americans I can explain it also there was where a guy went I think it's a a guy left his rebba he went to America the rebba wasn't happy he went from Europe to to America and he comes back comes back to visit the r the re said you're the exact opposite of the [Music] gor I forgot to say that he was a rebi so he says but over here it says you're your rebi that went with and came back without okay okay fine says the Israelis love that they M laugh you guys you don't understand good jokes so tells his brother prove that you're a brother when everybody could say I'm a brother yeah this the scared they're shaking from this why the he's a tough guy so that's why they don't want to come T he tells you go and you bring a this is a tough one bring ad that he's not your brother otherwise you have to give him half makes no sense is not a pushover he knows he he wants money from me he wants my field let him prove that he's a brother I'm making a special exception in the rule to you anybody that's violent like you violent people they deserve this you prove that you're not a brother why because everybody's scared of you as T so if I'm a violent person so everybody will come over to me and say Hey you owe me a million dollars now the violent person if the burden of the proof falls on the violent person because said I'm making special rules for violent people so everybody's going to run over to the he might beat them up a little bit but you get a million dollars afterwards so so it says tus no it's different because the brother actually has a him they're just scared so he he's coming with some proof he's not just a guy off the street says again knows this stuff he says what are you concerned that I'm a violent person so I should bring Adam that he's not my brother how could I bring aam no my Adam are full say them they're going to say lies Everybody's scared of me oh they're not gonna lieen won't lie they might not talk that's one problem but to lie and go against the truth that they won't do for you the guy brought that he's a brother oh now that I'm a brother and I get my field I want half of all the trees give him half the trees if a person leaves older children and younger children and the older ones invested in the real estate they have to give the smaller ones half so you Mar you invested you planted trees give your brother comparison we have a bunch of brothers that the father's the older brother invest knowing that he's going to have to give his younger brother some stuff later but over here Mar had no idea that he's a brother from another country so they asked the question it seems like he didn't know okay he didn't know he's going to come get it whatever the shat is this came in front of what do you mean we said if a relative goes into a a family member's property and works it we give him a third shouldn't we give it's his field he did all the work there we certainly give him say all went back when a when a relative goes in and helps out another relative that was captured told him to do so he didn't get permission from didn't get permission to invest in the property this brother was a very he he was a child had no right to help out his brother you don't help out young Brothers you never told me that he was a minor had I known that he's a minor I would have said that he doesn't get anything have a wonderful [Music] day