Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 3 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Laughter] [Music] a good V [Music] welcome welcome welcome to all the guests had a tremendous shabas with Ellie dman and son for coming say we know each other for what four years he's been every single day on Zoom tab tab box no or maybe just for me so sometimes he controls the zoom but he's been there for pretty much since the beginning of Shas Bo I just wanted to share with you tremendous news that in the last well it's more than 48 hours but in the last two two and a half days approximately 1,300 Hebrew speaking people joined the Hebrew shear and here's a picture of the first day Ina quite a few CU you guys are used to it for here but for the Hebrew Shar it's pretty nice turnout and here uh we had 80 people approximately for the seum this is in my house the SE in my house this is interesting I didn't I usually don't uh show videos like this you'll see why but because it's a very very special occasion n they 137 people were mess so here we go oops I let's start from the beginning helloy first of all I want to wish a ma rosai that was pretty good wasn't it okay we are here celebrating with the gross family with this scrumptious amazing delicious celebrating with over 160 people about 137 people finished BAC which is truly truly remarkable and want to say a big tremendous thank you to you re for teing us all of thank you give you the C to continue to inspire and teach so many people in thank you so very [Applause] much unbelievable tremendous tremendous good and I hope uh I hope they all continue so I think I believe f is coming to just one of these these days and he has should we say tomorrow he's coming in and there's an official on the army base the whole is invited no the more people that come the better I have not been to an army base yet so I'm looking forward it's in the G is there going to be a bus or anything maybe details the follow my 11-year-old son has been part of n family since I joined the Year back in while he's been close to finishing a few times tonight Reser to make his first and he wanted me to give you he credits all the visual aids with giving him a deeper understanding of the D and a desire to continue to learn and grow the B wife and I wouldn't be for my wife and I wouldn't be happier that he's been devoting his afternoons to learning the da with you via all da we truly thank you for helping him with his love of learning all the best Rabbi Adam dubben wow ma beautiful 11 years old 11 years old this is the in Toronto see over here mdy Toronto boy say I want to show you something very special that they did for the C first of all check out the steak what do you see here H everybody got one of these they made a a sh themed CU bakama they made a theme wow what an event them was a tremendous success marked by incredible R and as people from across the city came together to celebrate to Bobby's Diner did a fantastic job praying mouth water and rip steaks P hour short theme everyone received the mdy steak Knife andell AKA iron chman remember he did his whole Triathlon and he did D on the way it was m D caner our resident Toronto AI expert which we we received a lot of art from him in the past shared his insights on producing AI pictures into mdy reflected on his experience with MD I don't know if he introduced it as much as he helped us out a lot I think Yoshi was on on it okay he helped us out a lot put it that way he captured the essence of mdy perfectly describing mdy as the definition of when all will come together from all backgrounds with true thank you for leading this I'm saying that thank you this amazing movement for infusing every every day big in Toronto I blow mayor pla MD Toronto reps I've been trying to get a friend of mine to join the D for a while and finally convinc him to start with us with maybe oh no no with B he did not miss a day and send me the following message just before my father called me today because he heard I'm making a SE told me he's proud of me first time first time he said those words to me in my life to he's proud of me oh he is right he asked me to send that to you and to thank you he's looking forward to B wow okay learning the the way on the completion of and R say the last swell I wrote in a few months ago when I had my one-year-old when my one year mdy anniversary to tell you about how my wife and I have been struggling to get pregnant when he started the da and was then eagerly waiting the arrival of our first child well there finally come we welcomed our new son a future MD wire to the tribe attaches a picture of my wife is a picture my wife took me doing the da while she was in labor and then wanted me learning the next da with our little boy what's the earliest I can sign him up for free gamor here B is a good one to start on Ma per Fox fairw New Jersey ma the is not sponsored by anybody the is not sponsored yet by anybody the month sponsored Rebellion enre the of teaching Robert Frasier loving memory of Herz Baltimore Maryland of theous child birth his daughter and healthy baby maybe he write to the guys in Hebrew that were running late we had technical problems very late is it 9:00 already they're going to start showing up in a half hour my name is not R Kramer okay I mean we might be able to finish by 9:45 maybe but they're going to start coming at 9:30 some of them started okay Bo coming out a nice crowd for shabas we're holding on here's a question for the and if you were here again the rules are I have to say this every day because it's the same people that try to answer the same questions so why why where are you why why why why if you were here the day before and this applies to all days for the rest of sh do not answer okay where's the other guy you also the rest of sh okay thank you if a person eats eats the prohibited fats of the animal he has to bring a carbon what if he doesn't even know about it tell him you ate is that a carbon anybody yes oh I said anybody that was here yesterday okay I know you weren't here so we're going to see going to see it's one of the things we're going to learn so we had like this the other day we learned actually yesterday we learned the was trying to say that perhaps our mishna that says two people holding on to a beged a Talis this one says it's mine this one says it's his this one says the whole thing is mine the other one says the whole thing is his we said it's two different cases the says maybe our Mish doesn't go like maybe it doesn't go like bananas says it could go like them and now we're up to the third one we're holding like two four six eight nine lines from the top of I'm trying a third one perhaps our doesn't so here's the case Rai here's the case we have a guy that he's a he owns a people give him money at the very exact same time two people came and gave him money one gave him a 100 one gave him 200 so the very least is each one gave him 100 one gave him double gave him 200 then he doesn't recognize who gave him what was they having the same exact time then they come back and say I'm the one that gave the 200 they both want the 200 so let's think about it for a second he owes each one how much at least 100 the question is on the final 100 who do you give it to so say you give each one a 100 and the other 100 you put in a box you wait until comes says no all 300 goes in a box until know he comes why he owes each one 100 we want to make sure that the r the guy that's lying is going to fess up we need to put some pressure on him we need to force him into saying the truth and how do we do it by taking his money oh he doesn't want to lose his 100 so you know what you're right you're right it's not me I don't have 200 give me back myund so that's that's now let's see inside Mish what does our say two people holding on the Talis each one is it's mine it's mine so you know you should do take the Talis and put into that box wait until no becomes says what did the liar lose let's take all three put in a box [Music] so so also everything should be there and take the whole towels put in a box so you think it's better to go like ra it's very familiar we had the exact same thing yesterday so what say each one gets 100 and the the final 100 that that's what you put away until comes we have a problem what's the hund the 100 is what we have a a suff on we don't know what to do with the 100 the other hundreds that each one gets because we don't have a s the Talis the entire Talis is a suff so the entire Talis is like the hund that's left over so put that 100 in a box you take the whole Talis put in a box there's no difference between the whole Talis and the 100 forget about that each guy got a 100 it's a different story on what we have a suff on that we put away until comes so by the Talis we have a suff on the whole Talis it doesn't go like Rabon neither why do do each makes and you split it down the middle why says no and again mimicking the same as I'm just trying to point out that you see like different different written by different very similar style I'll remind you it even said in we could fit it in with r why the case of each one one gave 100 one gave 200 right the three the 300 case one of them is 100% lying the 100 is owned 100% by one of the guys you can't divide [Music] it in our case where we could say that it's owned by both that's why would fit into our over there it makes sense to put it away until comes because it's only one person that's the the rifle owner so we have to put it away we don't know who the rifle owner is if we divide it you're messing somebody up you're taking away half of his thing so we can't do that either but by by us dividing it maybe we'll be to the truth maybe the truth is that both of them picked it up simultaneously and they both own it so it's Poss to do and divide it down the middle okay so that's why they say split it also will invoke a so somebody's lying up it's possible they're not lying okay but it cannot go like even in a case where you're 100% certain that each one deserves a 100 back the whole question was on the third but 1001 and 1002 like in this one right over each one deserves 100 nevertheless he says we punish them we want to punish the bad guy the liar so certainly over here that's not POS that somebody owns that each one owns half of the Talis it's very possible that the Talis is owned just by one of them so certainly you should put it away and punish the the guy to lie the the guy that might be lying so no it could go like the case with the 300 Mana the 300 the 100 and 200 over there the reason why he's putting the pressure on is because we know that one of them is lying one of them gave a 100 one of them gave 200 there's no sh that's what happened the question is who owns the final 100 but one of them is lying 100% he's lying so if 100% lying let's put the pressure on the liar so that's why he says you know what he threatens them see if someone's going to call Bluff all 300 goes in a box until so one guy's goingon to have to fess up and say listen I lied but in our case who says again same Spar who says that somebody's lying even if somebody's lying he doesn't know he's lying right you play I don't know I used to play basketball a lot two people each one could be n that he didn't step on the line no I 100% you know these big fights in the court cuz they think each one thinks that he's saying the truth nobody's lying he saw like this and he saw like that he thought he picked it up first happens to be the guy picked it up a millisecond before him he's not lying and is not going to help in that case what's G to help he'll swear I picked it up first he Mish thinks he picked it up first you show him in the video oh yeah I messed up sorry another over there by putting on the pressure the guy's going to admit when the 100 and 200 say this lady but over here what will he gain if if he doesn't own the Talis and he saw somebody picking up a Talis from the from the he found something so he goes over and he he grabs onto it oh we're going to put the pressure on we're going to put it in a box not pressure he never owned it to begin with he sto being and grabbing it so it doesn't work in this case so talking about a guy that that's lying and then I'll give you half I'll take half so I want to tell you that's going around from he we had the B of you were probably there you remember what was the was in the five towns back in the day and spoke to us but that's not this is not what the story say just I'm just saying he was a very very he was boss who did a tremendous amount they wrote a book about him if not maybe even more than one book at least one book I have a book at home from him so he said this so he said a true story and I managed to relate to the story because the exact same story happened to me with the exact denomination so the the first part not the not the good part A guy comes to to someone and says listen help me out for two days two days I need 10 grand for two days she what two days say yeah something's closing I have a short fall over here you give me the money and two days I I promise you swear to you here you sure yeah get he gives him $10,000 and uh two days come and go and uh the guy doesn't return he calls him up yeah I'm coming going this that a week goes by two weeks a month two months then now he's not he's he's screening his calls he's not picking up anymore this that he meets him once in a while he crosses the street two years go by okay it happened to me my if anybody ever tells you the story he needs money for two days don't trust him so fast so one day the lender gets a call from the borrower yeah you remember I borrow 10,000 yeah I remember yeah yeah no he says listen I have 5,000 right now if you come within 15 minutes I'll give you the the 5,000 if not I don't know what's going to happen after 15 minutes F you got you got to come within 1550 minutes now this guy lives in Williamsburg and he's in bar Park okay I got to go gets in his car 90 mph on the FDR Drive he's flooring he's cutting people off and sure enough Sirens they pulled the guy over all I want is my $5,000 now on top of that I don't get my five I'm going also get a ticket ker capop shows up the way he says I've never seen this on the FDR he says is like one of those Highway Troopers with the hat they have this on the FDR Drive with the boots the whole thing tough guy he says uh license registration he says officer before you say anything I got to tell you the story this guy me $10,000 for two years this way that way phone calls lying that today he just called me up look he says what you think I was born yesterday I heard that story a thousand times yeah I know your wife is about to give birth and I know this I know that I I've heard it all license registration so he says listen it's make a deal let's go to this guy's house if he gives me the $5,000 you don't don't give me a ticket if not write me a ticket she says you know what deal he puts on his lights and siren and he goes they start flying through that they are dve and he's thinking to himself everybody like you know interesting interesting story but Lisa that guy better be home and he better have the money because this is going to cost me big time kids said they climb up the stairs over there in bar Park they knock on the guy's door the guy opens the door and he looks and he sees this big giant C up looks he says listen uh I lied I really have 10,000 I just said 5,000 but I didn't cop you bring a cop with you and he gave him $10,000 my story ended up a little different Em's Story the guy doesn't watch the dve I hope nobody tells him I went to the Poli miss a story after a long time I went to the police I filed a report the guy's filling out all the details I showed him the bounce checks the whole thing all a he looks at me he goes this is not even we we can't even deal with this this a small claims score what are you what are you even doing here I said could I have that please and he gave me his uh report then I went to the wife or the mother I don't remember exactly and I said look the cops are going to show up here in 10 minutes here here's the report and they gave me my money on this spot they gave me the money they PID back fine but huh I got my money back later N9 months later they were still not talking to me em nine years later 20 years later k out still not talking to me the BR said me because I got my money back okay whatever happens all right fine they finally know the story I never told them what that c thing was well hopefully nobody tells him the story all right V where are we holding I thought we were done with the D okay yeah says the G this whole thing works with a lost item M he's going to lose money when we're talking about we said the Mna is talking about two cases there's a case of you find an item is the case of you're buying purchasing item if each person purchased item each person gave money and we take it and we put it away in the back when it comes to M he said has nothing to lose he just grabbed something that he Talis so you put it in a box until he comes the liar lost didn't lose anything no that's great but what about when you purchase something you gave the owner of the store you gave him 100 bucks and the other guy gave 100 bucks now if you punish them and we take the the 200 bucks and put in a box somebody's going to have to fess up and say hey I lied we have to go back to the original ter what that when it comes to the three Monas the the 200 200 over there is a somebody is for sure lying that's why we have to put it in a box but over here byal there no that's why it's different says let see so let me show you real quickly let's see if we have it here somewhere okay so you remember there's a shopkeeper there's an employer and there's a worker three guys the shopkeeper is asked by the employer could could you please give Pro product produce to my worker I don't have cash he's going to come to your store he's going to take whatever he wants or up to a certain amount and at the end of the week I pay great shopkeeper says fine so the worker comes to the employee says I need to get paid so the employee says uh I thought you went to the store to buy stuff he say no I never went the shopkeeper comes to the employee and says I need to get paid you're worker came here and he took $1,000 worth of stuff give me $1,000 so what but the worker said he never came to you he's lying the worker says the shopkeeper like kider what do you do so like this right either the employee has to pay both or he pays both with the he fine but he has to pay both so says the let me just tell you real quick CU we're talking about this before this shabas and nobody's going to come for the Israelis sh it doesn't matter over here in they have these you know you go to mollet and we spoke about this everybody um oh it's starting like 25 minutes okay everybody comes to mollet they don't have nobody has money in this country so then you buy credit you give a number and then you buy whatever you want at the end of the month you have to pay and you don't pay and then you do it another month fine so the guy comes to pay and it's like double the usual bill so he tells the store owner he says what's going on here he what what's going on here your son comes every morning and he buys six rolls with choco and chocolate and this and that he says uh what do you mean my son I don't have a son I have seven daughters I don't have a single son oh so they sit and they wait sure enough the the kid shows up it's the neighbor from down the block he every morning he steals he he takes stuff and he puts it on the guy's K so who has to pay who has to pay you're not going to believe what said I don't know if that's how who what about what about the B why he didn't do it the kid overheard the number he was put his number on that's what resolution says that the guy has to pay the whole thing go figure okay no he's not B what's your we had a similar problem saying that was the we had some kids in the neighbor that were it's MD wi they don't care if we buy candy on the like every month okay and it didn't help us that our number not joking was 10 10 how hard can that be 10 everybody 10 it's like okay that's easy number to remember V is it very hot yeah it's good it's too hot fine we'll wait till next year so we're holding by that's what we're holding no more stories ask bot question in this case when you have the work in the shopkeeper the two Liars one of them is lying for sure how come they both swear and they get paid take it out of the owner the owner has to pay that's for sure so let him take the money put it in a box and do what wait until he comes one of them is certainly lying so what's the difference beautiful difference I'll just say about pet and we'll see it inside real quickly over there the shopkeeper tells the the employer I don't know the worker he's not he's not my business you told me to give somebody stuff I gave him it's between you and the worker you figure it out now pay me the worker says the same exact thing to the employer I don't know who the shopkeeper is I don't care what the shopkeeper is he could swear to me 20 times 206 re tires you owe me money pay me so the employer is stuck dealing he's the one that hired the shopkeeper he told the sh he's the one that told the worker so now he's stuck so he has to pay them there's no and in between the two shopkeeper tells the the employer I did what you told me to do I don't care about the worker even if he would swear to me I don't care he doesn't doesn't bother me doesn't help me you trusted him you never mentioned take Witnesses this you just said give him food I gave him food I did exactly what he told me to do and the flip side also and the worker tells the the employer I work for you what do I have to do with the shopkeeper it's not my problem with him I've even if he swears to me Heavenly I don't trust them that's why both swear and they both take from the employer this is very important be dealing with today tomorrow this is maybe not not a difficult but maybe a few less stories than usual for next day or two the stories we did already we have to B it's not not complicated at all I'll just say that we learned this for three weeks straight and uh we spent a lot of time on it on just this one the next is another three weeks okay but B not complicated at all you owe me money now think about it it's beautiful let's talk about it for a second if a person is a us right we all know that somebody comes to someone says you owe me 100 and the guy says not true I only owe you 50 what's the right he has to pay the 50 plus he has to swear why he's called a what if he says I don't know you anything and two Aiden pop up and he say you're a liar y 50 could Aiden be like himself he himself if he admits he's a us he has a problem admitting the truth the two a him they admit for him could they invoke yes or no that's why not person wouldn't want oh he's saying rabba he knows rabba that a person really is not a liar and he just he's trying to bite time and if we put him make him I said simple stuff sorry let's start from the top he denies the whole thing oh I don't know if we need this but why not he did it let's do it here we go the guy I just love the guy shoelaces I had a roommate like this m maybe it was me who knows can I borrow 100 from you he he gives him 100 sure I lend him 100 and he's not paying I only 50 I don't have money but he's thinking to himself I'm embarrassed to deny everything I'll pay later so swear 50 and pay that's now the twist is that he didn't admit two witnesses said that he's lying okay he has to swear says that when a person admits himself he has to swear so can't be wor he can't his mouth can't be better or make him do something that two a ad are the best the top don't two could kill somebody so Adam shouldn't make him do a you have we'll see this is beautiful oh where are you come here you two guys come here we got to we got to do this quick so get over here quickly right the case here we have AAL beautiful tows hey wait a minute that's mine oh he's doing he's he's a pro that's mine it's mine now say see what's going on here these two guys see at least half of this is mine oh very nice so we have aam the aam say these two guys are a are are you yet Ma thanks for inviting me to your Mitzvah okay anyways so these two ADM these two ADM they testify that at least half is his is his this guy Morty and shamshi they are testifying that this half is mine but what's really going on here is that they don't exist they're invisible they don't exist it's a we know there's there there's a that he owns half what does the mishna tell us the mishna says that he has to swear that he owns have and I swear soet what we see here is that he's swearing I'm swearing sorry I'm swearing because he has Aid them on this half that this half is his and I'm being I'm admitting I'm I'm admitting because of the aam they caused me to admit I didn't admit anything I'm lying I'm saying the whole thing is mine I'm pulling so I say I'm a I'm a but these two a are admitting for me the fake a the invisible a are admitting for me that's why I have to swear why am I swearing why think about it why in the mission says I have to swear that have is mine the reason is because it's two that made me into says the which two invisible okay very nice yeah now let's inside the right why not maybe I don't know we'll see what it is now there's a little bit of a problem the is going to discuss later I also have a let's say that half is mine so I'm not really okay each one has fine that are testifying not real but we are the for every he's he grabbed half so that's his and what I grabbed is mine I have the why are you swearing you're swearing because the forced me to be a so through you have to make a say okay great now what did he mean why would I think for a second that when a person admits he makes a but when two ad come and they make me admit not the opposite a them are much stronger oh so that's what RI was saying there's a there's logic to say that a person who admits we should invoke a because he's not a bad guy he's a good guy he's just looking to buy time all these excuses and all these bad checks that he writes and yes I'm coming over right now and if you come within 15 minutes I'll give it to you I just left and you came in 60 minutes all these excuses cuz he's a good guy he just doesn't have money NE doesn't have money he's start he's trying to buy another day another day it's wrong I'm not saying it's the right thing to do it's wrong but will help because he's not a liar he's just buying time so when you give him a no no no you're right I I take it back so RAB says by the way I I saw here in the rambam talks about it when the T you're not supposed to give a reason for for Mitzvah right because the T gives a reason twice and was both times he tripped up twice on the two things that t said t says don't have many wives and don't have many horses and in both of those things he tripped up because he thought that the reason is this and this and I'm above that reason and and he fell so we don't give reasons to the when the T does give reason it's not because that is the reason but the says in the r say they all say that it's to give us a in the mitvah to give us a little bit of a a flavor not that oh we know the reason no there's different reasons a lot of thing different reasons we'll give you a little bit of flavor so not that this is the over in the I'm giving you the reason but if you want a little a little of the back story over here it's more like oh he should be a there's a migu here there's a MIG He Could Have Lied if he's a liar he could have said I don't know anything that's what the means here but you should know that we'll give you a little bit of the taste that what why does he make we have a person is not somebody did him a favor gave him $10,000 he's not going to be able to look him in the eyes and say the eyes and say you never let me money that he can't do it's impossible I Napoleon said he could do it he didn't have a certain bu they can't do it we started very late but you could come for the English also you speak English in fact he should have psychologically denied the whole thing why didn't he should have really admitted on the whole thing but he's not a bad guy he's not going to lie to he's not gonna say the reason why he didn't admit to everything he has a little bit of a a little one he has a little that causes him to say lies so he could buy some time he doesn't have a big that's going to go and and say it's going to shake up the whole world that he's not going to do that he should admit to everything but the difference is that works when a person admits on his own but now when you are a big liar with a big giant Yara and you're forced into it through the aen they had no idea existed they came forward and they said hey you're a liar oh now she was not going to work for him why because he's a bad guy he lied completely guy that admits a little bit is a good guy just with the little not this guy I would think that's different that's why I would think it's different says the and that's why says I have so what is the sponsors turned off byov hon my uncle of Baltimore Maryland in honor of ficial and thanks to them 137 people learned 16,1 166 St over 727 470 minutes in with MD y incredible oh so what a person's own mouth when he's you cannot owe money through your own mouth but it could invoke much stronger than an individual could invoke a payment of money so certainly they should invoke the says what are you talking about what a mouth cannot obligate somebody to pay does look at this say beautiful and if you were here on Friday look at it now change a little bit there's 100 a that say he stole I stole it's the same thing has the same power if a person says I stole he has to [Music] return no my so listen to this what I what I meant it can't be money or yeah it meant I meant a penalty that cannot obligate oneself because if a person steals right a person steals he's a ghav and he admits that he stole does he pay does he pay no because you don't pay the but his own mouth cannot force him to pay a penalty but it forces him to pay to make a let's just see what he did here little bit of a you see here if you want to see it goes like this PIV his own mouth cannot be M but it's that could be certainly so we say so let's go to the next one his mouth let's just jump off this for a second look at this I just want to show you this a person says he feels bad that he that he sined sh he brings a carbon based on his own words oh so that's what I asked in the beginning of this year if two come forward and say Hey you ate says over here no you don't bring a carbon on that it has to be himself it can't come through a so you see that his mouth is stronger don't bring me a from a mouth to that certainly should be no a mouth could make you force you to bring a carbon where Adam cannot no Adam could why there is a that says you could okay so once you know that Adam could make you bring a carbon so therefore now I have the again that if PIV his own mouth by when he's forces him to make a certainly a like we had in this case a could make you make that's case says that can make you make this come for and say he says not true says thaten could force you to make to bring a car if two people could give a death penalty force a death penalty right two a them testify that this guy carried without a on CHAS and they warned him not to and he did anyway Misa so if the two a came along and said hey you carried on CH by mistake he he shouldn't have to bring a carbon K they could kill him not a no no he has a way out of it he could say I was amazed I did it deliberately and if he did it deliberately he doesn't bring a car so let me ask you a question we have a concept in a person is not trusted and believed that he did something wrong how can we believe him hey I was I ate on purpose he's not believed says he is believed why special because he doesn't want to bring a carbon to the if he in fact on purpose so you're forcing them to bring a carbon and it's AER to bring a carbon for nothing it's he doesn't want to do that he's being about Chua about Chua who says I sin but I don't want to do another AA we trust him so then the big question is what happens let's say a woman who is on her deathbed and she tells the Rob listen I m m I need to do truva do Chua with me and all of a sudden she has a miraculous recovery do we believe her and now she's also to her husband typically a woman is not believed believe it or not if a if a woman comes forward and says I was M she's not us to her husband unless he believes and L and that but not not over here say she would be believed because she wasn't trying to be answer herself she's trying to do CH okay and there's a bunch of different cases um there's a story with the also he's on his death ped he asked the r for forgiveness I need I need cha I I I didn't tell the community I sh it and with the with a knife that was p and I fed TR to the community so the pasin that everybody has the cas their then the guy had a miraculous recovery he felt like an idiot and the r said uh you could only sh with he let him but then he tried to get out of it and try to no that's it you can never sh again and kids there's stories like this that when you trying to do chuva says tus then you are believed to make yourself a Russia because now you're trying to be a better person says I'm R I'm a murderer we don't trust you if a guy's trying to do chuva say say he doesn't want to bring then we'll believe him says again let's take it from the top slow we want to say in a case where two ad them came by and said hey you owe 50 out of the 100 you're you don't admit to anything but we are testifying that you owe a half could that invoke a oh look if you admitted himself but his mouth is stronger than because he can make himself bring we said it before that according to anyways ad can make you bring a carbon again don't learn you know that if a person lies and he says I didn't steal I swear I didn't steal that that that said says it got lost and it was he really stole it and he swears and then he admits what's the he has to pay the principal he has to pay AES how much is 25% and a carbon so the part his mouth by admitting brought it and AD can't force that either says no could force it so let's just do this real quickly HHA means let's say the first ad say we saw the guy in the big red beard kill a guy then so the little the the center guys they say not true the guy the guy never died or somebody else killed him okay that's a means to how do you say it in English refute okay to refute what he said they said he no is much stronger is saying that you to yeah you're saying that you saw it you're with us on the cruise right the famous on the cruise thing by the way I didn't know this but there are people that are that are sensitive to this picture the the beler he took the pictures home and this one he erased like magic marker on it they're not wearing clothing this he didn't want to show his wife it could be Priestess I don't know okay so those are you the sensitive so put it we'll blur it out for you whatever we'll have to your your your program that you're telling me your filter would blur this whole thing out okay yeah so anyways but if you admit something I can't refute it and I can't say still okay so says so your mouth is stronger than you could kill based on the you could penalize them Bas that works okay have that what that two can force you to make bed a very simple single Aid cannot obligate somebody to pay money but a single Aid could enforce could force so certainly two a them could force because we're going to go back on this tomorrow but is different because when he says you owe money or whatever he says he forces on that piece but in the case of AD they say that we know for a fact that he bed 50 so he's making a on the other 50 on the 50 that they they they testify that he has to pay the on the 50 they're not testify so it's very different than have a wonderful week tomorrow right early I