Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 29 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] [Laughter] good thank you Baltimore live from Baltimore oh is my to finally after eight years of saying she in Chicago five years of saying shees to finally have my wife at one of my life she's in everybody give her a round of applause all right I want to thank my wife for coming in all the way from AR to support me a vior fold who's sitting right over there in the lady section also all the way from together with the you've never seen a sitting on lady second this is the first time in my life you are in the Y I know you're not looking you don't look around the V but you're in the lady section get out of the lady section okay he's turning colors that's exactly what I need now uh I want to say welcome to all the N Ted people the tremendous uhuk you gave me I know many of the N people they I met them tonight told me they didn't learn a Jewish word maybe in the entire life or maybe in the last 10 15 20 years and and because of ficial and Sim they started learning and there's 30 40 of them that continued without incentives into B many more are doing all sorts of things beautiful beautiful thing so thank you nid thank you for being here thank you for doing the da and if it changed your life tell other people about it because I'm sure it did change your life and if you don't want to admit it too bad you better admit it is the truth Tyra changes people's lives let me make this straight because it's not straight that's better I think okay so once again thank you R official for sponsoring this whole event amazing food everything you do for mdy the hundreds of thousands of dollars that he put into the gamar campaigns and the other campaigns and getting the N people involved and everything else that you do uh just the physical support when we were learning used to come with the taxi from had the taxi stay out there and uh would come in for the share and then do the same repeat over and over until finally the the guy that drove the taxi he became a big part of mdy he still does the D till this very day that was four years ago so you for that um who am I missing who who drove in with you guys moland I said we have Mar M who else the three of you guys drove in from New York and thank you everybody for coming sponsors yes we have some sponsors the is sponsored by Anonymous for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages in honor my uncle tremendous thank you to and their families for making sure I learned the that every day is that where is he Ellie thank you so much my wife and I want to thank you for sponsoring the Turning of thank you very much it means a lot finally met you in person wow for the IDF the for the Swift relocation of all innocent Goins to Egypt I did not read that first and I hope the person from n who wrote me that beautiful loving email about how all Goins are innocent and just a few bad guys I hope they're not not here today cuz come up and whack me over the head for reading that I apologize to you they are all innocent until dead or whatever the heart of the month Anonymous for the for an easy child birth for his daughter and a healthy there are still crazy people out there even in a Ted who think that those guys that dance in the streets of Gaza when knowing and celebrating that the October 17th they're all innocent there are still people you believe it yeah there still alive and they still some of them di in their T unfortunately okay fine what happened now no no no okay but 99% of their T guys are normal I met them they're all for real huh yeah I did and I got to tell you this real good story that somebody came over to me in Miami last night real quickly a true story he said that he donated for the campaign he donated $5,050 because it's 10 times the Gat of his name and then he got a phone call from the broker that this house that was on the market for $700,000 and he begged them to go down they decided to sell to him for 55 something like that or 550 something match the number that he gave in a different multiple but whatever he wanted to tell me when you give you get that's how it works okay we're holding by the mishna the mishna says like this the mishna will just say because we're in Baltimore we could do this doesn't let me do this the mishna is sponsored by oh baby something like that I don't know you you're know not say will say it here wow I am not going to read this list this is a list okay you guys read it real quickly for to yourselves and 10 N8 seven okay you got it to some you see this is $10,000 guys on the left Isaac I forgot how to pronounce his name ysy green wall 10,000 David wiste no the total for Miami is 130,000 right now as it stands right now so that's very nice and we're moving on okay says the Mish now that we spend seven minutes okay call so we're talking about people finding objects in the street and you have to understand that it's not that easy to find something it's a midst in the tire to find something and take care of it so what happens if you find an animal in those days there are a lot of animals run roaming around the people used animals to for everything for transportation to to plow their fields for everything there were the trucks the tractors you find an animal now you have to feed it you have to take care of it so if you could rent it out that's what you should do rent it make some income and with that income you pay for the food otherwise how how you going to pay for the food it's going to cost you let's say you get a younger kind of animal that doesn't really produce sell it because we don't want to stick you with the bill you should return it to the owner make sure that you give it back to the guy without taking too much of the principal off because if you take off the principle you're not going to return the animal that you found it's going to be half the animal so if you have no choice and it's costing you and it doesn't earn any money sell it what do you do with the money so we have here interesting one of the only times in that we don't passing likea was perhaps the greatest human being the greatest Jew that ever lived there's a gar that says he might bigger than but right up there the top three four five of and is always like him you could use that the money oh but if you can use the money now you're responsible for the money and if something happens to the money you must pay for it so the is going to tell us it doesn't mean that you actually use the money even if you could use the money you don't use the money you could you can use the money you resp responsible for the money don't use the money therefore since you don't you cannot use the money it's somebody else's money you just sold somebody you don't know who the owner is but you sold it for him put the money aside and if you can't use it and gets lost you are not responsible for the money as what you have to take care of this animal for 25 years this must be a limit all there is a limmit 12 months how many of you here in the room have somebody's coat that they left in your house six years ago so there's a limit of how long you have to keep it for 12 months we learned anything that produces and eats of like a cow and a donkey he must take care of it for 12 months what you do is you evaluate how much it is and you leave it alone as is a calf that can't do can't produce milk it can't do anything a young donkey guess we'll get back to this later okay so here we go we have a donkey that produces we have a cow so that's 12 months the next thing is is a cal and a a young donkey also don't produce don't produce three months so we have to remember this over here it says three months from here on out you evaluate it you put the money on the side you have male good for nothings I'm just saying because a bunch of n t women here I hate the men also I make for jokes about the men too don't worry about it they don't produce they don't they don't lay eggs get rid of them after 30 days after that you could sell it put the money aside but a female chicken like on top here we just got the female She lays eggs so you got to take care of it for months we have another that says 12 months for producing animals anything more than that you set it aside you sell it and that's it we got a problem here we said a second ago three months and all of a sudden that's the first Bri of three months for the young donkey and now we got 30 days okay we said before we said 30 days and now we're g to save anything that takes more money to take care of it than it can produce instead of 30 days what does it say three days so we got a contradiction between the first BR and the second BR first BR says three months for a donkey 30 days the second one says 30 days for a donkey big contradiction the first BR says about a chicken a male chicken 30 days second bra say three days says we have a contradiction between the and the we have chicken chicken what do we do it's not such a big question when it here look what he did Yoshi when it grazes by itself you get three months because it's not a big deal for you when you have to feed it on a plate or whatever it's 30 days when you must you know I'll tell you the story I wasn't thinking about doing it maybe I should use my filter here but I can't control myself so I'll tell you the story I once I'm not going to say the exact story because I can't say it it's you'll understand from the story but basically the word in the gar was puma and I translated the word because I speak Yiddish I translated in Yiddish and I realized I said the word pumo and a and a cow and it just sounded terrible it was just everybody was they turned colors some left some giggled nervous giggled so then what happened was some guy took that that that saying that one this line that I said that didn't come out good and he made it into like a meme and he he spread it around and I thought oh that was it that's that's the end of MD Y and a year goes by and a therapist comes to the shear raes and he says you know I love you shear there's a certain type of client that I have that I sent to you and it's very therapeutic for them in fact I sent over a 100 patients to your and most of them are peeled he doesn't he doesn't tell me what he does and how he does I said you're full of it he says I swear to you I could swear out of sa he tells me I sent to you over a hundred people okay and I want to tell you something you know why I came to you here I got a meme once something about a cow like that Meme that I thought is going to put me out of business he brought 100 people this share because of that me that's how works when you think this is the word it reminded me triggered me I had Trauma from this word it's not a contradiction between the chickens large chickens eat a lot you got to get rid of them quickly if they're younger so you get 30 days the large ones just eat and eat so you three days get rid of them next an animal doesn't produce you must return the item the way you found it make sure you do that don't feed one calf to many calves in other words if you find 10 calves don't use one for food because let's say you find 10 Cales what are you gonna do return nine that's not what you found don't waste the donkeys and the geese I have I'm not going to go back to the picture this male geese and not whatever you get the idea what a male and a female this they almost look the same fine says we're on the last line of by the way in case there's anybody in this room that didn't start yet today is a perfect day to start I'll tell you why we started mdy this da why because we had inspiration that day to do it and we started immediately without a new Mish without a new par without a new middle of a so if you're thinking about joining today's a perfect day to start it's also one of the easiest Pro in every child knows it it's a great time to start so you know how to learn with your son instead of your son teaching you you could teach him what do you do with the money so rash says right away it doesn't mean that you use the money rash says if you can and you you could use this money then it becomes like yours and you are responsible if you cannot use the money if it's lost and we have to remember this word lost lost usually means you're sort of responsible because let's say if you're sh you're paid custodian you're responsible for a loss if you're supposed to watch something and it gets lost you're responsible this case because you cannot use it you can't use the money then you're not paid you have no you have nothing with this money now if you could use money but you don't use it you have a certain benefit from that what's the benefit so people like when I I tell them business advice okay so this is might unsolicited advice you could laugh at it you could say oh it's simple but a lot of times people ask me what's the how can I get into business yeah into real estate let's say so I tell them the same thing every time basically well depends who the person is one of the biggest secrets to doing well in business and getting involved in a deal is if you have money you need money to get involved in a deal right so if you could borrow money easily then you could jump the deal so let's say there's a house that went for you know it's a great deal if you don't have the money to buy it then you could just watch on the side and tell everybody 10 years later oh I could have bought that house for $100,000 a lot everybody comes to me I could have bought this whole building for $150,000 you know how cheap apartments today the $3 million okay so the trick is to have money so what how do you have money you need saving the difference between people that are successful and have that pot of cash to go into the deal are the people that know how to save people that spend their money on cars and flat screen TVs and all that stuff they never have money when it comes time to jump into the deal when it's necessary you hear about a good business it's just my two pieces two cents of I don't know how to save money so I'm I'm allowed to tell you guys you save money and whatever but it's true if you have that money that's what the is saying over here if you you have that pot of cash you can't you're not using it but it's there and you know that when the time comes I could jump in and use that money for a deal that gives me Han and that Han makes you responsible for that money even though you never use the money says there's a beautiful famous and here it is this could be a contradiction to R why because if you're not using the money you are poter but wait a minute you should be according to why because says let's just say this by heart say anybody that watches an item for somebody else he becomes automatically so he is for a we just said you're from a why are you a the Torah tells you if you find a m pick it up and give it back so you're doing the guy a favor why in the world do you become a paid custodian that if it gets lost or stolen you're says you know what I'm going to show you the clip I'll remind you it's the the famous clip here let me just show you that's right F I hear you I hear you sh me Guy this is just a this is just a continuation that a very large chicken is three days and the the younger guys are 30 days okay there's a concept called if you're dealing with a mitzvah such as but it means physically dealing with it it doesn't mean that you took the watch home and you put it in a drawer and now you're you don't have to do any other Mitzvah it means you're physically feeding the animal because otherwise it will die so you're physically dealing with it let's say you're wearing tius you're wearing a Talis you're wearing Fillin on your head like we're really supposed to wear Fillin all day but we don't these days because of we don't know how to keep our bodies clean Etc let's say you're wearing Fillin are you putter from doing other Mitzvah says T absolutely no because you're not dealing with it you're not busy only when you're busy with a mitzah so if you're dealing with knock knock on the door comes the guy says charity I need to donate money to him why now you can say no no I'm dealing with I don't have to give you anything so that that you could tell the poor guy sorry not today that gives you benefit and that benefit makes you a sh and now you are if it gets lost you are responsible here's the clip let me see if I can get to it green blue you get the idea here we go you ready what does he have yeah middle of learning I can't I can't give you [Laughter] anything I start out with the wrong guy do I have to a middle of learning so I said he says didn't know this right rash says that in middle of learning you have to give so he's right in a way there's he also comes collect money us every morning learning learning is to do Mitzvah when you're doing a Mitzvah like we're talking about he's middle I told him I need you to come to my sheer and uh pretend you're collecting money he said okay if you give me 400 check I'll come we're going to do know anyway oh I have to shut this off fine just as a side note he's right and he's wrong he said that when you're in middle of learning you have to stop and give money to he's wrong because says that's true only in a case where the guy's dying and he needs money right now but in a case that it's convenient for him to come and bother you while you're learning you don't have to give him tell him to come back later so in this case when he walked in B middle she you tell him get out of here I'm I don't have to give you I'm middle of learning TI I don't have to give you money happens to be that this particular guy he collects money every day but he drives a brand new 2024 electric car and whatever we we still give him he's a great guy everybody says but but Adon you have a nicer car than me why should I give you money he says I have a 9 to-5 job and I have some and I need to pay off my help me pay my and everybody gives him okay so he certainly can't cannot come in middle of learning but otherwise yeah SAR a guy that watches a lost object is he is he considered and does not pay for the only says maybe I have the chart let's see oh here's the chart yeah you go over the chart yourself see the difference between and we're going to be talking about also in a minute so we can leave that up there so the question is according to R he he he gets paid in a way he's getting paid because he doesn't have to give the poor person money so if he's getting paid then he has more responsibility his responsibility is that if he gets lost he must pay for it why do we say that if it gets loss he doesn't have to pay answer so will say listen everybody agrees they both agree that this guy is considered because he found this a now he doesn't have to give a poor person money so's is this guy considered not only let's take it up a step in this chart right over here do we go down to a child does he become a borrower why does he become a borrower because if he could use the money he just borrowed money now if you're a borrower now you're for everything even even something that's not in your ability to stop you're the only time you're part with a is if you borrow a car and it dies while you're driving it but any other somebody breaks the window a kid smashes it whatever it is you're it dies while you're using it then you're my wife is still listening it's unbelievable first time unbelievable okay says the gamar um now I'm thrown off I can't I can't learn from the it's crazy she's never seen me learn before you know I learn at home by a glass so she watches she knows no talking but she could away once in a while that's what it is what you say about a she correct first time she's watching me give a [Music] she says since allow you to use the money that you found you didn't really find the money what did you find you found the animal but you sold the animal now you have cash you can use the cash until the guy picks up the cash he says oh I I can prove it it was my animal give me the cash so since you can use the money even though you don't use the money you become a borrower not sorry you're not permitted to use the money therefore therefore you're not okay so this is a freebie because we we have here two four six eight like almost 10 lines of just a lot of words very wordy it's almost like the gamar knew this is going to be a peric for small kids and just instead of saying a forword question like the always do and confuses us it goes out of its way and just repeats itself so let's do this slowly here we go or fast the words in the Mna when says since you cannot use the money therefore if it gets lost you're in responsibility that only fits if we're talking about if we're talking about a whether or not he's a the wording doesn't fit and here the gar explains if you say is whether or not this guy has to pay for a lost object or stolen object since you cannot use it therefore therefore you're not responsible and the continues I would think that he's why would think because says since he doesn't have to give a poor person money he turns into you hear how many words are going on here one long winded question now that I know that you cannot use it if you say that everybody ages like you just answered even everybody holds like everybody agre that and the whole is whether or not he's a and a there's a question is he a or not a if a for how do you say in English accident okay accident this must be a better way even for accidents so the word doesn't fit in this is how it should say it don't use it you can't use it so he's not a borrower if he's not a he's not he's not he's not responsible for it I don't know this this might be a record in ch one of the longest questions to explain a simple idea this is what it meant he even this don't be scared we already explained this this concept that what since say you're permitted to use the money the money is in a cup you didn't use the money but it's in this cup since you could use it then you become what that's why you're responsible we're talking about here which would infer you can infer from that that if it's an accident to O you're you tell me the is an accident you just so why does it mention the word of lost loss would seem that we're in a different category we're in the category of not accident is one step below if we're talking if thear mentions lost lost is where in the middle we should go down a step say child talk about say you're right we are talking about what does mean means this thing we have a you know what I'll show you the old one the original and special for tonight this is list held up a gunpoint which is an accident nothing you can do about it can't get out of it there must be a better word than accident um extenuating circumstances extenuating circum circumstance okay yeah that's uh not inadvertent unavoidable something you couldn't prevent no um too many words what do you the gamar now a lot of words huh a guy holding you up by by a gunpoint is an act of God or an act of a guy holding you up by gunpoint okay it's it's out of your control whatever it is says we're not talking about a typical gva that you had more control on it you could have closed your doors locked your car we're talking about a guy came and held you up and here's the new picture held you up a gun Point andu what's what's the case of getting lost his ship sunk there's two stories I can tell you the better one I can tell you the not I'll tell you the not nice one a guy comes to a rabbi and he says Rabbi literally is crying he says Rabbi my ship sunk so the rub says he pulls out his rub stuff and he says you know Hashem has a reason for everything Hashem has better plans for you it's going to work out for the best trust me I know somebody that his ship sunk and the next day nine months later he had a a golden this and he found this and it was much better for him and this he goes on his whole Spiel this that so the guy says thank you very much Rabbi because I was very worried about you in fact my ship is still there it's your ship that sunk and the rabbi faints and he comes to and he says it was easy for me to to give you moster and tell you how hasem loves you and Hashem has this great plan but you know when it came to me not so much that's that's the not so nice story there's a nicer one but we're in Baltimore now so whatever we're just going to go with that one now so says the the famous RAB Huda who re was R and his re was he says I heard from my re which is amazing usually over here that like you're retired now what if you find the money or you find an animal and you trade it in for cash you get to use the cash it's a massive it's not your animal but what are you supposed to do just look at the cash for 25 years sitting in your house you get to use it says theor story if that's the case could we infer from that to some to another case had in his hand he had money that was owned by the orphans so he asked the question in front of can I use this money that's really owned by the orphans I'm taking care listen they're not going to be our MIT for three years let me make some business I'll do some I'll make money and whatever what do you think he answered can we learn from this right here that we just learned again I found a cow I can't deal with it it's too much it's too expensive I sell the cow for $1,000 I take the $1,000 invest it in real estate I'm allowed to I have unfortunately I gave me $1,000 it's sitting in my shelf I could use it why not it's like the does anybody see the difference so say there's no difference look if you could use it when you find an object you use it from the assignment I'm was R's he says wait a minute you're wrong that's only when you trade a cow in you first deal with it you feed it and you realize it's not going to work out so you sell it nobody showed up to pick it up so you sell it and you take the cash now you have cash you going to use it and the reason is because you were very consumed with it and it hurt you took time out of your so you get to use the money what if you found a wallet full of cash did anybody give you a right to use the cash when you find the wallet full of cash no it's only when you trade a cow in for cash then you're allowed to oh is like finding a wallet of cash cash you don't have a right to use only cash that comes from a traded because it was a zil get out here says they're not allowing me to give you a okay there's a big here this giant I I saved you you don't have to do this all look how long it is giant I had a re he had a ruler something like this and he would measure tyus he says if T is longer than this we're not going to do it that was his thing this is like double that okay but ta says in the beginning that is like that somebody watches a lost item he has and all the in the bottom he brings another so what do he do so the says since we don't know so it's like any suff M but I just want to tell you a secret there's a very very cool when it comes to and that is anytime you have a suff m you don't know what to do with monetary uh dispute or so have to bring but this that says Kim what does that mean it means that if there's one cheetah somewhere that says like me I go like that cheah all I go like that you say I go like that and you prove otherwise so you can say oh I hold like or I hold like whatever if it's my you know where whatever side I'm on I can say like this like that the REM doesn't bring the Kim I'm just throwing it out there says the mishna sponsored by sharan's friend something about old baby at if you find a saer now in the time of the gar saer meant like what we have today saer they didn't have paper they had parchment and everything was handwritten if you find the saer very very valuable you must read from it every 30 days otherwise it's going to get moldy remaining daily remember there's a lot of am in those days if you don't know how to read oh I got to show you this picture hold on you know I'll show you this thing that I didn't I didn't have time to go through this so I wasn't sure if I should show it or not I'm just going to go through quickly because Yoshi spent a lot of time making it unfortunately here is a guy that watches like like if it's like this is a good one but according to everybody when you're not all to whatever okay okay if a guy finds far he finds a safer on the left he must read from it every 30 days and on top if you know my the new line the new mdy line is it's better to be a than a genius so it says on his on his hat on his y says he's okay so if you find Farm like this you have to read from them every 30 days you have to roll it up you have to unroll it like go through the wholeo every 30 days right just tell you story that canot happen with me in mdy this guy was smoing during right smoing smoing and then they said y whatever his name is for for kamishi and he didn't hear he's like busy talking and somebody's like hello you you got you got get up there so as he's walking by me I said hey say tire is really [Music] heavy so gets up there just made that up this morning never happen okay so you know when you go to the SM sometimes you open up a saer you open up a gar especially B you'll see is like really dark and you look at the rest of the saer it's like white nice brand new pages why because people learn that same page over and over so over if you're going to use somebody safer saer T like like those kinds don't you can't read it over and over you're going to ruin it it's very delicate the other big concern is so if it's your first time if it's your first time learning you can't you can't learn from it why because you're going to spend a lot of time understanding it and when you spend a lot of time understanding what's going to happen you're going to spit a little bit this this is going to drop you're going to spill water you're going to ruin a safer so you can't if you're G to go through quickly fine interesting that brings a that says when it comes to this is about because the first time you you you learn from it is very difficult or more difficult and then once you know it you just fly through it he says by gar it's different gar even after 100 times he says that's even a 100 times you still come up with and you're still trying to understand what's going on here and so you're working it and therefore there's no difference between the first time and the 20th time and the 100th time and therefore it's all the same and you could use it because that's how it's meant to be there's no going fast in if you found a garment now in the time of the gar garments again imagine a person weaving a garment from scratch it took many many days to make one garment it was thousands of dollars every garment that's why people only had one or two garments to begin with so they would ear it out they would do all sorts of funny things with it you found the Garment you're resp you're responsible for this thing it's in your in your house take care of it what do you do when you find the Garment you ear it out every 30 days and you put it out for the need of the Garment don't show off with it look what I got I got this Armani thing and you know people would admire you for that I just heard today I just saw a clip a like a moment I told to my friends here this guy the the podcast one of like meaningful people or something talks about uh finances and he says that he knows many people that cannot make their payments but nevertheless they have $300,000 cars and he says why why do people need $300,000 cars he says because literally today there like a a snippet to show you what this podcast is about I didn't see the any I just saw this one minute thing he said very good so people do that because they don't feel good about themselves so they want to boost their own ego in front of other people but he says think about it what are you doing you're poking their eyes out you're telling them I'm driving a Bentley and you're not so now they despise you you try to get their respect and instead they despise you for it so why would you get yourself into debt for that why do you need this stuff I was just thinking here I'm showing off this nice I can't even afford it but I'm there look it makes me you know go around with the the the 20 $330,000 purse to impress other people to poke other people's eyes out if you ever notice very very wealthy people never go with those fancy purses or anything they don't care the Bill Gates the Steve Jobs white T-shirt zel or whatever his name is from Facebook you know what I'm talking about anyway it's only the mediocre the medium wealthy people they need to show off and then buy the $50,000 purse okay says the I had a great joke about wives but I'm going to try to control myself in front of her I I'm just kidding I didn't have any jokes be careful when you find silver vessels and copper vessels so you're supposed to use it so it doesn't get rusted out or whatever but make sure you don't wear it out don't be means like you know rub it that you ruin is if you find golden vessels and glass vessels explain make sure he comes now I said this thing in in the Hebrew one I just realized afterwards it's a little bit of GA but you know I'll give people a reason to to believe that there's a problem a ga problem here because I was saying that I heard from a m once that don't spend a lot of time he's telling RAB don't spend a lot of time on the really really good kids in the class because they're going to do well anyway and the best you could do is you might ruin them let them just go but what you need to be very careful with is the kids that are weak in the class those are the kids that are like glass if you say the wrong word you break them and I I saw from the people I'm looking here in this room that told me my reab said I'm dumb so I'm really dumb I said no you're not dumb you're one of the smartest people I know but his re told him he's dumb that's it his head he's dumb or somebody came over to me today I think he's still in the room he said he hasn't learned and he I actually read his email and he he sent he gave me a video today here in here his rebi told him you'll never make it in gamarra so he never learned gamar for 30 years 20 30 years until he found this year he's here are you here today where are you here you are raise your hand true story M Shaya here he is so you got to be careful with these kids because you say one dumb statement like that and you break him like a piece of glass and for you I'm going to say I'm going to say it it's not g I'm saying it as the joke and I didn't realize in Hebrew and I read it again until MD y with Ellie stefansky comes it brings those broken glasses back not gu at all if a person finds a sack or a box my wife is she doesn't know where to bury herself why do you have to say these things you embarrass so embarrass you embarrassing no not at all okay if you're a super important person who doesn't take out the garbage because he so and you don't do these things so you find one of these boxes you slap a box in the middle the street everybody here in the room is fine with this we don't understand it but there are people with a lot of ego a big ego and they can't they can't carry certain things so you don't take it you don't have to return we have to put the pedal to the metal if you find in a Marketplace you could sell it immediately and you could wear the fill now I want to say this joke even though you might it's it's not a joke it's a story but my wife never heard it so I'm going to say for her there was an Arab who was trying to sell to a Jewish guy and the Jew said let me see the he takes out thein he says okay he puts on his he puts on the and he tells the Arab he says okay I got the left arm where's the right arm and the guy goes I don't know he says oh you're missing half the P you got to sell to me for 25 shek and that's what happened so if you find if you find filling you are a Jew and you're going to take care of it but you don't want to take you're allowed to sell it right away what if you find the safer supposed to read it every 30 days not that should get ruined if you don't know how to read you are supposed to wind it up unwind it let it ear out infers you should wind it unwind it doesn't say anywh that you're allowed to sell it how come now we're saying you allow to sell it there was AER by the name of he would sell you could find all day long it's very hard to find the safer Ty or safer happens to be that I wanted to buy a safer Tyra during Corona like right before and I set money aside I want to be M the Mitzvah by the way in our days it's not the biggest Mitzvah in the world is to write your own sa it might be it might be I'm just throwing it out there might be a bigger mitah to buy garas and give them out to people because since we all have SP today and we in those days they would learn from the it was a huge Mitzvah it's not as big as you think but I want to buy my own and this is not a hint for y CLI to buy me a present a gift of sa because I wanted to be the mitzah myself of writing Saar and I refus I don't want anybody to buy it from I want to write it myself I just telling you the story because I finally located a CER that I liked his writing and everything was perfect it worked out and he was about to finished the sa in a half a year and by the time he was done he already upped his price he d his price and he found two other clients all it's just very very difficult to write a sa much easier to find the PO in our day say that it's the opposite thatan it's hard to find something that you really like for and therefore theas are almost reversed but it reminds me of a story and all for the B all for the boss what was his name YF Jakob Herman something like that so he has a story there where his daughter has a story he really wanted this one story I think his name was R the best and he gave him money to to write F and one night he a guy a guy comes to him says he that he had a dream that his father came to him came to him in a dream and said listen I took money from rabie Herman I never wrote him his F go ask him so the son says I want to ask him but here's the this a little twist he says I'm never going to pay you I can't pay you I don't have the money to pay you and sorry I hope you're Mel my father so her said yeah Mel but the the the story goes on that one day a old man gave RAB Herman up here at fillan and rman wanteded to give it to this bck that didn't havein and he said but first give it to the guy to check it they checked the Fillin and it was parus he was the one that made the F and he he said he said AEM has a way of what comes around and he eventually got the for but there's something about getting nice perod filling okay one thing I remember from when I was younger when my miss my parents didn't have money but my father went out of his way and he he saved money and it was the whole thing that he get me the best Cipher the best filling he wanted to show me the importance of not just buying the cheapest out there the opposite getting the most expensive possible if you borrow a from your friend right it happened during Corona we all had tires in the backyards and everything you Bor you're not allow to lend it to anybody else you're allow to open it and read from it don't be the if you if this is the first time you're learning from it don't learn like that like we explained before because you're going to ruin it don't let two people read from it together because one is going to pull this way and the guy is going to pull that way interesting the kri says why do you shake you ever noticed this shake during ding why did it shake the way he explains some people say the bread from the fire he says because people used to learn 10 people from One sa and they all they would all like move around to look over the other guy and they was constantly moving to see see what's going on in and that's why it became like a habit maybe even a bad habit who knows fine says the if you ask your friend to watch you don't tell him he's not borrowing from you you're he's doing you a favor he's watching it for you that person is responsible for it so should unwind it every 12 months he opens it and he reads from it if he opened it up for himself also he's not allowed to read from it it's a contradiction seems like says you're allowed to read from it then says you're not allowed to read from it if it's brand new you get every 30 days you have to open it 12 months it doesn't matter if it's New or Old you open it up every 12 months says if you borrow a from your friend don't lend it to somebody else ask why are you telling me a something that's very delicate tell me something that has a little bit more whatever to it a anything anything that you borrow from your friend you're not all to give it to somebody else if you borrow something you're not permitted to lend it to somebody else if you rent a car from somebody you're not allow to give it to your friend to drive here's a brand new 3D animation and my my dream is to really have more of these per da but more of these means more cash guy like this our we have this guy works for us full-time it's like $70,000 a year I hope it's worth it I'm hoping that for these kind of things he's really going to but here here's the piece for today enjoy this is a person borrowing something and he after he borrows it he lends it to somebody else we had to cut it short he wasn't finished but I said hey I got a Shear going send it as is so here it is it's without sound yet tomorrow is gon to have sound [Laughter] yes okay that's it you see a little bit a little bit of humor in middle of a su doesn't hurt and BM one day I was inspired by Fel he's the one that that did this 3D animation pre bakama and I said you know what if he did it I got to jump into it and I hire that guy and but sometimes it helps the Su some just humorous but we'll be able to combine the two B every day we'll have at least one piece that's the goal so the point is in that case it's also for you if you borrowed a car from a a bentle you're not allow to lend it to somebody else so why does the M have to talk about if you buy of course you're not all to lend it to somebody else say I would think you know the if you go into SCH and you see in the sh and you didn't wear you're allowed to use the guy's without asking permission why because the guy the owner of the would want you to wear his he wants a mitah to be done with his what about a safer usually yes as long as you're careful not to you know wrinkle the papers whatever there's certain exceptions to the rule of course a little you're allowed to unless it's a lot of people they're going to ruin the little EST unless you're using a lot we had a guy in every single day would come into where somebody's fill and the guy actually the owner of the Fain was not happy he said one or two times but every single day for months get your own dilling so you have to know but there is such a concept I want a mitvah to be done with my let me ask you your b side let me ask you a question I'm looking for answers think about this could I use your umbrella thinking hey I'm going to use your umbrella you probably want a Mitzvah done with your umbrella don't you here it dosn't I want Mitzvah done with my stuff can I use your umbrella without permission yes or no no no why what's the difference huh beautiful beautiful that's the answer a lot of you saying that I want azv I want a which is a Mitzvah to be used for by somebody else as a Mitzvah I don't want my car thank you very much to be used without permission because oh you're going to be me in a Mitzvah of no thank you my car is not a Mitzvah don't do favors don't do me any favors by being make giving me okay it's obvious answer but not that obvious says you allow to open the and read from it says why did I borrow you if I can't read from it obviously I borrowed it to read from it right end that do not learn that for the very first time because when you learn something for the very first time it takes more time you're going to spit at it you're going to do all sorts of things and ruin it when you what are we already oh it's an hour but we have no choice we keep we have to keep on going it's going to be a little bit over an hour NOP what are you gonna do what have a wonderful no what time is it in Baltimore right now oh so it's 4:26 for me and my wife and vior no one not in a great mood in the morning it's 4 something in the morning it doesn't happen automatically you just go to another country know it's not 4:00 it is four o00 for us okay says real quick so we'll go to the two dos not these two dots the fourth two dots from here if a guy tells you to watch what right do you have to use his object he told you to watch it he didn't tell you to use it and another question it says that if you open up the for your own self you're not all to read from it you said specifically you open it up and read from it what I me if when he unrolls it to ear it out and all of a you see oh look there's a beautiful pu here then you allow to read from it but if you open it up specifically to learn from it that's AES let's see this okay so here's let's just I'll show this to you skip what does say [Music] says brand new every 30 days you have to open it you see on the left side if it's brand new it's 30 days if it's old it's 12 months does anybody see a problem with the two right columns the right column and the middle column Tama says it basically says the same exact thing over and over right T says if it's brand new 12 months if it's old 12 months says brand new 12 months old 12 months there's absolutely no difference between t and that's what the is gonna ask now both new and old is 12 months they saying the exact same thing as T let's see see these these four boxes are identical take a look at the chart is GNA change now from 12 months to 30 days so now there's a big difference T says old and new every 12 months you have to open it up says old and new every 30 days and makes a compromise if it's new it's 30 days if it's old it's 12 months have a wonderful full day