Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 114 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good [Music] morning live from my kosher hotel in can the Italian eles unbelievable the that we saw today so yesterday we had with us this of a guest is one of one of the most emotional guests that we ever had I think we're all um very M that grew up here in the elves you can imagine the elves not a lot of not a lot of noes no and he grew up about 40 minutes from here and uh he slowly he uh got a moment of Tru what he said and he went right away to look for and he found the shear and the most of his that he has today is through the shear he's been doing the D with us for four years his name is yanan and he came he brought gifts uh jewelry for our wives because he I think what he does for a living He um mines he mines yeah different gems and stuff out of the preure stones from the El was unbelievable so just to see him here and to see him gav and to say the whole thing was was unbelievable to see um not too many emails although I did receive a lot of emails but didn't have a lot of time to go through them please do not say my name I want to show you something my second great son made for me for Father's Day this is how you have changed my life my son knows I learn other things from the special program program CP very beautiful I'm not familiar with that however he doesn't know if those things will I don't know what it says he does right after bedtime doing the da so this is how you and your Shear have changed our lives it says on the bottom uh after I go to bed my dad learns the Beautiful all right so rabai special uh guest Shear today a special area yesterday we started off to share with some I received a number of emails today that I've seen um I want to say four or five different messages saying that they appreciate the fact that I shared some of the apps with so today in middle of the Year towards the end of The Da we're going to the I'm going to show some of the elps and um hopefully you could hear me a little bit better than you heard yesterday if not I'll just repeat it so just want to start off the she asking a question there might be some confusion here is there t for a dead go a dead ID worshiper is like a Jewish corse so we're going to see in the Su today that perhaps there's T oil so in other words a cemetery would be but not t in fact there's we don't pass we said that even T much oil is by a the question is when a person AA doesn't have that much money do you go into his house and make a arangements and say okay this he needs and this he doesn't need he won't need this next year he will this you could give off to the Mal or we just go in there and take everything and we don't care so much about the LI what's the question so not to ignore what we discussed yesterday because we did discuss this the is now going through it is a lotion of being poor and doesn't say the word but the says it's close enough excuse me so is a very important part of this we discussed yesterday all the way at the end two lines from the bottom says it's about what the person could afford that's how we decide the so do we do something like that do we decide how much a person should pay based on what he could afford or when a person is a and he owes money we don't really care about what he could afford we just take everything we get out we could get our hands up so sent in a letter nobody was able to answer this was the question yesterday we discussed about a person who does everything so we have to see if he has doesn't have today we're discussing it's not so much but a person promises to give nothing to do with just to the upkeep of the and he doesn't have the money do we go and we decide what he could afford or not perhaps we could say we said that when owes money so if he gives a Mas he gives collateral he gives the collateral just in case he doesn't have later on so B says you know what you have a car give the car meanwhile give your pajamas give your pillow so when the Night Comes you must give it to him during the day if he gave you his plow he give it back to yet a over here we see this idea of a this is what we want to prove whether or not we go we we we care what he could afford not over here he said we don't care what gives back the Mas you have to give the the Mas in other words you make with the treat him nicely nevertheless you're very say no we don't care about how much is left when it comes to in other words has a it's interesting case you promised money to the B you didn't have so the giz in your house grabs your card or something it grabs your pajamas when night time comes you don't have to return the pajamas you don't have to return the plow you don't you don't give back the the the certainly should be M and we shouldn't make any Arrangements we don't care what you have what you don't have we just take it all it says in the and also says so we're make between a and just promising random money to versus which is a set amount said 50 shek if you're between the age of 20 and Etc that's what says in the so why do we have these two words together just like when it comes to we care what the guy could afford so two [Music] says now why does the if you hold a mass so why does the put the word next what does that mean so for this we'll see beautiful the reason why the two words are together is to say tell us this person says I want to give the value of my heart how much is that your entire body my brain or my liver those are things that without a person cannot survive so when a person says I want to give my liver to means his entire value this we see from just like that's the only thing that we learn now the something that we don't learn says if a person says let's say my hand my value of my hand it's not a person doesn't die without a hand we see what the value is in the marketpl how much is he worth with and without okay that learning NE from that when you say the head of a person means his whole body has to do with comes to and a person says I want to give the value of so and so's hand how much does he have to give a big zero why don't you do a why don't you be consider how much based you don't have to give back the but we do the reverse we said before back his for that you're right is beautiful the problem is that the Tor says not like that there's a mute in the the word who comes to exclude of so who's this we do we consider what the has doesn't have how do I know since the says if the Loa dies then you do not give back the pajamas to the kids that inherited everything else in other words to the L you do consider how much money he has you do give back pajamas you do give back the plow etc etc or you don't take it from him to begin so what does he do with his beautiful that in order to be considered to be considerate how much he has this he has to be poor from the moment he gave the Mas until the moment that the person the K doing this seedor is involved but let's say he was wealthy in between he doesn't get a has to be poor from beginning to end even not having a moment of wealth in between as Ines they should give back the Pama at night to the person that promised to [Music] the if we say which you don't do you do give back you consider how much money the guy has and he doesn't have when it comes to certainly should give back the he should sleep with his pajama and then he'll give you a bro you know that ginski said that his bras are more powerful than's bras why you remember this one because every year would tellin you should year and he'll sleep with the pajamas and he'll give you a wait a minute who owns he doesn't need your bless him doesn't apply to and that's why you don't get the Mas so you see we bench and we eat we eat and we and we we say sheate ourselves and then we we bless we make a does like our very interesting that there was a rebba and r they sat at a table at a wedding and the rash didn't want the Reb to be uncomfortable so he started conversation with him he said you know why do we sit by Bening so said that he thinks the is because it says and the word of could be this is very uncomfortable you see it's not so P to say like this because he says means sit now so sha starts laughing he says like where do you hear this from she said I heard this from Albert he said I knew it Mo Albert Albert is uh seems like it's like a maybe a conservative Rabbi or something says yeah yeah and he pulls out a little don't so quickly at least that's the have a different story it says the famous if you give back the pajamas at night in the plow during the day you will have be considered to you that's only to a human being who requires poor human not all human beings need therefore we you don't get the Mas says the beautiful story and for this beautiful story go to the video tape let me go to the video tape first show you this this is when we showed it yesterday let to see again this is you're making a to see the pamas the whole thing and now hold on here it comes this is just the she with the I didn't get the emails yet the ones that are not happy that I go to the AL like why do why I have to do this and now my kids are going to want to go to the house a youas or it's not it's not fora for my to go and why are you wearing a blue shirt I never wore a blue shirt but now but it's been his man style but here it goes that's snow snow on top of the mountains beautiful green ah the flow thousands of feet up in there even on vacation we have to learn P there's no stopping the do and here we go we have a beautiful story sitting inside a non Jewish cemetery Cemetery of idol worshippers this that we're talking about do we assess all the belongings of Thea and give them to the yes we do like we said before that we go and we base it upon the person's belongings the two before okay now we're going to go here let's see if we can hear anything here here if not I'll just repeat it words how do you know that a person that take okay we'll skip this so let's see hold on say like this that was your Earp pods didn't work that trick one sponsor base yeah what are the sponsors kidovations LLC and what else well CL troll oh hadalo no I forgot her name completely anybody she's out of the she's out of the ICU but she needs a lot ofas she gave member's wife who had uh something wrong going on at the birth okay she should have her talking he asks how do we know once you he Leo let me ask you another question person that's giving from some being how do you know that he can't do it when he's not clothed shouldn't be seen by you another question what about the fact that you are known to be I think it's in a minute no let's see so if you're and how you sitting in the what you never learned the of the oh here we go this is it enjoy this is gorgeous M list the video the pictures they don't do any justice at all but it's a little bit of a taste here we go this WR one beautiful but it's good cuz I said over there a it's perfect in the English one I made a mistake I was reading off the phone it's a I correct myself after 10 seconds but I don't want it to be a mistake ID wor why because it says you have to be an men know is not a men so tells what you learn you don't know says that Idol worshiper is not that's why I'm sitting in the basic for that way he have to understand why why would he stand in the basic parts why would he do oh and we actually have a gal good picture let me see to get it first of all it says the word in the famous and now let me see no I have to get two oh here this is to show that says in a non Jewish in an idol worshiper Cemetery you allow to learn so this is the famous story with mental B m b that they wanted to convict him of murder for blood Lial they the go said that he killed a non-jewish child for the blood and and uh one of the things they said in the court case is so the judge looks at the the lawyer of mendal and says look you you don't consider us human so ra Shapiro told the lawyer to say that we're a them we're considered one oh that's for the kids we we are considered one as a nation meaning look people from all over the world are coming to mle bis's case and they they're trying to convince you where do you have that the people from around the world would care about a single indiv we're one we're one nation one people I could barely learn four you want me to learn four of six you want me learn so says rash first of all what are the four why the learns [Music] why when you learn a carbon that's why it's a good idea toas we learned that a guy came over to me at the the shat and told me that because I said this in she once he's very M with to sayb since that very day why because it's that's where we get it from I couldn't learn I could barely learn four you want me to learn six I didn't know this one so T says a beautiful thing because you probably you're po so many people in our generation that learned all six and know all six how is it possible that RAB didn't know talking about of course he learned but and as say tell me the reason why he didn't learn also I have very rough time with says I want you to take off your jacket so took off his jacket take from these leaves these G leaves the mar says that it's not stom leaves he took from the the dry leaves from the ground because the actual leaves would have been way too much and was leaving who's using up this in this world like over here once again you see this he saw see it all over that doing a and taking things that are not from this world doing different things takes away says that knew that he was going to drop the leaves and he wanted him after for to have this SM so that he can get he dro the leaves he told him to take the leaves of still because he knew he was G to drop them very good um what other that I see here hold on I had something little he knew oh so I don't know maybe maybe saying something similar that what he saw was why did he drop it maybe a different chot that why did he drop it because that to be to learn oh and that why did he give it up also why did he give up the 12,000 dinner that is about to Happ we'll see in a second let me let me just get even though when he brought when he brought his His Garment it absorbed some of the beautiful smell from G he sold it for 12,000 and he distributed to his son-in-laws not to his son because that would be literally giving like a yusha giving like as if he had he gave it to son-in-laws no second class citizens you know how the son-in-laws are not to a complete stranger but a son-in-law you the son-in-law both of you you have daughter-in-law okay so second class citiz A lot of people think I but you are son-in-laws right so so the the I forgot who says it but it was aat like this that when heed that being wealthy his to is not going to have the same kind of effect as learning out of learning out of brings the level of his to to that much that much higher and we said you know what I don't want that I don't want to be wealthy I want to go back to where I was before take the money now here's a question I bet you you don't know this even though you heard the share before who was RAB Bar's sonin so we know one at least it says son-in-law I'll tell you who his daughter is once I tell you his daughter maybe was the famous y y BR broke 400 barrels of who was maybe mayor Maybe very good very good memor is unbelievable now I hope somebody text you you get them text tomorrow no I'm thinking about my friend that loves surfing he's gonna have a party with you tonight thank you thank you Rabbi hagal for keeping these guys in check that's all I can say because we were hiking said he wrote me this and he said this beautiful very to the point on [Music] point every word that's ever been said it's a beautiful thing I'll say I'll say this my our very our very good friend do Farish from Australia he uh sent us a very nice gift here to the hotel I'm not and please please B don't send [Laughter] no we got jewelry for the women we got wine for all the meals please I'll tell you what you could get to the another guy from B get a guy from yeah oh you know it is a good it's to mention again that Bas this coming week Monday and Tuesday Monday in Manchester Tuesday in London please join us I think man is like 20o and London is free just come we're going to be doing a c in both places mdc.com md.com local local okay and uh I don't if somebody tries to pay me to say something about a certain business I usually don't say anything and I wasn't asked to say and I definitely wasn't paid to say so I will say then I will say that we are enjoying ourselves very much in this hotel my koser hotel I think it's a very very nice place and the food is excellent M excellent so if you you're in America you think of doing a really beautiful Alp kind of vacation uh they have the scheme during the winter and and then just gorgeous um hikes and everything M 5 minutes away you could see unbelievable in place it's a beautiful very very affordable actually so if anybody wants to know more details you know about we did a tour ideal tour do that they'll take you from the airport M everything that you need good place but B he didn't ask me to say anything and because if he did I wouldn't say if the uh the person is not wealthy he's poor you're not let to use His Garment that he sleeps with how's that possible but if he's wealthy you could sleep with it you could use it because it's a very big problem if you have collateral for loan you're not allow to use it because if you use it that would beib rib what are you talking about it's awesome to use the even healthy doesn't mean you could use it you're not to have it in your house you have to get rid of it you have to give it back he's wealthy you're allowed to keep it so it seems like a contr if you lend money to your friend you're not allowed to take and then it [Music] says you don't have to give it back this is very problematic on all the let me see if I have it here first of all let me just show you this before I forget you know she did work hard on these things that there was a great smell in the actual Garment of RAB okay now let me find the other one these are long and I didn't show them but that's okay okay so here we go here's the three says my what's going on it seems like a contradiction it says don't take it and if you take it you don't have to give it back and you to take go into his house and take coll but if you do when you have to give it back to at night if taking or something give back night all these three is if you don't give it back is trying to explain the word an how does that work fit in there we're not going to ignore the word ano says not we said is you're not all to take a not in other words when the guy the do you have to pay back and he doesn't have money then you cannot take if you do you have to you have to give it back to man at the time of the you could do whatever you want and even though the r says not like that doesn't bring the ra it's not in other words at the time of I could take a from I could take the pillow I could do whatever I want from any person it's only the whole discussion is not so you took it when the Lo when the loan is due took it at the time the to give it back what is it talking about when it says that when you took a when when the loan was already due then you're over all these three it's a little confusing means until the sun goes down meaning in other words during the day you have to give back during the day what are you giving back during the day doesn't make any sense during the day you have to give back pajamas no you should give back pajamas during the night will ask that question the sun is already down you should give back the you should give back at night time you should give back a day garment oh so here let me see if we can get to it because I don't have my my typical system that because I'm on the road so I have to scroll through every single oh o jumped off let me just get over here okay so this would be a like something that you use during the day at night during the day use a car I don't know why car fine at night time you give it back to him I just like that's in his bedroom so why would a guy need a daytime garment at night would why does he need a night time garment and the day that's what tells says you want me toas it get rid of this it really doesn't make sense right I asked you a question just get you thinking but I'll explain to you we're not talking about the Garment the type of garment that you wear we thought we're talking about Pama in the daytime and a nice suit at the night time in other words give back a daytime garment at night or give back a nighttime garment the pajama during the day no we're not talking about the type of garment we're talking about the time of the day in other words you're allowed to take it at night taking at night when the Sun goes down you're when are you allow to take the pajama during the daytime when you allow to take the suit during the night time have a wonderful day for