Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 112 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning live from the Italian Alps the doit Mel to my very dear and Kami for convincing me to come here so we had quite the journey not complaining it was Val good day it was actually a very good day very exhausting we left there to strw 2 in the morning got a taxi 2 in the morning went to the airport uh arrived in Italy what time did it get here like 8 8:30 p.m. yeah 8 no 8:30 in the morning and then we only got to the hotel at about 8:00 or it's troll time so and then here we are it's what 1:00 in the morning n what time is it in N 12:20 12:20 ND and here we are giving a Shear that was prepared just for you on the bus and on the plane it's galic you know why because the da never stops even when you're on vacation we do the da going to jump into the sponsors and then a short video and we're going to go into the da today we're starting from B today the sponsor by Anonymous for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages ination my cousin and here that I share a little bit of the uh the trip so here's one tiny piece here you go [Music] so they were holding on four lines from the bottom first of all I do want to say another thank you to yakob sitron for jumping the the minute I asked him to come video and do that thing with G um the video him again and uh B we are going to Manchester us three a no I'm myself and our wives we're going to Manchester on Monday and London on Tuesday and look up md.com for your local SE this the very first time in Belgium there's going to be one Ines one for the Hebrew one for the English I'm sure there's going to be New York M Etc so there's a question that the asks is one all risk his life for perasa is one be a hunter going to the African jungle and Hunt lion or whatever knowing that he might lose his life the masim and the question is yeah we us three were at that place also we did that was the other trip we did together without the wives brings from our that it's like this that so let's do a slight review here here's the chart that we did for yesterday we're focusing now on is of the opinion that is the to pay your employee on time is we said there five a five La depends night day Etc says that if you hire an animal you're also but only on one of a guy who accepts upon all the says the MRE to now learned from the of the night which is so says what does he do with this since he's not he says you're noten so what do you do with what does he do if you hired a person to take down one cluster of grapes I would have that's not really working for somebody to do such a small job Kash even though it only took him 32 seconds you have to pay him immediately afterwards you have up until the night to pay uses up this to teach us that what how does he learn that you're to pay an employee even if he only works for five minutes person gives his soul for his perosa so anytime you give your soul for perosa you what you have to be careful with that person why do this guy go up a high tree and risk his life why did he go up a dangerous ramp he could have died for this he did for his parosa voice and here we have a video of somebody who risked his life it's okay I I'll let you know what's going on here's a guy risking his life climbing up a very very tall tree and he's about to do something very risky little dizzy this video now if he was on the bottom of the tree that would be very dangerous top of the okay but many people look it up many people have died climbing up these trees during the when they uh reap the the dates they harvest the dates a lot of people die falling off the palm trees it's very dangerous occupation and of course we have this one from roshi give okay so if a person gives his life for anasa then you have to be very careful to pay him on time person who doesn't pay his employee on time all three of us have employees so we have to be careful was from there right yeah then comes then come I've said it over here take your from a person is you killing him no the you asked in the beginning whether you're so the says you see from this G that it's okay it seems like it's okay to risk your life for par he gives up his soul and then some want to take the and take that idea and say okay is it permitted to jump out of a plane and Skydive and what are the risks and look you're not all to kill yourself in penos you allow to put yourself in danger so maybe you got to put yourself in in a dangerous situation for fun or whatever you're saying it's not no it says like says specific says for his can't say can't do it for fun okay I'll tell you who the guys are well not the guys the the and you'll um right then says that over here the word if you take the the end of each letter Shin the the last letter of shin is a n the last letter of is a p and the last letter of is a shin and that's equals that's his little who's dying over there the one that was robbed or the robber you go both ways the one that was robbed doesn't have pronos he dies from Pain the guy that robbed will kill him so to speak because he did such a terrible thing stealing from the PO you should not steal from the poor because he's poor don't push down the the the poor and it says right afterwards the next will fight their fight for them and Rob Rob their lives from them so you see takes away the soul of the robber this is the way of a person who commits who who who steals he's taking the soul of the one that was robbed it's not the robber that's losing his life the one that was robbed is losing his life is talking about the one that was robbed not the robber but all of the says rash after the he become now he's the owner in other words the gazl the person Rob right now who's in who's in command who's in charge of this the he does says will take the the soul of that person that robbed what he's going to do it's not theile the why is Revenge the the because they took somebody's only of pain time is only when the employee demands payment maybe even if he didn't demand when you know about it and you don't pay then you're over it's very very interesting to note that when it comes to and our relation with is very similar we have to ask for things and then gives we have to be we have to say say please help me out in this and this and thenm listens perhaps if you don't maybe W what if the employee employer doesn't have what to pay with that you have J say listen to this one I don't know if you heard this there was a guy who went to very famous doctor have his check up I'm really laughing so funny and the guy checked him out say okay he's done he says okay $1,000 please the guy says I don't have a th000 she says okay so 500 no I don't have 500 how about 200 no so why do you come to me go go to the Medicaid doctor whatever why you come to me he said because my my mother always told me that when it comes to medicine should never be you don't try to save money when it comes to Medicine I knew I knew you like it me a second I knew you'd like it I have guys like you in the Hebrew sh don't worry used to it it's a good one yeah reminds you your mother no is okay where are you in a regular day have to rely on other people this is gonna be a lot of fun we're almost done good [Music] um oh I bet you don't know where I'm holding so we already discussed this that the employer could tell the employee listen I don't have the money right now go to the store down the block eat drink and I'll pay that guy I'll deal with that guy and if you agree to that then you go to the other guy so how do you know you're not o if you put somebody else in charge of paying the salary comes to exclude this case of now once we're discussing once the B the employer says go down the block and the guy goes down the block and the guy is not playing ball he's not giving him the money so he wants to come back to his employer can he come back to the employer the employer says listen you agreed to go there that's it I'm done with you or perhaps no I only agree because that guy's going to take care of me he didn't take care of me I'm coming back to you what can you go back can you go he's in a GRE can you go back not bad can you go back I want to see if you remember this in a year from now okay you remember to ask me answer is you remember okay I'm asking says you could take it back you could go back to your employer can you go back yes you could go back the says seems like you could in other words you're not the guy the employee can go back to the employer and the is off the hook then only oh the why not once you go back I didn't even know if the is even on the hook this is a deal between the employer and employee is out of it can go go ask the employer for for money he's not in the he's not in the par so to speak he's not in there at all once you're not over he can never come back to you okay so we took it for granted I said you go to the barber you Mitzvah of paying the barber say you hear what's going on here the ha my entire life I played the hair right bar the hair the hair he's on a rooll yeah he's on a roll the hair listen to this the hair my entire life I paid people biso like all of us do you take your haircut you don't have a choice to give the guy money but now we have a choice to think about it in our head and say hey I am giving you this money not that I'll do it I'll probably free it now I'm giving you this money because not like we just we gave the tips in advance now we're not how do you you don't it's automatic always only oh there you go oh to wake up it's Europe over here you get arrested for leaving on a light so they all go even in the hallways all the lights are off you have to step into the hallway so you could just by putting a switch getting used to this as you pay somebody after they do something for you a cleaner a a builder a contractor he a c so you give him the money and you say okay I'm wow thank you at least somebody is appreciative 25 cents per share give truth is I have to pay you otherwise I'll be sitting here by myself that way had that child do you work for me I work for you we can't choose and this we both don't work for each other CU we don't have but you have a choice not to come at 12:00 at night that's true 1:00 in the morning [Music] say goes a beautiful when a person how do you say Kavin in English I'm losing my words contractor a yeah you contract somebody to do something let's say to sew to make you a custom suit so how do we view it at you give the fabric and he he he designs the suit for you he he sells the suit for you so when he sells it you can say that he buys a part of the suit it becomes his 10% becomes his when you pay him then he releases the loan if you view it like that then he's not an employee then he just lend you his time which equals the suit or we could say no you give him money at the end of his job and you're paying him for his work and then he he's an employee or so do we view it as a loone why because he buys into that suit the CLE and therefore it's a loone he has he's not an owner of the object at all then he's just a regular employee and therefore you are and you are the answer is he's is not he doesn't buy into the B and therefore what about the fact that we said he's not talking about a special case where he said go down the block go to buy stuff from him in that case the employer is not say gave your fabric to a professional to S you something and he finished it and he notified you you you're not over but if he gave you the he didn't not he gave it to you 12:00 in the afternoon from 12 until comes or here it's like you that you don't buy in that the contractor doesn't buy into the CLE imagine a guy start builds your house doesn't renovation your house so according to this sh one you say that he buys he has he owns a part of your house until you pay him up he owns the walls he owns the whole renovation the whole part of the house so you see from here that if that was the case then you wouldn't be over over here it says once nightfalls you see that he the is [Music] not we're talking about this right over here where he pulls the nap out of the fabric and what's happening is you're actually weakening the fabric and if you weaken the fabric there's nothing for him to buy into he doesn't get a piece of something that he's ruining as the wait a minute why did he hire him to soften it but that makes the fabric better some people like s so he does buy into it happen was he hired him to do this to step on the it's the process before the gr the and over here you're strengthening the bed but I only hired you to step on it and you're getting paid per step every time you step on it I give you one m m not a man m m is 100 and therefore I don't buy into it because I'm not getting money for enhancing the fabric I'm getting money for stepping on the fabric talking about stepping on the fabric there's the guy goes to the what is it called the the guy that that straightened your back chiropractor chiropractor so you go to chiropractor the guy goes he gives him two wax on on one on his on a shoulder blade and it goes back into position so that that would be $300 $300 is just you just zets me in my my shoulder blade he said yeah I zet in the shoulder blade but it took me three years to learn where and how to zets it's not the zest everybody you could zest but you have to know where so this guy he knows how to step on it okay fine sponsored by kov LLC our favorite sponsor no that's that's over and done with we gave him a shout out yesterday but we have to remember tomorrow they give a little bit of the shear somewhere in the Mish with the background the whole thing no do a few even a few lines and then we'll just upload that yeah by like a waterfall every waterfall another five lines no they'll say it's fake though [Music] so we said Top Line This is a very interesting typically speaking a person swears that he doesn't owe money okay he doesn't owe money I swear I don't owe you more than what I said but over here you're saying that the employee he swears makes a and he demands the the the salary from the employer that's very interesting why does it work like that in fact we'll see that should be the opposite did which is a tremendous we learned tremendous you're right what do you mean they're great that means that there smaller ones we learned where uprooted that says in theah theah says say should be made by the employ employer and said you employer don't make the the employee will make the why so that he has a [Music] it's very nice to give somebody but not on somebody else's why should the employer pay for your par you don't deserve [Music] it because the himself loves it why he wants people to work for he wants to he wants it easy to find employees it's very hard to find employees it's not a good Market out there even today so when the employee feels comfortable all that have to do is make a and I get paid that's good for the employee it's good for the employer not true it's better for him that the employer should make the why he wants to get hired he doesn't want a name out there that he constantly goes over to the employer and says hey you didn't pay me and he takes money people find out about the stuff very fast and you're never going to get a job again is forced to hire him therefore it's better for the B that the employee should make the says for the same reason that the B needs to hire people he doesn't want nobody really wants to work you're forced to work you want to make is very busy with his workers let me show you what it looks like picture when you have a lot of employees and they're all screaming they all want to get paid So eventually you forget you could occasionally forget who you paid and who you didn't pay that's why we trust the employee so we have to remember what's the that the took the away from the Bal and gave it to the employee because the boss is too busy to keep track of everybody paid and it's very common that he would forget it naely if he's so concerned that he's he doesn't know what's flying so let them employee just go ahead and make a without a you should just demand it and get paid which is very interesting so T says because it's more like a bar the employee is a b and the and the the employer even if he says I paid you is more like a sh he doesn't really know we know that he doesn't really know and that's why I had a hav mean maybe he should give the money without having a from the employee you're right it should have been like that but we have to calm the the employer down and say look he worked for his money made a it's not easy to make that's what you're paying says but I have a better let's get rid of all the nobody likes let him every time somebody pays an employee should be in front of a [Music] says it's very very difficult so once I was in a store paid the guy and uh the guy said hey you didn't pay me I'm like I did no you didn't pay said you don't remember he gave you 100 no said so we went to the camera he looked at the camera says oh I was just so involved thought I was taking cash from this and that I forgot I apologize he apologize profusely and let me loose so today you have Mish aen everywhere you go you have cameras in every building everywhere but nevertheless we don't force it to do it because it's difficult [Music] says have a better idea pay your employees in the beginning of the day instead of at the end of the day says it's not good for the employer it's not good for the employee the employer sometimes doesn't have the money in the beginning of the day so he rather pay at the end of the day the employee doesn't want to run around with money all day long what if it falls out of his pocket and he loses it so therefore it's not a good to you should give the money before the day begins says if you're telling me that this is the reason why that the he's very busy with all [Music] workers so then in the case of when the fight is over how much was discussed to get paid when the contractor the guy that's sewing your fabric sewing your suit he says I we we discussed two and the other one says no we discussed one let him and take in other words we're saying that he doesn't know what's flying occasionally he has too many people around and he forgets so maybe maybe there should be a and you should take says the what was your question yeah I didn't understand you're going to remember the prices that you set you're just not going to remember if you paid or not but the original prices that you said you remember which is what you're not going to remember you're going to know what you said the originally so that's basically what when we make up a price that I remember what we made up whether I paid you now with the all the confusion and all the people sticking out their hand things are coming back and forth that I could hear that a person forgets but that we decided how much money is going to be paid per hour for for the job that I remember how much I pay hourly is more said it's more Global it's more yeah given so then how come this of swearing and taking the money is only said during that period of time 12 hours so let's say he worked let's say he worked the whole night into a little bit of the day so you have the whole day to get paid and to make the why can't I make sh three days later if the idea is that the employer forgot what's going on so he he forgot so three days later he also forgot says we learned in the just yesterday that once the the time goes by you don't make no the reason why you can't make take money is because Dy does have a interesting once it comes to we know that he's not gonna you're not GNA get past that point on the other hand he's T he said that's that's before the time ofes once the that period of time comes he comes down everything slows down then he remembers what happened doesn't work we said a record perhaps 30 maybe I'm not sure have a wonderful day B London on Monday uh man on Monday London on Tuesday back on Wednesday we'll see you then