Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 11 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] go morning it's [Music] almost reminding the to make a today and welcome all the what's your name Ellie Gold Ellie goldi and youer B laser b bow does guest today are only from England I believe what's your name you're not from England where you from you from Arizona M when how Rec 10 weeks ago wow welcome welcome that's a lot of guts in the middle of the war the hold from madreo you're from England right what's your name and I saw somebody else maybe from England what's your name also from England all right and all the other guests AR schider also from England rabai at England this is how they do it this is the grossness next to him following the she L this week both of them learning that I don't know if we ever had two people sitting next to each other learning different parts of this year huh speeches ah it's during the speeches at the said this is going around uh on those groups on those status groups they spotted somebody in liquid on a motorcycles G to do the da and this is during the Hebrew she just want to show you how it's done over [Music] [Laughter] there I like it but I need sound if no sound I I could this is all sound for the Americans also okay good okay good so we're going to jump into the shear but before we go into the shear I'm going to do something very [Music] uncomfortable next oh I'm going to come out of my comfort zone boight and it's a huge huge announcement very exciting stuff mdy the goal of mdy is to bring more people to tyy one person at a time another person you here Donnie this is big stuff here mdy it used to be for $100,000 $200,000 we went through a whole year now it's creeping up to almost $2 million a year over over one and a half probably close to $2 million this coming year M and I'll tell you what we have the K we have 12 people on salary garus all these campaigns we have and now we have the Israeli she which we have over 2,000 people we have I would love first of all to see more artists if imagine we had two Yoshis two guys making chalant animations famous more guys in the COO MD kids that that alone is like almost $60,000 soai announcing the very very first fundraiser basically for mdy we would like to raise $15 million to push Tyra to get more and more people to learn Tyra if we have extra funds we would get more people we have a better Shear so in the next few weeks we're going to go out we're going to come out with the campaign and basically in involves you've seen these campaigns it's lowlevel pressure it's a lot of small monies $54 from this guy $100 from that guy we also would like to figure out and identify the larger donors those who could give five digits Etc and we need the to participate we need people to take upon themselves to be ambassadors to take upon themselves Pages basically you've seen it I get from Donnie every week about three of these so it's not a big deal another one you send it out on your WhatsApp most people throw it into the trash some people respond and that's how it goes I know of a small B medish in New York who raised over1 half million doll through one of these campaigns so I think we could do better but we're going to go low one half million and Bas with that money for one reason to spread Tyra to get another guy to learn Tyra um so anyways we're asking the if you could help us out take upon yourself be an ambassador do something you go do charity.com mdy I'll show you what it looks like right now there's a beautiful page over there here let me show you that's how that's what you see when you go on to the page there's 37 cities involved there's going to be groups 37 different groups each city is this own little group own little Mahal that being said here we go the sponsored by Anonymous for the safe and speed everybody's quiet like whoa what just happened it's okay don't take upon a page it's there there'll be other people do it you told me you might do it I don't know what can we just ask every person in the sh 25,000 people doesn't work like that $500 it's a great idea we had we had these $500 oh that's way too much if you had $500 $100 $100 is $100 is $2 million no everybody gives but the way it works is let me explain to you how it works you put on your page you throw it out there maybe your grandmother will give maybe your mother maybe cousins people are not from the shear and it adds up besides we can identify these guys they're people in the she there a lot of people in the shear that have a lot of money and $10 $20,000 is nothing for them but they don't realize that we need the money so you reach out to the guy that you know everybody knows that rich uncle that this and you reach out and B we will raise it B and we will be able to increase production better art more guys in the co which helps the shear meaning better jokes not so you know you know those days it's boring the guys in KY went to sleep some people are never bored and no matter what the jokes are yeah you know what the building this building cost us money to run maybe an expansion maybe we'll finish off the the back over here which is $50,000 buter if we have money we can do more things the sponsers anous for the save and Speedy return of all the hostages the pirates of the entire and the birth of sopie I don't know this person is whoever you are this the last day who's that Luxembourg sh he lives here really jakov Luxembourg lives here okay this this seems a little uh sketchy mnm VES is it supposed to say watches ah he's from Germany in honor of Ari Miller unleash your full potential tremend success in all my Endeavors start of the month Anonymous for the child birth for his daughter and a healthy baby okay I seriously I don't I'm not not into fundraising I know it's uncomfortable but I'll do anything to bring another person to T they told me on uh Thursday said oh we need you to fly to America for two days this coming Tuesday like in two days from now I'm like it's not going to work we need we'll see I might have to fly this week next week whatever whatever it takes Bas whatever it takes even though it's uncomfortable we're holding three lines from the bottom believe it or not it's unbelievable just like that boom we had whether or not a young girl under Bas Mitzvah does she have a does her does it acquire for her does her hand acquire for her says yes says not and the explains the is or does work because it's an extension of a person's hand or is a an agent for a person it's not his hand but it's like an agent works like an agent so says is there anybody that says that when it comes to a woman receiving a get let's say in her in her Courtyard it doesn't work from a Yad it doesn't work because it's an extension of her hand when the tah says you take a a get and you put it in her hand how do you know you put it in her hand what if you put it somewhere else not in her physical hand what if you put it in her Courtyard in on a roof does it work it says in the Torah yeah has to be a hand her roof her Courtyard we show the large place where you store stuff how do you know it's still get you give it anywhere says the so you see from here that everybody holds of this something called not I'm sorry because of because it has to do with a hand you're right when it comes to get a is a hand is what if like something Lego falls into her is she C it or not again yes what about just like when it comes to get her Courtyard acquires it for her so too it acquir a lost object as well no it doesn't work says it does not work you do not learn from again now going back remember I asked you a question it was a great sh I love it you have two children the age of 10 standing in a box that's 4x4 amas and there's a set of Lego fell out of the sky it's a who acquires it with the K of is says if it's not a it's like in a street like we have regular streets over here not Ain Street not a busy street like in the Meraz works you don't even have to pick it up your Al your 8 feet by 8 feet whatever is within that area becomes yours who is co the girl or the boy the parents neither of them what do we do and the answer is unbelievably it's the girl the girl is kind girl has more and here here's the Su right here there's no question that when it comes to a young girl since she could acquire a get with her so certainly not certainly but we learn a from a and here the question is what about a boy not a girl there's another Li you learn a young boy from a young girl and if she could be with her he so can he look at this a in this case has more power than a a girl who's 10 years old has she's she has all these things where doesn't have it this how we pass it says there is no one was speaking about a that's was talking about a that there's no K and speaking about that there is a one was speaking about a where there's no K that's and was speaking about a get where there is a Kon and there's no but even if we go with the with the second they we're talking about in other words the has and all these other things a does not so that's why weing not yes say here by tremend a person is looking out his window and he sees people trying to catch a lame deer a deer who's limping around humans can catch it it can't run away from a human being and where are they going they're going right through his field first of was wasn't alive two things is not alive and is no r r they're running after which is something I don't see that but okay I don't see I didn't know you could run after something that they're running because they see something they both running after something they're running they go together it doesn't matter the point is there's a bigger in something that moves and we'll see why but it's something that doesn't move certainly it's not moving it says what like he said okay are not moving okay things that are not everybody agrees they he sees them trying to get a that's not moving but it's in his it's in his field after a deer who's broken lame can't run or little chicks that can't fly [Music] yet and he says I want my field to acquire it it acquires it so let me ask you just a simple question that the last night failed a little bit is it permitted to run through somebody's field to grab a it's my field do you do you have permission to run through my yard to get a a lame deer no yes well doctor why you allowed to go to somebody else's uh property have to for the damage no that that that not if you're going to damage for sure or not what it's not your it is it's my it's my it's my field what do you mean it's not my R I got it I bought so the guy doesn't have the answer is you're always permitted to run through somebody's field walk through somebody's field because that's how yesu gave you're allowed to go through people's Fields unless he planted things there and you're ruining his field then you're not allowed to but in the in the summertime when it's phow you're allowed to go through the field starts you wouldn't be allowed to probably not but what about if the deer is fast and you can't catch it by the way we got to say the V every time we say it says how fast could a deer run 60 M an hour well guess what a cheetah can run 90 miles an hour no a cheetah can run 60 67 maybe whatever a deer 50 54 I don't know what it is yeah forgot the numbers but let's say 10 miles hour less than uh than aah so why do we say R oh so the answer is because yes cheetah could run fastest there's nothing that comes close to cheetah but only for a very short amount of time less than a minute in fact when a cheetah catches prey it can't even eat it it's so tired it sits there for minutes huffing and puffing and then meanwhile other animals come and take the prey away it's a whole bag so idea is to be like a run fast but on Pace and for a long time with stamina I was at a at at Gary Shiva house last night and uh somebody there told me oh I do two and a half da a day so I said ah you're not supposed to do two and half half a day you're supposed to do one a day be one a day every day but the same amount eventually do 2711 do two and a half a day it's possible I'm not saying everybody it's possible you fall you'll end up with 100 that but that's it you go with a nice Pace it always comes back to that what and a che over 60 for sure Che cheah not 80 no I think it's 67 high 60s yeah doesn't have a very good uh catch rate uh what is it called rate a um the the kill rate is is is low low you 75 no no your G is [Laughter] broken but if the guy's running normally right through your field or a bird is flying lands on your porch oh my porch is coming to the bird no it's not coming to the bird and I want my in the bird in it's nothing when does your field acquire when the owner is standing there and watching it ask why let's let's qualify this why not why why do you have to be there Why can't your acquire a we have a a concept that your courtyard acquires objects without you knowing about it so says the gar you're right talking about if you have a you have your house you have a courtyard that has a nice wall and somebody put something in there I saw somebody put in your courtyard not y yeah they there's a gate they open up the gay put it in he said about the r the used to say I guess you're not supposed to take the he used to wait and was on the table and he said like the says have to say because as we'll see also talks about it when you have other people in the house they kind of ruin it they take away from the sh so it's not really the brov's house the brisk his wife his kids so if I want to be I want to help that guy be so see it say okay what if it's in a courtyard that's not watched that's why over here we're talking about an open field in an open field doesn't have a gate then you have to watch it you have to stand there and watch how do you know this idea that if it's a open field you have to stand there so we're going into a little bit deeper than we ever went into some very interesting is when you forget a bushel of wheat a sheath what call whatever you want you forget one of these now forgetting means is going to say later you pass it you're you're what happens is you reap the the the wheat and you make these bundles you leave it there in the field for who knows how long then when you decide to make flower you come and you gather these bundles now if you on the day that you're Gathering them and you pass it go right past it that's it it's done you forgot it you give it you let the the poor people take it now what if you have employees that work with you so both of you have to forget it you have to forget it they have to forget it if you forgot it's not enough hey you ried on your employees to pick it up you have a lot of these you're not going to do it all all on your own so you have employees it seems like if you remember it it doesn't really work the afterwards let's see how that fits in he's already in the city he already left the field and he says he says know that my workers they forgot about it I would think even if he himself forgot it I would think that it's not even later you forgot this bushel of of of wheat in the field but only in the field you forgot it not in the city which right now doesn't make any sense we're trying to prove that in the city you could also forget if you remembered about the bushel in the field it's shik and now I'm telling you a POS that says it's not shik yeah I would think that it's not going to be it is and what's the only you can't forget it in the city here's the in case wants to see you forgot it's not permitted to go back to get it okay we just said just a lot of words but it says the same thing you try to say you thought it shouldn't be but it is and then what do we do we bring a you brought me a POS to prove something against what you just said that only in the field it's a not in the not in the city so this is what he wanted to say if you're in the field if the owner he's the first person to to forget and then afterwards the employees forgot that's a good Z but if he knew the whole time that he has a bu weed there and then the owner forgets he himself remembered then he forgot a that's not considered in other words the the employees forgot first he forgot second the since the owner is there so the wants to say over here that we see this idea that if the owner is there if he's just standing there his property acquires that bushel of whe if right because at the end of the day he remembered in the beginning so the fact that they forgot first doesn't doesn't ruin it for him I would think I'm I'm trying to stick in here just to explain a little bit I think that yes Hally maybe he has to remember he has to forget first and if if he remembers about it then he says I'm going to go back to it it's not but perhaps he's you see that he's giving it away to that name he forgot it there he giving it away no because his field acquires it for him if he's already he left the field he's already in the city and he remembers and then he forgot it is considered so it goes like this let's get a bigger one here can I get a bigger all it says in the so what the is saying is only in the field you needed the B should remember first before the the the worker but not in the city that even in the city even if the workers forgot first if he's already in the city the why because he's not there he's not standing over his field so the field doesn't acquire for him if he's standing by the field the field acquires for him that's how the G understands so now we see this idea that what that you have to be standing there that if you're not standing by the field what's the difference if he's in the city ask yourself the question if he's in the city and he forgot who cares his field acquired for him you're telling me that a field your property acquires things for you even if you're not there you see there is between being there and not being there has one has another when you're in the it the field acquires it for you who told you to learn like that maybe it's exactly opposite what you're saying it says there's the only place in the world that you could forget something is in a field if you're in the city you cannot forget you're making it worse you're saying in the city it's even worse than a field where do you get that from the says if you're just GNA learn says top words the only place to have a to be is in a field so why are you telling me that in a city if you forgot it in the city you remembered that you had it there and then you forgot afterwards that's even worse you don't acquire it no no no no there's a ter says the you can't say that let's see the again here it says in the if we take out that those three words and it says I would know the same thing you forgot a bush of weed in the field what do you do with it you should give it to the and the are you allowed to take it for yourself no so why does it say don't go back and take it because to tell you that even when you're in the City you also shouldn't go back and take it if you forget it in the city that's what it's coming to tell us but that's not good think about it if it would say in the for and then would say what would that tell us to give your forgotten wheat to the poor a Mitzvah where's the the Mitzvah is green it's positive you should give where's the negative that's a negative the red to tell you that you get malus if you don't if you go back and get I don't know if you get I don't know what that maybe I don't Yeah it's you're taking it you're right those three words are extra but it could have said in a different way could said don't take it my what does it mean don't go back so tells us two things first of all a there's a second of all if you did the forgetting in the city you're also I see is a little like from the we're going to be we're going to be over it in a minute nevertheless I need for the it says here we have a nice thing here the the the of here you have a bunch of bundles right she what do you guys call it so the is when he starts moving and he makes that turn what happens to the one in the corner the one in black ain't he's not over why he didn't pass it he made a sharp turn right before it the first one the first Red Box all the way on top of the picture that's shik why cuz he passed it let's see again here he goes he passed that one he left the the bundle he took it all the one in the black box he could come back later after he's done his whole thing he'll come back and make a final pass over there and grab it so it's not yet okay so it has to be in front of him not in back in front of him you're not it's not in back whatever he passed is how do you know going back this is the rule anything you have to go back to that's considered you forgot you don't have to go back it's still part of your sometimes that's how let's say the tractors when they PL field they'll go and then at the end they'll come back around on the borders they come around doesn't mean they forgot it if you still could get back to it then you're not uh so at the end of the day I do need this of I have another the word yeah if we go back to the here we always say something like that that any place doesn't matter where you are if you forgot you are that becomes so we have to remember this he's an importanta here says the same thing that we said before when does your field acquire a lame deer when you're standing right there by the field you are standing by the field then your field could acquire you're not there you're somewhere your field doesn't acquire it let's remember this name also asks a bomb question from the famous story of and the elders who knows maybe was on it also who they're coming on a ship I just remembered I have a lot of fruit in my house and I forgot to tell from it now my kids are going to come and they're going to say our fathers the and what he just left his food that doesn't have Myer of course he took Myer what do I do what do I do so think about you're on a ship and you want to take Myer and you don't have any fruit with you you hear Lauren you don't have the fruit you don't have fruit what are you going to do I want to give Myer to Ley so luckily I have a Ley with me on my ship what could I do so he says I have a Ley here I want to give 10% to Ley let's take a look again how this works if you have produce you give 10% to a Ley now are years three and six of the shita what else do I have to give 10% to the on here we go years three and six so this was obviously during one of those years three and six and R was looking to give 10% to a poor person so say Let me give 10% to yua says rash Rashi thatu was with him on the ship and he's a Ley and he brings AA with the doors go back you're a Ley you're a singer I'm I'm a gatekeeper and somebody that's supposed to be singing does work with the gate so you see that he was a Ley you could also learn from Rashi not that Stark but that every human being has a TK every person has something that they're good at some people are writers some people are clowns whatever they are but whatever your job is whatever you're good at you take that that and you go with it and if you try to do something else so to speak not really but you're you're a singer you have a good voice use it that's what you're supposed to do you're a carpenter you do it you do stenders for shimmy leafman that's your job don't mix up doors and singing Misa says and it's place where I'm giving you the 10% my to you reua in my house in my dining room in the left corner where that fruit is sitting that is yours I'm here give me a dollar I used to make millions like that when I was a caterer I like you sure you own you sure you don't want to rent it from me I used to pretend I own the building and I used to take the rent to make a dollar every was amazing I did own the building partner never got anything out of it but whatever one day there's interesting interesting what about it no my son gets that's good enough for me in right and everybody wants a good a talking about a should buy one from no Exodus of the Mind sponsored that's the sponsor for the Turning of the so it [Music] says how did they get to the question is that is the opinion that you're not allowed to leave your house for you can't go to um for you have to be with your Mish Chicago so no you take your with you so how did end up with without his family so they wanted Tina that it's this story right over here that they were on a ship and they finally docked at the Port the port in those days was in yafo so the closest place the closest house of tan to ya was house and that's why they ended up over there without the but it's based on the story they bring this as a as a m okay I'm not going to say the b joke only those who know about BL and they come to me after this year it's it's not a nice joke oh the sponsor the rest of the sponsors exod of the mins to be the best seller n Tom of Baltimore MD in honor of gr thanks to them 137 people learned 16 over 16,000 and over 720,000 minutes withd I have another 10% when I'm done with that 10% I have to give it to a poor person what I do was one of the wealthiest people he's very very wealthy he didn't need the money but he's in charge of the poor so I'm giving you the gab 10% in my dining room at home in bubble somewhere maybe maybe I don't know in my dining room you get a piece in my dining room also you you rent from me what oh so what are you asking that it was in his house okay so T asked that question T asked but it was it was in it was in's house so that's where T says that because there's other there it becomes a you had a Okay so says the who they're on a boat they're not watching it so how does this work they need to be there so you see from here you see you don't have to stand by the side of your field listen to this answer it seems like you don't know how to learn you never learned in your life and the conversation doesn't tell him why well you just said is such amoratus you don't even deserve an answer okay so yesterday I wanted to see how much you know is it like so I brought two children here children one of the the 13y old and a and a 15 16 year old maybe more why why and Z he's 14 he's 14 already oh wow they grow up quick 14 I try to make the story better you made it worse okay Fine's 11 he's 11 he's 14 I said how would you do it how would you make this Kenyon if it was it was you based on everything he learned in that so they wrote down in a piece of paper I told they not allow to say anything and they not of this they both wrote down and sud interesting because the is going to talk about it and then Z said 14y old when I was 14 I when I was 40 I didn't know what aab was okay so he said aab beening since he was N I know he's daing since he's nine and it pays off two years two years already he is not happy about this he got a nice that he doesn't how to learn he comes to he says listen what happened said this I asked him aasha it doesn't say that he that he yelled at me okay you didn't understand what happened there he wasn't renting it he gave them he sold them a piece of his dining room when you sell something somebody a dining room of a little piece it could be the size of a needle sell you a piece of my diner for a dollar and once you acquire that you acquire the fruit that's it it works on aav so you don't have to stand there what's he Pro RAB saying oh you see you don't have to stand of course you don't have to stand it's K it's not you Raba thought he's talking about King that his dining room will acquire it for you you rented his dining room his dining room is going to acquire do a king no it's king aav once you acquire the field you could acquire any metalin in the world anywhere in the world you don't have to be there you don't have to definitely don't have to stand there huh why when you have inste of sitting there nobody knows yeah but no okay so they discuss it because was certain that they're not going to eat all the food this 500 lb of food there so whatever it is at the end of the day you just go to the end and you do Brea you say this is what I put on the side said that's a great idea great certainly was insulted here he didn't accept this it's not St that he was biased and he didn't accept it he has a good reason not to accept this he says like this why how come they didn't do Z who's 14 years old in a generation 2 1500 years later he came up with the idea of what couldn't come up with the idea ofip why why came up with it why didn't he the answer is it doesn't work why not beautiful that what this Meer that he has is it worth anything is it something you could sell no the only value that it has for is he could decide I want to give it to or no no no I want to give it to that's it but it's has no value and once it has no value you can't usein kipin is a Kenyon that you buy things you purchase things I give you my y Rua and you acquire my Meer it's not my Meer I have I'm obligated to give it regardless whether I like it or not I have to give it to Ley I can decide which Ley has no value doesn't work here doesn't need work not true not true the reason why a did like this is because you're wrong like says straight out that it seems like is wrong you're right you cannot do when it comes to you're right ra why because of that's great does not work to give Trum but the part that you're wrong about is when I sell you a piece of land the size of a needle for $10 and you acquire that the reason why you acquire the metal is not because it's a Ken it's an I'm giving you thein because of the how do you say in English huh on account of an account on account of that would be good on account of like that so it's a giving it's not a k it's not a k like it's giving the says the way it works here gave his fruit to rishu Anda there's another mind over here when I want we're talking what's our Su we have a lame deer worth hundreds of dollars it's venison it's good stuff it's walking through my field I want it to acquire I want my field to acquire this deer without me even being there without me even knowing about it without anybody putting it in there deer kind by itself that's different for that I need to stand by the field and watch over the field I have to be the field but over here on the ship R has D he's saying I want to give I want you to acquire my fruit I'm here I'm giving it to you that that's why it works don't bring me a r from the ship when there's two parties involved and they both want to be K one wants to be makna one wants to be K that works versus our suya where you have to stand there because nobody's magnet to you you just want to be kind of so you have to stand stand there and be there and how do I know this how do you know that that's a good distinction it's not you see our that a guy saw them running after the deer your field only works to acquire it is if you yourself could run and catch it on your own does this same rule apply to gift let's say I give you a gift I give you a a lame deer I throw it I put a I put a turtle in your backyard I say here there's a gift for your kids for for pm and it's moving the turtle moves you know eventually after five six hours it's going to be gone did your field acquire yes or no a gift do I have to be able to catch it able to catch [Music] it and he accepted gift is different than a we have to make a distinction between a and a gift what's the distinction exactly what we're talking about when it comes to M finding something there's nobody there it's a find so I don't have somebody giving it to me by the turtle somebody's giving me the turtle he's saying take this Turtle I want you to acquire it so my field acquires it even though I'm not there so you make this decision when you have another mind another conscious what's a d another human being that says I want you to be what about oh wow I forgot to show aav here's KAG this is redone a redone KAG let's say a person wants to sell this washing machine and a cat to thisi the cat and the washing machine is uh in in Chicago so what does he do he gives that guy money and he gets the field he gets a piece of Cara and together with the Cara he gets the washing machine wherever it is that's aab what else do we have here that I forgot to show not really this one stop this is the get is the story of the get so here's AER here's a husband throwing in a get into the so when it comes to get so you have the husband that wants to give her he's being nice to her not really he's giving her something he's giving her a gift here there's a nice a nice letter in there take it let let your she has to be there in order for the to be she has to be there so you see that even when there's another Das another human being involved you still have to be there get is different because she has an opposing d goes I don't know if that's the so much because then it'll be hard to understand thear later but it work so since the words she has to stand there says it's the opposite get that you could divorce a woman against her will she must be there watching it so certainly when if it's against her will so you don't really need her nevertheless you need her she has to be there so certainly by a Matana when you don't need the person certainly he should he does he should have to stand there you could only give a person a gift if they agreed to accept a gift what if it's something they don't want what if a person hates gifts so that's worse than a get I need his Das so certainly he has to stand there just two more here interesting a could operate in two ways it could be a hand an extension of head and it could be an agent byana for instance she cannot do she can't she can't uh she she can't appoint she can't appoint an agent so she has to work with a Yan but over here talking about when a get like a get is something Parable for her therefore there's no only in front of the person that's why she has to stand there the reason why by a by a by a f you don't have to stand by the place is because it's good for him and the works as an agent and if it's an agent the person has to be there doesn't have to be there if it's good have a wonderful day we say for