Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 10 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] I [Music] go Michel [Laughter] [Music] oh [Music] we have a lot of guests tonight if you're not a guest raise your hand the rest of you sh welcome welcome welcome to you welcome to you I'm not going to ask everybody's name it's going to take a half hour if you're a guest raise your hand please no there's a few more you're you're not a guest Ze said hello to him you guys in the back okay we're just going to read one email see from Belgium I'm relig from London and therefore connected myself to ndy London team after seeing today's Shear there I guess there was a guest from Belgium I wanted to let you know that besides for today's guest there are at least two others beside myself learning this year is being in a place where most learning is because in Belgium they speak a good yish over there the encouragement from shim and I'm trying to spread your share to people I know are not learning every day and now with the Hebrew she two whatever that means thank you for your clear pushing us to learn every day give you to continue your we're just going to do a few of the because it is and the first one is everybody knows but I like the Ravis hey me I and hey remember that what is Ali that's a storekeeper who writes things down and basically there's a fight going on it's a it's a nice we had it a number of times the storekeeper tells his employee to go take food from a store and he'll pay the owner of the store the owner of the store agrees and at the end both the storekeeper and I mean the worker the employee and the store the owner of the store come to the employer and they want money so we had a they get the money both of them get the money does he have to make a sh do they have to make sh or not Potter was that clear or I have to say it again there was an employee and employer the employer told the employee to go get food from a store and he told the owner of the store he'll pay him whatever he gives the employee at the end the employee and the store owner both claim that they want to get paid the employee says I never got food from the store the store owner says I gave him food and now they both come to demand money from the employer and he has to pay both of them famous One anytime a person let's say admits that he stole he doesn't have to pay the double the C because C is [Music] a when you give somebody a loan you can't obviously they're going to they borrowed money so they could spend it you can't rely on the fact that they might have the money there and therefore it's to different it's not like a where it should be at the guy's house where money is not supposed to be there this is not just life and there's going to be sweatshirts and t-shirts and it's going to be a line hopefully we never forget that line hey is a concept where somebody says you owe me money now I could say I owe you I don't owe you anything I could say I owe you half that's or I could say h here it is or go get it for my house is that different than admitting to half or some of it and that was a that we had is and it basically goes together with this we have if somebody says say you owe me $100 and he denies the whole thing so he's a he shouldn't be said he should you should make a why because a person just doesn't start out with people and ask them for money and claim that they owe money if there's not there's nothing to it so to make sure that there's nothing to it you tell the guy that the claim even though he's part from you tell him to make a all over we have a person is silent that means he admitting to the claim meaning when it comes todes when you want to donate something to the mdash you don't have to give it you could just say this is heges and it becomes heges a will actually be touching a little bit on it you cannot send somebody to do a why because of so if I send somebody to kill someone he's liable not the one sending in certain circumstances you are a little bit okay and that brings us to today's sponsors the sponsor byous not too many Anonymous for safe and Speedy return of all the hostages and for the birth of sop r teaching no sponsor of the day for the for the art Anonymous for for easy child birth for his daughter and a healthy baby one day will find out that this Baby's like a year old and he already talking about the next [Music] baby so what we had is in our mishna we had OMG mdy socks get them for me okay great guy's on a horse he can't reach the the the the Lost object he has somebody to pick it up for him and the guy decides to take it for himself okay so the gamar says the gar brings it's a beautiful so whether or not someone could acquire something from hefer from let's say there's wheat left over in the field and you have to give it to the poor can another individual that doesn't own the field can he come by grab the wheat a wealthy guy that doesn't deserve the wheat could he take the wheat and give it to the poor person that he wants to give it to to his neighbor and the gar goes into there's two migu here and the question is could you say two Mig me number one is every wealthy person can become poor immediately just by saying that his all his belongings are he that's that the calls like on the bottom the code word for that is from a wealthy person to a poor person you could just say in a moment you can say everything I own as he and you become eligible for that mat of the you could take that P let's say and therefore since you could take it now we go over to the next Mig the next Mig is called in the Box the code name for that Mig is called now that you're poor the Mig makes you poor now that you're poor can you give it over to anybody you like you're poor since you could acquire yourself therefore I am going to acquir from my friend happens to be you know what let me see if I can jump off of this for a second and go to this it's already in tomorrow she let me see only because let me show you real quickly this guy over here his name is speiro I forgot his first name yall see maybe he says his name he does say his name so he made this video he's been with the she for a while made this video because of what I said on that on that line I said if you're enjoying the year if you had a for yourself say over to your friend so he got on he said as soon as he heard that he stopped he took his video camera and he did this and this is what he has to say hi reell my name is SPO I started that in beginning of Bama thanks to my wonderful for the last 11 years IEM Sunday am making my first CM ever thank you so much the DA has truly changed my life I appreciate it every single day first see ever unbelievable and why cuz he was encouraged by these words over here okay so basically now let me somehow get back to our she I wasn't planning on showing that I was planning showing tomorrow but okay okay show to the Israelis so now we just have to go over here and everything should work okay great so again we have two Mig do we say two Mig or only one in other words we're holding right now everybody agrees you're going to say that's called number two everybody agrees that we're going to do that question is a person is wealthy could you also use a second Mig is it fair to use two Mig to get to what you want to get to so now we're holding six lines from the bottom remember the code word perhaps the is actually in Mig number two do we sayig number two maybe maybe you shouldn't even say that just because yourself could acquire the the the wheat that's why you have the right to give it to somebody else Maybe not maybe somebody holds you can't do that may that's you can't do that and I'll prove it to you if we are talking about this case right over here right our so there's no such thing as being wealthy when it comes to M everybody in the world is entitled to the same thing and everybody's entitled to pick up money that you find in the street so accordingly we are all we're all in the parach just like when it comes to it's only for the poor is only for everybody it's for the whole world not only it's for everybody what do we learn the person was on top of an animal and he sees this great and he says get them for me I want it for myself if you say this in this exact case whether or not we are all so now it's only one Mig do you say the Mig or do you not say the Mig if it was from a rich person to a poor person now I have to say two migu I have to say first bring the guy down from being wealthy to poor that's me number one once he's poor could I be for somebody else but over here we're talking about he We're All in This par so the question really is one that's it so in this case will hold you don't say one you don't say any finished is from the wealthy to the poor in other words you say one or two but one you for sure say according to everybody will'll say one so who in the world says our mishna why can't be for the guy on the horse what's the big deal it's one Mig and everybody holds you can say one Mig I'm sorry if are gonna say that you could say one Mig says you could say two Mig so our M you have one Mig so let's go let him let him let him acquire for the guy in the horse the the case in the mishna it's pretty obvious as you're learning it that he says the guy that's picking up the socks over here he's claiming I never had you in mind I never wanted to I I never wanted you to be I for myself that's why a doesn't work it only works when you want to be for somebody else over says no I never I never intended to be for you that makes sense what does it say end the he gave it he gave the socks to the guy in the horse he comes running back 10 minutes later oh sorry I want the socks back no I want it back why cuz I acquired it for myself why is it why do you have to stick in the word obviously he meant to say he's not regretting it 10 minutes later because everybody knows that you can't regret there's no you can't be Indian giver you give somebody something and oh no I want it back you can't do that that's POS so what was the hav the he told oh no no I never intended to give it to you I thought you were forcing me or whatever but I neverend okay that's a little bit of so what why do I say it why did I say the word the whole word at the end of the mishna is just to tell us that the the beginning of the mishna is also talking about we're it's one case it's one type of case not one case but it's the same idea just like the sa we're talking about he said I never intended to so to he said I never intended to and that makes that's how the answered that's why Mig doesn't work here because he never intended to be the socks for the guy and the horse sayos it says it in the to tell you that the there is no okay so question why does the sa have the word either to tell me that the Raa is exactly like the SA or to tell me the opposite no it's only in the sa that he says I never intended but in the Ria he did intend okay so we're still going on with this idea are you permitted to acquire a lost object you find a cell phone in middle of the street you have the nicest newest one you don't need it so you oh yeah I have a friend that needs one let me acquire for him you never intend to acquire for yourself you want to acquire for for your friend can you do it argue the whole time finally they come here and they say doesn't work what's the reason and we also touched upon this a little bit of it's one thing to do something good for your friend but not on the account of everybody else in the world now by you acquiring it for your friend you're not allowing anybody else to acquire it you just caused to other people is what's the what's the case the case is I owe five people money and um not responding I'm not communicating with anybody so is you could basically go we're not ping here but okay based on the gar you allowed to go and grab stuff from him all he has left is this computer right here you you are not owed any money but you happen to see him walking in the street with a computer you say oh but he 's my friend money you go and you grab the computer for him him that's not allowed why cuz he owes four other people and by you grabbing the computer you're not allowing the other four people to grab it you yourself you can grab it but you can't you cannot be for somebody else because yes it's a for that somebody else but it's a for everybody else so it happens to be Rashi says over here very very interesting Rashi says there is an exception to the rule when could I when could that guy you when could you grab from me to pay off a loan there is an exception to the rule what do you think it is when the guy is paid when you pay somebody to be a I'm sorry Raji says Raj says if you make somebody that works if you do it on your own you can't just grab people's computers on your own but if you're sent by one of the people that's owed money you're allowed doesn't make any sense that says not like that so the sh says what rash meant to say is that he's a that was paid once you pay somebody to do something for you now he's locked in and he's like you he's like your extended hand so he's allowed to go and grab computers and stuff from somebody that owes you money there are some that say you know there's umal here in Str that are worth $100 million maybe even more I saw like 5 years ago one of them was worth million maim okay so to be they take a lot of money from people they don't demand it but I mean if you want to get a br from them whatever so one of the is is that uh a re only according to certain Med you only have a limited amount of bras you could give limited amount so he says like this I can't give you a because I give you a I'm taking away from the other guy that I won't I won't have anything left later I'm oh but if you make me a you pay me like the sh says if you pay me now I'm mise your extension now I can give you a br so pay me there I was when I was theic just giving out bro for free I didn't realize it comes off the total no it's people not even from the shear M if you're from from the shear okay whatever so asks his re rman says that when you find you're working you're working you're working for somebody you're getting paid I'm going to see exactly how do you get paid getting paid by the job you're getting paid by the the hour what are you getting paid but a worker an employee he finds a nice diamond ring while he's working he keeps it wait a minute if he says I want you to work in my garden and do a little work over there great I want you to do something specific I want you to plant I want you to this okay so says rashy listen to this unbelievable the guy is working I paid you $100 to whatever irrigate my my field and you find a diamond ring you can keep it says Rashi but wait a minute you you you were getting paid for the job so you have to pay the balabas for the time it took you to lift up that find that's what it says says ginsky how long does it take to bend down and pick up a ring and put it in your pocket 22 seconds Max no how much is that you're getting paid $100 a day divide that by Whatever by the hours and by the minutes and by the seconds how much is 22 seconds says nothing it's not it's less aut nevertheless say rash to go to your employer and say listen I stopped for 22 seconds to pick something up let's let's make a little take off 10 cents and that's it that's what he says so if you're at work you're on your cell phone and shooing and texting and all the stuff how does that work if you stop for a few seconds not to mention the other we had that he was in the middle of working one of the was working on a field walked by and he said hello to him he wouldn't he didn't reply because it's Geva to even say hello I'm getting paid when I'm getting paid I don't say hello somebody should talk to my cleaning lady the seriously she's on her phone sitting down relaxing and I walk by and she's not even embarrassed she doesn't jump up and it's part of the job I'm serious may she maybe Works 50% of the time maybe we're on a good day it's my fault I didn't say anything we're scared to say something because cuz you can't get a cleaning lady in the neighborhood you know what I'm talking about okay what you're luy to have her exactly but I'm paying 200 shekel an hour no not he's looking at me like crazy 200 shekele per hour of [Laughter] work I don't know what she does on there okay listen to this but if you you hire a guy by the day so now you didn't tell them what to do you work you work for me I need you to do some gardening you'll do gardening when you're done with that you go upstairs you move some furniture around then you'll do some cleaning I don't want to say this but just so that we understand like a slave like a evid anab now he's Jewish he's not evid you can't make a but just to understand it a little bit you are working for me whatever you do so if you lift diamond rings off the ground you did it for me you're my employee now if he's smart as gor says he could say I'm done our our deal of me working for you today is over I need to pick this up and keep it for myself I'm not working for you but if he forgets to say that so no so wait a minute over here you see that if somebody picks up something for his friend he's an employee he picked up a diamond ring who gets it the employer so you see that you could you could acquire something for another individual what are you telling me you can't acquire anything says if you lift up an item with intent of your friend it doesn't go to your friend s over here the gar says that an employee who picks up an item the the employer gets it there's no intent there it's automatic his hand it's an extension of his hand once he pays him for the day he becomes him a little bit of a picture this guy is running away he says where do you think you're going stop says I could I could break if you're a Jewish employee you could break you could stop in the middle of the day nobody can force you famous mea the the owner of the the big Factory comes to the factory he sees everybody's working beautifully say one lazy guy in the stairs just chilling out so he goes over and says what do you think you're doing how much how much you earn a month it's $2,000 it's $2,000 he says take the $2,000 I don't want to see you ever again you're done okay see the guy leaves and it turns to like the the head guy over there says what was this guy what was he oh no he's just delivering pizza he's waiting for his oh yes an employee has the right to break it in the middle of the day and just leave but if he didn't so he's continuing as he promised and now he his hand is an extension of the hand of the employer but why could a person break his deal that a Jew can never be somebody else's slave yeah something called but typically speaking you cannot be somebody's slave so when he decides the middle of the day to leave he can leave you can't stop him so very very interesting shw that I saw in a sa called so he says what about it's a story that he said a guy came to him he B cha becoming B cha and he got accepted to the Israeli Air Force he wants to know if he could sign a seven-year contract with them because they put in millions of dollars into these Pilots so they they make you sign that you're you're not going to leave for seven years you're going to take all these cour for 3 years four years use all their fuel and their planes right we're in here on on F16 is how much H what did I have it's Millions right it's tens of thousands an hour tens of thousands an hour of course and whatever D doesn't understand how much do you think an engine of a F-16 costs you have to do you have to do a over a commercial turbine runs million n it's more I think commercial that right just the overhaul and how many hours you think they have on that 2,000 no probably more commercial 5000 hours the kits are every few thousand hours you have to spend over million dollars just to take apart the engine and look at it every few thousand K it's Millions each pilot I'm sure they invest millions of dollars per pilot so you have to promise them that you're not leaving so he wants to know and this is interesting You' never think about it wants to know is it a problem of me being a slave to somebody cuz I'm signed I cannot leave for seven years so I thought it's a joke when I'm starting to read it I like like and he says listen as hard as it sounds I can't give the guy head I don't know how to give I can't find the head for this guy two three years people have contracts they sign contract they're going to work at a certain place for a certain amount of time okay but 7even years anything over three years is like very problematic you're basically saying you always have a that believe you have to pay but not in the Air Force he talks about it not in the Air Force there is no clause in the Air Force you can't say oh Air Force I will pay you $10 million first of all you don't have $10 million second of all it's it's a government thing so you don't have a clause correct if I'm working for somebody else I say listen if I leave I'll pay you x amount of money fine I I hear it's just interesting to think about Contra years oh contract I was thinking about R also but it's never more than three years because of this reason I don't want to be a slave to my community for a bom never more than three years by the way St throw it in because it's why not talking about people are slaves themselves to their bodies to their habits so it says in this week's P quick V says in this week's par the the word Nim says it without a y so Rashi says the reason why it's without a y is because you would think that they did a good thing then Nim said we're going to wait until the end and let's see what's missing and we'll fill the Gap so that's a nice thing no they did it out ofus laziness they were lazy and then what does it say they were the first so you learn you site from here that even though they might have had in their nature a certain type of atos every bad habit no matter what biting your nails or picking your nose whatever the bad habit is it's breakable you could break a bad habit asate you don't have to be a slave to your habits every bad habit here if you try to acquire a loss item for your friend it works what about our the guy on the horse tells to to lift it it seems like it doesn't work he said the wrong he said give it to me he should have said I'm for you just to point out is the one that says he also points out he says doesn't work how do you Rectify this problem you could uh what reconciled not rectified rectifi is to fix I got got it okay reconcile how do you reconcile this problem in the Hebrew and the English again you could acquire something for your friend a but you cannot grab something from you can't if you're if you owe money your friend can't grab from the guy that that owes you because how so says because by he could lift it up himself he could acquire for himself so since he acquire for himself he could acquire okay the mishna this is going to be a mishna that helps you never forget in your life a person sees a lost item and he and he falls on it comes another person and he grabs it the one that grabs it okay I don't know what 19 is oh this one okay got it here we go this is a story that I found out afterwards that uh our animator he was supposed to be done at like 8:00 for the Hebrew but it was the next day we told him 8:00 Anda he was finished 8:00 in the morning you eat pulled off another 10 or 11 hours through the night it takes a long time to do this thing but I think this's a this's a better one so what you have over here is a pot of Chunk enjoy M yummy yummy that's nor it's better with sound yeah the really they get to end of the deal every time okay you saw you fell on it obviously you have to have a SLE imagination it doesn't say from the second floor but I told the guy said it has to be CH and of course he jumped two floors and then another guy comes and grabs it what's a famous people talk about it they throw this out one of the kids threw out like in the beginning of B your for acquire things for you you don't even have to pick it up with if it's within 8 feet of you a person walks around that Aces that people shouldn't fight now what's the if there are two people in the doas and there's a lost item there two people what's the so the says so I'm going to ask you a question if you were here yesterday please don't answer it's a beautiful thing I don't think anybody's going to get the answer and if you do you get a th000 points if you have two children a boy and a girl in a box in four hours the ra says that if something Falls there you divide it a boy and a girl under the age of I don't know 12 they're under by MIT and all of a sudden there's a set of Lego there a they found Lego does anybody acquire it does either one of them acquire it do both of them acquire it do their parents what happens what's the huh anybody want to take a stab at it tell you it's tough hm H hefer nobody you say nobody okay I got it nobody the parents both parents both parents okay anybody else that's it so The Boy The Boy wins no okay I don't know if we'll get there today but the the answer is it's going to shock everybody the girl gets it it's one of the only times in sh that the girls the girls win yeah and I'll tell you why cuz a girl could acquire with her she has she acquires things a get and therefore she also acquires a a boy doesn't have that so the boy the girl wins in this case says says we have a question from says we a question from what's the question what's the question from let's go to the picture of p remembers is something that you give to the poor person you have to leave a corner of the field for the poor comes a poor person and he wants to acquire it so he takes a bunch of the he throws it on top even what he grabbed and he ripped out of the ground to throw on top of the rest of the pile he doesn't even get that nothing he jumps on top of it he puts his cloak on top of it we throw them away interesting sometimes when you make the wrong you do the wrong action you get zero you get a dry cleaning bill you have to put a Band-Aid on and you go home if you know what to do and that is you just stand still you go to you know the should acquire we're going to talk about it tomorrow a lot I don't have no it's not this okay shik is when yeah I do have shik here we go shik basically if you forget a whole uh she call it she fine if you forget it you walk by it you didn't you didn't pick it up you have to leave it for the poor so somebody the same thing they threw it a towel on it nothing what about the four I just stood there within four hours forget about me falling on it it should be mine just by standing there he didn't say I want to acquire it asked the so what if he didn't say it talking so he didn't say it says you since he fell on it he showed that he doesn't want to with the he wants to acire with falling on it and therefore he loses because he just doesn't know by the way I have to point out that from here on to be much much easier it's just the first eight D of a little bit more difficult usually I didn't find it that difficult but people claim that it's from now on smooth sailing B I can't even get to the sponsors he jumps out and he says it's so fast it's unbelievable turning myc Baltimore Maryland in honor fish gross thanks to them 137 people learned over 16,000 and over 720,000 minutes of say beautiful yes a person has foras but not when he walks into somebody else's house or field it doesn't make any sense it's my house it's my field what are you establishing establish establishing forget that word um establishing establish Ling I have another share to give so um we'll never say that word again establishing why are you trying to make a in my it doesn't work it's my house it's my field and even though the Torah says you could go into that field to walk in there to grab the fruit the never said that you have fouras in there very nice terets from I'm asking you from a SE a and he jumps on it and then another guy came and grabbed it from underneath the stomach the one that grabbed it from underneath the stomach the fouras didn't work before he jumped on it it should be his just by being there within fouras what's the ter same ter he didn't say the words I want to be you talking but said who cares if he didn't say it so since he showed that he doesn't want to use the foras I only want to use jumping falling on top of something doesn't work doesn't work yeah it's not a it's not it's not a it's the opposite of it's smushing into the ground says that in in our days let's see let's even say that it's not a real it's not a let's say for shabas for whatever but yet there's no you can't acquire anything in your do don't think that you're walking down the street oh it's not I could acquir now that's in a busy street like 13th Avenue or over here but a quieter street I'm not going to say that this street street over here cuz this is a crazy street but a normal street with not so many people then forus does work there is a Kon of believe it or not but another we do Pas in that falling on something is that's how we passing that it doesn't doesn't ruin it it's not like oh I'm showing that I don't want to use the dalad like we said before if you fall on something you're kind enough maybe because of the dalas says the gar um when Rabon said that dadam works that is in a let's see where's a s over here okay here so this would be right over here this is like a maybe this over here too but more this guy over here okay so it's quieter you don't have a lot of people there so many people going back and forth they can't give you four ra you don't have your eight feet as said everywhere so this is right over here take a look this is down the center see the not so much a side doesn't mean it has to be higher up like sidewalk the sides that are adjacent to the the homes that's here according to him doesn't have a a take a look if she's a and her husband threw a get in there she doesn't acquire it here's four she doesn't have if he threw the get into the four doesn't work not true she does have she has four so we look at the famous he has to put it in her hand so is a yard a an extension of her hand just like she has a hand you can put her in her hand and she's divorced so too she has a it's not true the is more of an agent than anything else since she's a cannot make an agent so she can't use a is there anybody that says that a is an agent so it says in the of if we found in his hand now think about it you have to find the stolen bicycle in the guy's hand he's walking around the whole day with the with the stolen computer no so how do I know that it includes also I'm just saying I'm showing this again because I remember when we were learning Aran I was so decited that the guy from the P gave me permission to use his pictures and I enhanced it from black and white pencil and I added red marks to it and I so excited wow look at this technology then came Yoshi and embarrassed me there's a guy stealing a goat on a rooftop and over here add a little animation this is in AER and look what happens to the door slams the door shut boom you name this is a car little bit better than this guy oh you like the black white better Says Z okay for you that's why I put it in for you whatever you say I don't know if the stolen stuff is in in the think about it what's this what is say twice say in Hebrew double everywhere if it's true that your your real estate is your agent interesting question I hope is going to get the answer on their own it comes out that if you close the door of your then you made your a to steal for you and we said now why do we say always that doesn't really apply to when we say this that you can't be an agent for when is it's also for him to do it since the doesn't have he can't be so he could be we're going to see that just it's not exactly how he said it the saying he's a a field is not a so what comes out is I could find a case where there's a human being [Music] that's and therefore he could be an agent for if he doesn't have for instance a woman is not over on B of Shaving this part of her head so if I tell her to shave a young child so she becomes my agent why because she's not a bar you just told me that in order to be an agent you have to not be a bar so woman is not a bar in that case and this's a case for a man as well oh what if I tell a woman or a slave to go steal and this also you should know the answer right away if a woman steals she doesn't pay why because she's married and she doesn't have any cash but is she allowed to steal say big Rec conve your ass what's going on here she's not allowed to she just doesn't have to pay but she's not allowed okay so because she's not a maybe the has a better answer but because she's not so therefore whoever sent a woman to steal he should be that Cas no no woman is they don't have money to pay but they're we learn that a woman is RA stay away from them they don't have money but if they ever get divorced they comes right back and they have to pay say something similar but different where do we say there's no when a person has a I could choose yes I could choose not doesn't have he can't decide whether or not he wants to do it in that case what's that clock for how how long are we on for how many2 52 okay almost done what's the difference between this T that we just said that a woman or when do we say when a person has a to do yes or not or what we said before that we don't say when they're not not they're not in the is allowed to marry a divorce but is allowed to so tells is go get me a wife who's a divorce so then the would be over on the why to be because when the person that's doing it doesn't have the he's not over and that's anothere here is the picture from nazer if a woman now first of all what's a let's just do this for a second this is very important I know people in my own family some of my best friends they're not aware of thisa so well so we gota we gotta drum it in I tried somebody my family who shaves his whole head uh he's standing in m and a brisket guy came over to him and goes and ran away okay fine I don't want to be that guy so in a hint we say this so here's the iser the iser is to shave below that red line here we'll put on the the laser again no here right over here anything below this you're not allow to shave from the point of the ear to the to the forehead now where're people get confused and here is also a little bit also to play around over here because it's below that line and it's above the bone over here there's a bone people get confused I spoke to a couple of people that are that are pretty from but they they shave the whole head you know they're they're balding and they they shave the whole head so I said what's going on now it has to be they sh you have to be able to grab if it's less than being being able to grab then it becomes two c whatever it is so they say well I'm shaving my whole head I'm not just shaving over here shaving my whole head and that is a mistake because most hold shaving the whole head is is the r as well it's not just this area if you do the whole head you're also over there is I think one that says it's at least it's not M so let's keep on going a woman doesn't have the iser on herself right there's women till this very day that shave their whole head they're not over on the is so if you send a woman to do it to to a child you're over according to this why why because she's not in the par over she becomes if it has to do with over here over here the woman has the choice to say no so therefore the man that sent her is not where the woman in this case or the the is bringing he's not in the the guy sending is the guy the send is interesting case ask theor should we go V there hold on where do we get to in Hebrew okay we'll stop over here abai have a wonderful week for coming thank you we'll say hello to some people we have to start the share in about 5 minutes the Hebrew one so we have about five [Music] minutes