Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 87 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good [Music] morning good morning good week here's a p picture from exactly four years ago exactly maybe we could zoom in on it how do you make it larger so if you look closely I thought it was very very interesting many many I would say 80 90% of the people in the picture are still here today sitting almost in the same places here AI Noam meni um he's not with uh this person with the sweater is no longer alive that's but here's H here's RAB dami his Judah his Dr Factor look who's here Robert Is Here where is he he's sitting in the wrong place ack the kiter yeah yeah his Rabbi rabi shomberg kid are a lot of the people and you know what's missing look at this I I couldn't believe this there's nothing over here in the booth there's no cameras there nothing it's unbelievable did this happen this four here's AB gear I gear and and yak okay give all the I used to have a beard what you had a beard back then depends on my mood I asked if you had back then okay hell during the last few 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after last night the jet ski story followed by the cab driver and then the mikah towel were absolutely hysterical so at least one person appreciated it we had a guy that was never here before he's sitting right over here he came after he came over after he says I never laugh so hard he did D for 11 years he never laugh so hard during Dai I told him don't it's not a daily thing it was a one time thing you just got lucky the the jet ski story when I when I went to the mikah I took off my whatever we're not going to go into it because it was a very controversial story you'll have to go back to the beginning of the no to the story over there on B always a perfect balance oh a little bit of humor goes a long way this is exactly why you connect with so many you keep it real by knowing when to let loose and when you when to reel it back in always the perfect balance you had us all cracking up and we all appreciate and relate when you share the other side of you thanks for the shabas laughs do eisenberger l y n l y insurance spored by anous from Lakewood for the of it should be to reell for teaching [Music] memory from Anonymous in Manchester who joined the she the beginning of of our fathers interesting in honor of Don fine and the amazing work he does with Mitzvah opportunities he's an amazing guy he's an amazing guy that we all should emulate and deserves a shout out from a secret admirer yeah I don't know who it is no safe you want to tell him who it is has to work it out announcing the D schedule for power events at Amazon power in Miami in January 3 I guess it you put this in because it's a d thing I asked you about this at 6:30 at the Double Tree Hilton Miami 6:30 a.m. at the Double Tree Hilton Miami is when the D is The Edge conference dfom at 6:30 at Hilton metaland can learn with Joel wall but he's won D ahead so we can just turn Oni on the screen sponsored by Dr Mark burkson from my father yiriam Jerry burkson that the sponsor of the day ly l l in honor of the of my grandmother mind couple my grandfather na the P of the month for the month art of the month Anonymous with the for an easy child birth for his daughter and a healthy [Music] baby for coming here I know you only slept an hour and a half too if somebody says something not nice to you or you just don't like him may you punch him in the face don't if you know the answer don't answer just raise your hand what is are if you punch somebody in the face you kick him in the stomach because you just don't like the way he looks if yes what is it anybody could you raise your hand somebody one person ell very good what is it you getus on that you go to there's a bettering than that that's a very good oh you you're masing them yes okay three people at least here here's the this is I know not a lot of people know this it should be from the basics in iner because a lot of that goes on right in school they should teach this this is is to hit someone of course there's different there's different reasons if he hit you first you you might be allowed to hit right back if if your your life is in danger I'm not going into that but actually to go over to somebody to hit somebody what if you hit your own child what no no no no it's is it's is even for bz do is one more even for bezan certainly for non bezden so if if a re is being or a parent is being maybe not but I'm asking if a parent hits their child not at a out of but not out of out of anger out of anger a little bit more than as low what's is there iser you're not kid so you could be over by hting your kid no reason yes of course your own child is no different than anybody else says the gar holding the last line of P base we just finished or I shouldn't say we finished we're middle of Ruda holds that a blind person is not obligated to go to Gus if he kills somebody by mistake and you can't kill him even if you kill somebody deliberately there's no capital punishment for a blind person there's no GH there's no Misa and there's no malus you don't give him malus so if he was told do not hit somebody and if you hit somebody you're going to get malus because it says and he goes ahead he doesn't get M and now we're going to see that maybe throughout his life different periods he added on to this until he came up with an amazing and the the final is that a blind person is not in any Mitzvah Letz but it was step by step says he didn't realize this whole in the beginning first he had step number one that a blind person is from last line a blind person is not in the category of of embarrassment says that now takes it back says tus he he's going one more step that a blind person you cannot bring him to the Tyra he stole from you whatever you can't bring him to B that's it he can't bring you you don't bring him so it talks about a that is the relative of the person that you killed by mistake and it says somebody that's killing someone killing somebody by mistake and you have to go to G you could bring to here Val come on [Music] in you did a good job Dr Epstein we spoke to the we said you got to get your son-in-law he says I'm not in charge we said you are in charge K said but you're here I don't know what that means actually but two Victory oh it's a victory that's what it was okay H I just showed a picture of four years ago and you three were sitting like this and Hill you sitting over there and RI was sitting right over there and I said it's Mish like it was that's how it was and was in the picture I noticed I forgot to M you you were seeing on the other side of the table Yeah I go back to the picture for a second AB here we're going back to the picture here we go cat says he was there I see you right over here look at you that's you in the blue shirt you're singing The Other Side you see that you're singing the opposite you're two over from every shonberg you had a little hair back then huh Hill that's you and dambi Judah David I don't know where is and where's aor sitting right over there okay all Rosenstein he sits I don't know where oh here he is show you're there there back then huh okay says Okay so we're at step two first of all a blind person doesn't have gas second of all a blind person doesn't go to bz this the third one a blind person is not in in in the category he doesn't pay for you don't pay [Music] him review the holes that blind person is poter completely from now those who hold hold that he's still to act like a Jew still what about what about eating kazer is a blind person allowed to eat kazer I know what you're all going to say he has 100% says you sure where dides it say that he says so actually whether or not he's also from I don't know exactly I mean don't how do you know no 100% 100% anybody tells me 100% I know they're wrong because there is no such thing 100% ever no such thing as 100% blind person has to keep blind person can't do that 100% if you told me 95% I even 99 100 there's no 100% in anything in this world it says in the same POS the word and says we just established in the second riew that they're not in you don't bring so they're not in but they are says 100% a now we know R had a very difficult life was very sick at the end of his life lost all his used to remind him himself was blind the I forgot who it was the it's already mentioned that made himself blind because he a of R rather they made themselves blind we discussed a few times they wanted to be like RAV and RAV was very careful with his eyes and R felt like he couldn't stand in the in the of his eyes so he went to dark place for 30 days and then he showed him a bright light and he became blind so Raj says he was blind so now the question is like this does a blind person who does he get the same as someone else it get a little less does it get a little more so that's the famous of does a woman for instance who she shakes does she get like a man or less than than a man If We Hold like that a blind person is I would make a tremendous meal for the make a make a big I'm not to do and I do it anyway and no no he's he's a blind person right now hold on right now in this part of the gar he's blind he's not a so he gets tremendous and he wants to make a have a problem even if you say like that a blind person is from but we have that that ruins it a person who to do men who are to do they get greater than women that are po it's harder for them to do it when you're told to do something you do it it's more difficult I don't know I was just thinking to myself but if you tell one of your children to go out and and go to the store and get you something what are you happier with the child that you told to do it and he went and did it or the child on his own he realizes you you're missing milk and he goes to the store runs and gets milk who are you the second one you're more proud of who do you who gets more points in your in your head also and the kid does it without arguing it's a big thing to me I also I agree with you well you have perfect kids you don't what I'm talking about when we have kids that I don't want they go the guy doesn't no I hear I can you can hear both sides to me at least so he says no but now ruined it why because when you to do you do it you get more since is blind he's not to do the he gets L now so the question is we know it says the Mna that you shouldn't doah so what what's busy with this so those who say that based on the you see how valuable the Mitzvah is he's not saying I want this just saying look look at all these things I did I did tremendous amount of Mitzvah the is greater oops the is less K is talking about afterwards he already did all these mitzvas look look how much I'm not doing the Mitzvah because of the the famous story with the vill when he didn't have a es and somebody said I'll give you an on condition that you give me all your he's very happy he said he never had a situation like that in his life he's waiting without receiving is not saying I want what yeah but we talking about he says doesn't he say the word I'm getting more he saying he himself is a God no each Mitzvah is greater so I get more S no that's not how you're learning it okay you're saying Europe okay I don't know I'm reading it what oh okay yeah that's what you say it's a what it shows exactly it's a reflection the amount of shows that what you did is greater not that you're happy with that you care about the or not it just shows that what you did was okay fine what okay tremendous success here we have an example of where a person pays more than a than a than a bull a person who causes damage has to pay the five things sometimes as we learned all five of them in one shot sometimes one at a time what he has to pay all five and he has to pay for the loss of a Vlad if he damaged a woman and she lost her pregnancy has to pay for that is referring to a human being it doesn't say an ax that causes only a human being says over here so person pays all five things not so he only pays NE if a bull causes damage his owner must pay damages but he doesn't have to pay for unemployment and for embarrassment and for pain what's the other one and medical bills is part from Lost [Music] pregnancy we had yesterday if somebody causes damage to a parent but without blood or he did cause blood loss he CAU his friend Kipper stabbed a friend and he had blood loss which is but there's no and since there's no on the five things all five otherwise because if it was where the mission is going to continue get you don't pay the five things if somebody causes a wound to to a jewi slave a slave a person who stole sold himself for six years caus him a wound where there was blood so in all four things but not the fifth one of unemployment when you are the master himself and you hit your slave you want him to work better you hit him he cause them a blood loss so you wouldn't pay him unemploy but you have to pay him for you have to get him a doctor Etc and for damages but unemployment he's working for you full time so you don't have to pay for the loss of wages if you go ahead and you damage somebody else is non slave so now you have to pay all five things to the master did not in the we said they're not they they can't collect it but they have it and you could assess it and figure out what the value is but they don't get it says the three people that weally they consider that they don't have Das stay away from them you're always going to lose starting up with them if they cause you damage they don't pay if you cause them damage you do pay stay away they're bad if you cause damage to you are and when they cause damage to you they're Potter so let's go through this very slowly if you cause damage to a a deranged person so what are you let's think about it what do you you cause him pain on a doctor what about CH wages or not he doesn't have job he's the he doesn't have a job what about doesn't have would mean now the difference between a and a would be one thing [Music] a doesn't have a job hopefully but he does have in certain circumstance like had yesterday four times three times might have had it a fourth time afterwards that there is such a thing as a k who's old enough that you remind him of something embarrassing and he becomes embarrassed but he wouldn't have chevas I didn't see this myself but somebody told me that in B up the road there's a sign over there that says that if you're bringing your child into the Bas Mage you're bringing him on condition that if he causes damage you the father will pay yes it's still there now wow and I haven't seen that sign look again I'll take picture you it down a kid ripped it down do now there is something important to know and this goes for all of us that if a cutton causes damage he's Potter but the brings down that you're and there are those who say that once I'm saying once it becomes a GLE you should make restitution if you remember and you're capable some somebody like myself I don't have the money for that but regular people it's just too overwhelming I don't have the I don't know what I did what I didn't do yeah um I hope you should go out there if you want to be you should go out there and and pay back I'm just thinking about the one case with the guy in the sh he's not alive anymore like I have to go is uh kids kids pay them back pay them back so the same exact thing almost the same thing but this is a different category you have an adult woman an adult slave stay away from them because if they cause damage to you so both a woman and a and a slave don't have their own money even if they have or whatever that's that's already obligated to the husband it's on the side this is one of the reasons why my wife doesn't like when I learn gar because of this line over here everything is mine said no you don't know what you're talking about okay so it says over here that they they cause damage how are they going to pay for it the thing is that if they get divorced oh all of a sudden they're a slave also doesn't own anything so if he causes damage he's Potter but what about the master what about why shouldn't the master be if his slave causes damage like an animal goes out there and causes damage breaks somebody's car gets in an accident why shouldn't the master have to pay we learned it why is he answering everything because as we learned that'll go ahead if he wants to get back as at his master he go ahead and burn Fields every day and the master so we said okay we Z the the other doesn't pay but oh sorry however afterwards they do have to pay that is if they because if the slave becomes free the woman gets divorced then she has to pay if somebody hits their parent and causes them to bleed you're not going to kill them but and if you cause your friend to bleed on also the five things [Music] why and somebody he gets the larger of the two punishments and and if you cause your own damage if somebody else causes damage he has to pay you so if you cause a damage yourself you don't pay yourself you're [Music] poter so it goes like this just as a here if you cause damage somebody causes damage to your minor son the damage goes to your son goes to your son and your daughter there's no question that the pain the aggravation the doctor bills the bua go to the kid that's not a what about the actual damage damage is so thear talks about it theor ask and theor is going to come out that the damages go the damages of a daughter only a daughter A minor daughter go to the father there's something about a daughter that's different than a son the daughter her work goes to the father now this we're going to talk about it the the P says that a father has certain authority over his daughter he can marry off to different people he could so he has something there Chev what about the lost wages of a minor daughter so that's a whole Su that we're going to have now is she living by her father not living by the father somebody else do it did the father do it different things okay the first that ever existed if somebody causes damage to one's daughter who gets the the Torah says that the father has here meaning he can accept he gets things has benefits from her so too when there's damage caused to the daughter and there's money involved there it should go to the father if he wants to sell her he can even sell her as a slave as and he gets the money so also maybe it's when it comes to let me see over here no how I make it bigger AB Remy not this one I was looking for something else here this one there's a special there's a that says that you can marry off your daughter doesn't say who to marry off to he can marry off to the worst guy in the world and he still makes that money hear this I think this is a very very important line here that if a person wants to hit his own child does for a person to hit his child comes out if a person hits his child out of anger not what's this again when I had that thing with the my Riva when I the guy smacked me my face and uh the rash called me to the office to find out what's what happened why did you smack I told him the story I was talking in middle of Ben man outside of the Bas me during s and the guy didn't like it I told the guy said shut up you know he was nasty so I said what he says he threatened me he said if you don't if you're not going to be quiet I'll smack you I said so come here smack me let's get over it I need to continue so he got out of his seat ran over and as he came I stuck out my face like this he smacked me and I said okay you're done next said whatever so the calls me in I don't like to say the story and I said it just read but the called me in so what happened I told him he said you were MN he was MN but o and you were misn that's what he told me so I told him but he was over on P I told him that I told him over I said what I did I don't even know if it was to stop learn in middle of learning okay but he was over no so then he said okay so as a as a hobby you from he did ask me 20 something years later on he called me ask yeah thank you for reminding me so after he didn't ask he doesn't have to he told me what do you help so as a as a hobby I like to argue with people about anything even if I'm wrong so one of the one of the big things today is like you're not allowed to hit your kids nothing zero so I tell people what you're talking about it's a MIT it's in the you know the whole thing but I always tell people listen I don't know you hit not but it should at least be like an option like the kid should know in back of his mind that he could get a if he knows there's no Z then people complain oh there's no people have no fear today they have no respect for elders I don't know we came out pretty good depends the guys that got beat up like M it's one thing so I'm not I'm not advocating for it but one thing a number of people told me that says in his saer he says that B it's AER AER AER to hit to touch not even for nothing not and I tell people so what if your kid is going to run into the street in front of a car you're not going to go like this like give a little Z no not even that so you're killing your kid you're sometimes okay back and forth I don't have children that age anymore so it's not in the G so then this one big psychologist a very very famous psychologist told me this about Rola so I told I said the opposite Rola says you should she say no so I showed I bought him the safer I gave it to him as a present and here it is read sometimes you're allowed to hit in tremendous tremendous pressure what's the tremendous press you think like wow here's the tremendous pressure at night kids have to go to sleep there a few kids at home all screaming mother is very tired from the all day in such a crazy situation up not one a few is quiet that's when it's but otherwise he writes this over here so I'm not just as again at the same time I will say that if somebody hits his kid if somebody hits their kid I'm not going into the it's not and it's with the wrong your person is mad he he throws his sun down to the floor start whacking him 100 that's 100% the right I'm not going into the details fine now you can write me as many emails as you want and I'll read all them tomorrow so when it comes toal when somebody causes damage to a child the father doesn't have a right to it why because he himself can't even hit his own child says sponsored by Greg for the success and the return of our hostages and and for the of so again rebelar asked RAV what happens if somebody cause damage to his young daughter who gets the damages says so whatever comes from the the k um but not not the damages that come from physical damage kind of knew what he was going to say reminds me I'll I'll tell you SM real quickly I said it before but it was I went with my father once and my father asked him a question certain says the The Story Goes that when I came out of my head was spinning and I asked my father what just happened he oh I'll tell you I asked him this you understand theh told me there that says this and that so my father told me I knew he's going to tell me the so I said yeah yeah but smiled yeah but and he told him something else and back and forth like five times at the endi won my father's very excited because that he was holding C and they going back forth forth back great so over here yes ra a question ra tells him this he comes back with something he comes back what did you say AI was hold no the back and forth was cool no and just words not not a whole explanation and I'm like what just happened a and then of course has a big smile and Checkmate get out next he liked this stuff when it was when and you know it says if you cause damage to a Jewish slave and everything besides the unemployment is man so if a master could get the lost wages of a slave of a Jewish slave so certainly a father should receive the lost wages of his daughter you're right that's not a good cash that just says that lost wages just real quickly we'll show this why not there's three stages in a in a girl's life what did I just do here we go from 0 to 12 n is from 12 to 12 and a half if she has but 12 and a half is the the Max 12 and a half 120 is aaras so R there was no argument he says R agrees we're talking about two categories that we don't know NE and CH the damages and the loss wages we're not talking about says we're not talking about wasn't talking about the L that you're right that belongs to the father well we don't know is what about the ne if a human being hits his own son should pay his son all five things immediately if he has a younger son he should make himself a bank account there was a kid that was sitting right where Lauren SP s SPI was sitting last night and he's smiling from ear to ear and I'm like what your father owes you a lot of money he's [Music] like Gula he should make a bank account I'm not kidding I see this kid like he's like he's getting like what are you so happy about yeah I got beat up big time you didn't want to say it like that but okay I said you know what your father's going to say your father's going to I told him I said it's a lost cause I know all these Tinus already I went through this T you owe me a lot of money you hit me five times yeah so pay me for all the pizza pay me R pay me this and he's like you should have seen a smile okay he got nothing zero yeah g you should make him a bank account she put the money in there you owe the son money you're not going to give him today he's going to waste it on Candy you put it in his account how beat the but if you cause damage to your young daughter what's it called retroactive trauma clarification yeah so it says that you give it to the father no again that's not a good R we're we're trying to figure out NE not what you should give your son you should pay your son right away if he cause damage so we have here another Brion this these are the two Bri the Bri the first BR we already read here's the second one if you cause damage to somebody else's kids you should pay them right away to the other to the to the adults the younger ones you put it away in a in a trust Potter oh it says you are Potter where do you Potter from you Potter from CH you still the other stuff for your for your own for your own children you don't have to pay says if when you have children that are living by you so return of them living by you here there that's the's answer I you I give you free rent I give you free room and board food everything so you know what if this happens I don't have to pay you but if they don't live in the house anymore then the father is in ch right because there's a there's a give and take I give my kids room and board I get their I get the the loss wages they don't live by me then I don't get the lost wages says so what how do you say the first you establish the first BR is talking about when they're they're not with their father if they're not living by him so let's explain this sa it says if you cause damage to your young daughter that goes to the father as if she doesn't live by her father's house why should her father take that money shouldn't you give it to her how she going to live she needs to support herself that's one of the ways she's going to support somebody hits her she gets the money now there is something interesting there is a Mand that says that if you have a a slave you're this is very extreme you're allow to tell a slave you work from day ton night all day long work for me and I'm not going to give you food you go figure out the food situation yourself go and knock on somebody's door get food by yourself so if that's the case maybe I would say the same thing by a daughter that she doesn't live by me but nevertheless I get the income that doesn't work says the even if you hold like extreme work but I'm not going to give you any food that's only by non-jewish slave work the whole day and at night knock on the doors and get some food go into the dumpster get food but when it comes to jewi says it should be good for him together with you what does that mean whatever you eat you eat a steak you have to give your slave not only that the famous if you only have one pillow you give the pillow to your slave you have to treat him just as well as yourself maybe maybe even better so certainly your daughter can't tell her you don't live by me but I should take your I should take your money that doesn't Works somewhere else we're talking about the extra money of course the regular money for her to support herself she takes for self we're talking about even though she doesn't live by her father he's still entitled to the the change whatever is above and beyond that he takes and how do you establish the the second they are so it's a you know it's a chart and you could look over here if you want it's colorful it's nice if we talk this is the father so if if the the the left row is very simple if the kids live in his house so it doesn't matter if they're older younger boy girl he doesn't have to he doesn't have to pay them for anything but if they don't live by him so the older boys girls if he's a minor he has to open up a bank account if it's a that's what we're talking about so he pays for misus but he doesn't pay he doesn't have he could take the extra if it's somebody else so it it's it's a little different he has to pay it depends so if it's a cut he has to open up a account for him and also open up an account if they're not so somebody else causes damage you have to pay for the adults immediately you hear it an adult you have to pay immediately benon open up an account BAS pays for her but the extra goes to the father okay now I was just thinking to myself in this you look at this thing right okay I close it like I ask a few questions 10% of the here knows what's going on right but I was thinking we have guys in the K that took a test on 1500 da that means they knew this chart they had when they as some of the questions ask is a chart like this give us the whole chart next on one random da somewhere we can't even do it to the DA we're learning and there we say oh yeah 1500 D but it's not just 1500 D it's really hard viral question it's not like oh what's the iser to hit your kid no no no I need to know the chart I want to know in this in this case not that's one of the questions could be I'm 1500 thought to myself and they know it and they have these they have way to remember and they make movies in their head and different ask them sorry we did this right so the second they live by him so if they're adults already he should pay them make them a bank account if the father himself caus damage he doesn't give the kid so if somebody else caused damage he should certainly pay who the father if the father causes damage he doesn't have to pay that means damage goes to the father so if somebody else causes damage go the father so now the comes up with something else when there's a outside income something happened he got an injury he won let's see the lottery then the father doesn't take it it's something outside but when it's him himself if he himself cause damage he doesn't pay why because that's coming out of his own pocket the father doesn't want to come out of pocket if there's a a special circumstance where the son is making money good let him take it but for him to come out a packet that he's not masing as when what happens when a kid finds something in the street a lottery is just to come and the father's says give it to me I want it oh you're right so we have to we have to fine tune this a little bit there's two things going on here first of all has to be some side income but also and he has no there has to be that the sun had s and it comes from an outside Source then the sun gets to keep it finding something in the street the son didn't work for it C the father wants it but when it comes to injury this the kid is suffering and it's aside somebody else is paying for it the father says you know what you suffered it's coming from another source take the money the first where talking about who somebody injured her somebody else this all of a sudden the father is M why it has these two these two um the first of all it's coming it's from outside source and this pain it has the two conditions they have to pay the father why the father give it to the kid you just said if the kid suffers and it's coming from outside Source give it to the kid says beautiful guy we're talking about what's the guy's name I forgot his name whatever his last name was sham okay we'll go to his name here whatever the guy's name with the big long email felber the guy M I don't know there not sometimes it's not a better word he's a captain what what do you mean M the kid is seven years old he threw him out on the street why because it says six and a half years old you're done of course six and a half out it's a guy like that he's a he's a the proof is they're not even living in his house so even something that has no it just came from somebody else he takes the money to himself he's one of these guys he's one of those but a normal guy the guy he lets this kid stay by by his house he's he's a regular guy he's a he's a laid-back person he lets his kid stay in his house until they get married or whatever it is so if they get some outside out outside Source income you could have it now let's just finish the what does it mean that I say to you before you all the way at the end where you from I did say sh to you that's it no there's a guy that look Mish like you it's not you you weren't here last week are you serious remember you know what I'm talking about the with a big black beard maybe from the distance what's your name n berstein sh there's another guy from Lakewood we could prove it we'll show it in the video what what's his name rer also did he look similar to him okay I'm not M but now I'm just at the end of the sh I looked a few times like wait wait a minute maybe not the same person all you guys from Lake would look the same no I'm just okay I was born in L you know what I'm saying so I'm allowed to have a what's G what does it mean you should put something inside for this kid buy him a sa Tyra obviously sa tus didn't cost $100,000 you're also new okay so buy him some sa I hope the injury wasn't that bad but it seems like a sa was wasn't that expensive it could be even a no it could be anything any kind of safer that you right that last for for a long time also something that last give sustenance they say the that came in on September 7th they came with a bunch of dates you heard about this October 7th what did I say oh whatever because dates is one if if you if you're going to be stuck for a long time with one food they say take a date with you dates dates last and this is something you build a guy a tree you knocked off his arm build him a tree get him a tree that he has for for Generations he only get says the only GI like we said is even a wound we said it has to be a bloody wound what's a just has to be something that the value diminishes of this kid yes it's a a little scar in her face after that actually causes the her value to go down because he could sell her as and the value goes down because of that you have to pay the father rabai have a wonderful [Music] day