Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 77 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good [Music] morning I have to apologize today there's there certain reasons why but we're going to have 30 minutes of emails so if you want to do mikro or something else I'm kidding I'm kidding chill chill RAB listen to this you actually can see the picture hi cousin CU Zen I hope all is well business has been picking up tremendously and I've been flying a lot lately unfortunately I've not been doing the dve since the summer you not been doing the dve since the summer I've not been I just saw this on the plane and it made me feel super guilty I remind myself of the good days when I was up to date with the D I'll be landing in new work tonight I'm stopping in to get a before I go home and I'll start tonight not tomorrow and I got his name afterwards his name is Shu Carmel so first of all this sadic that with the blue shirt is learning bras or Shas I don't know what he's learning over there it's one of the original sh the beginning of but a person doesn't know the ripple effect he's learning on a plane he's doing his own thing and meanwhile not only is with his but he's inspiring another yid and like I said the other day there are a lot of these guys that want to do the DA they started they have a in their car next to them or they have a in the back of their brain they have a in iers but they want and they need all they need is a phone call they need a push they need a friend to call them up and I'm telling you today is the day when we get to B pull out your phones call a friend do a status reell please give a big shout out so that was the plane believe it or not on the same day we had the Train the the plane the train and the automobile here it goes please give a big shout out to Jack stepner who was caught red handed during a day while standing on the train from Tel Aviv to tonight after a long day of work Anonymous Moses Zach where when is he going to come when is he going to be here yeah and of course we have Jonathan stansky who does the da also check out what what in in the automobile so K we have plane train and automobile hi rebi I was going back and forth since the shabbaton whether or not to send you an email but decided if one person gets from this then it's well worth it she something personal to like many people have not opened I like many people have not opened up a safer in 15 years slacked in many ear of yish kite inter and particularly watching my eyes I've joined in b not missed a single day since then back to the shabat many people say it was a tremendous but for me particular whole new meeting ever since the shabas been doing amazing with watching my eyes it literally saved my life in yishai keep up the amazing work of Simply helping people connect back to what we're supposed to be doing another person who through learning T increased his in many other areas as well yesterday I brought the um the story the Israel Goen story that he said that he had two anal one nine months after he sponsored the D in won a year minus three days and I said as a joke they didn't even call the kid Ellie or Ellie stansky so somebody brought me this gamar chabas kfal and it says that was walking a woman came to me her first son after the died she asked what should I do with the third boy I saw that he's red wait until his blood goes back in properly she gave him a and the kid lived and this this is what the guy pointed out they didn't call the boy with the last name with the they didn't even call the kid shim so we have a over here but it's not his kid so whatever l two and a half years ago listen to this this SCH hers from Surfside Florida l two and a half years ago I suffered a stroke at the age of 39 as I recover my memory was not so great I started to learning the do to see if I would retain I would not do the as I felt I was not learning this I don't I don't I don't agree with a lot of people ask me this I learned it but I don't know it so well and sometimes I didn't look inside you make the seeum you make the see over the last four months I'm learning and retaining I'll finally make a from now on I say SCH hurs from Sur side Florida you make a c and you make a see for all those other you missed it was a mistake should have made the then thank you for helping in my recovering be heard Surf Side I don't know what what do that screen again it was cool I see Uncle Phil Uncle Phil is here so I I met I met Uncle Phil on the stairs coming up and he said that he's straight off the plane like Alan gross three days ago like aan G not where is he he's here some I know I know I know here he is no no I was I was joking I was kidding no no no no wow um gloves no no no no no no no no not with him this's a long one I'm just gonna say like this a lot of people suffer trauma in Yesa iner so he says like this he wants to say a story about z z is when you sprinkle the blood on the he's one of these kids s Savage from SV from Nadar he says that he was in in class he's one of those kids was mostly out of class and not in class getting kicked out and you could it's good it's good it's good so kids are he finally gets back into school and after getting kicked out he didn't go to the K like that other guy so he wanted a better seat so he sits next to the rebi the rebi on the First first day he's sitting there in the front seat rebi says he says he asked the re if he could give out the test to the kid so he leans over and knocks over the Reb's bottle of water and the water gets everywhere so the rabbi in Anger takes the water and does on him he sprinkles him with the water and then when he has a a bottle that's empty he throws the bottle at him and tells this kid leave and never come back so a lot of us had traumas in school and that's why we're here today this is your therapy youv since and do we have time for another another two we'll do quick yesterday we I live in Cleveland Ohio there's going to be a from business show here on February 25th and a couple of MD yers would like to have an mdy booth at the show including himself I would appreciate a call back you hear Tom call him back to talk about getting posters garas maybe some swag for giveaways to try to group people to mdy please have someone call me at your earliest convenience I've been with MD since mid aan and rebell featured my father twice as he's possibly his oldest tal Kar he's 97 years old and still doing MD day here's the website for the place thank you is saff and finally I just want to show you Rose uh put on a status and this is not that he grabbed from he did this himself you use SE and this to grab another person to to we have a seat for you this is where guest is right over here the seat is available come come come come inside here here look at the status three three three I'm all three three he did well over there fine you in a week from now we start Bama volume three three people consider trying out our mdy rejoining journey who's going to be first no procrastinating join now and here's three from stefansky all right nice job beautiful the co sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood for for the unity of really no no I need somebody like you sitting over here next to me come come you don't have to no I want to hear yeah and iated by it you went what it was in that Hall [Music] and I was able to [Music] explain that's that's the D I gave in Lakewood I came to to Lakewood to give the ah I got it I hear I have no I don't remember but he remembers is a hard okay really it's all hard for me it's all equally hard okay for coming what's your name again from Lakewood that that that's reserved for the guest maybe you pray PR and you came from the hardest to the easiest look at this the shortest in the entire say for your Relentless [Music] commitment today in memory of early from Anonymous in Manchester joined the she at the beginning of fathers on Seventh yard from the family how do you pronounce it you looking okay Li Sternberg in honor of my daughter's wedding tonight mazov atbs is invited FIS RKA it's not an RBS I can tell you that it sounds like a liquid place no first Lakewood okay probably in Brooklyn somewhere couple that was tragically nifter yesterday that's a sad story from Lakewood a young couple uh she was expect she was in her ninth month expecting her first child killed in a car accident I believe that's what we're talking about here couple tragically LIF her yesterday we should have know from mdy headquarter Coffee corner and beverages menal learner and Anonymous for the fory child birth for his daughter and a healthy baby that's the art of the month somebody help him out with the coffeee [Music] what oh that's right today it was big news for me I got a phone call yesterday from my very very dear rishu price he had a baby boy BR is this morning the bris is today I I I don't know if he wants me to announce the bris is today those who need to find out I'll tell them I don't want to just invite people to BR or inform you could today at 9:45 at at CH me up yeah it was beautiful okay it's a big Z big big yesterday we're MD here and the gamar says like this the story it goes in steps yeah purple ruin took an animal and made it heg dish okay had a little little sheps sheep he made it he made it a Cara come shim and steal it from him and so the asks in in Orange but it's not a good we said that in order to that's to eat it's outside it's not to eat so we had a number of answers we're going to talk about who says yes it was inside that's where the took place was a inside we says no he outside so you could eat if you're you could eat so it's a good but the says but the point is not the the point is the P you have to be what happened to the P so the [Music] says as long as possible to be you could be so even if you're not it has the ability in this case it's it's where therefore it's a good it's we're holding one line from the bottom of how do we know this idea that's something that's about that could be you could redeem it it's considered redeemed we're talking about the and it's not a hard line there it's not like we have a a very hard line of and there's a lot of rash in fact I said yesterday somebody sent me the I'll show it to you if I could get to it there is the the says that he has from depends how you want to yeah he says that the Bal some B were put to death and the night before they sat down and they wrote this T it was like their last T that's why it's very that's what he says cab from the beginning of History till today there only nine paradas nine one of them brought and the final one in the time Mia M comes as we learned yesterday food is susceptible to T if you know fruit if to pour water has to be food is susceptible to T provided that you could eat the food that's if it's you can't eat it you can't it's not it's not available to eat so it doesn't become tomim holds that if it was available to eat even for a moment then even though right now you cannot eat it it's still considered that was it's acceptable to what about after you it's not right to eat you have to you have to make it into you take it you burn the ashes you stand there across from the on there's no over there at that point here's a picture that Yoshi did there they might not be facing the right way we just want to see them to see what the there you can see the you take the paruma you take a lot a lot of wood why do you take a lot of wood because you need a lot of Ashes if you just burnt the paruma as is you wouldn't have enough Ashes to last you for 100 years you don't know when the next parad is going to come it might be 150 years it averages out about once every hundred years there a parad Duma so you take this PARTA it's worth millions it's very hard to come by a perfectly red heer red cow that no no me no oil not even two haars that are not red the whole thing once so once in a lifetime you take this paruma you it on top of and you put with the wood crazy amount of wood hundreds of tons of wood so now I have hundreds of tons of Ashes you take these ashes you mix it with water that's the only way to make somebody tar in those days everybody had to be you had people you go to that's it you're done for seven days you the only way to get out of is get sprinkled twice on the third day the seventh day with this special water that was done on on now is this meat of the paruma considered meat that was Roy that now it's susceptible to T part of this T actually talks about wait a minute isn't the inherently Tom we know that the could make somebody who's Tom and somebody that's is Tom okay so that's a little bit of what's going on there says and I got to mention that the guy number one maybe in the world in Chas he doesn't like when I say his name so I won't say his whole name the fener but whatever he's the Bell we call him the Belzer his wife said you know it's not fair you know I also want to learn she said okay no problem he taught it to her and that's the gamar that she runs she says I also know if anybody wants to learned gamar here it is anybody can learn so we're turning to which is also a which we have in this by the way we talk about and and it's very easy no no no no no not mle okay sponsored by Greg habber for the success and the safe return of our Andes that I'll leave that up to you by the way you're getting paid half for today said it so yeah so you have a paruma you have auma that is sitting there on the wood since listen to this say it's unbelievable you waited a 100 years to find this paruma possibly possibly there's a slight chance one in a billion chance that you'll find a different one right now today in the next five minutes so and you might want to switch it out to the better one you might want to upgrade your part ofuma you had a small one you want to get a big one this is not no no this is Nota because oh so very interesting yesterday as I was getting a haircut I do what I do every time I get a haircut I bother all the people on the shop over there they should come to to join the do so now it's in Hebrew what's your so the guy says I doas I said great what does mean does teach you what means what does mean it's in the so of course they start with the whole thing means that if you have fruit you give a little bit no no no that's truma do the whole finally so the guy I tell the guy what it is they said there's a you have one animal that's skinny you made it into a carbon you want to take it and switch it into a much larger animal better animal yeah yeah yeah I knew it that I knew so I said so if you know that so how many mitzah is it at least three he tells me no it's a oh okay so then he says oh but this guy so he says listen but you're allow to redeem it if you're allow to redeem it why can't you make it what's the big deal if you say this is instead of this I said cuz you're not allowed to redeem it you only allowed redeem an animal that has a m not animal doesn't have a m okay so but this paruma you could redeem paruma doesn't have okay that's a good point that you make is not outside it's not a it's not so I could redeem it but St you hear what's going on here why would you redeem it you waited 100 years for this paruma no you see your side here you never know you never give up you might come up with a better one and you want to do a mitvah and you'll take okay no this is it one one at a one one at a time you see from here one at a time it's good I hear and you'll see that I'm right no if you have two Paras you take them both okay we should we should be down in huh he's asking could you have two part at the same time okay fine say he wants to be pointed he wants to be poed he wants to could he why cuz he wants no cuz he wants to eat it he you don't he wants to eat a steak now yes yeah but he has a better one he's not going to have think logically it's enough he has 500 tons of wood he doesn't need a small little 20 pound thing he has a nice steak doesn't it he wants to eat a steak anybody ever do right right right like in every like in every gimar it's not a foolish question it's a question of somebody that no no no what if could he what if he doesn't want what if he wants to right now he's M he wants to eat a he wants why do people drink wine that that has uh wine that has gold things in it why to say that I drank a $3,000 bottle of wine but gold doesn't taste good I ate a aduma steak it was a million dollar thing I got a better one I a why reminds me of a m didn't think hold on no don't wor about it I'm going to go past 8:00 the what amood that's what that's what I said I told him I said you already have the 500 tons you will get the amount of that animal but I rather have that as a steak okay there's a guy that walks into the bakery and says I I want to buy a really the nicest cake you have what do you have we have the three layer three layer I'll give out three three floors okay I want the bottom floor white the middle pink and the top brown okay what I want flowers and then each flower he starts designing it and right on the top the guy goes in hour later comes out and he says he says no no no this not good not good I don't like the lettering I want it in script you wrote it Square script so oh the guy goes back he takes off the whole thing in script he says okay now good yeah good so the guy says where should I deliver it to he says deliver I'm meeting it here this is your paruma wow Shi found that says like I said it's a Mitzvah to be not to have two Paras you find the nicer one wow save me from you what I said you can't have two I didn't know it just made sense the point of the is but you w't you kept on going so what do you see that at there was a moment of time that before you burnt it after you sh you could have been ped that's enough to be considered like it's redeemed it's and therefore our you because even though you didn't you could and is says so for this we need to see no we don't need to but just to remind the question is when I when I when a person steals an animal from his friend that's already hegdish it's already a carbon and he it isn't that isn't doesn't it make the animal not available to eat why because he it outside the says no he Sheed it inside the he Sheed a really good animal or good carbon he in fact he even had a mind for the he had a mind for the owner Ruben owned it initially he told the have in mind that this should be for Ru great says no no no talking about which he can't even bring to the so it's a good you bring says what's what why should be and say we're talking about a what's the point say a normal carbon that you could bring in also it would include also outside of you don't have to go that way it could be anything covers all BAS to say that we're talking about this is just an example of how the obviously knows what holds and is a massive that he learned and he said this but in a question and answer kind of form man this this how gar works we ask a question like we don't know the oh we have an answer no no we know the answer asking question to get to the answer the says so they go together so this is a a typical then when you have the two words together they depend on each other and if you cannot do one you cannot do the other sometimes you have a case where you cannot check an animal and sometimes you have a case where you can't sell the animal in our case you can't sell Kim so if you can't sell Kim you cannot in other words if you it Mr GH who it will not be why because if Mr ghav tries to sell him it doesn't work and he's not so if he sh it even though it should work he's not because they go together what if I have a different case opposite case what can't sell it it's not yours to sell you're going to sell a what are you going to sell it's your what are you going to sell and it's your schlam no it's your SCH no no no you can't doesn't work for you it's my schl I have to bring it what are you sell you're making money off K you're selling take money in your packet for it it's not a you're giving mat mat no since I can't do I can't do now we have the opposite case where you can't do and therefore I wouldn't be able to sell it either they're dependent on each other and this m goes perfectly with their own we're discussing aov a GH who sells stuff yeah is the the famous picture that we're using in from Vice from Manchester a TR for hole in the heart m a real hole in the heart so remember on in the M over there we had these two cases and the two cases that it's not you can't eat it and says from why because it has to be you have to do a that you could eat if you shoot the animal you Po from so if you sh an animal that has a hole in it heart you also po Accord to so according to what if I take this animal that has a hole in its heart when it's alive and I sell it one of the things that is selling you you're allowed to sell an animal that has a hole in its heart especially if you don't know about it yeah they sell animals that have hole in the hearts every every is buying animals every day that have hole in the hearts and it's a good sale you don't go it's a sale does is the why it's not dependent you cannot because it has a hole in its heart but you could sell it and even though a in heart even though they're next to each other in the same they're not dependent on each other K right we're talking about the opposite cases before I did skip no I don't think so says you're right theoretically you could sell it but since if you it you wouldn't be so if you sell it you're also the [Music] same the voice of this climb yeah they have a a liger it's like a it's a lion and a tiger yeah they have this today they have all sorts of animals that are climb we're talking about the left bottom corner which is the calls it a it's a combination of a female sheep and a male goat okay it's possible genetically they they could what oh that's right you're right you're right it's not a that's a this you're right you're right you're 100% right that's a that's a in a goat correct this is [Music] what yeah yeah yeah no I messed up that's this a this a correct so look what it says there very important it says two it talks about clim this is the animal that's that has two parents a goat and a sheep and a tra that's the hole in the heart look what it says over here now here's in the Torah it says that if you steal a SE and a what if it's not a what if it's a it's a it's a mix it's not an orange or a lemon it's a grapefruit it's something it's not this and not this it's in between so what is it by the way is there any food in the world that if you combine them together it's a it's awesome the rice to eat let's say you take a lemon and an orange you make a grapefruit is it awesome for you to eat let's say you take a sheep and a goat and you combine together you have a I don't know what it's called they have a name for it a sh Jeep or a go a GOP whatever you want a geep Jeep a Jeep a Jeep very good what was that thing you showed me yesterday actually at the end this year that was interesting thing that had to do with the what was it show me something so no there's only one thing in the that's if you combine and that is CL grapes with wheat that's is everything else there's no is to do it maybe but not but that's not that's not you're not you don't have a outcome that's a mixure of two items no I'm talking about a fruit like a fruit like an animal that that they they they they created a new a new thing a new entity F you stole this hybrid animal that's a half goat half sheep and youed it now because the says I lost my train of thought here because the says should be only a sheep and we'll see later it's always only a sheep in this particular case it includes also the hybrid the CL that you if you steal and sell it if you take an animal that has a hole in it heart and you sh it or you I'm sorry you sell it you don't sh it you sell it you pay four or five so let's pause for a second look at this chart it's very very important you don't have to look at the chart you can look in the gar the the first case is CL only tells you one one story happened heed it what happened with selling what if I stole a hybrid and I sold it should be the same it is the same now let's look at the next one and I sell it what about and according to and it doesn't now so makes a lot of sense why the brings only one case of but why does it say see that's the here that's the is it on purpose is it is it mimicking each other it's only saying one but it also means both I mean ultimately the is gonna say you know what the best thing to write this line would be two cases climb and youed it and you sold the answer to that possibly is that you cannot say that because doesn't apply to tr but definitely should apply to CL you're not a you if you a hybrid animal you just like if you sell it okay so that's the Su now um I gave the Su last night and I looked around it didn't look like the was grabbing it even though it's very very simple it's basically what I just said so I went home and I called Yosi had a to call him up because I basic he basically has Co right now and he's not feeling well I said listen do me a favor you got to get me a chart going here for just this it's a simple simple chart and he sat there to 12:30 at night I have to give him tremendous he pulls through even when he's sick so huh what what oh what's more more charts the better okay so let's see the sui real quickly because we're going to be late again how's this possible to get to 8:00 see it doesn't say anything about he has a it doesn't say anything about you pay four five say this makes a lot of sense here here take a look how he did it is Boom it must be holds then it comes to there is no four and five because it's not a so this fits in with rib what do you see look if you take off the bottom so you left with you see that there is a case that I could sell and but I can't do yet it works you don't need they're not depend on each other that's says they're not depend on each other no no no no let's push the button here it goes according to you are the question is so then why doesn't mention it why does it mention it okay so it goes according to you let's go back here it goes according to so how come by it only says it should say by CL I'm just thinking I was thinking when I when I read this when I learned this for the very first time it's a thing in in life what happened think about it a guy wakes up in the morning his $2,000 cow is gone what's his first thought I'm going to get those AR they stole they came with a truck how talking now turns out it was a yid that stole his cow and he's he's M he's upset he goes back to the video camera he sees a guy with the face the whole thing taking his cow he's Furious how did the guy steal my cow it turns out had the guy not stolen his cow he would have gone brought it to the schlak to they would have shed it and what happened there's a big hole in the Heart Take Your cow get sell it to a guy for $100 you lost your $2,000 what happened instead the stole it the it the had to pay him five cows five cows so sometimes when you think ah oh it's a terrible tragedy happened no you you don't the opposite you made five times what you're supposed to make how's that possible this you tell me it's shim very good it works very well for the bottom TR only doesn't apply to but what if youed a hybrid you you should be four and five so why does it say it so how could be you have to say you know what the BR wasn't 100% it said one out of the two cases and both you should understand it means both so it's not not anyone therefore you're asking me in this case look how come it says the bottom doesn't say because it only says one out of the two very good simple chart but it makes the easier listen according let's go back according to it could only be one in the sa only so therefore the must mimic the when I say so I have to say CL yeah everything in ch Rhymes it goes together he's saying one case in the sa I say one case in the r even though it's both and every time we say it then we shake our head a little okay but that's how that's how they remember things it parallel whatever you want to call it it had a it had a match they match each other well now it's the best best way to write this BR would be say the two the two cases and say the outcome everything is clear it's actually less words to yeah no it's not less words the same amount of words and we get it clear according to that's how it is there's no difference between even in TR they hold that's be right that's good now next very simple we said that if a person steals a half goat sheep he's why as let's look at the POS for a second which would mean not a not a Jeep and not a what was the other one sheep [Music] whatever so we learn from this it's called means once I have it here I have it for everywhere it's the model for the rest of the when it says I mean I'm very strict about it I mean a sheep and not a a goat sheep so what about over here so how come over here if I steal a she goat sheep I'm here let's go back to the it says o we had the already with the what's so I just told you the word adds but they have a problem in other places it says the same words and I made it a I took something out not put something [Music] in so now we go to this POS the famous POS that we l that what you bring a carbon from a sheep from a goat you have to wait seven days but you wait you you bring it as a carbon comes to say clim that if you have a go cheap you cannot bring it as a carbon if you steal it and it there's AO you have to pay four or five but if I can I cannot bring a goat sheep to the B of mikdash all a and what I do with the next in this look at this this is galic so we have a of two sheep the guy's reading the the whole thing he even has a video camera there five months and a day later could that sheep it's five months we had one of these looks a sticker like a like an elephant it's anido the parents are 100% sheep it's not that we had a a problem mixing two tyes of animals same anal outes I saw this in AER I'm not I'm not I'm not exaggerating a guy gets married and uh out comes the baby and the baby has a nose you know a foot long he looks at himself in the mirror he says I have a normal nose he looks at his wife perfect nose what's going on here turns out that she she was born with a nose like that and a couple surgeries later and he comes to the r he asked the r the r the RO to say he asked the is this got to get out of my marriage yeah had a nma okay so I mean I ain't show I don't know where thing said I just went there for the story not for the okay so I cannot bring an elephant looking sheep to the so so the question is over here o comes to exclude to take away and by us o said even a hybrid animal is no you didn't understand the word o is there to teach us something sometimes depends on the situation sometimes to remove something to to add depends on what depends on the the T put two animals that it's impossible for them to breed rash explains because sh is pregnant for n months a sheep is pregnant for five months I looked it up scientifically it's impossible to have different chromosomes it's impossible genetically to happen it's impossible clb so therefore the to say since it's impossible to have I'm adding the C that if somebody steals this by by a carb where it says two animals that they could be bred together so I don't need the word it already tells me that CL is here because they both together in that case the O comes to exclude have a wonderful day [Music] know for