Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 31 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good [Laughter] morning live from the convention okay wait so we had an unbelievable shabas here in the Armon hotel in Connecticut this is the exact same place where mdy had shabbaton exactly a month ago and there was a wonderful shabas the shabas got to meet the is here heard great speeches I heard unbelievable from cinnamon check him out he's on Torah any time it's phenomenal stuff if you if you like lumus and cinnamon spelled c y just in case you want to look it up so it was a beautiful inspiring Chavis and uh I want to thank all those involved and especially RIT kman for inviting me and bringing me here I met uh a lot of wonderful people and I'll talk about some of them soon because it's m shabas and there's a program coming up and uh we got a late start as usual so I am going to skip the email part I know it's very sad I know you want to hear some emails and uh we're going to jump right into it and uh so before I go into the um the sponsors and everything I just want to go through just a few Nas that we learned in the past week in the past few D we had some one is and people complain that you know the goes in one ear goes out the other ear so we try to doar we tried to emphasize some points that we learned means if let's say an animal does something different strange it lays down in the middle of a street and then another animal comes and kicks it which is also strange since the first one started so to speak it did something strange so we're not so mock been on the second one it's interesting T that says that this doesn't really apply to human beings this is this was only said when it get to animals the concept of we all know but it's to repeat and that is that says about whatever the is exactly says if a father would spit out his daughter put her in for seven days so cult we would have we would make would be double but no we have to stop and limited to the source which is seven days has a has a stop you can't go above where you coming from TR the cat means a simple piece of wood that doesn't have a shape learn now we had this idea which would mean that if we're learning let's say for example exle from we want to learn that if a dead person touches A simple piece of wood we learn from a sheret how long is the T Byer it only lasts for one day so if I'm learning it from a Sher then so then I have to take all the from it or perhaps no I learned one concept from Sher that it's how long that I'm not going to learn from sherids how long is a typical that's to which is seven days okay anyways here we are by the sponsors sponsors for the unity of the we have five of them worldwide in honor of building campaign wow they snuck it in somehow I'm not gonna mention the rest that you could do on your own Barrel sep firstday Mark ashkanazi and Uncle Phil wish happy 18th birthday to Yol Bergman ah the famous Yol Bergman from Chicago in the art of the month which is now it's not even fear that he gets old as now we have two full-time artists that come from supporting I want to talk about this for a second we're starting a brand new M which means that we're 30 days into it's tremendous we started the M here in this hotel and here we are 30 days later so I was speaking to the Riva today what's the Shir all about and why there so many people that watch I don't the point is to give gak in learning and I didn't tell him about this but the idea is to once in a while whether it's it's a good picture sometimes the picture describes the sugya sometimes it's for entertainment to to take a little break so I had this idea and this dream I want to do a lot of 3D animation in ch I think it'll bring out sugis clear and again it's the same thing it's sometimes it's for the entertainment part to you see the Su when it becomes visual you you remember it there's a lot of things that you you see you oh yeah that that video Yeah and B we're going to have this with Trum and when it comes to to to the the works and everything else so when I when I saw that I can't do all the art myself I'm not an artist but I was you know doing dabbling with the with different things and pictures and drawing my own yamas if you remember and the the ET so I went to my very good friend I have a a very good friend his name is and if you're part of the she you know that I have an argument with him throughout CH he doesn't argue with me I just argue with him in public I tell him his side and I say my side every time the gamar says something about oh you see always argues with me what's more important he's a big so he loves I I like I like also get we have this ongoing argument I could prove you wrong let me finish my speech here so rabud is here he's my in Chicago for over two years we learned to die in Chicago then he convinced me to move he's one of the reasons why I moved I moved to his block biter so it's really this whole MD is his fault but I went to him I said listen he he has a company it's called Outsourcing to Israel right so has aan I said listen Maybe you know of a good artist says yeah I'd rather know and he said I know this guy Yoshi K are on the spot boom we hired him galic because that's what he does he puts gets people for companies and etc etc and uh so just recently like a month two ago I said listen I want to do this 3D art and I told him the whole thing he says oh I think I have somebody from you and first try and here it is I want to show you this we we we'll we'll read the first two lines of the mishna and then I'll show you this thing now it's not 100% the case of the mishna but it's almost there now you have to understand that something like this could take two days that's basically what it took him two days to to create 15 22nd thing says sponsor have two people that are carrying let's say glass bottles or or some sort of barrel the first guy tripped and fell first guy tripped oh all right we have one of the most famous mag in the world he does the songs of sh what's it tell me your whole name again gives a day in Flatbush I I don't like when sit through my sh but you could we're good friends we have doy that sat next to me what's your last name of DOI do gr kids are okay you didn't have to come you're okay so we had a guy that trips is he negligent or he's not negligent is not so says the mishna the first guy trips the second guy trips over him so the first one is in all the damage that's caused to the second one now I'm gonna ask you can answer why is the first guy anybody huh mayor what does that mean that what who's who's talking over there me n in front of you this all right got from Arizona or something that was no that was El yeah yeah Queens Queens he said kler me okay what is it what is it called in the first mission of bakama this for what is this called This Bar everybody says bar who says oh very good bunch of buch of here we have it's but there's some that say that it's bar okay very good was holding now let me just show you this clip try to make him look Jewish evic okay really next time you got to get me a FR guy that does this hold up all right that's that at least the kid liked it say there that I that was my idea I said he has to go head first in the garbage can you know it's G when you have this idea I I'm picturing how the story happened I told the guy this is what I want you to do and this is what he did but I told him he has to be holding barrels and this and that that party forgot about okay good we we'll get there eventually no but it's gonna be more for for describing a heart this it's it's gonna I think it's going to be relative fine so that's the M we go back over here says no is this mayor who says that somebody who trips is I don't know about you but we we were a bunch of mean kids in New York and uh there was a there was a thing like they would put like a string out and wait for that you know that kid in the class and uh and as he was walking by they would pull it and he was falling down they' say something to the effect like um have a safe trip we'll see you in the fall you know something like that okay so this this guy he's responsible for his own for his own for his own NE here you don't have to say that why it could go according to say no he's not such a negligent person the problem is that he had some time to stand up you see this guy here maybe show this guy what is he doing down there let him get up we're talking about he could have gotten up since he could have gotten up and he didn't that's the that's the problem that's the the is not that he tripped the is that he didn't get up so I want to read this again because it brought out a big [Music] here you hear sometimes a person falls and it's not really his fault he had a in whatever it is the question is how long does he stay down the trick is to get up we all have NE We All Fall how long are you down I forgot which Ru said it maybe it was it's hard for me to say his name Rabbi Dr L Jonathan sack something like that I think he's the one that said that he was once at a doctor's office taking a stress test he's on they put him on a treadmill so he asked the doctor what do you want to see how fast I run or how long I could last doctor said neither I want to see how long it takes your heart to go back to regular in other words person falls but how hard how long are you going to stay in that situation you're going to come back and go back to where you were before or you're gonna sit there on the [Music] floor he should should have warned the guy I don't know if anybody plays GF here but when you play GF and you take a not such a good shot so you scream four right what I'm talking about yeah F do which that reminds me because it's shabas this week I sat down with a big bishan from New York and uh he was telling me you know I have uh I'm part of a country club yeah Country Club means I'm part of a golf course and this kosher food there and I play golf every day so so how how long how long do you pay play day it's three four hours a day three four hours a day it's like wow so I got to with him and I'm telling him about and he's giving me these face I said what he says the is B I said but four hours on the golf course is okay I said you know I'm going to say this in my sh he said no you better I'm not gonna mention your name but he's arguing with me that only you can only learn certain ways and this that but on the golf course is bad okay so why while you go to the golf course learn no all right so we have here says you should have actually she did a little thing here let me see if I have it oh there's another one hold on I didn't this Ah that's a different thing okay I didn't see I didn't see he just put it in this cap M sorry we'll go back to it so something called like we mentioned in the mishna we'll get back to that as well and I'm juming around there because Yoshi did this quick chart it's not so important but okay since he did it I'll show it to you according to he should have stood up and if he didn't have a chance to stand up he's Potter his is that even if he doesn't have a chance to stand up he just he should have worn other guy you should have scream out okay says the yeah so says I argu the guy is busy with his wounds he doesn't have the cup to to to scream out to somebody four or whatever be careful I have to do this all myself because the guy I just telling the guy that is on my computer that does it it's 3 o'clock in the morning the other guy is in Phoenix so it's not much maybe now will come on and help me out to go back and forth between the things usually usually they take care of the things behind the scenes okay I feel this notan the guy that's holding the beam you have a guy with a beam he's walking down the street like this he's walking down the street like this and and behind him is a guy with a barrel yeah like this if the barrel hits the beam so that we have today in traffic if you hit somebody that's driving in front of you hit the back of his car you're not the guy driving but if the guy makes a short stop the the guy holding the beam if he makes a stop which is not regular then he's to pay for the damage caused to the says so there's two things we're going to see there's something called means to I'll show you the picture anyways why not before the ter of the means to readjust the load that's normal everybody that has a napsack that has a load on his shoulders readjusts so he pauses for a moment to readjust he's within the guid light that's normal why so that's a question on even though he's he's busy he's he's doing something with his load he should have advised other people that he's stopping we're talking about that he's just resting imagine driving down the highway and there's a car in the in the right lane stopped that's not regular that's that's not normal somebody like that is you can't say well you should have kept the distance or whatever you're you're F says that from this gar you see that you're allowed to take a break in your life to reorganize take a nap because you want to go learn but St to take a vacation without a good reason so it's a to say when you go on vacation I'm doing this to get better in learning and to have and rejuvenate and Etc so okay so now just made a distinction between if he's readjusting you're okay if you're resting not okay question so then why do I go to another case in the sa and say that if the guy that's holding the barrel if the guy that with the with the beam screams to the guy with the barrel stop poter tell me a case Within the same case should have made that says no I like the other better even though it's a different case even though you're for St resting in middle of a highway you want to take a break what do you do you have to get off the exit you don't stop in the right lane but there's a way if you do stop in the right lane and you put out hazard lights and you tell people hey I'm here then you're okay the first guy slipped and fell so he fell now we're gonna go now according to the that says so that's what this thing was so you go back over here stuck it in it's a whole long thing that's why it took two days let see all here this is a third person that trips on a second person okay so it goes like this this is very important first guy trips on himself on a shoelace the second person tripped on the first person which we're going to see he's less of a than the first guy the first guy let's say is a second guy is not a he doesn't have to know that people trip you have to make sure that you don't trip on a sidewalk but that somebody fell in front of you and you fall in him you're not you're not a so what do we do and this is gonna be the today it's a very short but R explains what's going on here the first guy has to pay everything and the second guy has to pay and r is going to explain he doesn't have to pay everything but he has to pay but if the first guy is the cause of the third guy also falling how do you have a third guy the first guy causing the first the third guy to fall gonna explain he's laying a cross and three two people fell on it then the third the first guy has to pay for everybody and if everybody warned everybody if there's warnings going out you don't have to pay says oh Mark fine let me get back here you did that for me okay we're talking about a case where they couldn't it was too hard for them it was right after they fell they didn't have a chance to get up so you see that they should have warned right we're talking about you have to warn and not warn you can't prove anything about warning over here why because they had they had a chance to get up so now the says the same question that we had before same classic question we're making a distinction there's two cases when a person cannot get up say doesn't have to warn anybody it's too it's too quick he's hurting whatever it is a person could get up and he decides to take a little break then he should warn so how come we don't make that distinction if they warn say right we just if they warned each other then you have a much better example when they could get up they're because they didn't get up if they couldn't get up so they couldn't get up so they no we have a bigger even though they could have gotten up that's Aug yeah today we wouldn't understand that if if you could turn on your hazard lights and you do and you take out in Israel every car is to have one of those triangles take out the triangle and you so you allow to stop in middle of the highway says over here yeah that's a huge okay so just to make AUM of what's coming up here very very simple says that there something called means that if the damage comes from the person himself then it doesn't matter what he's mazic if he damages another human being or if he damages the guy's CLE but the guy's vessel the guy's CLE that's different vessel that damages is a bar and a bar is PO for damaging so therefore you would only be on the damage that the bar creates another human being but not the damage that it creates the that's basically all it's saying here let's see inside yeah there's two things going on here a person is holding a vessel and he trips he is he himself his body is aik and if somebody trips on him he's he cause damage to somebody else if somebody's battle trips over him and breaks he's but if the guy's garbage can falls down now the garbage can becomes a bar and a bar is poter when it damages other other classic example if I dig a big hole in middle of Ocean Parkway and a car drives by and falls into the bar and Potter it's unbelievable because a bar is from [Music] Cale now again don't forget we're talking about we're gonna switch it in a second well not really we're going to stick to the if the guy if the guy trips he's negligent he's so says reach he's called so he's whether he damages a clear or not but Shen second guy who's not negligent then he's only for damage that he causes with his own body but he doesn't have to pay for damage that he caused with his means the second guy's stuff that damages somebody else if you hold that he's negligent he's negligent so he should pay also for for the and if you hold that tripping is your Potter you're not so the first guy should should pay anything says the there's a big difference the first guy he's negligent sh the second guy is not he stumbled over the first guy he's not yes he's he's not negligent for he's not negligent for falling he's negligent for not standing up why why is he po if his causes damage to somebody else I didn't put that garbage can on the floor it's that guy's fault that I fell and put it on the floor it's him all right that's ra now it happens to be we're going to go back to this this is how we we stand this is the masc but before we get back to the is going to try something else and then we're going to come right back the Turning of the D so again if you weren't here uh on Friday and you weren't here the whole week you knew some people are new faces so I don't know I'm just going to repeat we have a base meas ches called and every single day for the last three years there's a person by the name of Robert Earle who comes and watches the D listens to the D every day his son was killed in Gaza two weeks ago on chabas so it was a big zets for mdy and mdy as a they always come together as a big Mish and they took upon themselves 1,400 D from beginning of sh every single D was taken by somebody in mdy and maybe other people as well so two people sponsored called the turning the da cost $800 to say the Turning of death is sponsored two people sponsored lias this KES who uh by the way my good friend worked with Robert knows him very well and Robert Early it's very interesting he was my neighbor in New York when I lived in flap on having you state he lived in the basement as a B for at least a year so I know him pretty well and it's a it's a big zets his kid went to the same school as my kids so all right the Turning of The Da sponsored by Kanan Le mayor Ben my holy nephew son of Robert ear and mayor [Music] Ben so again Rob says the first guy is on everything he's he's he's on everything his bar is he's everything the the BR says something different these three guys are on damage that they caus with their bodies but their Potter on damage caused by their belongings my said that the first guy is remember said he's M now we're saying that why no no doesn't mean all three means two and three not one not the first guy but it says all those mean yeah yeah means all it means all those who got damaged still okay nice nice but I'm going to prove you wrong if you say it means all three great it fits right into the word but if you say only means number two and three but not one according to you just say fine interesting thear is taking this back because of this question my what thear is gonna do is come back to this havea and stay with it and this question is not a question so remember the question was why does it say according to you so the way is learning that the first guy is M and he's wrong similar but different very different just see F says the first one is this so he switches now it's notat that we were learning that the first guy's body caused damage the first guy's object caused damage no says no the body of the second guy got damaged we're not talking about damager damaged who got damaged big yeah we're talking R was learning that the first guy his body Dam damaged the second guy and now says no we're talking about we're looking at the second guy the second guy got damaged new thing first guy is of the damage that he caused the the damage that's caused the second doesn't matter even if he damaged his his moment the second guy is not for damage that he caused to the third guy's property his own body is a bar the second guy is a bar and a bar you hear what he's saying second guy is not second guy is a b and the second guy is part from C his body that damaged other Kum somebody tripped on him and broke a a glass he's Potter because Cale are Potter in a bar you're looking at a human being yes he's a human being but today he's Mr barash therefore we have to leave this why think about it according to Rav the only way you have a bar is if you're mfate so what the human being was M himself that makes no sense so your is off according to ra that says they have to be MF and if you're not MF it's not a bar so what is it it's not a bar what is it uh no close who said char sh it's a sh it's a Karen whatever you want to call it okay so this doesn't work says okay let's go back that the first guy is for Goof and M his his own his body is his m is and the guy is only on his body not a m oh it doesn't fit in the word K why are they all Potter yeah why are they all Potter you have a situation where one his M damaged another M so what is that that's Cale in a bar and that your Potter for that's why everybody holds Potter and according to ra rash just speaks out quickly that according to R how do you have a CLE that's a bar it must be that he's M all right that didn't go well if the first guy fell and he caused two other people to fall how how's that happen I can understand that video one guy falls one guy falls over him and the next guy trips the third guy how he's just sat like a carcass across the sidewalk so two other people fell across is like the Stick of a blind man and a blind man goes like this he goes from side to side so sometimes he goes on a complete angle so it's not that he's going perpendicular to the sidewalk he's going on an angle to the sidewalk so says there's a bigina here that he will hold that if it's perpendicular to the sidewalk the third guy should have paid attention second guy M it was too quick for him okay but the third guy he sees two people already down on the ground and there's something Laying across he should have noticed it but if it was on a on an angle says between an angle and perpendicular says so we have another beautiful um animation also this one again this one was more I'll tell you I'll tell you the reason why I did this because a principal in Chicago came to me and he said I can't wait until you do we we learn it here in eth grade whatever I want to show I want to use your stuff so put the pressure on for the children it's not so much for adults but you can enjoy it also if you want you don't have to look if you don't want to hey that's the whole thing all right looking for sponsors for the whole sh by the way no seriously think about the potential here there's a lot of potential it's 3D to animate a going up there's a lot of potential the the bodies the this the [Music] different we learned about what's the 3D be unbelievable if they bump into each other and his vessel breaks on the beam poter why they both have permission to go there we had this right the the beam was walking first they're walking in traffic the guy with the beam is first the guy with the fragile object in his hand is behind him like this yeah and this guy stops and or he doesn't stop he keeps on going he's walking normal pace so is guy with the beam is but if he stop sounds familiar we had it today but if he scream out he put on his blinkers he did whatever he had do he said stop if the owner of the do we have time here it's good said until 8:30 the guy with the barrel is first he's walking ahead and the guy went too fast he went into him stuff the guy stopped poter now I don't know if that works in America you say if the guy stopped depends where exactly but you shouldn't tailgate yeah usually they always go after the guy the second guy no I don't know how that works in uh if you're walking in Manhattan with a beam and the other guy's working walking with the bottle I don't know how it goes okay you should in traffic law you should take precaution should stay back a little bit but the M says not like that two people walking and the guy stopped short he did something M so's his Potter the guy that hit him and broke it his Potter but he said hey hey I'm about to stop stop same occurs with the candle and P Mish beautiful for of it's the week of Kana very much for coming all those who traveled far kin and who else is here oh if anybody wants to join the shear get a freaking oh I'll tell you a story before I leave mirash he's a successful businessman he has more than one business but he saw a free Gara and which Jew doesn't like free stuff and he took the free gamar since then he's donated hundreds of thousands of dollars to MD so our boy said please take a free gar as you're leaving if you're not part of it peris brought over 1100 people you hear this 1100 people to the shear he's right there in the back and a for coming have a wonderful week a wonderful uh day if you're we'll see you you know what we could say a for those in Str for the situation we'll say it together not like and this we'll do it [Music] quick [Music] for I