Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 118 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning [Music] ra welcome welcome to all the guests a big Sim in the family Dave sharfman had a baby boy 1:00 in the morning and he's here he set up the booth [Music] [Applause] yeah SC welcome come to from New York Brooklyn New York also at the I don't know if you want to say your names you want to say your name what's your name where she grman from what a and you from what's your name Ru you live in the neighborhood he just moved from very nice welcome welcome no no no from okay so we have a few males my voice is not back yet rabai maybe a little bit more micro all right here's a short clip of my brother-in-law's Yan Bal and morai Schwarz learning the da at the wedding of Yankee son during the that's a shil really since you're not all to learn during are you allowed to learn during MIT what can be better than combining the Sim of marrying a child with the SIM of best regards tal in New York here [Music] goes notice he has the earpods he has the smartphone and the shal this would not fly in AR is roing his his MIT sitting and learning he's really learning he has the the earphones in this was on Sparks of a Nation it says like this looks like a music tour schedule something similar but it's actually the schedule of upcoming MD celebrating his journey through the Y so if anybody wants to know where their local is and when it is go to md.com our for the local or is tonight at 6 o' on something like that if you thought you were my number one fan you are mistaken here he is good morning I'm 24 I'm your biggest fan I mean three days from today excited to beward to see him I see him and I'm I'm your fan and my job to ask you to put a status rejin a credible sector ofor from to join in the status thank you Edie I love you I can pleas sh with you I keep going and not give up and you are the best friend ever and I want to S more people to join in and your family M we all love wow beautiful listen to him put it on your status I'm sorry to hear that you've not 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here and are interested the Manchester and London committees have dedicated both very grateful to all them I don't want to miss anyone out I'm sure shimy lean G Ros corth and do Harris are involved in all organized included I've learned one thing over the past few weeks when in doubt reach out so many people heard what was going going on and sent a message thinking of you or ding for you one person I've never met but had to ask him something signed off good chabas ref showing that he cares support of people like them it's caring carrying me through some have sent wishes from afar you know they can't send [Music] sh because very far away thank you again wonderful my father their daily wave which I take part in a day [Music] later with feelings of gratitude and appreciation go through the treatments smoothly son Bernard David man the son-in-law of RAB y cats and's Brother David is sponsored for the unity of the last day by har Fran it should be a to rebell continue and teaching the birth mother Fraser in loving memory of daers Baltimore Maryland so again if you're new here n an unbelievable story 150 people took upon themselves to start and finish bakama and they are actually finishing 150 of them some of them very very first time learning yamar and it's a tremendous tremendous spearheaded by the one and only ficial and we're looking forward M to and many of them are taking upon themselves to continue with and if not rethink cuz it's life changing and I'll tell you this Ems for me bamo was one of the hardest masas and if you did babama you should know and the rest of sh is pretty much smooth sailing we'll talk about it when we get toas but up until then it's going to be nice and smooth is only 30 days we can handle it and we'll make it better next time wasn't but I think is one of the toughest and it wasn't that tough it was just very long and and okay par Kobe and Es Moses and Y and Chand Le Rosenberg of the month sponsored by anous for the for child birth his daughter baby literally we're starting the in two days it's your last you hear it and it goes in one ear goes out the other I don't understand why there's people like shimy lean I'm not saying this for his status I'm saying this because because if you look at a status it's K to look at it every day he puts up 10 to 15 different statuses he comes up with himself he does his own art he puts in his own word this but there's a there's a status group you go there they give you the clips all you need to do is put on your status click click and people join the share you don't have to make an uncomfortable phone call it's just automatic to people what you if somebody gives me something to post I'll post something yeah you know it's not idea shimy was telling me I spoke to him uh no I didn't speak to him he sent me a message so um I was asking M where's mi's he's very busy with the so I wrote him I told him I said listen you have 20 to 30 status is a day of of you giving gear to I don't see one status of Tyra you got it at least 10% yeah after I yelled at him so he says he told me something very interesting he said I have a lot of non-jewish clients and they what's going on here what's the status what's a gear they understand that say I'm taking by myself I don't care I'm doing it anyway so shimy told me that big 66 foot Yi says what are you doing what is this thing who's that guy from from from Israel that you keep on putting on your stat what is going on so anyway oh that's how you're saying that's how you get on it that's the okay it's too small but I think y will put on the screen to get to the status group all right we're holding by a brand no we didn't get there where are we holding really okay I thought we I thought we're there says the mishna I don't don't even have art for it's other art very small m a person had a he stole a field stole a field sits in somebody's field and then comes uh a storm and knocks out his field takes over the field we know that you cannot steal K so if because somebody else stole it that was the whole we before but over here a natural disaster happens he says argues says no you must give him another field okay so very very simple we're not going to get into the whole don't worry about it just on a very very simple level the difference between a and a and a CL and a is a reu means I'm including everything but I'm going to exclude one item only a CL means I'm going to include everything I'm going to try but then I'm going to limit many things okay so the question is how many things are we limiting one is we're limiting one we're limiting many so the question is like this could you steal a car or not is K going to be excluded from being stolen so the question is are we going to learn a and we're only going to exclude one item and it's not going to be kka therefore you're free to steal a Kara it's as if you stole it or no you cannot steal a kka what's the it says you lied to your friend you lied also about a you lied about everything REO you lied and you stole any item in the world even real estate it's very very narrow no everything so this includes every item in the world is stolen but we have to exclude one thing there is a one thing what is it again same thing it's the same words but we're going to say is it a of a lot of people say it every morning most don't know what they're talking about so now we're going to exclude more items you cannot steal because it's not movable and also not slaves a list it's more than one thing why CU from a cloud the cloud we exclude more things could move around it has zero value has zero intrinsic value a document maybe you could put it on top of a jar you could write a letter on it but it's nothing we have a problem we're talking about a piece of we have the same why what's the what's the source of if you telling me are you on a piece of real estate could you steal real estate not okay what we talking about a cow the cow is real estate why he stole real estate and there was a cow on it and then there was a big flood says you could steal a car so therefore if you can steal a Cara you stole the cow cuz the cow is on the Cara say you can't steal the Cara you can't steal the cow okay before I continue I see there's a guest there I for I didn't see you what's your name uh from England man you know you obviously know Shimmy's here he's a did he bring it to the Sher no how how did you get to the share ah I brought you to the share all this yeah yeah of course says sponsored [Music] by a person stole borrowed gave an item to his friend to watch let's say he gave him a horse okay watch this horse so where does he have to give back the horse your back in his house in the farm what if he decides to give it back like this to check this out happens to be on a plane with him he says you know what I want to give you back my the horse I borrowed from you sh what is he going to do with it now in the whole flight sometimes fished yeah I just like the way Yoshi gave the horse hey everybody gets a meal your M was great while I watched him R turning him now Joy or is another another case you tell me which one you like better two yis Yi went to America to collect money and he meets his friend in downtown Manhattan he says the Goldfish I was watching here I want to give it back to you that's the schle wherever he goes he has schlepping of goldfish so say A or B which one huh a all right good I'm going to ask no no Yoshi did this thing I said no no we got to to me it it's a horse on a plane why I don't know the most random thingy oh here he goes thank you so much for watching my goldfish while was in America pleasure okay fine don't just give it back if he says on condition I give you back in the in the middle of the desert okay so you can give back now is going to ask what's you can make any condition you want I'm to give it back in America I'm to give back in isra theid so see it's not as p as you read [Music] it stop over here it's a contradiction to what we said we said a if you borrow money you have to give it back in his house you can't give it back in middle of the desert over here it says give it back anywhere okay so that that matches our the first part the is a problem doesn't mean you can give it back in every place you could demand it you could say hey it's a big let's say when we're on the Safari right remember I I just keep on going back to Safari me my my they took me on Safari for my 50th birthday middle Safari say Hey you know meny I lent you 100 bucks give it back to me can I do that midle Safari the answer is yes I he's not going to have any money left then no you're right that's no you can't just leave him but I have the right to say 100 bucks what's the difference if it's in or so I need money now give me back my money I could be I demand any any place but if I lost object or I gave you something so that is only where we where we made the deal where the the object was lost that's it you can't just oh by the way I found your dog we to be in middle of a yeah I'm going to give you back it doesn't some things don't don't work I'm if I make a condition that you can pay back in in the desert great I'm giving you this golden thing what right why do yeah to you conditions on it yeah don't give it back in comfortable position you're a Sher there's a lot of things that uh you know you're Sher you got to take care of it you can just throw it on me because you feel it some has to be has to be with with with with common sense and this and that you wouldn't be very appreciative if somebody returned something to you when under your son's right certain got to be mened you got there rules you're right he's doing your favor he found it but not oh so he says listen I'm going on a trip I'm going out to the desert please take care of this expensive item okay great oh you're not going to believe it was planning a treat to the desert the bottom line of the's answer here is any way you want to understand it and any way you g it with rash different the point is there's no question was if you made a condition's answer is there is no condition he said be I might be going also I might return it not I have to return it could I return it do you agree that I should return it there's no no condition and therefore the is that he could give it back because the owner knows that he's going to be there in the desert and there's a possibility that he might give it back so then he give it back says again sponsored by mohen isn't get a lot of us person steals when he's younger he did something wrong you stole stealing could be a lot of different things yeah it could be literally going to somebody's pocket maybe I don't know what you took his parking spot you woke him up in the middle of the night if that's you know something that you could return or not you stole something from somebody and now you feel bad and you want to return it what do you have to do to return it do you have to embarrass your self and knock on his door and say listen I was I was silly and I took 100 bucks out of your wallet or you could slip it in there without him knowing like what what do you need to do I stole from you you gave me a lone on you you left the item by me so the first part of the Mna just to be familiar with it on the right is I stole from you I don't know if I returned it I'm sure that I stole I'm sure that I took an item I'm a bur I'm clear as day that this is what happened I'm not sure it's possible I return possible not he must return s the gar might not be as POS as we think it could be only okay I'm not sure I'm don't know so that's the second part of the Mish green so when you have a your own so everybody agrees that in order to be we're gonna see that that to give back a of somebody else if somebody else says hey you stole from me and you say I don't know what should happen it's but it's enough to be money but I don't know I'm saying listen you might be right you might be right I don't know there's something very strong here you say I know I lent you money you say you don't say I don't know who you are it never happened I would have remembered you say you know what I I don't remember I don't recall yeah in American courts I don't recall what does that mean yes or no you're 100% I'm I don't know so maybe there's a tin there so we'll see that is very famous line in ch what does mean you owe me money I gave you 100 it's in your hands you owe me 100 I don't know the other two have when somebody is certain and the other one is not certain the one that's certain wins I said the story I'll say it again I don't have too many stories today when I learned I was about 11 or 12 years old and would come and give a hair well he only did it once he would come to Thea every year now they said he's coming on Sunday so the holy She Was preparing for all week so kids he didn't show up Sunday so they go they prepared they do Kazar for another week eventually he showed up I don't remember in my mind was like a month okay he shows up now I'm not going go into the whole thing how I told all my friends that I'm his best friend I see him every Mon shabas and he's going to recognize me and yeah yeah sure no no no he's my best friend he's always he this my father learns it from every moner he shows up to Thea and everybody's pushing and this and I go over he go like he had no idea where I was and like get so then he starts to shear and he starts asking questions in Yiddish and nobody understands yish besides me I'm the only one that American I knew Yiddish so the little that I know I answered but one of the questions that he asked was if B and and somebody's certain somebody is not certain the one that's buried the certain he wins question is is the one that Shema Could Have Lied and he could have said I'm a so he should have a MIG we should believe him that what he saying because he could have said that he's a Bari so I answered him but the truth is I knew the answer because somebody else told me the question once before even though R might have prepared us and uh so I told him to answer oh gal the answer is very it's a trick question the answer is we do believe him we believe him that he's a sheema he said sheema we believe you you're a Shema cuz he could have said you're a bar we believe but guess what bar and bar wins okay so there's something called of and that is that the person is holding on to the money like you were saying it's my money you're saying you're certain okay so but bring proof just cuz you're so confident and I'm not confident doesn't mean that you should take my money it says in our go back over here why not say one case is I don't know if I stole I don't know if I borrowed Potter by the way Rashi says Potter don't think you so Potter you what does it mean you say excuse me you say you let me money I say I don't remember nobody asked them for anything so then the two cases the ra and the sa have to be similar so when a guy says I stole from you I don't know if I returned learn means that he came on his own nobody asked him anything nobody told him that he stole he himself volunteered look at he on his own came forward if a guy says I might have stolen I don't know if I so why should he pay nobody sued him so if the r is talking about that somebody told him hey you stole from me I lent you money and he says okay you're right I I'm ask him 100% you're right but I might have paid you back I might and in that case you're but if he says and the sa is if he says I don't agree that I stole I might have but I don't know then you poter if you agree that the story happened you don't know if you took if you took action you paid it back then you're so we're talking about a case where he su him and it says in the sa so this is a and everybody says that somebody Su you and you say I'm a I don't know and and the M says so nobody Su him you look at the nobody Su him he on his own was having guilty conscience he he became more mature he wants to be a better person he wants to do chuva and he's starting to do this is going back when I was 15 years old I went by a store and I shoplifted this and I did this and I did that I have to start paying back people now I was 15 years old now I'm 55 I don't remember did I pay back I remember I once wanted to I I don't know so what should he do the answer is if you want to make sure that everything is okay in shim pay back but nobody suing you do your own thing what if let me ask you something what if a person is not sure if he stole not sure he wanted to steal not sure if he stoen he wants to do truva so that's the nuda over here over here there's a bar B that he stole he's not sure if he pay back but to have nerving it could be I stole it could be I took extra toilet paper it could be this you have to make yourself sugar for that when you know you stole just you're not sure that you gave it back then to you have to give it back of course cuz he says I don't know that I stole that's exactly what I just said when there's no B on the stealing that's what I'm saying there's no bu on the stealing it's like I don't know it's possible I was a wild kid I might have that's not enough in order to be to be to be have you have to remember a story where you stole somebody claims money he when he wants to be the guy says hey you owe me money and you say you don't know you don't really have to pay him back but if you want to be says person steals a sheep and he gives it right back puts it in there Trend he steals the Sheep one sheep goes missing one sheep goes back so he didn't do anything nothing wrong right no but since you didn't notify the owner so you're still it's not considered that you gave it back until he knows about iten oh that's exactly what we're talking about did he know it's stolen not that's exactly the mission there's two parts the miss one part he knew was stolen one part he didn't know stolen so this's a it's a it's a long chart it's a big chart and it's not that important this chart we we'll use it a little bit you don't have to memorize it or anything like that it goes like this this is the case we just read y he knew it was stolen the guy knew it was stolen what do you do according to R you have to notify the guy hey it was stolen here it is it's back both say all say three of them say that if the guy counts it and he sees that the count is the same he had 25 sheep and now he has 25 sheep you don't have to notify him that was stolen now he knows to take care of his sheep the point of notifying that was stolen is that the guy should be aware and take care of it that's yod now what what's interesting why is there four sheas because there's a mix here if he sticking to he never knew it was stolen so look look what happens here says you don't need to notify him at all that's that's great he never knew it was stolen he never knew I put it back nothing happened boom why do I have to tell him nothing changed in his mind do the extreme and he says no when a person doesn't know because he doesn't know you have to notify it's only when he knows that you don't have to notify and let him count and we passing okay so you see how it goes is the of the opinion in all cases y counting is enough and R is of is the exact opposite of R says when he knows you have to notify when he doesn't know let him count says when he knows count when he doesn't know tell him okay says the mishna second case is he never knew that was stolen the guy has 10,000 sheep in Texas you stole one you think he's going to know so you don't have to tell him just put it right back didn't know that was stol didn't know was return and they counted the sheep and everything is perfect the count is great so now we look at the chart when he in the ratio when he knew that it was stolen the only way to get out of it and be Potter is to notify him hey I'm returning it but if he never knew about it we go to the lighter thing minion poter if we know the owner it's great so now the says let's stick this in St to mix up now the chart is going to be really messy so the way I had it done is all the purples are purple in other words we're talking about where did he count who in what case did the guy count in the case that he knew or the case that he didn't know so let's take R we're holding by R now RAV says he counted when he didn't know didn't know and he counted that's enough so the says it's talking about the on the other hand says both cases talking about that he counted so when the M says it's going on both if the purple is in the ratio is talking about the that's it very simple but we don't need a chart like this I showed it to my and he almost fell off his chair he says too confusing okay thank you I mean cuz if it's broken down slowly if you see in one shot then then it's too many words okay as you can see here of the opinion that all you need is the guy to count you don't need to embarrass yourself and tell him hey I stole it's back if you see him counting one two three he gets to the the amount that's all you need so when the when the M says talking about both cases he's counting when he knows about it the owner knows it was stolen all needs to do his count if he doesn't know about it says you don't have to tell him at all that's the point he doesn't know it's stolen he doesn't know what give it back everything is the same is on the ra [Music] though I would add the box of I hear okay confus even more fine you're right the point is the Min is po it's a that just counting is enough that's the whole thing when when is counting enough when is counting enough it say the you see over here there a this how we pass when if the person knew that was stolen then it's enough for just account and that's enough when he never knew he's literally very extreme this the exact opposite of I'm sorry when he didn't know you need to notify when it says that he counted it's enough that's only we have to understand is like the most extreme from everybody when it comes to he's and also because holds that is like let's understand the reason here's a huh if an animal knows here check out this video If an animal tastes Freedom he's going to go for that freedom again and again and again if he's locked up and he's in your if he knows that a if he's a a behaved animal he stays inside great he doesn't stay inside you taught him how to leave how to had to be a a bad animal so now it's your problem you're going to bring him back now the guy doesn't know how to deal with him so you have to tell him doesn't have to watch he doesn't not how to watch over him so it happens to be St like we we learned this that an animal that eats fruit he gets used to fruit an animal that kills a human being in the Safari even something as beautiful as this that's a picture I took I take a lot of pride in this picture it's until you see one of these could take three days but if it attacks a human being the is they kill him right away why because once he tastes that that that flavor of human being he'll go after human being every time he'll see how easy it is and it's not bad it's pretty good meat so you got to get rid of him so the point is once once an animal gets used to something it's going to follow that that thing so you have to tell the owner how to watch him you have to notify you got to start you have to pick up your game because I messed you up I took him out we just turned to sponsored by in honor of my uncle says the did really say that comes to explain here we have a picture even a guy picks up a sheep and starts running oh but he got caught red-handed the owner screams hey what are you doing so he drops it now it's unknown whether or not it was returned or not the money so you see over here even though he counted he's still responsible why is he responsible he counted according to Counting is enough he knew right again let's go back to this case to this chart in a case where you know because he saw him lifting it up he saw him stealing so it's a case of yod let's go down to the botom of says counting is enough over here it says even putting down the sheep and running away is not enough why not didn't he count it so class no you're not for than anything it's very possible that he didn't count says let's go back to this to this chart what does r say R says when he knows when the guy knows that something's stolen you must notify him when he doesn't know then counting is enough if you just return it to the the pen the middle of the desert that's enough you don't need Das you tell me R says they need Das r didn't even say that ra says he just put it back in the pen this is the best picture I found just took it from Yoshi if you have a sheep that looks like this imagine you have one sheep that looks like this so you notice right away when it's gone and O you'll notice when it comes back you'll C right away oh here's the funny looking sheep it has black lines it has a red it's very noticeable so it's like it's like being notified perhaps somebody steals a sheep or he steals money out of your pocket out of your out of your wallet unbelievable you feel bad you feel stupid you don't want to he knock on the guy's shoulder and say hey I stole 100 bucks from you you're a good pick pocketer you just pickpocket his wallet again put the money back in slip it back into his pocket nothing happened right not true you have to notify the guy why because he's not going to know to watch his money now so where's the because we have the famous rebut that everybody knows right when you drop money say goodbye to it when you find money in the street you can take it you probably don't have to put up a sign anywhere unless that has certain or whatever but typically you find a $100 bill on the floor that's it why because of this it's normal for person to constantly check his pocket and he'll he'll notice that the money is gone learned by the he a certain dozens and dozens of times one time they saw again what's going on it says if you repeat 40 times it's like it's in a box there's no need to again he said look it says that that means that even a box you if you if you check your own pocket you're check in your own pocket it didn't fall out of my pocket it's in my pocket no it might have fallen out it might have got lost so too when you have something in a box you have to check the box not every day but once in a while you got to check make sure it's still in there so to in learning yes I learned 40 times I have to make sure I still have so so we all hold that a person is going to check his packet he's going to count his money but the that says that all you have to do is give back you don't have to be you don't have to notify him counting is enough says no you have to notify him counting is not enough you're right if everybody holds that person is going to check his wallet every every few minutes you can't prove anything what maybe a person constantly checks his pack did where oh all the way there come on you guys had to pick that up we're running late over here oh yeah this is a good one so let's go back to the to the Chart so so we have a case of person stole money the owner knows if the owner knows so we go to the right column and we have R says you have to notify you need D says you don't have to notify you just have to count great and if it's talking about a sheep we're going to go to the second column he didn't know now we have says you don't have to notify at all says you have to notify when the stole it out of the owner's possession okay great everybody holds you have to notify unbelievable Bo think about this far you ask me to watch this thing okay so I'm watching it then I steal it I steal it now I feel bad so I put it back is that okay don't never knew that I stole it the Doner asked me to watch this I'm watching it while I'm watching I steal it while I'm watching I put it back back then the owner knocks on my door hey can I have it back I'll just give it back to him why I have to tell him hey by the way while I was watching it I also stole it stop to embarrass myself so says yes why it's a very good very when I steal it I broke my Shir I'm not a shamer anymore so when I put it back now it starts over now I now I have to notify it's not like one Longo it's over once you steal it that's it is finished no he continue being the entire time and just returns it to where it was and the owner doesn't need to know that he stole it this I personally can relate to this not that have it to me but I could see a person steals something right he goes to the store he steals I don't know he steals candy when he's a kid now he want wants to pay the guy back so what does he do he goes back to the store and he buys candy from the guy and he leaves the change over there and runs out so he pay back for the for the candy he doesn't have to embarrass himself why does he have to tell the guy hey when I was a kid I was a GH I was a terrible person blah blah blah blah blah go through the whole traa again he slips him a $100 bill pretends that it was a mistake and gets out of there is that okay says rashy because he's embarrassed Miss everybody holds of the that you're G to check your P there it's enough that he checked the guy checked he realized how much money he has he has extra money now he realized okay the guy's paying me back for something else counting is not enough he'll never realize no if you hold great is are you po or not because the sh is are you g to check your pocket out do we hold of this and if do people check their packets that's everybody does hold you check your packets he counted it and gave it in his packet so if he gives in his packet everybody you got to check your packet and this is interesting the he counted put in his hand something that's in your hand you're not going to count why going to take it you have a bunch of money in your hand when you get home you dump it in that little box that you have of money but you never knew that you got extra money no you put in his packet and you do check your packet but since you have other money in your packet which you don't know how much it is so even if you check and count you don't know that you have extra money now he counts it and now he realize izes that he gave him back that money says the M I think this is a very important that if if we just came for this alone to make this clear a lot of people don't know this There Are Places you could go and you can buy stolen goods it's no this gu sells you car parts stolen car parts yeah you're missing a mirror you call the guy up hey I need a mirror what is he going to do he's going to go down the block find the car exactly 2 in the morning take the Mir give it to you 100% says but I didn't steal it you're supporting aana because of you people like that steal and that's it awesome so it says like this sponsored byen big for tremendous and also tremendous success in we actually have a stickle picture here this is a Shepherd he's selling he's selling the wool smaller goat where did he get the stuff from his balos gave him a bunch of goats now he's he's trying to make a profet on the side you're not allow you're not allow to buy from him people that watch trees you can't buy wood and fruit because obviously they got it from the orchard that's not theirs a married woman so this happens a lot I've heard this a number of times interesting thing L you borrow a car from a from a from a lady you buy a car and she tells you don't don't tell my husband don't tell my husband yeah this something like that you ever heard that I'm giving you this don't tell my husband I'm giving you a donation here a donation for your Yeshiva don't tell your don't tell my husband what happened there she if it's her husband's money if it's her husband's car she doesn't have the right to do that it's Gava in general her husband says you can use my stuff and this and that most marriages yeah but if she tells you straight out don't tell him that means he's not allowed to know about it that means she's stealing from him okay I'm saying each couple and each this and each M I get it I'm saying a general rule so what she saying don't tell my husband is right that is the right as soon as she says don't tell my husband and if a husband says don't tell my wife it's her car she got fine says you allow to purchase from a woman who's selling the side of the street different clothing that her husband knows about he doesn't care smaller animals but if a woman says don't tell my husband also that's the biggest happens to be in a lot of f deals as soon as you hear from the guy don't don't talk this over with your children don't discuss with your parents anything like that you run stay away that means something wrong here what what somebody says don't tell somebody it's bad news they tell little kids now that's like the the first thing soon as a rebi or somebody says you know I tell your parents you have to keep this a secret that's when you run on and tell your parents the first thing okay anyway ah sorry eggs are cheap so that doesn't make it difference I'll tell you this this joke I told Israelis they appreciate it a lot Americans are not going to appreciate it as much I'll say regardless cuz we're already talking about yis there's a Yi guy on a Tish was he was eating the egg with the ashes and he's crying like a baby crying crying his wife saw like this what's what's the matter he says this is my last egg from Thea that I got on a PES all the eggs all the stuff they gave out PES this is the last one one doesn't know what is they don't realize where p is compared to okay we're allowed to make fun of we live with them they come down we're all part of them it's all it's a different so you not to buy from a Shepherd a sheep a goat wool not larger pieces they take off slowly from the goat from the from the Sheep something already made you're allowed to take why interesting he's a it's already his okay you can buy if there's cheese and milk now who owns the milk and cheese it's the middle of the desert shouldn't the owner own it but here's the thing he never gives it to the owner because it's too far away so the owner say that's part of your your compensation you get the but when it's close by where the owner is going to pick up the milk or he'll deliver the milk and the and the and the cheese then you're not allow to buy from it so here it gets interesting pay attention you let to buy four or five sheep so anytime the says four or five is a problem if four of course I could buy five two not three yes a second we said four yes three not okay classic Cas this we have to remember maybe for tomorrow I don't know if we'll get there depends if it the mestic animals you allow to purchase them but the ones that grow up in the desert I couldn't find the better picture I don't know I just threw this in because it's kak and I you see this by inti they roam around these are not sheep these are more like goats ibags but they're they're wild and they're thank you tour guide Ro do they have wild sheep and I don't know what that is Ranger sheep whatever you want to call them you have animals that just roam freely they but that is far out from the ISU and let's say he took control of these ibexes and he put them in a thing so but there's a whole conversation going on here between the back and the front you you want to what's going on not okay great you can't purchase these ibexes whatever these sheep if the owner is going to notice a difference you took four or five obviously he's G to notice then you allow to purchas he's not stealing something small not he's not gonna realize four five four so only five if the whole what's the word the flock thank you the whole flock is five they only to take four because the guy's gonna say hey what happened to my flock okay one or two maybe a wolf came maybe this maybe that somebody but four out of five okay this is a little harder to understand I think this one is easier said different made their if you have a small flock then four made have some people in Texas have hundreds of thousands of of animals so it has to be I don't know what a large flock is and a small flock but the point is if it's noticeable that the owner will notice then you're allow to purchase if it's not let's just go to the two dots four five L seems buy three why because three is too few it's not it's not he won't notice what about the you can't buy two three you could so three you could or you can't which one is it if they're strong so three are noticeable four you don't have to come to four if they're very weak then you need four to be noticeable have a wonderful day