Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 116 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning from is you guys or boys can continue taking coffee we're just going to start we have a longer D is safin there was a very nice turnout at the Cleveland Jewish business spere and family fun day Johnny Kitz and I man the mdy booth and signed up seven new people to the share thank you per for all your help so to put this in perspective we're used to oh I signed up 30 people 20 people seven people is more people than I had for eight years in my Shear in Chicago it's a tremendous each person that you bring to the she is a tremendous each person you bring to to and seven is is unbelievable it's probably seven more people than almost anybody in this room brought [Music] lately this guy it seems like he made a email just for this totally toasted on Huckleberry but it's a very inspiring email good morning just wanted to thank you for the amazing Shear I joined the haven't missed the shear since betza just in case someone is unsure about joining here's why every year should join this past Thursday my daughter was in the hospital and after a very long day of no learning I arrived at home very late Beyond drained you can imagine emotionally drained physically drained being in the hospital all day and I wanted to do all I wanted to do was fall into bed but can't go a day without the DS I sat down to learn the D it's about the and the thank you for making sure I don't go a day without learning these are the inspiring emails the small Stories the where it's difficult to learn and you learn [Music] anyway my fantastic father High and the rest of the MD family ever since coming to been trying to get my dad to join the D I tried learning with on the phone it never worked out I suggested may be joining mdy and he decided to do local fast forward to this past summer my parents came to visit we visit a family friend who a big fan of the da I noticed that he had an mdy gamor out and I started to tell him to get my dad to join the da he's ecstatic and Lively he gave an excite he gave the excitement to my dad that I couldn't because of which my Dad decided to join when he got back to the States when we spoke on the phone two weeks ago my father was so excited telling me he went to your in Miami I've never heard him that excited to drive an hour for a Shear he'll be making his first [Music] seama the day before his father's yard side first seeum older individual first time will be making a seeum for the yard side I'd like to thank you the entire MD crew and everyone I think that's what he meant and everyone is part of MD and a special thank you to scho Zak for getting my father to join I think what you guys are doing is exactly what is meant to be all the best M this Benny Maslin with it's also doing his second D listen to this every day he does two D to try to CCH up it's taking me just over two years two years of catchup that's that's unbelievable cuz a lot of people try to catch up they do BR they do a little bit of shabas to go two years straight was a Sim that the day I finally caught up fell out on z a humble may you your great team and indeed all the all the best Benny Benny Maslin unbelievable from Manchester so gersi Rose I read his uh email yesterday but as a followup to the previous listen to this the power of status I said to myself if guy can finish it's for me to finish I went on to the next step and put it on the status and I got 15 people to learn a DA day till the power of status 15 people to learn a DA day I sent it on to D he put it on his status and he got a bunch more people becoming clear how technology can be used to get people to learn this is what we have to focus on getting other people to do more toy I'm just curious how gari Rose knows how many people joined like how does he follow up with them maybe people just do it and they don't tell them I don't know he has a way uh just one more email I'd like to thank you for explaining the gar extremely clearly when I first started learning gar had extremely hard time understanding it um I was a little concerned about the airplane art that was shown last week because when the guy on the right side of the airplane pushed the button was ejected no oxygen masks came [Music] down sometimes that happens sometimes they don't come down you can't don't try it don't try those buttons and lastly I'd like to thank my uncle zorak Spiro from new New Jersey who recruited me to the D changed my life I also wanted to give a shout out to Mo oh oh I got a call originally from Lakewood New Jersey I wish you an awesome day and awesome week from Lakewood New [Music] Jersey is sponsored for the unity of this this um donor is it's going to be over the sponsorship it's going to be over in just 3 days the parners of the month iron Freeman should be last for my granddaughters for our mother should have harness sh Robert Fraser in loving memory of Herz n t daers Baltimore MD Maryland nid again one guy had a hand in having 150 people do a da a day and many of them are going to take on another M and keep on going [Music] unbelievable excuse my cold excuse my horse voice the art of the month Anonymous for the for an easy child birthless daughter and a healthy baby voice were smacked middle of a in the middle of a word oh what's your name Jonah light fromes Los Angeles s regard guards yeah he's your guy I yeah what about B you going to come for B it's better than nothing it's better than woman every other day so it's also good who else I saw another uh what's your name you're not a guest no who else that's it why why why why who Bar's here Bar's here bar you gotta ask some questions once in a while that's the side no okay they're all here today you like this a guy is walking with a bunch of barrels and one of them has a leak in it so decides instead of going to waste I'm going to use it for my Meer I'm going to say this is the Meer and it ends up on the ground so the K they lose out you can do it with wine you can't do it with oil because oil is a loss once it goes on the ground once so no when Oil we're talking about sorry we're talking about these are barrels of t t wine T oil T really you can't give to a k what are you going to what is a going to do with it but oil they can use for lighting wine will see so thear says like this but regardless what what are you going to do with wine what kind of use does wine have so you use it for zof Let's see we have the picture here for zof here's zof you use it for perfume to spray around in your house castelle wine use it for that okay great but the problem is that's great if it's sprung a leak what about the other problem that we discussed the problem of G Mula anything that's uncovered we have to be concerned that a snake uh inserted its venom into it so you can't drink it not only can't you drink it we said it's a problem to use it for perfume because what if somebody steps on it what if you try to spray it around your house you might you might ingest it somehow you can't pour it in the floor can't put it out in theab somebody might step on it all these things so said that's not a problem because we're talking about he did some sort of filtration and the filtration allows you to to use the wine why because the Venom is like a sponge and it won't really go through the strainer so if you put a a barrel on top and you put a bunch of wine and the sediments and everything it'll eventually all come through to the bottom one and the bottom Barrel you allowed to drink from because it has it has a strainer so now the says that's where we're holding 10 12 20 lines from the bot let's say we say that's great if you didn't move the wine around but you are shaking up the wine but you pouring it into a to use it so you are actually mixing in Imagine This Venom looks like spit or something okay so floats on the top but as soon as you start pouring into another vessel through the strainer you're telling me you strained it not this not this case over here from this case you see that straining works but you have you have Mula wine now you want to use it so you take your wine and you put it through a strainer and like this you can use your Mula wine because if there's any Venom in there you're going you're going to be able to catch the Venom the problem is that by you moving the wine around and pouring it you're going to mix the ven him in and it's not going to work if you mix it up there's a way to get around that you do it really slow you put some sort of other um like a material or something you do it in a way that it's not going to mix in says the okay this goes according to how could you even make truma from something that's t on you could according to the over here if it's equal one thing is T so you take the T fruit and you make it on produce that's t or t obviously it's usually on fruit and you could do truma from fruit that's star which is valuable on fruit that's T Which is less valuable but not in our case we're talking about wine that's already so how could you take this wine that's T and try to say okay listen it's it's going to get lost anyways it's Tom let me make it true but it just says here you can't take something that has less value Tom and make it trumer on something that has more value that's cheating you're supposed to take 10% of your fruit and give it to the Cen now you took 10% that has less value than the 90% that's not fair it doesn't work not only that talking about even if it's equal Tommy to Tommy is also AES huh I don't know I'm saying both will argue later it only works when you don't know what it is the is Trum from Anar in this case truma they usually do take Amar is giving you bought fruit from you could assume that maybe he did take but we have to be there are a lot of that don't take and therefore it's so in that situation where it already you know like a lot of people they buy food here there has a they go ahead and they take again they take my TR again they not they don't rely okay but was already taken so in a a situation where you're being you have to take he said okay you could take from or from so that's the case over here we're talking about a case of and that's why you could use this Tom [Music] wine the think about this that wasn't here last night if we had in the Mish this case and we're going to talk about it later two two individuals are crossing a river one has a very expensive donkey one has a cheaper donkey and they're both drowning they're about to both be lost so the guy with the expensive donkey tells his friend hey help me out to save my donkey and if you do I'll pay you the value of your donkey I'll give you a hundred bucks for yours on condition that you help me with mine so he says okay he lets his donkey drown and he goes and he saves the guy's donkey now he comes to demand money says you owe me 100 bucks okay I'll give you 100 bucks she gives him 100 bucks he turns around goes home lo and behold his own donkey never drowned sitting there grazing on the side and he sees him he goes does one of the he's all excited to see his owner wow does he get to keep the 100 bucks he thought he's going to lose his donkey what's that he say yes what oh very good it's not even a sh he says not even sh everybody everybody gets this one own Donkey from he very good says like this when it comes to oil you can't use that oil that's t for the why because it has value the can use it still to burn to to use it for his fires and everything else what about wine it also has even if it's Tom you could do use it for this for Z for perfume you'll say that's nothing it's a joke if somebody is very poor we advise him to buy wine for l s a whole L for C it's much better hate double for Z zov is very important to have nice Aroma in your house is more important than having a good cup of wine so don't say it's nothing we're talking about wine that's new you can't use it for Z doesn't work yet just keep it for a year and you'll have good Z if you have t produce sitting around your house you never know one of your kids that doesn't know exactly what's in that bottle take a is in the mood of some wine and uh they'll drink the wine that could also be a problem he makes a cimon he puts it in a really disgusting vessel so he knows that this is oil that's so he's doing the same thing with wine if you're using it for the perfume you never put it in a disgusting vessel so the whole is that wine you put in a you cannot put in a CLE in a in a in a special vessel cuz people will get confused and if you put it in a disgusting vessel then it's not the way to do it it's for perfume but for oil it's not a big deal you put in a cleos you can still burn it it's any way he's going to be burned something you spray around your house you don't want you don't want it to come out of a terrible C says this idea that we're concerned that somebody might be over one day somebody might come to drink it or whatever is actually you have a whole barrel of Trum that be say pour it out immediately why because we're concerned that you might drink so here's that here's that says we are concerned you might come to drink Tom not a problem now if you notice doesn't make a distinction between where this happened it could happen in the city could happen in this house you pour it out we still say no it doesn't matter where it happened in the city or in the house you always can make it inter per let me be the this a concept if two are arguing the third one could come and can make some sort of compromise so she said I'll make a compromise when it's readily available and we're not concerned that somebody will forget it's already in the house you can make it into perfume what if you have to it from Far From A Distant place by the time you get home you're thirsty on the way you're going to grab a cup of wine and we're concerned that you're going to drink or it's not enough between in your house or in the field rather the difference is older wine and newer wi something you have to wait a whole year or whatever it is until it becomes perfume that's where the problems occur but if you could use it immediately it's not a problem they said that's not the case of because we still never argued about what you're saying if would say no matter what even if it's in the field pour it out right away or even if it's in the house pour it out right away and still said even if it's in the field don't worry about it yeah and then you come and say well no it depends if it's in the house yes if it's in the field no so you just made a compromise between two Shas but they never mentioned this far so you can't make a compromise in something that wasn't mentioned so that's why his his his compromise doesn't work yeah so the discuss it people ask that question still at the end of the day but in the it's not that's why I stuck in that thing in the says the we have a we have a situation A guy is losing his honey which is very valuable the other guy comes with uh he sees his friend with a barrel of wine he says do me a favor pour out the wine and save my honey so he has to pay him the value of the wine otherwise if he didn't ask him and the guy on his own was a nice guy poured out all his wine he doesn't have to pay him for the wine he pays him for his time not for his wine so we have a Brand New Concept in we haven't had it in a very long time I'm I'm making a joke out of you I tricked you you I'm making you into a fool so we're going to see when can you say this when can't you say this in general when a person has an emergency has an emergency it's not going well today he is about to lose $10,000 worth of honey and the only way for him to save the honey is to fool that guy and to tell him hey pour out your wine it's how much is that 500 bucks I'll pay the $500 and you save my and the guy listens to him then he says I was joking I just want you to save my honey now what's the big why is this not a good case if you think about it it's very different than a typical case another case that GAR brings here let's see a guy was wrongfully locked up in Siberia okay it's in a time of the gamar time when if you were just Jewish they put you in jail not that you committed a crime and that deserve to be there talking about they didn't like the way you look they thought you D in too star they put you in Siberia for 25 years he has an opportunity to to escape comes out obviously he doesn't have a credit card on him he doesn't have anything he's wear wearing his prisoner clothing something like this he makes a deal with the captain of the boat he says listen if you could bring me from here to there I'll give you $10,000 right now he gives him he says I'll give you a dinner a dinner is crazy amount of money is you could say in that casee he had to save his life and the guy was asking asking for exu amount of money it was too much so you can say no I'll give you the regular fee how much do you take on on your bus ride how much do you take you take it $2 I'm give you $2 I'm not pay you [Music] $10,000 there's water yeah they put a nice they put a uh a prison on a on a on an island so you can't run away and he sees a boat captain he says hey get over here take this money and get me out of here he only can charge him for a bus fear for a boat fear you see this idea I so also why don't you say so what's the obvious answer what's the obvious answer huh no I have a much better huh why Bo I think for a second who said that Bo say think about it why over here can you not say I'm telling you hey help me out save my honey I need you to pour out your wine save my honey oh oh now you guys are talking like how can I force you to incur a loss telling you pour out your wine not saying just I'm going anyways in that direction with my boat usually I charge $3 I'm charging $10,000 I give you a f you're not getting my $10,000 here I'm telling you destroy your wine in order to save my honey how can I tell you to destroy your thing it's your thing I have no right to destroy your property and if I do you should pay for it yeah the over here is Da on on the wine fine so let's see inside this is not not a good example I'll tell you what it is this is similar says the to the other case it's literally the same words take this dinner and get me out of here from jail has to pay the full dinner no by the way all these are in to save a person life is also to get a guy out of jail you give him back his life oh bring someone to D I said that also once we're talking about if you if you're bringing him his yeah also could you tell a guy if you come to the D I'll give you $10,000 then you say I saved your life a lot more oh I gave you a lot more but we had a we had a real story an Em's story can I say the story Em's story a few days ago a guy that though wasn't doing the da he went into some very very hard times he he got a he got in trouble with the authorities and he thought it was over his La said that's it you're done so he sat there locked up and he said if I get out of here I'm going to do the da because a certain individual from the shear was begging him to do that for a long time and he kept on pushing him off he said you know what says m a few 10 minutes later the guy said you know what you're out of here we'll come come back at different time let him out so the sh is in such a case does he say I took care of it on my own I'm not doing the another very I asked my I asked my cousin who's a surgeon he works with my father-in-law they do the same thing they're both head and ex surgence obviously my father you know know he's my father-in-law's nephew so his entire life he wanted to be a surgeon like my father-in-law and now he he finally got the he's actually unbelievable kishan scored you know top of everything in in uh what is it called not the lsats the not just them cats and no but when you come out of high school when yous like almost a perfect score like so I just asked him yesterday because I saw this in the this exact question a guy you know a lot of people unfortunately when they have the ma whatever they fly to America they go to SLO King whatever it could cost $100,000 $50,000 no problem you go to the guy in slow cering you say listen I'll pay you cash just do the surgery surgery the guy does the surgery after the surgery he says listen it's it's a crazy amount you don't deserve it what you worked on me for for an hour I'll pay you $1,000 an hour you need $150,000 this m I'm not paying 150 could you say so the ran and the rash say you cannot why because when it comes to a doctor he has a certain that nobody else has and you're paying for that not just paying for a boat ride from here to here that anyways you charge $10 and how you want to pay so now the another thing what not every doctor OB here not every doctor aaor says he agrees Dr abon you agree of course of course so you see no you see different things right so if you have a certain in something they were also talking about a guy could talk to shade and get you a certain answer from AED you don't know how to do it so here's a very interesting one and I also called up my my barber to find out about this a guy takes a haircut and the you know it's two hours before he runs into the guy says oh your is double the price says what are you double the price I just know double the price he he doesn't have a choice he's going to get up and go to another so he says okay and then he decides to do Revenge comes back 3 weeks later he says give me a haircut and he just walks out without paying him so you had no right to charge me double then you're you're taking advantage of me so says on that you can't say because he already paid but I called up Natan and he said I said do you charge extra for he says yes but only if he tells me he wants a because it takes double the time there is something called if you're be careful it's going to cost you double but here is something I found fascinating I want to look into it a little bit more how about you know they have these out there they they had uh you know I told you about the the the the wife of the Riva that sat next to me on the flight home here no she's watching somebody else's do that was the only recruit I got why are you watching that guy's do just TR trust me this is she yeah I'm going to change wife she did the whole sh whatever so yeah get a freaking Mar so her son her son is a famous sh he used to be a famous SH now he does nursing homes $100,000 $50,000 you know starring pric over here could you tell get my I'll pay $100,000 says talks about it huh and afterward says the what's the going rate a thousand here thousand instead of 100,00 now it's not so positive that's his rate it's a look into it I'm not I'm not passing you now but it's when it comes to he says you could you could do something like that fine let's go [Music] back uh oh so here we go so why is this any different it's the same exact case I'll give you a dinner for your work and all of a sudden he has to pay the full thing this guy he has a boat what does he do on his off time he fishes he he's a fisherman so by you making me take you across the river I lost out a dinner because of you I lost out a whole bunch of fish now losing out fish is what is that called losing out fish it's called you don't know that he caught a fish maybe you'll catch a fish I'm preventing you from catching fish even if you know 100% you will catch a fish I didn't cause you any damage if I stand in front of your house and don't let you go out to go fish you could charge me for that I prevented you from it's yet over here because we made a deal and I said I'm going to pay you extra and it's going to cause me a monetary loss then we don't say and that's why you have to pay next case so this is the case where oh take a look at this picture the donkey is about to drown and his friend has a donkey that's more valuable makes a deal with him so says why do I need two cases the wine is lost the the the honey is about to be lost and I tell you save my honey I'll drop my wine and two donkeys your donkey is about to be lost drop your donkey save my donkey why is that not the same exact case need two cases because the bottom line is this's one difference when it comes to Wine I'm pouring it out physically I'm destroying my wine because of you and when it comes to the donkey he's on his own he's about to die he's drowning right now he's in a condition of drowning you might be able to save him but he's in the condition of Dr that's if I only say wine if you specified and said save and I'll pay you for your wine only in that case then that's when you have to pay because you're asking somebody to damage his own product his own possession over here it happened by itself the donkey dying maybe he should only get paid for his work even by donkeys get paid for the whole Donkey if I only said it by by the donkeys don't forget there's two cases this one that he asked him specifically to help him and one that he helped him on his own so the would be on the other case the reason why if he didn't specify doesn't get paid because anyways it was going to die dying over here you're right he wasn't asked to help but he took a barrel of wine think about it I personally if you were to ask me as a rabbi which I'm not if you would have asked me logically Ellie what would you say I would say listen the guy took his Barrel he wasn't asked anything he took it he saw this gu's in a big Sor he's he's trying to save his his honey he went he poured out his wine and and and helped this guy saved his day so Le's paying for the wine no you didn't specify you don't get your wine that's a massive maybe she should pay the whole thing [Music] so we have two two donkeys one is expensive one is less expensive the one that's expensive the owner tells the other guy help me out save my donkey I'll pay you a donkey I want to pause here for a second just tell you a a famous M but it's a great n a guy had a well that was dry for a long time was a danger was in the middle of his backyard he also had a donkey that was about 70 years old you know I guess the donkey only lives 25 whatever look at at its end of its life can't even carry a person can't can't do anything does know what to do so he had a great idea he's going to kill two birds with one stone literally he's going to kill his donkey so he takes his donkey it happens to be the he didn't do it the donkey was walking around blind already falls into the pit so he says okay said meing him out of this well let me just fill the well as is with dirt so she starts taking shovel full after shovel full starts pouring pouring into the well all of a sudden the donkey comes out emerges out of the well what happened every time he threw a a shovel of dirt on the donkey the donkey just and went to the bottom of the well and then the donkey stepped on it the is no because it says over here the donkey just emerged on his own merge on his own so remind me of this so the Nim is that life always throws Us dirt you always get dirt in the face this happens that happen this m this kid whatever everything you know what I'm talking about so you can take the dirt and just let it hit you in the face and bury you or you can take the dirt and make you a stronger person step on it and Elevate yourself with that dirt so beautiful you went to save this donkey you went to save and you let your donkey get lost and drowned and then you f found it it showed up by itself grazing somewhere basically that's what said from the he was going with a caravan on the way in those days you know what I'm saying you have it's a whole thing you go it's a few day journey through the desert and there's Bandits and there's wild animals and you need guides and the whole thing they're going through this and we're going to talk a lot about it today he going in this thingi check this out we have a beautiful picture it's an interesting story M interesting story the story is of a lion that accompanied the the people he was helping them there's an interesting line maybe he's used to this the deal is like this you you feed him and this is normal you feed him and he won't attack you he'll protect you actually he won't allow the robbers the the all the other animals come and harm you he's a protector it makes sense I actually it happened to me I had something similar to this I'll show you oh yeah about done sometimes the lines protect you why don't ask you sh because the guy with the stick look at that these line is mad at him because he has a stick it happens to be I'll just tell you that these lines everybody says oh they were tamed and they this and they were not tamed one of them decided to run away never came back the other one here look Em's stuff but I'm talking and learning the whole time you want to hear items or things that have to be buried first one is an animal of that misry talking Leu well you never saw that one right it's not scary it's garnished if they're wellfed if they're wellfed they are very dangerous there's a guy I'm not going to mention his name he's he already died he's a famous Yi that whatever he had a little story at the end of his life so he went there one of those lies actually bit his hand he had to have surg the whole thing fine so so here's the story every day somebody else volunteers his donkey donkey even today is very cheap meat 100 bucks you get a donkey you it's a lot cheaper than a cow that's over a thousand $2,000 there was a lie in there accompany them every night they give him a donkey get in here come we have a seat just for you come turn he s didn't need the the LI didn't need it so what what happened so when you send the donkey to the lion what what are you essentially doing you're being murate he didn't do anything comes I just I'll say real quickly that says very interesting thing I just want to push people's buttons because nobody's going to understand it 100% but if you let's say rent out your house earb andb and tell the guy I don't have insurance whatever take care of the house and the guy burns down your house so now you're going to sue him he's going to pay you little does he know you went you got insurance on the house says the guy has to pay you for the house and you take the money from the insurance that's how he pass but now day I don't know how it works exactly because people assume that once you have insurance they don't have to pay okay just throwing it out there so why did have to go and acquired from the he he's asking that at the end day wasn't real he gave it to the LI he wasn't really making it he just giving the Lion a meal the lion didn't want to eat it so he takes it right back you're right but he just didn't want them to fight with him and say I was Co you're when just in case somebody would make issue out of it oh this is he has a donkey that's worth 100 instead of saving his donkey he goes and helps his friend to save that his friend's donkey was worth 200 he was going to get paid the problem is he wasn't able to save the donkey okay it was harder than he thought so what does he get paid the guy promis him but he didn't he didn't come through we have to say the famous even though we said it a week ago say it again we work hard and they work hard we say by in three days we work hard and we get hour they work and they don't get question is of course they get everybody who works he's a he's a carpenter makes a table he gets paid what do you mean he doesn't says he doesn't get paid for his he gets paid for his PR so if he could produce the product great if he works really hard 3 weeks on a table and then he messes up and the table breaks he can't get paid for it he gets paid zero so over here also he worked hard he didn't come up with a product zero says wow that's a good question this is right like this is a good cash this is a good and the answer is he doesn't get paid a whole Donkey like he was promised $100 for donkey he gets paid minimum wage $10 an hour I'll ask you a question now I think while I'm reading this think why this is not a question you a person was hired to bring these two products that have healing abilities masculine prunes they could help stomach aches things like that he told him listen there's a sick guy over there I want you to deliver it he did his delivery but when he got there the guy was dead already he was already healed he has to pay him the full amount asked the gor the question why do you have to pay the full amount we just said that if you weren't able to do your job you didn't save the donkey you don't get paid your full amount you get paid a small amount the minimum wage so why over here doesn't get paid minimum wage over here he gets paid the $100 he his promised no what's the answer has answer what's answer he did his job that's the answer sponsored by kov LC in honor of my uncle very obvious I didn't even understand the question in yes they would sit here for two weeks to understand what was the it's true they would and they should but we are doing so unfortunately we have to go over there he did he worked as hard as he I'm sorry he brought the prunes in there and he brought and he gave it to the guy the guy happened to be gone already he's dead but over here he didn't do his job he was told if you save my donkey I'll pay you and he didn't save his donkey they're going in the desert dangerous situation and all of a sudden the bandits come what do the bandits want they want your life or they want your money they want money think about this for a second this this Mish these are that we would have never thought they want your money so Lauren you have $1,000 in your pocket and and no only has $500 in his pocket they want $1,500 should you pay more money to get saved than Noam no they want more you're saying no I knew it's a yes it goes by how much money they you were saved from more important what save no is more important we're not talking about that I asked the question we're trying to save money here so over here even though I might have said the story recently I gotta tell you the story again we were in a van full of from people crossing from one country in South Africa to another country like we're going into Kenya so they said we need a volunteer to bring in the passports to cross the border not we're not going to have the whole entire van go in one guy okay Ellie Ellie said Ellie okay I was the youngest craziest one take the passports we're waiting in line waiting waiting and I'm bored I oh you Valic I go to I said who's the head guy here this is me so listen I'll give you 10 bucks 10 yeah $10 it's like a a month salary 10 bucks you arrest me right now put me against the wall and go to the van and tell them that there's a big problem with this guy that you sent in there he rested me in the second and the second I had handcuffs I'm on the wall of course my wife comes in balling and everybody this and he tells them he says I need $3,000 otherwise but these guys are heavy Heavy Hitters from New York no problem they all came together this guy give a thousand they put the money on the table then he says no no no it's a joke the women didn't speak to me for two days seriously so how much money how huh now this has nothing to do with Bandits you hire a guy his job is to get you away from the bandits to to save you from the Lions to get you through the desert how much do you pay in our days it goes by the head how how each person pays 100 bucks and you go through the desert $1,000 whatever it is like the guys that are coming across the border in Mexico it's per per person they don't care how much money you have in your pocket and what it goes by purpose right no so first of all we have to consider how many people are here so let's say this tor guy cost $2,000 for arguing sake and there's 10 people in the group so you divide the 2,000 and half $1,000 $1,000 divided by 10 people is how much $100 a person okay so $100 a person the other ,000 goes by the cash people have in their pocket so Lauren is going to have to pay double the amount in in that, it's a nice takes a long time to figure this stuff out but we have to go why because the tour guide is saving your life and also saving you from Bandits he's doing two things he's saving you from the Lions so that's $1,000 he's saving you from the bandits that's another th that's the money part but if the the Torah guide says listen I don't work like this I'm not all theas and this how much did you did you take dessert and you didn't then I'm going to start making you know like the sitting there at the end of the meal and have to I take per person each person pays me $200 so it goes like him this interesting that if your donkey was lost stolen killed whatever we will provide you another another donkey everybody in the group is going to pay for this donkey now but if you're negligent and that's why got lost then you don't get another donkey if it wasn't negligent now there's another component here and that is that we you need to be liable for all the stock the the livestock care all the animals need to be watched T night now you need to watch with us we're a group so you say listen give me cash I'll buy my own donkey no I don't want you to buy your own donkey I want you to have a donkey you're going to watch it and you're also going to watch my donkey while you're watching your donkey I don't want to give you cash of course we don't have to listen to him he already has a donkey so I think he's watching anyway he's watching his donkey so he's anyways helping us watch with the watch so what do you care to give him cash now the answer is let's read it again you're right he's watching his donkey and he's already on the watch so what do you care give him cash the answer is no I want him to have a second donkey because a person has two donkeys does a much better job watching than if he has one donkey and he wanted to be a better Watcher there was a ship in the ocean and what happens when there's a ship in the ocean with all of a sudden you have a big storm 50 foot waves 100 foot waves crazy so they wanted to be saved what do they do they say everybody has to throw 100 pounds of stuff into the ocean let's be saved so we go by weight now a guy has 200 pounds of gold the other guy has 200 lb of Steel each person has to throw out 100 pounds but it's gold too bad you have to get rid of 100 pound now if he had SE he' make a deal with the guy with the steel you throw out 200 lound of Steel and I'll pay you $10,000 but there's no time they they're in a rush they're they're they're in a pan panic mode they have to save so they each person has to toss out famous M the guy was walking in two heavy suitcases asks him his friend what you what's going on here you look like you're dying he says yeah in this case I have a lot of gold and and jewels I'm traveling to fireplace and what do you have in the other hand I have a bunch of stones Stones why he says because my father said that if I'm going to walk like this you know I'll get a bent back so to even it out my father said take he say oh that's a great idea but you don't need to take a suitcase of stones Chuck out the stones and take half of the gold from from this one and put into the suitcase of the other one now you'll have half to wait and it'll be evenly balanced he says you're right my father told me to do it like that that's how he do I don't ask any questions K gets on this ship and then they had a storm and the the the head guy there says you got to throw out each guy two suitcases throw out one suitcase then he understood his father he took the suitcase with the stones and tossed it into those ocean he didn't lose any of his gold and the is we have stones in our life we have a lot of tus in our life we have a lot of things but exactly if you understand why we have those sorus we have tremendous tarus we have tarus and it's there for us to get rid of the tarus and then you could keep all the good and all everything else says the how do you say in English uh the head sailor sailor the captain the captain the captain he is it's like on a flight today who's in charge the pilot he could arrest you he could do anything he wants here so on a ship also don't start arguing with him you went on a ship and you agreed to go with his you go with his so this we had with the donkeys if you lose your donkey I give you a donkey if you lose your ship I give you another ship and we all pay for the whole group pays for it we're going together from one country to another if you lost your ship at a negligence you don't have to give him another one what if this guy was a wild man he went into a place where the waters are very TR they're very bad and he lost his ship because he went to very to to Rough Waters you don't give him of course he's negligent so I want to tell you like this if you didn't if you haven't been there yet highly recommend to go to the Alps very it's very close to this Ro it's just a three-hour flight so if you go there during Nissan like over here talking about Nissan that's when the snow melts off the mountains and that's when you have tremendous um streams the the water is very very um what's the word anyways you do one of these you go into the water there you take a tour and you jump into the water so I went with my friend aronfeld and my son AKA and what it's the water it's crazy there you could go jumping in the air 10 feet you know so they strap your feet into this tube right you're in this boat that could carry 10 people your feet are you're not going anywhere even if the boat flies up you're stuck ker and this guy the guys on the right have to paddle to the right and the guys on the left to the left and he tells you the guy on the back he's screaming the whole time right so he go right left both everybody together anyways we're going and then there's a giant tree that goes into the water like a nice Branch so he starts panicking he's like left left left you're not listening left left and he's trying Mr AR F gets hit by this Branch literally takes him out and knocks him into the water the problem is that his feet are still stuck in the boat but his body is being dragged under and back then it was whatever he weighed a little bit more than he weigh today and he couldn't get up and he's drowning over there so anyways me and this guy we went at first we had to save AKA that was priority number one then after we saved him that took a minute we saved this NE guy who almost broke his arm and wasn't breathing for two minutes and we brought him up and I'm saying the story why St for no other reason you do that that won't happen to you whatever so when it's there's a lot a lot of water coming off off the the mountains and there's a lot there's a big stream so you're you're only supposed to go away from the from the shore one rope L whatever that means go you stay from the shore 100 feet but when it's there's less of a stream so you could go two rope length because this this he he remembered that he went two stream l in the C season now it's the crazy season he went he went because when lot of water he went he went all the way out there and he got swept away he drowned the boat drown the he was doing what he's used to and we shouldn't penalize him that's considered negligence they're going in the desert comes a guy and attacks them think about this one guy is the strong guy he knows karate who learned just 25 years he's in the UFC he beats the robber up does he get to keep all the money who's going to be lost without him or maybe not let's see if he saves it it's everybody gets to keep their stuff he doesn't get to keep anything extra me and if he says I'm only doing it for myself self hits the last okay so he saved the Zone he say he gets everything ask the what's going on here I would sticking the two EXT like the guy the side if they are able they're also trained Fighters so so what if he said oh I'm saving it for myself doesn't give him the right to take all the loot and if they're not capable he's the only strong guy there so then in all cases he should get everything we have a number of we're talking about Partners listen to this if we are all Partners there's 10 vessels made out of gold and there's 10 people so we all own uh 10% of each vessel he goes to save a vessel and as he's about to do it he says I am not a partner with anybody else I'm absolving my partnership and he grabs a vessel so we could look at it how much did he grab 10% of the vessel for himself and the rest for everybody else or no he's no longer a partner so when he grabbed one vessel he grabbed his own vessel the whole entire thing it says and that's what it says over here therefore if he said specifically PO he splits with he splits with them if he didn't say he doesn't divide with them we're talking about workers if I hire somebody for daily work so that is like this if he finds something while he's working for me it's fine but at any given time he could decide he doesn't want to work for me and then he acquires it for himself and that's what's happening over here but if he didn't take it back then he's acquiring it for the and when he takes it back it's not because he never was like a slave so to speak for that guy he was but at the point when he still was working for the guy he was completely his but at at any given time since a Jew cannot work for somebody you can't be a slave to somebody else so therefore he already he just says I'm out of here and when he says I'm out of here the guy still has to pay him for all the hours he worked that day he could he could get his money back but barely so then if he showed what he wants to do and everybody else was quiet so that means they they hados and if they hados then it's Hef but if they did not nobody said anything he he I'm saying he didn't say anything so then they and they were quiet that means nothing we don't know that they were MAF he didn't say anything and they didn't say anything then if he saves it he has to give it back to everybody have a wonderful [Music] day that