Daf Yomi Bava Kama Daf 111 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning long time listen a first time emailer first off should bring entire family I realize this of good morning is likely the 1,500th time you've seen the opening line which is often imitated listen to this it is often imitated but never duplicated but this has a little different twist I've been down in Miami vacation and they would hear me listen to the do of course they were hooked however I'm happy to say they now my son-in-law who heard him listening to the D jery syes was also inspired he's now joining the D beginning with is already on the way okay so we got a guy thank you for all that you do your dedication for teaching toy and preparing his rational you still find time to do some wild and crazy things perhaps I'll seen Chicago BR at but with an 18e hius until 2023 beginning with Gordon unbelievable he's from the ones that remember that sh here we go let me get some volume [Music] okay boide pleasure meeting RAB is selling books here and these two guys over here where's where's anybody he's in America pleasure meeting rabman seltz at his book signing seeing him every day sitting next to her Bell I felt like I was seeing a friend yph Le Brown mdy and um Yoshi did this for me I he didn't know I was going to show this year he gave me a little gift last night but I think it's good basically this is the gav's van did you get your free gamar it says kareni even as sit is hanging out of the door shop over [Music] there okay so I don't know does anybody want to volunteer to show me how to do status anybody you want to show okay we got to yes ashy get over [Applause] here I do what I got to do anything for SRA exactly as you ever did this um yes I've done St on um what is this a Facebook or um no so no no this is WhatsApp status you know how to do that yes 100% so I'm over here on my status yeah what do I do all right so go to go to like go to over here click the plus button the plus button yeah plus button okay now you go to your um this video I just 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I let's get I want to get started so um you want to get started with what the oh you want you also want to get started with the D okay so let's get started yes sir you want to sit next to me over here Pro let me see how many people nobody's watching this nobody saw my status yet not yet they will oh yeah they will okay fine gal m bsk is watching live galik M bski put it on your status MTI now if you get something like that on status could you forward it on on your status or no how how do you save status is a status saver there is a way okay [Music] sponsor for the unity of on zoom and we do have the daily wave here Li and his father do the daily [Music] wave framan how's your brother doing starting Fe I'm afraid it should be to rebell thank you on the birth of Sophia Russ we have a sadic here that's sitting here right behind no I'm from Lakewood who donated money yesterday I have to huh another $100 take the we'll take the money for your uncle that what what about your uncle zic what's his [Music] name yeah uh I'll take that money please can I have two uh AAS please beautiful she find for my daughters SB and M Sr in honor of the engagement of our daughter big son [Music] of who's just here was he Anonymous for the for an easy child birth for his daughter and a healthy baby it's uh I have a goal and I think it's a very achievable goal I just need everybody's help we we need to bring another thousand people to the share for B it's very very doable we're not going to have another opportunity like this in for a while you have Basra it's beautiful but it's not B Sanhedrin Maybe maybe Mak a little not thousand people I think we can do it but we got we got to each person just bring one person each person bring a person we'll get it a little status they showed me last night shoh who puts on a status all the time he put a g a guy joined yesterday you don't know so what if you put it on your status a week ago do it again you never know somebody will watch be inspired and join um you know that the one the the one the guy spoke in yish was very popular it went like a lot of people people not from the very excited about it so put that on your status even if no no no one you know speaks put on your status people might join you never know Bo say we're holding like seven lines from the bottom the we're talking about somebody that stole money from a g stole money from a and now he wants to do chva so he goes and he brings the money to the B he brings it to the and he has to bring a he has to bring a carb then Mish tells us what if he was able to give the money part there's two components right there the money and the Cara what if he's able to give the money and he dies before he's able to give the carbon so he doesn't really have a kapara and the children come and they demand the money back from the K look Our Father wasn't able to complete the whole process he wasn't able to bring a carbon we want our money back says the M too late once you gave the money so AB wants to prove from here an amazing amazing you see from here that he did achieve let's say a 50% capar because if there was a zero kapar then in theas of money if somebody makes such a mistake it will'll be like a me he would have never given theim the money had he known that he would drop dead so therefore give the money back has a big issue with it what about other situations from here you see that the money at least achieved a 50% goal because if where's the today I need him Morty ah I hope he's watching because I have a Ackle yesterday he was talking in Middle she and he said something he came over to me after she but I have a little Riot to me I wanted wanted to discuss it with him okay listen to this go back to the we know a person's mind the person would not give money listen to this it's his money it's his money so why is he giving it to K because he wants to achieve a kapar and if he doesn't get the kapar he would have never given it he would never put in that push had he not known that he would get zero out of it it's his how it's is why because when the dies Etc okay let's see if this stands with logic why as we learned yesterday a person sets aside a and then he dies so he said you have to put the K into a keeper into a place and not feed it and unfortunately a it grows there it dies why the person would have never set aside his had he known that he would die before he's able to bring it if you're able to make such logical conclusions do it everywhere do as well arry you're right it's a good but guess what beats logic you're right logically speaking it shouldn't die why because like a sort of take it out of being it was never to begin with learn this is how it is that's it we don't ask questions as we had thisam we spoke about it yesterday as well the same exact case that the owner died before he was able to bring it as a over here you don't have that was the we had yesterday if you take the same exact thing by it dies so is one step less it doesn't die you let it graze and you wait until it gets a m once it gets a m you sell it the money is K what do you do with the money you buy an and that's it but why let it the question is let it undo itself because I never intended to donate it in such a way the answer is because it's just like a and we said is so to how about how about can we do this logic with a marriage a woman who was married and her husband dies without children is that she falls she gets married to the brother-in-law now what if the brother-in-law is a disgusting guy he looks terrible he is terrible he's a has lepry so you're going to say she should go out without even without even removing the guy's shoe and spitting that Atma she never decided to get engaged in such a way say talking about engagement not a marriage because a marriage you wouldn't do this because so he going to to we're talking about only okay say based on this perhaps you should say anytime you purchase anything you you buy a car you buy a car you drive it for two years and all of a sudden you hit a brick wall had I known that I would hit a brick wall with this car I would have never bought it I would have ridden my bicycle had I known that my husband would die and I would fall to his brother I wouldn't have got engaged him okay so had I known that I would have been involved in an accident retroactively I wouldn't have done the whole sale well I want to spend three weeks in the hospital no I don't so therefore the the car was never mind what's the difference somebody else oh so says that when it comes to sale there's somebody else involved there this the he doesn't agree with this logic but when it comes to this marriage it's very possible that the husband doesn't care right now the husband doesn't care you hear meni what's the difference meni what's the difference between a sale and a yeah but so you have it you have a husband and a it's two people also the answer is he be he's dead right now he doesn't care yeah he's dead all right so says the even by a woman who F the famous we are we know what a woman wants that perhaps she would want this marriage why she be she would be agreeable even to be married to this guy a woman better for her to to be married and and to compromise than to be alone for the rest of her life a father wakes up his daughter day before the and says wake up wake up this is the best day of your life so the girl looks at she says you're confused I'm getting married tomorrow she says yeah yeah that's what I mean today is your best day of your life says in the mishna we have what these are the two first mishmar it could work with all the mishmar but they go in order Y is first we actually have a little bit why not he gives the asham to which is in the wrong order he should really give the money first and then the asham second so says so you do this you take the money and you bring it over here now the question is going to be on not say that if this is what happened you take the and you give it to now something's wrong over here if he gave the to when and he gave the money when the following week why would say that y has to give the money to was wrong over here they accepted the the the animal before they received the money they should have looked into it at the end of the day it doesn't make sense for to give the money to yes that happened the animals received first but in the right Mish for the right people what happened was the money went to the wrong mishmar the money went to to the second to Y but it wasn't their turn yet it was still yar's turn they he should have given the money to yarv to the first mishma so we have what's what's continually so what you see from the gar here is we're talking about AAS there's a penalty going on here who receives the penalty does the first mishmar get the penalty or the second mishmar they both did something wrong who who's more in the wrong they receive the money and it's not they're not even here they're not even supposed to be around who are they it's not their weak it's y y is weak right now why are they taking money not in the right place makes a lot of sense you're not in the now why you taking funds that don't belong to you give it to the people have a very strong yes they took money and it wasn't their turn but is taking an animal at a place they have more responsibility they're in the when somebody shows up and says I want to get a kapar for so somebody has to ask him wait a minute did you follow the procedure did you do the checklist there's a checklist first comes money then comes carbon what are you taking a carbon from somebody that says he's get where's the money ask him set him straight you're the C you're the you should know the rules and because you messed up we're going to give you the you get penalized they did it wrong we give them the and therefore the animal goes yes to the wrong it's the wrong mishmar but the animal goes we wait one week few days and let you die take care of the the money and the carbon wow is right and it's they're the majority they're the r this is how the r hold now very interesting rebi who came after Reb Yuda he authored the mishna right one of last he says a few here he says things that seem to either contradict or are simple but there's something deeper going on if they didn't wait for any of the money to come in so the owner must bring another he didn't achieve his have the money now let them do that yet the first they get to keep the first carbon that they messed up on what's a messed up carbon worth there's nothing there's no value you can't eat it you can't put it on the nothing you're right there's very little but at least the hides they get to keep the hides okay another the is alive and well nobody ever did a the were aware that something's wrong they didn't put it on the why where's the money let's wait around for the money okay so they didn't do take the animal give it to the next mishmar let them do the they have the money wait a minute says the gar that doesn't go that's basically what's on this on this chart right over here that you take the animal and you give it to the money you give it to Y but do the opposite says that the money goes to the to the carbon Reb is just talking in reud what you do is you take the animal and you give it to no R is the one that said you take the money and you give it to says is talking about a special is done finished they're out of here this might be it I'm not 100% sure what oh it's not the mishmar what I don't know what's going on oh that's why okay something whatever you get the idea Y is out of here you die the second is in place in never ask for the money the reason why the money goes to the second mishar is because the first mishar never asked for it so theam stays by the the go from the money is already there great another so let's go back does that fit into what we learned if there's a carbon around according to you take the one and you give it to the two you have the money and the as the that's exactly said you're just repeating over's words obviously rebi knows exactly what said and he's not repeating anything he's saying the is that both of them are gone and Y are history now we're already talking about um three is in this look at 17 top of the purple line ker interesting name get another mishma is there and nobody asked anybody for anything nobody said give me the money so this is a huge where before we said that since y didn't ask for anything didn't ask for for the money so they take the carbon give it to Y you do it in the wrong way but now that even y didn't take care of business so now we just wait for all the to go through we come back around the cycle we come back to Mish number one and Y gets everything back since nobody Su anybody it goes back to where it was the way it works is says the mishna first you bring the money then you bring the carbon we're talking about Asam Asam means Benny what's Karen the principal what happens if you don't bring the you get a kapara you don't get a kaparo you get a kaparo how does everybody know this said yesterday that you didn't get a Kar it's it's not Mak means that you don't have you have to do you have to do it in the right order but you don't get a k you say somebody tell him that that's not the over here look at the last last Rashi we'll see how do we know that it goes in this order that first you bring the money to the then you bring a carbon the word Milad is what gives it away here Milad means after that me that after this comes the after whatever you did before the money then you bring this last line is when you bring the car guess what there's another in the that talks that says the word oh I don't have to tell anybody this everybody's very very familiar it says by the P what are you laughing you like the last because it has nothing to do with the wow huh that could be like a status clip no we'll do we'll do the we're going to do it again but better so it says in the wow wow what a Shear what a Shear no way in the world do you see anything like this unbelievable wow I'm so proud of the yeah yeah yeah says the gamar like this but let's be serious over here we're talking I just put the word p so we know we're talking about a the they craft you bring for and then it says that's in addition to every single morning you bring a Ted every every day of the year Tom Ted and every evening you bring a Ted it would come out that comes means after after what you just did the p then you bring the Tom we know that's wrong tomed always comes first and is always last first in last out then nothing comes before the of the morning is always first you're right you we thought we're learning from the word no I'm learning from the word means in the future first something else took place which is the giving of the money then afterwards do Bo through the carbon so the carbon is second so I have no question from K because over there it says the word mean before can mean after I don't know what it means depends on the on the situation and there still no a big comes to the re and says Reb comes with like his slav I did a big and I need a from the Reb and the re says take this giant cup of lemon juice and drink it without any sugar so the guy looks he says what that's it just drink that he says no I'm not saying you're going to get a kaparo but one thing's for sure if you drink that it's going to wipe your disgusting smile off your face that for sure so it's very interesting we just finished the talking about the K the the carbon there's something else that has the exact same thing and that's me and in fact we could learn one from the other because it's so similar in is if somebody takes something from the the owns something let's say it owns a car and you drive around in the car without permission your mile you took from the B mdash so now you have to return that you have to return the principle you have to add 25% and you have to bring a carbon same exact thing as stealing from a g how do you know you need both the two components the money you have to return and you have to bring the car over here the word is like as the is going to explain Asam is tricky usually Asam means a carbon in this case Asam means the principle how do I know this because in our Su we already established yesterday that the word Asam doesn't mean a carbon it must mean the money the the carrot so over here also and how do you know that you cannot bring the carbon first like hour you have to bring the money first then the carbon that the money was already I think that just like he has to bring a car has to bring the principal back otherwise he doesn't have forgiveness so too the 25% is also what the says rash the last word on the the per that we know that they're so similar they both need the money to come first and then the carbon so let's learn one from the other and the other from the one will learn using we learn the word doesn't refer to Caron means money the principle means what are we going to learn the opposite way just like the the 25% if you don't give it you still have a Kap it's what you need to do but if you didn't do it it's not the end of the world and so too the is not the by when you're you don't bring the 25% oh I have a sponsor that I forgot to sorry I got it late at night and I forgot to put it in sorry let's see still on my status what do I do chats okay y the Turning of The Da kidovations LLC we take out the LLC in honor of my uncle Beno oh very nice I didn't see this thank you m appreciate it okay you can leave the L it's unbelievable I mean we're towards the end of we only have what nine days left 110 days into the 110 days ago some of us to be in Connecticut I I don't want to rub it in it brings back memories does it brings back tremendous memories what that means you're not coming this this coming time no oh but you could go on all your little trips to the PO list and that I mean you just got back literally you just got back two days ago you telling me about you were he's in duai but of of of people cry there was not a single dry eye people crying the whole shabas and the whole shabas it was unbelievable no did you cry I C no seriously you don't remember did you cry Benny what I cried [Laughter] yeah like when I can't find the tissue I'm cry B of boy say we have a beautiful picture I I love this it's not easy to make these m is not easy guys stole one of these trucks it has a don't worry about it and uh he's feeding his little kids they all have gam shirts on it's the new stripe they wear the stripes and shavs I'm just think to myself now okay if a person fed his children and then he dies they don't have to pay they ate it already or or his mom is a big he gave them a he stole something before he died so they have something to live on they don't have to pay the says he says it's a he has a whole book of stories but he says a which has a a nice mus hll to it at the end he says there's a person that they caught stealing you know one of these Arab countries they call him stealing they said okay death penalty so right before they put him to death the king asked him do you have something you want then it last wish she says yeah I want to talk to my mother privately like in not privately I want to tell her something so they bring the mother in front of everybody he goes over to he whispers something in her ear and as he's Whispering something in her ear he bites her ear off in front of everybody the King was you're so Disturbed how does a son bite off a mother's ear he says you really do deserve to die but what did you just do he says look when I was a kid my mother used to steal all the time in front of me she used to take me places what do you want that okay she' steal she would pick when I grew up I wanted things I would uh my mother said go steal and steal she's very proud of me so in fact she's the one that brought me to this position she she's responsible I told her that so the king says I hear and he decided instead of killing him he's going to kill the mother let him go says the Ben that many times we as parents we're m in certain things everybody knows in certain areas some with some with shabas some with whatever you do in front of your kid you drive to SCH a minute before whatever it is yeah you make and then the kid takes it one more step he takes it and it says on that a parent is going to give why were you make in front of your kids they learned from you they saw it it became better to them and that's uh so he steals gives it to his kids they see it there's a a Jew and his non-jewish friend they walk into a takeout place before shabas so the non-jew tells his his Jewish friend let me show you how it's done he looks at the uh the store owner he sees that the the guy's turned his head for a little bit he grabs a piece of gilter fish and puts it in his pocket a minute later the guy looks the other way takes a piece of Gala the other packet says no no no that's not how you do it let me show you he walks over to the guy in front of the guy's face he takes a piece ofil the fish and eats it so the guy say what are you doing you didn't pay for it he says this magic wait takes a piece of Gala puts in his mouth and he eats it what he says you think that I ate it let me show you it's in that guy's pocket right over there now throughout means something that nadlan real estate something that you can go back and there's a lean on it real estate but we're gonna see the different what it means just I thought it was it's interesting that it mentions here on the same as two other people and I'll point it out soon says we know the famous concept of y y is a person gives up when something is stolen from him he realizes stolen and that point he says I'm never going to get it back so if a person something was stolen and he didn't give it up somebody took it from the GH and ate it I'll give you a perfect example that told us last night it happened to him I was just saying over this example he said in China A Guy Walks over to somebody says you know oh you look very familiar the guy says not really he says I'm going to I'm going to remind you let's let's go to this you see this beautiful restaurant let's go to this restaurant on me and I'm going to remind you so they sit there in the restaurant he says what should I anything you want the me so he sit they order a beautiful meal and he's telling him you don't remember no I don't remember that the meal is over basically and the guy that invited him into the restaurant books he runs out the door and he's out of there comes the waiter and tells the guy listen you just ate a whole meal he says no but that no you ate in my restaurant you're going to pay that's what it says over here you wait here I he stole it and I didn't know I didn't know he's playing a game on me doesn't matter you the owner of the restaurant was not MIT he he still thinks he's getting paid and you you ate something stolen pay for it could take from either person the GH or the person that that enjoyed it as long as there's no it remains in the ownership of the owner and if somebody even though he didn't do it on purpose he he had no clue went over there and ate it took it he's what do he do with our that's the story that happened with us a guy steals gives it to his kids why are they to pay so what's the obvious answer was I mean the makes a whole thing out of it as if it wasn't so P that our is talking about he gave up since he gave up the kids don't have to pay for it and if he put it down there in front of them they didn't it seems like they didn't need it they don't have to pay there's another con a famous one called SH now over here we're talking about the right we establish that well according the the guy gave up and there was it transfer domains how did it transfer domains says it must have happened through the inheritance the act of inheritance act the the condition of inheritance because somebody dies and gives it over to his kids then it transferred possession transferred domains from the ghav to his children that's a sh together with Y we have a very powerful combination two things sh and Y boom create a new owner that's why even though it's right in front of them they don't have to give it back I just thought it's very interesting R and ra are both son-in-laws by that's the famous G that daughter was very young and she said he said I'm going to marry both of these people and said and I want to be the second one and is right where it says and over here we have between the two son-in-laws not true I argue I argue on that's how it stays at it's not true because he got to be doesn't make it a says we must say that in our is talking about that they consumed it it's not in this world anymore if it's something so now the understands is very differently than we understood it means something that's recognizable I'll give you an example uh one of my wife's relatives she's no longer alive right before she was lifter like she she was losing it completely and uh we we are Partners in a hotel in Chicago and she gifted my wife after shabas she gifted my wife a box and my wife opens the Box my wife started laughing hysterically she took towels from the bathroom that had the name of the hotel on it she put it in a box and gave it to my wife not not realizing what she was doing like she was losing it but it was nicker and when it's nicker like this there's a in to give it back that the the parent shouldn't have a Biz it says holiday in on the tow whatever it is mdy here the MD y tows let's see a guy's in the coil the father's M bigadic he's ding by the kisil and says uh here you know with this Talis you gotta you gotta do something you gotta do tra for the father just for the biz of his huh the merch no there's only one of those only one in the world now I have the tal bag with that not the tals nobody bought me that yet I have to wear it with a big one on the back like like like the sweatshirt but it says the if it's recognizable then the children have to give it back we're talking about that's in front of us that's the case just one is in front of us and we don't recognize it one is a case that it's in front of us and we do recognize it no it's not what you think it's not talking about a Talus that has a name on it we're talking about real estate if the father left over real estate not a car that everybody knows oh that interesting color car is ples and look somebody else stole it and driving it that's not what we're talking about we're talking about he left over a building then since he left over real estate you have to take from the real estate it's as if the G the one that was robbed he has a piece in that real estate there's a there's a there's a lean on the property so pay it [Music] back taught his own son is not talking about real estate your car the tractor that you plow with a donkey of a cow why because everybody knows everybody recognizes that donkey everybody recogniz yeah if you're in a in a place with donkey every donkey has a little Nuance the ear looks like that it's bigger it's small everybody knows that's Po's donkey says re to his son to give cover to the to the Dead very interesting says when I will die says about himself know is gon to come out towards me and greet me in why says says that it didn't happen once this s of somebody coming and greeting you is not because you once answered somebody in this world he did r many times St up for huh stuck Stu stuck how do you spell stuck stuck up I do appreciate B you should correct me I'm not saying it's going to help I'm not saying I'm not going to say the same thing but when I did say Epic Center once that was a joke but my daughter gave it to me and I never said it again huh how many there's a million things but now with I get it in the morning and I get it in the evening next year I'll get it in the yish one there was a there's a famous story with the m he is his house is on fire and you know the story passing yeah yeah but that I'm say I'm starting from the point that he was about to die in a fire and he he accepted upon himself that he if he saved he'll stick up for Rashi he'll write a whole thing about how rashi's right when tus has all these questions and as he was being nter the people came to to to part part with him and he said rashi's here Rashi he said something about rash he came to greet him the same thing with the mag the famous mag in the Mal told him he said that he should know right before he he said the rambam is very happy with you because you stuck up for the rambam you always used to be he said you understood him correctly now you just said t him you know the ramb is going to uh to greet you there's a famous joke that every Israeli knows I'll say it anyways because there's a lot of truth to it unfortunately but it's a joke nevertheless there's a Yesa guy guy said a whole p in the rambam and the rambam came to him in the dream and said what the whole P so he told the rambam he says what do you know you never learned Ina okay sayar yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah you gotta you gotta that correct we had a in the she he scream out he says that's not the way you say the joke and he scream it out that's the way I say it anyway so says I'm sticking off I can answer the mishna like him if a person steals for sons and they consume it if he put it in front of them then we have to explain the Mish there a couple words missing but basically the point is that if he put it in front of them and the is there Our Miss says if it's in front of them they're Potter but I'm explaining because it's talking about that the XA is there and I hold that that what that just by the father dying there's no sh and if there no sh then who owns it the one that was robbed but if was consumed but if the father and I'm going to learn means real estate they have to pay so I just want to show you real quickly to make a little bit of uh not to be confused we're going to go line by line if it's before before the guy never gave up and it's over here you must return it doesn't matter third party fourth he never gave up and it's but if it was consumed before y according to you have to return it after y after and it's in front of us you have to return it because it's no it's just alone if he consumed it then it's green then you don't have to give it back and finally if you have two a combination a powerful combination of both giving up and I didn't have room to put the in there sorry and I didn't have Yoshi to squeeze it together in other words even if it's right in front of us you hear what's going on here hold on before you go we're not done yet this this item is in front the the guy's car is right here but he gave up and was a the question is is dying if the actual death The Inheritance created but regardless if there was a then it becomes the next little piece over here we're just getting to the end of the if it doesn't exist then you don't have to give it back says that in the case of the restaurant there's no you could go after the guy the unassuming the guy that didn't know right in the restaurant you go after both of them answer is but when there is the restaurant owner doesn't go after him if it's right in front of you have to give it back says that is and over here it says you have to give it back yes dying is but you need together with a and there's no have a wonderful [Music] day that