Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 91 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning this is from Mrs moans my husband at sadic yesterday donated a kidney to a Jew that he doesn't even know through mat and even though he was in the hospital recuperating from the surgery he didn't miss this is in Hebrew thank you for instilling in him such a love for such a beautiful love should continue to give you strength to be that's his wife obviously writing this was a great one many people send an emails saying the shear change your lives while it sounds nice and dramatic it's also not true take the last sentence with a grain of salt and a heaping tablespoon of sugar you see when somebody finds an AV to connect to hem and grown hem it's not called to change their lives rather it's called a discovery of their lives theid of Jew is not to change our lives more deeply our Avid is to discover in Earth and reveal the true aspect of greatness Godless Purity Holiness already exists within us what the shear provides for so many myself included is an opportunity to connect to who we really are already at our core the she has allowed us to ship away at the other stuff and reveal what's really on the inside there's a well-known tale about the artist Michelangelo he's asked about the difficulties that he must have had countered during his sculpturing the Masterpiece called David he responded it's actually all have to do is chip away at the parts that are not David we have goodness and Holiness within we just have to Chisel away the superflow materialism this is what the chuva this is what chuva is all about it's not about changing who we are again we're not meant to change our lives sh means return we returning to the K in the inner State through the good is the Hol then why she is not lifechanging it's much deeper than that then why Shear is the life discovering life revealing thank you urri Rabbi and one more from Ellie I've been a part of this year since the first I guess that's not long enough to start speaking a bit stefans here's the story I was in Prague last week as part of a short Heritage trip went to visit theudas Cav who I'm a 10th Generation descendant of Mother's mother mother mother mother father father father father so the visit had I think he's joking I don't know so the visit had some extra special meeing I've been saying to him in order in order over the of over the prior couple of days at and was in the 60 70 range when I got to this C lo and behold I'm reading to and boom I get up to the chapter 76 I'm not a big guys I did not know that the POS was coming what a big surprise I read it aloud and then turned to my wife and actually said can you believe it ah what a kiss from hem this is what he said to his wife can you believe it ah what a kiss I guess it could be worse things to emulate m am I right what's the ultimate point of this email I'm not quite sure but perhaps it has to do with the perspective of everyday events that occur which is the bonus material we get with you PS I wrote this email and saved it as a draft was debating whether to send it but then while catching on today's d p at minute 50 have to send there's another kiss from PS I was told one of the big names back then Vis had some sort of connection with him but need to corroborate before spreading things today is a beautiful and we're going to have to put it on one and a half speed so don't do that yourself the of the month in business for the day slatest 1 yard of my grandmother of the dayis El for the save and Speedy return of all the hostages [Music] for the and speed return of our matching reell for the that come from supporting for the month for the art for for the staff to continue to make Joy so many here goes we're holding three lines from the bottom we said right didn't they say hello to you and we sing do we and your son okay we got to be here every day who I guess he wasn't right oh so I have a question for but this one do me a favor don't scream out the answer I want to see show me your hands but em don't be shy if you know the answer D listen to this one I'm G ask you a series of four questions and it's n for middle of this year does anybody here know who re's wife's name is just raise your hand if you know rea's wife's name rea's wife's name no you know the answer answer yes so raise your hand you have to raise your hand okay does anybody here know oh that's a good question does anybody here know a A's mother's name besides anybody yes you know I I I wanted to ask that for you actually I'm serious because I know that you know this stuff you know the name his mother as you know what's her name something okay when you when it comes to you'll let me know um be careful when you raise your hand CU I might ask you does anybody know h on her Russia's mother's name no no nobody not but you learned it yesterday the truth is I forgot what these two names but shim's wife I remember really sh's wife or mother mother know okay hold on hold anybody knows shim's mother besides these two anybody nobody see that's why I surround myself with these kind of guys over here what's shim's mother's name that's right I I knew this guy knows it and one last one does anybody know mother's name you know it without peeking gr yeah somebody were from wife name new let's go let's he very good bass I have no idea neither do I even though I learned it five times a do no that's something else I don't know okay fine so we're gonna those are the names we're going to see today in today's tomor if anybody ever ask you it's on we had the of interviewing people in the two hours before the Hebrew she so didn't like come together well but one of them I bumped into this side what's your name what Fe on his motorcycle with the he guy with the whole and he knew I was giving out money he can imagine the amount of people are okay says three lines from and we're going to have to pick up a little bit of the pace here because it takes based on my experience from yesterday's Shear this is a long she you're not all to take out produce out of are you allowed to take a out of probably yes but they they do discuss it but let's say things that people live with wine oils fine flour all to take out of say the opposite it's great to get rid of wine as the says the famous people talk a lot of crazy stuff they give out over their personal information and stuff it's better export the wine to somewhere else they had it on the uh on purm I think it was like last purm the guy got on the radio and said got to have to be very very careful there's crazy it's very very dangerous out there on the roads there's crazy amount of drunks crazy amount of drunks and unfortunately they all gave their wives to drive so you got to be really care of yeah it's one of the it took three it took just like you're take Syria so what's was a conquered it but it wasn't uh it wasn't agreed upon with everyone so considered that he conquered it individually so doesn't have the same doesn't have it's not considered conquering sorry rebi says it's okay when you go from a very the Border City of Syria whatever is on the border Isel that's already that's okay to export to there into 90 there's more than a lot of you're not allow to be the middleman the what is it called in English the the broker the the wholesaler you're not only be a wholesaler when it comes to things that have like flour other stuff says the however if you produce something like bread then you're allowed to be the middle man you're allow to have a middle man you're going again wines which are very it was a big staple food oils and fine flour and this makes a lot of us balab feel good that even benar would deal would sell try to make a parosa in fact there's a guy a SAT guy that put together a list of 241 they used to work couldn't get a hold of it but the famous Sandler a Sandler there's there's sold beer sold was a thing on the grocery store on the grocery store course okay he used to close the store after they made enough money for the day I thought that was on the farm store it was on the grocery store so wasn't so the grocery store wasn't to to service the community it's just for himself because like let's say I need a a thing of milk it's closed cuz he made enough other people AR making money CU everybody wants to buy from him ah it's like the the Stifler wouldn't sell his farm unless you really wanted to learn from it the whole thing okay very nice says the he would make he would buy from somebody and be the middleman be the broker be the wholesaler from why it's better to get rid of all the drunks a lot of oil so it wasn't a big deal if he dealt with it you want you get from another place you shouldn't do twice whatever it is we're going to see in a second when it comes to eggs why don't try to make 100% profit on it now first of all we all remember three when was it's three years ago four years I don't even remember anymore Corona PES Corona when there's a sign up here that a guy was selling his apartment for two trays of eggs you remember that eggs were very expensive so is it a problem not a problem so the rashbam says eggs are not a staple you could live without egg so you won't have that cake or whatever it is besides it's a lot of takes a long there's a lot of work involved in dealing with eggs so therefore they allowed you to go above the the yesterday we said you can't make more than a eggs are different so but but don't do it 100% 90% is okay the tiger don't be the the the broker to the broker two Brokers is aesome I don't I just remember reading that in Russia like one of the worst things you could do during especially you know when it was Heavy communism to go and buy something and sell to somebody else was what like the biggest no no like ruined their whole the whole Market everything was about you know everybody is the same so you're buying and selling so they said like if you were caught with anything so the best thing to do is tell the cop you stole it everybody deals but to sell it for that that's already that's a big no [Music] no me to use so it doesn't literally mean to blow the Scher it means that we could D usually you're not allow to D on chabas or something but when your livelihood depends on this your the whole city makes a certain thing we all grow corn and corn has very low value in the world so then you're allowed to D in on shab is for that Hashem help us we're going to starve here an example would be Lin in bubble I guess that was the big thing they export and wine and oil when 10 became worth six in other words when it drop 40% then you're to D chab but if only drop 35% you're not allowed to D anav for this is a I'm gonna ask because I I said something about my son my son and his he he already put it on the the family group my wife already took me to the side give me malus I'm asking you not to talk to my wife about this gamor over here maybe you should she's thinking about this usually you could get four call it pounds okay four pounds of of flour for $1 if it went down if the price is so high that you could only get two pounds for a dollar that means it doubled in price produce doubled in price went from four the amount that you're getting is half the amount for the same for the same amount of money then you're allowed to leave so you're not allowed to leave can never let anybody leave you know even this that you have to have a really good excuse to leave why because has all the Mitzvah even if you walk you walk from your house the B Mar here you get a Mitzvah just walking if you walk and you talk and learning there's a guy yesterday I was standing outside here and there's like a Sim two nights ago and a guy walked by I never saw him before my life and he's talking to himself so I said hello to him he showed me he's in the middle of learning he's talking and learning so he didn't want to say goodbye hello back the people could learn they could walk while they learn so you get the doll plus learning although I forgot where said he said something that upset me because I learn I try to learn on the treadmill and I think he said that you don't get the ofas cuz you're walking in one spot [Laughter] think if you could find produce in the store I don't care how much it cost it's it went up four times the amount it's not permitted to leave obviously there's there's likeus for sure not skiing for sure yes this this different ask your local g p PES for sure not not none of these none of these oh why do I do it you know everybody has one A to for that and insulting people bar him Safari whoever asked that question is M we don't ask dumb questions here in the sh of course Creations no absolutely not sh people go they fly in for sh we get this stuff from so we made a very nice chart here this will explain everything somebody called we're going to need it soon everybody knows he's the one that jumped into the water first okay he was the N of Yehuda he had four children as the is going to say this is justar AB is not his name he's the father ofi now if you look Salon had a son his name was B and ABA had a daughter named Nami okay they were cousins that's for the story soon married his niece Nami and they had so was what happened to them they as we know from R sleeps usually during uh it's a hard one they went to why because it was famine in and they got punished why did they get punished they weren't St people they took care of the generation why they get punish crazy terrible stuff they died because they left everybody they're going crazy this is what happened to her explains the rashash unbelievable they were very wealthy they ran away to save themselves from the famine and she comes back and every says could you believe it we stayed here in AR and look what happened to us we survived the famine look at her she came back without her children without her husband look at her she has no money nothing zero look what happened there that's what's going on here that same day that she walked in so now let's take a look at the chart baz was married baz ended up married in r on the bottom and together they had a son called and had and so yeah and then they had a grandson and a great-grandson okay so now Ross married Boaz but she walked in the day Bas lost his wife Bo would have married Rose had he been married to his wife so did something here very interesting that as soon as B lost his wife he already there's already a replacement before a person dies there's already a replacement so says the inside here I have it over here you could see if you don't want to look inside says unbelievable and this is something for us to take that thear is teaching us A Life Lesson here it's not just the story says the what's the what's the lesson here knows what he's doing and when there's a Calamity there's a terrible thing in somebody's family he should understand knows what he's doing a person shall have to trust he knows what he's doing the very famous one that we know is sined how did they sin by they they went to the meal of what happened at the that's when he called Vash she died and Esther took over and saved all happened simultaneously it's all the the was there before the Mak even interesting St two small Pro that okay we're running out of time already but if we go back to this chart Nami is baz's cousin right she's the daughter of of ABA her uncle is salmon who had Bas so when she came back her plan was to go speak to bz's wife her cousin's wife she's not going to go talk to her cousin talk to the wife said listen I need some money I'm not doing well what happened was B's wife died so she say what am I going to do now I'm stuck I going to get money but what happened was again this not only did she not have to talk to Bo's wife but her daughter-in-law Rose marries BAS boas dies the next day her daughter inherits everything so now she's set she's set what you think is oh how am I gonna do this she died now what now now it's even better what happened to ARA and what happened to her these are the same people it's one and the same if is the same as Michel what is he trying to tell us here history no is a terrible thing over here had made 12 120 parties for his 60 children had 30 sons and 30 daughters he sent them out 30 sent out 30 brought in and he judg for seven years he made two parties one for the a for the ring ceremony made a whole party and one for the like for the a wedding depending one in the's house one in the's house depending if it was his son his daughter says terrible thing in all 120 parties he did not invite didn't have children how is this mule that doesn't have children how is he going to pay me back yeah we all know that guy in SCH that comes to everybody's kidish now Kish when he comes to Kish say where's the where's the good stuff where's the good stuff he wants that expensive liquor then when he has to make a kidish he does it you know in a different country like oh yeah and then he has a tin him fly into his kiddish you know he makes this whole thing we all know these gu every sh has that guy and he didn't have children so he's not going to invite he's going to sit by his party by his 120 and and he's not going to pay him back now talking about boas over here we're talking about aad how did he insult somebody like that was very insulted to the point punished all 60 of his children died when he's still alive so they want to explain that Boaz obviously didn't want to hurt his feelings it came out that he was hurt he he felt that would be very uncomfortable I remember hearing a woman that didn't have children for now she has a bunch of children but she she said I remember saying it and I didn't understand her but you have to be in that position she say I was standing somewhere and somebody was so insensitive to me she was talking with a friend about where to buy a stroller doesn't she know I don't have children how could she talk like so you're going to go invite somebody to your children's and he doesn't have any children you have 60 children they're all walking down the aisle all 60 of them you don't have a single child no I don't want to put him in that position that's what he thought was very insulted and like always says mid is fire so even if you mean well but at the end of the day that person gets insulted unfortunately punishes for that and we learned unfortunately saw the death of every single one of his children that's what people say even if in your lifetime you had children what good are they so he doubled down so to speak and he had one son he had had and who had so from that one son had more than all the 60 this uh the name of G he's like uh I think he's from uh England he learned you know him he learned by I forgot Lakewood I don't know where he learned anyways he said a interesting uh thing over I thought it was I think he said it maybe he said that um it says in the I'm gonna find you so the what's so he explained that according to this gar that all of baz's children died so Rus didn't want to marry Bas she was concerned she's going to marry Bas she's going to have a child it's going to die he's going to die SOI told her I am gonna invite I'm gonna I'm invite him to the wedding you're not gonna have a problem okay Sim here this is the chart all four of these people are the sons of even if your father's great oh no we'll see in a second yeah the talks about it gear not a gear was seems like she was okay of leaving happens to be that we have a lot of people Gil what's your name gild no what's your full name Ben Penny Penny Penny Penny Gill one guy who else made a Leah just recently the two of you what's your names again huh Felman and AK who else somebody else just oh what's your name tell us in the last month no month and a half unbelievable who else there's a bunch we did a bunch of sh boms they're not here but no it makes you feel good if you leave is you guys are in trouble you're already there it's different but the guys that are here and go back it's a big problem doesn't really oh so I just want to show you this little quick video hopefully it's quick it's not so bad here we [Music] go this guy had a TI on me he said he saw me in [Music] Europe he say I saw in Europe I deserve another 50 okay English or Hebrew what are we doing on okay questions and if you know any answers get money 50 she an answer you ready we're g to start easy okay let's go first of all your name is right I know your name because you do the da every day between customers HEB English which one do you do I do English English okay you ready just CU you know the answer ru's mother what was her name [Music] for playing English or Hebrew you want to play a game names of people in the Torah 50 she each you got to come today's D tonight tomorrow's and you'll know them oh one of the onlyy I know that's this guy is good okay okay [Music] we're getting we're getting Ison [Music] to get out of cop stop hold on we have to get to him hold on you gave me back the money so I shouldn't show it they're not going to be mascul there's no way in the world oh this is good way I'm try I I know this guy only hold on I got I gotta show him he's here he's here in the sh he doesn't want to show hold on getting [Music] there by the way it's 14 minutes long cut once in a while you ready this might go on the shear oh here we go I'm asking questions for 50 she and answer do you know a vu's mother's name it's a hard one it's that's right very good but what's what's the it's like this that's Bas what's the first part that's a good question it's is a very good part of it that's half to answer very good with the cook with the with the okay right yeah yeah yeah something like that all right ra Bo let's go now that we saw that my point is now you know the answers remember the answers and you to show off and people ask you in the street what the what these names are you'll know that's the whole point of this thing that's the whole point now here remember this for the rest of your life pill I'm gonna you in a second not this one Carn Carn means a she he made the hon mother of hon same name is Raven's mother's Tom here we have even a picture of what she might have looked like and's mother is she's a sheep he made actually I'm happy you love it the mother of doesn't say anywhere so the the the as gonna say the last no no if you know all these names what about her and then you'll tell them you might be the only person that from all the people that I asked that knew the name it say what's your name again tell us your name you know me I I know you first of all you lost 100 pound since last time I saw 30 PBS so you're a different person that's true and what's your name tell your name greenall my Greenwall from Chicago very good St Louis from St Louis close e yeah yeah it's the same you know what sh's mother [Music] is if you want to know oh this one I didn't ask anybody's sister's name was if asking questions about about the the personalities oh who's this you know the answer hello you ready when did they have his sister before after me because they have yeah it's good child together maybe she's a twin 10 years was in prison was maybe seven in and three Inu because nimro put him in there ter snitched on his own son and said that he broke the gkas what answer said I didn't break them they're they're so powerful they actually fought each other they ran away so the big question is how come when L ask yov ainu how come what what happened to the gas how come yov aino didn't answer what his what his grandfather said they were they ran away the answer is that the something that you could answer to your father not necessarily can you answer to your I'm going I'm on a I'm on on a r it might be true it's not a joke it's true where the happened when he was in the in the furnace that's or says the anybody ever go past there we must make a okay if somebody passes by a place where his followers in a car accident and survived I don't know the exactly it seems like you have to say proba we know what a is unfortunately you go to you do this long line of when the comes out of the cemetery so they all stood in a line and they said wow these are these L that you see on the signs and the lost the our leader and the and the cruise ship that's a that's a that's a Lo that you hear in yeah so the captain sponsored by yob Citron who took the videos yesterday didn't edit I didn't Ed that's not his editing you should know that was not his editing that was Yoshi's editing I know but the uh film taking for coming at such short notice and not charging him the why he does itry is in in the M now while I would love to see could you patch him in Joe Berry said there's a bunch of people in mores here he is wow Joe we're very proud of you you're in the Mad what's going on the sirens going off in mores about five minutes ago or seven minutes ago this point is it true that the missiles fell in mesed yesterday and yes they did and we have five houses that are very badly damaged um five six and about 15 hous partially damaged wow and five cars that are totally destroyed completely there just a shell left but absolutely no one was injured at all that's a nice you know property we could replace so the people are saved you know why you're saving them by learning Tyra how many other people inesa do the da with us after M passed away unfortunately it's only me what about the other guys that I saw then that night there they fell off and there was one there was one other fellow uh but he's doing it now locally we have five different D in here oh competition trying to convince go the isra I have not yet convinced them all right anyways we got to learn this D it's a long one stay safe thanks for for being with us is a beautiful thing wow see people in don't understand what it means to go shelter down close the mad and you actually had damage close by unbelievable all right second sponsor those six hostages that were brutally murdered In Cold Blood says is to you know to to feel big makes people gives them their different jobs that they feel Hy bigger than the next guy this is the smallest in the world he's in charge of telling his two Neighbors which day they should use the water it's like in nowadays it's like the guy that's in charge of you know like he's in charge of the building not you not your you're your you are you used to be no it's it's a hard job actually and how did they pay you back we're not going to talk about GNA be the head of we said that was and why was he punished because he left that's not the reason even if they found brand terrible food they wouldn't leave they didn't have what to eat so why would they punish they should have daved and when you don't DAV for your friend you hear what's going on there you don't D for somebody you have the ability to D and would answer them because and you don't do that you get punished they should have gathered the people and when everybody has a lot of money but the fruit is expensive but if people don't have money if there's no money and the price of the wheat is regular you're not allowed to leave then you allowed to leave because there's no money I remember and there's a few things here that he says I remember remember that the weed was for you remember those pictures in in Africa of those little children with their swollen stomachs so I remember he says I remember kid people had swollen stomachs they didn't have what to eat inia they didn't have is is is one% of a sell 196 of a sell they didn't even have a for a sell you could buy I fora of wheat they didn't have aund of that they didn't have 1% of [Music] that the workers they wouldn't rent themselves out to go to east of the city why they would die from smelling the delicious smell of the bread just from the they didn't have food so they just smelled it they would die and they needed money but they wouldn't work for people that lived east of the city I remember when a child would crack open a car Carib here we have a Carib here now you know today's Caribs are slightly different I don't know if y could do it if he could do it the Honey coming out of the carab would ooze down on the two hands of the child you go like this look what happens today when you do it it's hard like uh but yoseph has no I don't know if he could do it but anyways it's hard one Ariel today Ariel okay anyways today's Carib what he's saying is that you read this the fruit was so delicious it had today you eat buxer on like in school if if you don't eat it yet the worst punishment no is to eat a piece of the I used to eat in say why I feel bad for in those days it was unbelievable it was like all all honey was I remember oh here hold on he did a little picture for this here's the picture of the kid uh cracking open a bucker and it oozes out honey and this is the even meat was marbleized it has so much fat in it it was a whole line of of fat would would pour out of from the top of the wall the ground they would play a boy girl in the marketplace 16 17 year olds would would play together and they didn't think about yeah the famous nigan help me [Music] out oh the that's a little better Zario all right so but it means that they they they didn't think about at all at that age but he in other words it's changed in his lifetime he remembers it used to be like that but no longer when people say in the I admit I could hear what is saying you'd fall to their hands if you gave your belief in them delay then they rule you two names we know their names are but they also referred to as which one is it so their names at the BR were they had years from the G they married because they thought it's not going to be a g they deserve the death penalty why said why did they deserve the death penalty because we said before they didn't D they should have D for the I have to warn you guys if you don't D for me the you don't for your friend did I skip the name actually at the bris was what's this added name they went out of they made it their body they went to this is a very interesting P that that says all the people that are connected to SH yehud now this questions on this and we have to explain the to mean people are connected either through their mother or through marriage but they all have a connection to yud these are this the so goes through each one swore to it's actually the second in this week's so rash brings on the spot this story that the famous story The cananim they they saw what K was doing de they manag destroying their their uh enemies by the way yesterday when we heard during the shear we heard the planes going I went back home and they said they just attacked it was then was like um targets and by the end of there was 1300 we M heard him on the way gives us the same kind of uh of win and uh it should be over and the whatever his name I forgot his name already from mores should be able to come out of his I mean I I personally I have to tell you I had a very bad night sleep I don't know I'm I have to figure out how to get rid of the uh the I have the red alert the entire night it was going off you guys I'm sure you whoever didn't turn it off it was be I was not sleeping what I don't know how to do it and uh and I felt no I felt like I want to if they're getting up and running out to their shelters at least I should know about it I should hear about it wake me up a little bit I should but it was a very bad night's sleep for me I have to turn it off so accepted these who pretended that they're from a different country they came from far away and when he figured it out he said I already swore to them so I'll I'll make you you'll be the Wood Choppers and the the water drawers did somebody just did it just go off for somebody that's the sound so they're not really well they came they became part of but they had a work for they came from we just said they gave up on the they married women from she came and she returned to and she married what does that mean the one that was here before everything existed in other words he orchestrated this whole thing that and his children should leave Isel die R will come back marry and like this we have the of by the way we can never forget and we say this and we forget about yes who was D's father who never sinned in his life he only died also okay not also I'm just saying we we forget the Godless of these people so the takes another POS it goes through each word was a was like um what do they call them these those Arabs that the bin he told his sons don't build a house don't do anything that's permanent because you might have to get up in a minute and run and that's what happened when so they listened to him they kept their father's look you keep your father's you don't keep my we call him a sapling as as time went on he got stronger and stronger like a tree as it gets bigger and bigger sanedrin and the fence is saned we know that made a lot ofus and Tak in order for to to close up the holes of made a fence she saw great great grand child's Kingdom he put a cheer for the mother the king now who's the mother of it's not her it's referring to the mother of all mothers without whatever that means do that mean without worms that the the the weed is not gonna have worms it's not gonna seems worms when is over they'll say oh give us the new the new crap why because the old crab color what does color mean it disappeared how does a crab disappear worms so you see that it's worms that they waited all the way until it's completely ripe now if you starving you don't wait until it's rip you just grab whatever you can grab before it ripens you see that there's no problem with worms okay so here he uses the of means that it's spoiled not that it was eaten by worms anything that's older is better it's aged even when it comes to wheat aged wheat is better than newat like wheat and wine that this applies to everything so the say unbelievable thing [Music] it's has something beautiful an apple which it's not the way to to to age an apple they'll be able to last for very long so much in storage and all the new stuff what are we gonna do with the new stuff if we didn't get rid of the old stuff everything that's ages great besides for dates and hering for