Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 54 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning R it's very good very good I'm not gonna I'm not going to lie it wasn't as good as the link very good all right listen uh Shalom Alim the valley we're here live in Los Angeles in the valley thank you for coming out M shabas we have a very special guest here we have ai kamansi and Kam all the way from we have with usin where is he Paris is's by the door over there he himself we don't know anymore we stopped counting at 1500 he brought 1500 people to the sh so it's tremendous and I want to talk about that a little bit the reason why I'm here the big reason other than visiting my son but the real reason don't tell him he's not here tonight and he won't know if you don't tell him I'm here to be mic the mdy mishak guys that are doing the shear first of all who here does that fomi bunch of liars for real that many people who who here does it with mdy okay not bad not really not bad how about you you do the da how come you didn't raise your hand I did oh okay good SLO you raise your hand why not let's do this again who here does mdy Da come on raise your hand Mor you don't do not bad okay beautiful so I think we can do better I I think more people could learn da more people could learn the da with us and more of us could go out and encourage other people to do the da now you could ask schomo scho LA and he's sitting all the way in that corner over there we walked home from SCH it took us an hour to get home I I knocked on random people's doors he so embarrassed EMS EMS true story I knocked on just R three people's doors they said this guy okay one guy had a brand new Ferrari a brand and he had four cars a brand new uh Bentley Ferrari and uh Mercedes Rolls-Royce Rolls-Royce he's he's on your block so you live on schomo loar's block you didn't know that you live on the same block as scho he lives three houses down from that guy any I knocked in his house ask him knocked in his house Simon I'm assuming you don't do the da you got to do the da you know the whole gave the whole Spiel and and a few other people knocked on the door because I wanted to tell schlomo you don't have to be embarrassed nobody nobody ever let me down nobody ever was upset at me they they actually they appreciate it and um right you I knocked on that your guys you ate lunch there and uh it just so happened to be that I didn't know that you were going to eat lunch there and I didn't see you there but I knocked on the guy's door shim I spoke I spoke to them on Friday but I wanted to follow through make sure that they they're serious is he going to do the da the son the son-in-law that's what I'm talking he said he did CH already once before so here's the thing we have uh a link here I'm just going to put it on the screen here if you're part of the da do me a favor put scan this and this will take you straight into the LA WhatsApp group could do with this if you're not on the group yet there was literally over 40 people that were learning with us and they didn't even know a group existed so we got about 40 new guys on the LA group we're we're we're close to 200 people on the group but it's not good enough to just be on a group we want the the guys that are doing it to feel that they're part part of it we we have to have some get togethers in the valley some once in a while could ask him once a month they do a whole thing Pizza this in a restaurant they watch the she live it's lot it's a lot more effective when there's there's something more than just a screen you're part of M you're part of something special and it really helps so there's a number of things number one one if you're part of mdy then jump on the group and try to be part of it we're actually looking for somebody to take La the valley to be you know to be that person we need a leader we need a rep people are like quiet here they're very proper they're very Elish we need somebody to go out there and be new yorkish and you know get the together somebody somebody has to rise up to the occasion CU any any City that we we're in that has one guy one I'll call him a mish but I don't really mean a mish I mean like like a parv you know that this guy par Lin he sat in front of supermarkets on Thursday the entire Thursday and the entire Friday to recruit more people when I spoke to him on Thursday night he recruited over 10 people that's 10 Nas that are going to be learning Tyra it's going to change their lives change their family lives that's how he got the 1500 but he's an executive in Goldman sex he's a vice president Goldman sax he's successful businessman he's not St a guy oh he has nothing better to do he has a lot to do but he makes it his mission to get another person for learn TI wherever he goes hear this that if you're not doing that and you're thinking about it so tonight is a great night we're giving out fre marus here it's the next volume that's starting in about uh six seven days days get a free gamar if you want to to join but before I start the year I want to call upon at least one person to tell over his story how the D has changed his life what impact it had and I want to call up Joel is zri is he here where's Joel has a beautiful Story come here Joel he's an LA guy and he has a important message here is this pull it off yeah why not go like this beautiful go everybody I don't know if you need this it might the ruin no okay let's talk this okay nice to be here with everyone in the valley it's a beautiful kahila and um so it's not something that I use usually do um but R Ellie asked me to talk I spoke on Thursday briefly and he asked me to talk about my life story a little bit and in a little more detail so um out of hakar to the rabbi I'm so grateful um for what he's done for me in my life um that I'm happy to um speak for a few minutes I didn't bring up paper today so you know from the heart from the hearts that's what I said um so I my name is is Joel eori and um I was my wife and I went to Colorado about two and a half years ago for our 12th anniversary um we went for a few reasons besides the anniversary just my we have five kids and my wife was L toova was such a great mother she called our kids mother lovers because they were always so attached to her and one day a week on Sundays she would send me out with the kids and for like 3 4 hours at a time actually looking back on it now was meant to be because I learned how to really handle the kids myself on those days had to prepare diaper bags food snacks those things so it was good preparation now it's just every day of the week um so we went to Colorado um had a a great time we went out to some restaurants he went skiing it was time of our life you know any time I had with Lio 101 was just it was the best gift I I loved her company and um I valued every minute we had together and and the end of the ski trip of that day we were at the ski resort and at DAV Min it was getting late and we were driving back from the mountain in western Colorado and the last memory I have is was getting dark and we're turning around a bend and I I later learned later that there we were in a massive collision with a huge truck that was on the highway and there was a blizzard and I have no recollection of the Collision to this day I pretty much woke up in the hospital and under um they administered Fen andol to me um they thought my initially had a brain bleed they didn't know if I would make it and they told me that leor didn't make it so the first and then I came back to LA the next day and buried her it was very overwhelming and I didn't know what was going on for the first month I was um physically a mess I was all black and blue it's a miracle that I'm not all broken bones right now and it took me just some time just to digest what happened there was a moment after two or three months down the road my youngest um daughter at the time was seven or eight months old and I was out for a walk that day and I I didn't feel like I wanted to live anymore um not to that extent I didn't feel a reason to live CU I love Leora so much she wasn't just my wife she was my whole life everything revolved around her um on a daily basis going to the store I miss bringing her gifts and flowers and spending time with her and um but I came home and I saw my youngest daughter by the door greeting me with a smile and I know that I have to go vit her continue living um for the children um that's what she would want the kids to erace in the best way possible so um so go back take a step back 12 years you know and or just in my life I was you know we go through everything happens for a reason I was raised in Atlanta Georgia special out of town community and I wasn't surrounded by my personal life with people and happy marriages unfortunately it was a lot of the opposite and I grew up wanting to have the exact opposite of what I experienced I wanted to you know be the best husband ever that's was my goal in life and I learned it's not something that you're inherently born with it's um it's a commitment just like with the do yomi it's a commitment right San always says it's not about the do it's the yomi it's the each day that you you are committed to doing a do it's a commitment and even if you miss a day or make a mistake in life you have to get back on the train you know don't give up you stay committed so with regard to um marriage thank God it was it was you know easier for me than my most people CU I was married to Leora and she was an amazing person who went through her own journey in life to become the person that she was she was always working on herself and so there's a there's a few principles that I want to share with you guys that I learned that really helped me out um two are from Rabbi Shalom arush um he has Garden of peace and I swear by it and two from Rion shaper because you know men and women we're very different people you know we men every way there's was in a Emoji or picture going around a few years ago on WhatsApp and there was a there was a YouTube clip actually and there was a woman with like a nail on her head I don't if you guys saw this and she's telling her husband all about her pains in her head and he's like I can I can help you right now I can pull the nail out and she goes you're not listening you know just that's how women and men are we want to fix an issue women want you know it's different type of animal but um so Rabbi arush says in a marriage there's two principles there's one you never criticize she says honey you're wearing a purple shirt you're wearing a purple shirt you know that's where it is even if the shirt's white but you know she she's you know you're right or you're in a relationship you that applies to anything in life you're right or you're in a relationship you know all the more so with the marriage and number two make her number one you know in life if you make your spouse number one you know eventually she'll want to do it for the sake of making her happy but she'll eventually want to make you happy too but if you make her number one I think there was an example you watch the Super Bowl two minutes ago in the game she say honey go to the goer store I need some more food or snacks most men would say you know 2 minutes wait two minutes you know but if you go right away She'll always remember that and she'll feel number one I don't know if that applies to the Dolph you're looking the do she says you maybe it's different than everything else except for the do you know that's terrible advice by the way don't listen you're 2 minutes to the Super Bowl you don't go to the store what are you talking about they'll you're going to get tested in life they're going to test you at the wor at the hardest moments it's going to happen to every single man trust me I I know that for sure I'm experience um and the other two pointers right Ben shaper says he says once a week to go on a date with your wife once a week just go on a date it can be lunch dinner and um every two months to go out with your wife to a hotel just to go for one night and most people say Rabbi I don't all the time it's too expensive he says well you know lawyers are a lot more expensive right God forbid so uh these are things it's about commitments if you are committed just like with the do and you committed to having a happy marriage you know it's it's the best way to live your life and I haven't had the o with me the last few years but I I have been learning my speciic FY since um I learned last year for Le's your sitea and it's changed my life at the end of each day I know that I I learned it off and it's it's an accomplishment each day knowing that that part of my day it's it's a highlight of my day it truly is and you know the Bea the beauty of the AK of you know you can see here worldwide we have RAB always says this we have and this is something that he encourages and it's I don't know if any organization the whole whole world that has such a beautiful variety of Jewish people who are so close to each other and it it's in this time in my life being part of another family is something that's so special to me and I it's Priceless and I'm forever grateful to um everyone here and obviously to every sansy for what you do and we should only see um revealed good and all of our lives incredbly [Applause] beautiful thank you all right very inspiring words um when he first told me the story I think it was on Wednesday I started crying and I said you know you got to tell the you got to tell the Tiber you have to tell the people I know that you know it's difficult but maybe it'll Inspire somebody and um by the way this is not part of the shear this is like pre Shear so we're going to get this she it's a shorter do today and uh you know I do want to say thank you to the r the rabbi Rabbi Bon for allowing us to be here for hosting um schomo lazarian Harry Shalom who else Harry for setting everything up who else Rabbi schlomo you guys had pizza yet do we have pizza did it come come what outside we have to bring the pizza in no we're oh I'm not going to say the rabby gold just walked in but it's a big honor big Fan's looking if you go outside I'm not going to have a Shear left so you got to stay the they're all like so the the daff changes people's lives not all daff this do in particular it's a life Cher it it brings consistency to your life consistency in yish consistency in a lot of different areas in life and that's what Joel was saying brought him consistency brought him brought him a little bit of a and um before we go on and before we start the actual Shear I want to call one more person up five minutes hello how long is your thing what do five minutes five six minutes I'll tell you if it's really really good we'll give it a little Addison right shom come up one more let me put this on you as well so we get it over here clipped up all right this is by the way this is something new we really don't do this but these guys on Wednesday really inspired me and I said you know share share your story with with this t-o I think they'll appreciate it so here we go here yo go ahead what's going on guys my name is Yakov Addison and uh I just want to take a a show of hands who here has a little bit of trauma a little bit of Trauma from grade school from learning gor just show of hands a little bit of trauma a little bit okay so use this space as like a little bit of a group therapy cuz you know it's trauma I also had a lot of trauma going you know in school and I was that kid that was always you know you know they knocked on the door and they open they said I pull me out midle in middle of middle of class and they do Korea with me and they go over with me I had a tough time learning I had a tough time understanding I had a tough time with Korea that was a struggle that I had all the way until Yeshiva fast forward I uh I recently had a kabura and it wasn't every night like robell said every night no matter what it was two times three times a night we'd be in a kabura and we would learn and then um and then I got a job um I finished school and I became a mechanical engineer and I got a job um up in Port wiimi if you guys are familiar that's Oxnard and the on the at the port and in the Navy Port over there and um it was a it was a big schlep 111 miles round trip and uh I listen to every podcast I listen to every Shar but there was something that was missing and that was and as a result because of the schlep I no longer could learn at night I came home as a smut I came home as AATA I absolutely had no energy left in the tank to learn so I figured I'll listen to The Shear on the way there happened to be SOA da base first Shear popped it in it perfect timing started learning as a result I was that was my schedule and that was what I was doing and shortly after after almost a year at the at this Navy Port I got let go it was out of the blue I had no idea it was coming and I was shocked I had no idea that I was I was I was being I was being a let go when I came home I I didn't know what to do and when things are all over the place there's something that's consistent in your life that's something you gravitate towards immediately and that was a do the do was still there so I had something to look forward to my wife she's a night nurse so that option to go learn at night was not available anymore I had to be at home cuz I have to stay with the baby so as a result my whole my whole day and my whole life shifted but the do was still there it was still consistent at nights now I learned the do whether I'm you the the house still needs to be clean so I'll do the dishes clean up the toys sweep and have a Elli right there in the do we all have lives we all have things that move around but we all have the ability to point and to and to plug in the Dove and I'm not going to say the do changed my life cuz some people don't like change people like the way that they living the do improved my life and I think that people that need something of an improvement in their lives they could get they could benefit from the dff we all have our trauma we all have our troubles but with the da you can enhance your life beautiful you have more that's it thank you so much let me grab this awesome all right beautiful I think it was well worth listening and hearing these things I want to do it in the future as well I think it's great uh we have one more speaker uh I'm going to call up rabol gold no I'm just kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding all right um how about we seeing you know it became like just tradition we have to sing AO I think why not for the the hostages the the situation Ai and I we live in the same block and we we don't want to tell D he he says he's fine I have a little trauma you know living there it's not it's not easy for the guys in our just even now think about now they don't know is there going to be attacked not going to be attacked what's going to be like people live in fear my my wife was sleeping when that the the first Iranian missiles came in and the sirens went off at 2: in the morning and she has she has trauma from it we I played something in my on my phone with the with the she has a little trauma so I think um good like from the heart would go a long way and uh we go go right into the daff we'll make it nice and quick it's shorter and uh it's a beautiful daff and uh here we go help me and I ask everybody together even the guys that sing off tune we need you guys tonight ah [Music] is so [Music] h [Applause] [Music] is my GL [Music] and now that was practice now we have to do it for real you guys ready good morning oh that's better that's I just want to read one email let's see yeah by Josh Leighton where is he who's Josh oh he's in New York he's not even here reell this is Josh L my father and brother Oh I thought he's going to be here my father and brother will be here there tonight in the valley and I'd love to have a message read ABA thank you so much for introducing me to the shear even though when I met rebelli four months ago I said it didn't change my life it only enhanced it that's definitely not true it has changed my life so many ways and I'm very appreciative thousand is different place because of you because you do the she your dedication to that and as a result MRA is beautiful and everyone's noticed that the house has more K in it ask about the new bookshelf what's that more I was to be by your first cm two months ago and I'm so happy the time worked out give up the hard work and cheer and you and ab should be to many more can throw in there that I'm very proud of both my father and my brother very proud of you PS for someone who claims to have such a bad memory it's pretty impressive you remembered me all right um one interesting thing before we start we could actually maybe I'll throw it in the middle sh I'll throw it in the middle why not um so I'll just do the the uh sponsors real quickly um you guys get to see my sponsors okay no not a problem the col of the month sponsored by Rosenfeld for in business speed return of all the hostages please that's the m in Ireland incarcerated Deni baale in Ireland Rosenfeld GR Reidman rebelli Gali fener and Michael Safi complete official today here in the house rebell welcome to the valley thank you for making T enjoyable and accessible to so many so I have to say he came to and he told me after he says listen I do custom suits I want to give you a custom suit so he comes to my house he measured me and he sends me this beautiful black custom suit that I wore in Chicago and inside was all MD Y and it says to do that the whole thing and then after I don't know a few months or so another custom suit with another mdy theme thing yesterday huh that's from Harry shom it is Harry get over I never said I hope your wife doesn't know about this one I know get in the thing Harry this is the bobblehead guy made a bobblehead he's the one true story I was sitting on at a cafe somewhere in Los Angeles by men men mench men and all of a sudden this pickup truck drives by and stops and beeps like okay and the guy goes and he goes like this I didn't realize it's him he showing me that his license plate said what it say eight eight men Da Back in the day we had eight Min da that was his license play and now he tells me and he took it off on the spot he he took he had a screwdriver he gave it to me and he got a bunch of tickets cuz he only had one license plate here thank you Harry for the suit wow beautiful ah so your now I get it it's the bobble head suit ah but anyways yesterday after giving three sh because I did two English and one Hebrew different D I was exhausted all of a sudden he shows up with a Castel bottle of wine he's a giver a ni thank youki re rebell welcome to the valley thank you for Mak enjoyable and accessible to so many thank you my grandfathers Jack Schell my grandfather oh Jack schnell's house is exactly directly across the street from where I live where our house is in Linkwood today vacation home for the art of the month for Rebellion the whole wise staff to continue to make T So enjoyable for so many all right here we go today is and we're holding on the bottom of the last last line Omar the name of if you throw in a turnup seed into the ground B the arrow and a crack in the ground the of a convert so we're talking about this is I was talking to a lawyer today a very famous criminal lawyer defense lawyer and uh I said you got to do the da and he's like what are you guys learning I saidas oh that that's tough that's tough it's been so easy it's been gmack it's not tough at all how you tell me today today's dve is tough the whole is it's not a tough we're talking about Kaka there's two types of kaka there's aaka sitting in somebody's land for three years and nobody says a word to you then it's proof that it's yours if you claim that you actually bought it and there's aaka of doing something to improve the land so I want to show you these are the rules if you want to acquire real estate through a a through improving the land not sitting there for 3 years that's something completely different it's actually a different different law completely this is the the it's called the same thing I said I said once in Chicago I said it's like beer and beer so they said what do you mean beer and beer it's bear and beer it's two different words I was like oh I'm from New York it's beer and beer what who what's the name of the football team the beers or bears they said bears okay okay that's what you want to call it great what do they call it here in in LA but the the animal what's the animal it's a bear it's different than beer okay I have k sorry you CU they don't know how to talk so well okay great you know what I'm talking about there words that they have different two different meanings but they're spelled and whatever okay night and night okay but they're just not spelled the same way butak there's a threeyear kazaka that's when somebody sits squats in a property for three years and no one says anything to him but then there's a kazak a k kazaka he doesn't claim to to have border from anybody he does a Kenyon he takes a shovel and he makes a hole in the ground it becomes his on the spot but there's some rules first of all rule number one on the right it has to be it has to improve you have to do Improvement in the land also you have to have the right intent Judaism Judaism is in the head it's about kavana what's your what what were you thinking when you did it you could be daving thinking about that and you didn't DAV or you could not DAV but think about hasem it's like daving it's in the head right so if you have kavana to improve the property it becomes yours you have kavana to do the ainon it becomes yours but you have to have the right cavana to improve and to make it yours great so until now we learned about you make you you lock the property up you build the wall higher where it's more difficult to come into the property or you open up the wall you make an opening you make it easier to come in was what about planting a seed let's think about it for a second you plant a seed is that improving the property yeah maybe but did you improve the property right now now when you threw the seat in the ground did anything change Zero so therefore says the gamar here we even have a short video if anybody wants to see what happens when you throw a turnip seed into the ground it would look something like this is it skipping around it's not playing well hold on no I don't know what's going on here here we go puts a seed in there put some water and on the left top corner it tells you the days day seven 8 9 10 there's a turnup oh here's the turnup so basically it takes 5050 days for this turnup to grow from nothing to something so it says the he threw the seed of the turn up into the ground it's a crack he didn't even open up the ground he just threw it in a available crack we're talking about a convert the G that doesn't have anybody to inherit him so his belongings become hefer it's why not at the moment where you threw the seed into the ground you didn't improve the ground so the seed grew by itself you didn't do it the next 50 days it happened by itself so that's not aak what you did was nothing and what happened afterwards happened by itself that's not a Kaka now I'm going to pose a question for a second what happened went off uh-oh we're good we're good great so we had a a case the other day yesterday where a person takes a mattress and puts it down on a piece of property and he sleeps on the mattress that's a good so this is what gar is all about take two similar ideas and you want to understand why they're different you can take that and you can use that in business it works a lot like you know that the logic to differentiate to to say this is different than this so why is it different why is it okay to put a mattress on the ground and sleep on the mattress and you didn't even do the you didn't touch the ground nothing changed on the on the property it was a flat property put it down you put a match down and it becomes yours that's K but if you put a seat in the around that's not so what's the difference knew anybody results more immediate immediate benefit oh oh saying Good by sleeping what happens when you sleep on the mattress sing this area much faster than 50 days oh very good he he's right what's your name n you're getting immediate benefits says Nan you getting benefit right now whereas the turnup is 50 days from now and you didn't even do anything what you did today didn't do anything there's no benefit right now the benefit happened after 50 days but that wasn't you that happened by itself the mattress is so very good says somebody cuts branches off a palm tree and I I don't know is this long to my wife I've never seen pom chees like this in my life they're 100 150t tall how come they don't have those in Florida in Israel what is this a special breed anybody no huh I know but it's crazy fine they L Longs so when you cut those branches off of the palm trees is it a kazak or not says the I'll tell you if you're trying to improve the palm tree so the Palm Tree became yours again there's a palm tree that a gar left over and it's hefer how do you acquire it by improving the palm tree so if you did something to improve the palm tree if you cut the the the branches off for the animals like here here's a video I not that you need this video but why not I didn't know that animals actually eat palm branches but here you go they I guess it's a thing so says HEI how could you the friend how could you see when a person cut the branch for an animal or cut the branch for the tree how do you know if he balanced out the tree took from both sides of the tree then he's trying to improve the tree but if he took only branches from one side then if he only took from one side then that means he took the the he cut off the branches for his for his animals and he didn't want to improve the tree you don't want to improve the tree then it's not yours why not so let's go back to this what's the problem if you don't where's the issue from this chart these are things you need to do to make a kazak in a property you have to improve the property with your hands which he did but he didn't have kavana his cavana wasn't there his cavana was for an animal not to not to acquire the treat so if you don't have the right what happens it's not a Kenyan the beautiful tree is not yours what has he only in hefer well it could maybe work if somebody wants to give it to you but we're talking about a case of hefer yeah so I see another thing here personally You could argue but I see this idea of balance to have a a a Jew has to have balance over here when you cut the branches from one side and you leave it on the other side it's not a you have to take it from both sides why for me it's an idea of balance balance in yish not to be too much of a sadic the T says not to be but I want to take it a little bit in a different direction I noticed and I've been speaking to a lot of people over shabas as well I spoke about it on Thursday night I was in uh the Jacob's uh backyard they have this mmer thing and um I talk to people about this all the time especially in America karts people are not balanced they work way too much they're trying to make parasa they're they're going they're running after that buck and the amount of hours people put into parnasa I believe personally I don't think it's balanced you have to have a balance life with toyra and parnasa even the KY guy I hope I don't get you know thrown off of because of this learning all day might also not be the the answer a little bit of parasa but the guys that work 14 15 hours a day I don't understand like where do they get it from what's the what's going on what first of all what about your family and I used to do this I'm guilty I could talk about it because I was one of those people 15 16 hours a day trying to make it make it but that means that back then I didn't have enough I didn't believe in hem that's what it means because if you believe in Hashem you have to do your hisis why is a Jew think about it why is a Jew allowed to work why can we work who gave us the the permission to work we work and this might sound crazy but you you might hate what I'm saying now you'll think about it for two minutes afterwards and you'll see I'm right we're allowed to work because we have to make a parosa for our family we have to make itas but but all of a sudden this is the one isalus that I know of that people do isalus every single day for 16 hours we have to do 20 other Estes like and and taking care of our bodies exercises EST and all the stuff nobody exercises for 16 hours a day and if he does he's not balanced that's what I'm saying you got to be balanced you have to you have to make a parosa what's wrong with 8 hours a day what's wrong 14 hours well you really believe that if you work 16 hours a day you're going to make more money than 8 hours a day really that means you don't have enough CU we say gives USA on Rashana so you could do whatever you want to do you could you could work 20 hours a day you're going to make the same amount of money and ask people that have tried it and done it and you they'll tell you as soon as you spend a little bit more time learning Tyra and spending a little bit more time with your family nothing happens to your business zero in fact all of a sudden it gets a little bit better somehow try it out the idea of balance a person who cleans up his property removes the the dead wood in the property here we have a little bit of a video no here no Mark before you push any buttons let me push over here not working today okay next basically it's a it's a machine that runs around the property [Music] and I don't know what's going on today should I do this it's the valley something about the valley oh here it's working third try I could go vter basically this guy what he's doing is he's cleaning up he has a big piece of property he's cleaning up and you'll see he has a lot of like wood and TW here you see right over here all the wood the Twigs that's what we're talking about collecting the Twigs the wood the branches office property is that a or not aak says same thing over if you're doing it to improve the land you have the kavana great it's yours if you're just trying to collect wood for your fireplace for for fuel for fire no good how could I tell if you take the large one and the small ones together you're taking everything that's for the land when you take the large pieces of wood what does that tell us only large nothing small large means I want it for my fireplace I don't want small Twigs when you leave the small ones obviously you wanted for the fuel so with my theme what does this remind me of this reminds me of also taking the big and the small when you do you do M you take you btic even on the small things not just the big Mitzvah the big things but also not only learning in large chunks many times and I've seen guys with garas they have a few minutes on you're waiting online it's a great time to catch up on the D instead of like what what do we naturally do we take out the phone start doing whatsapps and stuff like like that you're in line another 5 minutes of learning another 5 minutes of the DA for those who don't do the da it's great great time to jump into it even the small stuff not the big chugs the small chugs this G if you have mounds of dirt in a field and you're getting rid of a takala tick is like a takala like uh how do you say t call in English anybody a obstacle thank you an obstacle if you took away the obstacle the Mount of dirt and I'll show you in a second you took it away for the Improvement of the land great if not then it's a it's a threshing place a temporary threshing Place here's a threshing place so if it's a solid threshing place you're going to use this for your threshing forever you're going to put your wheat down and bring your animals and so the rashbam says no that that would be a great Kenyon CU I just improved the the the land but if it's one of these temporary threshing places nothing hey how do I know if it's temper if you're doing it for to improve the land or not if you take the dirt here like so you take dirt and you throw it into the hole that's normal right you have a mount of dirt and you start taking these the dirt piles see I don't know what's something's off today that's what you're saying okay I'll push the button if it plays it plays so if you take it's normal to take the dirt and fill up a hole that's normal what's the other way to do it so if you do it this way you take the the the dirt you fill up the hole then it's I don't think that's what's going on I think it's a different problem oh maybe because it has the screen on it h whatever it's not a great video anyway but we have a lot of videos It's a shame hm okay if you had in mind to improve the land great but if you took the the pile and you squashed the pile a little bit V you took the hole and you widen the hole here we have a little bit of a picture here I hope it works with the all the technical difficulty I'm having here here here's your Pile in front of the house if you go like that you it's this is a little bit much I I wouldn't exaggerate like that I think he did better with the hole here's a hole in the ground and you widen the hole see you just you make the hole you make the hole less by widening it here you know what I'm going to show you what I sent him I sent that artist this it's a very amateur but it might even explain it better than than this fancy picture this is your mound right you go like that you smush it down this is the hole you widen it okay that's what I did let's see what he did H I'm not a big fan okay so M because what's happening is that's not good enough you're trying trying to get rid of the hole but you're you're being lazy instead of filling up the hole you're pulling the hole making it wider and less noticeable that's not a that's not a good way to do it by taking a mound of dirt and you know throwing dirt this way and that way that's not really getting rid of the problem and that reminds me of one of my most favorite lines and stories that I've said and I'll share it with you that's called y there's a gal story from the capit he went to bake Matas and when he was done baking matzas he gave a tip to the different guys that helped him a month later he comes back for the a of PES Matas PES it's a big Mitzvah it's talks about it and when he's done baking he goes around giving tips to people so one of the there that got a tip the month before he says reab you don't have to give me a tip you're ready y you're ready y with the tip so he told him this line right over here I got to show you this line it's amazing it's a life life changer game changer he says I didn't come to this world to be Y what does y I mean sometimes you're not in the mood you bench you know you go check did it or even the da sometimes it's 3 in the morning you got to be you have no idea what you just read check sometimes a guy comes for you give him a buck get out of here then there's doing the Mitzvah there's doing the Mitzvah the right way you give the guy another tip that's that's not to be this guy Saka from uh Sami Saka I think his name I forgot his first from from Miami he came over he says remember he said once like two years ago about y he says you changed the way I givea since then I don't givea the same way I give it fully and then I remember this past week this is a story I I'll never forget the story this is it happened within mdy I said this story just a few days ago but but I have to do Kazar it's so powerful and R gold is here he has to hear the story it's unbelievable there's and there's I'm talking to one of my good friends and he has a suitcase full of meat I said what's going on here I saw the suitcase with my own eyes suitcase full of meat he said um a guy from the shear called him up and says you probably know about different vacation places where do you think I should go with my family here there he says don't worry you should go to my house I have a house that I'm not using right now go there it has a pool taken there he says really like he says yeah so he tells me he says but I realized that the guy is not going to be able to have food over there the house is in a place there's no I got a suitcase he filled it up with meat he G me the house and he filled up a suitcase full of meat it's like wow that's that's okay I'm smoing with him and then he goes he flies over there and uh a few hours later I'm speaking to him and he says oh I'm going to fly back to my to where I live I'm like whoa wait a minute I don't understand you just you just flew flew over there I thought you'd he no I flew over there to fill up his freezer with the meat and to make sure he has Fresh Linen and now I'm the way so this guy does any you what I'm telling you this guy gave his house and he bought meat and he flew to another state to fill up the freezer and then he flew back that's the only reason why he went flew to another state to fill up the freezer with meat that's a level of I have never heard of in my life and that's not to be no I didn't take a guy in a car gave him a ride and then I dropped him off you know three blocks before his house I fly to another city to fill up the guy's freezer anyway just thought I had to share that with you because I'm still in shock from this Misa okay I don't I'm not saying his name because the is going to start calling him up hey um where do I go on vacation yeah says the gamar um yeah if somebody opens up water into the land if you did this you flooded the land for the benefit of the land con it's a good K the Cav but if your idea was to catch fish Lo con I'm going to say the famous most of you know the joke but in case there's two people that don't know the joke going to hear if nobody laughs that means everybody knows the joke but you got to say it's it's such a this it's the joke it's said in many many different ways there was a guy sitting fishing with an alarm clock so a guy comes back how how do you fish what the he says it's a certain trick that I have I I catch fish he says so tell the trick he says if you give me 100 bucks tell you the trick so he said oh fine the guy gives him 100 bucks he says how do you do it he says I set the alarm and when it rings the fish grab onto my fishing rod and and I I I catch the fish so the guy goes so how many fish did you catch today he goes you're the fifth one oh you guys didn't really hear it for real you're just joking oh you're laughing for me okay great awesome HEI has it work if you open up an opening let's say from the river into a field and then there's an outlet one for the water to come in one for the water to leave the Cy then obviously you're trying to catch fish there's only water coming in and you're trying to water your field then obviously you doing it for the field and that's a Kenyon says thear very sad story and I'll I'll give I did a on S and a half years ago and I invited all my friends I didn't really tell them but it was for me it was a very special I finished then Bas 22 times 22 Kazar but here's the sad part it's sad but it's okay I live with it I don't remember Bas when I prepare Shear it's brand new literally brand new okay I'm not as bad as that guy that forgets who he is every 2 minutes that I saw a whole thing about this guy that was in a car accident every two minutes his life starts over not that bad but for me my memory is pretty weak that's why the guy wrote in the email your son oh pretty good memory remember me by the way I was just pretending I remembered him I didn't really so you show me a picture of it what you showed me a picture of it oh I did you're right I remember the email yeah well listen it's 3 minutes ago so why am I saying this because I said oh yeah there's this woman I once heard a story and I'm saying this story right here I'm saying the story I said it a number of times in cheer and it's a gamarra I thought I heard it like in you know I read it somewhere sounded very familiar but here it is it's a sad story this woman her neighbor the G dies she's said great he's dead let me grab this tree so she starts cutting the branes off the tree for 13 years not two years 13 years she's 100% sure this is her tree she's been eating the fruit for 13 years comes along that guy you know that guy the guy that does and he thinks he's a big he said oh I learned that that's not enough I need you got to use a shovel you got to do something with the L he goes takes the the shovel and goes like this once or twice and then he tells her by the way it's my tree not your tree she says what do you mean I've been here for 13 years I've been eating the fruit uhuh you got to use the shovel so they go to and says he's right sorry Al or I don't know if she's an Al I said she's an Al the whole story it's she's a woman she didn't do the D she didn't know it's sad but if you don't know the you don't know the rules then you lose she started screaming and carrying on it doesn't make sense I'm here for 13 years it's mine how could I can't help you I can't change the the rules you just didn't do like you're supposed to that's not enough what you did says oh this next video better work here Mark maybe you try it out I'm not going to touch the buttons you do it check this out it's I thought it's a beautiful video our guys we have three full-time artist this is what they did for this so what are you doing with this camera I don't know what you're doing okay I'm going to not I'm going to hit the button let's see if it works sad it's not working H it's going to go to the next one feel bad well we're going to show it and hold on Mark let me do it oh it's working little patience 11 [Music] basically what's going on here is this guy spray painted the wall and because he spray the wall the cops gave him the keys to the house and he's now in the house chilling out so that's what the gor says there that if you paint the nice picture on the wall you acquire the whole house that's how it works instead of the cops resting him they gave him the keys to the house so says the when you draw a picture on the belongings of a g that died K that's a Kenan the r RAV didn't Acquire The Garden of his neighbor the Garett it's interesting there stories in those days here we have a story of a woman who grabbed the tree of a gar I don't know of any G that died without children but I guess it happened so says the the other day yesterday we learned about painting a wall has to be an Amma by anama 2 feet by two feet and that's the Min that we have today of having a when you walk into the house some people do it directly across from when you walk in on the side there's a large area that's unpainted says the but this is saying that even less than that is okay because it's a beautiful picture if it's a picture of an animal of a of a of a bird or whatever that's even less than two if you have a field that's demarcated with different uh you know whatever it is dirt or whatever so we have ra says if you take the shovel and go like this once that's it it's a Kenan the everything and says no only the little area where the shovel went into the ground you get those 5 in so you're looking at a field that's 400 Acres according to Rav you go like this you get 400 Acres according to you go like this you get 5 in it's a huge na but when it comes to regular sale and I go like this with the shovel then I'm according to to it's only because I'm trying to acquire from a g and if it's not demarcated oh no not another video hold on sponsor there a video sponsors you were waiting for that day no here we go oh it's working so some people have axes some people have motorcycles but it does the job you could plow your field with a motorcycle I just learned that now so one time back and one time forth according to the ram others learn it's east and west south and north and south uh there's the famous story I said this a number of times but there was in there's a minog like the way you would purchase property is you give the guy a certain amount of money and then as much as you could walk that day that's how much property you got so this guy he his love for was so great the he he purchased off an Arab and he started running real quick and the is like hey slow down no no no he kept on going it's like you're not going to take a break for lunch no you're not going to drink no I need to go and he went and went and went and he made a left turn and he kept on going and you know he had and he got a tremendous piece of property and it's called today that's that's the story p take so according to some it means that he went straight and then he took a left or whatever it was but he went east and west north and south so this is again a guy that did the da and knows some of the tricks it's a very almost like a sad if you purchase from an idol worshipper you should know that in there's in between period that the land the proper the real estate is like a desert it's like a desert where when you make you can make a k anybody can walk over and make a K in between what's the reason the non-jew the idol worshipper when he receives the money he's removed from the property he's no longer the owner is but a Jew could only acquire property at the so we have in between period the idol worshipper got money the Jew didn't get his documents yet so check this out looks something like this you have Idol worshipper on the right you have a Jew on the left the Jew gives the idol worshipper money so the idol worshipper releases his property it starts going to up and before it got to the Jew Jew number two with the shovel who does the da grabs it is he a good Jew he's a very bad Jew why is he a bad Jew because there's a concept in ch called there's a poor person trying to he's about to pick up a piece of cake a dut on the floor and you jump in there you slide in and you grab it you're Russ now speaking it's his says in the da technically speaking who's the who's the real owner here the guy with the shovel but the guy with the shovel you should know is a Russia that's what theim say over here huh by a kidish no it's different it's a Mitzvah to steal from the other guy sponsors thank you sponsored by share construction management supervision and a lifeare community protecting families today before tomorrow's unexpected loss AR Rosenstein is here in La doing some he's running around showing the about his new idea Life share Community I'm mentioning my son's name here it says he's he's giving uh donates $1,800 to say my son's name my son works forar have traran was doing the shear 3 years ago and he decided to find my son he called me up he says where is he I said I'm not telling you he doesn't want you to know so he didn't care he started going from store to store to store he found him in a sushi place and he he hired him he I need a guy like you to work in real estate and for three years three years my son is working by a big that's right says the gor so um we have this interesting case where a guy gave money to Idol worshipper and comes the other guy and grabs it from him there's a concept in ch that the law of the kingdom is the law doesn't say the law of the king it says the law of the Kingdom meaning if the community accepted upon themselves that we will pay taxes will do certain things then that is the law you can't break the law there's a famous Misa I think I forgot who it is I still didn't figure it out I think I thought it was like r ketki or ketki let's say ketki he goes into a store with a Kish cup a brand old Kish cup and he says listen I got this as a gift I want to know how much this cost so the guy in the store was okay interesting so he told him but then rumors started spreading he went at the store with a Kish cup asking what's going on he he came back to him so he got up once and he spoke he said there's a mitvah that I should be I have to be clean I want to I want to tell people what happened I received the gift from the Yeshiva KES cup now I work for the Yeshiva I get a salary from the Yeshiva so perhaps The KES cup is an addition to my salary and maybe I have to pay taxes on it so I went to the store to find out how much I KES cup is worth so I could pay taxes on that KES cup when the government says you have to pay taxes and everybody agrees that that that's what we should do send the to listen to to the government in that case so says to R yeah learned by got older later on in life and he got sick and he forgot his learning used to remind him so he says if the law of the land is that the way to purchase property I think in America I don't know for sure you know I don't remember anybody ever buying property with cash it might work but this documentation you have to sign documents so if the law of the land is documentation then it's documentation so how could this Jew jump in there with his shovel and say oh I acquired it with my shovel is he needs a document so really should go to the first guy the says on the next d he says interesting how do we know that I can prove it to you in other words how do how do I know that everybody agrees to this says because if we use Bridges it doesn't apply so much to today but where did these guys get the bridges from they stole wood from people eminent domain they walked into people's properties and grabbed their wood and used it for the bridge if it was not true that we would not be permitted to use a bridge made out of stolen w wood the fact that we use Bridges and and and different different things roads and all the stuff that's basically stolen the government steals it from people that means they have the right to steal it we as a community we agree that they should steal it and do it interesting you cannot just make up something that people don't agree with it has to be something that they agree with you can't do anything that's against so let's say the AL says that only a son inherits a father not a daughter so doesn't override that so this interesting story where somebody forgot to write a will and his son was going to inherit everything but the law of the land is that the daughter should also get so the daughter said listen I I keep Al and you get it but I am not signing over my piece of property to you unless you give me a million dollars it's a nice fancy building in Manhattan I don't want to give it to you unless give me a million dollars for the signing of the document I keep and Hal is that you get the building but I don't want to sign you you can't force me to sign so the RAB pasin very interesting what would you pin huh you have to pay her they said you have he has to pay her $50 why 50 I just made up a number if the payer for a time for for a time she cannot demand an exaggerated amount she could demand what it takes for a time she takes some time to to how much you want 50 bucks 100 bucks an hour give 100 bucks an hour but I'm not you don't she cannot demand a million dollars for her signature and the King said the king says that the only way to purchase land is with documentation I don't know you're right I don't know basically he does know but he's saying I don't know there's a place called or the village of of the shepherd shepherd Village a Jew purchased Land from the nonew before I forget I need to show you this real quickly this is the r gold I watched his video onab and D is uh could still watch it I'm sure I don't know I didn't ask him but I'm thinking it's still online somewhere so somebody just sent me this email you see this guy he's part of the new video basically he's a g that uh from a different last year's video is all about this this uh place in Venezuela I think that the priest became a g together with a lot of people from his community fascinating story so this year part of the video is like a follow-up here's the followup this guy's name is yonathan what I didn't know is so somebody sends me this this he says you know yonathan is a part of the video he talks about how he really really wanted to be a g and he it's very emotional like when he's in a sh and he's wearing F in the sh he says I can't believe I'm in a sh like we take it for granted we're in a SCH and he made it into SCH and he's so excited to be in a sh so that's another thing I mean you can go on and on WE because us you know you look at laav other religions and they go into their place they go once a week whatever so they have a lot of Eur like a lot of reverence for their place and we unfortunately so we we we talk weoo they don't do that so much because they're not as we go three times a day so we we get used to it I was think like look at the he he was in tears talking about I'm in a sh I'm in a sh he was so excited I'm in sh we okay sh I was just there I'm in a sh right now big deal great so but anyways this yonathan guy here he uh he's part of MD I didn't know he's part of MD and he was at the shabbaton we do a shabbaton this year we're doing it again bem and uh oh if anybody here thinks that your goal to come to the shat Make Some Noise all right I'll them we later I think you should come it's fast really you should all come septe uh December 20th I think it is we we we sold out last year and Bas we're going to sell it real quickly this year same place it's we we could fit 750 people approximately 770 we'll say 770 why not and uh it was an unbelievable shabas was there and it was was crazy CRA people crying and laughing it was emotional it was unbelievable big big uh Rejuvenation of the batteries but anyways this guy was there yonathan was there and he mentioned to Mayor Planko one of our reps in Toronto the guy in Toronto he says you know I have to fill and I don't even know if they're kosher so may turns around within two minutes they they bought him a pair Fillin and the Fillin that he's wearing in this video says mayor pla was mdy purchased so it's a small world it's another story of and everything else um we're almost done here oh so there's a story where a Jew purchased land from an island worshiper this other Jew came along used the so they came to RAB Huda and rud said you know what he's a bad guy he's a Russ the whole thing but it's his but who's rabi Huda who is rabi huda's rebi R and so everything rabud says must be from his RAB so obviously also holds like this says bring me a from this place called over there people used to hide in real estate I love this okay I hope I could say this here but I found out that it's not the are people people that you they instead of saying ask they say x yeah and then I heard that's not a racist thing there there's people like in in in England this different community no people wrote to me I ask I ask you a question so here it's task task means tax but instead of tax it's task okay task not tax look tasa Taska means tax it's just a way to speak different way of speaking you got to pay your your your your ask I don't know your task is pay task is they themselves didn't pay taxes the king said whoever pays the taxes on this property he gets the property so who gets the property the second guy gets the property that's why the second guy get because the first guy wasn't even the owner of the property cuz the king if we're going to talk about that whatever go in the land the the rules of the land go the rules of the land are that the first guy doesn't even own it why doesn't he own it cuz he doesn't pay taxes you don't pay taxes you don't own it second guy who paid the taxes he comes in and he grabs it and Rai have a wonderful [Music] day for