Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 5 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning R start off with a picture from the very first in Albany New York from there we shall go to the very first for the Hebrew Shear here in Raad M then we'll go to a true Misa two New York police detectives walk into an office they needed my cameras to check for someone the girl send them back to my office the secretary says go back over there and I have the daon and one of the detectives say do all Jewish people watch this rabbi [Music] no other way to say it other than you have changed my life I joined in B unfortunately gone through incredibly painful and difficult times personally especially in the last month while I can't claim to have learned every D especially this last month I can say that because of the D being part of my life been able to become stronger with greater Thana in so many other ways than ever before not only am I learning to almost every single day but I'm daving s and from all of this becoming a stronger healthier Kinder and overall greatest mench I've ever been this is all while not knowing at all what the outcome of these struggles is going to be I know now finally that I want to and I'm fully committed no matter what the outcome to continue to grow in and that is what is helping me day by day one good decision at a time become the best version of myself the best man for my wife kids friends co-workers Community the injust passer by people on the road and no matter what I know no matter what that I want the outcome to also be the result of me having become this best me version of myself I'm so excited while not fully be B with you and the MD family to move on to batra and I am never looking back to you and all the MD y all at MD will make this happen you have TR saved my life and there's no amount of that I can show you to express my gratitude other than continue on this path from every part of my heart iron K West Orange New Jersey should whatever the issue is work it out PS listen to relli when he says not to try to catch up not only because it's hard and you can get frustrated and fall off that's also true that's all also true but because there's something with being current with cl gives a real sense of with and where we are holding adding one more thing to my email that sad who got me started on the D is now my buddy see attached photo shabbat shalom talking about Thea buddy shaft kesy Rosenberg I love keski Rosenberg he's been with us since the beginning he is from poo Brazil see debello right you mentioned last week that people told you that if they if they would teaching the way you do it with a clarite charts pictures actually nobody would go off to D she had I don't know if it's nobody but it's less she had an idea to make an MD it was more of a mdy high school but what's going on over there you don't know okay maybe we should turn it off completely no so let me ask you a few so let me ask you a few concerns that I thought one to make a there's a big headache parents Han Behavior financial problems Etc two what type of would it be so first of all it'll be MD yish means everybody bka all types what language would it be English Hebrew yish would be all three the number of would be very limited so for all those concerns we thought a simple solution maybe it would be better to make a course from Al Lambda worldwide how to teach mdy method something like the mdy method gar Academy you got all solutions to BU problems no headache to start with all his problems all kinds of could join and they would use method in their classes could include charts pictures workbook books for each use the method in his language English Hebrew French Spanish Portuguese spoken in Brazil etc for you would reach an unlimited number of worldwide that would get aack and learning and never ever go Brazil I say we start it you do it and then if anybody wants to learn the method if it's then we'll come and they'll come live here who's that oh that's in Brooklyn that's in man man what man what do you got going over there that's AKA AKA we see your eye and your ear but we see your where's the pizza I don't see the pizza nice oh more people are coming in galic everybody say this is kobella the one who uh TV radio personality actually called me up on Friday uh did a little interview on on Kai and he stoed me he's like what is the secret recipe in your wife's child sound like brown sugar and ketchup he almost he says that's a sir you can't put ketchup then I found out my wife doesn't put ketchup okay fine there's a b doing the da huh that's son ah didn't miss a d he told me he became Mish he did 90 like you said became part of him very nice okay we're very proud of our one and only Yi Kent who's the official COO of mdy taking to the next level he did uh I also was interviewed by these guys this podcast I think the number one uh yish speaking podcast I did it in English I think I was the only guy in English and here he is R here we go I love the yish fully booked black and blue marks black and blue marks here we have so um there's a few sad things that happened over shabas the C of rebbi was only 66 years old bigadic he was n my uncle stansky was also I went after the shear like at a quar to 12 all the way to benra got home at the the the itself was like 2 in the morning got home at 3 three something so how you doing no one of our no plenty not M so uh another person that was very very a big part of the she was also left to barl schmookler he's my sister-in-law's Uncle he was a big part of MD for for very long time and he was a young guy also okay old k for the day thank you beautiful Co for the day another one Joe Sharp ma for to the and future the for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages [Music] what's he doing a message the worldwide oh that's right I have to it's in here but once you mention it I'll get there hold on hold on the wolson wson from but also Steinberg steenberg from Manchester nft this Friday love it thank you goldber wol there is another email I have to read here I know that I might have hold on where is it I know I put it in here oh here it is almost skipped it it's not going to really help so much but okay we'll say it anyways to have a father and husband on your birthday we want to let you know how proud We Are of you for learning the D even though you spend your day learning in Co by getting up early and going to you show how you want to learn as much as you can it's a B for us and has such an effect on the atmosphere in the home family El Goldberg where is he he was here last night oh here he is happy birthday how old is it Hebrew English today or I missed that 37 no no no wowow you are 37 24 hours ago so not bad so today tonight I don't think it's like that but is going to be speaking at the today is the fourth mdy official Manchester London Hebrew and today finally English I mean there's many the ones that I went to I only went to three so far and this is the fourth and uh promises to be a very big speech no pressure no PR pressure from the birthday boy himself where is it in art art Tyra it's called the pink building down the steps here like you you come here and you go down the steps or you could just go to you go to Ay Factor's house then go make a left and come down what 49 at [Music] 8:00 who's leaving mitvah oh new where is he he's here today when when's that's why he's here he was here last night also no with his son come talking about always says learn come come 3 weeks ago three weeks ago you're still within the unbelievable wow so you going to start coming every day I so you came last night today no it's not that good huh all right for coming and Ma to you Ma again on your sister's engagement too what's his name um zisha zisha f gang yeah it's good guy yeah okay okay we are holding here on believe it or not we never started so far behind but we're going to catch up even today B we're by the [Music] mishna here we go here's the picture you have two people you have shim owns a field in the middle and you have ruin that owns four fields around him and ruin without asking any questions he put up a fence around shim on three directions so it's not really secure it's field is not secure animals people they come in from the fourth side so it says the M he surrounded his friend from three sides put up a fence on the first second and third the guy in the middle the guy that's surrounded by fences doesn't have to pay now if we stop right over doesn't have to pay why because it's one two three and if there was four what what open have to pay who only has three Fields who said okay I don't know what you're saying he's he shut it down from three sides okay it's open that's the [Music] point so what if he did put a fence on the fourth side what would happen he would have to be he would have to pay it says the reason why he doesn't have to pay is because he only did three not four yeah but if it was a fourth you would have to pay if he went ahead he put a fence on the fourth you have to pay for all four so we have to understand what the difference between the t is is saying the same thing I want to tell you a beautiful villain gu here here here's first of all this is how it looks if he went ahead and put the fourth one on now we're going to see in the gar who exactly built the fourth one the guy himself the other guy even the other guy Ruben did shim so says the vill beautiful piece it says in you're born without against your will you didn't have any decision in that you're you're created you born against your will you don't have a choice whether you live and a person dies against his will so as the if everything is so how could you be anymore you can't if somebody forces you to be takes your hand and goes like this you're not of anything so you came to the world everything is about so he says based on this mishna beautiful if at the end you don't want to die you're you're begging you're going to doctors you're trying to fix it you're trying to help yourself to live oh on the fourth one then we're going to be on all three so the G says and the same thing would be with Tyra person goes to work he works the whole day he has to's he has to work the whole day but then he comes home and he has a half hour a break and what does he do goes on his WhatsApp and he watches his videos so then then the whole day becomes a WhatsApp day but if a guy when he has that extra time he goes to the DA he learns so then it shows that everything that he everything that he did the whole day all his work and everything is all the sh yesterday I told my this and he said oh he was for shabas he was in gimmel and his family said don't walk this Stans he's too hot very hot yesterday he said hey stefansky went to Italy so you could also take off a week that's what they told him so he came and he said I came because I want myar I put up myar I'm willing to come to learn for you even if I have to walk a half hour in the in the very hot weather so now all the times I come to you then I get that I push it up a little I call okay [Music] if you put up the fourth fence all four here's a it doesn't matter even if the guy that didn't that didn't ask permission ruen this guy over here if he the guy that put up the first three fences he put up the fourth one you you the guy in the middle you still have to pay if I come into your house I plant stuff for you I do things for you I change your roof you have to pay now how she have to pay you have to pay 50% of whatever the fence is so in this case he put up a beautiful your shomi stone fence very expensive fence you have to pay 50% of that you only have to pay for the cheapest fence on on the market you don't have to pay for the Stone we according to you have to pay whatever the fence is it's met it's a metal fence it's a stone fence you have to pay half of that that's how we pass it says what about the says if you put up three fences you don't have to pay but you can infer from that if there's a fourth fence You' have to pay for all four so what about the second part of the Miss says is the one that says that if you put a fourth F you have to pay everything so the question is where is the it seems from the T also if you put up a fourth fence you have to pay for all four now according to this that we just said how much do you pay according to you pay no matter what the fence is you have to pay half of it according to the son of the famous you only have to pay the cheapest fence you have to pay half of whatever it cost now we understand the great yeah you have to pay both say have to pay for four fences but how much of the four fenes we have a great according to only the cheapest fence but you don't have to pay half of this beautiful stone fence going to say no if the guy that didn't ask any any questions he decided to put up a stone fence you must pay half of that stone fence so that's great according to that says you have to pay everything or half of everything according to who says the most he said is the cheapest fence and is more than the t whether it's a so then what could be the difference between t says you pay the cheapest fence and what does the T say you don't pay the cheapest fence if you don't even have to pay according to the cheapest fence so what is he giving him so for that we have four shot number one is that according see just look at this right side he would pay for a Watchman a guard and according to don't or according to you only pay for the fourth wall according to real you pay for all four or we have two that are almost the same but reversed you only pay when the guy that's being surrounded by the fences himself decides to put put up the fourth fence but if the guy that put up the other three fences put ups puts up the fourth you don't have to pay and according to the fourth it's the exact opposite that the T will say no it doesn't matter who puts up the fence whether the guy in the center puts up the fence or the guy on the outside puts the fence you have to pay and according to it's only when the guy in the center puts up the fourth fence he has to pay now let's see it inside 2 4 6 8 10 lines from the bottom do you have to pay for this guy you only have to pay for a Watchman not for a very cheap fence so to me I don't know if this is true today the most expensive thing is labor a fence is cheap it seems like in the time of the gar is the opposite you're not paying for the fence and we're not talking about a fancy fence we're talking about con reads cheapest fence possible no no no you don't have to pay for that what you should pay for is only labor okay now it might not be the whole year it might be a few weeks during the season but it's year after year after year you have to pay for labor you're going to get away with something cheaper than a cheap fence labor is nothing it's like uh like in China I don't know they used to pay like uh $3 a week or something sugar no I don't know how it is maybe $3 a day yeah I said I said a certain season but every year during a certain season no you have to pay this expensive expensive [Music] fence I'll tell you now I said it a few weeks ago that that Kool-Aid property that I'm trying to sell for 12 years already so I don't I don't remember how many let's say 21 acres to put a chain link fence this the simplest chain link fence around the entire property was close to $60,000 the cheapest fence but that's a giant so thing even the cheapest fence over here it could be any size it could be 4x4 armor no it's better to take a guy stand there watch it day and night so the animals don't come in the people don't come in you have to cut the weed oh cut the weed who pays do you have to pay for one two three sides or only side four says you only pay for the fourth side not for one two three says you pay for all four sides so just to make it simpler we're saying all these names Mak is ruen in this case Okay ruen is the one building the fence shim is the he is being surrounded when here so we push this button now we have three sides that the Mak did if the Nik goes like this if Shimon hits the the the fourth fence he puts up the fourth fence then he's obligated to pay for all four then we say G he not only does he have to pay for the four he has to pay for one two three this would make sense if you if I would ask anybody in the room they' probably say the same thing without thinking about if the without asking any questions didn't didn't consult with anybody builds four fence four fences around you you say why do I have to pay yeah you have to pay but only the four adds to that's he says no have to pay for all four similar to this one but the opposite is the one that says that if the ruing guy the guy that didn't consult with anybody and he built all four you have to pay pay the middle the guy in the center has to pay for all four it's only when the guy that's being surrounded shim then he has to pay next he surrounded r surrounded him four sides so in this in this uh case over here Rina is ruing andun shim R built the fence around shim so last night by the Hebrew she I asked the question I was M we have a guy with us he's sitting in that corner that's where he sits sitting over there I asked where else do we have recently a story that happened between ra and rauna ra and nobody answered yob schartman he he answered does anybody know anybody in this room besides Jakob huh oh how do you remember that listen we need your brother here tell may he has to start coming you hear what RI says there was a story I'll remind you the whole story story that Runa was working for for Rina as arus and Ravina chucked him out so run didn't like it and he went to to R to complain so said and this this you could also tell me RA said there's certain things in this world that you don't he said but only punish and I think that's when I said the story that the mother tell and everybody say oh they do this all the time inel you can't punish your child unless you warn him so said there certain things that you don't have to warn such as huh AO the barber very good and what else a rebi those guys you could chuck if they make one mistake you get you get rid of them right away this is another one what was it maybe also the there was the the blood letter that the same thing as that butcher is [Laughter] wife is that in the gamar it's should be say very good very good okay so says raun pay me for my fences that I put up he don't want to give it to him so the say the reason why didn't want to give to him R thought because he thought that he he Pas we Pas they have to pay 5050 perhaps Runa holds they only pay like the she that says he pay reads the cheapest one no even that he didn't want to do so he says so pay me at least like a Watchman maybe he holds like the that says the Watchman in is all the different we had four answers there was one one of them was do you pay like a Watchman or not didn't even even that he didn't want to give him who wrote the so he had a trick he noticed that is working on his palm tree taking down harvesting the the dates say obviously he had a new art cuz used to be his artist he chucked him out now he has a different artist he tells his own artist go in there take a whole cluster of dates try to take it let's see what happens didn't ask any questions it goes into R's property takes stes started screaming at him what are you doing G get out of here R shows up and he says you see the fence helps you you're screaming you need a fence so then pretend that the fence is there to protect you from goats don't you need a don't you need a protection from goats they take out the the lav over here all you need to do for a goat is to scream at a goat and he runs I don't need a whole beautiful fence but you you need a human being to stand there and scream at goats that also cost money so pay me at least for a goat screamer so they went to again like that story over there they went to they go to so says to you have two options either him what was already negotiated against himself so to speak he went from pay me half pay me a read wall pay me like a Watchman so he ready agreed to watch so pay him that and if you don't want to pay that that's how we pass in the beginning I said all those four answers only go according to if you look in the beginning of the it says that according to you have to pay 5050 and that's the so either take advantage of rav's offer or I'm going to pass him the because you have to pay 50% of the wall in general if I come to your house I don't have a field anywhere I just come to your house and I put up a nice fence around your house I have to pay at least you know three qus whatever the person's asking to pay whatever Thea is so over here he's getting away with only 50% it's a great deal says the ra he's not done yet he bought a property that borders with Rina what is that called Barra has right of first refusal he could go and take that that land he could buy that land R shouldn't have bought it what's the what does it mean if you remember a beautiful it's to remember this even though it's not now it is but is based on this means that you should act like a man if you know that that guy means a lot him to have the field next to him now he doesn't have to be M and bring the plow here there he could just do one pass in both of his Fields you as a potential buyer give it up to the guy that owns the field next to there's interesting story if somebody understands I don't understand a guy had a simmer okay one of these rentals here everybody's doing like Airbnb he had a terrible mouse infestation and he got all the to get rid of the mice he he got rid of them oh so I'm going to get there in a second he was done and a family from B they come they use the place on chabas M chabas the Father the the husband whatever he comes to the owner he says beautiful beautiful just and he left the guy comes in afterwards to see what happen he couldn't believe his eyes he sees mice or Mish dancing around droppings everywhere you know you tell that there's a lot of mice there so Hally speaking does the guy from who had no idea that there was mice there I think maybe he came with the SHA stuff and that's what but let's say there's mice came from the ne and he had mice with it's not a joke the is no no how many mice say one or two mice with him no no no that's not what happened okay it's a real M nice oh Lauren on you hold on oh you were gonna say that also it's Lauren's pieace you you fed off his energy ohra oh wow wow it's getting better and better I couldn't believe it says that the guy from doesn't have to pay a penny even though he didn't know about the mice why it's not rentable he he stayed in a non rentable place I don't understand it's like it's like to me it seems like if there invisible shade them I don't see them you don't see them it's not rible sh I don't see them no you didn't see yeah but then he goes on to say the guy from should give him something you have to be a men even he doesn't have to pay anything should be a men okay maybe I didn't understand it [Music] correctly you have a good one for me as something had to run away well what do you want to say let's hear Let me here does to tell the guy that there was problems yeah that's that's according to he has to refund him the money though he had no clue he doesn't have to tell him why he says listen there the issue how long I have to pay back yeah you would think that Barra allows ra to buy the property kick run no that what so Raj explains run was a Sho maker in order to make shoes you have to do something like this you have to first buy the leather they have to tan it here's a Gak tanning video it gets a better oh I just don't understand the buildings over there like in between that's the factory the I don't know okay kiter the tanning over there Val like a tanning so you have to pay four plus four but kiter by the time he sell his shoes he's making two cup it's nothing so now you're G to do what he's now applies to you to him not the opposite is subjective it depends on the person depends on the situation we said there's some some situations when the guy's buying everything you don't say if he's the original own you don't see it over here also leave him alone he doesn't have let him go the wall in a fell okay something like this let's [Music] say yeah like this fell fell okay so the the height of such a wall should be in I saw there two measurements it's like 2 MERS PR 8T or 2.4 M enough that there's no hea you can't see above and here's a a big a person has aak a real kazaka says he paid we'll see exactly at what point but the mishna says that a person has we could assume that he already paid for the wall the other side let's say you're the one building it the neighbor that didn't build it he paid for a she if he prove he brings that he never paid then he has to pay but above which is above you don't have to pay it goes something like this beautiful check this out the guy built a wall it's over fouras so up until fouras you have to pay above fouras you don't have to pay but if you do something like this oh what are you showing you're about to make uhan which slash three apartments for young couples here you have a parking spot it's like you put a factory and in the back part you have a couple living there there so you don't have to put a ceiling it's obvious why why did you build a wall you're about to put the ceiling on on this block you let's say he built out like a little porch they have it on the now it's starting to happen all these buildings they're getting is is legal by the way I said something about a guy so the guy watches the shear he he said okay I'm G to send the to your because we're getting all the information now who's building who's not building so he's like the right-and man of the of the r this guy Myers what anyway so people build you pull out so y I think lives on the second or third floor right he he made a a legal room once his neighbor steps on top of his roof and and says okay now I have a nice porch to my living room that's it now that neighbor on the whole on the whole 50% of everything or not of all the of all the the poles the cement going up if he doesn't use it no over here also it's that happens here in the neighborhood happens in all the time a guy could push out legally and nobody has to pay anything but once you start using his structure you start adding your own thing you add walls and everything the guy on top of him starts building that then you same thing here he built a wall for the whatever is above once he shows that he's interested in the more than fouras now obvious you have to put the ceiling on we know what you're about to do then you have to pay for everything right next to us there's a building over here they all of a sudden put like the structure for a third floor you speak to the guy says I'm not doing anything I'm not building because it's illegal for him to do and he has a deal with the sh yeah yeah no but he has a deal with the sh he's not gonna yeah where's the U is going to come no no but he made a deal with the sh forget about legal not made a deal with the sh he's not going to he's not going to block the light or whatever so why did you build the the beams no stop stop what do you stop once he he's up there you know he's about to close it in one day middle of the night he's going to come and close it in not yet not yet that's in the back over there and oh but one thing different than the ratio over here since it's weird kind of construction above four people don't know adding a wall not adding a wall explain he did not pay on time now approve that he paid before he said that he did pay now we're going to go into it if you tell your friend that you want him to pay you back on Wednesday you lent him money he has to pay you back on Wednesday now we have a good the guy claims that he paid on Tuesday he's not believed should pay on time I'll say this again even though I said it literally two weeks ago but let's say there's you know a th000 2,000 new people here we'll say it for them ahead of a said that if you pay early you're Russia and if you pay late you're sadic and if you pay on the day that you're supposed to pay you're a regular guy why if you pay early the only reason you're paying early is because you want to get another loan and then a larger loan and that one you won't pay what's your why are you paying early and late why because you're not getting another loan from this already blacklisted so that you're paying at all and it's late got to commend you and paying on the time on time that's normal so interesting sh I saw what if a person makes a he swears he's going to pay on time he's going to pay on the day he's going to pay on time what he didn't realize is that the day that he swore he's going to pay on falls out on shavas what should he do so the simple is he should pay on Friday no it's too late it's ready the next day he made a he forgot on Friday and all a sudden he realized today is whatever see so they say the says that you you should give uh you know an object that's worth the amount of the loan and and it's like a mashin and he says you're even allowed to on shabas to assess it evaluate it let's say you give a guy ring so you go to a diamond deal say how much is this Diamond worth on chavas why so he shouldn't be over on huh what say in what to assess I don't he didn't pay he's not paying it's a p it's a it's he doesn't want to give the ring he's just giving it to him now to hold on to like a it's instead of we're not passing here we're just throwing things out so now we have this is interesting one and greet to each other they both say that people do pay early why person gets or something let me pay now why I don't want the guy to to bother me I have the money now let me get over and we're going to see there are those who argue and we passing like the other the first part of the M says that if you're supposed to participate in the payment of the wall we could assume that you paid for the wall your your Shear what's the case if he said I paid on the time that I was supposed to pay on the day why not if a person says I paid early oh that's a must be talking about that he said I'm paying I paid early and we believe him you see that people do pay early sometimes we're talking about a wall every row bricks you pay some learn that you could even pay everything in advance since each and every row is is a new payment so sometimes people pay the whole thing in advance some learn a little differently that he paid by that row he could say oh I paid in row three then I paid in row four that's what we believe now let's go to the end of the Mna it says that if it's a strange wall it's above four hour is tall so and then he added another wall to it so now we understand that he's trying to use the first walls has to pay for everything in that case we don't assume that he paid there's no that he paid until he proves it what's the case he say I paid you on the day I was supposed to pay am I should be believed so here we have the over here he said that I paid you early and we don't believe him so you see that a person usually doesn't pay early not like yes there's Noak that you pay early on a strange situation like this picture over here because people don't know the really they don't know that if you add another wall you have to pay that's that's a special that we learned today we people we know the now but if we wouldn't have gone to she maybe we wouldn't have known it so to say that he paid early on a situation that nobody knows that that he has to pay he's not believed says have two more that hold like a person not believed that he paid early see like that a person has not believed that he paid early ask and even from orphans in other words you could go to the orphans and say hey your father borrowed money from me and he did not pay me early I'm I'm going to take the money from you without a says but that's only orphans that are not because you can't bring to but the the ra they don't pass like like like and means even from you can go in there and take your money from them even though that when you come and take from you have to make but over here we we could be certain that the father did not pay earlier than he was supposed to and can take the money without a have a wonderful day tonight don't forget to see him at 8:00 please sign up [Music]