Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 40 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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are holding four lines from the bottom of test B we just finished learning that one makes a a protest if somebody's sitting in his property should protest otherwise that guy could claim that he has a of three years how often do you protest you only protest once every three years you don't have to protest every year of year so he makes a protest every three years what happens if he when he makes the protest he says something else one time he says hey you're a g if you're sitting in my field the second time three years later he says I want you out of here because it was a collateral a masin so he contradicts his first protest so says if he contradicts himself then it's not a protest and therefore the guy sitting there for three yearsa if he's not contradicting himself he's saying the same exact words as he said three years ago then it's a good and if it's a good then it's not a oh I have to say the sponsors that's why okay I got it let's do the sponsor we'll get to the bottom of the and if he contradicts himself then the is not a the protest is not a protest and therefore guy sitting there for three years the the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages this terrible situation should be over without a war without anything just over generation Moses my death adversary three years re ma Kobe Su B sponsoring the day plus three garas one per year I'm assuming if he started sug B then maybe this individual Kobe Moses got a free gamar that's why he started check this out one gamar three years $10 a year somebody sponsored a gamar and brought Kobe in I'm just assuming I'm throwing this out maybe not so but also he's sponsoring he's giving back three garas one per year oh I had a whole list of people that donated garas maybe like 30 people I wanted to read their names okay so you can go ahead and donate a gamar or two or 10 or 300 like that one individual Mr Anonymous gave $10,500 towards volume two we're still looking for more people [Music] shom and uh I'll read out the names of those who are sponsoring gas to Michael Rothchild and Rabbi Newberg for making them moment a reality celebrating today my third MD anniversary Su B so another person parents he's only with MD for three years and he BR brought over 1500 people to the she and fifth the breakfast in MD is sponsored by for sponsoring and um there's also the food that we saw for the Hebrew Shear so that's also available if anybody wants to sponsor a day a week and uh I guess m took inspiration from if you go toer there's always free food food is a big thing by to give to give to others food so I guess that's one of the reasons he gave to the in MD all right so now we're holding we did the the three lines here's a question it's not the hardest question in the world what if a tricks his kala says here I'm giving you this beautiful diamond and it turns out that it's a lab Diamond today lab diamonds diamonds very hard to differentiate he says here's this gold this nice gold necklace and it turns out it's not a gold it's not a gold necklace he gives her a diamond ring with a gold diamond ring it's not gold and it's not a diamond it's garnished $10 is it a me to can she demand out of the marriage or not what do you say why not because didn't he did he specified he said straight out it's a real di but you're close he didn't specify that the that the K is dependent on that that's what he didn't specify okay says in the name of so now we have a list of different things let's see this is the list which one of these things can you do in front of two ad and the big question is which one of these things can the aam when they see we're going to go through each one of these things when they see it they witness it can they decide on their own to write AAR to to specify what they saw or perhaps no you can't write AAR if you you weren't told to so that's the question here now you see we have 46 people online so to all the 46 plus and the guys are doing like a live kind of pizza and where's that I forgot what it's called you'll figure it out you know where it is somewhere in Flatbush so now we start off with the first one what's m m is when you think somebody's going to take hold of your property by sitting there for three years you go ahead and you make a protest make a m say get out of here what are you doing here that must be done in front of two people and you don't have to specify to them go ahead and write AAR why not because the CL is in all of if you're doing okay we're back okay and you don't have to tell them to write the why because since it's something good for the guy that's making the just like I could lift I find something in the street I find the diamond ring I could pick it up thinking that I'm being CED for you you don't have to ask me to do it I do it for you why because it's good for you it's a for you so anything that's I could do without asking permission and now we go to the second thing called Mah Mah is a beautiful thing Mah means that I notify somebody in advance that I'm about to be taken advantage of let's say I'm forced at gunpoint to sell you something so I tell you yeah sure I'll sell it to you but before I sell it and it has to be done before not after before I sell it I go to two people and say listen these guys are holding a gun to my head and I'm about to sell to my house I don't want to sell it I'm s I'm pretending that I'm selling it later on we're going to NE we're going to Rene on this and we're not going to do this okay you got it yes okay so let me pull this table away also okay so that happens in in many different ways today in bezon for instance bezin writes that we're going to make a deal that you're that you're not so let's say bzen claims that you have to bz pasin that you have to pay so and so $100,000 you cannot go ahead and write a beforehand that I'm accepting by myself whatever B says but I'm really not accepting I'm lying because bzen puts in their agreement that you don't have any m so what people would do is they would write a they did a that I wrote a that I that I'm not going to do my okay it's like a three-step thing I'm going to bezan I'm going to write an agreement that there is no Mah and I'm writing M now that I'm going to write that that that that agreement and I don't agree to the agreement that I'm writing so what did bz do they CAU on to that so says and you are going to make an agreement that there's no we're going to go back 500 Midas it doesn't matter there's no maidah in the world finished okay there's also something sad our people here found this here I got this today or this one this is a that a person could could say if he's very sick and he has a lot of pain he's being basically being he says I'm sorry if I if I complain to you about the pain it's not against you he's being so this has nothing to do with but it's it's the same language that basically says if something comes out of my mouth that's inappropriate I'm being because of the pain I'm going through and not because I have a complaint against you hasem so says the gor my so when you are you must do this in front of two people and once again you don't have to say the words to the please write this down it's done on their own they they'll write it down if they want why because for you this is slightly different when a person admits to alone that also has to be done in front of the two over here you must tell them to write it otherwise they cannot write it why because once there's a loan without a the guy taking the loan the guy the Loa could deny the loan at any given time he could say I paid it back yes I admitted to it an hour ago I paid it back already so by you writing it down you're ruining it for him it's so let's see what it looks like that is called that's the hey we did we did now we're holding by the K means I gave you a handkerchief you raised it or you raised your own whatever but like at a wedding takes the he goes like this and that makes him to give the a certain so that must be done in front of two people yeah at a wedding you have two aen probably once again you have to you don't have to say so we have three things over here you need two a and you don't have to say write it only the hay you need two aen and you have to say and you you must say write it so the just points out why didn't ra just say three things you need two and you don't have to say WR it why does it have to say you need two you don't have to say right you need to you have to say WR it you need to you don't have to say WR it he repeated the same thing three times just say once these three things so the says that that's how he heard from over the years it might have it might have been 10 years that he heard these so he just said it the way he heard it from so this you need to do in front of three two people and you don't have to say and in order to say that a is a good so what's going on there's a concept in ch oh let me see Kobe threw it in there no that's that's for later on okay by there's something called a hemp does anybody know what a hemp is hemp is it in your thing Steve what is it who Chicago Steve jakowski our in-house lawyer he takes down notes on old do how do you remember that what now ah okay sh don't tell anybody I'm not going to repeat any guys in Chicago are holding that's the bottom line hemp let's say there's two ad and they're 96 years old you're concerned that they're going to pass away soon you're not GNA have aen so you bring them into bzen and you authenticate thear you say tell bz these are the aen you see yeah you agree that this is what happened yes so B writes on the bottom of the star we interview aen we know that thear is a legit 56 people on Zoom unbeliev they don't think they don't believe that we start on time so takes them time to get on now it's not enough to have two a testifying in the two a you need three a to say that this is a goodar once they sign on the bottom hemp that it's a goodar it's a goodar it's good to go Simon M okay so we showed you the Simon everything is great if I have a problem with everything I have one problem on the of is Kenan right where is it what when you witness the at a wedding you need to a them so he says what is it what is it if it's like something that's done you should need three people so it's not a thing it's witnesses that see it if it's something that hurts one party it's going to hurt the seller let's say and it's so why why don't you need to hear from his mouth write it it's a anytime it's a you need to hear from the himself had a question but he had the answer it's you're right it's just testimony of witnesses how come you don't have to say it specifically to their face I want you to write this down they could just write it on their own because a regular meaning is given to the Adam to write right away why so oops says the this technology is it this thing okay whatever says Ram uh the so use of what mean the other day we had that says a person sells he means a person is large over here that's not what he means over what the R means is that a person does it with all his heart so when he does when he's quick with the he didn't write didn't bring all of it there's more words here he says beforehand he's in a rush to make this Kenyon why is he using a handkerchief a y because he's in a rush he doesn't push him off and say you have to make a you have to pull it hey let's just do it right now boom boom boom Oh you want to do it quick that means excuse me you're doing it with your whole heart then I don't have to tell you to write it it's obvious that you want me to write it down and therefore he writes it down says the both agree a person who doesn't listen to to the that's a person that you write you don't just write a again what's I'm about to do something against my will I'm notifying two people beforehand and therefore I could get out of it you don't do it unless the other party somebody that doesn't listen to the Bez the famous story with theer he's trying to convince somebody to give a get to his wife and the guy refused the guy went off the D whatever he wasn't so religious he didn't want to do he didn't want to give a get so reminded him he said remember you once learned in Yesa the first M K how does a woman get out of her marriage says there's two ways get either a g or the husband dies he says listen you have two options give give a g or you're going to die what do you want to do the guy started laughing and he when he walked away he walked out of the B and he fell down on the steps and he died on the spot that's the about a guy that doesn't listen to The V and doesn't listen to the then you write even on me and you they people that listen to No you could always write so they say you must write when you do you have to write that you know what the is we not only do we know about it we know what it is if you don't write exactly that we saw the gun we saw the whip we saw them torturing him whatever it was whatever it is they must write it down otherwise it's not a real M that's what they say to to have a that have to testify that they saw the not just the guy told us that he's being forced what is the force we want to know what it is this uh this terrorist he he caught three people caught an Israeli an American and a Russian and he asked them before I kill you you have your last wish what do you want so the American says I want a Pie Pizza McDonald's and Coke okay he gives to them he says okay now wait over there I'm going to kill you now what do you want the Russian you want vka okay great now wait over there that's Israeli what do you want say I want to kick I want you to kick me so kick it said okay so he goes and he gives him a kick and the Israel goes and he knocks him he kills him so the uh the other two guys I don't understand if you could kill him so why did you ask for a kick why like just kill him so he said I don't want people to think that I started this I want I want him first to start with me and then got rid of him I just thought it's it's appropriate for now it's no matter what the Jews do it's always now that they killed this guy over there they're saying oh they shouldn't have killed them because now it's going to hurt the peace process and this and you know so no whatever you do you're in the wrong all right and you have to be you have to say the exact exactly what happened listen this he put a gun to my head and okay now that's why I want out of this now what kind of mid we talking about says the oh this must be uh we have to do this spons by share construction management and supervision and life your community protecting families today before tomorrow expected loss also by Honor my uncle and what kind let's say a guy's about to give a get to his wife and he tells the by the way I don't want to give the get they foring me the best enforcing famous story here in Chicago with the r of Chicago there's a story forced the guy bathtub a whole thing got into a lot of trouble so sometimes people say listen I'm giving a get I don't want to give a get I was forced the rabbi drown me in a bathtub I had to give a get I'm being or I gave my neighbor my house as a gift I'm letting you know I didn't want to give him the house as a gift so says time out you don't the ad don't have to see the gone and this if he's giving a get he's giving a gift let him just say by the way my get is not by my will that's all he has to do and if it's selling and he feels that he's being forced to sell so it's interesting because R holds that when it comes to selling maybe a person will sell because he needs the money now so he's lying when he says that he doesn't really want to sell he does want to sell he wants to sell because he needs the money but he later on he comes with an excuse that he didn't want to sell he wants his thing back we're talking about a sale we're not talking about a get we're not talking about a gift when he's forced like the story with the orchard then even agrees that you write a what's the story so we're very familiar already but we'll show it again why not Mas what is M Sur is a loophole in the system where a person could lend money and take interest how he lends money let's say he lends $100 and and the borrower gives a field as collateral and he says you eat fruit even if the fruit is worth much more than 100 the malva could take it it's a loophole works like this the malva gives $100 to the Loa the lva gives the field that's worth $10,000 to the malva and the malva gets to eat is Mark okay because I saw that he just jumped on gets to eat the fruit for 10 years here we go eats eats eats eats has a little bit of a weight problem all the way at the end okay so he received he gave a $100 as a loan he took $1,000 back because basically he bought the fruit at a higher price okay what's video which one no I'm I'm going there hold on what's this this I don't remember oh he did write the whole thing okay good so now we're at this oh you're right this is this is just a little this humor has nothing to do with the of the this is M where the guy in the front is signing a m saying that the reason why he's running away is not because of a the reason why he's doing is because of B okay let's see what happened there signing [Music] away go I just like the fact they're watching on the left side they're watching the she on he's saying don't think I'm running because I'm doing exercise I actually want the burger something like that that's okay in their little humorous way the artist um where are we I have no idea where we are oh we're down here by Mish the so it goes like this this is the story with the paradise you see the malva lends a $100 so the Lea gives him a field he says here take this collateral for three years says the Malvo I'm here for three years three years sounds familiar right what's three years in a field says the Mal either you sell me this field or I'll tell everybody it's mine I was sitting for three years how can you prove me wrong says if you sell it to me great if not I'm going to take the star and bury it so the guy says okay I'll sell it to you meanwhile he goes to two and he says I'm writing my and they write we saw what happened was the whole the guy forced you and then he sells the property pretends that he's selling it but then takes him to B then and um he kicks him out of the prop so says ra six lines from the Top If there's a story like this story of there was a person who who borrowed money and he gave his own field as collateral for three years after after he was there for three years tells if tell me to feel great I'm going to bury this star so I'm forcing you to sell it to me in such a way says even if it's say right why because it's true the story is true and it's necessary so when you have those two components true and necessary you're right here's a New Concept that we never heard of it's called matto The Hidden gift what does that mean if you are to give a gift to somebody it should be in public and if you give it to him in private then there something wrong according to the what's wrong is why are you hiding it why are you being secretive when you are secretive about a gift then perhaps you already gave it to somebody else you're lying something's wrong why are you so secret I hear it's a good reason but not good enough so secret don't let anybody know yeah there are people are very very secret everything is a secret I got it especially when you receive something you get ausha you get a this and the whole world knows about it I have everybody comes wants a piece I hear it's not good you can't you can't use it as it's not it doesn't work I want you to hide he tells they hide and write thear that that I gave a gift to so and so the mag is Rich when his grandson was playing hide and seek suddenly comes to him crying crying he says why why you crying so he tells the the mag he says because we're playing hide and seek I'm sitting there in my my Hiding Place for over an hour and nobody's looking for me they forgot about me it's very sad so the mag started crying he himself started crying he says was hiding from C all these years and we're not looking for him made him think about that hide and WR so so let's do this line first what what's a what's a hidden gift that he tells the a I want you to hide and write thear and what if he didn't say hide and WR AAR what if he didn't say anything he says WR AAR he didn't say hide he didn't say go in a public place then it's good right it's only because he said the negative hide that's not good and if he was just is good now let's look at the next line over here he's saying the positive I want you to do it in public in middle of a Marketplace in the middle of the street so what if it's what's going on there in order for it not to be a hidden gift you have to tell him dep positive go in a public place and write thear and if it's not in public if it's in if he didn't say do it in public then it wouldn't be good the first case is the first shot is I want you to do it in hiding and if was par so in hiding is no good but if it was par it is good the second way to look at it is I want you to do it in public that is good and if you do it in if he didn't say anything it was py it's not good so now we have a contradiction what is py is py good or not good that contradiction the maybe I should have done a Char for this what's the if you have to if what's wrong is when you tell the Adam to do it in hiding so if you don't tell him to do it in hiding you just tell him py then it's great but if what's good not what's wrong what's good is to tell him to do it in public and if you don't do it in public what it's not good what if you tell to write this in in in hiding it's no good you don't get the the the the guy that that almost thought he got a great deal he got a gift he got a house as a gift he doesn't get anything but it's good enough to be a it's good enough to say that I'm going to use this that if I try to give a gift to somebody else it doesn't work for the second person as well why because I already try to give it to the first guy it's like a in fact Never Said So specifically we were from a story that what first of all I want to say what's your name what's you're the guy that started in Bania what's your namec th Jacob Thomas where do you live ski so this Bas this Thursday we're gonna have a sh ski right sh and ski so wait a minute so when did you start you started with chapter seven of B beautiful so you were with us for the entire B so far Awesome every day where where do you go to school the crown beautiful okay welcome so there's a story a guy wanted to get engaged or this is terrible stuff if you write over everything you own to me then I'll get married to you she was in it for the money and if not I don't want to have anything to do with you yeah so last time I said this uh joke I I got all this hate mails I'll say it again when not this a 80-year-old guy he married like a 30-year-old woman so all his friends but that happens to be he like a billionaire his friend said how do you how did you marry this 30-year-old how what was the trick you lied about your age he said yeah I lied about my age I told her that I'm 95 now you understand why he got the H mail Z no but it's that's what she was she was just thinking about one thing she want she wanted his property she wanted his that's all she cared about so what did he do he's on the way to to to to the guy to the soer to write up a document to give her everything break his oldest son comes he's talking like in third person in other words me Daddy what about me going to give her everything it's a very very famous story I'm not going to mention any here in America this billionaire he's literally 90 something years old he married like a 30-year-old remember the story her last name was Smith oh I'm not going to say your name it's the middle of a sheer and and then he died like two years later he dies and then she wants the billion dollars but then all his kids came wait a minute what about us he he was scile this that it was all court case I don't remember what that was I think she made like two $300 million they said okay go here so this guy comes running wait a minute stop what about me can give her everything oh oh good he thought about it he says you know I have a great idea he tells the witnesses go to there's that says it says that that's where the entrance to G is he tells the ad I want you to hide in so what is this called when you tell the a I want you to hide it's called right it's like the hidden the hidden gift that's what we're talking about hide in and give everything over to my son she shouldn't get a thing so they come to we have two problems problem number one is that it's a hidden gift and since it's a hidden gift the guy that gets the the receiver of the Hidden gift gets how much zero so the sun gets zero why because it was a hidden gift problem number two which is good for the for the for the guy the milliona here by the fact that he wrote this this document to his son at least it acts as a m that's what we said if you give a gift to someone a hidden gift it doesn't the guy doesn't get it get anything but at least it's it's to it's there to say I don't want to give it to the other person so this woman is going to get zero why because her husband told Witnesses give everything away to my son and he did it hidden so she doesn't get anything it was a like I don't want to I want to get married to her but I don't want to give her anything she's forcing me so that's very interesting sh think about it for a second if somebody wants to get married to a woman but she wants all his money and he marries her could could he claim that he was forced to give her all the money was forced marry somebody else no forced why is that forced says it's considered forced whoever so you want we wanted to learn from here that when you write a that's for a hidden gift at least it acts as that he cannot give the gift to a second person say no not true that the hidden gift acts as that you cannot give a second gift it's not true it's so obvious that she twisted his arm she said I won't marry you unless you give me all your money so that's considered says but when a person gives two gifts he gives one hidden gift to to to to Ru the next month he gives that same gift to a second person maybe he wanted to give the gift that's why he gave it in open in open place he wanted to give it to shim and when he gave it in the hidden gift to Ru he didn't mean to give it to him it's not a good ride from the woman because the woman he was forced whereas over here the two people wasn't forced we'll just do two more lines to the mishna now we just said that if it's parv it depends according to what L either if a person says write a gift and he doesn't say do it in public and he doesn't say do it in private He's Pirate so we have one that it works one doesn't work what's says don't worry about it it's okay it's not good in other words the have to say that the guy told us to write thear in a public place because if he don't say that he told us to do in a public place then it's and you have to be it doesn't really work have a wonderful week a wonderful evening for coming tonight every night bem we're going to be here 7 o'clock in Hebrew 8 o'clock in English so if you're English 8 o'clock Thursday night we're going to be in ski where ski Community Klo and also look out for the uh for the times for Tish is one time another time guys thank you for coming