Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 21 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good [Music] morning welcome back all the way from Deal New Jersey how many book signings did you do no no you get new books we don't talk about that the money the we're talking about the yeah of course I know I was very I was every morning every morning the learning over there it's crazy y Mel's in the how are you Penny you made Aliah yes [Music] [Applause] [Music] you beautiful beautiful you get double SAR double SAR this is from a man in Brooklyn New York dear Bell last week my K asked if I could make a knowing I'm part of MD they knew the answer would be yes we also purchased a car recently you see that RI is here sh big news how are you Yi is our official new Co he is going to take MD to the next level after after doing the charity event on his own on the shabbaton on his own the tablet project on his own I asked him if he's Mas him to take on mdy and bring it to the next level bring everybody we have a lot a lot of people doing a lot of things but nobody's leading anyone so and I figured what just ask just ask no but he's for free he doesn't take money trying to save money over here listen we have to handle characters like you also and he could do it he could handle it so bem we're looking forward to a great start and a new A New Beginning for MD BS but where all the different parts the puzzle the the American pieces and the Israeli we have people in America doing one thing we have a uh this different we found out that y see Bak is sending out email list to this and in Amica am they sending out their own email there's no we need more organization B Yi Klein I feel is going to bring MD to the next level and we're looking forward so this is the second time he flew out just for this cause and on his own dime doesn't doesn't take money from MD dear Bell last week my asked if I can make a c KN I'm part of mdy the knew the answer would be yes we also purchased a car recently just like one has to put up muas on his doorpost I felt to get a mdy license plate that's a good one mdy as you can see by the way if you own this car in a you are a multi-millionaire in Toyota Sienna it's 100 425,000 425,000 shekels how much is that in dollars, no no 425 shekel which is 100 100 you could be driving a Rolls-Royce in America for $15,000 here in but every younger man iny has a brand new one of these as you can see in the attached photo thanks all you do and he says like this this a k guy the da definitely changed my life from Brooklyn New York since and here he is dear belly thank you very much for your amazing shear and for making it Lively and enjoyable I've always dreamed the Finish in sh but I was able to pursue that dream until I found your I don't always have the of to pay attention to every word or idea I don't even look inside the gamar but I know that I'm still one step closer to fulfilling my dream of being able to sit down and learn like a mench I wanted to make a little you always say you have a terrible memory which is not at all true thep this surprises me considering your self-awareness and your Healthy maybe too healthy self-esteem you may not remember yesterday's D because of an overload of information but countless times in Sher memories from 3 4 35 45 years ago story is a different story I'm talking about gamar considering how sensitive you are about keeping emails Anonymous I figure I may as well say my name ion Freeman your tal somewhere towards the end ofus Yumi shoner from Lakewood thank you for all you do hi rebelli thank you for all you do for mdy I've been with your Shar since mid K and haven't missed the day since anyways I would like to respond to your story the other day about the guy who only does EO plays four hours of G and says it's not a waste of time I said the guy said four hours a day but is I'm an addicted goer and together with my father-in-law we do K of The Da when we're waiting for the groups in front of us so yes you can play four hours of golf and still get in some learning and not waste so much time thanks again for all your hard work it's very good guy is utilizing his time properly he wants he's addicted okay addicted addicted listen you got to you got to play golf if you're addicted but even though you're addicted in between those hits between those Huffs you got to learn a little Tyra in between those shots you got to learn a little Tyra whatever your addiction is in between all the best yumy Sher Lakewood New Jersey Brown after finishing the last I figured I would learn something else but after seeing all the marketing for mdy and hearing his story I was inspired to start D Again by Suka stay it on for a year or two not a big deal it's one year or two years I don't remember exactly the amount but then stopped after seeing the video by aroz I was [Music] reinspach I decided to join again so here's another guy that joined because of aroz and wow the new videos and slides are amazing yeah it's a big step up from what we had in Suka to what we have today am loving doing the with you thank inspir by the way my brother was your original sheare of eight people when you started in RBS brown brown I don't recall either there's a lot of people are saying that from the we have pictures if you're not in the picture if you're not in the picture you're not in the picture I don't remember this name but you got to you know talk to me before you tell kki that you're part of the thing I'll you know I've cover for you the for the save and Speedy return of all the hostages B you say you're there since BR okay there's nothing I can't you know he was embarrassed gave you a false name oh maybe it's that guy that came didn't yeah thank you sir gabas oh I want to wish a tremendous mazov to my very good friend ripi Bornstein not going to say exactly what the mazov is because who knows people come from All Over America a ma tremendous Ma just say it already what his son is getting married [Laughter] tonight [Music] s oh very close to he actually gave us the when I was the cater he was our official from Chicago in a sixth yard side a this your this yours says whatever that okay we're going with the theme of easy these questions come up a lot especially if you live here inel welcome Penny you're going to I'm going to introduce you before it even happens I I'll let you know what what to expect so this is this happens in America a lot also when I lived in Brooklyn there was a there's a pizza shop on Avenue J and three stores down another pizza shop m not m not okay has if few live there or not oh I hear I hear now another another thing that happens in they like to go around with the speakers on top of the cars are you allowed to do that at the you know 2:00 in the morning let people know he says let's one of my neighbors you're all welcome to check this out you go in front of my building uh he decided that he had enough of the pigeons so he buys a big speaker and puts it in the back of his building and every five minutes it puts out a sound of an eagle attacking pigeons he claims that it works it also works for us we can't sleep so finally we convinced him that through the night it's not a good idea to do that Mas him but from 7 o'clock in the morning till I don't know 7 o'clock at night every five minutes you go by a very high pitch people went over to him asked him beg says but I have pigeons what should I do I said but but you're you're disturbing us it worked so well so he bought another one for the front of the building so now you can go you just walked in a little late sorry who's that is that Ben what's his name Ben Ben get over here Ben where is get over here do they call you bb no Ben Blau should they should they should huh it's it's a good one Ben what are you doing here beautiful I love you father here let's smile for have plent time we're not going to do this after no come on hello not it's out of focus okay okay we got it over here look you ready look over there smile gal okay thanks for coming so is that a problem could somebody tell him to stop you ever hear that noise you know what the noise is some people think it's real birds no it's coming out of the speakers you're welcome to come to my building standing for a few minutes um the story is like this all day long a guy has a broken air conditioner makes CRA the fan is hitting the metal could you tell him to stop it's all night long all night long mice is like this all day people a guy here one block over put a maket but not just a maket then he took over the whole mereset and then he's onto the street he has freezer people are coming in and out of the building day and night stop him not stop these are things that happen here in our neighborhood uh people love to build a su it says you got to build a su sometimes 3 morning you hear Bo drilling it says you got give you know what I'm saying so these are all things that we got to talk about and more there a very exciting D today how much should you hit your kid with what kind of stick with all kind of belt these are shos says the Mna so let's see what a is we got to see this very very simple in those days they had a the houses the doors of the houses lead up into the into a yard and all these yards will lead into a street called a m it's a private Street and that street the M with the the end of it was that K on top that the wood that would lead into the Main Street can you open up a store you see it says over there guy opens up a store in his thing we had an nrow building a lady decided to be she rented from one of the neighbors all the neighbors went crazy yeah you bring people into the building we're not a we're not a commercial building what about parking at then do a whole thing so but that's nothing some people have you know they manufacture wine and who knows what okay says the the you could stop him over here in the r the M says you could stop him you're ruining my sleep I want to sleep even in the afternoon I I can't there too many people but then the M says you yourself can manufacture some sort of whatever CLE in your house and then you're not going to sell it in the because that will bring a lot but the manif facturing process happens in my house I bang away I use machinery and for that the neighbor cannot say stop and he can't say hey you're disturbing my sleep you know what happens I I was also when we did renovation they come with jackhammers and it's really annoying I cuz people do it to us and we hear on the you know across the street you hear everything it's not like in you live in a house the guy does no over here when a guy uses Jackhammer the whole building hears it it like really goes goes through the cement into your ears can't sleep can't do anything for months straight so so these are all shos but you can't if it's in your house the guy can't do anything about it you have a mill in your house I can't stop you and you have children coming in and out of your house can't stop it all right I don't know that we're going to get to any maybe we will but at least we have some idea of where to look where to start how come in the beginning of says I could stop people from coming in and out of the you cannot make a store at the end of the mission says there's a bunch of kids coming in and out you brought kids in there you're bringing the whole neighborhood you selling coton cany I don't know why the kids are coming you're allowed to you can't stop them why can't you stop the but you could stop in the ra says so if let's say in this picture right here there's a on the right there a on the left I can I that live on the right I can't stop you on the left the guys on the left don't care that's so that's their issue but I don't live in your I can't tell you what to do in your your I live in a different I'm on the right so just say straight out forget what you're making just say a different say you could stop a guy from your you cannot stop a guy from another it would be a lot clearer I'll tell you what the is and this is a beautiful Su brings us into the Su of and this happens to be 20 days into B I'm always I mean just it feels like literally yesterday we we just had a see him yesterday and we're 20 da in that's how it goes cuz if you do something every day every day just one little d one little D and it adds up and it adds up quickly what we're talking about is a a guy opened up a classroom for children that you cannot stop I can make a classroom for kids anywhere I want in any m in any why this is a special we didn't have this before but yesh who says was a who married we had during she sent her slave to buy I don't remember what it was let's say white flower he comes back it's not available so go get the next thing he goes That's not available kids are kept on going back and B she had crazy amount of money so she marries as an Al she marries yesu bam she wanted her husband to be a k he was a so she paid Yan so T says even though he's what they did was wrong now how could a marry because K he wasad and then he became a after the K but he says he still it was the wrong thing to do because there greater people he was great he a s but level one is level two and they shouldn't have bought the Kun he instituted as instituted the truth is we have to remember yes he saved is forgotten only children that had fathers would learn t a father would teach a and that's it no rabi nothing father teach son they took the literally it says in that you're supposed to teach your child so you teach a child you don't send him to and if you don't have a child that's it if you don't have a father you don't learn Tyra and they learn the you should teach him that's it nobody else so initially there was only from go out when a child sees tremendous Hees it's so to speak not a red band a of seeing somebody seeing more seeing when I was I remember this I just now when I was a kid my father used to take me to First when I was a very young child to the r then later on what I remember more was heed to tell me he was a m in the mirror in in flap she said I just when we go there just stare at his face look at his face look at the doua that comes out of his face that's what he used to say remember to look at his face you see you see doing you see so then then it brings to the child and then he opens up his heart to learn more and he says I mentioned that when we're learning about that that's the point of you go to why it's a thing that you go to force you have 10% of all your produce that you have to eat in once you see all the and opens up your heart to and and I forgot it would say I just said it back then that then there less inel because more people are going to the source of so through the you get to learn a lot you bring it back home and still if you have a father You' go up your father would travel with you bring you up to if you don't have a father so they made a that in every Province provin 16y old 1y olds will come to learn what is the problem with the 16y old starting to learn what is the problem the problem is if the re got upset with this t helmet since he didn't have any education with authority beforehand he didn't realize what a rebi is the discipline he started off when he was already a older kid so if the rebi upset him he turned around kicked the rebi in the face and walked out there's a lot of going on so his they do it every city but and seven year olds depending on how strong they are if they're healthy sixy old starts got to got and trade them young before I forget because I forgot to say yesterday says said all the time that to teach other people you you you each and each and every one of us we have a to teach other people 10% of your day it's Myer everybody says yes but we don't do it you do it you do it but not everybody does you do it what bring to don't know probably maybe those are the easy ways out to take 10% of your time 10% Like teaches every single morning it's a it's hard so the question is he says without yesu would have been forgotten why would be forgotten how many are there I don't know I don't know how the the percentag is in those days five% how many percent so 95% of C the fathers bring them to theer the fathers teach them everything is good the 5% so there's a few here that I liked is that when one child when one child doesn't learn T it's as if forgot we have to care No Child Left Behind every single child every single human being that's why we're so into getting another that's why Yi invented the whole thing of giving out it's his invention giving out a gimar why to bring another guy to T not we shouldn't leave anybody all these people in that come the the the from so to speak the P the whole thing but they don't they don't learn nobody's left behind so that's why I'll tell you I mean people are asking me and I have no idea what's going to happen if it happens or it doesn't happen but when a few people two people in the same day said and people just mentioned and and and and a guy this this bucker that's sitting right over here came to me a few times after he says listen I'm not going to do well in another is I need you to open up mdy that's what he told me the last thing I want to do is open up Yeshiva right now that's the last thing on my mind I think I have enough on my plate with the T and everything else to open up a is but maybe I'm just saying to to to save another B another struggling American english- speaking B in so many of them got new huh ah yeah yeah I didn't tell him about it yet e in no don't worry you have nothing to do this you just that can't on the da don't worry about this it's a million dollars a year what's the big deal another we do two charity things anyway we go I I have a very very um very serious presses I already have 20 people in line to be rabim you take money by the way you're free if you're free we'll talk no I'm just kid that's another thing yeah first I have RAB I just don't have him yet everything is good all right anyways hopefully I don't have to open up somebody else will open it up so this is very interesting let's see if anybody remembers do you remember who is we had him in this anybody remember yeah's grandson great very good he went out into the garden how do you remember that Dr first I like the way you said it heon but what's with the hyon once I'm talking to you about this stuff why do you tell me when is class there's no CL there's a Shear all right Dr but it's unbelievable I'll tell you that last night the guys it took them a few minutes and one guy said the guy from the garden but you said it both with this great and he's the one that R said what are you doing in the garden what are you do you have to tell me them he says I haven't taken a vacation in 1 years you P caught me first time you caught me but you should know I'm still thinking about my okay so that's the wow very nice very impressed that's my neighbor he lives two two floors below me not the one got the huh not the one with the p no no not the one with the p do you hear that noise all the time all the time you do you did you ever speak to him about it you know better okay yeah he's a don't deal with the little kids take the six-year-olds and you have to stuff them like feed them like a bull here we even have a stickle picture oh hold on get there so I wanted I thought this is very nice no cuz he's it's no the gamor very look look closely look look closely I'll show you why you see what he's doing he's pushing the gamor so I thought it's very he didn't tell me to do this but I saw this what does this look like this looks like AI right it's a AI picture right so here here this is this is the original it took this is what AI gave him it took over an hour to get from this to this look closely look at his mouth look at his pis pis are fake look at his tie and his shirt oops his pants are black the titas the gamar letters on top of every page in the kids the the Y the kids are wearing kids takes a very long time to go from AI to but so it goes like this so I have to say this I'm going to stop here and say I said this a few times got to say it again we we learned this gamar once this idea and I used to translate it because I speak Yiddish I used the word of stuffing I used it in Yiddish and did not come out very on the spot I realized I turn colors all thing a guy a big took that clip and put it on a reel and I over and over and over and he sent it out so I thought that's it you know she is over this say such things in in middle of she and then a guy comes here maybe I don't I don't remember how long ago over a year ago he says you know I'm a therapist and I brought over a 100 people to the shear and I only came to the shear because I saw that clip remember that clip I said oh do I remember that clip yeah he says that's why I came I was I was intrigued and I came to the shear I said but you didn't bring 100 100 is like 400 in the G he says no I'm I could be a that I brought more than 100 people to this year part of my therapy is I I do a certain thing he didn't want to tell me what they have to watch is year they watch and then they they they don't come back to me that's that's what they do okay galic that's Story number one story number two is Mark ashkanazi the whole story he made me go to doctors he said if you make me go to doctors I'll go to doctors you have to bring me $10,000 for the charity event because these doctors are costing me it's no problem so anyways he brought me to one of his friends and the friend gave us $36,000 how you doing Mark I'm not going to say his name here he gave us $36,000 and during the conversation the guy says you know why I came to your I saw that clip so sometimes when you think it's a bad thing it's bad publicity at the end of the day brought over 100 people this year minimum plus the $36,000 okay go there what you to say I I don't think it's no it's when it when it happened I'm not it's not appropriate next say years old when m one but we'll see here there's issues about going to school going to but also no but look look here there's issues of going to school and staying in scho let's see listen to this is gon to turn everybody upside down when you give a kid a whack don't hit him only use a shoelace do it lightly so first of all before we go into what's going on here first we'll do a little this is um yosi's quarterly Reish a master sheares his secrets and here's the kid shaking like a leaf and then he gets a whack on the head cuz he learned the su he doesn't know and and now he has a shoelace okay so without going into Ash there's a there's a very strong ashfa that goes on in our days a lot of us went toer I know meni and the guys from South Africa the rebi had a cane and they there's a cane and used to get whacked over the back and Hell the back okay whatever and the head my reab one of my reab had a stick and he would hit us so hard you had a Mark here for four or five days we had a lot a lot of Our Generation had a lot a lot of Trauma from this and I I think that that one rebi beat up a kid so bad he broke his bone broke his bone one thing is clear from and everything you can't hit a kid hard another thing is clear from Al that maybe and there's a law there's rule there's laws legal legally it's not it's not okay to hit today but my question that I think everybody should ask themselves is why are so many people so 95% of people are so opposed and zero tolerance to any sort of hitting in at home is it because of a and and the law of the land or is it the right thing to do that's what everything everybody should ask because I know a lot of people say absolutely I never touch my kid ever ever and then you think to yourself maybe that's a lot of a lot of the issues when a kid doesn't have in the back of his mind knowing I know my father beer barely hit me but I knew that if I oversteep the boundary I saw with my own eyes I saw kid punch a 10-year-old kid punch his mother in the face so what do you do you give him a timeout for five minutes a nice ha time out I want you to go to your room for five like a three-year-old that jumps in the street in front of a car but it's against the law what but against the law oh the parents deserve now when I was in Chicago the biggest psychologist in Chicago at the time and he used to write a lot he should have a um he I used to argue with him and he told me R and I said this a few times R said it's AER to hit a kid it's a and he wrote it so I showed him R I brought the safer to I gave him as a gift and here it is Page and I'll show you here I'll read it together with you I love this it's a great R said never to a child okay here here R writes P some crazy situations that you could break the rule I'll give you an example at night when the kids have to go to sleep a few kids at home they all yell the mother's very tired oh in this crazy situation a few not one a few smacks in the face and then that's a situation that you allow to hit otherwise if it's a normal situation then you shouldn't if you see your kid walking by you shouldn't St patch him in the face but if it's emergency let me again what's an emergency it's a night and the kids are screaming oh kids are screaming a big a few patches in the this is your revolver who said you shouldn't hit a kid at all is this is first aid and I'm not talking about this crazy situation anyway everybody take their own thing everybody listen I have these crazy arguments with my daughter who you can't say no to a child you can't hit a child the kid should grow up normal I don't know all right anyway it's funny Raa Feinstein himself Raa Americans ra says don't use a giant belt but you should have a small little RS he writes a small RS a small little small belt okay that was already a long time ago yeah that mean okay years okay they say every once in a while a good anyway re re writes I don't know where he got he says in Italy you'll see there's less crime because of there they still hit their children to your right vitim anyway I don't have children that age that I could patch once in a while I patch my but that's he's he's 30 so it's okay the Ki KI a child who learns is great what about a child that spaces out like this what do you do with him leave him in the why because eventually you come to learn another shot is the says because if you kick out a child that doesn't learn the other children are going to want to follow him it's not good for the other one of the people in the wanted to or a blood Letter A Weaver so here we have they cannot be a rebi if you want to be a rebi you want to open up a school in the they could stop you we're talking about the a non school that you could stop or teaching non Jewish subjects I have a great somebody sent me a G picture of somebody opening up a special store in his backyard this is in M New York where boy say take a look at this this is galic he opened up a matah bakery Factory in his backyard he took a bus and he says he told the newspaper the interviewed he saids buses have to be fireproof no because they have kids on them so I figured I could build a matah bakery in my bus but the neighbors called the police cuz they smell it crazy smells coming out it there big a lot of and here we go here there's a whole 20 20 workers in this Factory in the bus in his backyard so some of the Goa neighbors didn't like it so much they complained they said it's aish in the neighborhood to have a mat Bakery it's what it's a not a pass it's a that was fast that was fast you could stop him we'll laugh later we're talking about school again same thing you have a house in again what's a what's a house uh no not this one everybody knows what a house in a is right so but I'll show it anyway no I thought oh here the bias the house leads into the which leads into the ma you have a house over there you're not allowed to rent it out to a I guess they used to do the brist in his house he wouldn't go to the blood Letter A lot of people coming in and out to get their blood Letter teacher and not a non-jewish teacher so again it's says you could open up a school in your back yard you can't stop it over it says you can stop it what does mean check this out right now says it means the the one in charge of all the other I called them what's interesting is that on a says something completely different means a and what's very interesting is that from at the end we just learned it means Barber remember was we were talking about said gingi so on our two different from you don't bring a child from one city to another city you don't make him travel but you can bring it from one sh to another and if there's a river between the um to get to the sh wherever he has to go you don't bring him over the river why he can fall into the river and die VI and if there's a bridge here let me show you a bridge real quickly this is a bridge from Italy I don't recommend it unless you love Heights at a certain point is over a th000 feet above the ground in Italy it it's basically it stretches from one Alp to the other from one m to the other it's crazy crazy situation then when the big gust of wind came we all started flying this way and that way is a sound there is sound don't want to hear it yeah you don't want to hear me it's in Hebrew that's that's my lzi today he's uh 18 years old that little kid in front of me very anyway so I just figured if you have one of those don't bring your kids to on it they could fall off and it's not a good situation to fall a thousand feet but if there's a piece of wood no it says here if there's a bridge you do there's a piece of wood the bells are showed me that says before the say the reason why his name is Yeshua Ben is because of this line in the G there a piece of word so his his name is not yesu his father wasn't gamla he's the author of gamla he he brought this that if there's a piece of wood you don't bring a kid to if said it I'd say okay very good but the say I'll start off saying that my son right now he's down his some kids left at school he's down to 35 kids in his class he was up to 40 something is that okay not okay I don't think it's okay anyway but what does the gamar say to have 40 kids in one rebi one Reby one Reby 40 kids in a class somebody just told me yesterday I forgot who somebody came over to me that his like a proper school maybe even in America 40 K I don't remember who it was so over it says 25 kids T says it's the minimum in order to force the city to pay for RI you need 25 kids most him learned differently that it's the maximum you could have as a rebi and the P says in fact that in our generation he says it goes by the generation the max should be 10 10 kids per class that's what he says in his generation depends on on the situation and where you are and what kind of kids and if you have 50 kids you need and if there's only 40 you give him a like a helper well not a substitute U what do they call it assistant rabbi you pay this assistant re from the city funds this re that teaches and the other teaches much more he only accomplishes one the other guy could teach you don't get rid of him the other the second re will be about look at me they got rid of this guy and I'm instead and then he'll do even less than the first one says no he'll teach even better [Applause] why when you have jealousy you learn more we have a little bit of a a brand new video of just to give you a a lot of not not you guys but sometimes you notice that um when you you're on a plane and you want to be careful whatever but once in a while you take a little peek to your neighbor you know what I'm saying so BAS based on this idea of looking over to your neighbor here's this guy's watching his movie this guy's watching the da jealous he keeps [Music] on that's the you learn you give K to somebody else the other guy also wants to learn the other guy also wants to finish shots two which one should you hire the guy so when you just read it you have to be careful because this is not the right way to understand it he teaches what does mean the simple meaning means you don't teach it well if you don't teach well you kick the guy out immediately what it means is you don't make sure that the kids know well you don't go over with the children the other one is very very careful that the children know everything but it goes very slow who's who should be the rebi you put the one who teaches a lot but it's not so careful what the kids know all the mistakes will iron themselves out eventually no you give the guy that that's very careful what the kids learn doesn't matter how much they learn once there a mistake a mistake says the very famous story was there killing out all the but only only the males and he left all the females he went to why is it that he left all the what a problem he read the wrong he thought it said in the you should only get rid of the and not he's there for six months one he messed up he should have wiped everybody out what are you talking about says DAV we don't read it like that we read Z don't no remembrance no no Z of them nothing should be left to them know I only recall I remember my re teaching me Z huh why he say before no no his name is y no cover he went to his re and asked him how did you teach us he said the way we say it took out his sword he wanted to kill him why you killing me cursed Do's job negligently which you did you wen't careful to make sure that I the tal know how to read it correctly I thought it's so it says let me be a curse you don't have to take my head off I'll live my life in a curse on I have a problem it says the person who prevents Bloodshed is going to be cursed I have to kill you some say he killed his own re a thing here so he had a TI on him and because of this thing he he made a mistake he didn't kill the in I don't understand exactly to me I had a simple KAS but I think the might be addressing it in a way didn't he go to he didn't hear is nice and slow that that could be that once you have a mistake that you're ingrained in you repeat that mistake I see a lot of people in daving you hear them saying Mish real mistakes they don't know how it says in the S and everybody says it once it BEC didn't he know what sh did oh that's the asks what is asking that didn't he knows that you have to wipe everybody out so they he's TI is because and that answers the other question says because it saysed he wasn't finding a he thought maybe this is only this was I don't have to and that's where the mistakes occurred and the Turning of the D is sponsored turning of the D is sponsored by Life share Community protecting family today before tomorrow's unexpected loss we have to say the brisket joke the the brisker said that he heard there somebody that that hears z z 32 times so he says I'm 17 times is enough yeah you want to hear Ashi a guy came over to me in he said lately your jokes are very flat she's going to pick it up listen to this good thing somebody who teaches children we had this in a person who plants Vines The Vineyard a Butcher and the person who lets blood these are things that if you mess up you kill the person you you mess up being a rebi you harm the child and over here say means a you write the wrong type of get you do the wrong thing you mess up they're all warned pre-warned you don't have to warn them anything that you do it you can't take it back it's a terrible loss as if you warned them says tyus we said it over there as well what's the big deal let's let say you teach a kid the wrong R holds it'll iron itself out so why is this guy such a bad guy this know why that 10 seconds of a mistake is and that hour that minute crazy remember this you teach you give to a child for one minute you can never take that back there's no way it's you can't take that back which we have to say because the shap that were sitting here in his his mother was waiting for the Reby famous story we have to say it again snowy day the re didn't show up so the mother burst out crying says mama why are you crying he's going to come tomorrow she said no he'll come tomorrow but today he's not coming and today is the way to day and that's where idea you have to learn every single day because a day that one day that you don't learn you'll never get back this guy this m man he puts a mill in middle of the he opens up a pizza store and his friend comes and opens up a pizza store next to him know he could say you're you're harming my famous in the somebody sent me more but I didn't have time to like go through says in he says there was a printer who had a print shop and all of a sudden the guy opens up a print shop across the street from him so he goes knocks on his door he says listen do you know where to get paper and ink let me get you the best supplier you know how to do this you know you know who could your machines here let me give you so the guy's son says I don't understand M he wants to open up you don't want to bring him to you going to go help him no no no no we believe that comes from and it's exactly how I'm going to get this guy can't take away from me one dime the only thing this guy could do is help me take away some of my clients take off the workload because I'm going to get that money anyway so let him help me here here's the paper here's the ink here's all the stuff say brings this G this gar and he says it says say you have to make your but you have to believe and understand that nobody could hurt your P so maybe it's a if I put out a net here you cannot put a net next to me why you have to go all the way where a fish could swim how far a fish could run I was shocked yesterday the amount that the arch girl says is almost 2 and half miles away crazy distance 5 kilm 8,000 Amo whatever that is 16,000 feet do the math so is this a r that I have to go so far away that I can't open up a pizza store I can't even put a net no fish are different how do you catch a fish you put food in there the fish come to the food so once they come to the food they're like yours you're already trapped them they're already yours you're going to go after he takes your food and go take it away now you're G of so very interesting questions especially here in I put up a bus stop better than that a guy puts out a a sign making a trip to Miran Monday morning 9: come bus here on this and this corner comes the copper he brings his own bus 8:55 takes all the people happens let's say it's a private company which it is right now these are private companies they put a bus stop comes a guy in advance says Hey sh 22 she so a lot of P say it's a because they trapped they already brought the fish to them especially with the says a Zug but the the say not like him he says men fish you're not a fish you have your PR you can go what do you mean you're in a trap but the other say no since I spent money on to bring you here to this m it's not a fish but okay so before you do you should check it out and this is a little bit of a problem all if you say like a like it's a problem it's not the famous you not to give out candy to children in a store because you're taking away the par from the other stores you make better come to you who are the majority they say it's now you say it's also you hold like that's a problem I we could say that like why they say they you're allowed to give candy to Children you're giving out these kernels of wheat I have I have better stuff I'll give out the almonds you give out chocolate I give out lollipops whatever it is but when I open up a business in my and you come right next to me and open up another business you're ruining my what do you mean I should do something else I can open up a store right next to my friend's store and a bath house next to his can't do anything about it I'm doing in my property I can force you that you you don't belong in my you come from another place as Rashi you're not allowed to be a tailor in my you can't be well we said you could be open up a wherever you want so we must be talking about a non-jewish scho you can't open up any business but if you're my neighbor you could open up whatever you want is the one that says I can tell my neighbor you cannot open up so you said beginning this year so here we have says if I'm a neighbor you cannot open up next to me the T says if you're a neighbor I can open up a pizza store right next to you because I live here okay so we have three situations you live in on this in this strip of we can both open up the same story you can't stop me you live in another city I could stop you 100% the big question is what if you live one block over should uh we have to stop here it's too late rabai have a wonderful day