Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 174 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning so I want to say tremendous to the Hebrew sheer surprise birthday beautiful you could see the leftovers somebody made a cake they had these Donuts they had Cola Coca-Cola with a special rapper mdy rapper they had a special message fromin fromo they had people from America come on Zoom Yi Klein Mar askanazi um the confetti the confetti was all MD confetti the sushi sushi somebody some some wife made Fruit platters another wife made cookies another wife made cakes it was unbelievable so I know the Americans they want me to to you next birthday I will bring to you oh here it is re Bo if you want to [Music] see I was surprised actually I didn't car [Applause] singing Balloons look at those balloons the ballooner hello to the Hebrew Speakers by the way they I don't know the numbers for English it's high but the Israelis brought close to 2,000 new people to sign up 2,000 last night was at about 19 something so unbelievable bem the Americans will out to them on that as well I want to say tremendously from the famous ojba it's a giant uh construction show in New York he's part of the da so he's giving us a booth a booth over there is not cheap give a free Booth we are actually looking for people to man the booth and he has a base measur and the she is going to be playing all day long different different I mean hour she but different times so check it out a tremendous is I have to remind in America in bar Park to on Wednesday we're starting San hedin live at the ballroom it's it's uh Rabbi what's his name again the guy the not Webster Carr Carr yeah car what's his first name terrible with names I said I said it's the same place as last year that's a ter Golda no that's also his Hall but we're doing another one in the ballroom the ball room that's his new Hall I don't know 51st Street something um oh here it is boy say you can see over here the special cocacola bottles that had different ingredients it said Gish and you know everything about the shear the whole thing was very cool everybody got a little bag with a with a mug and then different they put a lot of effort few weeks they worked on it so in terms of the shab very few rooms remain in the 20s so it's amazing amazing amazing to have just a few days left and 20 rooms biter is going to be completely sold out this is a birthday gift from schy kin he's excellent in getting gifts I use his gift every single day this one and also the benchers that he got me I told you about the benchers the $410 benchers $410 whoever comes to you see nicest benches you've ever seen so what he got he says this I got you on which is this Friday they do and he said wait do we might as well do sanedrin which the re used to take sanedrin all the time so it fits right in because we're starting saned we're starting in New York a day early on Wednesday it's really Thursday so if you miss the first you could start you could sign up with with this um let me see what I have here Bo this is the in Belgium we're getting bigger and we're we had an amazing inspirational see they were mess last night in Belgium check this [Music] out they have the 8 Minute da the mdy sign the behind beautiful um sh thank you for coming to R I've been with you online for two and a half years you Sav me from falling off the bandwagon mamas thank you for keeping it real interesting and motivating us to learning took me 50 years to reach my first first afterno after completing a half IR man inia three years ago and from there the decision was made to complete a full cycle the da I don't know what PG is's what ah please God pray God okay the DA's daily goal is truly I'm in Hebrew I'm in English the dav's daily goal is truly life-changing and app I appreciate your constant inspiration carry on ra to my rebi rebelli lately there was a Haw about changing non-jewish names to Jewish ones what about he says the guy's name I'm looking forward to shabbat including my roommate eth grade re from official and singing and dancing whether it's or I can't wait to be uplifted from all the speakers very gifted can't wait to see you thereal Handler oh his I think he's reading off a piece of paper I just realized I don't think he remembers me I lived three years in his neighborhood he doesn't remember me yeah the amount of adults I beat up when I was there and he had a couple Schoo with me about it pick on people your own age um he no he doesn't know he has no clue I have to go visit him photo from Gabby spotted at my local pharmacy REO I check this out I think it's very cool mdy daily withell promotes healthy function of Torah Life One da per day fun engageing action pack proven to boost your energy focused and daily inspiration 365 days a year morning or evening caution the shear is heavily addictive and will definitely affect your life um oh one more thank you for yesu truly made my life more entertaining regarding the story said from regarding the I was going to meet my perspect that's the the he um he found out that the had a sh on a certain Su so he learned the Su I was going to meet my perspective that day sat down to learn not a common occurrence pun we learned the brings I went to meet him he's a huge he asked me what I'm learning I told him the then proceed to repeat the whole need to say this happened a few weeks later he asked me what I was learning I told we just started he started asking a few his new Adam some questions on T I had no no clue what he's talking about he quickly realizes who I really am it's been 23 years and he still doesn't talk to me in learning since then after the learning story I stopped questioning if the whole was a sh if the was was at all now I know until I found during Corona I've been going strong return of all the hostages a lot of the guys already left to America I'm assuming Robert is probably in America I know Seltzer left um yesterday and and our camera guys are going today it's going to be fun yovon oh yovon excited to meet everyone at the sh from his grateful family Anonymous from Lakewood asell and for safe trip and thank you to Yi and Mark in honor of his birthday may he and his family be bestowed with all the for giving me back my portion of my namesakes who was born near pich Lithuania alah by his great neew sponsored by kov LC in honor of rabii har stansky on his Hebrew birthday I know that rebi is anti-g giving abas but since it's Hebrew birthday it has an extra power thank you to mark ashkanazi for getting this in Way Beyond the deadline as on I was trying to prepare I have to give for she room tomorrow not simple takes me all day to to do one share I have to throw it in so I was learning late and I see on my computer I see some somebody typing on my screen and it was Mark ashkanazi throwing this in there Bo I go to mdc.com says markazi md.com to see if your local SE is up there there are different places like Baltimore and Cleveland etc etc the art of the month for for rebelling the whole MD staff to continue to make t so many to to special should have a lot of should be able to continue giving and giving here we are on like 20 lines from the bottom so I have a question I I'll I'll give you the answer in a hint what are we passing like in terms of as we had a if you remember we had a PO Casino scene does anybody remember what the end was is as in other words if you do something that huh how do you remember the video the the slot machine so what's this what's the situation a person commits himself to something that he's sure he won't have to he won he won't have to come through at the end so we pass let's see here we go remember the the the whole Cruise thing I'm not going to show you the whole thing don't [Music] worry turns out that's how we pass him so let's think about it our friend men's friend a lot of you know him also from the neighborhood he made an as he made he made an Aros for his friend friend came over to him want to buy a house do you mind signing here no problem of course it's a Mitzvah sight the guy never ended up paying whatever it was the more you this that so this guy learning in Kyle has to pay close to a million dollars or whatever crazy amount of money for a ky guy he finished paying it off last year that's not an he had no hav mean he's going to have to pay such an exuberant amount of money so that's so how how does Aris work he's only he's only agreeing to be an AR if he doesn't have to pay not if he has to pay if if if gambling if you gamble money you can't take the guy's money it's considered stealing because he never thought he's going to lose that bet so certainly not so says the fact that an could commit himself to to paying does it even work makes sense because does work so even if it's something you don't believe it's going to happen you are obligated to pay so therefore so that's why Works Accord to says doesn't work so it shouldn't work we pass that doesn't work but everyone in this room once upon a time pretty much was an arv so that means it's not a contradiction how does it work I know I was arv I know you were an AR I know Benny's an AR on three things right now and he's paying it off three AR Saidi huh what about you were you ever an AR of yes okay and they still owe me the money three years later okay so that's what you say you got to be careful when you do it but a lot of people in this room are I don't know if everybody but it's a MIT right so it's to be an and you have to be careful when that says oh Dr Factor you brought Dr Factor oh we know him he's a great guy he's going to pay us up that gives you such Anna inside you feel big and powerful that makes you commit to it so there b sticks in here it's as if he himself Bor the money and that's how he there's a Kon over here he's he's like [Music] the and if the guy stipulated the Mal stipulated okay I'll give you the loan on condition that could go after you the barer or the AR when could he go after the only first first when the L doesn't have would mean basically property but what else does it mean non uh movable objects that are known known movable such as today a car known objects so if he has known object you could go you can't go after the AR you go after the car you go after his property but if the has real estate apartment you cannot go after the guarantor from the fact that the Mish itself says that this is only holds that if he has property the that is you don't go after the the you go after the the the it seems like the doesn't even make the distinction if he has property doesn't have property you could go after the right away says the no not true the is on something very different the is going to be on a CBL but in fact even the tanak agrees that if the Lea the B has property you never go after the the AR every is going to call up Thea a bunch of times when they see that he's a dead be he's ignoring them then they go after the AR they never call up the AR first that's what the Persians do the par we don't do that so therefore we have to just stick in a couple words it's as if it said these words if you lend somebody money do not go after the first but if he makes the stipulation that you could go after any one you want then could go after the guarantor even first however you have to have another condition that's that's only in a situation where the borrower doesn't have any belongings any real estate or known belongings huh so what do we have here we have two conditions first of all there has to be a stipulation that I could go after whoever I want first I can go after the guarantor and also make sure that the borrower doesn't have property if you don't have one of those things even if I made a stipulation I could go after the gantor first but the Loa has property have to go to the first but if the has property you do not go after the first only second then comes the T and says what's a we're going to see a lot about a c c is powerful uses language like ten give him so a is different is like he's taking super super responsibility you go after the the Kon first let me just show you real quickly this is like the Mas of the you have a regular AR so first you have to go after Thea and if that doesn't work then you can go to the AR now you have a AR with a condition that's we we just spoke about AR with condition means if you want to you could go after the AR you can go after me the M says I I don't want to be busy with Thea I want to be able to call you first is that okay yes we just said that's only if he doesn't have property but if Thea has property you have to go to the L first even if you made that condition if you know for a fact that the L doesn't have any property he lives in a hotel and he doesn't even have a car then you can go directly to the arv another thing is called the AR that we just said so here you can go after the arv right away now we have something else the is going to talk about later and that is that if the takes the money directly from the Mala and gives it over to Thea he's the middleman he held on to the money touched the money then you can't even go after the L even you wanted did you look it up okay so says the on thises even a if the has belongings why are you going after the art of C go straight after the borrower that whenever argues in the is like him besides three places in our case says that if the Lea has property you don't go after the Aron you go after the that is not like him when he's ablon you go directly to the C this is she stole her husband's coat so he divorced her because of that and he said listen I'll give you get on condition that's not why he divorced her but she was a crazy woman so he divorced her she haven't steal cat he says listen I'm divorcing you but on condition you give me back my Cod and she couldn't find it he could just give him cash value says no the get it won't be if you don't give the actual code is not like the other case is this is interesting because what's so if you look over here just made it easy or it says in the okay so that's that's the first in the mishna means the second underlined word r and that is that if a person says I don't have aen he has a case and he says I don't have any aen this is in Sanhedrin is a teaser for another month from now theive the guy says I don't have a and later on he produces a so too late so we don't pass in like says it's not too late and we say it is too late means the second in the Miss I I think it's interesting he says to the guy lend the money and I'll be an Arab so with your because we're starting I'd like to they keep on bothering me um that is in the SEL you have to do another video another so let's let's do it here in she live hopefully it works on the first try I have to do it again it's these are very new we'll do it here and maybe G after I finish just go out to theor and you show that we're in a live share so try to be quiet during because we'll put on the status whatever it is the S everybody have anything that I should throw in there what should I say no no no this this is for San h okay fine we'll just go you don't have anything whatever comes out get in h in your okay I'll try to remember that Rai we're about to begin sanin you know sanedrin has 30 da of stories in a it has the most tanak in all of most of the stories of tanak are inin it has hundreds of beautiful suas we're learning about It's Our obligation to go out there and get another y to learn to every day today my birthday T I want to give everybody here in the room and all ofas from your children knas from your wives you should be to bring more people to should to finish together getan in your headin today thank you all right you guys are amazing so we continue on how does AR works let me just show you it's very very it's galic here we go AR a typical AR has the word lend him money so you could say the word and you could say the following things I'll up give is the word ten so it goes like this ten so if I use what if I say these are all check it out what if I take one word from AR and one word or two the two words from cab I put them together I go like this is he an or is he a cin so is going to tell us that he's a cin why because he says the word cin straight out he didn't say arv he used a weak word of AR give him money but that's he didn't say the word AR had he said then he used the weak word of but a strong word of of that's we're going to see two other so leave that on the screen for a second here it is five lines from the top are all if he the I'll pay back I'll I'll give a question what if I say one word from the column of and the other two words from you mix it up the other way you use the strong word of you say since in this case on the bottom he use the word you right he stuck in the word he didn't say but he said he's a and if he says and he uses the words of he says he's an AR check this out look at this this whole entire chart every single one of these things turns into konas they all turn blue everything is blue besides one eight out of the nine areos when you say that's that's that's the only way you could become Anar and says the exact opposite take a look at the screen for a second oh I'm sorry says exact opposite nine eight out of nine are Aros only if you say 10 you become a including the one on the bottom that has a mixed L of the question that we asked this is what my father said who was his father what was his father's name was holding the son ofar said this is what my father said said if he says such a strong L give it to him and I will pay you then the Mal can't come to the why because in this situation the becomes the himself not true yes there is a concept like that that the AR becomes the borrower but only if the AR holds on to the money momentarily he grabs the money from the Lea passes it off from the malva and passes it off to the Lea then he becomes the borrower and you don't go after Thea I think at least initially we had M last night if he could ever go after the I think yes said no we have to look it up I don't know I forgot to look it up we have a few stories here what what happens when somebody owes someone money what do you do first what's step one step one what do you do you call him up and say could you please pay back what did this Dyan do instead of calling him up instead of making sure that he's going to pay he went ahead and he grabbed his apartment his house from him he threw him out of the apartment what are you doing do you ask him maybe he has cash maybe he wants to pay back before he even was able to sue the he took away his [Music] property something like this take a look Rabbi you're fired okay he fired him he fired the D he right for firing him why so the brings two I like this one I chose this one who am I to choose a but there's one in the T and this one is a little bit he brings the other one what's the other one the famous but this one says straight out if you don't have what to pay why should you take your mattress why should you take your bed the is saying in Mish that when you owe money you owe your bed just maybe you shouldn't take it but you owe the bed the bed is like a guarantor your house is the guarantor that's why I keep on saying nobody should know about this it's a but if you have a million doll apartment in B and you owe money think strong and hard and you're struggling to pay back the loan it's already a year two years and the guy's begging for his money back you have an obligation it might be go ask the rob it might be that you have to sell the house that's your that's your on a loan no no no no you borrowed money well do you owe somebody money do you owe somebody money you have a house is that okay good no doesn't work here nice try so I would never I would never expect somebody to hold on I have I have an email for you one second let me read the email one second where was it oh to my Reby rebell lately there's a hack about changing non-jewish names to Jewish ones what about Elvis you can I'm not making this up here it is anyways let's go vior so says the gamar no you borrowed money you have to return the money there's no what you didn't know you're I don't understand how this works so says the and in a second I'm going to tell you something the exact opposite of what you just said listen to just like you have a guyant his name is Ru you have a bed that his name is a bed and that bed you have to give to the to the to the Mal to the lender you have a house you have to give it to the to the to the lender and but we learned we just learned yesterday in a if you Bor money from your friend you shouldn't go after the guarantor you should go after him first you can go after him second him you dying that went after the guarantor first you don't know what you're doing you missed the mishna in you're fired says the gor so here's a question here let's get let's do this there was a guarantor two friends a friend borrowed a million dollars and he asked his buddy to be an arv and unfortunately let's say it happens I heard it a bunch of times in different situations where a person struggles to pay for a wedding it's very very stressful I don't have to tell the you all know it's a lot of money it's more money than the most people people earn in a year two years whatever it is and you take upon yourself death and some people died there was a guy that died at his own daughter's wedding the guys that died many people have died during Shas it's very very stressful the guy dies he dies and he leaves a guarantor and he leaves a bunch of small children the guarantor decides to go and pay up the loan but he forgot to talk to the Yim who are only 8 and 10 years old says the gamar he did the wrong thing for two reasons this is what the reason is but he shouldn't have done [Music] it so we have to we have to remember this say when there was a loan and it was documented it was a documented loan it's in a document but because these are we treat it not as a documented Alan we treat it as a mil as if there was no documentation says it's a tremendous Mitzvah to pay back a loan but guess what you don't have to do Mitzvah why because they're 8 years old and 10 years old they for Mitzvah they're not Mitzvah yet you have no business making them do Mitzvah when they're not mitzvas so you're going to have to wait here now so that being said there there are people briskers and maybe we should do the same thing that if we pay back a loan it's an unbelievable thing you can just pay back the loan or you can pay back and as you're paying it back like when you give to somebody you should probably have a mind hey I'm doing aah when you say you have besides all the you have to have that's one of the supposed to have you have to have you should have which is a Mitzvah the goes as far as saying that you should borrow money from somebody so you can be kind the Mitzvah of giving back there some people that get married so they could be give back the wife the whole thing what yeah I know those people also there's people that are that mitvah once a week once a day and sometimes they do it the same person they pay back and then they borrow again yeah there people though you got to judge favorably why is this guy buying money because he wants to be the mitvah have to give it back when they gr up yeah of course they don't of course they didn't give it up everybody I thought everybody understood that anybody in this room doesn't have to pay back no he has to pay back when you have a Mitzvah we could force it to shake Force literally Force but listen to this question elv listening it's a Mitzvah we have a concept that for a Mitzvah you only have to pay 20% of what you own so if I owe $50,000 and in my bank account they only have $50,000 I shouldn't be have I have to pay back $50,000 cuz that's 100% of what I own I only have to give the borrow the lender 20 to to buy an only 20% of my whatever I have so why is this any different says the brisar because it's not your money you're giving him back his money not your money that's how he learns it says something completely different he says let's say the Torah says you should buy an srig for $1,000 the th says Hey buy EST for $1,000 and you only have $1,000 in your bank account do we say oh you should only use 20% of everything you have no because the T says straight out the amount the amount is $1,000 so even if it's 100% of what you have that's says the T says pay back your entire loan that's the amount the amount is 100% of your loan so there's no 20% don't come up with any ofas and 20% and all these there is no you owe money you pay back there's another reason why he shouldn't have taken out from so we have a we have to be concerned claim that they believe that their father was a mench and he gave the guy a suitcase of cash and he said listen if I don't come back to pay you I don't wire you the money here's the suitcase of cash I'm asking you not to touch it I need this cash I have other cash businesses but if something happens here's the they could claim something like that so Meo what are you paying back the loan if perhaps there's a suitcase of cash somewhere both R Papa and both raun say raun and R both say that you do not pay back a loan that's owed by young children by the so so thens they both say the same thing you shouldn't pay back the loan one says because it's a Mitzvah don't do mitzvah for y the other one says perhaps per he left the suitcase worth the cash so you have to come up with a situation where you know there's no suitcase of cash when you know there's no suitcase of cash then you're only left with the don't do a MIT when the father right before he died he on on his death bed and he scream out I owe a million dollars to so and so so you know there was no suitcase of cash in the time of the if somebody didn't pay you hear this H this if somebody owes money and doesn't pay back they would put him in and he says no I don't want to pay not because he owed money because he says I don't want to I don't feel like paying so this guy died in had he paid back or had he given him a suas of cash the would have been over so we know there's no Su of cash however soing to you could go after but according to Pap that the is that the you don't have to do a Mitzvah so you still don't go after the even if we know for a fact he didn't pay back oh we have to say turning of the dations for the special shout out today in honor of my uncle official I can't wait it's so exciting I'm going to see you know I'm going to see on chabas over there in honor my uncle see him going to see her and a huge thank you to repr F going to see her people said I said once this a joke I hope she comes she's already in America what are you talking about she's there before me plus all the bras and find and Rob bur of elite Israel real you are not going to be there unfortunately welcoming all the new probably standing with you on your journey to finishing sh together but y will be there last night oh and he sent in that picture I don't think we showed it with his son with mdy socks at the Cel you see the on the back what we did show it we showed it okay no I showed it on the phone I didn't show it on the screen it was says they sent from somebody wasn't paying back his loans and they put him what that we we are concerned that maybe he left the suitcase but in this case that he's there's no suitcase of cash you could go after the and pay back the debt and the AR will get his money back in this in our case the AR paid the debt even though the children are very young under barah he gets paid back because you don't have the the guy was in so there's no way he paid it back and the AR did the right thing for paying it for it say don't forget sanin starts Wednesday Thursday depending what sh you go to and how I want to say another thing I have to say this I I almost forgot because I am traveling to the United States tomorrow night so tomorrow there's going to be four sh it's really the only she that's important to you guys is the the final da the other two are in Hebrew doing da in Hebrew and the first da of sanedrin live from this Bas measure so if you want to hear the first Shear in of sanedrin in Hebrew hopefully there will be room for you the the the tomorrow just regular and should be a little shorter than usual will do it what time is a good time to do it 4 o' we'll do four o00 four o' right in the B what four o' but I do want to tell the I have to say this every time I leave people fall off the bandwagon and the reason is very simple I think I'm I'm thinking about it we're we're creatures of habit is the biggest habit that we have in our life we do it every single day now a day goes by that we don't do it shab the whole thing and you guys are used a lot of people used to come in and I'm here now not here people can't they don't know what to do with themselves so there's going to be a mat here every day there's be bagels and breakfast every single morning it's I know that doesn't like when I go but there's a huge huge in America in fact last time I gave a sheare a live sheare in B parkma with a counter was 1,500 people in one she there's going to be close to a thousand people B in the year Wednesday There's a big crowd a big so that's why I go to America I'm here every day I go over there for suum and things like that so B we're going to have a seeum here a massive seum we already have close to 400 tickets sold 400 tickets sold you hear this we're we're closing it down at 600 bem so at the emerald we'll have but hold it together while I'm gone and BM I'll be back on Thursday it's unbelievable because I'm leaving on a Tuesday night I'm coming back on a Thursday and we're already going to be holding saned I don't know how the math works but that's what's going to happen hope I don't lose the on the first few days of says the join.com join.com bring your friends bring your friends we got to beat those Israelis what are they doing I don't know what they they have like magic close to 2,000 people and this sh just started less than a year ago they brought in 2,000 people signed up now there is over a thousand uh English speakers that signed up and maybe we'll say you know we we're going after the same people over and over for the last few years but you guys have to make a and bring more people to says went ahead and paid the loan and now he goes after the and says listen pay me I paid your father's loan you pay me and he's not able to collect from the however listen to this this is going to be amazing if the Mal writes on the bottom of thear you I I received money from you then he could go after the now we don't have the yet we're going to get there says according to ra who says that there's a there's a problem of a suitcase maybe he left a suitcase of cash but if the father right before he died he admitted that he owes the money obviously there's no suitcase and therefore you pay the loan and and the can't do anything about it they have to pay you but Accord that says that you don't pay a loan of small children because why do the have to pay this I'll tell you why it's an amazing when the lender writes in the his cabal I received money from this AR he's trans he's transferring over the loan to the AR now the AR becomes the new borrower he's the borrower it comes a real star until now it was a mil because we view it as a mil but now it becomes a he's the he's holding on to the star he goes over to the say pay up why he becomes the new the new malva the new lender you hear when are when do we say all the they don't have to when it's a mil but when it's a if there's such a thing and over here became a new loan as if the borrow the money themselves then you know what I threw that out erase that when he is the actual Mala he goes after the Ser directly and they have to pay says the a Jew let's say borrowed money from a non-jewish bank he borrow from the bank and and he had to bring a friend velv to be his [Music] arv the and the go went directly to the guarantor and took money from him before they even went to the orphans this what they said in the ACC to that says we have to be concerned that maybe there of that's only maybe the borrower gave up suitcase of cash who do you give think about it would you give Joo go a suitcase of a million dollars in cash no the best case scenario maybe gave a guy in your neighborhood somebody know a guy that you di with in he lent you money so you give but saying a different thing since they have crazy Halas they have the Persian Rule and the Persian rule is you go after the arv first so there's no reason to believe that the malva gave the bank a suitcase of cash why would he you do that let the bank go after the guarantor says that goof is the reason why maybe there was a suitcase of cash cuz who in the world would be a guarantor think about it why would I be a guarantor for you if the bank is going to come after me before they even come after you you're going to borrow a million dollars buy an apartment and I have to pay for it so why would I be a guarantor El the only reason I'll be a guarantor is because you the guy that buying the department you gave them a suitcase of cash the logic is the exact opposite their law is you go after theant not for the fact that they G he gave him a suitcase of cash he wouldn't accept to be a so in this case we have to say there was a suitcase says a person is is a guarantor to a woman's Cuba so you have to be concerned that maybe the husband and wife made AA they made a deal and they pretend that the divorce right people do that I don't know if an our societies they do it but I've heard of this sometimes for you know uh government benefits whatever it is for insurance reasons a single parent gets better benefits so people get divorced they live together they're married but the divorc legally the divorced why so they can get extra $45 a month you know and section8 whatever it is there there's different you know he gets his thing she gets her check shtick people do it yeah shtick let's get divorced for one day the guy the guaranteed the wife's Cuba of $100,000 will have to pay up the Cuba we already established yesterday that he can't go after neither nor he can't go after the husband because he didn't receive the cash he can't go after the wife cuz she didn't guarantee anything was the husband guaranteed kids they made $100,000 for says one of the wildest stories in crazy story wealthy guy he tells his daughter-in-law oh you have nothing to worry about you're marrying my son if he doesn't give you theba come to me I'm good for theba raun he had a son his name was RA not the famous ra but he's doing terribly in in didn't have a dime to his name he goes to his father ask him for money his father says get a job what you what are you learning says listen we got to feel bad for this guy can't anybody listen I don't want to do it myself but can anybody in Yesa go over and Whisper to him listen divorce your wife for a day and then you can get the money from your father now everybody's asking the question what in the world a this a the gadar is telling the guy to lie and get the divorce so you get a couple of bucks what is going on here that's what I'm saying it's one of the wildest stories in all do ask and then she can go collect money from her father-in-law and then you get remarried terrible idea don't you know the Mish says that if you do this then a husband in Fr thez has to say I'll never benefit from you in my life and we said yesterday has to be thank you very much us in our days we get divorced in bezin and it's a it's a recent thing maybe I don't remember 100 150 200 years it's a recent thing that we get divorced in bezin in those days you get divorced at home you need to wait them here so so if you do it in in a in the street there's no B to tell you that you have to make this special stipulation that the M says you have to be it doesn't even work he can't they'll be terrible if they did this idea that's why nobody whispered him this idea in English they say the rich get richer the poor get poor literally bu a guy has a lot of money he invests in the stack Market he puts in the S&P 500 keeps him growing growing a guy that's poor he's borrowing money with interest crazy interest compounding blah blah blah he has no money the Ezra he said he so poor he said if I so have such bad masle if i s nobody would die and then he had a that his father wanted to give him money he says I don't take gifts his father saw he knows his R to he put money all over the sidewalk and he walked right over it he said what's going on he says I had this today that I I I want to see what it feels like to be a blind man so today I closed my eyes walked all the way to the show like a blind man she never had mle to get money people just don't have that sometimes so says but this is unbelievable we learned this we should remember this himself said who's a conniving Russ remember I said it doesn't mean naked it means conniving remember this I show you this the chart a guy says I'll give you this property and after you die you just give it to the next guy and after he dies you give it to it keeps on going and going down the line says but if the first guy sells it to somebody else then if he sells it it stays by the F the guy that he sold it to so says aay but if anybody tells you to do that trick you're a Russia you're making the last guy in the line lose his property oh so how could a give such an idea that a guy's going to lose $100,000 the father is going to lose the father-in-law is going to lose $100,000 to his daughter-in-law says gamar and this answers all our questions today this guy is a m what is he being so stingy what is he holding back what he what does he have money for not to give his own son but one a son is one thing what about a son who's felt that this guy is in the wrong the father-in-law is in the wrong and if we can't get the money out of him talking to him nicely and saying hey you have a son you have a son that's in learning T and he's struggling if you don't care then I'm going to trick you into paying it um no just uh real quickly it's shakas already fine so we'll just finish over here hold on we'll stop over here have a wonderful [Music] day e for