Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 160 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] I go welcome welcome to all the your name win from flap since since I donated you donated cuas but was before nice nice okay welcome who else what's your name you're not new what's what's your name ab ab Braha first time I ever heard that name wow no that's right I want to say again gra einor and I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm going to speak about those guys later but I want to talk about you for putting together for being there's always that one guy that gets up the and does it for being that person we have a special message we were looking for this he the guy in the center with the white yam he comes to the Hebrew she like where is he now we found him he's in Flatbush this is a monaster how do you say it no mon man is that's where it is so at 12:30 in the morning they got together it even made it the Sparks of a Nation [Music] today looks excited in that one so anyways they made it um a video by liman of the shabbaton last year I think this is the best one that's what I've seen um I I want you to pay attention to the props even like the luus of of you know when the women light candles the the Gate of the gar of sh check this out I think you're going to enjoy this one [Music] so [Music] beautiful look at that background M like the B me wow all types of us strin oh this is this is whatever not not everybody got that I'll show you in a second Dave sharpman half the flags were half was right after o k 7 everybody got that suitcase with stick em merge this here is going to be even nicer sh on the wall the laser going beautiful is not the word I'm telling you it was over the [Music] top that was part of the show this is allab shabas taking Arab shabas so it wasn't now they did a beautiful avdala which I missed out of papier Shear but this is avdala I heard it was nice surgeries end of the year welcome to the ndy First on half of sh schwarzman stanski going to be nice [Music] have that maraz I dance like that I'm not exct 2:30 in the morning want was going a high huh done well listening great Joby look at that look at that was was why you next look at AV Kaman Bo look at AV kamansi all not moving his mouth he didn't say anything he's the only guy he's in sh he thought it's like in the morning he also in the morning like the only guy I looked the should we do that again just to see him oh my goodness watch it again the whole thing no you know what whoever's editing maybe could throw that in I don't know I want to show you this was I did not get this I was very upset somebody somebody put this away from me like here's the you get linen certain rooms get l linen and embroidered towels and all that with a picture of a certain mager that's not me sleeping in the bed a phone St hold they know everybody got a lot of stuff but this is like the VIP so they said don't worry we got so they put it aside and somebody took it somebody saw they talk I don't have these towels unfortunately one piece of merch that I'm missing yeah yeah very sad and interesting listen to this Rai email we're going back to the how the non-jewish people do yusha an interesting point regarding the perspective on inheritance in in the case of simultaneous deaths in English law the older person is presumed to have died first this made a difference in 2016 a case of Scar versus Scar where a couple died of hypothermia their bodies were found only only found a week later when their neighbors raised the alarm at this point the couple's two daughters stepsisters from previous marriages who were such good daughters that they left their parents to die from the cold and lie undiscovered for a week contested the estate as it cannot be proven who died first the wife's daughter was awarded the full estate as the wife was 10 years younger than her husband and by law he says the English law is the older one dies first even though we have no David halter your cousin H belly a few days ago was my father's I watch to get married for about 24 hours straight your voice played in my head all night long now listen to this idea never heard this one before you know sometimes you walk by a house and you can see them watching football or whatever it is on the big screen he did the same thing just with the shear he left his window wide open and played the shear on a 65 in screen so people walk by he says he got at least two people listen to this I watch you on my 65 inch screen with moving pictures and many people walking past my house were very inspired at least two people came over to me and CH and told me that they started watching your D now because they saw me watching it through my open window go out and [Music] get5 if you bring two people to share we will give you a 65 inch screen so you could continue just remember to close the window you when you're not watching this year keep up the amazing work AI keep quoting the moral forers say two people this is uh from gari Ros says it became the norm to learn on the plane and this is not a staged picture he says and this is the famous y I think he's coming to the we said he's coming to the shatan so here you can see a side view of him if you want to know what he looks like now one and only representative in Anor from ANP speed return of all the hostages is reminded that since there's an to eat something special on even on he's supposed to add a something so on a weekday also you add a little bit like a the fourth from his grateful family Alan of my mother the of the and the whole sta to Contin to make so enjoyable for so many were holding by trying to finish up the peric here uh the good news is it's not such good news for but the D is very very short and extremely extremely easy on the very easy side of things so we're finishing up and this is also something that we did word for word finishing up the about the let's see I didn't take a look it was a long time ago that we did we start wow in the in the ks in the wow do the math somebody quickly Al oh my I didn't realize it's so far away 108 to 160 52 almost two months we've been doing the wow I didn't realize it's so long okay we are finally finishing up well I think it was a little bit more challenging those days uh the 100 days that uh prior to that were extremely easy then we had that okay great so says the so I'll remind that we had this Su 100% all look at this you guys remember this what happened this one Trump Towers these are uh in North Miami Beach they call the Trump Towers and there's a sh not a shilot it says over here that Trump Towers Trump only sold the his name he took a few million dollars and he gave them the right but it's not his Tower so now you come there's a situation where somebody purchases from Trump all Trump properties in Florida so he's thinking himself he's going to get Maraga he's going to get and then his main focus is on Trump Towers these are I forgot how many floors 50 60 I forgot what it is something czy 40 massive buildings worth back in the day we said already hundreds of millions of dollars and they tell him uh bad news you thought you're getting a good deal but the fact that you bought something for500 million you only get one place called Mar Lago and the Trump tow is to somebody else is why because it's just the name it's not his he's he doesn't own it the famous myo with two guys watching the news and uh the're showing a guy about to commit suicide so one guy turns to the other and he says I bet you he's going to jump he says I bet you he's not going to jump so they put down $100 and sure enough the guy jumps she says okay give me the 100 bucks she says here's the 100 bucks he says you know what I don't want to take 100 bucks the truth is I saw the news before so I already knew what's going to happen so the other guy says yeah I also saw the news before but I didn't think he's going to do it twice so this is says I don't understand it is the second time in the you see from here you see from here they could say over good story at least once every hundred days or whatever it is from the there was one piece of land that was actually called Trump Towers it's called but it's not really his people call it that it's not really part of his so he said no no no no this goes to the so over here we have argues with why should I give it to the purchaser the purchaser has to prove who who's sitting in the Trump Towers right now the owner he owns it he has so you want to take it out you have to prove that that's what you meant also so look you see how it [Music] says easy question to answer the asked but you see that's the exact opposite that they're going to say look look at the chart for a second now says you give it to and later on he says give it to the and says give it to he's GNA say give it to it's a contradiction the answer is going to be very obvious within the words guy says guy walks into his house he says excuse me what are you doing here what do you mean what am I doing here I purchased it from you and not only that I've been sitting here for three years I was sitting in the Inner Room I lived in the Inner Room you weren't really bothering me you're once in a while I would walk out I would see you sitting there I wave to you what do you mean you made a You made a in my place he tells he tells the guy that had it before the the the guy that's sitting there for 3 years he tells him you have to bring a in other words look at the chart says now who gets it the original guy the guy that was in the Inner Room the guy that there's one guy that sat there for three years and he claims I bought it I bought it so oh you bought it you're the purchaser so you you bring a r let's give it to the seller the guy that's in the Inner Room the guy that knocked on the door and said what are you doing here the other guy sitting there for three years you you're the guy that knocked on the door now you become the might you have to bring the R so let's give it to the purchaser so we have says the obvious answer Rob is super consistent Rob said in both cases is no contradiction it just so happens to be that in our case of our seas the Trump Towers who's the M who's the guy that's sitting in the tower the original owner and in our case that we just mentioned here where the guy knocked on the door and he says what time did you go to sleep AI don't ask I'm asking uh about close to two two oh close two wow very nice so now in this case yeah this one over here he says he was in the inner one says ra but who's theik who who's there for three years the buyer so the owner has to bring a r to the buyer it doesn't go by we don't go by buyer and seller says Roba we go by who's the in both cases we have different sometimes it's the buyer that's the sometimes it's the that's the depending on the situation the other person has to bring a r in the Trump Tower case the the owner the original owner of the Trump Towers he's the m in this case of the the the the guy knocking on the door the owner is the guest he showed up from a different country and he's the one that wants to pull it out so he has to bring a r that explains way this is like also when a guy says I'm buying Trump Towers he means I mean Trump properties he means everything that's Trump trump Trump Towers Trump go golf course whatever it is all Trump and now the owner of Trump Tower has to prove that the that it's not that it's not Trump that's something else but in our case with the two with the inner room and the outer room the guy claims what what does he claim I was here for three years three years is no no different than the guy says here's myar what's K means this is my proof typically you have to hold on toar for 3 years if you're in somebody's house for a little bit over three years now you no longer have to carry a star with you you can say I was here for 3 years so he has AAR let's let's pretend he had AAR more than a he has AAR somebody comes and knocks on the door this is my house I have AAR okay let's see if it's a goodar bring it to bz let's let's be you have to prove that the is a good and therefore it's not a contradiction it makes a lot of sense why said in one Cas in the other case he said completely different topic we're not talking about Yas we're talking about G now why is it here in this see it's not even a get could be any get in the time of the there was something called a get M there's a regular get or we're not yeah it's all documents this is a regular get there a real get hard to come by right we had to literally twist somebody's arm to write this it's illegal to write a get in Ro if you're not going to if you're not really getting divorced so this illegal for this year um there's a get Miker a get M I'll I'll show it describe it that was something that was done in the time of the earlier t and slowly it faded away to the point where rebi who wrote the mishna was a Tana didn't seem to know what it was and how it works by the time that were over especially in the the beginning of the there's no such thing as get M today get m is illegal because we don't know how to do it if you put the aid in the wrong place and where to put this and how to write that you do one thing that's wrong and the woman is not divorced and thear is not a so we don't have get M it's not even a topic for us yet it's in the time of theor we have to see how it works so I want to I I have to just before I came to Shear somebody sent me a voice note which was very mic and this is typical mdy guy from the she he took it upon himself to make sure that a certain Yu we call them a Yu family could come to the shabbaton because he said that he's his M he met him at last year's shabbaton and they came extremely close they speak every Friday and he took upon himself to to come to shabbaton to the point that somebody else and he kept on going with this message he said that somebody else wants to donate his own room he can't afford two rooms he wants to give up his room so that another family could come so this behind the scenes things are going on this guy's raising money for this guy this guy's raising for this guy guys he said I just want you to know what's going on with your you know who you are and I don't want to mention any name so that there shouldn't be any anybody shouldn't you know maybe somebody will be a little I don't know uncomfortable or whatever so again this I don't know Gary if you could zoom in here this is a regular star I'm going to point over here where to zoom in let's see if you can zoom over to my finger Donald Trum Donald Ben Trump a get for Donald Ben Trump and these are the signatures on the actual star so this's a regular star you could sell a house like this you could write a divorce this is 12 lines probably 1 2 3 four 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 get is 12 so 12 lines giml plus test that's why it's called a get but anyway fine who signed there okay whatever fine ah gearar gear is he here I got it okay that's we know what a get p is this is a get what is a get Miker so get Miker let's see we'll do a little demonstration and it's deliberately done so that you you go real slow okay so this is a blank piece of paper you write some words on the top you try to make it into a fan so you go okay fine it's going to be hard for him to don't mind my handwriting some words here you right the date yeah you take this and then you fold it fold it like this nicely Okay so these are the words right over here and then you need a signature on the other side of the words over here so you take it I'm going to sign my name okay right on top F signature now we go like this let's see if I can find it here H it's here somewhere oh yeah it does need to take time here I move it here you take this and we're going to be Masher we're going to tie it down we're going to we're going to sew it so you go like this yeah I'm tying it nice I'm going to go over here ow careful yeah I got to be careful to be so many times that's right used to be embroiderer you want to do it for us you know how to do this went 2:00 oh forget no not too far close to close all right fine fine right boys here we go we TI you so today you don't do that you just go like [Laughter] this fine oh God I love it you sting clothes you got to be Qui yeah next what are we writing here oh Donald Trump is divorcing his wives he WR Donald O the first this is the first guy Donald Ben Trump all right here you see Donald Ben Trump now we're going to fold it hello okay now right over here it says Donald over here so now we have to sign over here okay you're guest here you sign sign right over here take your time I mean we're doing a get M cusher over here it's all about taking up a lot of time so we have Donald over here we have his signature over here and now we're going to take we're going to sew it is man sewing maybe we put a few over here also why not okay one minut now where's my pen right over there watch your finger okay Brooklyn is in this takes place in in ah Bronx I'm just going to do Bronx having a yeah yeah there's more words so now we fold it again like this and like this you see it looks like a fan a little bit now so now it says Bronx over here so we have to sign a name over here this is the third Aid here you do slow slow slow how much time did we take up already I explain to you why oh so now we have this with this we have to we have to tie it hold on where's the oh the stapler this oh like oh like this okay imagine if I had a s the whole thing be much much Val this part over here abai this is where they write the the regular language of every get the it's called the tyus so write tyus oh my my pen is coming all right tyus this whole are is tyus the area that we wrote on top is called the Ty with a with a tough this is going to be the standard language the top part is going to be the special language the day is unique to today Donald is unique to Donald Bronx is Bronx the rest says you are m to the world blah blah blah blah blah blah blah so this this RAB right over here is a get M why as the is going to explain it was designed for khanim who if they divorce their wives they can't remarry that wife and it's to slow them down to calm them down they have well we'll see in the gamar so we we deliberately another Aid another Aid another sewing kid this could take a whole day to do this and by that time he already calms down now let's see the Mish uh yeah when you have a regular star let's get thear this one this thing was not cheap this is a few hundred dollars by the way a regular star the are inside M this guy we the ad on the outside the are over here behind the words the words are inside the on the outside if you take this this kind of regular or get and them sign over here obviously it's POS but if you not but and if you take this kind of get and the are inside it is POS just like a POS that you put on the outside so we had once in the beginning he might be the regular some people say it's the regular or even spelled with a he sometimes the over there says that a person should not put extra fear to his family don't be that CU one time because of this extra fear that he did he almost ate a here we have the the gar right over here that we remember how do we remember he came home and there was like a thigh of an animal missing it like where's the thigh and they went they they they cut off a thigh from a live animal and they put it in no we found it we found the pulit and uh he almost ate every just to be clear over here this again this is the T the top part the is the the the bottom where the regular L is whatever and are in the bottom we have Gary andash this is a guy sewing this is the new stick from AI you put in a picture from Ai and then you get this it just like adds little interesting stuff there's a funny one later coming on okay says says the he argues ker if in this this tied downar you put the adom inside it's koser why it's very simple what if you ripped it open so now it becomes a regular a regular get and it has inside what's the is gon explain what that means it depends where you live it depends what the is get and this is also super simple everything is simple today get you only need two on a regular get this get you need minimum not three minimum three if we were to go and make another fold you would need a mendi to to sign it you need a fourth a every fold needs eight but there's a minimum of three and if you do two instead of three it's posle this is it's like not a play on words if you have a regular get with one a obviously it's going to be POS both types of if you have two instead of three it's posle says we're going to bring three sources two of them are super similar how do you know that there's even a concept of get culture how do you know there's a second type of get there's a regular star that has has two and that's it on the front where do we come up with this whole thing told you're gonna go to G but don't worry you'll be back very soon tell cl to buy real estate the N Ro and this will emphasize the point that we're coming back we're not going for a long time we're coming back but he told them how to do it make sure you have AAR put it in a sealed thing that the last long sign it up say what is the the what does it mean if you read the what does it mean you shall sign but that's not a means to who said seal it means to seal so therefore the gar understands from this word that it means to get makush you sealing the get you you're sewing it up you're sealing it that's get we're going to do the Turning of the dation oh oh no you yesterday said last day you paid no attention I did pay didn't you didn't tell me that we're going back to talk Innovations I love him dearly but we got to chop it down to two lines inal my re is to say your name every day we'll say it once and that's it a thank you to and that's it we're going to stop there husband CL for with oh listen to this one Donnie fine and Rob ER of that's how you pronounce it of elite Israel reality welcoming all the new probably standing with you on your oh come on probably standing with you on your Aliyah journey and finishing sh together finishing sh together will do Donnie Aliah nothing wrong with it it's not only nothing wrong we like it what do he say who said he said D I should do it a guy a guy was here a guy a guy that came to sh yesterday he walked me home and I'm almost home says could I ask you a personal question I hope you don't take this the wrong way I don't why you don't make Aliah I was like what do you mean I don't I live here for 11 years no you didn't make Aliah I'm like I didn't know that you like if you live in you don't make Aliyah you didn't make alah in certain circles if you don't make alah you make alah you have to make alah no you don't you have to live in ouro all these they didn't make Aliah sorry you pay taxes though don't get don't get involved with taxes taxes Aliah make alah when the Jews pay taxes what are you talking and he told me he told me he leaves the country for seven weeks at a time he works in America which is galic has the best Solen Bice of anybody here in this room he leaves besides zi who also Lees here you also leave for seven weeks at time the three of you could compete proud and and then I said listen I have more I'm more alah than you I don't go I don't go for S no he's Al Al I'm a student here means to seal this is it what does a mean here we have the in case you want to see here it says he didn't we should actually make the words also different colors you see that because this is KOB threw this in for us two different words a is two a is three obviously it's not one it can't be one you can't give us you can't give a one it must be that the two are for regular get and three are for the maker get as the who told you maybe this get right over here requires two a and the simple get needs three says thear the answer we're going to say three times this answer that's why I'm telling you it's a super easy SU since you we take a lot of time deliberately you have all these you have to sew it and you have to tie it and you have to do all these funny things so that makes sense that you're going to add another Aid and now that we know the reason I already cheated and I tell you the reason that we don't want we want the Khan to slow down so it makes a lot of sense that this is a slowing down kind of document add as many amm as you can this guy until he finds his pen until he knows how to sign his name takes time so that now we're going to have that answer three times says very similar from the same story of but a different here's the if you want to see it inside that's a simple that's the regular star the regular get that we're familiar with by the way the med says that didn't want to destroy as long ASI was in so therefore he made him go out and buy purchase the the field from his cousin who was in an so once he left an then he he was able to destroy there's another measure that says that they were good friends are very good friends and they made a deal listen I'll give you a whole day or whatever it is to take all your people out whoever you can take out you can take out the problem was that when he came to destroy he wasn't there he's an and unfortunately the deal never happened this a question on it it seems like was they made the deal not inis the field wasis okay says the says mean sealed right not Sign Sealed what does mean this part right over here what we call the that's the the this doesn't have to be swn right maybe I didn't emphasize this bottom part is not swn this is the tus this everybody has so this remains open this is the the revealed part in yish is a word inter inft in English it's underwriting it's not under under hold on hold let me let me finish let me finish my sentence please in yish again in yish is a word called inter in English there's something called underwriting so perhaps it come like but the inter in German it could be it comes from that M like there there's the writing on top and then there's the underwriting today we use the underwriting for something else you underwrite something but the and underwriting from this says what does mean these are the differences between a regular and okay so what where are the differences one of them has two one has three one has the the has the on the on the regular side and the other one has the on the outside maybe we should have three in a regular get two and a once we made it slow we make it super slow with X-Ray when you read this everybody has the same question you'll kill a man based on the two witnesses or three Witnesses why do you need three if two is enough why do you need three I learned this idea that a get M needs three from this that's that's what it means regular get maybe it means that a regular get needs three and since I am trying to slow it down so I slow it down with other says you think these three are for what you just said no each one has own is trying to tell how to do it the best way we're going to G we're not coming back next year we're coming back 70 years later whereever who knows where the a are going to be then most of the a might be in a different world make sure you have good documentation make sure it lasts make sure you have rias that your suies are there and that you can come back to them about the that was the exact we want to tell you what happened that he bought a field from what do we do with the the three what happens if you have here the famous picture just this one is upgraded with AI here learning also wear bathing suits by the way the we we added the ti the whole thing they have MD and they sometimes the Lum shal also it's very realistic the fact that one of them once had six toes we took care of that it's a bathing stal oh AWI stral it's called awil you can buy it an our merite it's coming up Bo take a look at the third one down take a look at his mouth AI it's he had a just heard a good joke over there all right alic what happened was these four guys said that they saw somebody kill someone come to Witnesses and say we were on a cruise and you were with us we're in a different country we're in Greece and you on the cruise that day it's impossible that you saw the question can two people testify against four people and kill all four of them so from this that's how learns the Rea says no you can't learn from here not that you can't learn it's too simple you don't need to learn that so what does he learn from it he learns that what if you have three witnesses that come and say these four okay these four guys one of them we were able to prove that he was on a cruise not all four one of them we kill that one right what happens to the testimony is it a good testimony not good testimony we only got one we now we remain with three good witnesses that that say that testify that they saw somebody kill someone not a good testimony why it's one group once you poke a hole in the group they're all out so it comes out a thing listen to this and for me I want to go to Einhorn the gar says that if you're part of a bad group you're like the whole group group you ruin the whole group one guy is bad the whole thing is bad so when it comes to to to and mitv it's the same thing if one guy buys bagels for the whole she and you pitch in you give him 20 shekele whatever it is it's as if you did the whole thing also it's not oh I only got 20 shekel worth so every one of you I don't know raise your hands wherever you are for participating you twice in a row you twice in a row ah you want to take credit for two days ah if you did it once if you did it again you Pro exactly if you did it once that comes out that you were a helper you did it both days I'll feel what you're saying so anyways if two guys get one guy to join the DA they have the did the whole thing everybody take it to their own thing but that's how it works if you're part of a kabur that's doing a great thing don't look at yourself like oh I'm only 10% of it how much I do no you're we view you as 100% that's how views you 100% just like with bad as 100% you're out the whole group's out you're in the whole group's in everybody you're all part of it um says the gar finally all these r that we brought are not real RI what we call it's a sign from this idea this get that we tied up over here is and found a source to in the that learn we once had I don't remember where it is we have to find it let say that is a lot more than a kiss from I said I found a very similar in no no no no no Hashem deliberately put that P in there so that you should find it and come up with in other words it's not as strong as a but it's very very strong like hasem wants this and he puts this in there and for you to like lean on that POS some that learn like that why did do this who the I know a who else socks David are you are you do you have an anger issue are you an angry kind of guy no how about you Donnie are you angry kind of guy do you get really mad you get really mad sometimes by Nature yes by Nature yes what about you rash only fight with Rashi what about you so RN is not he's a faker he said he is because he knows what's coming up in this gamar David I don't know you're the only K here sometimes the gamar seems to say that have anger issue have anger issue and they're very they get very angry and they could divorce their wives and they have a major issue that other people don't don't once to divorce their wives here this is what asanam looks like there's a few of them but it gets [Laughter] better or this here Bo say how about this guy this is cats I'm P him David you're out you don't have the genes it's not genetic by you not there was one of the I forgot I wrote his name that he said it's not are angrier than regular people did just reason they just get angrier quicker he's a he said they get angry because own patience people too slow oh okay they're not patience so said over from his teacher or there's a teacher that says this and I think it's a it's an important line you're not all going to admit to it but that's because you don't have good marriages he says teacher tells every he says there's going to come a day that you're going to look at your wife and you're going to think to yourself this is the worst woman in the world I have no idea why I married her and the good news is that the next day you're going to forget about it completely and it's all good and that's the issue sometimes you look at your wife you want to kill her or some people like an Arab is going to say katat all you do is three words and she's gone so say whoa whoa whoa slow down R comes flying in there I want to divorce my wife right now right now and said no no no slow down he says no now now they didn't know what to do with him okay fine let's call the calls the and they start writing writing writing an hour later reads out the get and the husband says that's not my name okay so we have to write it again the ker by the time it was over was already he says come back tomorrow this is not working out the guy came the next day says you can't you can't you can't just get divorced like that and if if a gets divorced he M messes up his life he can't be so said let's do this very slow process and hopefully hopefully people so that that's what do we do a regular get takes a very long time it takes a time it takes time especially today they send you back 400 times it takes three years to get divorced ask anybody okay so there's a little bit more special and we don't that's great with a get why do we make this all to do when you do real estate you should also tie like that if you say that this kind of Starin of real estate is no good so people might come to say that this kind of get is no good and then you have is walking around so they said everything is good makush is great have a good have a wonderful day