Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 139 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning [Music] R so you know shabas we were by Shapiro's cver and the individual AI big put together this whole thing with a bunch of tents and this is what the outside of our tent looked like and then he went went ahead he built this himself don't ask me why but this is what the inside looked like it even has me in the front things in the back it's unbelievable all right now we can put this over here welcome welcome to all the guests um Yi kutkin sent me a email in Hebrew I'm just going to read some of the ideas he puts together some tips that he put together over his two and a half cycles of doing the da basically he's saying that Dai is a uh he doesn't explain it but he says you should do the da after something that you do every day like after daving after eating in the beginning of work after you finish work I think what he's trying to say is that D is a habit and in order to make something a habit it's a good idea to do it right after something so after you brush your teeth you do this some people brush their teeth and they do push-ups they like connect a good habit with something that they know and it becomes part of them then he says don't worry about missing you should uh you shouldn't have any holes that are more than two and three da but then jump ahead you should always give yourself like a physical pleasure after like you do seeum you you buy yourself something a little something give you award yourself once in a while take count of what you accomplished how much how many dap you did how many dap are D are left to the um be proud of what you do tell the people around you that you're doing the da it's already 700 da and everybody needs their and it's great when people know what you're doing they could give you you should always involve your family your wife your children they should be part of it and promise yourself goals that if you finish this m you'll do you'll go on a nice trip that's what he says Yi kkin Jacob fredman I'll call him yankle yankle Freedman good morning rebell my name is y Freedman oh his email is Jacob from B Park it's now over two years that I haven't missed a day of learning that's over 700 days of consecutively learning no matter what it [Music] waser the day my wife had a baby trips with the the family Etc anyway and of course you rebell get a special thanks for this and for encouraging the slogan it's not about the D about me my family red their house for after three the excitement of my kids to see that we can play this sh on a big screen was unbelievable see attach picture I would like to thank you again and the whole MD team keep it up looking forward to meeting you in person again at the shabbaton after only attending the M shabas event the last shab I'm sure joining the full shabbaton this time will give me a big to continue going your tal for over two years this is a car spotted in tin now yesterday we spoke about a pres car we didn't know it's a it's one of the best um license plate however I didn't know that his wife has even a better license plate take a look his license plate is mdy MD Y how could it get better [Laughter] that's a m of mdy not bad H May Fishman de reell I was just now by the oil of laich of laich I wasp for my rebi Ellie Ben R called me Ellie he wrote Ellie Ben R Ellie Ben Ral since knows who who ell is your G looking forward for the chabas I was there last year it was an unbelievable shabas your Shar is about an hour it takes me like three hours due to my business phone calls oh he's not saying that he learns the for three hours it just takes him three hours he does other stuff in between I enjoy every minute of it like you yeah talking about that I hope the Finish sh with MD y you're Tom from budha Park another one buha Park b a Buddha Park they even spell things differently mayor Fishman ah I love it you know what let me just read this real quickly because this is stuck in my gar for two months already since this is from I'm not joking is he here today he's not here so I'll read it when Rocky is here I'll keep it in my gar okay fine great we could start learning we have to do sponsors return of all the hostages family L New Jersey because is the best in honor of my uncle we just saw his license plate and his wife's license PL and if you come to the you're going to see bothman I think he's oval no you're to come when you're an OV for shabas not for the shabas we'll see him there he better be there we'll see fishal that I know we'll see extended family will be there she'll be there B I'm not kidding a thank you to reki she'll be there forly giving up her husband to the cloud I'll be there it should be for a year filled with I did not prepare this but that's how it came out in other words if doesn't show up there it's going to be a big problem this whole thing is there and he's not there from his grateful family Daniel dedicated to speed healing Mitch that's how you pronounce it right SE D his friends dies no kids that's what it says dies no kids Byer since okay you can come on the cruise and again I'll say it again for Rebellion the whole MD staff to continue to make on so many The Coffee corner this guy this guy donated $5,000 for eight months which is a lot of money it's $40,000 I do want to mention though that's on top of everything he's done until now yeah that's on top of everything did until now we will still take more art month sponsors because it cost us about three times that amount there three artists CU we have three artists yeah Coffee corner of the week Yan BR she had a large liver issue two years old we're holding by a brand all the way on the bottom check this out just to remind the here's the situation a father owns real estate and it has produce it can be a nursing home it can be a tree with apples and the father wants to make sure that a son gets it there's no issue but he also wants to make sure that he has what to eat in his lifetime so he says I'm giving this to you from today and after death so what does the son receive the son receives the actual real estate the principle and the father gets to eat the fruit so the says simple since it's his fruit he gets to remove the fruit and give it sell it do whatever he wants with it it's his 100% there's no condition that he must benefit it for himself he could sell it if he wants and whatever he leaves in a box on the floor on the ground it belongs to all the sons not just the son that inherited the tree all the sons get to share so what happens if it's not in a box it's still on the tree the Mish says if it's off the tree all the Suns inherit it what about what's on the tree would go to the son that owns the tree says the you could be very simple it says that if they're detached then it goes to the other Sons anything that's attached to the tree since this son this guy on the left owns the tree and it's attached to the tree it should be his but in this situation let me just see where this one so what happened over here we have a father he gave the tree to the son the son goes ahead and sells off the tree while his father is still alive yeah he goes sells in this case he's selling the fruit he sells the tree okay I didn't have a real good uh perfect picture for this but just [Music] so sorry sorry just uh he's not going to get out prob sorry no come come come come come he's just rabie scherg is with us literally from the first day from the second day huh he's he's from the second day he's going to give up a spot on the cruise to somebody else so this maybe like one of the first times in almost in seven and a half years that I've seen him come late even either he's not here I don't know what happened something Happ okay F what happened so what it's not the first sh Shen in this last seven and a half years the's fault okay so we're holding in middle of this that there's a a father who s who gave the tree the real estate to the son the son went ahead and sold it so it says we're holding the top line of so it says that all the fruit that's attached to the tree the guy that buys it the guy with the what is it called those jeans he's wearing the overall what are they called overall overalls they're called overalls the guy the farmer that bought the tree he has to count how many apples there are how much they're worth and give that money to this to the kids to the Y but the problem is if it's attached to the tree we just said that he gets to to keep it anything attached to the tree goes to the one that owns the actual tree we can make a distinction between a farmer with over and his own son very interesting because he has other Sons also but when a person loves his son so therefore the person will give his son the tree with the fruit whereas a farmer or anybody else that comes and purchase a tree it does not include the fruit famous story from famous Marshall it has to do with this week's parach it says describing so I guess the is Rashi over here says the interesting Rashi a lot of people don't believe me when I tell them people say oh a father how could you be upset at your son who goes off to D Rashi says that hated because he went off to D he hated that's what say just and people well maybe rash didn't mean it okay whatever but says said I love the both right oh so what's the says is that had a son that went off and he has a talid he loves his tal he spends all day with the tal and with him learning and this and he eats by him on chabas and best friends and then a fire breaks out in the Yeshiva who's Thea going to save his best friend or his own son he's going to save his son cuz deep down a father always loves his son like nothing else and even if right now he's upset at him and they didn't speak in 3 months still loves his son take it wherever you want to go just you saw in in life you know what I'm thinking our sons should know how true that is they know that truth when they have a son themselves when they're teenagers they say my best friend loves me much more than you Etc the truth a fire when there's a fire then they know the truth yeah okay but we shouldn't get to that M talking about fires I'll say I wasn't planning on say it but it came into my mind I'll say this morning there was a a siren very rear here in raes especially middle of the night and it could be a little scary so one of my family members went running from the was half asleep and hit a wall and ended up on the floor like you know like this is what people say that people get injured from the siren from running from the but from the panic but just again I said this once and somebody wrote me an email says what do you mean us Americans don't understand what you're going through of course we do how could he was upset at me B wrote me a nasty like not a nasty but like it was not nice it was condescending that I said that America no I'm going to say what condescending condescending what did I say whatever okay you know what I'm saying the point is stop screaming at me who was the Epic Center whatever the the the point is no one could say that they understand what it is to have a son in Aza or in Lebanon when they don't have one you could say it as much as you want oh I understand no you don't and nobody could say they understand what it means to to live uh in in England when when when you go on a train and they and they no you don't nobody can understand what it means to live through a siren when everybody's running and rushing and hitting walls and this and that you could hear it you read about it but you not there I'm sorry if you're not there you're not there yeah yeah I understand so you go go to sh house so yeah could understand how you lost a kid or a son no you don't you don't okay next says the mishna if somebody left older children younger children then the older children cannot purchase what's missim clothing they can't buy clothing off the general account of the yusha you want to buy clothing take it off your own account but not from the general and younger children are not going to eat by food off the general account interesting says what if you ask somebody now generation what costs more to feed a young kid or an older kid say an older kid cuz older kid eats larger steaks this that he says no this this Nash stuff where is it this Nash costs more than feeding a older kid that's what he says so this picture is really for a little later but it's Bader this is the the older kid buying fancy clothes on the account and there's a reason for it now this is important to remember these words because we're going to be discussing these words a little bit that I didn't say but we have to say it and that's I'm not talking about these words they must divide the yha equally these words right over these four words what does that mean if the older children got married so the younger children could get married in other words if the estate paid for the older children's weddings so the younger children can also be married off the estate that's the end of the that's what thear is going to say at the end thear has another thear thought it's thisat let's see so again if the older ones got married the younger ones could get married in I want to point it out here so you remember when we get there that it's not like abstract understood the older ones got married or let's [Music] see okay so just remember these four words who did they get married what get married and if the younger ones say we want to get married just like you spend $100,000 on your wedding we want to spend $100,000 on our wedding oh that's what the's going to explain the's going to ask it looks like a contradiction over here it says if the older ones got married the younger ones can get married a second later it says if theim said we want to get married like you no we don't listen to you whatever the father gave them gave them happens to be like I know of people that saved up money they have a lot of kids let's say they have 10 children they save save save save and finally when the first one gets married they take all their savings and marry off their first child and they're like oops what do I do now I don't have any money left for my second child and they have like another nine children in line used to be a caterer I said the story but raky I was going to read the email but you weren't here you got to come on time man I got to get this thing out of my gamor it's like poking out it's I got to get rid of it so I said this but it's galic just I'll say the whole thing together to meet the the parents of the kala and the kala and give them you know go over the menu tell them the rules how many minutes in the room and then I'm I'm I'm like really really strict about time I used to run a very tight chip over there anyway father comes and says in front of his daughter he says listen I put aside a hundred plus thousand and I'm willing to give it to you as a gift right now but if you want to use it for your wedding you can use it for your wedding you do whatever you want you want to do a $20,000 wedding you'll take all that money whatever is left over over and she looks at him she says absolutely not I don't want any money I just want the nicest wedding possible $100,000 is nothing for my wedding I need more and then and then she she looks at me and she says this is the you probably heard this from me she says listen I always had a dream to come into the Hall on a white horse could we do that I said yeah we could do that and I write down White Horse she is now also when I walk into the hall I want to release these beautiful butterflies could we do that I said how many butterflies he says 50 okay 50 butterflies then says my is very tall and when he goes like when he comes to the bin he's going to go like that he's going to hit the chandeliers is there any way we could raise the chandeliers yeah no problem raise the chandeliers and then I said that's it that's it I said okay the horse is about $5,000 because we have to clean up with the manure and this that you know it ruins the carpet 5,000 what yeah each butterfly is $150 because I have to go catch them afterwards they go onto the thing I have to take a special machine and go grab them and the chandeliers we could do $1,500 each because you had to get a you know a a union electrician and then raise it so $1,500 37,000 no you no no no I don't need the horse I don't need the butterflies I Ker and that was the that you always say yes you say yes and then yes but it cost money she didn't even do it by us at the end I don't think I don't think I know them very well I don't think she did it by us it was in the hill just the the room alone cost more than 100,000 wish I think wish she got married at the end the Hilton anyway fine says theor so no I'm saying if if if the kids say look you got married for $200,000 why shouldn't I get married for $2 200,000 just because we lost our father yeah you got married when he was alive yeah that's how it works when the father is alive he can do whatever he want but now we have a yusha to split evenly now it's the same again there's no Sons only daughters we said a daughter gets a the older ones can't buy nice clothing on the count of theha and the younger ones cannot buy food on the count of theha you split it divided equally so over here these are the four words really we should remember if the older girls got married out of the state the state pays for it and if the younger one say well you got married it cost you $200,000 got married to the Hilton I also want get married at the Hilton oh we have a nice picture actually this is similar to the Hilton usually has I don't know some of them have that uh you know that the balcony on top ker you got married there I want to get married there we don't listen to them so as as was said said it's talking about the younger the older one got married in the Hilton because the father was alive then he got a heart attack because he had to make aass in the Hilton and he died so the second kid doesn't get married in the hilon a CH I'm serious how many stories have you heard that a guy died during during the wedding during the wedding during the at least 10 at least 10 stories that I've heard over my lifetime true stories yeah there's a we could talk about it but it just happened to see I guess it just came out now A B just about this how the r Koo guy long beard the guy from Bak the famous Bak guy Effie he has a long beard he looks galic and he and he guilts the other guy into spending money like crazy yeah this he him and the guy has 150,000 she he put aside to to get an apartment for his son and L said now one what you're gonna get this banned with him what are people gonna say and then he has people from his K call up the guy and and shame him and said what it's it's what you going to have you only have 500 people what kind of this it's a great video you should look at and makes fun of the whole situation and then he this was in charge of getting the apartment so after the both parents they go to bring the and the to to the new apartment it's underneath a building and it's blocked by a bunch of garbage cans and they have to move the garbage cans and there's like dirt on the refrigerator a ker anyway not far from the truth the point is stop spending money like that I tried I tried really hard to convince my daughter not to get married not to do a fancy wedding you you know how much it helped garnishment the more I try to convince it the more people should get together and say like they got they they absolve they got rid of the shabas get rid of at least get rid of these crazy weddings huh you can't make you can't force people people should just come uh Corona weddings 10 people 30 people okay but not as much not as much no no you do it in what's his name that those houses people doing in houses you did one in a house yeah unbelievable so nothing the marriage is good it's a good thing it's good because if it wasn't good I like put you on the spot here and if the girls the younger ones we want a nice wedding We're Dreaming about this White Horse all thing no there's one thing there's a difference between girls and boys if the girls and boys then the the girls get they get they get food but if they're girls just girls then the younger girls don't take money from the older girls they get money right at right out the whatever they deserve the older boy did this he went and he bought a fancy suit I don't even know if her man is fancy but that's what the artist thought back in the day yiva huh that was fancy back back then now we we had the sui once and the point is when you're in charge of the business of the state you need to look you have to dress well you can't come like a slumper and uh hope that uh somebody's going to take care of you and and and listen to you you have to look presentable and therefore he bought clothing you shouldn't but if he went ahead and he bought clothing without asking any questions going against the rules then what he bought we we come out of the state there's a story with Risha that he came to a city nobody knew who he was and he came with tattered clothing and he asked for food and nobody really gave him food the following year he came again but he was wearing a nice Becket so people respected him and they gave some guy gave him kogle so he took the cogle and he put it in the pocket of the B so the was like what are you doing reab he says last year I came here nobody gave me food this year I'm the same I was last year but they gave me food why did they give me food they gave me food because I'm wearing a Becka so it's not me it's the Becka so I gave the cookle to the Becka but wait a minute we just we learned an our M that the older child should not buy a suit off of the estate say we're talking our mission is talking about a guy that's not a kid that's not in charge of the state he's a a battlin he doesn't do anything so if he he doesn't do anything why should he get Nice Clothing he plays video games all day he doesn't go out and and and do something for the state so guy like that he should get clothing should buy the nice Nikes whatever they are says if he doesn't do anything why what's the that he should take clothing off the estate the younger children they don't want their older brother to look like a too bad you don't take money off the estate it's a contradiction here's the mishna if you don't if you're too lazy to look in here we did this for you it says in the that if the older ones get married the younger ones could get married a line later it says we want to get married like you what's going on the older ones got married after the father died so the younger one have the same privilege to get married they got married how did the older ones get married from the state it cost $100,000 so the younger ones also take from the state $100,000 there's a there's a organization here in I don't know if anybody needs it or everybody wants it but they try to bring the cost down some people go a little bit overboard and they you know each side should bring up half a million dollars so $180,000 with the apartment with the wedding with everything everything 180,000 she it's a lot of money still but they put a limit to it and then they have a whole database of names of and if you want to use their database you have to promise that you're going to do 180 and for all your children see even if you have who who could get theoretically a full full whatever it's called I don't even know what it's called you promise you're not going to take more than 180 from each side okay it's called look it up if you need it but if the older ones got married when the father is alive and he want toz and do all this fancy weddings I'm sure you guys I was at a wedding and this is years ago I know for a fact the guy showed me spent a million dollars over a million dollar that night today it's nothing in New York they probably do it all the time but just the music that he brought in from New York and the singers and a million dollar the call dress could cost you know $100,000 you have to fly this one that one you come in Italy who knows what yeah a million dollars for a few hours all your friends enjoy nobody cares nobody cares I'm saying you want give it to the kids you give it and if you're giving that to the kids give even more another million what's who cares about a me personally because I was a cater I couldn't care less oh so the older kids got beautiful weddings it's not fear it's not only are we now we don't even get a nice wedding we don't care we don't listen we don't take money out of the state whatever he gave to the old ones he gave that's when he was alive now it starts all over sent a question to you please teach us [Music] where was it oh you have a woman single she borrowed money here she borrows money 100 bucks what does she do with the 100 bucks she buys a bunch of ice cream and the 100 bucks is gone she consumed it the 100 bucks it's only $100 they're not going to write a document they're not going to write a star no star if there's no star so the lender cannot um go after her property she has a property she has a piece of real estate she has a nursing home then she gets married so what happens to the nursing home it's means that the husband gets to use the woman's his wife's property he gets all benefits the what we kids are words that in pun they don't use we don't use here so if she borrowed she consumed and she had real estate and there's no documentation today it's m the opposite if you ask the ask yourselves you got married your Kal probably had a decent job she's saving money like crazy saving sa saving you're you ow all your friends money right that's usually how it works no that's how work for me I went with a lot of dead into my wedding no nobody knows what I'm talking about no okay here you have a woman who she's borrowing oh well actually she had a nursing home so so here's the question boyes a beautiful question when he gets to use this real estate let's just show this again it's called why check this out it's like plucking feathers off a chicken she comes in with a nice healthy chicken and the husband keeps on plucking why there's a nursing home sorry and the nursing home is worth a million dollars when they get married all the income from the nursing home goes to the husband and if the nursing home goes down in value guess what after he dies she just takes picks up the broken pieces and so it's called now plucking feathers out of the thing if it's worth less worth less now how do we view the husband now the husband right now here in this picture what is he did he inherit this nursing home from his wife even if they're alive and well and they're married or did he purchase it from her he has to have some sort of status what kind of status is it did it come like Hally into his hands like a yusha or he purchased it let's say right over here our case if he's a purchaser since she bed $100 to buy ice cream that's called a there's no it happened verbally Al but the guy could still go after anybody that purchases real estate afterwards or perhaps he's considered an inheritor he could go after the husband's nursing home could could the ice cream the the lender could he go after the nursing home or not if he's a purchaser no and if he's a yish yes we learned so those are the words I told you to remember because here all it says in the Mna if the older girls got married the younger girls could also get married so we learned simple if the older girls got married from the state the younger girls can get married from the state but this is a different shot a deeper shot if the older girls got married to who to a husband and they ate up all the yusha there was a pile of cash when the father died and they ate it up so now the older girl owes money to the younger girl if she ate up all the cash she's AA and she has a nursing home how is the younger girl going to get married she's going to go after the husband and she's going to take the younger girl is going to take from the nursing home to get married the nursing home that the husband inherited from his wife because he's an inheritor but if the husband is a if he's if he's a purchaser how could the younger girl go after the nursing home he purchased it it's too late [Music] so oh so it says sorry sticking a you see doesn't say it in the to to a husband and then it says meaning from where do they where do they get married from from the pocket of the husband of the older daughter why again cuz the older daughter grabbed all the money and she used it so she became a borrower and you can go after her husband's property because a borrower you could go after the bar's even though it's a mve pet you didn't read it well this is how you have to read it both of them have a l there's no me in there if the other ones got married to a husband the younger ones can get married to a husband in other words it's saying you be fair whatever the older one spent from the state the younger one will spend spend from the state but snap shot you go after the husband so says we can't say that why look check this out on the B he says it doesn't say l meaning that the story was that the older girl used up all the money in the state but she had a nursing home from the state and when she got married it's as if the husband inherited her so the younger girl when she wants to get married she's going to go after the nursing home that was inherited by the husband so you see it's an inheritance not a purchase he so the says okay so I want to bring a RI from this case that if there's older girl and a younger girl and the younger wants to get married you see that it's a not a purchase says no this guy what's the whole point when you have there's a difference between a milal nobody knows about and if it there's a document that talks about this the the the loan then everybody knows about it so you could come after even non you could come after movable properties so over here in this case when this a younger sister we're trying to bring a ria the question was on the case with the ice cream if she borrows money and she used up the money then she got married and she had real estate could you come could the guy that lent her the money come after the $100 from the real estate look we have a riot from the left case a younger girl no Riot from the left case why the case everybody knows that the younger girl has to get married and therefore become this call is like this AAR so theid there's no he should know the husband should know that he has to cough up the money for her so there's no R to the case on the right with that when she borrowed 100 bucks without AAR that nobody knows about that that that uh that loan and therefore he cannot go after uh a regularly only okay isn't that something that sent in a letter from Robin take a look at this G drawing here there's a father and a mother and they have a daughter now when the father dies and the daughter inherits everything how does the mother live how does she how could she continue living who's going to support her the food comes out of the estate okay now the daughter gets married and the husband takes over the property the mother continues to eat from the state what happens if the daughter dies now the husband is the inheritor he still continues to to support the the wife the mother why it must be that it is a yusha if the husb is considered a purchaser you don't support people from your property after you purchase a property if it's a y okay it's part of the family and then part of it goes to the Alman she died who who died wife died okaya what how can it's possible why not he gets it is he gets it Asha but it's understands the same thing we'll see in a second the brings from the last words on the so let's see this story he died and he left a daughter and the daughter inherited everything but he also left a wife eats bread from the real estate the daughter gets married she continues to eat the daughter they said exact story happened say that that Mak sense if he say that he's a purchaser why in the world should the Mother-in-law eat from his real estate we need this we have when you sell real estate in it comes back to you on on the 50th year there's exceptions to the rule that's if you purchase something what if somebody gives you a gift a piece of real estate as a gift gifts do not come back on y so let me ask you a question the second portion of the is that a gift or is that a yusha does it come back on y does it go back into the whole path or not the answer is it does not why because the Torah says he gives it him the father gives him as a gift so that doesn't go back and what's the first word on why does yusha when you inherit a wife why does it why does it not go back on because it's a yusha it's a yusha it's not a purchase if you say that a yusha of a wife is considered a purchase then would go back on y to to the family it go back to the to the wife's family but since it doesn't go back to the wife's family you see that aish he's a real yish it comes from y not from buying it so you see that a husband is considered aish not a purchaser I'm oh turning to the thank you bichi family somebody wrote that you don't pronounce the e at the end you do you do and Glen erson dedicated to G Israel thank you for bringing the D to my life either way what's the first word in the that a husband is a we see we see the opposite check this out in this case the case of the nursing home the husband is enjoying himself this every every every month tremendous cash flow he's a b knocker they he's he does dinners he's the president of the show the whole thing the wife she gets zero cover she say enough enough is enough why him it's not even his Nur it's my nursing home you know what let me show him she goes without telling him she sells the nursing home what's and she came into the marriage with it he's just benefiting from the from the from the income so they made it Usha that there shouldn't be any fights in the marriage and women shouldn't do this to their husband usbands excuse me you don't all have to cough with me say the husband what is it called has to there has to be a word like sympathetic coughing like the sympathetic yawning sympathetic coughing it happens in the middle of one guy one kid coughs the whole it's like a whole it's the harmony the whole thing so this I have no idea what I just said so over here you see that the husband is the first purchaser he's the original purchaser then she went and sold it to Mr two you can't sell something it's already sold to the husband he could go up and take it out so is he a purchaser or is he a yish which one is he first word of the says he's a y now we're holding four lines and it says he's a purchaser we don't know what to do I want to show you one of my favorite videos found yesterday there's an animal which is if you get to learn about this animal you'll have a a better appreciation of the it's called an octopus seriously it's it's a brilliant animal it knows how to do things that many animals don't know how to do it could open battles and take food out of a battle it could sneak out of an aquarium crazy stuff it has a very high intelligence for an animal but more than that it has the ability to camouflage itself like nothing it has ink you tries Escape thank you it could squirt ink at you and blurs himself up the way it swims the way it has these it's m looks from a a different world anyway I want to show you this video because not only could it it's not like a chameleon chameleon takes a few seconds until this thing changes colors exactly to its environment and texture texture you understand what I'm telling you it can make its skin flat like a like a piece of metal or bumpy Like a Rock depends what he's trying to do he can do whatever he wants check this out it's incredible Hab Mish live here and how does this have to do with the Su it doesn't the noisy here is the scuba diver it's worth going to chakras Slade for this now it's completely [Music] white I think this one is the nicest One turns into green green and white kilo over there [Music] brown and [Music] white you're not going now not r d I don't care Carle not car okay what you hold on hold on hold on I'm going to explain in a second why it has to do with the sug now turns black completely black it's sugar look at this second but also texture the Pell is the texture anyway so the gar says that this husband could be an octopus he could do whatever you want wants depends where he's at if he wants to be a yish he's a yish if he wants to be a purchas whatever works better for him at any given time could be whatever he want whatever is better for him again so when it comes to if you're then you don't have to give it back if you're a purchaser you have to give it back so for yil he is a that's the first word on the he shouldn't lose a woman who sells the if he's a it's a good sale if he's a purchaser he purchases it before the second guy so he takes it out of the guy oh so today he's a purchaser I'm just saying I'm not making this up when I was learning this gar the first thing that came to my mind oh he's an octopus so I had to show it to you now you might say the guy's nuts what's actopus but for me that's what that's what came in so I said I'll show it to you I don't know if that's a good R Elvis I got to be honest with you it's almost like when my wife likes the real estate I'm buying I was like wait a minute there's a problem here maybe I shouldn't buy it that's the when a person has an Al he left over and a daughter he's not he is a he inherits and if he's an inheritor he has to provide sustenance to the Alman I want to tell you this m real quickly it's very important we're talking about Alman I want to talk about an Alman an Alman someone who loses a wife I spoke about it just recently I want to tell you a beautiful story from the a guy that just lost his wife came to with the to get a so said said okay I'll give you a bro on condition that right after the wedding you come back here with the so after the wedding comes back with the in he gives him another BR he asked if they could step out of the room and he this is the and he said no so tell me about the guest that came and tell me about the flowers and this and the pl and the music was unbelievable and the relatives believe okay and a whole long conversation very very long conversation and afterwards one of the said's spent the hour with this guy he says I know that he was going to go home and he would have nobody to speak to it would hurt him usually you go home you discuss with your wife the this I'm choking up saying this to think about it's Godless to think about another person's feelings I said the story over and somebody came over me say you know I was in the shelter the bomb shelter the mad last time there was sirens and I was thinking to myself these single people there's a bunch of singles out there that they're in the shelter by themselves he made 30 calls 30 different calls different singles how you doing what's going on to think about the Zas and one last thing ab and myself we went to visit Barak sh he lost his wife last week at 40 something years old and he told me something when he told me I started crying he said that he was he had a bad dream his wife was very sick and he had a bad dream he was dreaming that he was taking his son down none of his kids are married he's walking sun down to the K and his wife wasn't on the other side he started crying and while he was crying AB he was there he heard it while he was crying his wife in real life started wiping his tears out of his eyes wakes up he says I heard you crying in his sleep he's so he's so pain that in his sleep he was crying so I'm saying we should have a lot of Al my one of my relatives made an organization her husband was a stanski stanski she made a famous Organization for alas there's also Al also they they suffer a lot and singles the guy purchased a nursing home now the husband comes and takes it away from him why do I care about the husband more than I care about the purchaser why why should why should the purchaser lose out he caused his own loss you know she's married you know that this nursing home is problematic that the the the husband is taking profits from it why you go why buying it from her it's your problem she's married [Music]