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good morning
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R so you know shabas we were by
Shapiro's cver and the individual AI
big put together this whole thing with a
bunch of tents and this is what the
outside of our tent looked
like and then he went went ahead he
built this himself don't ask me why but
this is what the inside looked
like it even has me in the
front things in the back it's
unbelievable all right now we can put
this over
here welcome welcome to all the guests
um Yi kutkin sent me a email in Hebrew
I'm just going to read some of the ideas
he puts together some tips that he put
together over his two and a half cycles
of doing the
da
basically he's saying that Dai is a uh
he doesn't explain it but he says you
should do the da after something that
you do every day like after daving after
eating in the beginning of work after
you finish work I think what he's trying
to say is that D is a habit and in order
to make something a habit it's a good
idea to do it right after something so
after you brush your teeth you do this
some people brush their teeth and they
do push-ups they like connect a good
habit with something that they know and
it becomes part of them then he says
don't worry about missing you should uh
you shouldn't have any holes that are
more than two and three da but then jump
ahead you should always give yourself
like a physical pleasure after like you
do seeum you you buy yourself something
a little something give you award
yourself once in a while take count of
what you accomplished how much how many
dap you did how many dap are D are left
to
the um be proud of what you do tell the
people around you that you're doing the
da it's already 700
da and everybody needs their and it's
great when people know what you're doing
they could give you you should always
involve your family your wife your
children they should be part of it and
promise yourself goals that if you
finish this m you'll do you'll go on a
nice trip that's what he says Yi
kkin Jacob fredman I'll call him yankle
yankle Freedman good morning rebell my
name is y Freedman
oh his email is
Jacob from B Park it's now over two
years that I haven't missed a day of
learning that's over 700 days of
consecutively learning no matter what it
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waser the day my wife had a baby trips
with the the family Etc anyway and of
course you rebell get a special
thanks for this and for encouraging the
slogan it's not about the D about me my
family red their house for after three
the excitement of my kids to see that we
can play this sh on a big screen was
unbelievable see attach picture I would
like to thank you again and the whole MD
team keep it up looking forward to
meeting you in person again at the
shabbaton after only attending the M
shabas event the last shab I'm sure
joining the full shabbaton this time
will give me a big to continue going
your tal for over two
years this is a car spotted in tin now
yesterday we spoke about a pres car we
didn't know it's a it's one of the
best um license plate however I didn't
know that his wife has even a better
license plate take a look his license
plate is mdy MD Y how could it get
better
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that's a m of
mdy not bad H May Fishman de reell I was
just now by the oil of laich of laich I
wasp for my rebi Ellie Ben
R called me
Ellie he wrote Ellie Ben R Ellie Ben Ral
since knows who
who ell is your G looking forward for
the chabas I was there last year it was
an unbelievable shabas your Shar is
about an hour it takes me like three
hours due to my business phone calls oh
he's not saying that he learns the
for three hours it just takes him three
hours he does other stuff in between I
enjoy every minute of it like you
yeah talking about that I hope the
Finish sh with MD y you're Tom from
budha Park another one buha Park b a
Buddha Park they even spell things
differently mayor Fishman ah I love
it you know what let me just read this
real quickly because this is stuck in my
gar for two months already
since this is from I'm not joking is he
here today he's not here so I'll read it
when Rocky is here I'll keep it in my
gar okay fine great we could start
learning we have to do sponsors
return of all the
hostages family L New Jersey because is
the
best in honor of my
uncle we just saw his license plate and
his wife's license PL
and if you come to the you're going to
see
bothman I think he's oval no you're to
come when you're an OV
for shabas not for the shabas we'll see
him there he better be there we'll see
fishal that I know we'll see extended
family will be
there she'll be there B I'm not kidding
a thank you to reki she'll be there
forly giving up her husband to the cloud
I'll be there it should be for a year
filled with I did not prepare this but
that's how it came out
in other words if doesn't show up there
it's going to be a big problem this
whole thing is there and he's not
there from his grateful family Daniel
dedicated to speed healing
Mitch that's how you pronounce it right
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D his
friends dies no kids
that's what it says dies no
kids
Byer
since okay you can come on the
cruise and again I'll say it again
for Rebellion the whole MD staff to
continue to make on so
many The Coffee
corner this guy this guy donated $5,000
for eight
months which is a lot of money it's
$40,000 I do want to mention though
that's on top of everything he's done
until now yeah that's on top of
everything did until
now we will still take more art month
sponsors because it cost us about three
times that amount there three artists CU
we have three artists yeah Coffee corner
of the week Yan
BR she had a large liver issue two years
old we're holding by a brand all the way
on the
bottom check this out just to remind the
here's the situation a father owns real
estate and it has produce it can be a
nursing home it can be a tree with
apples and the father wants
to make sure that a son gets it there's
no issue but he also wants to make sure
that he has what to eat in his lifetime
so he says I'm giving this to you from
today and after death so what does the
son receive the son receives the actual
real estate the principle and the father
gets to eat the fruit so the says
simple since it's his fruit he gets to
remove the fruit and give it sell it do
whatever he wants with it it's his
100% there's no condition that he must
benefit it for himself he could sell it
if he
wants and whatever he leaves in a box on
the floor on the
ground it belongs to all the sons not
just the son that inherited the
tree all the sons get to share so what
happens if it's not in a box it's still
on the tree the Mish says if it's off
the tree all the Suns inherit it what
about what's on the
tree would go to the son that owns the
tree says
the you could be very simple it says
that if they're detached then it goes to
the other
Sons anything that's attached to the
tree since this son this guy on the left
owns the tree and it's attached to the
tree it should be his
but in this situation
let me just see where this
one so what happened over here we have a
father he gave the tree to the son the
son goes ahead and sells off the tree
while his father is still
alive yeah he goes sells in this case
he's selling the fruit he sells the tree
okay I didn't have a real good
uh perfect picture for this but just
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so sorry sorry just
uh he's not going to get out
prob sorry no come come come come
come he's just rabie scherg is with us
literally from the first day from the
second day
huh he's he's from the second day he's
going to give up a spot on the cruise to
somebody else so this maybe like one of
the first times in almost in seven and a
half years that I've seen him come late
even either he's not here I don't know
what happened something Happ okay F what
happened so what it's not the first sh
Shen in this last seven and a half years
the's fault okay
so we're holding in middle of this that
there's a a father who s who gave the
tree the real estate to the son the son
went ahead and sold it so it says we're
holding the top line
of so it says that all the fruit that's
attached to the tree the guy that buys
it the guy with the what is it called
those jeans he's wearing the overall
what are they called overall overalls
they're called
overalls the guy the farmer that bought
the tree he has to count how many apples
there are how much they're worth and
give that money to this to the kids to
the
Y but the problem is if it's attached to
the tree we just said that he gets to to
keep it anything attached to the tree
goes to the one that owns the actual
tree we can make a distinction between a
farmer with over and his own
son very interesting because he has
other Sons also but when a person loves
his son so therefore the person will
give his son the tree with the fruit
whereas a farmer or anybody else that
comes and purchase a tree it does not
include the fruit famous story from
famous Marshall it has to do with this
week's parach it says
describing so I guess the is Rashi over
here says the interesting Rashi a lot of
people don't believe me when I tell them
people say oh a father how could you be
upset at your son who goes off to D
Rashi says
that hated because he went off to D he
hated that's what say just and people
well maybe rash didn't mean it okay
whatever but
says said I love the both right oh so
what's
the says is that had a son that went off
and he has a talid he loves his tal he
spends all day with the tal and with him
learning and this and he eats by him on
chabas and best friends and then a fire
breaks out in the Yeshiva who's Thea
going to save his best friend or his own
son he's going to save his son cuz deep
down a father always loves his son like
nothing else and even if right now he's
upset at him and they didn't speak in 3
months still loves his
son take it wherever you want to go just
you saw
in in
life you know what I'm thinking our sons
should know how true that is they know
that truth when they have a son
themselves when they're teenagers they
say my best friend loves me much more
than you Etc
the truth a
fire when there's a fire then they know
the truth yeah okay but we shouldn't get
to that
M talking about fires I'll say I wasn't
planning on say it but it came into my
mind I'll say this morning there was a a
siren very rear here in raes especially
middle of the night and it could be a
little scary so one of my family members
went running from the was half asleep
and hit a wall and ended up on the
floor like you know like this is what
people say that people get injured from
the siren from running from the but from
the panic but just again I said this
once and somebody wrote me an email says
what do you mean us Americans don't
understand what you're going through of
course we do how could he was upset at
me B wrote me a nasty like not a nasty
but like it was not nice it was
condescending that I said that America
no I'm going to say what condescending
condescending what did I
say whatever okay you know what I'm
saying
the point is stop screaming at
me who was the Epic Center whatever the
the the point is no one could say that
they understand what it is to have a son
in Aza or in Lebanon when they don't
have one you could say it as much as you
want oh I understand no you don't and
nobody could say they understand what it
means to to live uh in in England when
when when you go on a train and they and
they no you don't nobody can understand
what it means to live through a siren
when everybody's running and rushing and
hitting walls and this and that you
could hear it you read about it but you
not there I'm sorry if you're not there
you're not there yeah yeah I understand
so you go go to sh house so yeah could
understand how you lost a kid or a son
no you don't you don't okay
next says the mishna if somebody left
older children younger children
then the older children cannot
purchase what's missim clothing they
can't buy clothing off the general
account of the yusha you want to buy
clothing take it off your own account
but not from the
general and younger children are not
going to eat by food off the general
account
interesting says what if you ask
somebody now generation what costs more
to feed a young kid or an older kid say
an older kid cuz older kid eats larger
steaks this that he says no this this
Nash stuff where is
it this Nash costs more than feeding a
older kid that's what he
says
so this picture is really for a little
later but it's Bader this is the the
older kid buying fancy clothes on the
account and there's a reason for it now
this is important to remember these
words because we're going to be
discussing these words a little
bit that I didn't say but we have to say
it and that's I'm not talking about
these words they must divide the yha
equally these words right over these
four
words what does that mean if the older
children got married
so the younger children could get
married in other words if the estate
paid for the older children's weddings
so the younger children can
also be married off the estate that's
the end of the that's what thear is
going to say at the end thear has
another thear thought it's
thisat let's see so
again if the older ones got married the
younger ones could get married
in I want to point it out here so you
remember when we get there that it's not
like
abstract understood the older ones got
married or let's
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see okay so just remember these four
words who did they get married what get
married and if the younger ones say we
want to get married just like you spend
$100,000 on your wedding we want to
spend $100,000
on our
wedding oh that's what the's going to
explain the's going to ask it looks like
a contradiction over here it says if the
older ones got married the younger ones
can get married a second later it says
if theim said we want to get married
like you no we don't listen to
you whatever the father gave them gave
them happens to be like I know of people
that saved up money they have a lot of
kids let's say they have 10 children
they save save save save and finally
when the first one gets married they
take all their savings and marry off
their first child and they're like oops
what do I do now I don't have any money
left for my second child and they have
like another nine children in
line used to be a caterer I said the
story but raky I was going to read the
email but you weren't here you got to
come on time man I got to get this thing
out of my gamor it's like poking out
it's I got to get rid of it
so I said this but it's galic just I'll
say the whole thing together to meet the
the parents of the kala and the kala and
give them you know go over the menu tell
them the rules how many minutes in the
room and then I'm I'm I'm like really
really strict about time I used to run a
very tight chip over there
anyway father comes and says in front of
his daughter he says listen I put aside
a hundred plus
thousand and I'm willing to give it to
you as a gift right
now but if you want to use it for your
wedding you can use it for your wedding
you do whatever you want you want to do
a $20,000 wedding you'll take all that
money whatever is left over over and she
looks at him she says absolutely not I
don't want any money I just want the
nicest wedding possible $100,000 is
nothing for my wedding I need more and
then and then she she looks at me and
she says this is the you probably heard
this from me she says listen I always
had a dream to come into the Hall on a
white
horse could we do that I said yeah we
could do that and I write down White
Horse she is now also when I walk into
the hall I want to release these
beautiful
butterflies could we do that I said how
many butterflies he
says 50 okay 50
butterflies then says my is very tall
and when he goes like when he comes to
the bin he's going to go like that he's
going to hit the chandeliers is there
any way we could raise the
chandeliers yeah no problem raise the
chandeliers and then I said that's it
that's it I said okay the horse is about
$5,000 because we have to clean up with
the manure and this that you know it
ruins the carpet 5,000 what yeah each
butterfly is $150 because I have to go
catch them afterwards they go onto the
thing I have to take a special machine
and go grab them and the chandeliers we
could do $1,500 each because you had to
get a you know a a union electrician and
then raise it so
$1,500 37,000 no you no no no I don't
need the horse I don't need the
butterflies I Ker and that was the that
you always say yes you say yes and then
yes but it cost
money she didn't even do it by us at the
end I don't think I don't think I know
them very well I don't think she did it
by us it was in the hill just the the
room alone cost more than 100,000 wish I
think wish she got married at the end
the Hilton anyway fine says
theor so no I'm saying if if if the kids
say look you got married for $200,000
why shouldn't I get married for $2
200,000 just because we lost our father
yeah you got married when he was alive
yeah that's how it
works when the father is alive he can do
whatever he want but now we have a yusha
to split
evenly now it's the same again there's
no Sons only daughters we said a
daughter gets
a the older ones can't buy nice clothing
on the count of theha and the younger
ones cannot buy food on the count of
theha you split it divided
equally so over here these are the four
words really we should
remember if the older girls got
married out of the state the state pays
for
it and if the younger one say well you
got married it cost you $200,000 got
married to the Hilton I also want get
married at the Hilton oh we have a nice
picture
actually this is similar to the Hilton
usually has I don't know some of them
have that uh you know that the balcony
on top ker you got married there I want
to get married
there we don't listen to them so as as
was
said said it's talking about the younger
the older one got married in the Hilton
because the father was alive then he got
a heart attack because he had to make
aass in the Hilton and he died so the
second kid doesn't get married in the
hilon a CH
I'm serious how many stories have you
heard that a guy died during during the
wedding during the wedding during the at
least 10 at least 10 stories that I've
heard over my lifetime true stories
yeah there's a we could talk about it
but it just happened to see I guess it
just came out now A B just about this
how the r Koo guy long beard the guy
from Bak the famous Bak guy Effie he has
a long beard he looks galic and he and
he guilts the other guy into spending
money like crazy yeah this he
him and the guy has 150,000 she he put
aside to to get an apartment for his son
and L said now one what you're gonna get
this banned with him what are people
gonna say and then he has people from
his K call up the guy and and shame him
and said what it's it's what you going
to have you only have 500 people what
kind of this it's a great video you
should look at and makes fun of the
whole situation and then he this was in
charge of getting the apartment so after
the both parents they go to bring the
and the to to the new
apartment it's underneath a building and
it's blocked by a bunch of garbage cans
and they have to move the garbage cans
and there's like dirt on the
refrigerator a ker anyway not far from
the truth the point is stop spending
money like that I tried I tried really
hard to convince my daughter not to get
married not to do a fancy wedding you
you know how much it helped
garnishment the more I try to convince
it the more people should get together
and say like they got they they absolve
they got rid of the shabas get rid of at
least get rid of these crazy
weddings huh you can't make you can't
force people people should just
come uh Corona weddings 10 people 30
people okay but not as much not as
much no no you do it in
what's his name that those houses people
doing in houses you did one in a house
yeah unbelievable so nothing the
marriage is
good it's a good thing it's good because
if it wasn't good I like put you on the
spot
here and if the girls the younger ones
we want a nice wedding We're Dreaming
about this White Horse all thing
no there's one thing there's a
difference between girls and
boys if the girls and boys then the the
girls
get they get they get
food but if they're girls just girls
then the younger girls don't take money
from the older girls they get money
right at right out the whatever they
deserve the older boy did this he went
and he bought a fancy suit I don't even
know if her man is fancy but that's what
the artist thought back in the day yiva
huh that was fancy back back then
now we we had the sui once and the point
is when you're in charge of the business
of the state you need to look you have
to dress well you can't come like a
slumper and uh hope that uh somebody's
going to take care of you and and and
listen to you you have to look
presentable and therefore he bought
clothing you shouldn't
but if he went ahead and he bought
clothing without asking any questions
going against the rules then what he
bought we we come out of the state
there's a story with Risha that he came
to a city nobody knew who he was and he
came with tattered clothing and he asked
for food and nobody really gave him food
the following year he came again but he
was wearing a nice Becket so people
respected him and they gave some guy
gave him kogle so he took the cogle and
he put it in the pocket of the B so the
was like what are you doing reab he says
last year I came here nobody gave me
food this year I'm the same I was last
year but they gave me food why did they
give me food they gave me food because
I'm wearing a Becka so it's not me it's
the Becka so I gave the cookle to the
Becka but wait a minute we just we
learned an our M that the older child
should not buy a suit off of the
estate
say we're talking our mission is talking
about a guy that's not a kid that's not
in charge of the state he's a a battlin
he doesn't do anything
so if he he doesn't do anything why
should he get Nice Clothing he plays
video games all day he doesn't go out
and and and do something for the state
so guy like that he should get clothing
should buy the nice Nikes whatever they
are
says if he doesn't do anything why
what's the that he should take clothing
off the
estate the younger children they don't
want their older brother to look like
a too bad you don't take money off the
estate
it's a contradiction here's the mishna
if you don't if you're too lazy to look
in here we did this for you it says in
the that if the older ones get married
the younger ones could get married a
line later it
says we want to get married like
you what's going
on the older ones got married after the
father
died so the younger one have the same
privilege to get married they got
married how did the older ones get
married from the state it cost $100,000
so the younger ones also take from the
state
$100,000 there's a there's a
organization here in I don't know if
anybody needs it or everybody wants it
but they try to bring the cost down some
people go a little bit overboard and
they you know each side should bring up
half a million dollars so $180,000 with
the apartment with the wedding with
everything everything 180,000 she it's a
lot of money still but they put a limit
to it and then they have a whole
database of names of and if you want to
use their database you have to promise
that you're going to do 180 and for all
your children see even if you have who
who could get theoretically a full full
whatever it's called I don't even know
what it's
called you promise you're not going to
take more than 180 from each side okay
it's called look it up if you need it
but if the older ones got married when
the father is alive and he want toz and
do all this fancy
weddings I'm sure you guys I was at a
wedding and this is years ago I know for
a fact the guy showed me spent a million
dollars over a million dollar that night
today it's nothing in New York they
probably do it all the time but just the
music that he brought in from New York
and the singers and a million dollar the
call dress could cost you know $100,000
you have to fly this one that one you
come in Italy who knows what
yeah a million dollars for a few hours
all your friends enjoy nobody cares
nobody
cares I'm saying you want give it to the
kids you give it and if you're giving
that to the kids give even more another
million what's who cares about
a me personally because I was a cater I
couldn't care
less oh so the older kids got beautiful
weddings it's not fear it's
not only are we now we don't even get a
nice
wedding we don't care we don't listen we
don't take money out of the
state whatever he gave to the old ones
he gave that's when he was alive now it
starts all
over sent a question
to you please teach us
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where was it
oh you have a woman single she borrowed
money here she borrows money 100 bucks
what does she do with the 100
bucks she buys a bunch of ice
cream and the 100 bucks is gone she
consumed it the 100 bucks it's only $100
they're not going to write a document
they're not going to write a star no
star if there's no star
so the lender
cannot um go after her property she has
a property she has a piece of real
estate she has a nursing home then she
gets
married so what happens to the nursing
home
it's means that the husband gets to use
the woman's his wife's property he gets
all
benefits the what
we kids are words that in pun they don't
use we don't use
here so if she borrowed she
consumed and she had real estate and
there's no
documentation today it's m the opposite
if you ask the ask yourselves you got
married your Kal probably had a decent
job she's saving money like crazy saving
sa saving you're you ow all your friends
money right that's usually how it works
no that's how work for me I went with a
lot of dead into my wedding no nobody
knows what I'm talking about no okay
here you have a woman who she's
borrowing oh well actually she had a
nursing home
so so here's the question boyes a
beautiful
question when he gets to use this real
estate let's just show this again it's
called why check this out it's like
plucking feathers off a chicken she
comes in with a nice healthy chicken and
the husband keeps on plucking
why there's a nursing
home
sorry
and the nursing home is worth a million
dollars when they get married all the
income from the nursing home goes to the
husband and if the nursing home goes
down in value guess what after he dies
she just takes picks up the broken
pieces and so it's called now plucking
feathers out of the thing if it's worth
less worth
less now how do we view the husband now
the husband right now here in this
picture what is he did he inherit this
nursing home from his wife even if
they're alive and well and they're
married or did he purchase it from her
he has to have some sort of status what
kind of status is it did it come like
Hally into his hands like a yusha or he
purchased
it let's say
right over here our
case if he's a
purchaser since she bed $100 to buy ice
cream that's called a there's no it
happened verbally Al but the guy could
still go after anybody that purchases
real estate
afterwards or perhaps he's considered an
inheritor
he could go after the husband's nursing
home could could the ice cream the the
lender could he go after the nursing
home or not if he's a purchaser no and
if he's a yish
yes we
learned so those are the words I told
you to remember
because here all it says in the Mna if
the older girls got married the younger
girls could also get married so we
learned
simple if the older girls got married
from the state the younger girls can get
married from the state but this is a
different shot a deeper shot if the
older girls got married to who to a
husband and they ate up all the yusha
there was a pile of cash when the father
died and they ate it up so now the older
girl owes money to the younger girl if
she ate up all the cash she's AA
and she has a nursing
home how is the younger girl going to
get married she's going to go after the
husband and she's going to take the
younger girl is going to take from the
nursing home to get married the nursing
home that the husband inherited from his
wife because he's an inheritor but if
the husband is a if he's if he's a
purchaser how could the younger girl go
after the nursing home he purchased it
it's too late
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so oh so it says
sorry sticking a you see doesn't say it
in the to to a husband and then it
says
meaning from where do they where do they
get married from from the pocket of the
husband of the older daughter why again
cuz the older
daughter grabbed all the money and she
used it so she became a borrower and you
can go after her husband's property
because a borrower you could go after
the bar's even though it's a mve
pet you didn't read it well this is how
you have to read it both of them have a
l there's no me in there if the other
ones got married to a husband the
younger ones can get married to a
husband in other words it's saying you
be fair whatever the older one spent
from the state the younger one will
spend spend from the state but snap shot
you go after the
husband so says we can't say that why
look check this out on the B he says it
doesn't say l meaning that the story was
that the older girl used up all the
money in the state but she had a nursing
home from the state and when she got
married it's as if the husband inherited
her so the younger girl when she wants
to get married she's going to go after
the nursing home that was inherited by
the husband so you see it's an
inheritance not a purchase he
so the says okay so I want to bring a RI
from this case that if there's older
girl and a younger girl and the younger
wants to get married you see that it's a
not a purchase says
no this guy what's the whole point when
you have there's a difference between a
milal nobody knows about and if it
there's a document that talks about this
the the the loan then everybody knows
about it so you could come after even
non you could come after movable
properties so over here in this case
when this a younger
sister we're trying to bring a ria the
question was on the case with the ice
cream if she borrows money and she used
up the money then she got married and
she had real estate could you come could
the guy that lent her the money come
after the $100 from the real estate look
we have a riot from the left case a
younger girl no Riot from the left case
why the case everybody knows that the
younger girl has to get married and
therefore become this call is like this
AAR so theid there's no he should know
the husband should know that he has to
cough up the money for her so there's no
R to the case on the right with that
when she borrowed 100 bucks without AAR
that nobody knows about that that that
uh that loan and therefore he cannot go
after uh a
regularly only
okay isn't that something that sent in a
letter from
Robin take a look at this G drawing
here there's a father and a
mother and they have a
daughter now when the father
dies and the daughter inherits
everything how does the mother live how
does she how could she continue living
who's going to support
her the food comes out of the estate
okay now the daughter gets
married and the husband takes over the
property the mother continues to eat
from the state what happens
if the daughter dies now the husband is
the inheritor he still continues to to
support the the wife the mother why it
must be that it is a
yusha if the husb is considered a
purchaser you don't support people from
your property after you purchase a
property if it's a y okay it's part of
the family and then part of it goes to
the Alman she died who who died wife
died
okaya what how
can it's possible why
not he gets it is he gets it Asha but
it's understands the same thing
we'll see in a second the brings from
the last words on the so let's
see this story he died and he left a
daughter and the daughter inherited
everything but he also left a
wife eats bread from the real estate the
daughter gets
married she continues to eat the
daughter they said exact story
happened say
that that Mak
sense if he say that he's a
purchaser why in the world should the
Mother-in-law eat from his real
estate we need this we
have when you sell real estate
in it comes back to you on on the 50th
year
there's exceptions to the rule that's if
you purchase something what if somebody
gives you a gift a piece of real estate
as a gift gifts do not come back on y so
let me ask you a question the second
portion of
the is that a gift or is that a yusha
does it come back on y does it go back
into the whole path or not the answer is
it does not why because the Torah says
he gives it him the father gives him as
a gift so that doesn't go back
and what's the first word
on why does yusha when you inherit a
wife why does it why does it not go
back
on because it's a yusha it's a yusha
it's not a purchase if you say that a
yusha of a wife is considered a purchase
then would go back on y to to the family
it go back to the to the wife's family
but since it doesn't go back to the
wife's family you see that aish he's a
real yish it comes from y not from
buying it so you see that a husband is
considered aish not a
purchaser
I'm oh turning to the thank you bichi
family somebody wrote that you don't
pronounce the e at the end you do you
do and Glen erson dedicated to G Israel
thank you for bringing the D to my
life either way what's the first word in
the that a husband is
a we see we see the
opposite check this out in this
case the case of the nursing home the
husband is enjoying himself this every
every every month tremendous cash flow
he's a b knocker they
he's he does dinners he's the president
of the show the whole thing the wife she
gets zero cover she say enough enough is
enough why him it's not even his Nur
it's my nursing home you know what let
me show him she goes without telling him
she sells the nursing
home
what's and she came into the marriage
with it he's just benefiting from the
from the from the income so they made it
Usha that there shouldn't be any fights
in the marriage and women shouldn't do
this to their husband
usbands excuse
me you don't all have to cough with me
say the husband what is it called has to
there has to be a word
like sympathetic coughing like the
sympathetic yawning sympathetic coughing
it happens in the middle of one guy one
kid coughs the whole it's like a whole
it's the harmony the whole thing so
this I have no idea what I just said so
over here you see that the husband is
the first purchaser he's the original
purchaser then she went and sold it to
Mr two you can't sell something it's
already sold to the husband he could go
up and take it out so is he a purchaser
or is he a yish which one is
he first word of the says he's a y now
we're holding four lines and it says
he's a purchaser we don't know what to
do I want to show you one of my favorite
videos found
yesterday there's an animal which is if
you get to learn about this animal
you'll have a a better appreciation of
the it's called an octopus seriously
it's it's a brilliant animal it knows
how to do things that many animals don't
know how to do it could open battles and
take food out of a battle it could sneak
out of an aquarium crazy stuff it has a
very high intelligence for an animal but
more than that it has the ability to
camouflage itself like nothing it has
ink you tries Escape thank you it could
squirt ink at you and blurs himself up
the way it swims the way it has these
it's m looks from a a different world
anyway I want to show you this video
because not only could it it's not like
a chameleon chameleon takes a few
seconds until this thing changes colors
exactly to its environment and texture
texture you understand what I'm telling
you it can make its skin flat like a
like a piece of metal or bumpy Like a
Rock depends what he's trying to do he
can do whatever he wants check this out
it's incredible
Hab Mish live here and how does this
have to do with the Su it
doesn't the noisy here is the scuba
diver it's worth going to chakras Slade
for this now it's completely
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white I think this one is the nicest One
turns into green green and white kilo
over there
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brown and
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white you're not going now not r d I
don't care Carle not car
okay what you hold on hold on hold on
I'm going to explain in a second why it
has to do with the
sug now turns black completely black
it's
sugar look at this
second but also texture the Pell is the
texture
anyway so the gar says that this husband
could be an octopus he could do whatever
you want wants depends where he's
at if he wants to be a yish he's a yish
if he wants to be a purchas whatever
works better for him at any given
time could be whatever he
want whatever is better for
him again so when it comes to if
you're then you don't have to give it
back if you're a purchaser you have to
give it back so for yil he is a
that's the first word on
the he shouldn't
lose a woman who sells the if he's a
it's a good sale if he's a purchaser he
purchases it before the second guy so he
takes it out of the guy oh so today he's
a
purchaser I'm just saying I'm not making
this up when I was learning this gar the
first thing that came to my mind oh he's
an octopus so I had to show it to you
now you might say the guy's nuts what's
actopus but for me that's what that's
what came in so I said I'll show it to
you
I don't know if that's a good R Elvis I
got to be honest with
you it's almost like when my wife likes
the real estate I'm buying I was like
wait a minute there's a problem here
maybe I shouldn't buy
it that's
the when a person has an Al he left over
and a
daughter he's not he is a he inherits
and if he's an inheritor he has to
provide sustenance to the
Alman I want to tell you this m real
quickly it's very important we're
talking about Alman I want to talk about
an Alman an Alman someone who loses a
wife I spoke about it just recently I
want to tell you a beautiful story from
the a guy that just lost his wife came
to with the to get a so said said okay
I'll give you a bro on condition that
right after the wedding you come back
here with the so after the wedding comes
back with the
in he gives him another BR he asked if
they could step out of the room and he
this is the and he said no so tell me
about the guest that came and tell me
about the flowers and this and the pl
and the music was unbelievable and the
relatives believe okay and a whole long
conversation very very long conversation
and
afterwards one of the said's spent the
hour with this guy he says I know that
he was going to go home and he would
have nobody to speak to it would hurt
him usually you go home you discuss with
your wife the this I'm choking up saying
this to think about it's Godless to
think about another person's feelings I
said the story over and somebody came
over me say you know I was in the
shelter the bomb shelter the mad last
time there was sirens and I was thinking
to myself these single people there's a
bunch of singles out there that they're
in the shelter by themselves he made 30
calls 30 different calls different
singles how you doing what's going on to
think about the Zas and one last thing
ab and myself we went to visit Barak sh
he lost his wife last week at 40
something years old and he told me
something when he told me I started
crying he said that he was he had a bad
dream his wife was very sick and he had
a bad dream he was dreaming that he was
taking his son down none of his kids are
married he's walking sun down to the K
and his wife wasn't on the other side he
started crying and while he was crying
AB he was there he heard it while he was
crying his wife in real life started
wiping his tears out of his eyes wakes
up he says I heard you crying in his
sleep he's so he's so pain that in his
sleep he was crying so I'm saying we
should have a lot of Al my one of my
relatives made an organization her
husband was a stanski stanski she made a
famous Organization for alas there's
also Al also they they suffer a lot and
singles
the guy purchased a nursing home now the
husband comes and takes it away from him
why do I care about the husband more
than I care about the purchaser why why
should why should the purchaser lose
out he caused his own
loss you know she's married you know
that this nursing home is problematic
that the the the husband is taking
profits from it why you go why buying it
from her it's your
problem she's married
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