Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 126 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning r that was a good Salam was here for a few weeks from London and he came to the night Shear he wanted to be final Shear came over to me after the shear he says what's that the Hebrew the eyes like double triple the the power and what's going on here I don't know I said the guys in the morning are a little schen maybe but today was not bad not bad not bad sh what's your name e what sh welcome happens to be just last night seriously last night I brought this to so I'll give it to you as a gift from MD patch I don't advise wearing it these days next to the ra but here pass it down to him for service for what you do what's your name all the way in the back the guy you got an Aliyah what's your name no you the Aliyah man beny weer with a D from where we have seats for you our official seaba is going to give you a seat I don't know who that is but there are plenty of empty seats stop [Music] stoper oh you were sitting over there now you moved over there what's your name wi from where Mor originally from Dallas I learn that LE Tor we used to have a guy that came so very often I forgot his name already T that was all right yeah oh Lauren kicking Out leor Boys from your [Music] neighborhood all right but thank you thanks for coming who else and your friend is there okay galic uh this is last night I just showed it cuz Ellie here here's the car this is real this is his real license plate Ellie salam's car um so just today is Tuesday if you want to start bous mro today is the last day we have a message here from the one and only a1g I'm going to make a a m the way he calls unus okay he wants to make his little and this that's his thing I'm making a so you don't make the M it's enough one m and here goes good morning guys a lot of people have been asking me about the shne mikar thing so I'm going to tell you like this they want to know the app that I'm using and how I'm doing it so I did a lot of research it's part of what what took me the most time the first time I did this I settled on an app called all paraa free to download has everything I need which may be everything you need and it's real simple and it has a whole portfolio that will keep track of everything you do and it'll show you when you complete different aliyas it goes PK by PK and then each Aaliyah check mark complete amazing you got a a happy face it's all nice and you feel good and you move on and while you're going through each Aliyah the little bar at the top shows was oh you're getting closer and closer to finishing that Aaliyah so that's the app that I use I I turned off all other commentaries except for Uncle Lewis and I kept uh English there so that when I read PK PK Uncle Lewis then English so you have to turn on the setting that says double PK turn on the PK twice you see it keep Uncle Lewis remove everything else if you want English great if you don't you don't have to for me I like the English just cuz I walk away with at least something some understanding of the paraa maybe I'll pick something up maybe it'll trigger some kind of div Torah in my head that'll carry with me for the week till chabas who knows whatever it is I feel like I'm walking away with a little more than I I went in with you know what I mean cool peace and love guys I'll see you when I see you right prise I want to I want to share something with you that when I was doing yesterday it occurred to me I'm sure many people saw this and I'm sure I went on whatsapps I have never seen it and I asked people if they've seen it they said no but PA said yes so the guy the guys in the Hebrew sh said yeah they did see it I did not but here it is you're not going to believe this it hit me like a ton of bricks but wait wait a minute it's more than it says in this in this it says now check this out oh yeah yeah so everybody knows about this fine I don't know if you saw the whole thing the ground is full of hostages in other words the tunnels because we will just learn like that we do wrong in the ground okay just thought with with the word okay everybody knows about this great but when you do mikro um Michael hi good morning I like the idea of having a Consolidated sheer you can take out the jokes you take out the stories and my humble opinion you can take out the mus okay so just to we the shear is staying the same exact nothing is changing just the the Consolidated sh those who want to do Kar those who don't have the time they want 15 20 minute sheer we'll have a Shear that takes out everything including the muser also we are where can we get a nonslip card the rebell uses to hold a place in his gor maybe can be sold on mdy merch.com Mo Michael I got it's a gift from scham Klein and it has it's a real piece of leather so it has this um rough kind of back and therefore it doesn't slip myar works great what else do we have one last one hi there so I'm actually writing this to say thank you yesterday you were at a wedding and my cousin asked you to make a video for me and he sent it to me on the spot in the video he gave me words of encouragement and told me how proud you are of me that I'm daffing I just want to say that that means the world to me already I've watched the video at least 10 times because it really does give me encouragement thank you for the he's also make a see Oni this guy mayem bless you on whatever maym bless you with everything that you should ever want or need sincerely keep oning and the sponsors for today the save and Speedy return for all the hostages and strength forell family Jersey because is the best what bunch of guest what's your Brothers Brothers no they're not Brothers they have different names uh who no no that guy's Al guy yeah every day Anil Halper Neil's beloved father ofid zil Ben SCH the schf children thank you for enhancing our Sabbath state in Israel the the sh put that in and thank you for enhancing Sab who's enhancing I need who Oh Me Oh you have to be a g to understand this it was written by children the schf children thank you Ellie for enhancing our sabbas are you leaving today oh you going to you here like for three weeks already six six weeks wow you made it here almost every day except for the second days why what's excuse it's only a block away I to keep two days a different minion not because it's user to come here on no okay good have a come back soon Michael chess memory you gonna come to the Shabbat maybe and when you open it up it's gonna be open any day L tomorrow the day after starting to go huh have a you really a bag pack already Ellie Salam that was here bought his tickets already without knowing if he has a room I don't know if there'll be any rooms left Michael chess memory of my dear Mother Marin chess 2008 and forell the whole staff to to make enjoyable for so many want ask you a question but don't be a smart alec and say oh because I'm asking the question obviously the answer is XYZ think to if this makes any sense to you and if yes I want to hear the reasons let's say AAR sits down with his one other brother they have two brothers inherited $10 million estate and thear is entitled to 2/3 and the other brother is entitled to 13 and the brother he says he takes out of the estate a bag of potato chips and they start eating they they divide the potato chips in half so you get half half a bag and I get it's yha okay half a bag of potato chips does this show us that the part is on his two3 just divide everything else also 50/50 a bag of potato chips does anybody in this room think for a second that if they divide equally a bag of potato chips that actually is a signed that thear doesn't care so much about anybody raise your hand if you think yes it's insignificant it's metalin it's I'm talking about the guy left condos and real estate and factories and cash in the bank and now they sitting and smoing at the table of the father they pull out a bag of potato strips in the closet they sit down divided 5050 so thear is going to tell us that if you do something like that you're go figure I want you guys to think about it all she what is the logic behind it who could understand such a thing that's today Su a little bit says all the way isn't it beautiful we're holding because ofas we don't really fall behind a lot we're like always pretty much with the we said the other day that if the brothers they take from the estate and they build a house they plant a Vineyard the bakar is not entitled to two parts however if the B says rasis gets up and says listen I want to make my I want to build my own house I want to plant my own Vineyard I want to do it right now so now we're going to see a sh this is also beautiful that we have another thing that a lot of people don't know about is that even if you you have to do a you have to make a decision you get this I get that bezan gets involved whatever it is there's a division a real serious division when a comes to the part the extra part we'll call the part that extra one little piece that he gets some it's not a little piece sometimes it's a whole third if there's only two brothers he gets a third extra that third that part he's entitled to it immediately without a this is such a m we have that's how we passing so this also because his he's entitled to his part right now the second so he could say no I want to before we even do before we divide the state I want my part right now and I I'm I'm saying no I'm putting my foot down I don't want you to plant anything I don't want you to build anything and therefore if you do I'm going to take two parts of it the two simple steps of of having grapes and doing this we could just watch this a little bit we don't need to see the whole thing I guess oh this is the next step we don't want to get there and this is um olives what would take I guess months or days they're doing it right now actually in the in the in the park right here you'll see Arabs come every day and just even youen I guess mainly Arabs but used to be only Arabs now they're a little scared to come do a whole Tree in about a minute and a half [Music] okay now think about it the the Oles were on the tree now in the truck what are they called olives nothing changed there were olives on the tree there were olives in the truck so if rasi says that if he if if he put his foot down and he said I don't want you to to to enhance anything I want to take over so the other guy can't take over and if he does if he improves then the gets two parts let's say he removed all the olives from the tree without listening to the the takes two parts of the oliv if he took off the The Grapes he takes two parts of the The Grapes but if he crushed The Grapes now it started off being grapes what is it today grape juice wine it's something else oh so what is that called in gar language he made a sh so the other brother stole it from thear he did something wrong thear said don't and he didn't listen to him he did but he changed it from grapes to wine so that's it the B is not entitled to two parts of of Those Grapes why because he stole it he did a you all want to remember what Dr means let me show you the real Dr here's Dr all right so it goes like this um the question when are you allowed to eat these grap in terms of videos this might have had the most views ever hundreds of thousands of views in the AR World grapes cuz they claim Juice drink the juice and not eat the grapes can I do both the answer is impossible to know the answer is like this right now I'm allowed to eat a grape no they said some gu decided that grapes areans and I'm trying to Crush Palestinian so it feels now I could take a grae I want to tell you something very interesting I even looked it up yesterday most uh wine makers do not wash the grapes they say that you're not supposed to wash the grapes because there's a lot of good stuff on the on the grapes themselves on the outside and if you wash it you ruin the wine it's not going to be the same the same wine there's a lot of En I don't know a different bacteria don't wash it that's what they they don't wash the grapes they make wine with all thez it's good for the the ram says that you should wash the grapes because you're not allow to have the worms on top of the grapes so you have to wash them after I did this whole thing somebody came over to me and showed me the grapes I stepped on those worms everywhere crawling disgusting it was unbelievable couldn't believe it the white worms like get this away so I don't know where they were if I crushed they came out of the grapes or they were on the grapes I don't know remember where's to I don't know if to's here what they were on my shoe no I was wearing Plastics you remember I put Plastics on they were on my toes they gross gross says if the other brother goes and takes the grapes and makes wine out of it out of it the is entitled to two parts ask the how could that be you didn't understand how's that possible it's two different things the the the other brother took something called grapes and now it's called wine how is it possible that the should take two parts out of it it doesn't make any sense there's a guy that comes here every single morning learns with one of the guys in the K Le Jacobs I got to say actually if I'm talking about the co a lot of guys in the K yesterday took a test called vant and at the end of the week they're taking a test called deero it's it's mindboggling just to think about it they're take they they take each one took different I think is taking 1300 death now what it means just to explain 9:30 in the morning to 6:30 at night straight straight anybody took a exam whatever these it it just blows it literally hurts and then they come back today for round two because you can't do it they say you do as much as you can here you want 500 go $500 they sit there and said and they one question after another from 9:30 in the morning and then my because I couldn't learn with him yesterday first of all he made a the night before just think about made a night before yesterday he this and he had to go to sh he came straight to my house at 6:30 to learn I'm like and I saw he couldn't speak like just go home say there so that's that and then today they're doing it all over again all over going back at 9:30 and doing it again and then at the end of the week 1,700 D from beginning of sh close to 18800 from beginning of BR all the way to here including J I just mentioned and I spoke to and he says no and in the middle of the week he's doing so so this is these are the guys in Aro I'm very proud of them and uh it's unbelievable unbelievable to to I'll like I said I used to take the 30 D test in deero and it wasn't it's not it's not easy very very difficult and they just throw they try to trip you up they they don't they don't want to make it easy they want you to work 1,800 D 30 da 18800 D me just it's mind B it's half a sh more than half a sh all right so anyway so this this a guy Jacobs was taking this test and he told me he's like you know I'm not like he's not he's not the the photographic memory guys which we have three of them in our K it's hard to learn with them because they they just know everything and and he's a regular guy that works really hard he's here after he'll stay to 4 o' in the afternoon look he brings a little P with a and come here every afternoon he's sitting here the only one y only one yesterday in Co you see that well cuz other guys were uh they're taking Bish he takes deers they were at the test other guys but anyway he was the only guy okay fine so he learns with a with a balabas in the morning and this balabas said that he once asked somebody if he could pick all his grapes the guy said yeah sure so he worked really hard he lives in your neighborhood over there in inti area and he picked and picked he worked many hours picking these grapes and he made a deal with the wine maker that he's going to give him the grapes and the wine maker is going to split the the wine 50/50 he said you don't understand how hard it was this he came into shab and he almost missed the whole thing you know and then he goes to the guy and says okay where's the wine the guy says oh the wine the wine spoiled it's gone he says what so why did you tell me let me see show me no spoiled so he has Tinus Kil now that show prove me that you know I work so hard in these graes so the says like this what if that's what happened the grapes went bad mik no so we have to explain that if a guy takes grapes and he makes it into wine the is not going to take two parts because he was like a ghav let's say somebody steals grapes yeah think about it the guy steals a bunch of grapes makes wine the owner of the grapes is not entitled to any of the wine he's entitled to grapes but not wine so over here this brother stole the grapes made wine why is the entitled to two parts of the wine says thear you're right he's not entitled to two parts of the wine what is he entitled as we're going to see in in 30 seconds all what's going on here is that the the the simple brother not the cannot claim hey it's your grapes Shear 2third of the damage to the grapes no you took the grapes without permission you pay me I want regular grapes you decide to make wine of it and got ruined you're to pay the the full amount he doesn't have to now we're not dividing 2/3 and a third when the when the grapes go bad you who told you to make wine out of it so since it went bad there's not going to be a division of 2/3 and a third it's going to be divided you have to pay back full amount of grapes so it comes out a very interesting thing here if you look at the gar the says rasi says RAB says it's D when you pull the grapes off the thing and you and and the and we did the video of the of the olives but if you step on the grapes then it's different and R says no even if you step on the grapes it comes out that R is not even arguing is just adding he's saying if you step on the grapes and they get ruined you need to pay the full price nobody argues on that Ra's not going to argue that what's this you're quoting there two brothers that the father left them a bunch of grapes and they um what's the word harvested the grapes and also the same thing and the takes two parts even if the the other brother decided to make the wine by himself as the same question that we had get two parts a completely different not the takes two parts if it goes bad then the other guy who didn't have permission to make wine has to pay the full amount of grapes so here we're not talking about a bag of potato chips right now we're talking about let's say a field the father left them three house a mansion a condo and a so the tells the other guy you know what forget it let's just do this 50/50 50/50 on the field so V he M yeah say the I say it all the time but say we learn I learn a lot from this I personally there's a a guy that inherited millions of dollars from his father and the brother who was a religious wanted to cremate his father so the brother said no let's let's bury him is brother said no absolutely not it might have even been in the in the will I don't know if that's part of it I don't know how it might affect the story so the you know I'll give you $100,000 let's just bury him he says no 100,000 no I'll give you 500 he said I'll give you my entire yusha millions of dollars and the brother said okay for millions of dollars we could bury him and that's what happened they buried gave up millions of dollars now he's a bigadic that he did it but the ra said that he's actually to give up his millions of dollars for the burial because burial comes first then comes yusha and if that's what it takes to bury a father millions of dollars then he has to be the millions of dollars in thought I'll throw it out there I'm not ping just know that there's such a thing out there we shouldn't know about these things I was in I told you this I was in by my my my son wanted me to do one of those cold baths so his friend has a cold bath in the backyard it's one of these it's a tub and it IES it up M he says let's see how long you do dadd here big talk ker I did it I have video jump in just for the stick and you're like yeah why am I doing this I come out and theab guy tells me you know I'll tell you the guy next door he was 96 years old I used to go there fill in the whole thing and then when I found out that he's dying and he wants to be cremated I made it a mission of my life I went there and I every day I'll tell him I'll talk to him and and and the people taking hear him said no it's not going to work and I said no you got to you got to and at then they cremated him and M heard him he says and afterward somebody came to me said you know whatever his name was he was adopted by a Jewish family but he's not even Jewish the guy wasn't Jewish so all these years I put on thein and I convinced him and everything his mom me I tell youa this a good a good MSA a true M thanks for sharing it's some of the M don't have the best endings they didn't always the guy in the cave didn't become a real 9 months later here's a interesting m a guy his father was nifter and his father they open up the will and he's shocked he's best friends with the father he's very good with the father he's the the father always had a great relationship with him it says in the All Sons get a piece besides the he doesn't know what to do he's he's broken his m is broken what what what did I do with me and Dad we got along and everything is galic it doesn't say anything I did wrong and if anything I'm I'm I'm tighter with the with the father than all the other brothers doesn't know what to do R margal was giving a a Dr about to be down she okay let me go to this Dr maybe I'll get something you know he's sitting there Dr nothing absolutely nothing so he goes over to after the she he says I got to tell you I came here for but I can't I can't come up with anything a it hurts me I don't know what to do I say k every day you know it's taking a little bit from the she says tell me about yourself what how of course he tells him that he's a ky guy and his father encouraged him to to stay in Kyo says though your brothers are working but if you want to learn I'll support you so over the years he bought him a house pider for the weddings did this he says think about it your father gave you triple than all the other brothers forget the two triple ah she says so why didn't why didn't he say it he says why didn't he say it say going to why why should your brothers know about this I mean now they're watching the sh they [Laughter] no whatever he wanted to do it you should have that you should have understood yourself you know the father took a lot of times that's what parents do they take they have a lot of this one is going to get this so they give they give you didn't do so says that it's not a good thing to do you don't do it like that rip him out of the not says sometimes you could the certain situations if you want to encourage learning I don't know whole but just interesting story people should think now don't don't be down the parents maybe there's a somewhere says how much yeah so in my little story there's a field there's a guy bought something in our strol where oh what yeah hold on a second I want to show you something on the screen it's very interesting we have a guy like that we have a we have some with his SCS on top of his shirt and we have who lost his son in Gaza and behind we have everything we have the Bieber hit behind we have mamish I don't know what I Rosenstein is he's the guy from Los Angeles he's wearing a white shirt I don't know like and he knows a lot of okay cool there's MD Y in a nutshell from came in all the way two days in a row v v what he say his name is v v v from Buddha Park from 44 Street in 12th Avenue and uh from straight out where where you serving what uh P you see that t we're here for one reason all has we leave all theas by the door and then we come in to learn it's unbelievable so what are we saying hel what you saying I was asking about that can the fact that will it's too late s it's too late we'll talk what what what what are you asking oh oh that's today's D we're going to get there you asking you're talking about it and the answer to your questions in case somebody leaves early which somebody's about to do um oh he has it on Zoom show show the camera show the camera cuz they don't believe here it's on he's not leaving he's leaving the place but he's going to continue he has something important to do beautiful and then Benny was leaving he heard the entire Shear word for word last night I don't know why it comes every day gal seriously I'm not joking the guy comes every single night every night he's the sheer in Hebrew it's the same exact she same he laughs again he pretends that it's funny [Laughter] again seriously I I want to ask especially H I wrote it down in my gar here you should please buy meat from Benny's I'm not joking I have a tremendous the guy built up the Hebrew we have a to one of our he has a meat store it's not just a meat store it's one of the best meat stores that we know of we made a barbecue last night with his meat better hamburgers better steaks than we had in America I'm not joking so hillo AI it's called Benny's Benny's he doesn't have a store here he has a store in the and it's the highest quality I'm not joking if you're American and you want clean clean schnitzel you want clean stuff cut up please I'm serious be M guy he he works he gives to mdy he gives to the KY guys for free he does he does he does we should give back to him best chicken here here go on him Dave if you can he just said something I'm serious what does best chicken mean cleanest cleanest chicken cleanest chicken that's what you just said okay as opposed to go go buy some place I don't want we don't want to I don't want to knock other places but he's part of this year and he gives and gives and gives and gives we should give him a little bit all right I gotta go what who in two seconds the guy is unbelievable Dave is amazing seriously if a guy one field that's all he gave okay so he gave up his third in that fieldi it's Andi both went to the same rebi if you if you say to your brother on this field you we're going to go 5050 that means on all the condos in Miami and all the mansions in Los Angeles 50/50 because he holds that gets nothing before we divide it's not like oh I got something it's it's a gift and a gift you have to receive and if you didn't receive it then you you can't do anything with it and therefore what whatever came to his the of is his immediately and therefore he holds that it's his immediately since he's over here he's actually saying he's Ming everything so as we're going to see what's the the logic behind it is that the is saying you know he's showing I could hear that I said it yesterday about myself I said you know I don't see myself wanting two portions let my sister share let my brothers I have no problem so the guy oh Big Dog you have thousands of apartments and you're Israeli tells me like you know typical I hear I hear it makes it makes sense and my father doesn't have a lot so what am I yeah a guy that has h100 million dollars and millions of dollars maybe I'm sure it's a lot harder I hear I'm just saying that this says you know what I know the T says I get two3 but I have brothers let me let me just be you know let's I don't want I don't want them to be upset whatever the the is he he's showing shows one thing so we can take that to everything it's not like they said it straight out we can learn it from a story that happen there was the oldest I was saying when I was saying this yesterday people were smiling from here to here they understood exactly what I was talking about a lot of times the B the old his brother he thinks he's in charge you know when he was six years old he was in charge of his three-year-old brother he becomes 20 is also in charge and and the brother say don't don't sell he says I'm not asking you you know I'm the you know who I am I'm Mr there's actually a okay so he goes without asking any questions sells this State against against what he was allowed to do and that's what happened he sold everything just screaming no meanwhile one of the brothers had a heart attack I forgot to mention that Thea from Berlin was n at the age of 66 and the crazy thing is his mother was nift a few hours later crazy story so this POS guy that one of the brothers was ni now he has so the sons of the of the guy that was nter that they believed that the field was theirs and the old their Uncle sold it without permission they came and they grabbed some dates the owner the new owner of the field took out a stick and beat them up I don't know what they were how old they were I so other relatives of it's not enough that you did something illegal and you purchased the entire State you going to hit them also it's theirs you had no right to buy it they went to had no right to sell it what kind of business did they have to sell and therefore it's not a sale says theor Pap holds the only on the half that's that's normal the normal part of the but the part of the that he was able to sell he didn't do anything what they meant is what said he didn't do anything the entire thing even his had no right to sell anything even his share they I just say this before they start screaming the Turning of the D by the way I forgot to mention because I don't know have to ask official maybe he'll extend it a little bit there remember for Sanhedrin we forgot if somebody does Sanhedrin from beginning to end and checks into the WhatsApp he could earn $1,000 now K is it over already I sent him your voicemail that maybe we should have other incentives people that send people okay that's up to official and uh the first 250 people only get a th000 then it drops to 500 the kids jump on the bwag if you can go up go to his website I don't know where it is we'll put it on the screen something turn the family memory of I met I met what is this Barack sh's wife yeah okay I don't like to be the one announcing bad things but Barack sh was a very big part of our she uh Yeshua price found him in a store and this was the whole thing and his say his wife was very very sick wow D okay yesterday Yeshua Burman Yeshua Burman no no no nothing to do I was in the middle of saying about Yeshua Burman Yeshua Burman met me outside and he started telling he said Put it on video he says you know why I like coming to you spish he learns every single day and says because you have comfortable cheers I said he says how much did I said cheers cost asked me 250 bucks a cheer he's a comfortable Che says yeah I go to other place I can't well she can't sit wooden benches he says over here so he made a video I sent it to the B they should know that other people not even people he doesn't do the but he learns in the Bas my thank you I said Mrs because that's what she prefers decides to sell stuff before they actually made the division nothing so what do you see from here he doesn't get it's not his the part is not his to do what he wants with it before the division however that part that onethird if there's only one other brother the third Daddy can do whatever he wants let's say it's equal it's there's no difference it's just a pile of cash I don't know what he can grab one third and bring it home that's his name he had a a basket of peppers and he decided to split them equally with his brothers instead of taking the shear of AAR he he um he split it equally also Rashi so they went to Rashi and this is the same thing I guess to me peppers and potato chips is the same thing cuz it's the why is it not the same thing you're right it tastes a little different what was not to do with division and what about the I said they made division on the potato chips you get half you get half stop making a little it's the same thing I passing the same thing a potato and and a pepper is the same thing since you were M on a few peppers and you did a division like that you m on everything voice we have a little bit of a animation here pepper git okay my dear brothers I have something very special to show you which we inherited from our dear father's a prer the rff as you know father loved eating hot peppers although I am the theore I hereby forfeit my double portion of these red things hey thanks bro okay so now it's split evenly let's now discuss dividing the cars Manion rest of valuables oh I'm such a dornob oh now we understand so after I showed this no some people started getting upset after I show then Israel started saying what's the what's a lot after they s the before I show the video now this M is for RAB Halbert this I think is n this is n you hear thisa this m right here this this could have ramifications on how you do business with your kids if a person looks at his oldest son the says I don't want him to get two parts this kid he went off the D he's out of myha I've heard with my own ears I saw somebody very wealthy a guy gave me a ride in a car and he yelled at his kid in front of me he says I'm going to take you out of the thing I'm going to take you out of the yusha and I he's like he's serious and at then that guy was actually if before his own father they're both not alive anymore but I I I heard people threat like that I'm going to take you out of the could you do that or not what telling his tell sister daddy said you don't come upstairs to kill kills kills normal but the take [Laughter] out it's meaningless why the famous story's grandson who became a in so they said they want to throw him out of the Yesa so why I don't know called he said because the rule is you cannot get engaged before you're 20 years old in thisa she said what do you mean but you're supposed to get married before he says we made a t that you do not do that if you do it you get thrown out of Thea so and now the Miss jumps to how you supposed to do it you give gifts to your children you could say I'm giving this kid more than the other kid or he made the equal to everybody else now you're giving a gift you're not saying it's a yha yha is something in the T and the T says it has to be done in a certain way gets double and the other guy doesn't get double but if you're going to say I'm going to give you right now that works there's a guy giving a Shear in the Shon the in the in the Shon neighborhood like up there and uh a guy kept on coming to to SCH to say Kadesh it turns out that his father was I guess a little bit from the kid wasn't and the father made a deal in the he wrote like this 10 million shekele to my son 2 million shekele to my daughter on condition that the son says Kadesh every single day and if he misses even one day then six and six the daughter's going to get another four the son is going to lose four so he went to show every single day and uh obviously didn't want to stick around for the speech between so he'd stay out and the r would call him and now the daughter she wanted an extra 4 million shek she was not happy about this so she hired a professional to make sure that he says KES every day and she's waiting for him to trip up so the guy came back to the daughter and said listen I have an idea I see him sitting out there smoing and the r comes in and and brings him in every day what if R didn't come in one day and he misses Kadesh so she went to the r true story she went to the r and she said listen I'll give you 400,000 shekele over $100,000 just miss one day don't tell my brother about it so he he said it's not a nice thing to do but what does say so so he went to ask could he take 400,000 he's not going to do anything just he's going to forget one day to tell him what's a big deal so he won't say k he got $400,000 he needs the money desperately cuz St told him you're not all to do it you're to do it the the needs the kades more than you need the $400,000 shekel and uh and the story anyways he became friends with the guy and the guy said I hope the is I hope he's not insulted that I um that I walk out for the speech you know I don't like the speech say don't listen the speech is gal I say good stuff why don't you try it out so he tried it out and nine months later no he really the guy really he became a that's what the guy claims he didn't become like the biggest thing through the speech he became a anyways a father has the right to do to say this one gets 10 this one gets two that's okay if it's as a gift hold on a second if he said it's then it's nothing it has to be as it doesn't matter where he wrote in the that he's doing it then it's a gift says the famous perhaps this doesn't go like so now I just want to show you real quickly because we had this uh two days ago so I didn't even have to do anything this is the famous G says I underlined it is like so says the how could you say that our doesn't go like come out not like because when you have argument so do you want to say that the Miss is not [Music] like that when it has to do with monetary things you can make any you want even if the is against the what does mean look at me not in the AR what does mean wife wrong that's why I asked you Sher means food I I I figured means food means uh clothing Ora means relations so two out of these three things are monetary food and clothing a monitary those two says you could be if a person says there is no because the guy I don't know what kind of marriage that is but okay on the two that are M he could make a so but over here it said we're talking about M we're talking about a yusha why can't make against the when it comes to money says when a wife says I want to get married to you I have a benefit from being married to you have a nice house you have a nice car you're a nice guy I want to be some of the things in the T so she gets something and she's she's m but when it comes to the guy is getting zero why should he be M anything I didn't say anything his father said his father in his death bed said you don't get anything and he's quiet says the he's quiet he doesn't want to fight with his father on his last day gonna pick a fight now it doesn't mean and if father says that there's no you can't be if a person says that guy you should know is's my now just in other words he just you heard about my he's the best guy in p so he wasn't trying to say he should get two parts three part one part and nobody's argue on it so okay so we could rely on the father that this is if there's a a country some other people say no no that's not there's a question who the is then the father doesn't have the right to decide if he just says not that that boy is a doesn't get two parts why maybe he's the of the mother maybe what he meant yeah he's but not my a person said I know that this guy is a he's part of two obviously you have to have two I know how do you know anybody has a anybody no his father once in a while calls him a I had a we we were six very very good friends in New York and we got married and five out of the six our B went off the D so I I started calling them that was my thing my not a nice thing not recommended but that's what fathers do it says over here fathers called in fact it's a rashi rashi here here it is it's a nice you know slang is even better so the it says we'll see in a second hold on so he called him a he wouldn't call a regular kid his third in line so he says oh it's not maybe he's of the mother they call they would call the mother as well yeah it says just he sticks in that means somebody that gives and doesn't take means that he gives five slim but doesn't take he never gets yha anything it's already 810 um okay so stop over here boai have a wonderful day [Music]