Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 125 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning everybody knows that RAB wolson was just sfter last week he composed M but what they don't know is that he also composed okay we just sang it we just sang it I was fortunate to be able to attend the she in person three times during my last visit to RBS for my grandson's bris I need to tell you what a great feeling it is to walk into the headquarters and sit among the familiar faces that have become like family to me over the past two years there's nothing like the she in person unedited and clearly genuine I highly recommend all those in to grab the opportunity to go there for sheer when thank you all the at the she for your warm welcome and making me feel at home can't wait to get back to Har soon izy bner this is in Hebrew but I like this cuz I said a number of times to learn in your own house [Music] anything you understand point is learning at home I this obviously coming to the but learning at her versus learning in a learning home show your kids that you learning bigul this is somebody waiting to get into the Trump rally doing the St oh Mega hats my daughter Le got engaged last night from and my son played a good part of the he I guess meaning the just left for Gaza to finish his training can you and the shear please have him in mind during the D today Ley thank you Yin okay have in mind we had last night we had a guy that comes very often to the Hebrew share and uh I saw he's a little shooken up I asked him he's a guy that um he's older fellow he's aim and he uh his job was to take out the injured and the dead so I thought he's more of a you know strong kind of character and uh he got injured in his eye in Gaza and and uh so I started I speaking to him in cheer and I asked him a few questions and the got they they they they clapped their hands for him when they clapped the hands he went like this he told me afterwards he has what is it called PTSD and uh the noise like he he started shaking went like this I had a little bit of a conversation with him last night it's very it's unbelievable he said no even though he's a strong person but then everything comes back and it he's still in there he still goes he has to go back Mo Handler this is a picture of me with you and the Su I did three sh some nights after three day y can you include this in the daily planner my birthday is eight regardless to my dearest buddy nak Seltzer you know the guy everybody knows him by the way I have been doing for years can't wait to dance it up with you where's he from FL for the saing speed return of all the hostages health and strength forell theck family L New Jersey because is the best family in honor my favorite shig Miss razel Snow of Detroit joining the great great grandmother's Club may she earn her entry many times over till 120 as my mother-in-law is having surgery today an original childhood and La lifelong friend of rbas Mor in other words my mother's friend from metapan and on through laer school my mother went to laage in Boston and life's many Journeys the anonymous from Lakewood Tak the anonymous from Lakewood in honor of the marriage to last night was the aror arov the memory of my aunt Kiam and my grandmother Freda B Maz the forell and the whole staff to make toist enjoyable for so many so we have a little bit of a um a riddle somebody was somebody owed someone $100,000 and he got a phone call that the guy is about to die why did this guy that owes $100,000 get into this car why did this guy with the $100,000 loan get in his car and drive really really quickly to the guy that's dying to pay it off hold on not people that learned the da I know that you learned the before who else he's the yeah so so you gets double double what the father has the money so when when your father dies he gets double very nice last night we had a guy that answered it without hearing from somebody else that was no fix's [Music] son and I asked him I said how do you know he goes cuz I'm a B I think about these things he's just waiting did you lend the money did you lend the money you lend the money not going through anymore did he ask you how much money you made on youring business this year here's a very interesting Shiloh I was surpr I mean when you hear you're going to say yeah makes sense but if a woman has her own bank account she has her own money that the husband doesn't have anything to do with she came into the marriage with money and she lends money to somebody so typically speaking if she dies before the husband the husband will inherit her what if she lent money to somebody and she dies is it like a that we say Ro not Ro it's alone what goes on and the guy the guy comes and pays back during Shiva he pays back the loan does the husband inherit it or perhaps the woman's y her other children inherit it what do you [Music] say children who the children why children huh no the husband inherit a wife a HB inherits a wife so why should why should that why should a long money wasn't there the money wasn't there it's called Ro is there a problem with Roy with a husband I guess I'm asking does a problem inherit Roy does a husband inherit Roy or not you seem to be saying no I didn't say anything I asked a question oh you see because I said it I found it interesting yes the gor says husband does not inherit Ri so if the wife lent money and then she died and then the returned the money $10 million the husband does not get one penny of that $10 million ask if the loan was before they were married or once no no cuz any loan is called ro we're going to see we passing like that mean that's that's a little bit of our today so let's see we're holding on seven lines from the bottom right I found it fascinating I'm the husband hello no no it's alone and gave so this is what we had yesterday I changed it up slightly rebi says when it comes to alone AAR takes two parts of the returned the return alone even though it was returned after the death of his father that's rebi we are going to pass in like this that does not take two parts of aone and then we had another yesterday that we can make some sort of the K the the takes two parts not in the interest compromise so says like the compromise we're going to see we passing like the center one does not Takei and that a is considered alone isi and he doesn't take but before we get there and that's all the way at the end of the D today why because hold that the Karen the principal the fathers considered a whatever is owed to him it's he has it it's his it's out there it's floating somewhere but it says not in the ribus not in the interest everybody that comes from they all the same thing as we're going to see one more called says exactly like you now we have two sheas that are very very similar just a little different they're both going to say that in this that a b takes two parts it's true but let's limit it one limits it to real estate and the other one limits it to cash the one that limits it to real estate not cash and the one that says cash not real estate but they kind of agree that the takes two parts real estate is there it's it's something that you could put your finger on it's as if the father held on to it why it's there's a certain sh of the real estate there's a lean the father lent money he lent the guy a million dollars cash he has a lean of a million dollars on the guy's real estate so we could view it as if this real estate was the father's while he was alive now he died so okay the takes two parts what like a k collected already says it's like a pris it's Kil collected already okay same same kind of [Music] logic well what about money no money is very different why I lent you this million dollars it's a different million dollars like my M I had where is in uh I was doing catering in Midwest Conference Center and every every night after the I would get phone calls somebody stole this somebody stole that they stole from the col usually from the college room they we had two dressing rooms for the C for the day of and uh usually gold one missing there's one woman that came in from New York to sell uh jewelry and they stole her a whole bag of jewelry all thing you know what to do so basically I set up a trap and I put a camera and literally on camera me my wife and the manager of the building we're watching we see one of our employees goes in goes to the suitcase that I planted there underneath the camera unzipped it within seconds without even opening up the whole suitcase I don't know how she did it she just stuck her head and pulled out the cash and walked away I'm running from the office to catch her I catch her so come with me so meanwhile L and her mother who also works for us comes out of nowhere and she say what are you doing to my daughter daughter stole no she didn't that the whole thing and um she says I'm willing search me so I I leave the room my wife and the manager they search her they could not find the money but I so I show her the video no and then I showed her was something very interesting I showed her a a picture of the money I put in with all the serial numbers of the money that shook her up so she said I don't have it I gave it to my mother and her mother gave me the money I said okay now well you'll either be deported to Mexico or you're going to return everything you stole all the other days so she went home and we had her mother she was hostage I think she the actual gun was hostage the mother went home and brought back a box of loot a box things that we didn't even know stolen the all the jewelry is back all the cell phones everything everything all back all because I had the uh the well obviously I was going to get it anyway but the serial numbers Mish what had the numbers of the money I can't even say it's my money money I gave this money with these serial numbers and now you're returning different different money it's different it's not the same money the the famous mice I like to say it once in a while whether it's true or not I don't know but it's it's a good mice there's a guy he his business was faltering he wasn't doing well he's sitting on a bench really depressed and this uh this guy sits down next to him says what's going on he says I have a major problem in business it's not it's not going well she says listen I'll give you a check for a million dollars I'll I'll lend you the money in a year from now you have to return I'm right around here you come over here you'll find me but if you don't need it don't use it but I want to I want to give you some backing who was this guy Warren Buffett Warr IM had the maszle of bumping into Warren Buffett Warren Buffett gave a million dollar so the guy was old he went back and he started this and that he knocked away he even cash the check but he wanted to uh he wanted to say to this guys he's looking looking for him and he described the guy to to the people there he says Ah that guy that guy's a known mug he's not a warm Buffett he goes around the people once he writes checks for a million dollars to everybody but what happened was he wrote him the check G pumped him up he gave him because it's in here business is up here he thought he had he had the backing he had the this war buff is backing me oh so he went made he made good [Music] business just the check is to be cash you don't always have to cash the check it's in the head oh ask so sorry sorry sorry so where are we I I just jumped over there says very similar to to Raba but the opposite and he says exactly like a Mayar because they both come from n that if the loan was paid back in cash the b gets two parts if it was paid back in real estate it does not get two parts why says I lent you a million dollars he gave me back a million dollar that's the same million dollars that my father gave you so I get two two parts if the father lent a million dollars and he gave him back an apartment somewhere that's not what my father lent him why should the B be entitled to two parts that's Ro that's potential he doesn't get at two parts you see that it's very similar they're saying very similar they're both saying that there's something out there that the gets two parts the argument is what is it is it K or is it money I have a question on both of you both of you don't make any sense the why you telling me if if the the loan was returned with money you don't get two parts no this is not the same serial numbers I gave you a million dollars you returned a different million dollar the guy gave a million dollars and you're R turning apartment how's that the same thing why would you get two parts your father wasn't a in that a part you said in the story we're going to have story let's call it the story of the sa of the of the grandmother if the grandmother sells her property it's a great sale so you see that over here in our case the Father the the person that's owed money doesn't own the land so here's what looks like no not this one sorry let me go to the grandmother for a second [Music] uh not sure if it's this one or that one but we'll try it there was a there was a grandmother and she had a grandson that's dying deathly ill he's on his death bed he and he said that he would like his house as yusha to go to his grandmother thing is that he had a daughter daughter is Young she doesn't need a house right now the grandmother brought him up he has a lot of car type to the grandmother she's also not very young how what it said that's that's the name here Tor means he's donating the house to his to his grandmother it's a gift it's more because the the yusha should really go to his daughter he's doing a gift to his grandmother but it's interesting gift it's a it's a temporary gift you're allowed to do any you want when it comes to gift so let's say his grandmother's 95 years old he figures how long is she going to live 10 years let her live peacefully in a nice man he gives her the Mansion until she dies may it goes down to the to the to the daughter thing is the daughter got married another very terrible thing happened that the daughter so he gives to the house to the daughter the grandmother you know let's go to the other one I like the other one the other one is more our Su she gets married okay here here we are so now he gives the house to the grandmother the grandmother sells the house and the daughter dies then the grandmother dies so the husband of the daughter the daughter all the way on the bottom is married he says wait a minute my wife Z was supposed to inherit this house after the grandmother died she's not around I want to inherit the house does he have a tinina or not she allow oh so that that's basically the Su and that's basically the r when when a to when the father gives the house to the grandmother who owns the house the grandmother or the daughter again the Father the guy in the middle gives the house to the grandma says you could live there for 15 years 10 years until you pass away I'm making a condition once you pass away it goes to my daughter who owns the physical house who's the BM on the goofa Cara how do we view it huh the daughter or the grandmother the father's dead father's dead he dies he dies he's he's on oxygen he's he's dead we should really put him sideways I don't know could you put him sideways garison just for now he has to go sideways he's not alive no the house forget that it was sold if the house wasn't sold the grandmother's living in the house does she have a right to sell it or because after she dies it goes down to the daughter so the father really did was he says listen the house I'm giving to my daughter I'm giving you the right of usage for the next 10 years huh what do you say it's the right to no right to sell what are you saying RAB cor the Goof the Goof is different from the D from the value no so who owns the Goof the grandmother the grandmother you're saying the grandmother so so that's the question could the grandmother sell the house if it's owned if the Goof is owned by the grandmother she could sell the house if not it okay so that's what we're going to see it's not so P not so P so even though the gar says soar says even though the daughter stands in her to house she tells all her friends in school she says I have a big mansion that's coming to me I'm just waiting for my grandmother to pass on the daughter according to this mandar doesn't have anything to do with it like you were saying I'm not I'm not sure you're right but at least this m says that the grandmother has the ability to sell it so if the grandmother has the ability to sell it who's the bium the grandmother the daughter has zero BOS over here what is itas if you have a piece of K that's about to be given to the father to pay up a loan about to it's about about about to means that the guy that owns it could sell to somebody else obviously if he wants to sell you can sell it because it's it's it's right to be yours right that's doesn't get two portions if is 100% Going to you so you're the BM over here you see something that really the father said it should go to the daughter there's a really strong chance what grandmother does business start selling Mansions this that she wants to live there peacefully she knows she has a granddaughter no it's not we don't view it as the daughters at all why can't we say means it's a sale but it's still it's still you can't what take it away from the one day no I wouldn't either either [Music] or I don't think there's such a thing if she has the right to sell and find little care then that's it you don't have a a right to sell you're right I would say like you I say you have the right to let to rent it to the guy your right not not s prop yeah but not I would say you have the you're allowed to sell your rights not the house you're allowed to sell I have the right to live there rentree I don't have the right to sell it [Music] yeah huh why doesn't she just owe the money that you got for the house when she sold that she got a million no if it's not a sale it's not a sale you don't have a right to I can't go can I sell your house and owe you the money I can't sell your house it's yours is it the grandmothers or it's the granddaughters I just want to know yes or no which one is it but all the trying to say is that the granddaughter has zero here just cuz she one day she maybe might be able to Y it uh similar very I don't think it's very n but it reminded me of this idea that let's say you know that somebody's about to throw something out it happens here in Israel with oranges and and all sorts of produce they have way too much and so in order to keep the the market maybe they throw a lot into the ocean am I allow to go and take some of that you have it by he uh it had to be his food that he brought into the table but but the world is going to be destroyed in in in a few weeks so why can't just come to your tree and take it it's anyway it's going to be destroyed anyway it it could be mine in in the future it could but right now it's not right now not so you you don't make sparus like that we're going to see a different sparus soon to the same thing oh it's going to be my my my land okay but right now not oh yeah yeah sorry so we see it inside you see that a grandmother could jump and sell the house so it's not considered the daughters and said that when it comes to real estate the gets too I'm sorry he doesn't get two parts what was his logic because that's not the the father gave a loan of a million dollar not real estate so why should he get two parts of the real estate NAMI so money that he returned a million dollars he should get two parts of the million dollars it's not the same money if you're talking about the same the money that he borrowed is a different money than he returned what does it say here so we know that if you inherit a million dollars in cash they don't pay the Father the father's loans If he if they inherit property they have to pay the father's loan what if they took the million dollars and bought property nobody would say that they would have to pay the loan they inherited cash they bought property it's it's over finished bye-bye the father owed money shom Isel so check this out here's the story you have a father who borrowed money bigadic instead of paying back his loan goes and lends money to somebody it might have been before I don't know now the father dies he goes into the cemetery the Lea wants to pay back the father so he takes a piece of property after the father died he takes a piece of property and he gives it to the the is who said that the is that the Y must take that piece of property and pay off the father's loan even though that at the time of death they didn't have anything they didn't have any money right if they have cash as as a yusha don't have to pay the loan if they have nothing as yha they don't have to pay the loan and over here they had zero but ala came after the Shiva and gave them a piece of property here take this apartment for the loan they must take that apartment and give it to the Mal so the wants the what's the theot is the father when he was alive he owned that property was m to the father it's Mish like it was the father's so if it's Mish like the fathers then the the the should get two pieces why because it's as if the father really owned the is considering this K like it's as if it was the fathers when he was alive and that's why the you have to take that car and give it over to the Mala so in our case also when you inherit later on after the father's death they inherit a piece of real estate it's not like the real estate appear today it's something that the father own beforehand that's how you have to view it huh back yeah yeah when they paid back in this case it's Goa yeah when when the when the real estate comes back it's as if the father already had his hand on it beforehand so we have all these KES on Raba and and they get they get out of it very ni he say follows I'll tell you then you'll understand this uh first we could start with a different story the famous Mya where uh a guy was collecting money in New York and uh he was shooing with his fellow collectors and one of the the collectors said you know I just went to plany the very wealthy guy and he asked me this bomb Kasha and I had no clue so the guy says what was a k he says okay he runs to the B Med and he learns up the whole D he learned it really well he knew it inside out he knows all thees all the he saw talk about this guy's casha great then he goes and knocks on the the the the wealthy guy's door gu says listen if you can answer this I have a big cash he tells him the cash in a second he says what are you talking about the this the that guy was so impressed wrote a huge check and they pasin that it was what why remembers everything unless he here last night were you at cheer last night I didn't even say it last night so anyways so I know I say this all the time so he didn't steal anyway this's another story goes to get and he knows that Thea they just learned this he's gonna get a looks up on YouTube he finds the the he's going to get a on these three he's prepared so what does he do he listens to all the he is now fluent in the he comes to and sure enough the r has him a bomb Kasha so the B thinks for a second he says Ah maybe he could say this and this and that literally what the Riva answered in his she clly SOA says saying who say such dumb so he looks at the says you said it and you're she he says listen listen listen I'm a I have to say so sometimes I say but I'm asking you Akashi you gotta ask you have to answer legit what's wrong with you anyway so listen to what they say this is not a good Kasha all yourh is not we don't hold like this we hold like the center AAR doesn't get anything zero zero we're just trying to explain you want to say that the does get you hold like like the on the on the right on the left you hold that you get a little bit of the Ken sorry K let me explain you that you can't be talking about money you could only be talking about real estate I don't hold anything according to me you get zero AAR gets no extra part of anything that comes in after the father's death but you that hold that does get two parts I must be forced to explain you only in a situation of getting real estate and Raab said and says no only in a situation when you get cash but I don't hold of it it's not a good what you're saying you we never talk like that these are that we leave for other people I want I'm being nice I'm trying to to help you out and explain your we don't hold like that okay needs a little bit of explanation I'll go upon him so what happens huh if this money get two parts what no what about real estate they don't like real estate here they like okay we'll see now what is going on over here was going on over here like y why said again let's look at this for one second we had a father listen to this the father borrowed money the father lent money the one he lent to on the right pays back the then the father dies so the one on the right pays back the with real estate so the wants to prove from here that since the father it's as if he was grabbing onto that prop before he died and the paid it back so it's as if he left and they have to take that and pay the Mal say no no no no there's something called it's not because the father held on to the Cara it's because when the malva the guy on the left borrows money from the guy in the middle and then he the Mala lends money to Thea so rather the guy on the right paying back the guy on the left pay the guy in the middle directly it's sh that's when all those people I like to mention I'm not going to show you the chart a lot of people left the she and a lot of people joined the year because of that I had a chart showing CH we could just say it about pen you can look it up somewhere I don't know where it is on the screen then I don't have to say it people like meny left the shear when I show that what is it the ch why eat the CH and go to the bathroom pour the CH directly in the bathroom right again what happened was the guy in the center the guy in the center we had a whole kabur in Gat set and they left this year they got up and they left at least they sent the email that they left they came back afterwards what how many people joined because of a lot of interesting people joined because of that anyway so since then again the guy in the middle lent money to the guy on the left the guy on the left lent money to the guy on the right so rather than the guy on the right wasting time paying the guy in the yellow the the guy on the left he pays directly to the first so that's what's going on over here you missed the boat over here the father borrowed M he borrowed money from somebody then he lent money to somebody so instead of the guy that he lent money to giving the property to the father or to the give it directly to that guy it's a sh thing going on over here not that the father owned it anyway what do you see from here so learned from the SAA thing that at the end of the day the K that the grandmother should be giving over to her granddaughter after 120 we don't we don't view the granddaughter as if she's maxic the K but Rabbi says no since it's about to go to the grandaughter eventually in 10 years so we view the granddaughter as if she's holding on to the car there is a certain on this car now my what is this what's the whole story of the guy said I want to give my property to my SAA as I'm learning this I'm thinking to myself what kind of guy is this this guy is not a nice guy has a daughter what does he I think wait a minute wait I loved my Safta I had a Safta I have a Bubby and I had a SAA she took good care of me I I slept by her for half a year when I was in P my parents moved back to America when I was inin I called her up I said hey sa I need a a sh because I wanted to the fun that we used to have as B I don't know about you guys but every time T is brought like like a gar so you get up for 15 minutes and you search you search over here where's the gamar it's not there and then you have you have you still using an okay I talk when we going in the thing yeah kids it's a whole a go 15 20 minutes you remember that he what are you laughing EMS like SAA you know I'm wasting too much time looking for garas so M she didn't have any money I didn't know what I was thinking why would I call my Safa she's a not a she went she was for German and this she went through the little bit of the she wasn't in the hola but she went through the Nazis the all day she sent me a shot within a week and a half the kids are so love my SAA so if she's my SAA needs a place to live give her a house the daughter KO wait a little bit she's young but she's in her 20s wait 10 years such a thing he's not such a bad guy this guy he's a normal guy I want my daughter to get it after SAA dies by the way who uh it's a nice riddle who's the sabba of the Safta who's the grandfather of Safa you mean the sa grandpar yeah yeah who's the who's safa's grandfather no somebody has to know father's father good one but what's his name good one how do you know in this week in this week's parish's grandon son was Safta ah now that you read you do M you'll get it yourself sponsors once you stop but you saw how I tripped you up I started like this and I said at the end I got the who's I said Sab this that mess you up a little bit one of the best that's how myar is that was one of the best Lauren get over over here patch okay not as good the CH one that was one of the best According to some you probably the type of guy you would have left a share for the child no I guess wanted want to give him a PCH because you got a picture of today and share oh a video ofid I got a PCH from is like biggest kiss the biggest kiss you get that is the biggest give me a smack no no not you you're not Roy Lauren we we start we start a new thing here Lauren if you have get over here I don't give the pch in the face though all right oh sponsor I got to do the sponsors how did it get so late over here the B [Music] here we go this T guy has a daughter and the daughter is [Music] married the daughter NE it's a terrible situation here the father dies young the granddaughter dies where where does he die over here there's already a m happening she sold the house kid said the daughter dies after the grandmother dies so the husband shows up he wants the house when the father says I'm giving it to my daughter I'm giving it to the yish I'm giving to one step away I'm giving to two steps away even to the daughter's husband they the father said I'm giving it over to one generation away not to two steps away not to the husband who inherits a wife who inherits the grandmother or inherits the father so they sent for very interesting is like that what that the husband does not inherit it not because we have to be m in the in the in the donators words and he meant it should go to one step away not two steps no no no no husband doesn't inherit not because of that reason what if this one see you see in this case the daughter has a son so what should be the in that case according to ra since it's two steps away it goes first to the daughter that's yish number one to the son yish number two son and husband are equally distant from the Ty guy and in in this case if you want to be m in the guy's words it means not even to my grandson only to my daughter says the it's not true this little grandson in the bottom it would inherit in all conditions and why not the the husband it's 100% owned by who by the grandmother and the daughter only is a potential inheritor potential inheritance does not go to the husband if it was considered the daughters just the grandmother has she's able to use it a little bit then the husband would inherit it why because it's not Roy it's the wife has it she died she gives it over to her husband but that's not what we're looking over here now we're learning that it's the grandmother's 100% and the wife has zero in it zero the husband doesn't doesn't inherit it husband does not inherit something potential and therefore according to that alone what then if the grandmother would sell it then the daughter wouldn't get it the daughter would not get it in this case cuz 100% the grandmother's to sell to do whatever she wants what's the L that makes it completely hers complet the grandmothers yeah that I'm giving to you now and uh after 120 it goes to the daughter yeah according to ra according to the right now says the sorry according to argues so what he holds that why could the husband get it what he holds that a husband could inherit potential nobody holds like that we don't passing like that listen to this it started off with who's he referring to it started off with ra and it ended with me now think about it is not a he's not no one he's called the god yet Ra was considered the so he calls his own self yeah it's like I'm a compared to R not R gador from America not the same thing because raun was the gador see but he's he's saying I'm a small person I'm a small person because when you read it you think oh he's he's a tal I don't know what he's a Next Generation no no no he's the but he called himself Aon compared to the of the generation that what you hear this when you give a gift and you say I want this gift to work in a certain way and I could do whatever I want a person what what was the that I can make any condition I want when it comes to moment I'm giving it to the grandmother for 10 years after that it goes to the daughter oh you hear was today it's owned by who the daughter is the daughters the grandmother is the right to live there and enjoy herself but once she dies it goes right back to where it was supposed to be the full owner not like theong said in the beginning she that it's the the grandmother's 100% he's saying it's the daughter's 100% that makes a lot more sense not like what sorry that you're the cor is right I don't like raun I like the is people that if the grandmother sold it it's a good sale why because it's 100% the grandmothers not like you said that it's 100% the granddaughters bottom line since is a husband doesn't take anything potential therefore says let's say somebody owed $10 million to the wife and then she died the husband get zero of the $10 million is potential and potential goes to the of the wife not to the husband if the $10 million is was hers in at home doand gets all10 million and a does not get any potential two parts in the potential meaning something like this remember the have [Music] AER these little BDS blossomed and became the dates that the husband does not get double and over here thean tells us a tremendous you which I didn't know yesterday I discovered it here in this Ram he says what's the difference between a tree that widened or one of these little guys that also widened became a date what's the difference I I was struggling with it yesterday because this is considered a bud and this is considered a date the two different things a tree that became 5 in wider it's the same tree nothing changed let me ask you a very simple question but you have to think about it if a husband a husband does not inherit future Ro if this there's little Buds and the inherit the little buds doesn't get two parts what if a husband inherits the buds does he get the buds does he get the AAR doesn't get two parts of the does a husband get two parts of the or does he get theu does he get the thing why it's Ro it's Ro a husband doesn't take Ro what's the okay you're saying very good you're saying very good and I just I need to I need to explain goes into it so we have to explain when there's another individual involved there and he's he's he wants it so now there's a fight between the two y it's it's future the future but over here the the husband inherits everything that the wife leaves over and she left over these little buds the little buds became good it's not Roy when it's only one person we don't call that Roy and finally as we start off the whole peric and everything that AAR doesn't take two parts of a loan if there's a loan that's due to the father $10 million doesn't get his two parts like like said all the don't hold of this whole business we passing like what I can't get to it here this guy the center this is what we're holding doesn't take two parts of the before you jump up I know it's three words but you have to see this chart it's very important and that's the question I asked all the way in the beginning that your son got what if the B owes money to his own father had he paid his father a minute before the father died he would get two parts of what he paid back but today he didn't pay back he he owes he owes a million dollars to father does he get two portions of that million dollars what's the answer here's the answer he gets half what does that mean here it is here's a father and one of the sons borrowed $400 from a father and then the father goes to the cemetery for a little visit so what we do is first of all we give each son $100 that they deserve now typically speaking that extra $100 would go to who to B today that's not what's going to happen $50 goes to the B and the other 50 we divide three ways and each one gets a third of that why what's going on here so the says beautifully because the son wants to pay back his father really really badly because he wants his two portions so the father becomes in the son's money he paid it back that's he wants to give it back so badly because he wants his do things so a little bit more of aak there Bo have a wonderful day