Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 121 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] [Applause] yeah this is a su I think of shimmy braw no who was this I don't even remember anymore nice sua nice sua and then you have this right over here you have gold here in that's actually RAB leader no yeah RAB leader also they sh your brothers okay if you're confused how am I going to understand what you're saying I got it I got it related to Gary somehow we're about to learn an amazing dadic excuse me excuse me thank you I don't like to be mean to people but there's rules I'm asking please don't speak please don't have your phones on I really don't want to talk to people during she embarrass people she but these are the rules if you come in here you might get embarrassed Ed if you do something wrong like falling asleep right in front of me or you're taking your own risk and I really don't I'm trying to work on myself but I said excuse me four times the guy keeps on he has to finish this conversation I don't understand but okay over here we don't speak during Shear I don't care your age I don't care if you're speaking to a great-grandfather it doesn't matter we don't speak during she it disturbs other people there's 20,000 other people that are listening to the shear later and noise is not something they want to hear um the for the sa safe and Speedy return of all the hostages heal and strength forell family l in Jersey because is the best golden dou fish and family in honor of my favorite Miss razel raisel Snow of Detroit joining the great great grandmother's Club somebody's Red Alert is on that means that there's missiles coming but please put it on mute may she maybe it's my own phone hold on a second yes Ellie put it on mute see I yell at you just like I yell at myself B and the whole staff to make to so enjoyable for so many this is G this going to be a great chair this is one of my favorite and I'll explain to you why as we get to especially so the question is do you make a sud mitvah when you finish a single now here's the thing where's my email here about it's not here so we'll remind today already tonight you start doing it's a really tough one okay no nothing I just want to see what's going on during my Shear nothing nothing said okay cool did you this year it's a great year to start let's go down the table did you a g I don't even know what that is this it's good we have all sorts here Scher is where you say the the weaks um how do you say par in English the Torah portion I know par oh there wow okay you take the Torah part two writings you say the par twice twice you have to read it twice and then the tum the translation in Aramaic which is really difficult you say that one that's a bit it's a big Mitzvah it's a mitzvah why do the that because if you do sh with us you learn it's part of that's how brought it down that's what you think I think but I know I learned the thing I learned this it tells me I'm on to a great start here a good oh there's no tissue here in case you are new to the shear please don't smoo with one another especially if you're cross the table it's really especially if you're right in front and please turn off your red alerts those annoying things and all other noises and now for great cheer nobody's looking at their phones and oh there's something called for those who don't know it's reading from the to you read that par let's say it's par this week right so you do par twice the whole from beginning to end the whole par then you do the tum because that's how brought it down from with the at least to translate a whole thing okay we'll get there different time now many people took upon themselves to do one of them is just said you weren't here before but he said he wants to start doing it and uh Rabbi kamanski here said this might be the year he wants to do it are you ready now no no this is learning Hebrew so on your treadmill you could do this it's learning Hebrew and then you do to the translation anybody else here I do it on I didn't ask when you do it I just want to know if you do it great it's a great day anybody start doing because of MD oh not bad okay so anyways if you sign up and you don't live in you can get a free that's a special mdy edition sponsored by marash okay fine we'll get through different time now they'll watch it later those a few hundred people will watch it later so let's say oh that's how you sign up maybe maybe if they have patience they'll send it to also who knows if you finish one it's your first time doing first time in your life is right yeah UNS now it's coming together coming together it's coming together great so let's say you finish your first you're all excited you finish wow it's the first time in my life you make a seeum is it appropriate to make a seeum you tell me that's what we're going to learn today it's one of the things what do you what's your guess always a good time to make a see it's always a good time to throw a party yeah okay I want to see I want to get an email from you that you finished we'll do one at a time okay what happens if you you miss a parish you're on vacation you don't have aish with you you miss a pish what do you do you skip ahead this a Shiloh if you have to do the whole the whole I say skip ahead it's better than nothing A lot of people fall that's how they fall one PIR they're out out of the game wa for the next bra today we're starting a new thing we could do it now we have to get to B real quickly because that's where all the is oh no there's a lot of great stuff on four lines from the bottom and also this RA are coming in 35 minutes they like to come early so we have to move yesterday we were learning about of course we had the kamansi check this out cuz Abi's father's here so let me do it because the guy up there that's the thing you ready here here we go you see your son is one of the hotas don't get excited cuas he's not so special he's just a regular average guy but I had the of having in my house here he is for the whole stor by me here we go boom that's him you know guy he's a and everything and I got to know him even more over y so he's so how do you know that when it comes to aning all you need is three simple people we do it on we don't look for the rabbis we just grab anybody that that's next to you preferably somebody that that reads Hebrew quickly and you know and you get three people and you go so this is a riddle a typical gar riddle it throws out some words that very difficult to understand and you have to break your head to understand it and hears the kiss from you're not going to believe this one of the only three times in the entire it says these words on top of the page shab bous shabas shabas bous means the first shabas of the world which we read today in the brings the that we read today in says was not all are as we're going to see so what does it say actually in the first very very first Rashi in the entire T it says something scary it says that the go going to come why does it start with Braes because the go going to come and say who are you what are you doing in this land and that's exactly what they did on last year they came in that the whole tin is that we don't own this they need they need to wipe us out of here they don't even hate Jews as much as they want this we used to live pretty peacefully with them in different countries but over here they want this land and that's that's where we're here so now what in the world did we just read we don't know yet this also we're not going to understand we need an explanation again it says it doesn't sayas or the is it says but it doesn't say what is the what's this riddle all about had no idea what's going on here he couldn't figure out the riddle by the way I keep on forgetting but I have to say because Gary's here in the booth so I'll say it again real quickly there's a lot going on today but the very very first time Gary came to the shear was on sukus morning in so he came for breakfast I don't know that he came for sheer and he stayed he stayed for the next six almost seven years probably six years came and no it's more because we're almost yeah six years came so s sometimes you got to pull a guy in a little food a little love they come in and and he's a person that sat in that booth for 5 years straight without missing a day until we got Replacements and everything but for 5 years never missed a day and then I remember remembered about your son your son Ellie I said just said it a few like a week ago I'll tell it to you cuz you weren't here so I made a beautiful scene in my house for hul you know the story no and uh I got a caterer fancy cater was two I remember 250 shekele a person back then it was a lot of money and Davi says you know I got a brother Ellie can I invite him like I'm thinking to myself I'm doing the math 250 another what's another 200 okay fine he says yeah but he also comes with his wife but he doesn't do the da a he doesn't do the D just invite him okay he's invited he shows up with his wife and that was the best decision ever you know why because he started coming to the share and then he told me about YouTube he's the one that discovered YouTube for us and told me about this you never know bring the guy in show some people a connection to Tyra through food through whatever it is and you never know who the guy will be the next Benny rodnick or whatever it is [Music] this every line here is gold you learn a lot of stuff from here had no idea what the is so what did he do he went to a place called in Iraq and he couldn't find it he couldn't find to explain to him so what do you do when you don't have you know you do it says he went after him he looked for how to where to m is 500 kilm away we're not talking about people driving in a self driving Tesla went on a donkey for 500 kilomet 500 kilomet to understand a single in a bra think about it says like this but that's what it means these are things we can learn from here you found could you please explain to me this riddle what does it mean it say says doesn't talk [Music] about in order to make a a you have to do you have to decide when is if you know when is is a Sunday then you know when sukus is you know that 15 days later sukus 15 days later is PES but it's based on what say today is they didn't have the calendars they used to do it every single month they established thees sh once again it says you don't need to be has by itself how do we know remains for the rest of Eternity now as a side note when it comes to Y if you don't go into Y and say I want to benefit from y I want the to it doesn't work shabas Works without you even knowing without you even it has from every week tomorrow we're have Shas so don't worry about it I guess it's no stop going on here here the talking about and says talking about think together they share the same rules you should need every shabas imagine every shabas the best has to get together and say the seventh day of the week shabas no it doesn't work like that it's good says what's the second part of this also riddle it means like this when it comes to establishing a you need professionals how do I know you need professionals CU look at these they're professionals when it comes to you need professionals where do we get three because a chuckle you can't have a even Bez you need a third okay but when it comes somebody's NE guy says I said I'm not going to eat anymore and then he can't control himself he sees the he needs to eat so you go to any three people boom it's off well you have to do you have to ask a question ET wait a minute says it should be the heads of the there's two things you could either do three simple people or one it's it's either or here we go beautiful didn't have a does a whole massive thing on here's the this is where it comes from was a huge Ander right it's a mishna exactly we Inus this whole is Inus it goes all the way to L actually it's word for word this whole this whole is word the every word here we learned over there the girls that are not married they wear white dresses they borrow them why do they borrow everybody borrows including the the King's Daughter who's the King's Daughter she has everything she borrows from another girl basically from the K's daughter okay she goes down one madreo she's not going to go to a peasant and the's daughter borrows from this G each everybody borrows so that the poor girls who are are borrowing clothing are not embarrassed we see this at least twice on this da about not embarrassing people that speaking middle shear and phones and sleep and all that should embarrass people it's a big big iser to to people I understand I even said somebody came over to me said you know what this this year when they said I felt it I realized this is it's such a beautiful time beautiful and today by the way was the end that it's kind of late now to talk about it it's a it's never too late to do CH but today was like the final final if it wasn't a final of a final and today I guess you could tell your American friends if they're still around and you're going to visit them tomorrow ah but the L Fox is today go until Kana when you get to khas until whatever P cuz K every every that's how got Wealthy by the way from the he from from he chiseled it so people say it's actually Gul you read it and you know we just read it when do you read it yeah we just read okay fine in aric yes you don't get into let when the lets ask you guys you just yeah yeah yeah yeah they're in they're in English but what's the big deal you hear what is the big deal about so first of all I want to go back a second what do these girls do with these dresses so on yipper the holiest day of the year they went to The Vineyards and they danc over there and the guys would come and they would take over there that's how it was says that it was a ton because this is what I understood from him basically people are super serious nobody wants to do a nobody wants to think about anything everybody's very focused very serious did D oner it's a day to be if anybody ever had um whatever so you come on and and you're serious okay they started the practice sa right right that's that's I don't want to get into that because over there's a little bit of a force situation and the fathers were told like turn a blind eye but okay I always think like imagine if a r got up today and said this is this is the meting now we we have to start this to save the the sh crisis they would take the r physically tie him up and like throw him like in another country they would beening for forever but okay I don't know exactly how it worked but that's how I have a riddle actually who which Jew went to this Vineyard to find a wife but instead of him finding a wife the wife found him she gra if nobody knows you'll answer anybody nobody knows you're looking good you're looking good we might have to come on to you who no no what you say sh that's right sh his wife saw him and Sheed him very good okay says the G this I know you know from not either you listen to the shear but you weren't here or but it's not in the art scroll or like it's not in the D you stop know it very good this this shows that all the other times that he answered also wasn't cheating very good DAV your star who's your father you should give some here so what else is we said that only and this is important to remember a woman who inherits her father she's not supposed to she's not allowed to marry another shavit besides but the first generation they didn't want the inheritance of to go to another sh this was a day that everybody was allowed to marry anybody in other words that generation was over and like mdy all sorts of people people that know what people that don't it's all all the types says in the we had this the other day right it says that in three places you remember all three places you got three places got I got it takes it takes the whole for me at least takes eight minutes a day do you translate the Pasha you just read it in Hebrew I understand it like and then the UNC gives me actually more explanation I'll show you today actually is it today or tomorrow tomorrow's d i sawat just a simple word in the gor I saw in today's uncle tomorrow I learn from why not it's good it's a Mitzvah even if you don't understand you just do it you say it and you could also some people say it together with B I don't like that idea because it's then it's the ones that are loud are really annoying they where the guy says a p up at the stage right like that and other say right that's how it was that's back in the day that's where the and they say every word in together it's like a six hour you have to thank you that you're asazi you don't have to get off for a month yeah yeah okay for the good stuff and that stuff you don't do that stuff you leave and the the and whatever that you do I got it yeah yeah yeah only for one generation again talking about the all wiped out besides the 600 people and they swore they're not going to marry they're not going to let them marry them and then they were going to be wiped out so they gave them women the whole thing but the next generation was allowed to marry they swore we're not going to let our daughters we're not going to marry let our daughters marry my daughter how come they stopped it it's only for that generation this is the day that the people sto dying in the desert before you turn the page it's to look at this so let's see thean real quickly I'll put on the screen in case you don't know where it is it's the bottom rashbam right there and here it is in large this is my this is my favorite V of all time so I'm going to say it even though I might have said it just a week ago so says this famous thing this is the day that they stop digging 600,000 people that came out of the that were between between the age of 20 and 60 and every year from from after the miraculum so for 38 years I guess they all dug Graves and every year 15,000 people died they would dig a grave go in in Tish and wake up the next morning if you woke up great if you one of the 15,000 people now and in the morning they would announce separate alive from the dead and they would check 15,000 is 15789 people because if you divide 600,000 38 it's 15789 every year 1579 died this is what they did until they came into last year they checked and no one one died there's only 1578 people left they went in to the graves and they didn't die maybe we made a mistake so they went on they went in for five days straight there a full they made a big giant party they're alive we're alive maybe it's tomorrow maybe we're off a day they went in again again they realize hm is not going to kill them so the V is beautiful and even if you heard it two days ago it's heard again why did they survive why why they why were they every year 15,000 died they the last 15,000 the answer is because correct because they D and they D so the question is but every year they ding to be saved especially the year right before when there was 31,000 people left they all ding like crazy and the answer is a tremendous idea in and how works when there was 30,000 people that went into the graves the year before they ding like crazy but not crazy why because there's a 50% chance that you won't die and when there's a 50% chance that you won't die you don't mean it 100% you mean it 98% when you go into a grave and you know that there's zero chance for you to survive that's a whole different different level of G doesn't like theat he's ging me like this back forth I love theat it's nice it's not nice it's real it's true it works when you're serious and you ding cuz you know that the only thing that's going to help is that it's a whole different level of says the he's he's new he's new I'm not going to say anything I real even though he does all the sh and does the edits he's new there's only one person that can say sponsors it's oh you thought it's sh is in the editor he's an editor you have to be an editor and sit in that seat because somebody tried sitting in that seat and do it I yelled at him you have to be an editor and it's to Ariel if you sit in that seat because you're the only other person that can do it oh now hasem didn't speak to raenu when all those people were dying now he did speak to M raenu but it wasn't like a friend it wasn't like hey how you doing it was it's also to do this to do that to that didn't happen until people stopped dying before that sponsored by the family memory of my wife for filled with and m i mean you all remember I was in this room when the sirens started in middle of DAV we didn't even know what was going on we didn't even go to the Mad was okay a lot of things have changed since that the Russ put cops on the roads up to not to go and he got rid of them and he said okay you can go once there was the golden cast that these fake aaras and once they got rid of the fake so you know what you guys can go it actually caused the gas why because K so used to not going to they didn't go even though they were allowed to they didn't go and that was a bad thing for clel famous when there was the Revolt of the revolt and millions of died and they stayed there for years out outside unburied when they were able to bury them they it was a big so in Bening there's only three and they added the fourth like we say after it's called every every time you Ben you say what does he's good and does good and he's he's made he's I mean he is good and he does good that the bodies didn't smell bad after all the time they were being they were outside in the sun that they were able to be buried it's a big thing we still have those hates some of them have to be buried and uh we know what it is we we we do a lot to get to get a Jew to be buried here it goes this is it this means a lot for me personally it's the day that they stopped cutting the wood first of all I I forgot to show some stuff here this is a picture that Yoshi did of people it's very hard to do we want it different obviously but this is when Kao goes into their graves and uh they wake up in the morning like what's going on there's a full moon still okay um let's see what is this oh yeah you're not gon to maybe I should show it to you later I'll just show it to you now and then I'll explain why there's certain things okay so what's going on is as follows oh okay now let let me explain to you what the gar is talking about then I explain to you why I'm excited about the suya and how it has to do with MD this is a day that CL used to cut wood for the mar let's just see the mara for a second um this is the m right from afar you go up the ramp you bring the corbas on the MB there's a bunch of piles of wood some are larger smaller they used to bring the wood every day cerol had to chop wood on tesv of they stop chopping the wood that's already when the wood the sun is not as strong so didn't dry out as much there's there's um wormy not good too too many worms so they stopped cutting the wood and they would break their axes it's a day of Axe breaking in other words I'm done we're done cutting wood so I'll start with r Shapiro because I owe a lot of I think we all that he brought this idea of says it's a day and it it really fits into today the the yard side of all the 1300 people that died last year anra it's a day that they we break the enemies what's the word I'm looking for um weapons the break their weapons with learning to break their weapons that's what he says that's his little happens to be it's a day according to the rabim it's also a kiss from Hashem check out this R right over here I mean you could look it right in it's the top r on your da he says like this when a person has a job it's hard for him to learn they stop break cutting the wood why did it make it that's what it is according to it's the day that they celebrate that they're able to learn T So 7 and a half years ago to the day to the day sitting in with myrer and next us is sitting and then he says I like this toover mle I want to break my mle I want to break I do he does diamonds used to work in diamonds for years his father-in-law worked in diamonds his brother-in-law is still working diamonds I want to do a t mag I didn't know what he was talking about he's like you know real estate how does it work passive income uh I I think I want to spend more time learning Tyra I want to move my entire business everything I know I have a lot of experience in diamonds I want to move over to real estate so I can spend more time learning to that was the day he decided it and every day from then he was say mag he got a great partner from South Africa he sold his entire business M right after that sold everything and went into real estate and yesterday he comes to my house I thought he forgot about I was going to talk comes to my house knocks in the door he says I brought you a gift this is a very expensive bottle of wine it's like in the 300 400 range I don't know he's like you remember now he might remember because I made a silly um sign to the DA which I don't remember I never remember it and every single time I have to ask I um I don't even remember it now like instead of cuz we're talking about axes we used to do like hints with the what's anyway so he remembered he brought me this why he said because I had a Parton him doing it but my message to the is that we can learn from said I'm going to make a 180 in my life I'm going to change everything I know I have a lot of experience in diamonds but I want to do real estate not to make more money but because I want to learn more T which he does he started teaching Yesa his whole morning is all about Tyra he starts the day here and moves on to ET Etc he did put many more hours learning a day for that and for that we can learn tremendous amount now going back to this thing of I asked all the year when you finish one you finish one safer do you make a so wants to bring a from this that you do because they didn't do any they didn't finish a m here they they finished the Mitzvah they finished the Mitzvah of cutting wood and for that they made a Sim says you see anytime you finish something Mitzvah you can finish I did uh a lot of people they they learn like REM with their sons I thought one of my sons with I think it was Ki I said let's learn let's learn at least so know basic made a at I asked my father could I make like a can I make a real thing with the H he said yes he he he passing it for me okay so maybe he got it from over here vit oh and one last thing I want to tell you cuzz always says the story and I asked him about it and he told it to me again about it's a true story about a guy that's young today he's maybe 40 years old or so his name is miti I don't know his last name he was like U the clown in Yeshiva a real clown a guy that wasn't like he was Into You Know non-jewish music stuff and jumping out of planes and he's like uh one of these guys one day he said you know I want to I'm making a big his father owned a meat store I want to make a big everybody's invited they all come to the what are you making you see on he said I finished theous and the guys started laughing you know they're making fun make see with like this yeah making big see and he made a see and then a little bit later he invited again big what are you making see on the finish the guys you know between themselves the guy you know he's the loser of the Yesa he's making like this he keep on making true story guys he's alive now today one day he made a Mas he invited all his friends he made a he he rented a hall in he got a 10piece band he man and uh the waiting for him where is he and all of a sudden he comes down in the helicopter comes down come comes to see him and uhin who's D's over here knows him he saw him he's like what's going on that's it he's he's learning all day became a serious guy all from the he's explained to he said the C when you finish something and you make a party it it becomes part of you it changes you a little bit and another C and another B we're all going to celebrate with at G and Ai and Hill father they're going to make he's going to make a on his first time and your first is it your first time I don't know if it's your first time but maybe all those who are going to do mikra for the first time we're going to make a massive helicopter you're going to sponsor the helicopter I got you know what if you do it and you're here I'll sponsor half of it okay let's go we got to go we only have three minutes there's seven who expanded the entire universe from beginning of creation till today and these are people that were T of one another and they were sadik because you could fit in other names here but that's there there's two things that you need you need that and lived very long he saw he saw the I'm going to say this for Benny because I he came again and I didn't say this for the Israelis the famous M said there was a couple that were 110 years old that came to the bz to get divorced so what are you getting divorced now 100 T so we're waiting for our children to die so they're not in pain but I'll tell you another one they were interviewing this guy said hi 90 98 years old he says it's very simple every day I work out I go in the morning I chase peacocks that's that's how you stay yeah are you Ser yeah so so how old was your father when he died he say died who said he died if I still alive serious yeah how does he survive how old is he he's 120 then what does he do every morning me and my father we go out we we Chase peacocks so unbelievable okay fine but what about your grandfather so my grandfather know my grandfather don't he's still alive but he so what he's still alive he what he chased peock with this morning he says no this morning not this morning he he's getting married he's getting married he says yes what's he's getting married he says oh cuz the pressure from his parents his parents are pressuring to get married so he's he's not there two great jokes I didn't say for the Israelis and he's saying you didn't they're great jokes you guys are just too tired it's the delivery all deliver how's it possible it says that nobody was left going into besides was ay and therefore he was able to come in anybody a Le here besides y who else that's itob so I'm going to tell the leim it's a big Mitzvah to Wash's hands I know you know that but you look around not everybody does it they get lazy here inel especially in America it's like a big thing every ladyy comes and they hold the from different side here and I I did it 3 weeks ago I have to do today yeah it's a big MIT so so everybody died from 20 to 60 as we'll see so as you see here the of maybe you don't see could you do Char 18 for me please what there's nobody from the rest of the that came so you'll see who's doing that edting you or Himel chart 18 just says I'll say it for you so you see that there were 30 years old by the way we we should do this thing again this um the fine after I said the story you could do show it again now they why what's going on just got stuck this oh now show also slide 20 please slide 20 I show it I can't do it doesn't work on my thing meanwhile I'm going to read these two they were born they're breaking the things oh meny went through he's and then they went to learn yeah you see there's other people from different that came in so this is also something new that happened to when went to war nobody died over here approximately 36 people died ask was literally 36 people died doesn't say 36 died when I'm telling you something approximate I don't say approximately 37 people died you either say 30 you say 40 you don't say a funny number like 36 means something else it's going according it's it's referring to one person he was equal to most majority of the is 71 so 36 is so you see more people came in from other L 20 sorry if you're less than 20 or more than 60 this of dying in the desert didn't apply to you it says you have to be 20 not more you learn from from what's chart 13 please oh got it means if a person says this person's is on me so we look at this chart depends what age that person is if he's between 20 and 60 he must pay the circle which is 50 if he's above 60 how much does he pay 15 if he's below 20 how much does he pay 20 so the the the amount that you pay to the B MD if you say ER it's much less if you're under 20 or over 60 they're not exactly the same number it's either 15 or 20 but it means it's a lot less above 60 is like below 20 which means it's a different price than 50 or so too going if you're over 60 you didn't die in the desert just like somebody under 20 raai have a great year we'll see you tomorrow