Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 112 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning Josh Hartman H belly I want to Rite to thank you huh ah yeah no so High belly want to write to thank you no as I sat down here I was like wow we have over here guys with the longest beards we havean we have Kipas we have yers not yers Michael harbater Wow have Pilots two of them where's gil g Propel three yeah propeller guys propellers jet wow I want to write thank you for everything you do I'm not expecting this Emil to be read at the sh I don't have some crazy life story inspirational lesson I don't I don't agree while I did start the D initially with a different cheer which I still do today until today I've been with you as well since m z almost daily however this email is that I want to thank you for your efforts and promoting like many that came back toar after many years away how many actually M I probably have not completed the whole in about 30 years after the tragic events on I wanted to do something I needed to do something in your first year you mentioned about and I was off and running I went the whole year and did miss a week finished right before Kipper it's a great idea you push and continue to do so of course thank you for your D Hebrew D and everything else but I wanted to thank you for the MRA push Josh Hartman Q Garden Hills Queens New York rabai it's a new year almost um unfortunately this year it there's you can only start bous once they lay bous and meaning like between sometime so that only leaves you like with two two three days to do it and it's a tough para but it's a great time to start just remember that not every week is going to be that difficult start at night uh what they don't read bous at night but that's okay in your SCH if in your SCH they read bous at night you can start at night if in your should they read bous today on on Tuesday you could start from today whatever your Min in your sh is my Min in my sh is that we're huh you only have two days whatever it's leave this to me you do that thing over there last night I was at the Gish made of V last night you know said that said leave this to me I got it and then he forgot so sticking up for Gary here so last night the Gary B made a ver for his son and what's the name of the Mish the daughter the B shman sh bman so it's there now was there so there's a guy from the she his name is is RAB leer son-in-law and he lives actually in Rab Leer's house they have a beautiful house in gimmel I'll remind you this is the picture I showed yesterday without the tell so say it without oh that somebody superimposed me on top like that but is the one on the bottom the top guy going with two hands when I asked who is this your first time learning or so he raised his hands with he was very proud that this is first because he felt feels good mom has changed his life his son comes with him every single day this she he got his brother-in-law to come to this year it's it's his life so when I was at the at the V he comes over he says listen I have a I have a surprise for you I only live two do down could you come I said sure So I come to this house this is that's his father-in-law Suka that's R leader Suka is the one with the everybody ask why is he wearing hisin here he is you think you have a poster you got one from sucom whatever Su posters.com here's a this is a a super siiz Israel this how the Israelis do it in the Suka sorry and this is I decided to jump in there with him um so anyway a little picture of over there is there let's see it's like a tiny side who's that what's this there's more there's another picture look go inside you see I look on that oh you know what L these days I'll do assisting Chapel you answer I don't know you started it I want to thank you for your efforts of spreading to in a tasty way it's literally addictive although I never physically attend you to share yet I I listen daily via YouTube the is my source and source of ultimate pleasure in this world although I almost married out a non-jewish woman in Croatia 11 years ago yet during the time I never disc disconnect from the da never disconnected from the 11 years ago there's no she then there's some other today I married to girl from and we live in giml that's where we were last night that's where you live right we built a beautiful new family your efforts to reach far out way far beyond the walls of the B please keep up your holy work maym bless you and your family with the year full of blessings with new heights of spirituality and sincerely Yuda Rosenberg we're waiting to see him here in cheer a bsk is here yesterday good morning just wanted to write say thank you this is an older email that I found mdy trip to Europe that you included my son and I it was great learning cve visiting all thear and the SCH sleeping Thea ofin today is unbelievable Hotel the actual Yesa the actual door every place is a highlight of course we receive tremendous I also want to share with you a voice note from a graduate from y today is a teacher there which oh and here one last thing the um Penny Gilden from she sits made here he is pen penny so he wanted to bring to everybody's attention that 7-year-old son-in-law kvki is not slept in a bed since October 7th 2023 he used to sleep on the floor now he put a he puts a board on top of his mattress there's a picture of the board on top of the mattress this is where he sleep since October 7th at 70 year old gal so I want to tell you something that we this is incredible I was I was moved by this I think everybody here in the room is going to be moved this is the most incredible um what's the word I'm looking for initiative that mdy has ever seen by The One and Only official he's he's coming out with an initiative to learn San for new people what he's doing is it's Misha when you hear about this you're not going to believe it basically this is it here give me that thing for a second I'll show where's the it's on the screen here what he's doing you're not going to believe this for new people that haven't done the da like three and a half years there's a bunch of different rules but you could if you start doing the da and you have to do it our shear and you can't do it one and a half speed do it and you check in every day you say done every day you do the entire s hedrin from beginning to end plus whatever whatever do left from Bas and twice a week you go on this WhatsApp group you have to write something about the D you so you like this you didn't like that you could you could earn $1,000 $1,000 so I said fishal $1,000 what if 3,000 what if 3,000 people join $1,000 you might he said Al so he's willing to let it's going to cost him a good million dollars this initiative he wants people to join s hedrin it's unbelievable so far we we already have in donations alone for for garas we have with fal's donation but somebody else I told you about we have over 2,000 garas to give out so we're going to have to push s hedin like crazy and this is the initiative you could print this out for your Su here it is without the bottom part and he's coming out with a video to promote these mom she's all in I said you don't need to do th no has to be has to be $500 everybody spends when they go to the restaurant it has to be $1,000,000,000 yeah we got I know you with the glasses from Brooklyn no London down Road what's your name remind me Mar it's not the first time we met we already met before right that okay so that's why I'm confused London and here who else he's not a guest tell everybody your name David not how many times are you here m in the in the B mess right here in this place really yeah I live in Florida I know I've seen you 10 times at least I was in I see you in Florida Oh you mean my okay that's the same thing yeah that's that's extension to the marriage okay you hear Su what's your name from far away yes what else oh I have to say this before we forget so yesterday I mentioned that if you that Yi said that if a person donates $1,000 a month he's eligible to go on the trip eligible means he probably has to pay his own way but he's able to go on the trip so elav davidich donated $1,000 a month because of that $1,000 a month I want to go on the trip met blobstein a dollar a day when you see the the low number it's a day David Hauser it's $10 a month Mo bner $5 a day Brian Breer $18 I think a month Rick Bentley $3 a day and may a day one Gori Kus something like that a dollar a Perry dubinsky $36 a month Chad Milad $11.25 a day Ronald Mandel a dollar a day a boss $3 a day Yuda a dollar a day kovski you gotta be going to read this this is what happens when your CEO is from I got it all kovski $150 a month yeah Al Shai eisan $31 a month I'm assuming Ellie Ellinger where is he is he here today not here today $52 a monthon s Mandel $10 this is a suff I'm going to go with a month stepner $36 a month Perry C dubinsky he's back who he's back he was on 36 now he's 52 who har c yeah was just $36 and now he's $52 that's what oh that's what happened per se good old per se oh yeah yeah it's it's upgrade from 36 to 52 for the upgrade $18 a month I can't say his name $1,000 a month plus he I think he yeah he also gave $5,000 towards the Shabbat so um whoever wants to come on the the world's most uh I think it's going to be a safari actually so you never been on Safari start donating here we go we are holding eight lines from the bottom of anybody in the room oh sponsors wow we have to learn a da today no sponsor wow it's almost 7:30 anybody learned this da yet D anybody how did it go was it easy no okay the [Music] month saing speed return of all the like we got two of these in honor of's birthday from the MD family Maz English or Hebrew wow of alander wishing rebell PL Toronto happy 40th birthday to shf people love you people two two happy birthdays I don't think so the of his mother the 13th of in honor of the story and Z texted me yesterday says yeah have it he says you can say the story whenever you want as long as is having that's what he wrote but for forting he's probably the one who else fored he said no he said he got it from a few people return for and his unitell and the whole staff to continue to make enjoyable for so many how do you know that a husband inherits his own wife as a side note just a y is the largest peric that has the least has the most most amount of Da with the least amount of like today whole D without okay you look in the side no us here there's more D like that so yesterday we had this beautiful at the end of the Year Rob said like this oh here's a little bit of an art of a guy learning he's working on himself and his wife over there is standing on a on a cruise ship I guess by the uh leaning on the wall over there spry did you hear my [Laughter] father no cuz she's talking about uh inheriting a private [Applause] jet okay speak about me this is no you have to make a on the got a jet how do you know how do you know that he gets it says so very interesting that this is the exact that Rob said yesterday he he quotes different words yesterday was a whole complicated thing what does that mean here let's take a look over here it's the it's the L also you take off a V and a l from those two words but over there call because you see from the it's referring to the husband inheriting the wife rather from the pases of the words of the means that the wife inherits the wife no it's not to the wife it's sh take off the L it's not to the wife okay so that was yesterday says says I don't like this cutting take a v from here L from there make a new word no that doesn't work in other words I don't like that that's not the way to do it so means a wife you take the you take the wife's belongings and give it to the husband what do we have the other day what does Sher mean not the wife rather it means the the Father the father means the father so that's what he learns that's he's the that learns that is um this is interesting H hold on this I got to take this it's it's my she probably doesn't realize that I'm giving share been doing this for 5 years okay probably the only one that can get through too she's in Chicago now so she she's off with the times according to means the father so this is what we learned yesterday and this is what we're going to be dealing with today says in the P that if he have a daughter who inherited from her father and her mother to she took from two let's do this for a second where was it I saw it somewhere here something like this okay just uh there's a father and a mother who come from two different one comes from shim one comes from ruin it's a little bit reversed in this one and they both have houses they look like uh like arrows but they're houses one house is a shim sh shim house one house is a sh ruven house and it comes now down to this woman so the Torah says she should not marry out of her shavit she has to remain within her shavit what's her shavit shim but she also has from Rin which the is going to discuss how does it help me for her to marry into her shavit she should not go out and marry out to yud to she has inheritance from father and her mother she has to keep it within the shavit so what do you see from this P you see a very very gaka thing what's going to happen here she this daughter inherited from her father and her mother and she's going to marry who somebody from sh Yehuda and what's going to happen what's the what's the fear the guy she marries is going to inherit everything when she falls off the cruise ship he's going to inherit everything so what do you see that a husband inherits a wife that's why the Torah says that's why the Torah says from the shav of her father she has to get married she can't marry out why she marries out the guy will take it and then it's going to transfer theha that that shave it hat another shave it what do you say oh oh that's exactly what the gar is going to discuss maybe not the husband maybe she's going to have a son like I just showed in this picture here that's what I showed right this that's what we showed there maybe go the sun oh no okay you get the idea we're going to see it soon [Music] says so now we just have to be familiar with this concept is what said here's there's a father and a mother were concerned if she dies what's going to happen theha is going to go to her husband that's a is about it transfers to the husband the other option is that it could transfer to the son that we're concerned that after the mother dies they'll transfer to the son and who's the son the son is from sh Ru like his father and she shave shim she he just trans she just transferred a house from Shimon to shave it that's the concern but now the says we're concerned that the husband is going to transfer over she's going to transfer over her yusha to her husband and that from here you see that a husband y a wife now the brings now four more proofs four more RI and anytime the gor does that the G always ask why do you need four more why is one not good enough so is goingon to say because this has a hole in it that you could poke a hole it's not a perfect proof [Music] another so we have another here Zion after remember it's very similar they just did it in green you should not this is don't transfer the yusha from one shave it to another shave it and there's another this is T lat another the son of died and where do they bury [Music] him they buried him in the mountain of P here this is in the sh it's called This is where they supposedly buried a lazer it doesn't say they buried a lozer in a lazar's lot they buried him in his son's lot how how did the son acquire this this Mountaintop if not from his father how did he get it his father inherited from Yeshua yeshu said okay this is yours so when he died it goes to his son and he buried in him in his own lot what do you mean in in's lot how did he acquire something that his father didn't have what could be a good answer I like what he bought it why can't he buy it not you that learned to D that's why I as who learn to what says who you live in and uh you bought the laugh from somebody okay so we'll see so the says but how did a son have a lot that the father didn't have married a woman she had a lot in her possession how did she have a lotai she inherited from who from her father and how is she allowed to marry somebody outside of the shavit she used to have brothers another same there's a father named he had a son called y who had had 23 cities very wealthy he had 23 C here Gill G 23 cities says this is today okay now same question how did a son have 23 cities and his father never had how did he acquire them he must have married a woman who had these 23 cities she died and he inherited his wife what do you see from here that a husband inherits his wife husband inherits wife that's what we're looking forward to see if a husband could inherit a wife my Vol why do you need five rias what's wrong with the first again what does the first say that a woman is not allowed to marry out of her shave into another sh because we we're were're concerned that she might transfer whatever years she had to her husband so you see that a husband can inherit a wife C oh maybe the concern is not that the husband is going to remove it from the family it's her son we thought we thought it's this that if she marries out of the shet what happens if she dies she has a house from shim she dies the house is going to be transferred over to shuen that's not the concern the concern is this if she gets married to somebody from another shavit and they have a son that son is the sh goes by the Father the concern is after she dies look what happens it's not going to go to her husband you don't see that a husband could could inherit her you know it's going to go to the Son and the son is also problematic because he's not shim he's ruven now he just moved transferred property froming from shim to that's the problem that's why I need the that's says why does it have to say twice I already said STI keep it in the family so why does the have to repeat itself say again keep it in the [Music] family by the way r d diam how did they pronounce it in English D but I think they could he's a big uh shom professional so he said the so he T is that one of the biggest shom issues is is when people marry from different countries different different you know you go marry someone from NE different back different that's the biggest shbi issue why do you stand by kides you sit you're supposed to do like this like that not that brings a lot of issues to the marriage he says what Strife Strife what what does that mean brings a lot of strife to the marriage a lot of a lot of difficulties my made I don't know 12 13 so he told me his his most uh one of the that that he says it's his number one guy comes to him he says I heard you what are you looking for he says only ashas me only ashas she has a very good job she speaks perfect English and um I think that was uh so he set him up with a t money no job doesn't speak a word of English he says that's his most it worked out like you take the same background and it's always good kids are Americans Israelis not a good idea New York Chicago unbelievable idea you get the idea okay good Bells sat I don't know we'll see you soon MD there's a lot of going on like M door to door within your is pretty close and uh you who did you marry no but like from where how close but I'm saying within is great for the parents because you get the golds they had the like that Gary Gary Gary but he has to walk all gim how far the walk you walk huh they used to be but used to I don't know okay fine but they grew up with the same the same ah ah yeah okay turns of that it's the same you know I have here this let's go back to the other for a second not this one sorry this one this is a positive Comm say you should keep it with don't tell me Bells again you guys are Bell Bells we're just doing Bells this whole month two days ago we had six bellers last night we had in Hebrew two bellers there we go I'm not gonna not going to ask you for your names and everything because you you want to say your names if you want to say your from bar you her you IM you came from now wow okay you want us to start [Laughter] over ah what about you you're not you're not the bells are you what's your name first Yi K Kelner oh we said AO I said AO to you already that was outside I met Okay Okay g [Music] so this is this right over will tell us say when you go and marry out of your of your thing not and over here this is a to marry outside of so then why in the world I need test another another is so that's why the brings three so far to prove why can't you marry out because then your husband will take the out of one sh bring it to another sh but he inherits the wife you see that a husband inherits a [Music] wife maybe it's yeah two one says there's a Mitzvah or to marry out so it's one in two that's why I have the whole story that P buried his father in his own Cav how did P have a Cav that didn't belong to his father must be inherited from his mother from his I'm sorry the wife the P his wife had this plot and he buried a lozer in that Maybe not maybe he inherited from his mother who said that P inherited from his wife a son we learned already yesterday a son inherits a mother so maybe a loser's wife had a yusha and the son P inherited the yusha it did not belong to his father and it belongs to him and he did his father a favor so to speak and he Beed his father in his plot for that we have another is the final one who again how did y have 23 cities that his father never owned must be he got it through his wife maybe he got it through his mother not his wife same question that we had on this is unbelievable why would thei why would the tell us twice the same story the T doesn't repeat it the t is not a story book it's not a history book this one he had 23 cities he buried it if not to tell us over here that a husband inherits a wife that a son inherits his mother we don't need two to say the same exact thing who told you I have no RI from here maybe a husband does not inherit a wife and all these are to tell us the and of of marrying outside of the of the and it doesn't teach us anything about a a husband inheriting a wife it's talking about this a son inheriting a mother that's the problem marrying outside of the sh because it might transfer if the mother marries somebody from sh Ru she's a shimik and she marries a ruin it might transfer that way yeah let's say the father is a beler right and the mother is a Satur so what's the son a Belzer so now you just took satmer stuff and brought it to Bel maybe it's not that's okay that is okay that's introduces what said all along who told you that P inherited from his mother or maybe inherited from his wife maybe it inherit maybe he bought it it was on the market and he bought it and then he buried his father there bought 23 cities and is this uh this place that called hir P whatever it's called today we looked it up it's in the shamr somewhere it's uh he bought it he didn't get it from his father he didn't get it from his wife and he didn't get it from his mother he bought it now what would be the point of the T telling us that he bought a plot buy a piece of land that's notes no sell your property no we know that you could sell different no the Torah says already different places that you can redeem it redeem this it comes back yil we already know you could sell says that they were wealthy it's good to know that a person who's aad doesn't only get sometimes pays in this world too 23 cities there there a lot of wealthy people one of the wealthiest people today in London is is a Big R right water yeah fresh water so you have what also same thing that he was wealthy yeah and why do you need two of those own you can't tell to someone out of your no that the T says that we have three like that and that we're saying we already said we have two in a essay that that that we dealt with but that we have in the we have two and also that that is taking care of but why does it say that buried his father in his lot to tell me that he was wealthy individual he made his own money sorry that's impossible to say that bought a lot and he buried his father in that lot why because Allah lot goes back to the original owner on y so is going to be buried and something that's not his is oh so that's the next that's the next line that is that that is a possibility we'll see in a second um just when we we used to be in we're looking for a place to to build the mdy so there's a lot right next to still empty for 20 years they're already building a shoulder which they didn't even put like one stone in the ground so I went to them said it's a great idea what they dug out they dug it and they also put um cement all all the way around they enforcements cost them like a million dollars to they the hill and then they got stuck without money so I said okay listen we have I'll build I'll put it up and then you'll go on top of us we'll we'll get it going see a great idea great idea of course it would cost us money it's that but only on one condition typical in 20 years it comes back to us so like we're going to build MD and it's not even yours no you can't do that you're going to bury your father and then 20 years later what are you going to do 20 years later there's a guy here I don't know if I should say his name n he's not so nice to to the FR people yid he said that we have to we have to tax we have to tax Graves that was his idea big giant unbelievable idea going to T put a n on a grave and if you don't pay let's say the dead person stops paying his tax bill you just kick him out I guess like you just bury somebody else there is very valid that was his mared the idea back in the day okay there such a thing that you don't you don't get to he was prime minister genus okay it is what it is no that you talking about Bennett was I don't remember not everybody's familiar with this we say in what does it mean says the a person can use the word doesn't mean that you are in that they excommunicate you means you take a field you say this should be like a dish to the so belongs to the so maybe P picked it up from that somebody donated and he got it and then it's his forever so he can bury his father there so now let's go back here let's say this is the case for a second oh see you saw that says where the tell us you have you have parents one is from shim one is from sh ruin I like I think it's somebody else did this but it's okay I think DAV did it real quickly last night in Miler so I just kept it but it's it's a little confusing not so confusing but like when the father is Ru it's the same thing so one is Ru one is shim and they have a daughter and they both and she inherited both a house from ru and a house from shim so T says she cannot marry out of her shavit as the as what do you mean not marry out of sh who she supposed to marry if she marri somebody from shim so the house from Ruben is going to go out of the of the shavit what are you doing [Music] what so here it goes yeah see over here okay that's this hear the if Ru is the father he's from the father's from ru the mother's from shim and they both have houses they give it to the daughter she goes and marries so the Torah says she has to marry somebody from ru but what happened to the house from She's removing she's taking the house from shim and bringing it into the shav of of ruen you already done oh very good yeah I said that what happened happened that's it it's already transferred the house was already transfer to the this woman on the bottom by the way this woman on the bottom what shape is she she's a ruen she comes from sh Ru so that's it her mother gave her a house from she's already a Ru already transferred what are you going to do let her just marry somebody from Ruben so in other words the T doesn't care that much of of transferring now the house it's already done done deal it's too late now for f so he says no it's done it's not done it's still there could go back to shim we don't say very very simple gar by the way the words this and that might be confusing but ideas are very very simple if you want to tell me that it left shim's shim shav it already and all we're dealing with is ruen and she should marry into ruen just to make sure that the red house stays in R so that makes a lot of sense before we explain it doesn't matter now if the problem is that the her the bottom lady's husband is going to inherit her he's a ruven so it's great or maybe her s is going to inherit her he's also a ruven guy it's great then we don't have an issue but if you say that's not true you don't say what happened happened we have an issue on our hands she has two houses one is from Ruben sh is from and we're concerned that the house from is going to go to the wrong so she marri somebody from from ru it doesn't help us okay says the G incredible thear says that if we are still concerned about the purple house called shim it's a shim shav shim house how in the world could she marry somebody from her father shave it's going to remove the purple house from sh and bring it to Shu obviously we don't care about the purple house if you do care about the purple house then it didn't help us though what the said she's should Mar into her own jaav it's not going to help us it's going to ruin the the purple house says the I have an idea that it's not going to ruin the purple house what's the idea this is the world's hardest sh this is m not good for the sh crisis this is it this is the perfect if her father is a Belzer and her mother's a satmer she has to marry a that the father is a beler and the mother is a satmer and then it's a perfect sh everything matches here here over here on the left side the father is a ruen and the mother is shim now she has two houses a ruen and shim house great so she should marry a husband that her father his father is a ruven and his mother is a shimik now nothing changed it goes Mish for some reason that's going to help that's what the understood no galic it's a it's it's hard to find how you going to find such a such a guy you can barely find such a woman no there's two guys in the whole world like that and they're going to agree to marry this this woman work out great we don't have the issues I say kid like this and he says like that oh she next week right if that's the case that she has to she must find the that the father the's father is from ru and the and's mother's from shim the T doesn't say that what does the T say let's look at the says she just has to find the Bell don't talk about a you have to find somebody the father is a ring guy doesn't talk about the mother the should have mentioned also find that the your the guy she's marrying that the mother comes from the same shav it as her mother doesn't say that doesn't say that the father and the mother have to match your father and mother just says your his father has to match your father that's all it says nothing to do with the mother check this out I'm going to get to the sponsors in a second and just remind me if I forget here check this out I mean there is not a gous thing it's very very simple we're saying that we have a and on the bottom the kala the Isha her father comes from ruin her mother comes from shim so she has to find the guy that his father is from ruin and his mother's from shim and like this her two houses the ruen house that she has and the shim is going to transfer over to a husband that has the same says the we're concerned if the to would mention that you have to also be concerned about the mother we might do something like this check this out o not like that okay it didn't work so well but over here what happened was O could you stop for a second [Laughter] I'm getting dizzy oh it's like sucus the lights the thing okay what happens is that [Music] the oh it Chang on that side wow that's confusing okay we're concerned that they're going to have the Father the and come from almost the same their parents one is a Ru one is a shim but it's not the father and the mother that have the same like you see on the let's go to the right side the the the top guy on the right he's from ruing the top guy on the left he's from shim the grandmothers one is from ruin and one of is from shim the grandfathers one is from ru from shim they share yeah is it confusing it's very simple okay so if the T mentioned mother they both sat Bells but instead of the Father the mother's father is the Belzer and over the's father is a satmer but the mother is a bell kids say it works is that okay the bells is understood is this such a thing s bels but there is there is one and then they have to make that it's very hard to find the okay if the T mentioned it we might think that what's important is that there's the same shave within the father and mother there a and shim how exactly it's done that the father and the mother it doesn't matter we can mix them up you cannot mix it up why look what happens over here cuz over here she comes from her father's a shimik his father's a Ruben if they get married now you're actually transferring over shim property to Ru cuz her husband is a ruven and she's a she's a shimik we're taking when the fathers don't match the fathers have to be the same the I is that the fathers up top the grandfathers they have to be from the same shave and you cannot switch it around sponsored by oh 84 family mations Inon thank you for year fill and this is I'm saying the real name this is a super super simple gamar we already did everything just some say a woman should not marry out of her shet because her husband is going to inherit her and that is going to take it out the it's going to take the yusha out of the shave and some say the problem is the son is going to take it out if you want to see what it looks like real quickly some say that if she if he marries somebody from different sh let's say she's a shim and she marries a Ru when she dies it's going to go to the son and who's the son he's a ruing guy some say the problem is that if she dies it's going to go to her husband and and he's a okay where do you see this it says says you should not go out another is telling us the problem is it's going to go to her son who's from a different who told you that's the problem maybe it's because she's G to marry somebody that person that she marries is from another okay I'm not going to say the joke now see no it's late what happens what happens if a let's say marries is going to come on time so test it says again so can't be saying the same thing it says in the you should not marry out of the she oh so what is telling you because of the husband what it's telling you because of the son have a wonderful day