Daf Yomi Bava Basra Daf 10 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning if somebody could maybe help out over here last night we were inar as a our first shear [Music] for the Hebrew speakers and we had I don't know I want to say over 100 people there in this room it was there was not a seat to be found it was a beautiful beautiful mats of great energy we intend to do it more for the Hebrew speakers to go from City to City a beautiful thing I want to share with you you know this is not the right video let me see if this works over here this might be in Hebrew piz p okay anyway so let me just tell you real [Music] quickly this is in Hebrew you remember yesterday I spoke about um the the SCH Andia AIA that has a sign on it with all the expenses so in the Hebrew sheer I said you know there was a guy a very tall guy who's a re Ander and he came all the way fromia to the so I reached out to him and the she I said maybe you could take a picture of of the expenses and send it to me so I could have it for the English year so he writes me an email here he says thank you for mentioning me I really wanted to send a email before I I love this year I did the whole B with you this day you mentioned this SCH we're talking about the show by the name of gur happens to be I'm the Rob of that the guy I reached out to to take a picture he he happens to be the rub of that show how did I know about the show who told you a guy in the kylo no sh like interesting thing anyway so he says the reason why I did it because there used to be fights about how much money was spent and where they should spend it decided just to throw it out there um I maybe this will take too long but it's okay it's K let me do a over here this is the famous pen he is a v Survivor of severe trauma as a child in one of the whatever and he came out in public and he and he said the following here P I came across a promo video of a very dear friend of of Ki rebell Stans I can't explain why because I haven't learned in 30 years or more didn't attend this year but for some reason I gave it a try and one year after another after a couple of sh after a couple of days I just turned back to myself and it literally saved me and not only me my family I'm looking into the camera Ellie I hope this is going to go to you but I have to show my accur to publicly and I need to thank you thank you for changing my life but I showed this already this is a famous one and the next one also but I'm showing you for a reason he he wrote a nice email here to this boy this is also famous but for the new guys that don't know about him here what's your name how old are you I'm now 17 say over the store I'm not going to do the whole thing don't worry 15 years old I left my and I fell into depression for about a half year I was in bed not doing anything and didn't get out of bed film was in a very deep depression once my father introduced me to the death with her Bley I came out of the Depression started put putting on fil because I couldn't do the death without putting on film and then I start I started learning I got a job I do every day the dff and even though I start getting right now I'm starting to catch up to where I am after I do the every single day right now I finished about I think it's about okay so here's the here's the um email it's from pin to this B so first of all he he says something without before he goes to duid I must congratulate for making the video about you and mdy was the best video I've ever watched and never watch videos only mdy job well done is an understatement I was very moved when I watched how overwhelmed you get when you hear and see and remess from people about how it changed their lives in many cases how it literally saved their lives I'm still very moved by how you feel other people's pain but more importantly however when you get with joy when these people turn their lives around all because of you and mdy with your permission since I was put into the video I'd like to address the kid who was on the video right before me because both of those videos made it to that um what a day which by the way is his number one video of course 33,000 views in 10 days dear d I must acknowledge your for sharing your struggles publicly at such a young age more importantly how you got out of it which was by learning the D with the rebell you sharing it publicly is commendable courageous and heroic you're a role model to so many other kids who are still stuck where you came from I do not doubt that it will lead others and already LED other precious kids to follow your footsteps he's saying to come out not to be embarrassed to say to share your story I'm sure you already know some people started learning the D only because you I want to assure you there are way more people who have started that because of you and there will be many more to come you have so many with each word that is learned only because of you as reell mentioned in the video all of us at MD look up to you and from the entire mdy family for all you made and then he says do any of your old friends who didn't struggle have that many under their belt I don't think so with gratitude pin Staten [Music] Island you mentioned in today's sh about collecting money from others I thought you'd quot that says I received from others that when you when you collect money from other people so he's saving your family from collecting door too thought you made I thought you'd make the that some bring someone to learning that would help his offspring if you help somebody else then your Offspring as well yeah about The Offspring not not no what yeah but he said ah you're you're saying on him yeah he's making um okay and then we have this B that comes every single night it used to come to the to the English marks had surgery today he was hit by a car years ago and he he waited years for the surgery and during on Ione and here he is doing the D doesn't miss a day he should have I get reell please don't say my name first I want to say thank you for bringing me back to life Mish without you I would still be a part of the people who are not to learn to thanks you and what you're doing is extremely amazing now based on the story that you told yesterday told wants to see a song of this exact story see attach song thanks again and again was learning daily your Lyon New Jersey and here we are oh I need to I need to show you this hold on he made a fighting On the Border in the north and Raba we know how hard it is to learn under those circumstances so it's a tremendous that he sent this email in we're here for a very long time and between our different things and our how do you say um missions thank you I watch your shear and he watches our sh I thought he does it by himself good help that all the hostages and all the should come home peacefully and safely and that all the residents of the north should be able to come back to their homes it's very sad he puts in par is to see all these empty houses and many empty we should have we should between us Shalom here it is here's this is not him this is another video I don't think this is him this Donnie sent me a bunch of stuff this is also in the North and here's one last thing I thought it was cool you could hear the humming above of those drones lawn mower but with the Hummer they're bringing in the garas into Gaz the for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages R's birthday's birthday Ma Ma it was like yesterday your birthday this is one of the I'm telling you this you don't want to miss last day Mrs Ruth steber from Manchester she's this Friday somebody had the time to write a message when you say n it sounds like you're excited about it I don't know what they're talking about this is what it says to Say yui Axel Ro for people to read about mumas in the or an enre on the story I have no idea what talking about the famous and family in honor of the bris of our son this morning or yesterday from his grandchildren this is is one of the do that had to me I don't remember do has so many unbelievable Concepts M concept after concept and uh we're going to get into it maybe six seven like Earth One greater than the next have the famous song where shti where did he hear it anybody what's shti in the street where huh huh he heard it on the tapy singing it anybody anybody have a no nothing okay that's what we have to learn today says the he was up in sh and he heard them saying it in we're holding a little bit lower than the middle of the Al and we will promise you I'm going to catch you [Music] up we will learn a full da today I'm not saying to the end of The Da but a full da even though no it just turn the page put your finger where we are now and we'll get there and even long a person who does secretly is greater than said does any anybody believe that you do you're greater than didn't do the is as we're going to see soon he's greater than who able to be he's able to erase the anger when you do you're greater than that that part of says I'm scared of the anger the Wrath which is a tremendous extreme anger of that I don't know how to deal with when you do secretly it will remove the the anger and this will what that's what I'm saying at that point they ready wore off wor we're talking about today I did MTH I'm able to be 3 weeks ago or two days ago so it's not it's not there is more like trying to get rid of the tremendous cast this says if you do get rid of both the and that get rid of the anger it could do one out of the two it cannot get rid of yes it could even even if you give there still be you won't be able to get rid of that tremendous take bribery you bring tremendous wrath to the world if you give one PR how much is a PR today it's garnished call it a shek a quarter you get six and if you talk nicely to him and you calm him down and give him get 11 so I just put it down here if you want to see these are the six in uh yes so the first but that's not what the is saying the is saying one four is five six I did that also over here if you want to see each one here's all the 11 this is also this is starting out one of those lifechanging ideas if you chase after you'll find so the simple meaning would be that if you give a lot of you will need you'll become poor and somebody will give you which doesn't make sense because you ran after you'll find you'll be a poor person this is comes to teach you that if you chase after you look for opportunities for you're always looking for an opportunity will bring to you he'll give you money so you could give if you pay attention in life you'll see there's certain people that achieve certain things and he ask yourself how did he get there how did even in a how did how why was he chosen to destroy the bdes why was that Rush from Austria all of a sudden in Germany and he killed six million Jews you know why because he wanted it so bad he wanted he wrote a book about it Ah that's what you want here I'll put you in power you have the r I'll put you in there even wanted to destroy said nothing here you're the king somebody wants something so bad he wants to be a give okay here will give him that thing but you have to not just want it in your head you have to do a one after another whether it's in good or bad I think it's a tremendous there if you're you're trying really hard to do where's that H that I could give him make you wealthy so that you could give it to him will give you the right people because not every guy that comes and ask for money is the right guy there's a lot of fakers out there because then you can get for it so over here the remember if you find the right person thear says you'll get that if you don't find the right person you don't get by giving him money and the says and this comes to exclude comes to these these people from they should be they should stumble in front of you when you're angry should deal with them even when they try to break their and please give them the wrong people to give to give them the people that are not worthy for and says it again when you give a person who's not right then they won't get so the question is what about us when we give a guy comes and says uh making wedding and he's not making a wedding he lies to you mentioned there's a lot of people unfortunately like that they come with this seems over here you are say you are but but there's no so so there's a beautiful Min so I want to be I want to tell you another here maybe this seven eight maybe there's more says beautiful and I saw that says something similar but I think like explains it around around he says there's two things person wants to give to to do a Mitzvah he wants to do a Mitzvah he has to do a Mitzvah to give so that alone because I want to do I want to blow it happens to be that the the outcome is not a good outcome you gave it to a multi-millionaire so you didn't have the outcome that you won't get S for but the you get for wanting to do a mitzah these people from they didn't have the right and they also didn't have the outcome so they had zero at the end of the day they don't get any Us by I want to do and the guy's a millionaire I get part of the I get half I get the part of wanting to do the Mitzvah and doing a Mitzvah but at the end of the day there's no that's what he says thought it's beautiful a person who's used to giving he'll have sons that are they are wealthy and they give over a and they can give over beautiful Dres I want to tell you that I saw yesterday inside in the this is not a story that you read in one of these newspapers and a shabas whatever the Y A lot of these stories I I I do research on to find out who says what turns out that it's brought down from five different people people embellish this is written by the and he says these words I saw this with my own eyes so this is not a this is not a joke this story it's unbelievable story says as follows a guy came to and typically speaking in the m I spoke to my father about it last night I was till 2: in the morning mind you because I started off at 12:30 and then people came in so I'll call you back I wait around till 1:30 call me back we still two so I asked him about because he he's big BG he knows the there's a concept that when say he's talking about himself he's himself says this anyway it could be the story because he says with my own eyes a guy came to and said that this person that's talking he lost all his children they all died says this to him then your is to do so the guy opened up a to give out loans and on day one he wrote down these are the rules of the and every three years we're going to make a okay this and he started giving out loans and masin and he was M running a beautiful organization and lo and behold he made a bris for his son on the day of the sud that he wrote three years earlier that day he made a bris for his first son for the son not his first but the the the only son he had and eventually he had more children and then he forgot about the did with him and he came to comes to the he says I want out it's it's taking up my life I have other things have to take care of my family the tried to convince him not to kept on coming back and fin said okay so find somebody good found somebody good and he gave him over the thing says the the next day the next day one of his kids choked to death so he comes running to and he says I got to take over and he says listen it's a and he brings out over here and he also brought the with he says was saved for 12 months from a destroy saved for 12 months not not to have anything done because he was giving and okay so the guy took it back obviously and not not the next day yeah they had a kid no says I saw with my own eyes so how do you know that they become so we saw I don't know if you look up like 10 lines 2 4 6 8 10 lines it says how do you know that your children will be wealthy when a person give speeches in public then people give him cover great or guy off the D comes over to you and he says if your loves the poor so much how come he doesn't give them he could even fin everything in this world every ant gets par from so how come human beings not to save you from this exactly what if the remembers who is T tupus compared what what relationship did he have with I know's going to answer this this guy right over who that's right they had the same wife married to's wife that's the famous rock or whatever uh [Music] yeah what so loves him so much yeah he said what but he did he didn't call somebody to do he gave and this is a case of him giving he asked how doesn't the so care yeah the answer the is causing him's Don gets interesting so every time every time H goes around interesting every time H walks around and ask for money he's doing you no but not he's getting a Mitzvah by causing you to to do a Mitzvah interesting got it so we asked loves the poor how doesn't give same thing that we should be saved from this is going to cause the Jews to fall why it's similar to to a King that was very upset at his slave put him in jail imagine and he said his people don't give him anything to drink and eat one person had and didn't listen to him he gave him food and drink when the king finds out isn't he upset and you Jews are slaves you are slaves if says you are a poor person it's like he saying you're in jail I'm not giving you food nobody help him out turns around and says here how about this this is the son of a king just says the same exact he says but that person is not a Slave he's actually the Son ofm and the son of the king is happy when you break his word and you give him food he's upset at his son and he said don't feed him and drink him maybe like putting his son in jail and somebody gave him food and drink he'll be very happy he'll give him a gift we are called the Sons of is not going to back down you called both you're both a son and and a slave depends on what not Do's will and therefore you are and should be upset at you you should give the poor to break the bread in half and give it to the to the poor and we said learning the remember the Romans complaint says right now right now the Romans neveress the says you should give the poor bread see wants us to support the poor this is one of the biggest ones biggest ever we know the first part decrees how much we're gonna have every year just like decrees how much we going to have so your losses are also determined decrees that you're going to have a $1,000 law this year so you have two options there's no way out of it you are going to lose $1,000 whether you like it or not what you could do is you can give it to the poor and at least your money went to a Mitzvah or what you could do is you could talk on your cell phone while you're driving and get a ticket and then go to to them it's your choice you decide how you want to do it so your money will go to the poor you get tremendous the Romans will come to your house and take away your your your money so listen to this unbelievable go a v he says it's not only your per and not only your you have to hear this this is unbelievable it's your in this world in this year you're Han the amount of CH the amount of you're going to have from ice cream from from pizza from CH from any in this world this year is determined you could decide to take it and you could decide to take a you could go to McDonald's and eat your burger or you could have that same exact burger at home you're not you're not going to gain one in this world that you don't deserve there's a certain amount of says this is your cup of Ana you could take it from here from there do whatever you want you go to the Alps if you want you go whatever you want to do but it's coming off something else at the end of the year you you it's going to you're going to take it from something else and the same thing with the same thing with a person is given a certain amount to every year you could take it from you could take it in y you could take it in in in getting out of bed in the morning to go to SCH if that's how you want to do your that's how you do your but you're you're going to get this you determine how you want it so I asked I told Yoshi such a beautiful thing I wanted to do something so he did a it took him all day it's a it's a tough a tough one because there's a lot a lot of parts but here's a guy um his are like this he could determine how he wants to get to the bottom of his yur and here it is him getting up earlier Z just went down K by him giving away from his money another one his just go down on the left he's learning to die from the way we did this for yesterday and here going it's hard all these things you can determine you could determine how you want your Ser to go down and what was this okay no it's not you just you understood with that the cartoon is your learning no you mean that's you [Music] get anything you do you do any you do do that that volume of whatever that is gonna give you you think in your di you're going to get a thousand an from this sister you get thousand an or somewhere else it doesn't make sense you want to discuss it right [Music] now yeah how does it make no sense you I just told you how if you're sitting in your bed and you don't want to come to she he said this blanket feels so he ripped the blanket off I'm going anyways that's to sit and listen to She if you have ADD you know how hard it is you control that that says you know what I was going to give a forget look at him look how much he did you know how hard is for some people to take out a dime out of their packet and give TD y they do it anyway oh okay fine yeah I got rid of that now you understand I love when he ask cashes from up there it's galic happens to be this I told you I learned Basra 20 plus times and I don't remember anything this story I remember this stuck to me for some reason I remember the name I remember the whole story had a dream sorry oh sorry I skipped something the nephews of had a dream that they are going to be missing this year 700 din tremendous amount of money so he went over them he he convinced them to give now he could have done like this could have said hey I had a dream you're going to lose 700 give all your money to that would not be good because then they wouldn't get so in a smart way he said listen there's a great Mo over there maybe you should give over here and he gave they gave and they gave and they gave unbelievable they gave everything from the 700 minus 17 all 680 three when came which is exactly a year fromes came and took the 17 so they're all sad you got a ticket for 17 don't be scared these are the 17 that remain by you you should have given them out that's what they took you're lucky they could have taken a lot more they could have taken 700 [Music] I I saw in my dream if you would have told us you had a dream I would have given we would have given all 700 here's another tremendous if you go to the re and he tells you something you don't get to for it I want you to do aah out of your not because I had a dream but because you decided to do it and it's better to give 683 than 700 here's another a person that's in a car accident what should he do what's what's what's his he's in a car accident and nothing he come walks away without of scratch what should he think how does he what should he think tells us here walking down the steps one of the steps fell out he almost he almost felt his death what is going on here the person I hate is hated in other words he's talking about himself I almost got over here person has a car accident he almost got I don't know what all thees I deserve is talking about himself I deserve no no no you don't have to be that I told my maybe it's talking about the the famous wherea said I'm not giving this on he was the head of the and then they said he's going to die he says yeah but it says if he's and then Tak I saw in the AR he brings it down it was one of those time one of the rare times in my was instead of okay I'm on to something but it's not even brought down anywhere gal and then of course brings it down okay the when you turn your eye from it's like you're world you're building giant mansions and you doing tremendous do I have to explain it o I forgot to say in the story o I love that line I forgot to say it it's my I always tell people this the guy says re comes to this he says I need a so I don't lose the kids says I don't understand goulas forget the red bands forget the you know going to this Cav and that that this do what the to tells you to do do that's what he told him forget this goulas I can't believe I forgot that lie I love it you coming with me to to to this over here we go to this country and that country no right over here right over here do here learn over here forget the red bands there's 10 tough things in this world you have a very strong Mountain the hard metal or the the fire could bend it or fire is terrible water extinguishes it goes up in a in in a cloud in a cloud the wind blows them around the wind is terrible this this tornado that one the body is full of wind and what about a strong body a little fear in the head a little psychological thing you're done person has what does he do get drunk you sleep it off sleep is 160 of the death so obviously death is the worst of the worst and what do you do about death will save you from ways are different than the human being a person brings a great gift to a King it's a the king will even accept and if remember the say that if it says that's the that's but I guess doesn't apply inle of a story if you say if the king will accept the GI King might not even look at you you give a gift to the poor I'll see your face I'll see picture so took this and we do it in also you know by you know they go around by whatever certain places give a little then you why when I some people use as an excuse not to give what does it mean one of my favorite videos you see him he didn't know that somebody's hiding inside his room and you see the clock 1: a.m. 2 a.m. 3: a.m. and he's singing the song of T it's unbelievable that video they don't sleep at night only in this world but if you don't sleep in this world is going to give them his light this is a famous also what does it mean the literal words when you you the poor says if you lent hasem money and if you lend hem money what does that mean he owes you he owes you one if it didn't say not to talk like this like a EV to you he's he's like a slave he's to you to a person that lends money you can take out the word Ry maybe because it's not really contradiction it says once tce why do you need it twice you should know that gets rid of a terrible death a tragic type of death it also removes you from what does it mean the one that says the word ever in that the best pass du in this world is when the one giving doesn't know who he gave to and the one receiving doesn't know who gave it to him I have to show you this picture because I don't know exactly Yoshi put it in here I asked him to do this and I don't know what this is about what is this ah okay yeah I as this now is but to look from looking at it that's why a lot of people at the cahoot didn't know it's flying because you have to explain the picture okay they this is different than my my wasn't M this completely what would he do he did a beautiful thing and there's people that do this there's people that go to people's homes they put an envelope under the door is it a beautiful thing absolutely why because the guy that receives it doesn't know who gave it to him maybe doesn't have but the guy giving knows exactly who gave it to used to do that you put four Z by every door and walk away now would do also a beautiful thing he'd put money on his shoulder walk around with the pouch and would take he didn't see who's taking but they knew who it is that's not the best what is the best give it to you don't know who it's going to and the guy receiving it doesn't know who gave it to him so you think that you should give or to here he is with his thing this is you don't know who you're giving to every D every turning of the Page respons by Life share the first crowd funding Community where families are protected before a tragic death M gets it don't know is it you should ask and they said yeah when you give to the for sure I got it okay we learned what should a person do what's his here that a person should have male children he wants he wants a has nonix not is not a good idea a guy that has only girls have a boy finally what is what you do should should prepare his wife for relations so the problem is it says over here you should only give when a person like is is involved today we don't really have that unless RAB you consider yourself you have to be you have to be person in charge has to be like like otherwise you don't give to okay I don't want to say it here people oh he said don't give no you should give it's a great way to give because you don't know who it's going to and they these people that are in charge of and they don't get any money it's unbelievable what they do how can we uplift when they give they will be uplifted they asked him how does it work look what my father said you give many to different p means you scatter it everywhere you hear this when give it stands forever you will live means to live Stone will be your your Dwelling Place how by you giving bread by you giving water that's how you you live in a high place why is it that you live in a high place of when when you're older and they give you honor that means you're this is my one of my favorite garas of all time it's brought down a few times I think I don't know I didn't look in the side yet but the famous gamar he had a near death experience as they call it he was so weak he was in a coma he he comes back says what do you see up there I saw an upside down world the ones that are above in this world are and the ones that are down the D ones are up says Rashi is referring to and check this is the picture the the the the guys with the tatter clothing they're in the front and the big verim they're in the back I don't see the so much so the famous the famous the second line I got it yeah the guy with the B tie I hear no the the ones that you think that are yeah nobody looks at them nobody says hello to them in says the famous we can see it inside he says from got Generation generation the [Music] famous was the he sat up front sat like a tal why because of one story because he made didn't listen to this one woman who was screaming and he gave him you don't hold you cannot close your ears from when a poor person screams and for that I want to tell you an amazing amazing I have to give you to that he sent it to me before this year I love when people do thata says such a phenomenal thing he says today we we we compete with each other yeah who's who's faster who's bigger who could dunk better in basketball better in learning remembers more say this is the in this over here why is it I'll give you an example put down F in the he remembers word for word like a computer so when we get up to at least the I can't I don't remember one one one like not one I remember like he remembers every he knows better than me yeah even one I didn't pick one so we get up there who's going to have more and I'm not saying as I'm saying as a mus the beginning because he learns all day and he's a big but going to judge me that I don't remember no he was born with a brain that I don't have so what does that judge says you have such a brain you you're you're but you worked hard and hard and hard and you remember six lines of the gamar you because you remember six lines you sit over here but this genius that has uh the highest rated computer chip in there and you know what he took it easy L you go l saysin it doesn't over there doesn't go competing one with the other it goes what gave you your how much did you utilize them so that guy with the half a brain the guy that you look the the the he sits because he took a the brain and worked harder than you harder than you you go up there you got the unbelievable brain and you're the you get the ace the whole sh and this and that you're Mish you're the rub of the sh and everything you're no but you're the r of the sh because you're bishan because you this and because that you don't get to sit up there because you didn't utilize all unbelievable no no no no he tells us that's the real world my friend not not you didn't see upside down world that's how it is and then he asked how do you see us how did look they are where they are in this world they are over [Music] there for the yeah so it says like this I heard in you hear you he what does it mean who sh where sh says I heard when you come to this world with with praiseworthy says means like with his hand that he wrote a safer those who were killed by the by the the kingdoms you can't you can't step close to was killed at the age of he was greater than everybody in the same the compares to so if he wouldn't have been killed he wouldn't we're talking about L and Pap the famous where the king said that he accused of killing his daughter so they took the blame they said kill us instead of them have a wonderful day 10:00 followed by the Hebrews sh [Music] 11 for