Daf Yomi Avodah Zarah Daf 36 by R' Eli Stefansky

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Every time you show a new satellite show, I just like get jealous that there's nothing going on in America. Last night, I was on a Zoom call till a little bit after 12:00 a.m. The guys are mamish rocking each all the each guy that's head of these things. We had like 14 people on Zoom and they come up with great ideas and different things sharing back forth what they can do, what works, what doesn't work. I'm trying to take initiative and host a show at my house. This one's a shab. is 10:15 p.m. Here's the address in Flushing. Get a put it out there. Whatever. There was a there was a great givea bar 13 people. Seeing in the beginning will be on one speed. Emails and guest PS singing in the beginning will be on one speed. Emails and guests on 1.75 or two speed. She on one or 1.25 speed. 125 is very good from your visa held. Listen to this inf learning inf. We have our own little thing with last night. Take a look on the left bottom corner two. And in the same picture, you can see me with his zebra thing, the white yamaka. There's another guy. This is Shalom's son. Take a look at this. He has nose earrings. The whole thing, everything going on here. We have a whole she huhan. >> That's the famous Yonatan. I think he had that since he was 10. He was like that. Um this I think I showed yalam is huge in this year. Following up on my previous about the office listen to this. I wanted to share exciting unexpected update to bring more co-workers from all backgrounds in DA. I launched an initiative a thousand shekels for anyone in the anyone in the convergence office who completes with MDY to encourage immediate participation. I also offered 500 shekels for finishing from the point we began midway through the I expected a handful of participants. 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My grandfather I I'm just thinking now that when and both it's a certain it's a tremendous amount of >> he's some thinking about you and he wants your best and he's willing to put money out there not give you a braha so do far should have a lot of nas from MD monthly. You also should have a lot of knock from your don. What's your name? >> You know what? >> Burman. I know you. You know Chicago? Nothing. Where you from? >> Lakewood. I was born there, you know. So, we're related. >> Wow. What's your name? >> You I I know you. >> Yeah. Philip from Elazar. One one of the snowmen. >> That's right. Where's that guy? >> Snow has an >> Why? Cuz you brought him. >> Yeah. >> Wow. Snow has Well, Snow has an anyway, but Galdic and that guy's He's a new guy. What's your name? >> Moshala. From where? >> Shalim. How'd you get here? >> No way. I got Wow. Very nice. How long did it take you to get here? >> How long? >> That's it. That's so How old are you? >> 12. You like go on a bus so early in the morning by yourself? Israel is What age? Tell us the truth. What age could you take these kind of trips? Three, four, 10. >> I got a I I was looking for the video. Who took a video of me of There's a There's a Beler that comes from Bell's comes once a week. >> Benny took Benny took it. If any you did, we got to show it. He comes here. I'll just say it. Takes him 9 hours, but he comes once a week. 9 hours. So I said, "How many times did you come?" 10. This is my 10th. He's counting like he knows exactly. >> 9 hours. You >> 9 hours. What's your name? >> Menton. >> Menton. From the Netherlands, but live in Tel Aiv. >> Come on. Just say Netherlands. We need a guy in Netherlands. Netherlands. Netherlands. Tel Aiv. There's a There's a little bit of a kabur going on there. You It's It's forming. the night. Yeah, it's coming. >> It's coming. It's going to happen. All right, Galdic. Beautiful. Here we go. >> We're holding 2 4 6 8 10 12 14 lines from the bottom. So, one of the things that said we can't eat is bread. Can't eat from the go. The go is bread. Pass palter. The mission tells us that there was a zera on their oil, but they absolved they said the oil is not a problem. They they got rid of the oiler, but when it comes to bread, they didn't get rid of the saw beautiful shila brings one of the he says him say So it says he says like this. It says how come we can't marry because they didn't give us bread. So you allow to eat their bread. We have a then why don't you give us bread? Huh? What do you do such a? >> No. >> So you know what he says? He says >> he says what? >> No. Not the title. >> Anyway, the bottom line is >> he says that if they would have gi he he claims if they would have given us bread, we wouldn't have taken it. It's awesome. >> But why didn't they offer it says but anyway it's a good question. The question is a good one says the gamar is saying that by the way they never absolved this this is still there meaning somebody wanted to get rid of it at one point. Somebody was trying to mess with this who wanted to do that in in fact somebody was trying to get rid of it went out to the field of pun. Oh yeah, I didn't show you the puni the uh in the other shear. He has a I don't know if you're able to get it, but there's a certain oven. You'll see in the the shear before in the flame cuz there's I forgot to put it in, but that's a we a porny oven means it's um it's a oven that the the opening on the side, not from the top. And he brought this ginormous bread of a saw. A saw is like 13 14 pound kala. Here we go. >> Yeah. I was like, >> "Oh, and Rebi saw this bread. Wow, this is a beautiful bread." And then he sticks in. I wonder why said you can't have a bread like this. Says, "What do you mean? The problem is they might marry their daughters. What do you mean why? So check take a look at this. This is a lot of goes into this stuff. A lot of discussions, but I thought it came out great. How do you do if you had to do? Think about it just for 10 seconds. You're an artist. You want to you want to draw uh the iser to get married to a gya. If you get come to eat bread with the ga, you might marry his daughter. How do you do it in a nice bata way without here? Goes like this. It's galdic. >> Is that the names that he married by mistake? Look at him. But that's what happens. All right. That's You got it. Good. >> Says, "Hello." So, what was Rebi complaining about? Okay, I get it. In a city where the guy's daughter is there, but in the middle of the field, in the middle of nowhere. >> Okay. pass. So people that heard his saying they thought oh said it's mut because of he didn't he just he's just saying like I wonder why and we're going to see in a second why what's the problem I'll tell you what the story was it was different he went to a certain place this is a common theme throughout history that the yeshiva guys don't have enough food. It was very hard for them. They didn't have what to eat. >> There's a busta story. I looked it up. I saw it's also there was the mosher they struggled in London with with feeding the boys. And one of the bak moa he took upon himself to get the the bread for the boys. He would go to the bakery and he would it was it was it was a a busha big busha to go there knock on the door every day convince him huh >> on the bus >> you had to go in public slept the bread on the shoulder the whole thing and uh we going through through through and the gah him and another guy two moes says this you that you you are concerned about the you should be a big god you that should be you so concerned about the bread of the boys should be a So the the happened to be and the other one is >> say's grandfather was grandfather. >> Oh the veeromi. So he sees that there's no bread in powder. What? There's no baker cuz he thought that he means where's the where's the where's the where's the what's the name of that loaf of bread in America >> wonder >> wonderbread where's the wonderbread snitched wonder it's not okay if you ever had it Omar it's like Israeli bread they have to cut with a knife it's wonderbread six six things like it's m it just disappears it's fake so He they thought he's talking about the bread. He's referring to where's the Jewish baker. Even if you say that the story happened, they saying where's the bread? It's only in a situation where there's no kosher bread, Jewish bread. There's no Heather to eat the non-Jewish bread when it's Jewish bread. Another thing you can't even if there's no Jewish bread, it's only if you're in a in a in a place like a field but in a city never knows the problem is you might come to marry his daughter says story I have I was biting into and he ate this palter on the border. Don't talk to this guy. Put him like he's eating pas pal the the bread of an Armenian. Can't talk to him. >> Don't say anything in his name. He says don't say over anything in his name. >> Means don't >> I'll tell you. >> Okay. Yeah. What's the gear saying? >> Don't call it. >> No, no, no. He brings over no your is based on a different gear. So don't take from him means with him. Anyway, let's talk about the oil. So there was not to use their oil at all. And then they absolut from the time of Danil as if you guys did the $1,000 initiative. $1,000 a week. It's a lot of money cuz I don't think there's going to be more than 100 people. How many people are going to do a Khazar go in there? I don't know. Let's do it again. I'll show cuz maybe people skip the email. Let's do here. QR code. Get in here every single week. $1,000. I don't know how many weeks, but it's Can we say [Music] he's a guy? He's a big part of this year. But anyways, if you did, what was the big what was the big one of the big things about Daniel? Why was he so does anybody remember here in this because he ded three times a day. So we have here says this is from Daniel says the problem is that the tuma from you have a vessel you put oil into the vessel and the tuma from the vessel is going to seep into the oil from the there's something going to seep out of the k whatever that is some tuma and it's going to go into the food and what's going to happen to the food then it's going to become tom the oil will become so we have problem of oil becoming it's a kiss from Hashem as I mentioned yesterday Cohen I didn't say by his name but he's Kramer's brother-in-law comes to the sh in the Hebrew he lives here in Bamesh I think pretty sure yeah and his father in so he's so h said yesterday that he they said once about the oil he so happens to be today today mameish yesterday today in China in one of these mega factories he says It's larger than mish. It's massive. Massive. He said like this. He's never found a single problem ever in olive oil factories cuz they they it's a different process and they make a lot of money. They're not they don't try to bring other stuff. But in China, they'll they'll try to make oil out of a out of a car out of whatever you give them. They they make oil out of it. So there's always non-cooser products there. He's found many issues with it. That's why you need a good hirer on canola oil, cotton seed oil, all these other oils. He's there now. So he's saying so that's the problem. I got to show you. I said this yesterday, but I want to show you the lush and it's so powerful. It's unbelievable. See if I could zoom in on it. This is the Rambam. If you go like the original thing in the Mishna, you want to be it's a big to try to be what the Mishna says is you're trying to show that you're greater than the best that was matern the says and it says one of the things is she initially the She was asser. Then the bez came and said it's mut. Now we're trying to see when was iter who made it. We have raz who says that it's and then said it's mut and says no it's later on because of tumor says we're still in line one I don't understand something. What's the big deal? So so a little tum in the oil. So so somebody will eat to big deal. Does everybody how many people are so concerned about eating only to food that we have to say that this food is completely awesome forever? There's a few that they whatever it is always. Okay. So for that you're going to make a big deal. Same idea. We have a that has in the note is and whatever that is. I don't know what. Oh, here he put it in here. Tanner of pornney. This is a a side a very large oven. The other ovens used to you put it from the top. Where's the porn from the side? Okay. So, it says so we we're concerned about the ble from the cle from the walls of the cle going into the food and making it. So says to let me prove to you that I'm right, you're wrong. I say that it's the ble from the walls of the cle that go into the food and he said now just remember this name because in a minute we're going to talk about who came from a place called this is the person that we need to remember the name Yehuda said and his best said that it's so just pause it for a second. Who's Riby Huda? So in the Mishna says you but say mistake we got to take that out cuz of course who has the the biggest that we know of and at least I'm aware of all the way to the top arrows grandchild is so rashi says we can't be talking about if you fi can't be talking about reenues [Music] rebi can't be him it has be his grandchild. It's his grandchild who abolished. So now how could it be? So he holds very very simple. This is an older thing. This is old technology, but it was great back then. Let's say a guy takes a donkey, shucks the donkey. Yeah. He kills the donkey and cooks him up in a pot. What happens? >> So here, oh, a bunch of the donkey goes into the walls of the pot and then if it's less than 24 hours, that would be cold. You take the donkey out like a t the cow. put them in there. Now the ble from the wall go into the cow that's called why because it's less than 24 hours. But if it's more than 24 hours then it's called it gives it a bad flavor of just means a bad flavor. Look you can see the donkey turns greenish. It's disgusting. So now you you sh some goat and you put this green donkey into it. So it itself becomes so so the question is if you have really bad tasting tra in the walls is a muter's grandson says it's bad stuff. It's bad. So it's M. It doesn't do anything. It's really it it doesn't help the food. It ruins the food. Oh, that we're going to see is not such a problem because if you if you argue on a previous generation, that's okay. But if you if you try to get rid of that's not okay. How do you get rid of >> as in bigger than >> Yeah. You have to be in other words you have to be you have to you have to you have to be a bigger and have more people than him. But to argue in argue in effect I hold says I hold this kind of problem of oil absorbing from the walls of the of the of the cle is not a problem according to me and I uh okay to there's a guy who put up a sign says on the I could heal anything. If I'm successful, you pay me 50 bucks. If I'm not successful, I'll pay you 100 bucks. There's a way to get clients. So, guy wanted to to make 100 bucks. So, he comes in there. He says, "Listen, I have a problem. I I I I lost my taste buds." He's not a problem. He opens up the the cabinet. He pulls out a special thing. He puts three drops. The guy starts screaming, "It's gasoline. It's gasoline." He says, "Oh, you can taste Galdic. Give me 50 bucks." So the guy was, you know, he's he's very upset. He lost his 50 bucks. He comes back the next day. He says, "Listen, doc. Doc, I lost my memory. I don't know what to do." He says, "Okay, sit down. No problem. I have a special thing." Goes to the thing, pulls out the same exact bottle. Three drops. The guy starts screaming. That's the same exact thing as yesterday. Oh, you remember 50 bucks. 50 bucks. This time I'm going to get him. No matter what, I'm going to play I'm going to play the game. He sits down and uh this is just because of gone. This is all gasoline. >> There you go. >> Sits down and he gives him another he says, "What's the problem?" He says, "The problem is I can't see anymore." Blind. It's blind. Yeah. He cops already. What he's going to do? He goes to He I can heal you. He goes to the cabinet, takes the same exact bottle. The guy's quiet. He pretends he can't see. He's not going to say, "Oh, it's the same bottle." He puts three drops on. Says, "No, you remember?" He says, "No, I don't remember anything." He says, "Can you see?" >> Oh. >> Can you see? You're right. We're holding it. Can you see? Can you see? No, I can't see a thing. Garnished. Gosh. Okay. So, I owe you 100 bucks. Okay, great. He gives 100 bucks. Guy screams, "That's not 100, you liar. You gave me 50." So, as if you never heard it before, >> really says, "I don't understand something. Everything is great if it goes according to me. I say the problem is that there's a little iss but according to you this is older from the Daniel's days. Think about it. How could somebody from a later generation get rid of Daniel made? Now we learned that you have to be greater than that and certainly is not greater than so how could he get rid of the min says remember I told you to remember the name [Music] he's from you should know that these these people L they don't they don't care about and that's why I wanted to get rid of the of the that's why I got rid of but no people normal are not going to get rid of the just as a story just to remind because in Lud where he was from there used to be cannibals there and was he sold himself to the cannibals a whole story and then they wanted to eat him they wanted to make a dinner so they said okay get over and they all sat around and he and they said but we'll give you the last wish. What do you want? Last last uh so they they some explain the reason why they did it because the if you're calm when they kill you then it tastes better. They want the steak. Steak should be tastier. So they say whatever you want. So he says I want to hit each person. He had a sack on each each person on the head with the sack one and a half times whatever that means. And it looked like a flimsy sack but really put like lead in there. And he said okay one. And he gave each guy one and a half zetses over the head and he he killed them and he walked away. And that's lud lazil in interesting shila of and how you can get rid of this that a woman who who nurses can't get married for how long? >> Two years. She can't get married for two years. So says that in his days at least women don't nurse anymore for two years. They nurse more like 18 months. So me gave a to women to get married if their husband Rahman died while they're nursing. 18 months after they start nursing. Why? Because he says that it's not getting rid of the that's called fitting the into what the the facts are in our generation. Fin says no there's no such thing fitting in facts. The was 24 is 24. However, says and he says, "But he happens to be right. You only have to wait 18." Why? Cuz the garra never says you have to wait 24. The says you have to wait as long as she's nursing. Says Mus happens to be that we say it's 24, but it's 18. So you could do 18 just to explain a little bit about how work. We're going to see soon also. So says ah yeah you're making fun of saying would you like me to to tell them what you said became embarrassed however says if they didn't realize this I shouldn't say the how could you get rid of put on his heart pass shouldn't be grossed out he's I think that's what it means with the bread. You see, it's already the wanted to get rid of the bread and the two wines plural. The is talking about two different things. Over here, you seen the wine. What's the second one? Oil. Neil that put the the not only he put it on he took it to heart so to speak. He took it to heart and therefore he told don't eat with them bread not not even oil wine. No, no, no. That was a private thing that he himself was mirror like hurry. He didn't make next goal who came up with this not to drink their oil, not to use their oil. I only found them once in four things. We're going to discuss them at length, not at length, but we explain each one. We know all four already. They're bread pass their daughters daughters. We don't know what it means yet famous that there was a a day a lucky day for B that they had more tal and they wouldn't allow the bil to come into that alias the the attic in they right away came up they said okay let's vote let's vote and they voted for 18 different things here we have where was it they voted and because they had more so Their vote went through and they had 18 zeras. These zeras for whatever reason are super powerful. You can't get rid of them forever. Even comes nois you can't get rid of it. These four things they can't eat the bread, oil, wine and their daughters are from that night. Anybody remember others that we had over there? the sacred mama that if you touch a claf it has it gives off tum okay different things says goel oh so we're going to see soon this idea but here it is starting out what if said listen there's a big z from today on you can't do xyz and nobody accepts it forget it we're not doing it it's too hard so the doesn't doesn't take effect and then that night the hill and cham came to the attic and they they made and they were mabo so it's not a contradiction did it and then in later generations hill and chamis they they made but if so why does raf keep on saying dil do tried very good you don't you don't get credit for trying many years ago he tried to make olive oil or oiler it didn't work tell me the hill he should have said tell me the Why is he talking about [Music] the is marrying the daughter? So that's only in a city when the daughter is not not there. There's no reason to be gazer on a field that that kind of explains what you were asking. You see that there is a a difference back then when they made perhaps it wasn't even an effect in the field. Oh, ask questions or like we're the grandchild of how does he have the right to say that their is no good? He's not as great as them. But now you have to be greater and even more another problem. You could be any you want if you're greater and more besides the 18 things from the certainly his best is greater we don't listen to him says T is over here like seven lines from the bottom of the it says because they were ne when somebody's that explains why >> if you give Your life towards something can't be great. You have five lines from the bottom. What's the reasoning over here? When when when accepts, that's it. It becomes salad. She the problem is oil. The oil people didn't accept it. People didn't accept it. You're not allowed to make on the entire community unless the whole 51% could withstand it. What's a good example on maybe Thursday night. >> Thursday night. >> What about smartphones? I don't want to get into it. I'm not making a header. >> It's a bad thing. >> But how do you do it from this whole team? There's one guy here that doesn't have a phone call him >> would have answered it when it started in the beginning. Then you could have done it. But once you let people in it and you don't answer it, that's >> they kind of started. But I'm saying if it's something I don't want to get into it, but >> could you answer? Could you ask her a phone? Could you ask her a car? You know, certain things that society goes with. We have to see how to make it in a way that you could live and still have a bank account and still have this and then that. And I'm just saying anyway, throwing it out there. >> I'm not I'm not going into it because it's a it's a very very hard. It's hard. I'm just saying throw out a live story where they were learning a sug and they did the whole back and forth and they came out they have to be. So they learned very very they came out they have to be and the guy said it's it'sible. This is a If you know, you know. >> He understood. He understood. >> Huh? [Music] >> Smoking is >> if they were able to Excuse me. The used to smoke in the yeshiva. No one smokes in the B anymore. >> I remember that. >> When I was there, people used to still smoke. One minute here. Here. You'll see at every people smoking in middle of the hall. >> In the Yeah. Yeah. I was I saw them. So you could be things and you can be a smartphones >> that I'm not sure about. Okay. Anyway, >> we have to come up with a solution, not a thing. Why do you need on top? This is talking about that except upon themselves says a curse. With the curse, you're going to be cursed. You're stealing from me. You promised me that you're going to accept this cur this. You didn't the entire nation. Oh, so since it says you get in, you need the entire nation to accept and it's not enough for some of them on if it's only part of the nation accepting that that doesn't is not. So oil is something that at the time people said we can't we can't deal with this. It's not that we could withstand they had abolished turning of the DA global exercise in international financial services anonymous and with gratitude for the safe and healthy birth of our baby boy true community. What was this? >> What are we showing here? What's your name? >> What's your story? Where are you from? >> I'm from Westl and I come once a week. It's a long way takes and 3 hours of trip and there back all together is 9 hours. 3 hours there, 3 hours back and 2 hours there another hour to wake me last bus and arrive there two >> and you do this every week. >> How many How many times did you do this already? >> 10 times. >> How do you know 10 times you count? You keep touching. >> Wow. >> So you got to get a screaming over here. Beautiful. Unbelievable. >> Who else is a guest here? There's a few guests. A few unfamiliar faces. Who's at the end of the table? I saw somebody. You're hiding. You know, what's your name? >> You're not You're not a guest. >> Okay. Yes. >> Goofa Omar Bali. Omar Vim, you hear this? A guy drives 9 hours. 9 hours. >> And there's a guy that lives on this block that doesn't every day for 3 years already. He hasn't been in once. He has three years ago. 9 hours he comes. Yeah. Omar. So we said before Yeah. We're just going to go into it a little bit. How's it going so far? It's good. Yeah. Good. These four things, [Music] these are four out of the 18 that they established that night. What's going on with the daughtersid? So is like a no need nothing. And if there was then she would have to have a dam in order to be a nida. They know they made no dam nothing just from the day she's born neido why stay away from her betraya says in the name of this is not a problem or whatever this is get involved you marry a then she'll get you to like what said last week's par get them involved in And then of in order to strengthen the of oil which wasn't going so well. So they said let's don't even eat the bread. Says what's the difference? Bread is oil is how you going to get people to keep oil if you add on another no. You didn't understand the problem is wine. That's the real problem. And in order to make sure that people don't drink the wine with them, what's so bad about wine? It's obvious, but Rashi says it. When you drink wine, then a person if you drink oil, it's nothing. Bread. What? Wine could cause the problem. So, in order not to get, it's like they ask it's like, no, it's all within the same thing. And what's the problem with wine marrying? So we know usually means pig. Sometimes means sometimes over here means and here comes another thing that we we don't really have well once or once or twice we had like hints. How did how do you say it? Oh like the thing the thing no seriously the the thing the thing is causing the thing is is because of what are you talking about but don't marry them says it's only these seven nations maybe Italian is Okay. So, I'll just show you this just so we have a flow over here because there's a lot going on. I mean, we're going to go through all the steps, every step by step. This is the this is the mas of the gar. So, etch it in your brain. There's marrying the seven nations of Shem Sheem. So the is a Jewish woman marrying a guy doesn't say anything about a doesn't say what everything >> yeah whatever the the but there's no yet of a Jew marry a comes later on and says Jew should marry goya the kashi theashim said that there's even without getting married until then it was just marrying her that's a problem being in a steady relationship but it's not a problem says and we're finally going to get we're going to narrow it down because says what do you mean what exactly did the bish do all look how many are already they said the that's the problem that finally after everything so now we have to break it down though we have to see what happened and the is just going to get to these we're going to The Gar is gonna force all these ideas before we get to the end. >> Why is the original only? >> Oh, because the right >> why not? >> No, no, no. That's your says here. Look, >> I think he says look maybe you want to say like says all nations the problem is call don't be mad in the that is only by no what's the point behind it says that he's going to the guy's going to take [Music] only answered I think the Gar brings the Pik but anyway it says here it says don't get married it doesn't say anything about relations just don't get married you know they come along and they say is also our says this is older from time of how comed said that to has to die when they found out she's pregnant cuz the only person she could have a relationship with was a guy and that was the only Jew around was Yehuda and he didn't realize it was The is only with a Jewish woman because a woman will go after her husband. So she'll turn to there wasn't a concern that the Jew with a is going to turn because he's the he's the husband. He's the man. When they said all the men that was what said yeah it happened. >> Yeah. I hear >> the opposite says wait a minute was already if somebody has relations with the you go ahead and kill them won't kill for that but you could go ahead and kill says here because says was talking about if somebody does it in public like last week's parish when Zim did it in public and has killed him says that what was Zim thinking just like the the end part he says Zim did Zim was concerned because in those days was mut to be with a And he was concerned that people are going to do have a desire of being with. So he went he made himself an example. He said, "Oh, I'm with a guy." And then they killed him to show that how bad it is to be with a guy. And he says that's the why would he ask for because he did. No. Not. Okay. We got the rolling of dice. Okay. >> Yes. See what I was listening to. >> Well, he was a great man. He was the the >> head. It was a little interesting. Basically, that's what you say. >> Yeah. >> Right. She said this says even even they say they said from now on it's even in private already took care of that he said what's So each one if a person is with a goya he's forid because he'll he'll be inidas and then when he comes back he'll he'll say oh I was with a guy and they don't have so he'll be with the Jew ink same thing he'll he'll he'll have relation later on might as well give him now forkya he's with a gya so what do you meana no he might marry the ga if if if you can have temporary relationship with a gya So they'll have a permanent relationship and aish also a gya actually is has if they if they have a a spouse they decide they're going to get married so they have so a person might be if he's with the go listen she was married then he'll come back to the to the Jews it'll be so we punish him for all that he also we have to take out the at the end and put in a z instead and that is for what does that mean? It's not really. So there's a rashy here that explains it. So he says he just brings the four things in the beginning. He explains there's a lot of it's not a real love this will won't protect himself from women that are to him. So says, "Oh, so we see this already." Oh, they were talking about relations just to be in the same room. I heard a lot of there's a lot of different when it comes to it comes like first of all I find myself in a position we have a cleaning lady. Let's say my wife now is in America already. So you have to be careful. There's there's problems probably in elevator shaman. I'm not saying the problem just throwing out. Somebody told me that the the were very busy with X-rays with the X-ray technician and the doors locked all thing. Okay. Each one in their own thing. It's it's a thing and they came they said wait a minute. Isn't that already from when the whole story with and and her half brother and he pretended he was sick whole thing. So said you know what from now on is awesome. There's no yet for came and made isn't that a problem already not how do you see the concept just a a hint of it in the your your brother from your mother's side will steer you towards a desire to talk about your half brother from your mother. What about your half brother from your father? Hello says no Ben is coming to tell us that you will have a better relationship with your brothers from your mother's side. Why? Because you could always visit them and there's never an issue with because it's your mother with your mother. But on your father's side, you have a problem. You have your stepmom. She's always home and then you have issues. So you don't visit as much. So you're you hang out more with your brothers from your mother. And therefore the Torah uses that as an example. You see that with your mother there's no with others. Here's an interesting sh stop thinking about it for a second. Is there a is I know of a story of a guy who got divorced then his sister got divorced and decided to save on rent. They rented an apartment together. Is that a problem? >> 30 days. >> Oh, think about is there basically is there is with your own sister. >> Everybody shaking yes. >> What? So if your sister comes to visit you, if your sister comes to visit you, you have to make sure the door is open. No. >> Oh. So what >> the thing to >> I I heard what you said. What does everybody else say? >> Oh is in case you don't know is that if people are you they don't they don't realize it's your sister like the yeshiva guys. Yeah it's my sister. If which reminds me I got to tell you the story again. I just saw the guy. He had a Camelar. He I didn't see him in 20 literally 20 something years. He came to the to the hotel. I was shocked right here. He has he has 10 grandchildren. Last time I saw him, he wasn't he just got married. Came in with his wife. I was like, "Wow." So I said, "Hey, do you remember the story?" He said, "No." Anyway, we were in Walmart in the mountains. Mish. It's now in the mountains. We're in Walmart. The famous Walmart. >> I don't think I ever said the story. I don't know if I should. Whatever. I'm mistake. If you think you shouldn't, you shut it. >> Okay, I won't say it, but I'll say it nicely anyway. No, it's you're going to like this crazy Walmart. I notice we notice a bisak of a girl. She at least she looked like a bisak of girl was dressed sneezed the whole thing holding hands with a a guy walking around with a guy. She like what do we do? She what do you do? What do you do? I said no to make a m gota make I gota I got to step in. I got to save this person. Maybe something's happening over here. So, I came up with a plan. I figured if she's a go, so I'm going to say a word that only a Jew knows and she's going to think that I'm whatever. So, I go over and I said, "Excuse me, um, are you from?" So, I figured there she's a guy. She's going to think I'm asking her if her name is from. And if she's a Jew, she'll she'll answer. She says, "Yes." Like, "So, what's going on here?" She says, It's my father like oh like and I try to better and then I came the way she said then I realized yeah that's her father okay so he wasn't wearing yama the whole thing he looked like okay he's a go wasn't a go >> so oh so I go like this if people are going to be you like I was this person then you can't do it you can't be with your sister but if not you're allowed to only temporarily. Uh please don't don't make a short out of this. Okay. Uh he's already thinking, "Oh, what a great short." Yeah. Um but if it's so what's 3 days up to 30 days more than that, even if you save on your rent and she makes good food, it's not to move in. [Music] of a married woman because of the whole story on a single woman. 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