Daf Yomi Avodah Zarah Daf 23 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] Good morning Ra. Welcome welcome live from Austria from the Alps from the Santan Troll >> tiber tours. The food is very gushmak very very gushmak I don't I have these cups here so I can show you because some people were asking how to how to come here so I'm leaving soon so don't come now come after but it's it's unbelievable so today I'll tell you real quickly we got to start off with a little bit of I'm cutting out the emails I just want to two minutes about the Alps so today we went to this place what is it something >> so basically there's two ways to do it. There's the the way is you park your car and then you walk up hundreds and hundreds of stairs. How many stairs? >> 350. >> It's it's more than that. It's more. It's a lot more than that >> steps. >> No, it's it's more. It's not counting all the wooden steps. Okay. Hundreds of steps. go to the top and then you um you walk down you walk down a road I don't know what okay whatever the what we did is we drove up now if you drive up you have to figure out a way to get your car back so that's a problem but and then we walked down so that was a lot easier than walking up now what we saw was a magnificent magn magnificent waterfall and there's different stops along the way you could sit and appreciate the rebum's creation so I'm going I'll show you real quickly. Here it is. Okay. And then uh one other thing. This guy thought he's coming here for a shar. We're talking about the Alps. Um, there's a picture I took. The beautiful flowers, the wild flowers, the purple and the reds. Okay, this I thought it was very interesting. Somebody's walking in Mil Basin in New York and he sees this through the window. Guys, I'm walking by this guy's house. He's literally doawing on the big screen. That's insane. That's nuts. Be masking. Did I just walk up on this? >> That's crazy. >> And then one other thing. Oh, this is uh Steve Sichel. He went to Manchester. Steve Sel is a tall one. You'll see the Harry is on the right of David. >> Bernard David is on the left. He's the first person that put together a Kabura seven years ago. MDY Kabura outside of MDY in Manchester. Who's that guy? I know his name. Whatever. Okay, I forgot his name. the guy on the left. Today's breakfast is sponsored by the grandfather and tonight is the yard the sponsored by David Solomon dedicated memory of sponsored by anonymous. May our learning be a shield of protection and a source of unity and blessing for Israel. Joel Gdalius initially sponsors monthly. Thank you for the monthly sponsor TCS Israel power by talk and save weekly sponsors next week. Spiderman, thank Hashem for saving our son from a recent near drowning incident. Scary stuff. I have a friend that lost a kid. I have a friend in North Miami who his daughter was niftered like that. Daily sponsors Jacob Yseph's mother and mother-in-law Shindel Bas Lipman Rebelli's New Yorker Schlita being insulted by Rebelli is where it's at. It's the same guys. Okay, I got it. I reciter Ruven Love Tati Gishmak. These are the best. If you want to dedicate something, two three words give anonymous in honor of Ellie's upcoming shas. Yes. So I'll tell you that uh it's it's very emotional in 5 days from now is when MDY started. We started in the middle of choking up in the middle of the middle in the middle of nowhere. It was Noam and some other guys are standing around. No, maybe give us tomorrow. Okay, let's go. We start a sh but it's not a bay it's not a per let's go that's that's how we do it that's how we roll you start in the middle of nowhere it could be in the middle of is also a great place to start and time flies like this seven and a half years went went by like nothing so who's this anonymous whoever you are and so not this shabas the coming shabas this coming shabas we're celebrating the kabur the the core the guys that started Avi Noam and uh 10 or something other families were coming. We're going to the Waldorf to celebrate a a special um MDYC mash. The first MDYC mash. Did I say everything? I don't even know what I said here. Oh no, I didn't. Second Marsh, my great uncle should have an aliyah. Marshazzi is a big he's online right now. He's the one he's in my computer from either Muny or Phoenix, wherever he's at right now. I don't even know. And he's controlling. He does the share. He makes sure that you you guys see the charts and everything is going. Soar, oh, I'm sorry. I didn't read the next part. He was forcibly drafted into the German army in World War I at age 21, was killed. Let me see kids for learning for rebell and 12y old art of the month for great guy from everybody have a beautiful daff today with one of the most famous stories in shas of who the went to to buy um one of the the jewels for the and his father was sleeping. Every kid in knows the story. It's on today's classic is easier and then some and different things sprinkled along the way. So the first word of the had a question starts off with the mission. The mission says that if you have an animal, you're not allowed to park it at the go in. You go into hotel and you put a you come with your donkey, your horse. In those days, they didn't have cars. You're not allowed to park your donkey in front of the hotel. Why? That the go is going to be with the donkey. He's going to be re the donkey. So where it says if that's the case and that's the first line on top if you're so that the guy is going to be so how can you buy an animal from a guy and then bring it as a carbon we know that a carbon can't have such is done to it. So how are you allowed to buy an animal from a guy? So yesterday we saw the the answer of that a guy that owns animals is not why because when he's he ruins the animal causes her to be an today we're going to see two more answers says more like this. So typically speaking means you know how do you say it in the first place is >> after the fact >> ideal is good and is after the fact over here that's not what it means is ideal it's ideal very good ideal is a great word we have here the he is what do you call him he he does the traveling for ami magazine and he and he writes what do you what's your official name >> senior foreign correspondent >> foreign correspondent white correspondent we see we showed pictures of him learning the daff in the white house for that and I say this all the time when you're in a position like yourself that you you have the ability to reach out to many people which you do then you have a a special opportunity to bring people to Tyra so you never know what the and and then people will come to you after a year or two and say, you know, because of you, my life has changed. That's what they'll tell you. Literally, has it ever happened to you yet? >> People tell me they started learning with you, because of me, but I don't even do it every day. >> Right? It doesn't matter. They see the picture. That's what I'm trying to tell you. And if you said a word about it, hint hint in one of your articles, you said this like I'm meaningful people, right? >> Thousands of people learn because of that one interview because of Gordon and what's his name? >> Back of Langer. >> Back of Langanger and You know how many people now he said the thing he cried with the donut he hates Gimar and the amount of people you can't I can't imagine what a and what aim that you could that you have so people in that position raise you'll do the right thing bring more and more people so says like this when I tell you I'm going to tell you what was the word you used >> ideally not ideally it's more do not park your animal in front of a goa in that's now if a has an animal you're allowed to buy it from him one thing has nothing to do with the other do not you do not put your animal front why first of all let's go back I'm assuming everybody knows but we have to because if he's you cause him to be you were a part of it you you enabled him and you're not allowed to enable a guy also if you see is by a guy as well. Okay. But if a guy has an animal, I don't have to be that he did it. It's like it's an interesting thing. It's on the one hand be careful. On the other you don't want to put your animal there. But on the other hand, this particular animal I don't have to where do we see something similar says where do we see such a thing? We see it by a woman. A woman should not have a yeah >> interesting I didn't see I hear nice >> the future that it will be >> but again it doesn't >> reveal after the fact you rely on that it wasn't >> and again this is need explanation on the first part if this wasn't So then why why can't they rely on that it won't happen >> it's okay where do we see this concept we see it is that a woman should not be with idol worshipper why you can't trust a god [Music] so this is very interesting this is applicable to today we have unfortunately this question. A woman, we have many women that were captured and put into the tunnels in in in Gaza. They come out of the tunnel. What's allowed to the husband? Not allowed to the husband. Is there a problem? Not a problem. So you see here that the is a little bit of a problem. We have to understand why. Now there's two types of women, two types of captivities. There's two types of what is it called? kidnappings or whatever they're called. >> Uh, no, that's later. No, ransom is the next part. But what is it called? When you captives, we have to know why the captured her. Is it because her husband owes money? If she owes money or her husband owes money, let's say she owes money. So, he captured her. Now, we know that the guy is not going to touch her. Why? Because he wants the money. So, Oh, so we got to stop. We got to pause right over here. We just said that a woman is to be with a guy. Why? because the guy is and then the second lady tell me that if it's for money he's not but he's so you see that to begin with don't go into a room with him because you have to be careful of of but once she was with him I don't have to be that she was with him however if she is she she deserves deserves the capital punishment doesn't deserve whatever the decided she they have to kill her. So in that situation if she was freed now she cannot go back to her husband. This is super super interesting especially according to Rashid. Ty says we're talking about a a kayen she's married to Ken. So even if she was forced we know that a woman who's even in a forced situation she has to divorce her husband. Her husband has to divorce her. But Rashi says no we're talking about is and listen to this. Rashi says since this guy might have done it many times one of the times she had a rotten she was mis ratza she was okay with it and for that she's also to her husband you hear what's going on here she's user to her husband cuz maybe may it's a maybe maybe nothing happened but maybe something did happen if something happened maybe he was bara that's a p of blood >> yeah that's what I'm asking that's kasha That's basically what what's bothering T. That's why he goes to to to it's very super interesting. Now they say that Gaza is different says he wants to use it to be M says yes Arabs they kill they kill people but that's not what means means when a person is Misa the don't want to kill they rather have them alive than dead so they don't want to kill say he says the is she'll try to be captive and that's considered rot she's going to try to get out of her situation by propositioning him that's also the ma that answers her the husband and kamas is different she can go back to her husband that's what he says says Who told you? Oh, sorry. I skipped. We're like seven lines from the top. So, you see over here that there's a difference between Yeah. in the to start out with don't have with him. But if after the fact then she still m to her husband. Same thing in our suga. Don't park your animal in front of the hotel. But after the fact, if you you want to buy a nano from a guy, you don't have to be concerned that maybe it was animal and you could use it as a carbon said maybe we could say listen typically speaking every that we say we had a whole yesterday if we weren't here the explains that there's a certain a certain like a that goes into that went into from the he inserted the the zu and she gave it to everybody. The entire world has the zu that causes a person to have to desire an animal but yidden don't have it because we were at harina in case you're wondering like what is going on here like this super interesting stuff going on yeah they have a z so but maybe I'll tell you that really they are but you know what the difference is you know why by money when when she owes money the husband owes money when We we say she's and she's not also with her husband. You know why? The guy knows that if he decides to do is with her, he's not going to get paid. He's more concerned about his money than anything else. The money the money is the it's the it's what's different. Typically speaking, we have to be okay. I'll prove it to you. Here, look. A typical case where there's no money involved. She becomes right away. Why? Because you can't trust a guy. You can't trust a guy. In fact, unfortunately, if you listen to the some of the interviews they had, yeah, that's what happened in Gaza. Unfortunately, that's what a guy does. In fact, I can't argue with this. They were done. So, there's no riot from here. Great. Another terrorist. What was the question that hour mission says do not park your donkey in the hotel like by I'm looking at the place right in front of the hotel people park the car can't can't park right in front your animal second later it says we have a thing that says that you're permitted to buy an animal from a guy and use it as a carbon I maybe it's a says I'll tell you what great contradiction but it's not a contradiction the price It's not a problem to say they're allowed to argue say you're not going to believe this. I didn't know about this. I didn't know that we're going to learn because I do one d at a time. That's it. So this morning I'm learning this and like wow just just yesterday. So yesterday real quickly if you're new in the hotel here or you don't know there's a guy by the name of he gives uh he guides you tells you where to go. See he did not let us down yet. So yesterday he told us about this place. What's the name? Anyways, you drive there. It's like it's mini Austria allin-one. And you start out, there's a sign that says number one and huge. You can't miss it. Sign one. Then you go a little bit more. Two, three, goes up to 35. He tells us exactly where to stop. You go, you stop over here at nine and then this and that. Boom, boom, boom. It's unbelievable. If you want have to share, Abby will tell you the exact all the numbers. You don't have to video. One place you see a gorgeous dam with a giant lake. The next place you see a giant uh waterfall. Then you see the get each one is the final final one is a ice cave glaciers from thousands of years ago and just last year started breaking apart. So they put up a a rope says do not enter. But apparently in Hebrew or something it says the because all the Israelis they go right past the there's no they don't there's no sign that says for them they go right in. caught him on the way up there. >> Conor Tal. >> Connor Tal is called. >> Oh, so I saw a video yesterday. I actually did. If the editors didn't take it out, so you might have seen this yesterday, but it's very negat today. Check this out. Here we go. >> It's a red heer. Now, I don't advise the oil to do this. It's not a very good idea because that's why. But that's a paradum. I don't know if it's kosher and I don't know if it's a parro or a bull. I'm not even sure yet. >> Bull if it has horns. >> No, no, no. All the parts have horns. They cut them out. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You're going to learn a lot of stuff. >> Yeah. Go go go there tomorrow. You'll see them with the horns. >> Turn upside down. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> And this is only day one. >> Do you know what else they You know that uh you know that sheep have tails to the floor. Do you know that too? >> Okay. So when you learn t with us, you'll know there's a lot of stuff that you learn there. Cows have horns. In fact, in this place, you'll see the cows with horns. Not not as big as that maybe, but they they cut them off. They there's different things. Okay. So, it could be different breeds. I don't know. But let me ask you something. The meat that you eat is a cow or a bull. What do you eat? What is Don't Nobody answer. What do you What do you eat? >> I have no idea. I'm going to imagine it's a cow. >> Wrong again. Next. the pull harder and makes the meat tough. >> Fare the cow is milking milk and she said her meat is not good. We eat bulls. Say yeah. You got to you got to come to share more often. >> Yeah. Okay. >> You learn random facts. >> Seven years from now I'll be celebrating my my >> listen let me give you a bra. You should be consistent. You got to just do it for 30 40 days. Do it every day and there'll be party. You'll never stop on your flights to Washington. This what >> I never have one day that looks the same. Every day >> doesn't matter. And then my my days look the same by the >> time. Trust me, we all go through the same, but you have time on the plane, you have time on the train, you have time in the airport, there's always 45 minutes. It doesn't take trust. You get to your hotel, you open up, boom, it's a different day. It's a different life. >> All right, we'll talk later. We have the whole shot. We have the whole week here. >> Oh, so says we have It's not. >> Who's this? >> Oh, this is Ariel. This is our this is our editor. >> That's great. >> Okay. So, um, what do I want to tell you here? Do we have the paradum? Yeah. Here. What's a paradum? So, let let's do a little khazar. Doesn't hurt. paradum in the time of the B mikdash when people got to mace when you went to a funeral you went within four hours of the maze you touched the mita you couldn't become unless you got sprayed with the water of the paraduma it's a mixture of the ashes of the paradma they take the paraduma right over here go to harim and you look at you could see the bas from there and you sh it you burn it right there but they take the ashes so how do you have so many ashes it to go throughout Clyroll and for hundreds of years they went from Mishenu all the way to Ba one one part. So you take a ton of wood, as much wood as you want. You could pile it up like like the they have here down the as you drive here, you see piles and piles of wood. All these trees there's no So you pile it up and you put a little paradum and all those trees become part of the ashes. You can use it for generations. You put in the water mix and there's a special you sprinkle it. Great. But see the paradum is very rare. We know costs a lot of money. doesn't come they just keep going and going and going right same concept >> I don't know where you're getting yours from but okay so now this paradum what Rabbi said what could be a good reason you can't buy a parad from a guy >> who said that >> oh I didn't hear who said it you did my word very good what other reason like it. >> Oh, that's what we're talking about. Maybe he did it on with it. What's another reason? You have to buy from a Jew, not from a guy. Maybe. So, these are the reasons. So, now the starts off saying, "Oh." Oh, that's how it comes in. That's how it comes in. >> So, the Gmorra, the Gmorra says, "Time out." last cycle you learned that this seven and a half years ago says it like this that says that are we concerned that somebody was his animal why is the one says you do not purchase the red heer the what's can't buy from because it would it exactly but it's like a carbon let's say carbon that we said it's possible for possible for I got this don't worry I'm not concerned therefore you could purchase from a guy and you have a good from went to buy from a Hey says no good says who says the is like you. This is Rabbi Benedict's brother-in-law. What's your name? >> Ellie learners. Hi Rab Benedict. Ellie is right over here. >> So what I told him that we're had a great time with him. So reveal. Maybe we're not concerned about reveal. Why? So, one could be like we said yesterday because a guy is not re his own animal because he'll make it sterile. And another is like we just had today because once once a guy owns the animal, he could buy it from him. That's what was saying. Check this out. If you just take a pile of here, this is all AI. You're asking me how this takes a long time. Yes, it's AI, but it takes a very long time to put all together. You see, no to do this. >> Nobody would ever do >> what standing in such a dangerous place. >> No, >> that's not a horse. >> This is a parro. >> This is This is the paradum. >> Don't kick out. >> Horses. Yeah. Listen to this. If you put a very light weight on a paradum, it's toast gone. Finished. And when it comes to So, a couple of things here. This is the the the found between two cities. They don't know which one. They have to measure which one is closer. Here you see that they're measuring between the two cities. And they take this eggla into nalisonan. They have to go to a special place. And the guy goes like this with the how do you say it in the cleaver goes from that from that part of the neck. Chop chop. Boom. Done. Now if this animal was used in a certain way, not like a a part of the part of the say we just put a little paper weight on it. It's finished. But this guy, you have to he has to pull something. Let's see. Goes like this. You see this is the pulling then it becomes the X. If the paradum he put the paper he put the empty sacks on it that's when it becomes possible. Why? What? Why the distinction? Because the Torah says over here, you didn't put on top of it all. A weight and oh no, there's something else. >> This one and then you have over here means to pull. So that's the difference between the two. Um interesting story that the Xiaomi brings down. brings a that a go had a paradum actually there was a five there was some guy I forgot from where from Texas or whatever that they found five paradumas and they shipped them to Israel there's a whole video about it go look it up somewhere so this guy had a paradum he knew was very valuable he reached out to and they came to check it out and they liked it and he he said okay couple million dollars they said okay we'll come back tomorrow with the money we'll buy it a night This guy goes and tells his friend, "You're not going to believe it. The are coming tomorrow, millions of pay, but I'm going to do a trick. I'm going to ruin it for them. I'm going to put something on it." This is the saying story in the going to put something on it. So, I'm going to ruin it. It's going to be oil and they're not going to know. And I'm going to It's like the the cleaning lady that puts the milk into the shel every week. Okay, fine. The next day the come and they say okay well the thing says here it is and they take a look at it no no no we can't buy it it's uh it had a oil so how do you know that all the says there this two hairs that stick up and once you put the oil in the the two hairs go down they had a simmon he lost his money he's so he's so stressed out by it he went and he choked himself he killed himself so says [Music] We have to be concerned. Maybe somebody put a package on it. I'm not concerned. There's no way that in order for him to take a little break as he's he's going to he's going to risk to lose $2 million so that the the something a little bag for him. There's no way. So over here also just he has a parad so to think that he was going to be rea to to have a little that he's going to do that no way says no I'll tell you why so I think we could relate to this or at least we know somebody that could relate to this that for a moment of h a person will throw away his entire life. I know a few people like that that Mish for for a small a that five minute a willing to give up their marriage their not to speak to any any of their children destroy their family for a fleeting moment it's a person loses his mind he's not thinking at the time what what did somebody say today about somebody and tell me something about Yeah, that's the Yeah, by the way, I I said this yesterday, but there's some new people there. This week's parish is bum bum and the gar says in our they had a relations with his own donkey. So, it's not it was a common thing in back then. It's not like who told you maybe there's a third thing here. We spoke about oil that could ruin it. You can't buy from a guy because maybe there's he had a load on it. Maybe the guy had relations with it. But maybe there's a third thing says maybe there's not we're not concerned about what yes we have a new thing. What did Sheila say [Music] here like this? Oh, I gave it away already. It says in the so you could read it that they should cause you to take. The person selling it to you must be Jewish. means not that you you take but that he should cause you to take. That's how we learn it. [Music] Not true. It can't be like like the what that you have to buy directly from a Jew. And by the way, even if you have to buy directly from a Jew and a guy owns a paradum, there's a way out of it. You tell a Jew to buy it from the guy and you buy and mig buys it from the Jew. So they bought it from a Jew. But if says all are if the reason is because of you have to buy from a Jew this I'm showing you over here. It says it says by it doesn't say by I show this on this. I don't know if uh here just in case Mark didn't do it. I don't know what happened over there. Okay. Maybe that the was not rea the animal the parad because he's he stands to lose $2 million or more. Why would he do it? Maybe they all agreed that what that you're not allowed to buy an animal from a guy because maybe and and and make it a carbon. Yeah, you can buy an animal from a guy but you can't make it a carbon. The problem is the top line it says that no I'm just saying what we learn when we learn right now but it says you're allowed to buy an animal from make it a carbon according to what you're telling me that it's to buy from we don't have that says you buy from another thing it says said you got to buy from a guy. So they you know they told them they have a you got to buy from a guy and make it a sheep that comes from you put on. Okay. So from turning of the just three short ones global expert in international financial services anonymous with gratitude for the safe and healthy birth of our baby boy true community what it say major security incident being reported in Kyunas area of Gaza strip being told that the building collapsed on IDF unit causing a large number of casualties we have to learn and hopefully we don't have to learn for either learning these young boys says we have to go into it a little bit into paradum what's going on with paradum what is a paradum how do We view a parad is it like a like does it have gush is it a is a very very high level of or a lower level of right these are the two things in case you want to memorize it is means it's it physical is like is like it's like like something that's owned by the you redeem it. It has less. Now I I said before it outside of the you don't even sh you don't you don't bring it you don't shar so where it says but I'll prove to you that it's really a goof why because we're concerned maybe the was but if you know for sure you saw on video that it was rea then you'd be also to buy this paradum then it's for sure why it must be that the parad It was just like owned by reveal though that if so now you can't redeem it regularly. You have to wait until befalls and then you redeem it. He says like this shiny. You know why? Look what it says in the P at the end of the paradma. It says now the the translation of means that this causes a what? A tahara. But we can learn like a carbon. You ask me why can't why can't it be nirva? Because it's like a and every carbon that's nirva is puzzle. So do a paradigm beautiful is what we call in English a ceserian. If an animal is born through a ceserian you cannot bring it as a carbon. So if a paradum is like a carbon so a paraduma that was born through ceserian should be pos paraduma but that's not the case. It's culture for paraduma. So it can't be considered a carbon say yeah you're right it's possible for it say if you take an animal and you make it it was born you make it poss what is it talking about over there what is what is it talking about what this [Music] You sure? >> Yes. >> Yes. Says if you'll say holds like his own. So we have a different child by a woman a regular kid a human being that's born. So these are the real quickly our regular famous if a woman gives birth to a male to a boy she's to for seven days that goes to mikvah then she becomes tar she's completely t for 33 days she has 33 freebies no matter what even she sees down whatever she's still tar and fora it's literally everything double it's 14 days of tum and 66 days of tyra then on day 80 she goes to make and brings a carba so we have Unbelievable between what happens to a kid that was born ceserian according to she she doesn't get any of these days not the days and not the days and not even a carbon nothing it's not considered regular birth says no it's a regular birth everything seven 14 carbon so uh It's like the light. It's like the thunder, right? >> What? Oh, you can't even hear it, >> right? >> I shouldn't be hearing it. Look, I'm concentrating away and I still there's so powerful. We're almost done here. Kadesh says no that that I say that that a cesarian is like a regular birth that's by a human being but by a notes so over here the parades I'll tell you why a parad was not no good it's because not because of but because of something else we know that if a parad has a little bit of a blemish no good guess what if it was nearv that's a blemish So anything like if somebody use it as possible when us the word it's referring to which is also So that's why this animal comes puzzle from reveal. So we just learned my time remember this over here. So ask that we have the same ping by Truma. Here's the puzzle. So you should read it. It says the famous. Oh, you're going to say the same as before that you're not allowed to buy from you say yeah you're right. So we're going to prove that you're allowed to buy from this is the famous story of the how much do you have to do? You hear we have a kid here. So he has to know how much we're actually we all have fathers. I hope most of us have fathers at least in this room. How much do you have to be? [Music] What? No. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. The famous story of the gosh. So what? >> Oh yeah. Very good. If you don't have a father, so please send an email to I'm insulted.com. Laugh all you want. No, you're going to be the first one. Insulted all the people that have fathers. I'm selfish. I don't have a mother. So I thought has fathers. Look at this. If a guy treats his father like this, how much more so to treat our father? They wanted a stone for the here the How much is a word? 600,000 golden coins. It's a lot. Right. >> He maybe found it. Maybe it was old prophet. How did he get it? Finished. says 80,000 and 100,000 the keys of the the safe were under his father's pillow and he was sleeping and he didn't want to wake him up. So asks so he didn't want to wake him up. So how come how come he didn't how come the didn't stick around? So stick around for a couple of hours until he wakes up. So they answer it and ties into the next. They answer that they didn't want to buy the stone anymore. Why? Because this stone would be a tool. It would look bad for look at this guy. He did such a unbelievable act of and every time you look at the stone you're remembering what the guy did and it looks bad for the heathen. Oh, and then that ties into another V I heard. So, how come Dino was paid back with what's he paid back with? Well, you know this recent answer. >> Okay. So, I'm going to say it. Tell me if to you. So, why did get a a parad? The answer is because there was a kit in class. was saying look at this guy look how he treats his father so much nicer than the yidden says okay I'm going to show you there's a connect sort of we're going to we're going to give him a paraduma is going to come and buy this paraduma how much does the paraduma cost millions of dollars they're going to spend millions of dollars on something that doesn't make any sense logically that the person that's that that that that's bing mat the person that sprays and sprinkles the tom guy he becomes tom and the guy gets sprinkled gets the tummy becomes tart and it's just a that we don't understand we'll never maybe one day will understand but right now we don't understand and be we're willing to spend millions of dollars that is to to undo the kit oh I got to tell you the story real quickly two two quick stories about kibbu by the Nazis the Nazis were coming so a father told the son I need you to iron my shirt. So, are you sure? Yeah, iron my shirt. So, he finish his iron shirt. He says, "Listen, all these other people, they're giving their kids every money they all the money they have, diamonds, whatever. But at the end of the day, you know, and I know Nazis are going to take it. Nothing. I'm giving you something that the Torah promises. I made you that's the gift I'm giving you." And with that, there's a famous story with the came to the city. You can imagine imagine comes here is coming everybody's running. So, one of the kids wanted to go see the and his father said, "No, it's too dangerous." You know, the the the adults, they'll they'll they'll squash you. No, it's dangerous. I don't want you to go, "Please, all my friends are going. Everybody's doing it." No. Kids are this guy became an old man and his saw him in a very very good mood. She says, "What? Why?" So, I'll tell you why. The gave my friends So I was always concerned say they got a and I didn't get a says today my last friend was and I outlived all my friends why because I listened to my father listening to is greater than the Uh oh. So, so, so we have a problem. How do you buy the the the the stone the special stone from the No, because it's not in the it's not connected to the and have a wonderful day. Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor a shir today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor at mdyd.com.