Daf Hashavua - Nedarim 81a

Okay, welcome everyone. We're learning digar just said that according to Rabioi Rabio is of the opinion that not bathing is not considered ino. Now really so then that's a problem because if not bathing is not considered inner nephesh we could ask a steer and rais holds not only rais holds not only is your life before your friend's life not only is your bathing before your friend's bathing. Not only is your laundry before your friend's laundry, but your laundry takes precedence over your friend's life. In other words, you have enough water. Either you could give your friend to drink and he'll live, or you could clean your socks. Your socks have precedence over your friend's life. Your smelly socks are more important than your friend's life. Your friend's 19 years old. He's primed to become the god. He's primed to become if you merely give him a drink. The only thing is you have dirty socks. So what could you do? You need to clean your socks. So you clean your socks and you wait for some other guy to develop into the that's your laundry is more important than your friend's socks. So the has the following question. If laundry has sulk all the more so your whole body says the evil if not doing laundry is life-threatening certainly not bathing. So Gammorra says, "Not so fast." Not so fast, Taka. It's better to have clean socks than to have clean feet. Why amry they said in yes laundering is stronger according to than even the doctor said yeah is a doctor he would know data masira this filth of the head. That comes from not taking care of one's hair, not cleaning one's hair, not combing one's hair. Mia, it brings to blindness. If you have a dirty head and you have unckempt hair, then it could bring to blindness. If you have unclean clothing, it brings to Alzheimer's. It brings to um brain deterioration dirty body. It brings two boils and soarses. Now what's worse is it worse to be um mentally or is it worse to have sores? Sores. Okay. So as you put basset trace on but if somebody loses their mind even if you put money in balines you're not going to find it. You could you could say you're not going to find your mind. If you lose your mind you ain't find. You could say even if you sponsor the edition of if you lose your mind you ain't finding it. So says the garam. >> Why is that greater than? >> Because that that's your life. Your life is more important than someone else's life. So you see no second from here we see from here we see that clean clothing now one thing's for sure the whole time rail's opinion that not doing laundry is life-threatening not having clean clothing is life-threatening that we knew but that it's worse than um that it should be worse than someone else actually not in other words from here we see that not doing laundry not having clean clothing is life-threatening It's life threat. Once it's life-threatening, it's worse than someone else dying because that's that's someone else. And this is me. Everybody knows. What's the definition of minor surgery? Minor surgery is surgery on someone else. You're not laughing. Okay. But the therefore since not doing laundry is considered uh life-threatening, so therefore it takes precedence over someone else's life. Here we're proving that it in fact makes sense that not cleaning your clothes is worse than not cleaning your body because not cleaning your body, you're only going to develop skin irritation. If you don't clean your clothes, you're going to go mad. You're going to lose your mind. Let's see the run. Laundry is more important than bathing. If you don't comb your hair always, there could be blind dirt on the head. Okay. So, When you have dirty clothing, they don't do laundry always. It brings to mental confusion. But if you have a dirty body, he gets sores, you get boils. those have a remedy. You could take antibiotics, but if you lose your mind, there's no medicine. They don't have medicine to bring it back. You're never going to find it. So, we see ba we see laundry is more important than washing. They sent from there. They sent a message from there. Be careful with filth. The says with laundry and bathing. Be careful. of take care of I'm sorry take care of a group meaning you should always study with a group don't study on your own you study on your own you become foolish take care of the sons of the poor even if their parents are poor and they can't pay tuition and you think what's going to become of them are they going to be successful no be careful with is going to come from them. Water will flow. It means from the well, but it could be readal from the poor. says, "Why is it not common for them to produce? Why do don't routinely produce a next generation of? After all, you would think that their progeny has an advantage. Instead of growing up on the New York Yankees, they grew up on they're they're learning in their breakfast. It's in their blood. Why often or more often than not don't come from parents who are various answers so that they do not do over the because if their parents are going to be so they're going to think it's like it's a family business you know he's they're born into it so they're going to abuse the position. because they do that. It's a punishment because act with too much authority. The punishment is it doesn't it doesn't stay in their family. So sometimes people say no you know look look these they don't know how to raise their children. No it's it's almost par for the course. It is not routine forim to have children who are either it's so that either it's to ensure a degree of humility in the leadership or it's a punishment for the lack of that because they call people donkeys. They call people donkeys. They speak down to the amarat. So it's a punishment for that ram. Ravina says now we just saw in the shir of at what points raashi and ravena are quoted in the garra. Here regarding this question the final opinions are given. First you have Raashi and then you have Rava. Rava says they don't make first who is the man who is wise who could understand this. The following matter was asked to the sages. They couldn't explain it. Hashem said because they forsook my Torah. And then the Pik says like this. The Pik says Sigar asks it's the same thing. What does it mean? They don't make let's see the The students sharpen each other. You should try to teach the sons of the poor. the sons of the poor. They don't have um Game Boy, you know, they don't have uh what other things are there? They don't have Sega. They don't have Atari. So, what are they supposed to do all day? They just learn. Um and they're humble so they have the qualities in most cases they're ARM. Oh, I skipped. So they shouldn't say is inheritance says the going to think they don't need to learn because they think it's a would not cease they would become arrogant. So you say it's worth it. It's worth it. They shouldn't have children who are, oh, they're going to become arrogant. So, become arrogant. It's better to have children. No, it's better not to be arrogant. The is they didn't do in the beginning of the day to say look in the RA says from the fact that it says that means there was nobody who knew to give the answer. question that this is in the not legislated part of the run. When they asked the why didn't if it meant that they forsook the then the and the should have known it was obvious they would see people are not learning it must be it's something that only Hashem was able to detect namely that they didn't make so again the question returns this is not rocket science why didn't the see that the people why didn't the see that the people were not taking and I think what the means he says it's not that they didn't make it means they didn't value the to the extent that they felt it needed a meaning they didn't learn And therefore the meaning they didn't make the and the fact they didn't make meant that there was a lack in their the they're lacking their their failing in making the braha properly indicated that they didn't value the Tyra itself. So they weren't learning the Gar continues did not come to Rio yeshiva for three days. He probably got a little it was a little jarring when he heard that it's better to wash your socks than to give water to some somebody who's about to die. He had a hard time handling that. So he didn't show up to yeshiva for 3 days. His mother said, "You feeling okay? I can't go." Why? Why? What's wrong? So everybody knows if you want to play hookie you never say uh you're you never say you have the flu or something like that because then the your mother take your temperature it's measurable you always say you have a stomach ache stomach ache you know only it's va stomach ache nobody could detect the stomach ache you know so he didn't he didn't go to yeshiva vardos the soni found you haven't come to my father's in three days. He said, "I don't know your father's understanding. I I don't know his rationale. How could I come? What your father's teaching doesn't make sense." Said, "Let the master say what you're talking. Let let the master say what my father said. Tell me what my father said. Maybe I could tell you the reason. He said that which we learned in that laundry takes priority over someone else's life. What sources there in the of the importance of laundry I'll tell you and the operas should be you should be for the animals and for the wild animals and for the for the why are we separating behemoths from kaos here usually bea includes kaya We only say separately if there's a reason to if it means actually a wild animal it's for their living area. It's for their living area. So says obviously of course the open areas are for living it must be for laundering because if you don't do laundering there's going to be the pain of the filth says the ran who says He says laundry takes precedence over someone else's life. This is not logical. There's where he asks where does it say in the Okay, tomorrow continues says these are not of meaning bathing and anointing being mash are not are not painful. refraining from is not painful. I understand it's not but is it does it affect him? Does it affect their intimacy if she can't bathe? If she can't anoint they are meaning that Rabio didn't say those words were inferring said that's says how is it mashma maybe is saying to the opinion of the in my opinion it's not even something that affects them personally but according to you that it's you should admit to me but I hold it's not even So, what's the upshot? You could know them. Let's see the We're talking about washing and anointing. Do we say they only argue by meaning if either way you could be made for what difference does it make if it's because of you could be made for even for when you're not married to her when someone else is married to her as opposed to it's only for while you're married to have made Like we said in the beginning of the paric he should have if he held you can't anol it period not because not because of he should have just said you can't anol it the Fact that he says it's not that implies that's why you can't anal it but you couldn't it for a different reason why the bal is bothered if she doesn't wash and the reason is the turn turn overun may appear since he's accustomed to her. We'll read this more tomorrow. He's not going to get damaged if she doesn't bathe. There's a possibility that in during intimacy he may harm himself on her pubic hair if she doesn't bathe. But since he's he's a familiar with her, then uh he's g he'll be he knows how to protect himself. Okay, we will pick this up. We have to figure out tomorrow. Tomorrow night is the regular. Tomorrow night, this week, Wednesday is Tuesday. So, tomorrow night is is the Wednesday night share, but I have a wedding Wednesday. So, I might have to do the also tomorrow. Ideally either 6:30 or 10:00. Either before the show or after. Do we have a uh we do we have a vote? Do we have a 10? You like 10? Who wants >> I don't have a preference. >> So we have two tens. A nonp preference. Anybody want early? Anybody not want skip the skip pay. Okay. Have a good night everyone.