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okay good evening sh I want to share
with you something
on thear tells us on the second
line that the relatives ofan had a there
was a woman in the family that was just
lavishly eating off the father's estate
okay this is n second line basically
there was a man who was still
alive barely he was like hanging on by a
thread and his wife was like living it
up on his credit card and he was about
to die and they knew soon as he dies
she's going to be as lavishly as she was
living before she's going to be really
living it up after he died so gave them
an go and tell the guy that he should
designate something a field for
hero so the gar says they came before
rakes and rakish said no it's not going
to help if you use ation
of then it's not like you're limiting
her to eat off that field but rather
aside from her ability to eat Mao from
his estate she can in addition in
addition eat off that field so I was
learning this gar I was reviewing it
today and I was bothered by the
following question this was the gave his
family we had a very similar
gar the gar
says that the relatives right before the
mishna about 14 lines down the
relatives had a woman in the family and
she needed a lot of medicine now this is
after the guy died or um um this is
after the guy died now the mishna says
that that if a woman is uh strucken
stricken the husband has to pay for it
the husband has to pay for her
fua
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um now so she was struck in with some
kind of disease and it was extremely
expensive and the mishna said
that um it's
like a husband is obligated to heal his
wife because Rashi said on the Mish is
like had
an said that go to a doctor and make the
doctor say that he'll treat her
indefinitely for a set price once it's a
set
price then the
isasa a Rua that has a set price that
she collects from um
from right the the and is sustained
from and if she needs it's like food
says if it's a that has a set price then
there's like a salary cap she's healed
from theba from the 200 Z but if it's
just endless then it's like so said I
have a great idea instead of going to a
doctor that will charge per visit and
then it's endless and she's going to
keep on milking the estate go to a
doctor that will agree to treat her
indefinitely for a set price and then
now you have the fortune that you could
you you've capped out what you have to
pay her later on regretted saying that
thear says
said I made myself like an attorney I
really should not have given you this
Tina to claim in court at the expense of
the woman cuz in per it says don't make
make yourself like an attorney don't
tell one side what they could claim in
court at the expense of the other side
and the gar says why did R originally
give the advice and in the end he took
it back so the says in the beginning he
thought never ignore your relative so
for a relative you have to give them the
advice and in the end he said you know
he's aush of a person it doesn't look
good to be acting like an attorney so my
question is why in the earlier case
where the woman was uh just keeping just
milking the estate with Doctor Bills R
regretted giving the advice that he
should find the Doctor Who's going to
charge a set price regretted giving that
advice he said I'm making myself like an
attorney and
on when there was a woman who was living
it up off the
estate R said I have a great idea why
don't you designate land for her for her
expenses Why didn't regrets saying that
over here yeah that's what I was
bothered by so I see to ask this
question but so do
many and says that
second even though
early regretted giving
advice here there's no disparagement
why here it's dependent on her Das if
she wants to accept
it what is referring to Rashi says what
does it mean designate for her land to
eat from the is that if a guy's
dying
and the is he could give all of his
money to his sons and the wife he could
say okay I'm giving you this piece of
land to eat off and if she accepts that
Arrangement she's
her this is the if you write all your to
your sons and you write to your
wife she loses
her RI says even if you don't write it
if she accepts it then she's stuck with
it she's so tus is going with that and
tus is saying you know why in this case
didn't regret giving this advice CU in
this case she was M she accepted it the
case is where you say I'm giving you I'm
designating this field and you're going
to collect with just a few more minutes
you're going to collect with this field
so in this case she's the right to be
able
to collect uh anything more than the
designated land as opposed to an where
she wasn't the ability to be healed
Beyond a set price there the advice was
giving was sort of to her detriment
without her consent here in aramar did
not regret giving this advice
because it was with her consent that's
how tus addresses the question I just
want to share with you two more
approaches um Rashi quoted by
the
says says he found an ancient text of
Rashi that the reason R did not say over
here oh I'm um I really shouldn't have
given that advice I'm acting like an
attorney uh Rashi says very interesting
I'm going to be I'm going to start in 2
minutes okay um it's because that
story happened second this story on
happened first so the first thing this
woman was doing she was living it up so
she's living it up no problem since
she's living it up R said I want to help
out my family and I'm going to tell them
you know you should really designate
land for her I but you're making
yourself like an attorney it's okay okay
to help my relative but then to do it a
second
time to again advise the family you know
she has doctor bills why don't you just
find a doctor that's willing to take a
set price to basically a second advice
that's a little bit over the top to
advise the family a second time that R
felt was a violation
of and finally the RV says a little bit
differently he
says that in the gar
before R was afraid didn't feel it was
proper to advise the family because by
advising them she would basically be
getting less than she
deserves and since it's less than she
deserves she deserves to be healed Eli
you're going to find a doctor that's
going to charge a set price that's not
right to do unless she consents and in
aramar she consent so it's sort of
similar to tus tus says the main point
is your lad advise your family provided
that she consents the ritah is stressing
the fact that you can't advise your
family if it's going to cause someone a
loss but if she consents then that would
be okay okay so that's just something
on why only said
on you know hey what's going on over
here we're making ourselves like an
attorney
and
on he does not um do not express it that
way okay let's
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