Creating A Great Yiddishe Home - Rabbi Moshe Tuvia Lieff

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five one or seven one eight eight five three three nine five zero or email tape Center at yeshiva net.com tonight we have the covered evidence once again of my shirt of your leaf sleeps are rather good as your soil on creating a great Yiddish element I covered the corner of leave for tonight's Josh just one is they lumps toughness toughness there's plenty of room in the front you don't to be squeezed you can sit actually of Dutch balled of Jurgen Jerry Taylor all my wonderful friends we've been doing this for many years when I greet dr. simcha lady Ravan who was watching from Savannah Georgia coach Bo who should be made to that we should be there to bring ourselves closer together the hoggle title of deer run to hasten the coming of my chefs it came amid of your may know me humming if we want to create a Yiddish at home we have to celebrate you disguise the idiom the maximum on my chiffon things that sell Chevelle designer year anytime is a crafts a crank a complaint that's when it's filling go overboard as they come to Ellis Island viewing Statue of Liberty they probably can't see Emma Lazarus's inscription from there her poem that she wrote but Lamesa the only way it's going to work is that if you dish got is a celebration and if the home is a positive exciting place so to show him by his it's the kind of place that children grandchildren want to come to my Bubbe Bergman in Cincinnati Ohio allows Sholem her brother's yard site was just recently a granite satakam rumblies that Sal or other brother was emotional eyes that's out so she had special bubbie toys now we grew up in Brooklyn my brother and I weren't exactly crazy if I go to Cincinnati Ohio but oh yes we had bubbie toys that was something that drew us and we was so excited games and toys only the puppy had not a Bobby bar these toys I never took a dog my mother bought the toys but we would have bought me toys it has got to be excitement in the home it has to be a place where the kids want to come home to said in an event yesterday I'm gonna pick a mice if we're trying to understand what type of home we want Samaha Necas who said over the following story it happened in Bnei Brak there's a water park and this school had one building for boys a distance away a few blacks a mice it's for girls and there was one yearly trip that the kids all anticipated and that was to go to a water park so what a punk states at separate times the boy except for the girls the school bus of course that air-conditioning pulled up on a very hot day in the summer because this manga was a lot later till at least my Swedish of the elementary schools generally and the kids are excited getting ready to jump into the water splish splish and all of a sudden to the higher of the nola they noticed that timing was off and he had come in appropriate time this is a time for the girls so they explained to the boys chemically we'll be having a very just have a good time there's no tell release we can't swim together gender together so without separate swimming so it's not gonna happen to kids these kids you know you grew up in a certain environment they started Sherita it's like a strike and they're getting upset they're getting angry just quit well the sudden one eighth grader gets up and he starts screaming ash Reno ash renew ash renew my toy Calcagno and he starts singing at SRI knew and all of a sudden the kids are dancing I trained him he took over the whole mats they made a revolution they get back to the Shiva you know babe coming to the moon Allen Thomas extraordinary story of a kid who turned it all around by stunning singer Schrader this is really that's so fascinating because the same thing happened with the fourth grade bus a kid jumps up and he says ash Reno and before you know it they're all dancing on training and they compare notes they're brothers two brothers independently eighth grade fourth grade when they were faced with this challenge of no waterpark sweltering heat eyestrain and when the whole bus starts sinking that's right so if the school's over after the Fed is over the minal calls the father tells him over this movie to come I said we get kids turned it all around but not Shree know someone's I never saw what happened over there no he must have done something gone it's up five times finally he breaks and he says over this story his wife taking the kids on a bus city bus to go shopping in in like a mega store and the kids were hot and they were toying and she bought them all ash look he knows what ash look is raise your hands buzz - look what's his look yes yes yes yes it's like a popsicle it's freezing cold it's Isis but it's as a strong plastic schmekel and the mela last longer so she bought them all - look and they're getting on the bus and they're ready to take - look of a sudden she sees it's not - right - girl she that's it's not there are Scoggins at this standard she explains to the kids and they're very very very disappointed and she says you know what when we go home you could empty out the freezer whatever you find this reads the oldest hoax all the going down all the ice cream whatever you want mom to give me take it at yours so they go and they talk it's a mitzvah of keeping a moment cos oak they have to empty out the freezer so the old freezes emptied out father comes home and he says what happened to the freezer so she tells moment all my son she says that's what we're giving them stuff from the freezer that's Mitzvah they stood up against each other they face that is saying down and if it's all their friends he went out and he bought all cuts a mom took him and candies and all kinds of cookies look at the danishes for drinks the table set for a grocer party they sit down to eat he says kiddo you have to dance a train oh my technical K know my name girl Elaine Oh so the father and mother take every one of the kids the youngest to the oldest and the dancing around the table as we know a few days later the pharmacist must um that's what these kids got it from face a challenge at the incisor a few days later the youngest little girl a neighbor walks overturned says mamelon - Cree take this mastic take the gum take the candy I'm tuck she turns to mother and she whispers mommy is das kosher or this - RINO is this kosher or is this enough is this a nice training moment could you imagine a home with the kids no there's something called that Sri no Shana my technical cane in my neck ice trainee we have such kids and such parents is that how we react to a challenge it doesn't exactly work out we miss the opportunity we're not going to this game we're not going to the baseball game between Hatzolah and the New York City Police Department I don't know exactly the one it was out of town but I'm sure it's a wonderful thing you missed it you missed it so you missed it that's that I say no because that's a nice color stuff but there's so many times when the kids can't see can't go can't listen can't experience something you have to introduce into this tube at SRI no it's all about a celebration of Yiddish guides let me tell you another mice that happen in Bnei Brak there was a younger man he approaches a fader of me his fader of you from fifth grade and he tells him I just want the Rebbe - no I finished shots twice with Rashi tyson's and the rush I took bananas I never got less than a 95 I normally got a hundred didn't get less than a 95 and it's all because of you he tells me over the Meister Trevor doesn't remember the child our class was very strong come we were always failing we couldn't pass a test so administration and their educational genius decided that any time a child fails the test the Rebbe has to grade it and right next show and circle it with a red pen and send it to the parents and I have to send it back it was basically saying he gives a failure didn't fill the test he's a failure and Rebbe I couldn't have a piss the test I never got higher than a 60 3951 I never got a hundred and dutifully rebbe would grade the test Circle it with a red pen and send it to my parents before he did that he wrote something inside the circle and he wrote Hakka cottage beaucoup Annie viola do dim comic oh ho to Ischia alamou timoshev Oh only the burning love i'm eyeing his son know how much Christmas put into his learning this week how much he was mushy how hard he studied and every day every week my parents would open the envelope they'd see the red failure of a nutshell but then they read the inscription and instead of thinking to themselves they have a failure for a kid they hugged me and they kissed me because of the fact that I tried my hardest and because of You rebby I was later to take a patina on chassé two times around shots on every block every Rashi every tasted every rush it never got less than 95 isn't that an ashram moment isn't that taking bitter lemons and turning it into sweet lemonade that's the asite of Yiddish right imagine such parents but that's the way they approach this didn't look at the fact that the kid was a failure could get past the 60 and read the part that said Rococo this boat one Eva yellow didn't come on Coco tanishka la Miran Lally moody mashallah we're gonna knock our kids down we're gonna pick them up and you know what you have to show the children what's important in your life my uncle my great uncle I'm named after drive that Santa Cremona blaze that saw my grandmother's brother he gave her his brother so he once came to Hotz lords and he stayed in a wealthy person's home and he asked them to critique him see how he conducts the Shabbos see how he raises his children so any mistakes let him know so the kids he's a little kid and if is you somehow just playing around near the ekadesha he turns it on he turns it off it stays on the father says in a soft gentle voice Ta'ala that's not what we do on Shabbos you have to be careful of course he mentioned told me after the kid turned it back on again and Isiah Nazarian is a but so he shabbos fight if to have Dulla he hears screaming shrieking like a banshee like the house was on fire he runs over he sees that this man had a coin collection and his kid got hold of some of the rare coins and he was rolling him on the floor he starts screaming at him you know the less valuable now don't you know what something is how important thing is he came over to me after says when it comes to Shabbos tateleh gotta be careful don't turn the ignition on don't turn it off comes to a couple of shmall eras he's screaming yeah yeah bloody murder bloody murder so you tell me what this kid is gonna pick up what's important the Rebbetzin more avail and I once many years ago first married she's been a marvel of for longer than she's married to me and there were two kids adorable kids in a nursery and so we decided was been as monami we're gonna take him out so he gave me choice you wanted to go to the zoo you want to go to the aquarium in Cleveland so I stayed so one kid said the aquarium male the other kid said the zoo okay so we figured out what to do I'll co-partner father was a businessman and we brought them home and the father's in the driveway with his fancy add to Shakey's and the kids run up to him and one kid runs up to him and knocks over like to leave the briefcase so a $500 case screaming Adam one of his name is Yankee be careful scratch the briefcase so who do you love more the briefcase Oh Yankee that's the Shila every time we implode explore we react by showing what's important does it is I just raised my voice low coverage around Dodge it is the essence of what we're talking about he was gonna speak Marquez be a celebration if you say I'd have a son we are similar if they're made simple my Dvinsk if the tree mike is a meristem colic is their future where something have to be very careful you have to reason with that goal fact dr. Thomas says that you have to be very careful that the main neck is the nursemaid if the mother can there shouldn't be enough career as I bring to la loca and the guy in second so for my sharavino much I've been refused to nurse from a non-jewish sauce the mouth that's gonna talk to cottage beaucoup help a damn boo boy can't nurse for non-jewish sauce ergo Bianchi was a governess keys that's all that's my shuttle bay no Sokka Bianca vise device everybody has to raise every Santa cancer dick is as if there will be mushroom in as if one day they're gonna talk to the shut up L pet which means when I was a kid growing up in bed snores to move to Flatbush in the age of four there's an old guy in the building a Jewish guy he'd give me bread and butter you give me all kinds of candies my father explained to me you can't take it from the fellow he's well-meaning he said to my father rabbi he's only a kid becomes part of your DNA what you see becomes parties in it would you experience the gentleness of parents and grandparents are remembered fella you want to celebrate a Yiddish your home create a great Jewish um it has to always be be simple this is a good mother himself to Tanis and after bazerman olive row breaker was be shoe co-developers he was the marketplace of elephants and he encountered Italy or Navi and seems like to be a typical thing they're impossible so the breaker strikes up his courage and he says who in this marketplace is a been Olam haba who in this marketplace is living that destined for but living another member right now so he talks about a fellow that rescues Jewish ladies one prison with an ingenious idea and then he says that these two doesn't give any explanation the first fellow gives that guidance explanation why this person hasn't been in my book but the second fellas calm assured he runs over to them he says my avid attacker what's your job but pain and I none we humorous comedians and we say I know Shurmur at CV we cheer them up we make him smile so Tashi snake him Oh miss some company Odom well of course well they have a pet comedy club that they made the dogs happy they made the fish laughs so I'm going maybe I could come ashleeta in Toronto a friend of mine once said shots smashing was some company of them cousin persons depressed his bats first he's down and about he doesn't feel like a mensch you turn him back into a man she's made her one with some company other doctor mouth Shaw Chloe like she clean your teeth a kamal says in another place that Hashem says if your arm hurts my arm hurts your head hurts my head hurts says the mouse trophy it is the pressed their passion caveat was depressed and when you chip another year to general because it's Bach well that's a bit early my bow that's the whole east side of our Evita to the best of our ability to be positive to cheer people up to take away the answer is you're not just cheering other people love you cheering up cup your cottage barkal what those memories that people remember how did children how do you want to be remembered by your kids as excited animated celebrating it'sh kites that's always at arithmetic fetch and a crank you know we live in the Kufa of homeless having said that I make a bra oh hi Todd I know you're laying in my life I'll um shock alright so let's take that back a little bit we're living at goof of Hedo we want to do everything but tackle is so easy was a Kayla van veil it was a going in sonic the mythical Bell Vice Mongols that song who was an Evo II he was from the gazelle a his soil he saved Jewish lives and he wasn't at Sbrocco lament she may have been battered but he was at the freedom edge after the Wold throughout the world visiting far-flung Jewish communities and he went to Morocco it was before so kids so he is somebody where do you purchase he spoke perfect of it blushing Kurdish whatever you want to call it what where do I get a little Vanessa don't worry how keep on doing it to give out takes care of it you come to shul you'll get you set perfect set comes to shoulder early to check them out there's no checking out there's a barrel filled with hundreds of us Reagan it's a drive by you walk you pick your you go vitae same with the love of me Kim Possible twenty till you find yours Haddad summer others everything is preset just take it and go he comes to his seat and push and he's very depressed cuz he's used to spending you know what amount of money and time to find the perfect hit the Mitzvah lulav no safer Taylor no beautiful a dancin hallo starts his depression is gone because the Hassan has a voice like a nightingale he's convinced that the Malacca suave my father quidditch are listening to every sound that emanates from the Hassan's voice clearly cinema that bells vertically night if you got all about the fact it didn't have the perfect set didn't annoy him like the meaning of the solving one gig on yin leaves the show puts a little back in its place with hundreds of love him the answering back in the barrel and the next day it comes to shore picks up his little van s3 no mish-mosh it's a little brown over there sweaty palms that have fellow it had it before it's at a rebus they like it it says it's a hidden fine he's ready Fowler all of a sudden he is a hollow the fellows croaking and crack singing and moaning you know we have sometimes people that don't sing how they cry hello hello the same gaga you mean I know these people it's okay but you know it's very nice it's good to have you as your mine but how was our own kinases kennis you know if you howl sounds like Guinness we had a problem fine Micah van Betty masa I made Vince michella cos in tape so this fella is howl was good fella crotchety cracked klutzy voice who was Goodfellas after Domini he turns to the fella next to me says to maka a la casa what happened to the fell from yesterday listen to what he said listen to what he said tough sue or Toby shaking it small oh he do mana Bhima they caught him telling a lie yesterday so he's down from the Bema he cannot doubt her personal lives at the whole aisle lawyers can in our Kela and then he was musing and thinking to himself who's got a great hit the Mitzvah who's the dresser Mahathir he's looking for a little Vanessa ring or akela that won't allow person who total asset Ally to doubt him for the oven he got a voice like a nightingale time so don't be shy girl they take him down is that the hit admit service is that the type of home that we have where we teach by example the greatest educational tool more than anything else in the world of the parents they give Malaysia frittata firm it's mrs. it charity begins at home that's one thing I would stress tonight charity begins at home you can be involved in every stock organization charity begins at home do you lose it easily it's what the kids gonna lose it kind of Shabbos to have is everyone honest what are you fudge a little bit you lie a little bit cuz that's gonna happen with the kids they're gonna learn from you point by point hey am i said my Rebbetzin said they gets more availa so she's a nursery school teacher for many many many years many people the neighborhood had a remember noses swab for five years the kid sir for Beyla taught nursery for many years she had on Shabbos a shops buddy those that have kids grandchildren great-grandchildren know exactly I'm talking about they basically take the boys take one of my old hats and they put it on then they take a tiny nearly strangle themselves and then they make it and the girls put on a tickle and they make believe like the lighting there's every Shabbos every week Friday it's a different boy different girl yes I'm talking about the heady days boys and girls were in the same nursery school in three year olds and four year olds were together I'm not gonna mention the names of all the column that sent their kids get very late you sir all my excess members had sent their kids tomorrow Bayla that was mixed places but in a different door it's a door of hid or so we try to split them from the house so it shouldn't be in the same class else is good a bank of common etske didn't like the word from he liked airlock I once commented on that he knows from the Pope is from that's when I called Pope Pius but um doesn't want us to be pious he wants us to be airless fine so each kid would make kiddush according to the father's Minich one kid would stand one kid would sit Dominic's stand and sit not Maura Bailey's nursery but there was a kid that gets up to me kiddush holding full of strange purposes and he says boy am I tired I'm so exhausted the market is terrible do it to them before they do it to you we're making image easy because that's that was father made kiddush I said the tactic I'm not kidding every week we have to thank hiro-kun Jerry Taylor and stolen a knavish lead day for this evolving a massive of learning turning the summon tonight's of Toyota all over the world and all the sharam it they have and it's breathtaking I go sometimes to speak one o'clock in the afternoon middle of the day in Barra Park it's a full base matter - mentioned cumin Loughnan so I once said this story over the oven she returned and stolen and it's telling a man came over to me and said his wife's are kinda in it she's a nursery school teacher and she had a different story one of the kids gets up stoned Asif man we stand and the kids ax picks up the Kois and he says mommy thank you so much for making a beautiful meal Kindle off are not fighting and for setting the table they ever vacant about she she cuz that's how we heard his father said so how do you want your kids to make kiddush how do you want your ended up to make you - I'm not saying corsica do Shem now get up sug noise acquisition I'm just saying simple things if you catch when you hold it down would meet him unleash an Arab oh and you're stuck and a lot makes you me sugar that you have to have to move in an Street together the entire time like a reaction told them to do and you got your mom's over here where you got the placard and back it again in front of you and you keep coming up to you and see what it says we get the wristband or the other band rock band and go me sugar and it's hot and then arriving home we have the whole island together so what are you gonna do you're in a fish you're gonna clink when said such a mice in Minneapolis many years ago you know there we went around the hope rumor of the show and then we went out in the corridor and into the base medicine back he knows a clown when it comes to traffic jams every time there's a change in traffic pattern this is a there's a jam up especially if a couple of older people had some elderly people it's the states that went from here to there all of us and all of them stops and there's a guy nice guy guy cranking fetch inking fetching and cranking so I said my inimitable style I whispered rather loudly I said you know what this is a good weight young Schlag plots where they counted them for 18 hours and the snoer and the Sun and if you whisper to your friend they beat you to death and if you had a button missing from your tunic your prisoner tunic they'd kill you and people were swooning or freezing that's not a good wait that was the parade or the yummy slug pots were they gathered over get into the port I met Santa could wait about three days and three nights on the cattle core that's not a good wait I gotta wait we didn't this is where I want to be I want to be in short on a Shannon Robert Tyler simpering cop sweating holding it all together this is what if I got away to ready this is where I want to wait it was such a miser so Ravi was traveling there so many many years ago maybe 40 years ago and it was a shitty time this and that and allow the try that the plane everything was delayed and the state's up people getting grumpy and he notices you know this is a nobody couple and they're sitting there hour after hour keep it saying laughing cuz often he says what's the shot and they said you know what we were in the concentration camp we know what it means to wait to wait for an Israeli airline to go there it's just wrong we're good you got to put it in perspective realize every action and reaction you know that semi civic above Chavez that's all he spoke about the following phenomenon a kid gets angry and they could say the worst things you are the mercy in the world there's no mommy as bad as you I would want any mommy in the world except for you the mother gives him a big lollipop I love you you're the best mommy there's no mommy in the world like your mom Jane lollipop one minute transform from the worst to the best an adult gets in touch totes gets into a fight Calista is you forgot what you got to fight about relatives friends employee employer or neighbors whatever it is but at least animated tsveti ignore each other don't buy him to simplice over what nobody knows they just know I had fun some McCoys we have this generational fight fact it's him I said look what's the chance how come a kid in a second turns from you the worst thing of the best and an adult is supposed to be rationale he's supposed to be rationally supposed to be mature supposed to control himself he can't deal with it said it's mo cynic because a kid wants to be happy you give him a lolli he's happy that makes no difference what you did them an adult wants to be right he doesn't care lose family and friends his job he's gonna be right he has to be right on his much save it's gonna say he was right dead right is that how we want to be remembered by a family our friends our children our aina class always right you have to lighten up people of course I'm talking to myself and hopefully the riveting is not watching this in Minneapolis but Pesach wherever you shall I am he pulled hundreds and hundreds of her City little kids his kids from his his hood sir hey yes them as the walking by one year which jumped of you like better circus or pacer so you figured a thousand of a thousand and I say pays off have you gotten presence Oh while we're on the subject of African men can anybody tell me what they gave their kids at our grandchildren I think I mean I guess the kids the next morning after Domini now one kid knew what to ask for like they're gonna negotiate on the side in six months after camp know what that basically means that everything they want take anything what they want I know what I wanted when you're not serve when you want to reach me bicycle who didn't know what they wanted today nobody knows what they want you gotta force-feed them to take that becoming president so the Rebbe is them hands down everybody said circus he says why they say sure he says no because I'm pay stuff everybody's nervous my mother's nervous my father would assume and how are you gonna make that size if you just make it each at 10:30 how are you gonna make cuts ice words they're like this fast speed 78 remember the record 78 Widow 78 no cashes no dinner - nope shut him nothing strengthen that got it like promotion we're just gonna have a friend becomes a reminder he's it or not nobody knows memory system uh she just read they're good I doubt it we're gonna do another motion when it goes of the I gotta like the deal real quick that your mother spend a month preparing and cleaning for will make it bad that size ah chef Satan talk it over with your of or your rebel if that makes sense I'm happy if I make deter nine by hot sauce you know it's now you make every familiar with the have any nays is tonight if we pass skin Zaria so this is my if you came in before cuts ice and then you don't need for a few minutes then you continue to say that in fact that I'm not eating my I think I'm I think one time I think was this year what one time we made a bet that size i marinate a while I want this for my sure that's all my daughter just take a long time so that a long time here in it to win it you want to lose it you're gonna celebrate failures by enslaving everybody do Michigan it's not gonna be a happy seen a company tell also do what you have to do but it should be able to make a landing is schmuck and bring it to life and throw the ping-pong balls around by Boron's I get those little frogs and is eight in the father's you do this and do that and dress up who do they say may fight oh it's Adam him it's Ryan he's walking around it's and then a Becca to the shop do what you can that's the honest honest up my finish them it's all classes Cheney but I loves it cuz she ought to know cuz we shall manage that allows them color Lewis how you gonna keep them up by doing strange mother things I think the Iranians there I think they whack each other with there was a celery that's so clinic they walk around maybe maybe your scallions okay ok scallions but I've heard of celery too and we're on scallions were you selling me but the kind of mine is do you know what I gave up in his tights to have business of Elizabeth is usually used for compass anybody no banana a banana I have no idea why but it certainly was she Reba Lila has there she ever managed Donna what are we doing dipping a banana into salt what is this some kind of new ice cream flavor nothing better to do with ourselves I never saw she no you must tell me at reasons now again you don't gotta go for sure you stick to the Texas item understand bring it alive but what are they gonna remember and more importantly how do you want them to conduct their Seder a voice it is something called raising the bar there was a wonderful expression that the bubber's used to say as past past as past as past you could do it but it's not for you to do it was a greater Bubba in Chicago every one of her daughter's married married could do a usurer I could say the name most of them aren't alive but mama she could do you lay a lemn one is a ship of the most cautiously sheave in America North America you'd recognize every one of the names and her daughter told me in order to swirl several years ago at one time when she was in Chicago gone a public school everybody else went so she decides she's going to the movies before t she going to the movies mashenka then Gone with the Wind I don't know exactly wasn't around him but movie show you then grandmother but it's a Grimm of the cauldron she said mine ain't o'clock Ganga in the movies she didn't say get him since your life is over as you know it she just said my name o'clock they don't go to movies you're one of my inacol I had this with a colleague of mine in Minneapolis those days the day school had a nice blend of Shamus Shabbos not chinma Shabbos more you she was less she was whatever so the coda no I had come make him over time overseas with me he said he does know what to do because his kids his kids you know keeps all his job at that time was a bit of an enamel enamel II didn't keep to get it people didn't keep so so okay so the kitsune so another kid from kid is running around after him what a Hershey's chocolate bar nuts Tom Hershey's chocolate Hershey's choke above with almonds you can't have this I get anything better than that that yep butter but says I want to see us a kid I say yes you know you are you see you are a kernel younger man's son you know what that means your father learns for a living from the asura battle anima don't start is revolved around you are the son of a Tom McLoughlin who grabbed became a big dumb and awesome so the reason why you don't eat Hershey's chocolate bar it's not because you're denied because you're in a higher level you'll see do you know I got a phone call from that kid with the choco pie happen to remember in my show like with tynus on me now his kid doesn't one a time sheet chocolate bars his kid wants to be as I you know I was a fool now here am i sir at ina did I go say you can't have I was out of the bottle I could have gone to the school and said no more Hershey chocolate bars they're taunting the kids that don't do that oh gotta build them up raise the bar provides it sheriff says Vinick don t besides burning Israel becomes sanctified within the ranks of Claudius Earl LOI meter capricious elemetary she was it's really based on a minor amount of Sobotka not because of pre shows you got to stay away from the devil they can hang you up by your eyeballs like the pearly gates talks about if you look at the wrong thing and Ganim tips of Shiva's we don't act beneath our dignity we fly above the brush above the bushes in the brambles beneath the radar I guarantee you I guarantee I have no scientific proof but more of a yash of that self never ate baby back lamb chops $29 a pound from pomegranate I guarantee you never did what you don't like it it's not like yeah I'm sure my resume Denis tape at my house three times it is a chicken it's thinner yeah Tyson's my choices bees March my sister Jack but a lame chump no I'm not going to war against lamb chops enjoy your lamb chops you want as many she can get your hands on especially if somebody else is paying for him but it shouldn't bring you down it shouldn't be beneath your dignity you know something now called the barbecue pit are you familiar with this and now I'm some of the people in their compounds in the states they don't have a barbecue grill they have a barbecue pit pacaya mush and Emma me Mom I came across a functional way cool optical depth so they have a barbecue pit what again said listen I oxide also hold down it's all great kid sir Logan the Rebbetzin the guy's wife is out shopping how you function for the mountains I don't know but they went shopping with the ladies and he has a bunch of Kevlar so he gets these cowboy sticks from tomogram she discovers I remember one time I was speaking for the cuddlin in Miami Beach is gonna share and so some of the fellas took me out to dinner say going to the dinner you will not believe what I'm about to tell you maybe you won't so there's a 48 ounce take you know what 48 ounce take is 16 and 16 is 32 it's like a like a three pound steak and the guy calls over the weight I heard him oniy or as he says is this 48 ounces is this before it's cooked or after it's cooked you know because once it's cooked it loses some of the weight so he wants to know Fawcett shot 48 ounces is it sure eating a two-pound steak a three bath thing but so the fella goes and he picks up 16 cowboy steaks and he's gonna have a barbecue in the pits states of heat inside in the air-conditioned no more eating outside nobody eats outside gets over 70 into the air-conditioned dining room fine so lemons organized he's carrying the platter of steaks one falls onto the ground and somebody well Hills does rib steak it's good clean mud you wash up the steak he put it on the grill because one day no problem Palomas dug in the lane of the late James Olmos Kapoor found its monoliths lon some dog made it deposit on the lawn and that's what it fell into you're gonna rinse it off you have to be me sugar sustain its beneath you dignity Hashem wants us to celebrate Yiddish garden to remember that we raise the bar and the rest is beneath our dignity we have a lot of miscellaneous maybe more than any other door my reputable Schmo berimbau love people who learn Tara our younger man and Kyle what a cuddle car buy my daughter schleimann Serena's for 13 and a couple of months ago anniversary is now 13 years but 13 and a change so he gave a 45-minute schmooze at the part place at East 18th what's a cold what hush and what kind of you know they from from Iran okay the ones that use scallions I'll go up on him so he have a 45-minute schmooze get me schmooze about gosh me oh we are not into that his net she's that saying come on America I just seem standing here is the stamping she returned she want me to come to speak at the Wednesday event next week couponing me says come on Mel yes I make a joke the Kashmir's in America's shine so versus the Kashmir suppose the gosh means potato chip samia's oaks as that was haste loiter ice cream I think he meant read Isis but he called it read ice cream so by symmetry was by a similar and they gave him a portion I didn't feel anything I've chefs I got so she is important of deposit he doesn't get it he said that just recently they gave him a ride in the car this goes back now 13 years ago account was Costa own it isn't over you got a ride in a hundred thousand dollar car sits at all of them is Sammamish Olivia will occur it was just like a gaga you know Kyle got four doors different colors gets you from one place to the other Safeway smile he doesn't sin the gosh miss penis other people have wealthy people would come along with some legendary stories about him changing places on the plane and bringing him to coach sit and learn with them give the money to these even each other I believe what should be you today is a big bounce talking is it my Savin with him that he'll satin Louisville for 10 hours straight on the plane and first-class seat which he traded and to be able to sit with her children so I'm sure all said a motor the cup shot and I heard it from his song of Shiva Basha on the plane with the meter I was Asia to be one of the time either met did that Tyrone rubbish boil and I flew to stroll with the office que vemos miles but fine sure Lester cash Dayton post okay located there lender but hermanos I gotta go see ace events Alex's thank you available for I died Turkish war of course before he dies if he doesn't see him before he dies it's never gonna same he said based on what the Honan from baranovichi told Tommy to me said kid the luck run and go see to hop it's fine because in this world you'll get into his space but in the world to come when they know the father time is you won't be in his environs you won't be able to end mojitos said rapprochement yankov you know of course was each time you survey Tara Tara Tara not there but Yosef was called Yosef at Sonic because he stood up to the his Sian he stared into aura eyeball-to-eyeball and he eats of Horeb linked but Asia's PT fire going to one marriage for two years she kept on coming to him point another marriage that is Sian was greater than the sign of all tennis shyness of remove you know and all the SWAT them together all the office together say he said hey looks were never turn on my jacket says think of you know I better go see him when I can in this world I can get close to her the world to come with the match of what it is to be I'm administering won't be allowed in his Murphy's environs had some look at this world what the tiger and all the technology people haven't been in sayin and where does the comment comes on the stop hey look for any potato moments I don't know if I'll be able to even see him you have to forgive me Anna you have to forgive me Anna after virginiana I had the story from Chino home rosin push of a bus can lake with a Talmud of tells me Sheila he's deep bass on Shabbos remembers more Baylor's chunky liver you know you take a beef liver you chunk it up but some believe it a recipe of a quorum chorim's and well if you want to give it a recipe especially now it's not the nine days anymore especially South Asia I'll go but him he told me I'm everything I'm I said where did it happen here Schlemmer Kurdish happened right here in Flatbush there was a year he was very successful it was making close to 400 K year he lost his job and he couldn't find another job technically shops was taking care of him sent him food back maybe for four years but he always smiled he always smiled you smiled one day he saw that they were looking for someone exactly with his credentials and he applied for the job in the interview went great kids uh fella is someone question there were a hundred applicants why should I give it to you didn't know what to say the kid said needless to say he walks out he didn't have the job he comes home and does it us he goes out he comes like a few hours later he tells his wife go to pomegranate and buy everything that you see there we're gonna have a suicide dog I got an incredible job but one thing you know Mandy likes to remove sue buy a whole vat of Toro musu and it's all for Monday and only for Mende Mende nevus singles that one over the other one man he said more tell him this is what happened I'm out in the bounce and I get a phone call I don't know interviewed me the boss wants to see me again wants to interview me again come in and we talked and he asked me questions and he says I seen your papers do you have a son named nd he says yeah he says okay let me tell you about Mindy I came home after interviewing so many people it's close to 12 o'clock at night I went to that it's Kiera by laying down shawl and I get to a few mins for 12 it is packed people came back from the mountains it was packed I was so exhausted it was not pleased even the stands I'm leaning against the wall and a boy comes over man he says do you like a seat maybe I look at the boy I don't know then I come this is the son of this Russia Sheba did I give a lot of money to these she's probably thanking me so thank you very much sat down the seat it's all great then when I leave I turned to the boy and say so is this your name you know no you're not to someone achieve it not related so why did you give me a seat because my Abitur to us that you give another person a break and if you see someone's in trouble you help him out I saw you so exhausted you couldn't even lean against the wall you needed a break I gave you a break I rushed back to my office I went through all the people that I interviewed and I noticed your file and your paperwork and I saw you out of Sun Monday I said a person was out of work for years and he teaches his children not to be upset at society but to keep on giving a person a break I want him to work for me here's the job I want Mendy to get tutor Musa because of him I got the job he didn't get the job because of Mindy you got the job cuz if I got his vocal but who was the schlinger he was he taught his children that jet be overflowing with love you Jana you make it work for him and you do that he's successful you can't lose by not saying what you're not supposed to say I figure always toward us you don't regret what you don't say so number 1s it begins at home but has to be I said with a simplicity I am feel good about I remember as a kid growing up in Flatbush so was Sunday and the mama to come out hamburgers beef burgers no grill just whatever they may come in the house and all this isn't a kid to do it Michelle came and those days away Michelle King told man hints to me went along a wrecker won't bear pace first of all ASM is his entombed guy she's ever shown me isn't good you're hungry to Jeets up but no would you like to join us he says yes so he sits down didn't know what to do with the hamburger we show her me take a bun you slap on the burger put on some pickles with an onion and with adults and with some ketchup that's a minute of my house so lettuce and the man in Georgia they took another one so we learned chesed Schmidt you're running deficit it's to be a lady and elderly lady with a daughter who was very very not well she was definition tangled up and she obviously wasn't it doesn't make a person that well plenty going him that Kenya so well but she was a special needs person and she would terrify us she'd come in late at night and she'd make noises and scream and we learnt my mother's take me though and it wasn't called Russ cuz it was a part of Coney Island Hospital itself wasn't exactly the sharpest Hospital there was a geriatric ward so I'm Hanukkah as a kid I don't like mirrors all these elderly people they look like they were in the verge of meeting the best in Shamala any moments and that's how we grew up my brother and I and that's saying there was like shock treatment but we never clutch we have a crate it looks like it was so much fun mother once walked into Cornell Hospital Jonah and she sees and she's going through visiting one of the members my father's sure she's eating comets although for a former flight well says what's going on she's crying she's crying Rebbetzin forgive all tests and matt says a good minish come matzah have to eat something mother got in touch with Coney Island Hospital nice so you have two maps if they're Jewish patients and pesos they never had matzo for the Jewish patient paisa this was like in the late 60s early 70s if you can believe so they said if you can get the manpower to walk all the stairs deliver the maps and the culture trays you got it my mother recruited everybody girls Bishop of Brooklyn some of my cousin's now who were girls then and if she will bury mom's saw Andrew Bower your leaves agent active role he was a carnage or berry late and he would walk and deliver the monsters then that my mother would walk two miles she once had a spring dad come on face up she walked the two miles she limped fro yeah but that's what she did so what I had a Braille role there I had a choice I wasn't gonna crank it wasn't one of conventions was it simcha so you have to have no guess it begins at home both to your kids the most important example of Education you if you can angry they're gonna get angry you have to watch your language you have to be honest learn about you sir that sadek stand up to the 8 sorry sneeze begins at home that just stays for the Vosges it's these for my shove it's nice and not being ostentatious and then one more thing that we didn't have an odd day is that I always say it like very delicately well I'll start with this is October that art school just translated the entire shots into Spanish so that the cleaning ladies could be able to help the kids with the Gemara doing sit I'm telling you if grates is full-time at home give Alex like a parrot's back in the old day in Portland I'm very proud of you what about Cassius what are they telling you kids I see these dish can you dish it speaking line I would just say these kids where they come but yashka give an idea what's going on this is crazy you want to trust you caught anybody won't let you caught anybody but your lucky kid that you thousand for be brought up by a chick sir where's the same hole and we want to know what kinds of crazy things are going on we gotta take control the most important thing simcha similar similar simcha preserve her detention with a rockin two great Yiddish your homes and the greatest symbol cup of years ago mayor of you may know Shanee again she returned monsters busting life people begin to chaos so I leave for the very inspiring Russia I place another way that you can create a great Yiddish elements by helping ear against your attire create great Yiddish Elms by supporting your geese your tears I bought the South IRA throughout the year worldwide by sponsoring a shear or by putting an ad in the journal we're coming to the dinner which due to space limitations for men only next 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