Cleaning Out Our Inner Chametz In Queens (Rabbi Yaron Reuven New York LECTURE TOUR)

[Music] thank you for having me everybody got food every got food good same price uh so first of all thank you for organizing it all these wonderful people some new faces some old faces all the way from Connecticut and New York lot of good lot of good lot of people that I see their their names and faces on WhatsApp and some people that are brand new so because there are some new people I'll tell you a little brief uh uh I'll tell you a little bit brief uh of who I am and uh try to keep it there's a very long version of my personal story and anyone that wants to know the long version of it there are CDs over there uh and the price is zero for anyone and if you want two it's also zero so two for one for zero and two for zero but just take it and listen to it each each package has two CDs and the first track in the black CD CD number two it's called from Wall Street to the Western Wall it gives you my personal life story why did chva why I'm here and so on and so forth but uh with that being said I'll give you a short version of my story so you decide along the way if I'm somebody you should listen to it or ignore me for the next two hours you decide uh three hours maybe or one hour however much you want so also uh the sh will be for for uh Felicia but Carolina uh Michael Ben Sarah uh dor but Susanna Ben benana uh G Benya um David benri Doris Bora Lana B SAR SAR Lana ovadia Ben Lana davidov benam gon Ben kalish Gabriel Ben mob Yeshua and all of also for that's able to be modest in this day and age it's the of the women is to be modest that's the biggest mvah for all of women so will find a she be and even is good too also is for have and yov yov also have they have which in this day and age is also the the the uh the of the generation is to acquire these traits to have enough enough fear of where we actually want to listen to him so we'll start off with a couple of questions and you have to answer those questions to yourself you don't have to necessarily ask answer to me you have to ask yourself these questions first question is if you weren't Jewish I'm assuming everybody here is Jewish if you weren't Jewish let's say you were born in Bangladesh or you were born in I don't know in Saudi Arabia your best friend was uh you know uh one of these uh one of these terrorists you weren't a Jew okay and you found out about Judaism found out oh this is religion is got Tora in Mount Si there was this guy named named Moshe sounds like a nice guy he was 7 m Long Tall which is 20 ft by the way really big guy according to us all these wonderful things and he got toah and everybody agrees it's true the Muslims agreed the Christians agreed the atheists agreed they just don't want to listen everybody agrees it's true and you agree it's true too would you convert to Judaism no the honest answer is no the honest answer for most people in the world is no and the reason why is because most of us don't actually know what it means to be a Jew we don't actually view it like it's AO like it's a merit to be a Jew how do we know just look at the streets today if you look at the Italians the Italians are proud to be Italian they have their Flags they have their pastas they have their restaurants they have their attitude their language regardless of where they go in the world they're proud to be Italian you go to the Irish people they convince the whole world that there's one day a year you're supposed to all drink and everybody agrees so we drink too to the Irish Mexicans play soccer with each other not you're not even allowed to play soccer with them why because that's the Mexican tradition that's what they do and so on and so forth the Puerto Ricans and the blacks and oh go to the Muslims the Muslims are so proud to be Muslims that they're praying in the middle of the street in the middle of the street they stop traffic they stop praying they allahar and everything else they're proud to do what they're doing they sell their halal food and they do something called dawa what's dawa dawa is in Hebrew kiru it's to get people to become Muslim and their job for the last two decades the last 20 years has been to convince the entire world that your only solution is to become a Muslim and this is why even when you go to one of these trucks and the corners is all over New York and all over the all over the United States you see these trucks they sell halal food on the Halal food truck you also see a sticker in Arabic and most people if you don't speak Arabic you don't know what it means what does that actually mean this is they say God is God is the only God and muhammmad is our messenger and they give this to different customers that keep coming back so you ask to pay what is this why you give him stickers you go SC trying to help him to be a Muslim but he's a Christian he's a Jew he's a something else yeah I'm trying to help him out the only way he's going to get the G in according to this Muslim is If he if he uh converts becomes a Muslim he says oh so you're doing daah while you're doing business he goes no no no dawa is what I do business is just on the side the business is on the side the number one priority for the guy selling halal food for the guy that's running the mosques for any Arab all over the world two billion of them them is to do da why to do dawa why why to why to get the world to do to become Muslims number one reason they actually believe their lie even though their whole concept everything that they have is a lie we all know it you just look at the Quran within five minutes you realize it's they have there's wrong dates there's wrong numbers there's wrong everything they say that Jesus is a family member ofu knew they liveed thous years difference you don't need to be a genius you just look at the it's it's wrong but they don't look at it so they believe whatever their uh leaders say but the reality is that even if you show them these mistakes they're still going to stay Muslim why listen I'm already in it if I leave they're going to kill me anyway what's the word they're going to kill my kids they're going to kill me there's no way I'm not leaving once you're in you're in that's why in general even though there's a lot of people converting to Judaism today and we deal with a lot of them very very rarely do you ever see a Muslim convert out of Muslim out of Islam and it's not because they don't believe I have many of them that tell me they believe they send me messages they they want to learn they but they can't convert out why because they know there's a sacrifice that's that's includes their life it's not just a marriage issue so anyway the problem is that the Muslims live their lifee and believe their lie like it's true the Christians that worship an idol that died 2,000 years ago they also believe their lie they send people from house to house whether it's Jehovah Witness or it's je for Jesus or it's new this new thing over the last maybe 10 years called Messianic Judaism which is also Christianity just called Judaism for the first time in history first time in 2,000 years the Christians are pretending to be Jews for 2,000 years they were busy killing us 2,000 years they're busy killing us in the last 20 years they said you know what we tried killing them for 2,000 years these people don't die so let's just let's just get them to let's pretend like we're them so we'll get them to become Christians anyway so you have organizations that spend over $300 million a year just in Israel to recruit Jews to convert to Christianity and every week unfortunately a thousand Jews convert to Christianity why because the Christians believe their lie and live accordingly the Jews on the other hand unfortunately us we actually have the truth and everyone knows it but we live our life like it's a lie we have the truth but we live it like it's a lie why when was the last time you told a Jew come to my house keep Shabbat what was the last time he told you come to T come on you got to do CH what was the last time you told the guy listen the the girl that you're dating is not Jewish you should leave her what was the last you told the guy listen you know you really got to start changing your diet you have to eat kosher once in a while you'll tell your friend but as soon as he gives you an attitude you stop even more so when was the last name you told a a non-jew hey you have any interest in Judaism instead of believing in an idol the numbers continue to shrink and the reason why is because we don't know what it means to be a Jew we don't know what our mission is and simply put we're not even proud of it if we were at the very least we'd be just like them we'd go door to door begging people to come to instead of having 100 people here there' be 10,000 and still 10 10,000 people waiting on outside Jews non-jews people waiting oh there's truth somewhere I'm going in France rabai there are 1300 muses 1300 musks in France and one is in France 1300 musks but on Friday night which is their Shabbat people show up to the mask one hour before time one hour before the prayer starts they show up already why to C catch a place to find a spot because if you don't come an hour before you have to stand outside there's not enough room in 1300 musks if you look at us we you barely get a minan sometimes you barely get 10 guys to show up to Sho in some places why we still don't understand what it means this is how I spent most of my life most of my life I was just like every other Jew in the world confused not knowing really what the purpose of life is and just like the statistic in America according to Pew research 90% of American Jews do not keep Shabbat 90% 9 % of American Jews don't keep Shabbat and even worse 66% 66% don't believe that you have to believe in God in order to be Jewish they don't think that believing in God and being Jewish have anything to do with each other meaning that we've confused what Judaism is we think Judaism is something like a tradition it's something nice it's like the way you know it's like the where I grew up a certain neighborhood like the guys from Brooklyn or the guys from uh this way or the guys from that thing it's like it's a nice thing the keep us looks good it's like the guys from Africa that walk around underwear no different if you go to Africa you're going to look at them like they're strange why they're walking around with underwear they're going to look at you with the keeper and the suit and everything you're strange you're strange to them they're strange to you your custom versus their Customs now I'm not talking to people that are not religious I'm talking to you to all of Amisa which includes the religious community because out of the 90% of people that don't keep Shabbat 94% believe that it's okay to work on Shabbat which means that 40% of the religious ones the ones that actually keep Shabbat still think it's okay to work on Shabbat like working on Shabbat and Shabbat have nothing to do with each other which means we're really confused this was me this was me for most of my life I came to the United States when I was 10 years old from Israel and as soon as we landed in America we became American even though I didn't know the language I knew maybe a few letters of the alphabet have a seat it's your place anyway so we didn't really know much I knew the first few letters of the alphabet because it was in a Serial box and other than that I didn't know much but when you come to the United States when you're 10 years old you learn pretty quickly and you fast forward a few years I started working when I was young went to school I was a good student but I also knew that I didn't want to be in school for a million years I didn't want to be a doctor I didn't be a lawyer and I didn't want to be in school for 100 years I already knew what money was when I was already 17 so I decided to go into the stock market business I became a stock broker the first couple of years were very interesting my boss has made a ton of money I made absolutely nothing this is usually how it works first three years what they call I paid my dues they made $50 to $100,000 a month month I made $1,000 a month good deal no uh but that eventually ended and eventually I went on my own meaning I became my own broker in July of 2001 July of 2001 everyone knows what happened in September of 2001 September 11th of 2001 was just a couple of months after I became my own broker which means that the little business I didn't even have collapsed but it was also a very good time to start a business and that's what I did I continued getting more and more clients all of the people that were losing money everywhere else it was very easy to acquire them as clients because I gave them hope people like to start something new especially if they're losing fast forward I worked very hard but I worked the type of hard where it's not like 9 to5 or 9 to6 or 9 to7 I started my day at 5 and I finished my day at about 2 I came went to the city I figured that everyone else in the office they've been in the business for 10 years 15 years 20 years so I can't catch up to their experience overnight because experience is very valuable in the business but I can't outwork everyone they work 9 to5 so that's less hours than way I can work they work 8 hours 9 hours 10 hours okay I'll work 20 hours and that was my logic if I work 20 hours that means that I'll work double as them and I'll catch up faster now the first 6 months it didn't actually really work out all it did is make me go broke I didn't have any money to eat I had to borrow a dollar from this guy Dimitri every day so I could have a dut and coffee I had to sneak on a bus every day so I could get home the bus driver kicked me out a few times because I didn't have money on a metro card but that was the first six months after that thing started actually working I made my first, then the second month I made $5,000 and then a month after that I made seven after that $ 10,000 then a month after that another 10,000 and a month after that about 15 then a month after that $117,000 that was my first break Break made $177,000 in one month started getting people's attention after that everything changed over the next year I made another million dollars after that everything changed even more after that we started printing money and that's really what it got to it got to a point where on a bad month I'd make2 200,000 meaning if I just didn't show up I decided to work once a month once a month once twice a month show up to the office I'd always be in the office but I'd never actually you know had people do my my job i' still make $200,000 if I really wanted to work on May of 2006 I made .6 million so imagine a 20-some year old little kid just got a out of diapers a few years before is making millions of dollars and doesn't know right left or anything else I had some life experience had some nice things to say and so on and so forth but in reality I was still in my 20s still knew nothing but I was convinced I knew everything just like everyone else now again Shalom was one of the most important m rabis in the history of am most people don't know who he is if you're in the American world but if you're Israeli you should know who he is and he used to say in some of his lectures like who is like a hero who's a man who's man enough to do chuva now a lot of people always thought this is just like his own language his own thing his own saying his own idea what does it mean who's man enough to be a to do chuva what's what would you have to be such a man to do chuva why do you have to be such a hero to do CH but the reality is it's actually a in not exactly in those words but very similar it says it says who is a man and will never see death and will rescue his soul from the grasp of which is G in so many words the sages explained to us is who's man enough to save his own how to do chuva just like ra used to say who's man enough to do chuva deceive himself and G and will live forever now most of us don't like to hear such things we don't like to hear about Gom we don't like to hear about hard things we don't like to hear about cancer we don't like to hear about bad things but bad things happen and yesterday I had a sh in um Far Rock Away was a nice young woman that uh after this year we had questions and answers and so on and uh she told me listen you know I heard enough times that you have to be modish you have to be modish you have to be modish but it's annoying already it's annoying already I don't want to hear it anymore I said uh you're right it is annoying it is annoying but I have to ask you question if let's say for example you had a favorite candy had a favorite candy and I showed you the candy candy was on the table delicious candy you've been waiting for this candy for two years and finally you see the cand on a table and you're about to go take it and eat it but I know something you don't the candy is full of poison now I know if I tell you it's full of poison you're going to be really upset why because you've been waiting for this candy for two years you're going to be really upset you may even start crying but your favorite candy all you've been doing for two years is thinking about this candy so if I don't if I tell you I'm going to ruin the whole the whole thing for you so would you prefer me not to tell you because if I tell you I'm going to ruin the whole thing for you you're not going to be able to eat the candy but if I don't tell you you eat the candy and what's going to happen when you eat poison you die to which one same price which one do you pick and that is the difference between Emit and the emit the truth hurts why because we've all been planning to live she we've all been planning to live our lifestyle without anyone getting in getting in our way we've all been convinced that whatever we're doing is fine we have nothing to change you go to people that are religious you go to people that are secular you ask them what do you think you need to change anything he says I'm perfect you ask his wife she says he has to change everything you ask him about his wife he says she has to change everything she has to change everybody has to change everything but you tell about yourself no one has to change anything well convinced that our she is AIT when someone comes and tells you the Amit it's painful not all of us wanted to hear it now the problem is is that in today's age the leaders we have the rabbis the speakers also know this story they also know that you like the sh I like the I like lies you like lies everyone wants to live a lie no one wants to be told what to do who likes to be told what to do no one not even the little kids like to be told what no one everyone wants to do whatever they want no one wants to be told how to dress no one wants to be told what to eat no one likes to do to be told to what to do so the rabbis also know this and they figured listen if I tell people the truth they're probably going to fire me because if I tell them they have to keep Shabbat and stop driving they're probably going to fire me if I tell them that they can't eat at every restaurant that's uh that says it's kosher they're probably going to fire me if I start telling them that their wives are technically according to the Torah not modest and they have to take off the wig and they have to start putting on clothes and start showing the world what they look like naked they're going to probably fire me so the rabbis and the speakers learn this and they realize listen it's survival of the fittest if I tell them the truth they're going to fire me then my kids are not going to have anywhere to go to school they're not going to have anything to eat they're not going to have anything anywhere to sleep so I have to protect myself so what happens they became part of the sh unfortunately and they stopped telling people the truth this unfortunately is one of the biggest one of the biggest disasters in Jewish history but it's not the first time that it happened it's been happening since Shabbat page 54 a it says that changed the there was a decree on to punish the wicked and save The Righteous the people that were keeping Shabbat keeping learning and so on save them the people going out with non-jews eating nonos all that destroy them with the mdash but then for the first time in history hasem changed the decree from positive to negative why came to Hashem and said Hashem why are you saving these ones and not these ones these are and these are he says why you saying the why you saying the they filled the whole Tor they learned Tor from day and night they kept Shabbat they kept kosher their wife's a kosher he's a kosher everything is kosher they even have a kosher stamp on them everything is good they have a beard reaches the floor everything is good what's wrong he says yes but they knew the truth and they didn't tell anybody else they knew that you have to keep Shabbat they didn't tell the they knew that you can't go out with the non-jew they didn't tell the they knew the truth but they never shared it with anybody else because they were scared to get fired hasem says thear thear says hasem says you're right punish them first not only punish them kill them first before the before him why it's his fault it's the religious guy's fault why because the the secular guy is never going to do chuva without the religious guy doing chuva first because no one's going to tell the secular guy the same thing is happening today our leaders today are scared to tell you the truth because they're scared that if they tell you the truth you're going to stop donating you're gonna fire them you're not going to welcome them into your good news is I don't really care and the reason why is because I care more about your than I care about your money not that I have any money I lost all of it but I still care less and the reason is because I had a lot of it and by now I know it's worthless and this is why after I made over $20 million I thought that I was on top of the world I thought that I will probably never have to work hard for the rest of my life and I thought that Bill Gates should start being worried because I'm about to take his place if I already made $20 million by the time I'm in my mid 20s God only helped Bill Gates by the time I'm 40 he's going to work for me that was my mind I was going to conquer the world but it came to Judaism though I was selective not like my job my job I did whatever I had to do to survive I was honest I was ambitious I never cheated I never lied I never did anything wrong and I was very generous with people so when it came to work I follow the system came to Judaism when it came to Hashem I picked and chose whatever I wanted so someone said you can't work on Shabbat I said okay I won't work on Shabbat I'll go to casino instead instead of going instead of going to work I'm not going to work I'll go play poker I likeed poker I was good at math I'm not working makes sense no to a secular person makes all the sense in the world50 $50,000 on a table they start a table for me they said you have to eat kosher I said okay so I'll eat kosher at home when I'm not home I'll eat uh not meat so I'll go to the non kosher restaurant but I won't eat the meat and I won't eat you know any of the uh shrimps I'll just eat uh pasta and salads and pizza what's wrong with pasta and salad and pizza from the non koser guy why you racist you're racist what's wrong with you guys little do I know that the the actual sauce inside your pizza your non kosher pizza the sauce has meat in it that's that's the dis distinguishing taste between different sauces by the way so the non kosher pizza is not only non kosher because the cheese is not Kosher but because the sauce is not koser and in fact the cheese itself the reason why when you go to the supermarket you see in a regular Supermarket not a Kosher Supermarket regular Supermarket you see there's I don't know three four five six different cheeses that are Kosher and 300 that are not Kosher why well they have like a corner on the market they know how to make cheese better than us as a matter of fact no one makes better cheese than than Jews if you go to Isel you go to the supermarket they have an entire a of cheese there's no better cheese in the world than Jewish cheese but in America and the Western World in general you only have three four five companies that actually reach the market but the go 300 different ways why because they have the ability to use all ingredients that we're not allowed to use and the way they distinguish The Taste in their cheese is by different type of meat different type of meat that they mix with the cheese so when you eat non kosher cheese not only you eating non kosher something Dairy but you're also eating milk and meat at the same time I didn't know this so I picked and choose different laws because I thought that if I go to be a couple times a year for Yip everything is going to be fine every is going to forgive me as long as I give that's the number one mitvah according to the rabbis that would come to my office three or four times a week they would say listen number one thing in this generation is gift I said no problem I'm good at this how much how much oh I need 2500 for my mortgage check how much more I need another 2500 for somebody else's more check and I would give the money why for me it was like paper not because I had a lot because I never had value for it I never cared about it it's not my tun it's not my T some people love money like it's God me I care less about it it I don't know just that's my it's the way hasm created me so when I had a lot of it it was easy for me to give it to people so the guy said I'm going to be aad if I give money I give money t people need money need money anyone need anything they come to my office they get a check usually they start giving me their problems because you have to convince somebody to give you money I just tell them how much does your problem cost whatever your problem is just save me the time I know it's a story it's a half hour it's an hour it's night just how much does it cost why because every hour of mine cost $3,200 every hour I work I make $3,200 just to exist so if you're going to take an hour and your problem is going to cost me only 2,000 I'd rather just give you a 2,000 instead of an hour get the math so that was my mentality you pick and choose what you want somebody tells you is number one that's what you do now Hashem had different plans hashem's plans were quite different one day after made a ton of money in a relatively short period of time in 2006 I decided that you know what I want to have a surgery I want to fix my body a little bit there was something that was annoying me called hemorrhoids which 2third out of all men have or all people have it's not really a real problem just was annoying me twice a year so I said let me have a surgery and a surgery according to the best doctors that I was going to said it's a surgery that's just going to disturb you for maybe 2 3 days you'll be uncomfortable which in our language means you'll be in pain um and uh you'll be back to work on Monday I said no problem I went I had the surgery I woke up out of the surgery different how different I started screaming and yelling and screaming and yelling and asking everybody to kill me because now something happened during a surgery they cut some type of nerve in my body that changed the makeup of my body to the point where everything Hurt Now by everything I don't mean like when you have a headache or when you have a toothache you have a toothache and it seems like your leg hurts too but it really doesn't no that's not what I mean what I mean is like they took a dagger and they started cutting my body up while connecting it to electricity and it didn't stop and that's how much it hurt and this pain continued for 62 days for 62 days the most amount of consective sleep that I was able to get after eating about 30 to 40 pink Killers is 15 minutes now once you stop sleeping for so long you start losing your mind and your body starts failing you start peeing blood you your eyes start bleeding your ears start bleeding a lot of fun things you start seeing life a little different you start valuing money less you start finding out that none of your friends actually exist they're all imaginary friends they all disappear everything changes your perspective on life changes and that was my first big wake up call I had a surgery everything went wrong and now all I wanted to do was I wanted to live with without money it didn't make a difference after those two months I thought that life was going to get back to itself I was still on painkillers I was still in pain but nowhere near the same and I went back to work I went back to making money I went back to my life but I started reflecting a little bit more now at this point I still have no idea that my life is wrong I just think that I have to double check certain things so I buy I get one made in takes about a year big mitvah ton of money I figured this is going to be good didn't really work out so much because nine months later I had a surgery because one day I wake up with a pain in my leg so much that I can't walk I go to the emergency room and they tell me that I have an infection between the muscle of the the rectal area and the leg that's so big that's internal that if I would have waited another hour or two it would have exploded went into my blood system and I would have died on the spot so I was very lucky to show up on time and I said we have to have an emergency surgery and this surgery is much much worse than your first one sir so now instead of being in pain for 62 days and at home instead I'm in the Intensive care unit for almost a month you know next to the people that are dying next to those guys one guy died another guy died everybody's dying I was the guy actually survived pressing the morphine button like like is it's only reflex that's still working so after that fun experience I figured okay strike two now we're going to go back this time we're going to do it 6 months later I'm back at the Intensive Care Unit another surgery another infection in a completely different area not connected to the first okay fine another month in the hospital we recover we leave go back to life right three months later we're back there oh you're they know me by first name by now your room is right over here I'm back in the hospital another surgery I leave a month later I'm back and then it gets to a point where it's every month and then eventually it's every week and that was my life and this continues for seven years for seven years my body continues to fail in every way imaginable to a point where I'm in pain 24 hours a day but now I'm not talking about pain like your head hurts I'm talking about pain where it's uncomfortable to be next to me not uncomfortable to be me me it's it's needless to say it's uncomfortable for you to be next to me because I'm constantly screaming and yelling and ow and oo and after a while it's annoying even though you feel bad for the guy after a while it's annoying to hear somebody screaming all day I know I was next to other Intensive Care Unit guys it was very annoying to hear them scream all day so after a while it's uncomfortable especially with the faces and the blood and it this it's it's a nightmare so this forced me to also become a little bit more secluded I didn't really want see people much my business started going to nothing and incidentally the market crashed the 2008 crashed crashed along the way my net worth crashed my friends crashed my life crashed everything crashed as miraculous as it was to make all the money it was a bigger Miracle losing all of it but then one day I got to a point where I realized that it's really not worth living in pain 24 hours a day for what just to be in pain again tomorrow so I decided you know what maybe maybe it's time for me to leave the world now hasem loves you more than you love yourself and the sages promise US that he's not going to give you a test that you can't handle that's what he said he's not going to give you a test that you can't handle so as soon as I got to the point where I couldn't handle the test anymore that's when Hashem got involved but to a point where it was obvious even to me so one day I decided to call my mom which was the first time I called her in a while and she's crying on the other side of the phone and she's telling me talk to him talk to him and I said to who and why are you crying and why is this guy making you crying if you want me to talk to him he says talk to a fry he said who's a fry who's aim why is he crying why is he making you cry this aim says aim is your cousin he's in Israel he's he knows tah I said okay great so as long as you stop crying tell him to call me I'll talk to anybody it's the worst thing in the world to hear him mom cry so he calls me and I didn't know who Ephraim was when we left Israel he was still a baby was much younger than I am and I said fine you want to call me call me so he called me I've heard from a lot of religious people at least two or three of them would show up to my office every week and every single one of them never ever told me that I have to change never told me I have to keep Shabbat never told me that I have to marry a Jewish woman never told me that it's a real problem that my wife was not Jewish never told me that it's a problem that I just created my own religion all they told me is that I have to give why because we as a people have conditioned our rabbi to not tell us the truth because as soon as they tell us the truth we kick them out as soon as they we tell them the truth ah no no you're making that up that's your own thing that's a you're you're this you start calling them names you start doing all these different types of things so the rabbis are playing scared but uh in the in in the poker world one of the things that makes people good at gambling is when they have no fear and they way capitalize on it is by capitalizing on people that are scared they're scared to lose the money this is what makes rich people really good Gamul it's not because they're smart it's because they're not scared of losing the money it's also what makes the Palestinians very good terrorists they're not scared of dying so even if you shoot them it's good for them they're celebrating even more that's why you can't beat them that way so now when you go to work every day and a follows you every day and every day he's telling you the same thing the one nothing else maybe once in a while do you feel like you're doing fine and then one day this guy from y calls you and he starts telling you you're not doing fine but he doesn't start off right away he starts giving me a few stories we have a very interesting conversation for an hour and 40 minutes I ask him a question he tells me that the same question was asked by some Sage 300 years ago or 500 years ago or a thousand years ago and he tells me the page number and the book name and all these wonderful things and we have this conversation then the next week at the same time on Thursday at 4:00 we have another conversation for three hours and the next Thursday 5 hours and the next Thursday seven hours and every week this continues and my life starts to change and the reason why is because For the first time in my life I started realizing that I'm in debt but it's not to the IRS it's not to the banks it's not to any friends it's not to any family I'm in debt to God he brought me to the world and I've been treating him like as if he owes me something instead of I owe him something and that was the first big wake the second big wakeup call for me when I started realizing that my life is upside down and all God's trying to do is wake me up so I started learning with him and then I started learning on my own and I started realizing that the tor is not just a Harry Potter book it's not just an elective as much as we would all like to treat the Torah as something that's nice I started realizing that Torah is not like that in the book of Jeremiah Hashem tells the prophet to tell is my people have committed two evils they've forsaken me the source of Living Water to dig for themselves sisters broken sisters that cannot hold water this is in the book of Jeremiah chapter 2 verse3 tells the prophet go tell that they are Bim the traitors why not only did they not worship me they didn't do they didn't do they didn't do Mas they didn't keep Shabbat they didn't keep not only didn't keep the mitv it's not only that that's already enough but instead they replaced me with something else they replaced me the source of all water the source of all of all life with what with their with their nothing what's the very few Jews worship idols today so what's what's now in a couple of weeks we're all going to celebrate PES the story of PES begins with the Exodus begins with how hasem put the 10 plagues destroyed the biggest civilization in history took the Egyptians that were much bigger than the Americans the Chinese and the Russians all put together and destroyed them made the slaves the the master and the and the master the servant first and last time in history that such a thing happened and then he took us out of Egypt we split he split the sea for us and we got to mount saai now Mount saai which was the culmination of all of it it was Matan Tora now the Paras that we get the Torah is called what Paras so the question is if the number one event is why isn't called why is it if we got the Tor every other par is named basically after the main event of the Paras every par and so on and so forth who's the main character in The what's the main thing if it's t call it we receive the Tor why is it called because is the one that connects the beginning the middle and the end of this point at the beginning of the sh beginning of the sh I asked you if you were born not Jewish would you convert and most people will answer the honest answer which is no that's the honest answer some say yes because they like to think that they would be so righteous as a gentile as they would want to be a Jew but the reality is no and the reason is is because most of us don't even like being Jewish even though we're already Jewish we look at the Torah as an obligation we look at the Torah as a respons ability we look at T as something that's restricting us like you got us to assure and you want us to listen you can't got us to the Beet and you want us to give you should give us for coming you should give us money for coming you got us to learn and you want us to remember what we learned we look at the Tora is like come on no it's like it's enough already that we're listening you want us to do also is enough but starts with the most important thing in the entire heard what did he hear he heard about the Miracles that happened to is he heard about what happened in MIT he heard of what happened with yamu he heard about what happened with am he heard and that was enough for him it was enough for him he heard what did for is and for him that's it that was enough I'm leaving my Pope job $100,000 a month I'm leaving it I'm going to become a Jew with no money with no family with no nothing I'm going to become a Jew that's it I'm finished he gave up everything that's it that was it at the moment of truth it heard the truth and he said it's time to change I've tried every a there is whether it's the idols or it's the oceans or it's money or it's fame or it's fortune or it's women or it's man whatever he tried everything he heard about the God of Israel he says the god of Israel punishes measure for measure because just like he punished the Egyptians with the ocean I realized that he could punish with anything why if he punished the Egyptians with he just killed them just like some uh some hurricane came and killed all the Egyptians it could be a natural event but the fact that he killed them with the water that shows that he's punishing measure for measure meaning that he's also in control of the water he's also in control of everything else because they killed am with water they threw the babies into the water he's killing them with water they didn't let us go into the mik he made their water into blood they didn't let us take showers he made their all their things smell with the frogs every single thing that every way that he punished them was measur for measure he says if AEM not only knows about all the things that the Egyptians did to the Jews but he's actually punishing them with those same things that means he's in control of everything I've heard enough I've heard he's the god of Israel he's AIT that's said I'm leaving everything so did something most of us are not willing to do it said I'm leaving money I'm leaving power I'm leaving idolatry and I'm going to become a Jew I'm going to become one of the persecuted people now why did get such a merit why did get such a merit to be not only have the to do chv the ramb says at the end of days before mashia comes you have to have to do chv not everybody's do the says when Masia comes not everybody's going to be happy why most people are going to die bottom line why most people are not going to do CH and the r gives a commentary he says why you have to have you have to have Merit to do chuva not just because you're a Jew you're gonna do chuva not just because you came to You're Gonna Do chuva you have to have to actually hear the truth and do it many of us hear the truth for 20 years we still don't want to do it we hear it now heard it one time that was enough why did he have such a merit we read it just a few months ago in puim puim you guys all celebrate puim the Customs those everybody pretends to be something else the Jews pretend to be go the go pretend to be Jews it's all fun now in we have on we read and for the first time in the entire T we have the word Yi the word Jew you're not going to find the word Yi in the entire Five Books of Moses not once is there a word Yi Jew is not once in the Torah but in the T you'll find it still so the asked why was called the first why because M was proud to be a Jew and he went against idolatry he went against a which means that the definition of a Jew is not just someone that says and gives once in a while it's someone that fights against anything that's against hem number one being a if you all remember the mid that we all heard was one of the three Servants of had three servants he had he had and when he asked them inph he asked them what should we do with these with this what should we do with them let's let's fool them into working for us what do we do with them bam said let's kill them let's killed him his punishment was is killed him back y job said no leave them alone you know it's don't do anything he didn't want to say much his punishment was hasem gave him a lot of a lot of pain Book of Job is full of he didn't say much he didn't defend is he says you don't speak when the time to speak I'll punish you on the other hand stood up for the truth even though he didn't really know the god of Israel yet he knew that parau was not God even though par said he was God he knew knew is not God and he told him listen at the very least you should be grateful for this why they're the ones that made you all the money yadik from the previous generation he's the one that put you on the map he built your stock market he built your this commodity Market he built your this he built your this why are you going against them for he went against a for that he got the for that he got the because he was even though we didn't know the entire truth he knew that there's a truth in the world when he heard the truth of when he heard the god of Israel he realized okay that's enough for me so this this is someone that had a lot of Merit to such an extent that his par that's named after him is when we have the Highlight the number one highlight in the entire Torah which is mat T so we should listen to him was so big that even mosenu learned from him after he came to mount saai he told Moshe listen Moshe you're the judge you're the jury you're everything everybody's coming to you and asking you for advice it's not going it's not a good plan you have to build yourself a court system a court system with judges a court system with lawyers a court system with different things okay this is what by the way how our civil court system began even till this day Supreme Court and regular court and so on and so forth so Moshe listened to him he says okay so who's going to run this court he says you're going to have to have special people be the judges of this court what are these people he says they have to be he says these people have to be accomplished people meaning people with a little bit of money so you can't buy them out people that have they're not going to sell out just because uh you know of somebody's money they're afraid of God God's Gonna punish them and meaning that [Music] even even if the Adit is against themselves even if their daughter is the one they have to accuse even if their son is the one that's going to go to jail they're going to stand for it why it's the emit that's the emit emit is one there's one emit there's no two emits there's only one truth there's never two truth there's no your truth and my truth and somewhere in between is the real truth there's one emit if we have two different truth that means one of us is wrong there's no two so he says so they have have to be successful they have to have they have to be they'll stand up for the truth and last but not least they have to hate money what does that have to do with anything if it's people that are successful you could say listen if they're successful no one's going to buy them out and bribe the jury and bribe the judge makes sense if it's same concept if he has you can't you don't even bother bribing him why cuz he's afraid of God more than he's afraid of your checkbook if it's somebody that's a is even if he doesn't have any money he stands up for the truth even when it hurts so you can't bribe him so why does he also have to hate money why does he always also have to hate money now the reality is if you actually go on Fast Forward into this it says heard the voice of his father-in-law V and he did everything he said and Moshe heard everything he said and he found and he got who successful people wait a minute what about the is what about the person that hates money what about the person says there was nobody like that all he had is successful people all he had is people with money no one was is yet no one was a somebody that hat money nobody had yet even though we're Mount still we didn't have yet so now the question is why is it that hating money was the key ingredient to all of it so the that I had some time ago is that if somebody is successful it's it doesn't necessarily mean that they're going to have so that already disqualifies them if somebody's it doesn't mean they're successful there's plenty of people that have at least we hope so but they don't have any money if somebody's a is again same thing they probably may not have any money they may have or they may be their own but their is wrong their is wrong me is really false but if somebody if somebody hates money he must be all of them he must be all of them why because you don't get to a level of hating materialism without being successful at least once in your life and it doesn't necessarily mean materially Successful it also means spiritually successful you've learned Torah you don't get to hate materialism unless you have because once you have you realize that AEM is everything if he's everything everything else means nothing as soon as you give power to anything in the world whether it's money that you have or money that you don't have the girl that you have or the girl that you want the husband that you have or the husband that you wished for the job that you want or the job that you wished for all of these different things that we all stress over over day and night the sages explain to us as soon as you stress about anything you immediately make that thing your why because you have now given power to something different than God as soon as you're worried about money you're thinking money is more powerful than God money is separate from God God built the world he spent all of his money now he's broke you have to work on your own you're on your own buddy he spent all of his money on because everybody ruined the world you had to build it all over again it was an unnecessary expense but what are you going to do now you're stuck working he spent all the money now you have to work overtime 8 billion people in the world 20 million of them approximately are Jews but you can't find a z why I don't know hasem hem hasem made a mistake somewhere so I have to go find her in clubs I have to go find her in you know in in prostitution houses over there that's why I have to find a girl you want to find nice Jewish girl in a club har and the 87 boyfriend she had in her life she wants to find a guy I want to find a guy okay what kind of car does he have want you date the car instead of the guy take the car for a ride see if you like the car marry the guy this is our mistake why we gave something else power we gave money power we gave the girl power we gave the guy power we gave something outside of God power the reason why is because we weren't un we didn't stand up for the truth when we saw it and the reason why we didn't stand up for the truth is either because we didn't know it because no one told us or simply because we didn't care enough but either way that the outcome is you cannot be a son a person that hates materialism without these three different ingredients now what is this have to do with us other than everything is that at the end of the Paras after we got the Ten Commandments the same par we got to we got the Ten Commandments now after we got the Ten Commandments Ten Commandments says I'm the god of that took you out of Egypt don't have any other God don't use my name in vain all these wonderful things observe Shabbat honor your parents don't steal don't murder and so on and so forth 10 wonderful Commandments and Hashem repeats these Commandments to us and after he finishes telling us all the Commandments we have this whole par starts converts he tells mosenu build a bed with different judges that have these character traits they're because they have Moshe says I don't have anybody that has all these qualities I only have successful people okay let's just put them there we get the Ten Commandments we get the Tora the oral T the written T all of this is repeated and the world seems like it's complete no hem gives us a gives us a prophecy of today the day of mssiah the end of days and after all of this Torah that we got it says hasem says to Moses go say to the children of Israel you have seen that I have spoken to you from Heaven meaning there's nobody here that says oh no no I didn't hear anything there's millions of people at Mount sa no one is saying by the way this book says that God spoke to us I didn't hear anything meaning this is a testimony that everyone is there heard the the voice of God saw the voice of God because it says means you saw my voice meaning that every time God spoke words of his words were actually imprinted in the sky so everybody agrees you heard okay great and then he reminds them of one of The Commandments What what is it now you've just told us all Ten Commandments but then hasem says you just remind you I just gave you the Ten Commandments none of you are disagreeing right just make sure don't make yourself a god of money or a god of gold don't make for yourself why didn't he pick any of the other Ten Commandments why didn't he pick any of the other 613 that we have the entire why didn't he say by the way you heard all everything I said good just don't forget don't stop keep Shabbat by the way marry Jewish by the way keep kosher by the way be modest by the way any number of mitv that we have why did he remind us of one mitvah in the entire tah you gave us the Ten Commandments but now you're telling us hey by the way don't make yourself a god of money and a god of gold because this verse is not just for this people this verse is for us this verse is telling us before the mashia comes you want to do cha it has to start with money it has to start with materialism why because that's the idolatry of all generations the god of money and the god of gold is the is the aod we've had for the last 3,000 years it's an aod it's an idol worship that hasn't left us it's an that hasn't left us so the question is the second question that we have to ask ourselves is how much are you willing to sell God out for how much is your god worth every single person has to ask thems this question seriously now you have two two people are learning to come come come it's fine they'll put you in the camera too it's fine the question you have to ask yourself is how much is God worth to you how much is he worth to you what would you sell them for now of course you're all going to say no Shalom and all right great how much you going to sell him forit how much you going to sell him for everybody keep Shabbat I'm assuming or at least most of us keep Shabbat hopefully said somebody you keep Shabbat right keep Shabbat okay nobody answers on so I'm going to go on the one that I know for sure okay so if I gave you $1,000 $1,000 cash $20 bills $100 bills whatever you want would you drive on Shabbat no right okay so at the very least you know God's worth a thousand bucks there now if I ask the question I'm not going to ask I'm not going to ask but if I ask the question if I give you a million dollars I don't have but if I had and I put it with me in my bag over there that has everything except the camera if I give you a million dollars cash I put on a table instead ofes I put a million dollar cash would you drive in Shabbat now you have to start thinking about it huh oh I give 10% my yeah I give 10% my you're making MIT out of this million dollars now we have an answer for our question now we have an answer to our question and the reality is it's sad the reality it's sad because when God gives you every single penny you have in your pocket and in the bank account that you know of and the one that you're hiding from the IRS when the God's giving you the Bitcoins that you want and the ones that you already have when the God has giving you the car the house the wife the kids that the vision the molecules the stakes the synagogues the community and the freedom you have to be a Jew for the first time in history you're allowed to be a Jew without people killing you for the first time in history the Christians are pretending to be Jews they called Messianic Judaism or Jews for Jesus for the first time in history if you want to learn a book any book sees all you got to do is press a button and it arrives on your phone or it arrives at your house whichever one you want if you just rewind a 100 years we're not even talking about a thousand years ago mosenu and his brother no no we're talking about hundred years ago if you wanted to learn a sees you had to leave the city to go to some rich guy's house that has the book book and stay in his house like as a guest for a month two months three months however long it took you to finish the book that's how you learn t for 3,300 years that's how we learned tah we went to different towns we left the family we left the kids we left the work we left everything why there's a book this guy has three weeks away there's a book this guy has six months away I have to walk six months go learn the book for two months and come back six months how we're going to eat that's your problem I have to go learn toah I left you a cow milk it I left you a cow and two kids use the kids to Milk The Cow finished that's how we learned Tora and the wife was 100% on board she says you're right I have two kids they're going to Milk The Cow we have the cow you see some of the letters that the sent to their wives to their wives they'd ask them how are you how are the kids how's the cow the they ask them how's the cow doing it's like asking how's the business how's the cow doing well if I have the cow if the cow's doing good I know you're still eating if the cow's not doing good I got to come back home how's the cow doing meaning he went somewhere for six months to go learn a book and it was no problem why he was chasing the emit he was chasing the truth even if the truth cost him six months of his life or a year of his life or seven years of his life it didn't make a difference why he heard the truth like I'm going to chase the truth we have t in our pockets and still you have to beg people to come still you have to beg people to keep Shabbat still you have to ask the question twice how much does God actually worth in your in your in your mind why because we don't know we don't know the truth yet once you start learning the truth you realize that the truth is very very very different than what we've learned our entire life first and foremost when I started learning T I realized that the Torah is not optional it's not optional whether you're a Jew or you're not a Jew it's not optional the rambam says in that a non-jew that keeps the laws of Noah the seven laws of Noah plus all of the ethical laws of the Torah like honoring your parents and so on which is somewhere around 50 different mitv if he if he does he fulfills those mitv because God said so then he's considered one of the wise people among the Nations and he Hasa but if the same guy the same non-jew keeps the same laws he doesn't murder he doesn't steal he doesn't eat an animal while it's still alive he has a court system and all the things all of the MIT he keeps them but not because God said so simply because it makes sense makes sense not to murder it makes sense not to steal it makes sense not to uh be a homosexual if you're normal it makes sense to do all these things makes sense no makes sense so he keeps it because it makes sense the rambam says not only does he not have but he's actually considered one of the stupidest people in the world why you did all the work and you're not going to get paid for it you kept all the mitv but for the wrong reason you kept them because you like it you kept it because it makes sense to you for that there's no reward which means means that the Torah is not optional for the go they have to follow it and whoever doesn't will be punished needless to needless to say is the ra says inat 900 years ago Chapter 30 last Al a Jude that violat Shabbat a Jude that drives on Shabbat smokes a cigarette on Shabbat watches television Shabbat plays with their phone on Shabbat works on Shabbat plays with money on Shabbat talks about money on Shabbat unless it has to do with a mitvah he's not allowed meaning if he's talking about some real estate deal that he's going to invest in or invested in or stock market or Bitcoin or schmitcoin or this coin or that coin or everything's going to go to zero anyway if he talks about any of that stuff he's a Shabbat according to the r he's considered 100% an idol worshipper meaning if he comes to your house for K and you have a you have uncooked wine one of the expensive wines usually they're more than $20 and you open the wine for K and he wants to see what kind of wine you get so he takes the wine he picks it up you know just people pick up the wine they want to see what's behind it what kind of wine how much alcohol is it good is it bad and so on they're like everybody became a wine connoisseur these days they drank three cups of wine at the club they think they're wine connoisseurs but anyway he looks at the wine the wine if the wine is open the wine at that point is no longer allowed for you to drink why an idol worshipper touched that wine but he's a Jew he's my brother he's my cousin he's my sister he's whatever he is doesn't make a difference if he's aat according to hem not to me according to hem he's considered 100% an idol worshipper what else does it mean one of the worst things that you can possibly do in Judaism to such an extent that the gar says if you do this not only do you not havea but you have eternal suffering to go along with it too what is it something simple charging another Jew interest on loans one of your friends came to you says listen I have a business I have a this I have a that whatever they have I need a loan how much I need $10,000 you happen to have the money he's like oh no problem $110,000 only 36% interest only only 36% interest monthly only good deal the guy's desperate me scan you charge him interest what is he gonna do he's say no you're the only guy that's want to lend him any money even if you charge him 1% interest it's the same thing I'm just exaggerating a little bit to give you guys a little bit of pleasure from the joke the point is is that you charge him interest thear says that person that charges interest officially lost their they have to return the interest in order to do Chua why they charge another interest now what if that Jew is aat what if that Jew viate shabbat shalom gives the of a lifetime it's not really though why the ra also said it what did he say theab is also an idol worshipper which means Idol worshiper you could charge of Interest as much as you want meaning if the Jew is a charge him interest as much as you want he's not considered Jewish but we still don't recommend it why don't we recommend it because what if he does Chua if he does cha it's meaning it's a possibility you may have to give him back the interest because he did CH now point being it's a serious problem in hashem's eyes to be an idol worshipper which is in his eyes equivalent to so we all understand that left idolatry but we on the other hand are not willing to leave it and the reason why is because the examples that we have today sometimes are very confusing I remember one of the things that always bothered me when I would look at religious people is that I could never tell who's married and who's not married on women because I always heard at least when I grew up in Israel who was Safari so I remember seeing my aunt which was you know a few a few cousins and aunts that I have that were religious and you would know that they're religious because they cover their hair covered their hair with a or something like or hat now for the first time in my life I me I'm sure it happened in Israel when I was a kid I just never noticed it but for the first time I started noticing It in America is that the religious people for the most part don't wear so you can never tell who's married and who's not why because either they don't cover anything at all or they cover it with a wig which in my eyes was a joke as a secular person forget religious as a secular person go what do you mean so you cover hair with your hair that's better than your original hair and that makes you religious and this would be one of the excuses I would use not to be religious I'm like they're idiots there something there's something wrong with them you're covering hair with hair and that's what makes you religious like you look like the girl I just saw in the magazine and that's what make you you're holy because of this this doesn't make any sense your religion doesn't make any sense I'm staying secular cuz at least I'm used my logic in my eyes I'm like this doesn't make any sense at least I'm not lying to myself but again I didn't know the whole intricate parts of it and so on but it still never made sense to me so once I became religious I actually started looking into this because I started noticing a lot more people I moved to a Jewish community and I started seeing this is not one or two or three women this is pretty much the majority of American Judaism it's a majority of Judaism in general today religious Jews so I started looking into it and I saw that this been this has been a for over 400 years it's been a debate between the for 400 years of whether you are allowed to wear a wig or you're not allowed to wig because according to the vast majority of the sages throughout history for the last 2,000 years you're not allowed to wear a wig because it's not modest even though the wigs they were talking about look like uh your uh your broom you were able to tell that it was not real hair nonetheless Still They said that showing hair for woman is not allowed it's not a modest thing the whole point is to cover your hair and not hair with hair and that was the debate that already started 2,000 years ago and several other places now about 400 years ago one p came out and said listen I actually think that uh this is not what the means and you can wear wigs and some people followed him but it became one community and another community and another community and everyone started taking what he said and exaggerated a little bit more and exaggerate a little bit more and exaggerate a little bit more fast forward 400 years today women wear the same wigs that the movie stars wear and you can't tell who's married you can't tell who's singing Le you can't tell if it's her real hair you can't tell if it's not her real hair you actually ask the women that are getting wigs what's the point of the wig like what's the ideal wig what's the best wig says the one that looks the most real like isn't that defeat the purpose but this has been a debate for 400 years who am I to get in the way of this debate bigger than I could ever be have debated it and so on and so forth so little old me I said listen there's something wrong with this picture because I heard when I was in the business world I did research in a lot of different businesses that's what I did I was an expert in research I would find Industries companies that's what I did for almost 20 years that's how I made all the money it wasn't because I uh you know I got lucky on something it was I did research on certain things got in before other people realized it was good and that's how we made money so that was my expertise at some point in my life I did research on different Industries and I came across the hair industry and I found out that most wigs come from India and somehow this Rangel obvious all comes from Hashem like wait a minute I remember from the business world that wigs come from India and India they don't do it like a business it's it's a way of idol worship sh meaning that the Hindus they have different Idols they have over 880,000 religions there a cow a rat tree a motorcycle I'm serious they worship a motorcycle it's a Harley-Davidson it's tied to a tree there's a rats or a few rats there's a few cows a cow cross the street everybody starts bowing that serious it's just a joke is it's it's really serious they worship these things I actually have pictures of this I didn't believe it the first time either but they worship everything that moves everything that doesn't move so now I started seeing wait a minute this whole wig thing all of the hair is coming from there now according to you're not allowed to benefit from idol worship in any way shape or form the only Mitzvah that you can do with idol worship is burn it destroy it it's the only thing you could you're allowed to do with it you're not allowed to sell it you're not allowed to eat it you're not allowed to wear it not do anything with it other to destroy it that's it that's the only Mitzvah you have the first thing that yeshu afteru was commanded to do after they got to told them go burn all of the AER trees what the trees do Mis what they uh call you a name what they do Hashem says oh people worship them yeah they worship them that's not their fault the idiots worship the tree it doesn't make a difference their fault not their fault it makes no difference one something was used for idolatry it's always idolatry there's never undoing it once it's used for idolatry the only mitvah is to destroy it destroy all of these fruit trees all of these non-fruit trees all of these trees anything that was worshiped destroy it why because idolatry is considered to in English disgusting to hasem why because you have replaced the source of all water with broken systemns you see you changed exchanged everything with nothing so now rabai I came out and I started doing research and I realized that it's not just a small Market it's a multi-billion dollar market the fashion industry in general is $520 billion a year wigs are somewhere between 10 to 25 billion no one really knows either way it's a really big Market now if you buy a wig According to some serious research that we did which again like I told you was almost 20 years of my expertise so I wasn't like a new guy at this this is what I did if I know something it's that it's not Torah Tor I'm trying to know this I definitely know if you buy a wig it's not 99% it's 100% 100% coming from aod 100% unless you bought it directly from three people's heads you took cuz every wig is three women every every wig is three different heads it's not one head replaces one head every wig is three heads so unless you saw three women shaved you shaved their head yourself oh thank you very much Samantha thank you very much Wilma thank you very much whoever you are fine thank you think the wig you put it back in your head unless you did that which is unrealistic the wig that you're buying from any store I could say kosher non kosher not it's why because no other Market in the world can supply the wigs for the market what synthe wig unfortunately with synthetic wigs is that research found out that an average of 3 to 10% of the synthetic wigs are actually real air meaning that even the synthetic wig is not really synthetic and the reason why is because there's so many men that worship in India that over 20 million of them donate their hair a year 20 million of them donate their hair a year now wigs for the most part are long that's the women so what are you going to do with all these men that are donating their hair if do something with them no one's going to buy a wig with short hair really most of the time you're not going to buy a wig with a crew cut so what you what are you going to do with this hair so they put it in synthetic wigs they put it in food it's called line it's in your bread sometimes they put it in medicine all of the short hair is put in different places now it's to such an extent there's such a surplus there's so much actual real hair from India that they it's actually cheaper than synthetic wigs to the manufacturer and therefore they fill in the synthetic wig with some real hair so now the problem of having over 127 pusim throughout all of generations saying that it's not owed to wear a wig regardless of whether it's or not is already a problem of its own but now because of modesty it's not modest to wear a wig but now you have a serious problem now you have a fact that if you're wearing a wig it's statistically impossible for it to be a kosher wig now what about all these kosher wigs now you go to most religious neighborhoods they have uh a kosher stamp kosher stamp on the wig this is the joke of a lifetime this is the biggest lie in Jewish history and the reason why is because it's impossible to kosher a wig not just practically it's literally impossible and the reason why is because when you buy Kosher meat that means that someone that's a Jew that's a sh Shabbat Jew has watched the meat from beginning to end from the time he was a cow and he was slaughtered no bones were broken there was no it wasn't diseased or something like that it was slaughtered then somebody else or maybe the same person cut the pieces salted the meat uh make sure all the blood came out all the way till it got to your Butcher and uh it looks like it's blood but it's really not blood it's just the the coloring and so on and so forth until it got to your table someone watched it someone watched that it stayed kosher along the way at least that's the way kosher me is same thing with the seph T somebody writes a seph t when they bring it to the United States they send it with a few letters missing because a seph t if it falls everybody has to fast so when they send in an airplane it's an incomplete SE because when it's incomplete it's not considered a SE so they could travel with it the point being is somebody has to be with the SE somebody has to watch it along the way from the day they put the first letter to the day that you read it over here for CH someone has to watch it with kosher wigs it's impossible and the reason why is because the people that are donating their hair at the temple and the people that are selling the wigs are two completely different worlds they're being donated in India for free because that's their mitvah for their now the people that are donating it they don't know it's being sold and they don't care it's being sold to them it's like they're worshiping an idol to them it's that's what they do that's their Mitzvah that's their whole life they've been waiting 10 years for this it's like somebody like somebody finishing the sh after seven years for them as they grew their hair for seven years now they're donating it so now they donated it that Temple accumulates the hair every single day 800 900 a th000 kilos every single day he sends it to some to a different Factory to clean the hair we watch through this whole process clean the hair it's a different place with low with low labor costs they clean the hair from the lice and diseases and so on and so forth then they send it either to China or to Brazil or some other country in Europe either Italy or so on to reprocess it and every time it changes country it changes stamp so it doesn't say Made in India it says made in China made in Italy made in Brazil made in jenam made in all these different places made in all these different places it never says Made in India now if you I actually during the research I asked a few people from Brazil because most of the wigs today they say they're Brazilian so I asked them I mean do so many people donate hair in Brazil the guy started laughing at me I said why are you laughing it's not funny it's a real serious question he goes the Brazilian people would rather die from starvation than sell their hair it's just their nature they like their beauty they're not going to sell their hair so then I this made me question things even more so where's the hair coming from the hair is coming from that originally the uh when the um when the Indians realized that their business could become as big as it is they started making big deals and they happened to make big deals with three major businessmen in Brazil and that's why most of the wigs come from Brazil but either way it's not Brazilian wigs it's not Italian wigs there's no Italians walking around with a bald head there's no Italian women walking around with a bald head there's no English women walking with a bald head there's no French women walking around with a bald head unless they have cancer other than that they're not walking around with a bald head it's all coming from India because even if somebody wanted to donate their hair like say in Cambodia or in China or any of these other places it's still not enough to supply the market CU anyone else in any other country would sell the hair that would already mark up the price of the hair that would already make it from free to whatever it costs meaning the price of an average wig would go from $1,000 to $10,000 because everybody has to make money along the way so the reason why wigs are still a you're able to afford them or people are able to afford them is because the original cost is free and there's a lot of it there's a lot of it so now when I started realizing this I realized that there's no such thing as from from birth anymore there's no such thing as religious from birth anymore the reality is that what what is telling us here is that is existent everywhere in the secular world most of us have a justification to be secular what is it money we're chasing money once I have money then I'll do chuva once I have a big house then I'll stop working on Shabbat once I do this then this one we have conditions for hem once you give me money then I'll do whatever you want AEM we give hhm a business proposition you excuse me you give me money I'll do what you want in the secular world that's how we justify it that's our in a religious world it's the opposite in a religious world it's not just KF in a religious world we justify it with competing with KF competing with the Joneses competing with the people that have KF comp competing with Hollywood competing with everyone else but even after you tell them listen it's a what you have on your head all of the all the all of the that you're doing it's not counting why because you have on your head you have on your head you can't go pray to God while you brought a competition too you can't pray to God when you brought it competition also you can't read help me hem help me hem help me he like you know what maybe I'll help your on your head I'll help first I'll find in a new home and this is why I always say there's no such thing as from from birth anymore so when someone asks ask you what's the price that you're willing to pay for AEM really the answer should be Priceless the answer should be Priceless it should be anything should be literally anything anything and everything now to get to that point there's only one way actually there's two ways one way is you learn a lot of T and you start understanding what the significance is of being a Jew at the very least be as proud of a Jew as the Muslim is to be a Muslim just like he's want to pray in the middle of the street so should you don't be don't be so shy when you're at the airport next time and pray all the way in the corner pray at your seat right next to everybody anyone ask you any questions just say this is what the mashia is going to look like don't worry he's not going to be a Muslim and he's not going to be a Christian this is what he's going to look with theine and everything get used to it be proud you have the truth not them don't pray in the corner pray your seat just like the Muslim praise in the middle of of Broadway next time somebody asks you what do you want to eat just say kosher why because that's what God said next time somebody ask you when you go on a vacation say on Shabbat God gave me a vacation every week next time somebody ask you what do you want to do say I want to learn why because that's the point of you being here in the world the says if you did not find a the reason to sanctify hashem's name every day there was no point for you to exist if you didn't look for a reason to do a Kem look for it didn't necessarily succeed every day but at least try to sanctify aem's name every day there was no point for you to come to the world the easiest way to sanctify his name is by simply saying it say before you start every sentence say before you finish anything learn what Hashem really is every single day with your ra with your K with your friends instead of watching baseball and football andb and all the that people waste their life on at least find out what Tor really means what's the point of being a Jew either be a Jew or go be a but at least pick a side don't call yourself a Jew if you don't want to be a Jew and that's exactly what Hashem says to the prophet you want to do chuva do Chu if you don't go worship the idols he actually says this in the Torah go worship the idols then stop being a 50% Jew I'm Israeli and I'm religious in my heart I'm religious in my heart I'm like religious like twice a year whenever my friends tell me to come I'm religious you know this mitvah mitvah I do those know I go to all the parties stop being a 50% Jew there's basic level mitv we're not talking about we're not talking about you have to start becoming a rabbi you have to start speaking publicly you have to start learning toam day and night leave your job leave everything and go to the desert be like the Raa I'm not telling you that there's basic level mitv we're all obligated to do it all starts with attaining these basic level principles that he told us to get first one be is is doesn't mean go be successful no one cares about your money especially God why he says to the prophet hem says mine is the money mine is the gold says hem God of Legions he says everything is mine you think it's your bank account it's my bank account look at your own I gave him 20 million then I took it back what makes you think I'm not going to take yours a guy by the name of AI Batista was the seventh richest man in the world just a few years ago $ 37 billion today he has a negative net worth He has zero nothing he can't pay the rent they took away his car 37 billion just a few years ago you're working for a lot of money maybe hasm doesn't want you to have it what does he want you to have he wants you to be what's know some know some basic purpose of why you're in this world second thing isain be afraid of hem the smartest man of all all time says praiseworthy is the man that's always scared what is he scared of this guy what is he scared of he's scared of being punished he's scared of G he's scared of hem not liking him he's scared of hasem calling him an enemy who's an enemy according to the very same par same one we still haven't gone to the rest of the tah just as par he tells us exactly who are these enemies he says those lovers of mine they keep my who's the haters those is haters who are they the ones that don't keep same already tells us everything he already tells us everything so already over here we already know where we're at whether you're in hot water or not only you know I don't know if you keep you don't keep that's your problem the reality is is that you could attain this very easily this is very easy to get it's called learn mus learn mus m is character development now you can learn like the laws and so on from here till next year it's not going to help you with it's not going to help you to fear hem why all you're going to learn to do is how to do stuff but it's still not going to give you a reason to do it it's still not going to give you a reason to change your character it's still not going to give you a reason to be generous to be less angry to be a better person to be a decent human being there are people that know a lot of they know a lot of laws but they're still still despicable people the ramban calls them despicable with the permission from the Tor they learn a lot of but they don't have any they start making their own rules we don't want people to make their own rules we have rules from hasem that's all we need so is learning M on a daily basis if you want to learn it from books send me a text I can recommend a handful of books each one of them can change your life every page can change your life if you're not ready for books watch my M series same price as this lecture free we made it easy for you all you got to do is press a button press a button and just watch that's it press a button and the book will arrive press a button and the lecture will arrive to learn T you don't have to travel six months like the guys from 100 years ago that's the that's the case against us it's easier than ever to be a Jew no one's killing you because of it no one's persecuting you because of it no one's even making fun of you because of it and the reality is if they do you can sue them it's easier than ever to be a Jew but that's why the punishment is endless if we're not that's why the punishment is so bad is so bad because hem says I made it so easy for you to be a Jew before the mhia comes and you still chose not to do it what do you want me to save you anyway you you taking it for a joke what you think he a frier what do you think hasm is one of your boys from the bar you can treat him when you want to come when you want to invite him you invite him you don't want to invite him you don't invite him and that allows us to get to the next point which is is is doesn't only mean stand up for the truth is also me means admit the truth you heard it you saw it the end stop with the arguments the debates for no reason oh but what if this but what if that enough there more than enough proofs to know God exists all you got to do is look in the mirror all you got to do is look at every single person in here you're all miracles not just the fact that you're a human being and that the technology that's in your eye is more advanced than all of the cameras that ever existed in the entire world not just that not just the fact that your brain of the smartest guy and the stupidest guy makes no difference the brain of the foolish guy fo stupidest guy on Earth has more wiring than all of the telecom companies in the entire planet that ever existed one brain not only is that a miracle it's actually a miracle that you're a Jew that's the biggest miracle and the reason why is because there are 8 billion people people in the world 8 billion people in the world out of the 8 billion there's somewhere around 20 million that are Jews now the secret is there really isn't 8 billion people in the world it's something like 7.96 billion or 7.92 billion meaning that they're rounding off 40 to 80 million to make it a round number of 8 billion which means that the Jews are rounding error and not even but yet every single day you hear about a Jew in the news every single day you hear about a Jew story every single day one of us is somewhere and everyone knows in reality you should never hear about a Jew at all there's so few of us in comparison to the eight billion in the world of non-jews you should never hear about a Jew at all the fact that you're a Jew is a miracle of itself the fact that there's only 2 million to 3 million out of the 20 million that actually keep Shabbat is a bigger Miracle meaning that you if you keep Shabbat or you're going to start keeping Shabbat this Shabbat you become a statistical anomaly meaning something impossible the 20 million is already impossible the actual two or three million that keep Shabbat is even more impossible and for those two or three million that keep Shabbat that's what hasm keeps the world for the 8 billion exists for the three billion that's the reality that's the reality that's what he gave mat for when you hear that truth when you hear that Amant and it doesn't shake you you should double check if you're Jewish should ask your mom am I really Jewish or you adopt me from the neighbors if it doesn't shake you there's something wrong there's something wrong if something does if it doesn't move you at least to at least not necessarily do complete but at least do something I at least got to double check I got to follow up I have more questions something if you came and left the same way nothing changed there's something wrong now if you do all of these things you could arrive to be someone that's but is not necessarily only someone that hates money is someone that hates the existence of this world and the reason why is because he's doing everything possible to prepare fora because that world is eternal this one's temporary 20 years 50 years 7 years what whatever it is however long we're going to be here it's temporary everyone knows it's no big secret has nothing to do with religion everyone dies at some point my cousin died two years ago or a year and a half ago he was 23 years old his father has $100 million $100 million how much is the $100 million worth right now with his youngest son dead absolutely zero why he has no life anymore why cuz his son died he was on a scooter on a second day of he thought that this is what you're supposed to do on be on a scooter did he think he was going to die that day at 23 no he didn't think he was going to die he thought like everybody else I'm going to live to a million or at least 120 at least 120 but maybe longer because they're going to make more medicine and people going to live forever he didn't think he was going to die none of us think we're going to die that's why Warren Buffett and Kirk aoran and all these billionaires still go to work even though they're 90 years old they're all convinced they're going to live forever the reality is you're not we don't know how much time we have and that's why the r says in there's only one way to do there's only one way to get people to do chuv and this is actually an this is not some opinion this is not some oh maybe yes maybe no it says the following in chapter 10 5 it says therefore when one teaches children women and most common people one should teach them to to serve out of fear of God in order to receive a reward and the next Al says it's well known and clear that to love hem is not possible within a man's heart until he becomes obsessed with it at all times and none of of this is possible without fear first so some of the things that I said may be funny some of the things that I said may be entertaining some of the things I said may be scary this is the way you do Chua all the people that came to my office for 15 years 15 years they came to my office not one single person helped me do chuba now their math is the same as many other rabbis it's your problem to do chva I'll just help them do and hopefully they'll do chva on their own hopefully they'll do it on his own hopefully he'll do it on his own I'm not going to tell him what to do I'm not going to tell him what to do maybe he's not going to listen but the reality is I know a little bit of math and I know that everything has a 50/50 chance in most cases 50/50 chance meaning if if they would have told me the truth there's at least a 50% chance that I would have listened and a 50% chance that would have thrown them out 50/50 but they decide to make the choice for me they decide that I'm not going to listen so better off not telling me because if they tell me maybe they're going to lose money they decided to take away Mya now let's just look at their math they assume that eventually I'm going to do chva on my own or something or this or that so how is this supposed to work let's say If instead of coming to my office three times a week they only came once they only came once a week instead of 15 years it's only once it's only 10 years so you do the math once a week 52 weeks times 10 years is 520 times that means you had 520 times 520 opportunities to tell me one Mitzvah that I'm supposed to do keep Shabbat one mitvah marry a Jew one mitvah keep kosher one Mitzvah learn tvah anything they never did and that choice almost took away my I don't want to repeat that mistake so that's why I'm telling you what I'm telling you and that's why some of my sh are similar to this some of them are much scarier some of them are much nicer either way it's all over the place but it's all full of verses it's all full of sources it's very little of my own opinion even my own opinion has some t in it and the reason why is because I don't know what you know and I don't know what you don't know what I do know for sure is everybody has to do Chua religious not religious everyone has something to do everyone has something to do some people it's with wigs some people it's with money some people it's with character traits some people it's with Shabbat different people different thing but the reality is everyone has a lot of work to do and the one last thing I'm going to tell you is is that the same ramb that told us all of these that told us all of these major things he also said that everything that you're going to read about in P about all the makot all of the terrible things that Hashem did to the Egyptians it's going to happen again before mhia comes the same thing is going to happen again only this time it's going to be magnified so just like there was three days of darkness when AEM killed the Egyptians and many Jews unfortunately at the end of times before the Messiah comes it's going to be 15 days of darkness and the reason why is because he has to kill a lot more people if we do Chua we have nothing to worry about if we don't do Chua we have everything to worry about any questions a woman that has cancer the question was a woman that has cancer what should they wear or either a either a scarf or a hat a woman is supposed to cover a head with a hat or a scarf not hair with hair um because like I said there's two reasons number one she's not allowed to cover because not modest to show hair even if it's not really a hair and number two because of the that we mentioned next question on the women's section I think somebody had a question she had you had okay how do you get Russian wigs how do you Russian wigs the Russian wigs that the main source of Russian wigs is they get it from the jails the women jails no the women jails in Russia there's a there's a uh custom in Russia to go to the women jails beat them up senseless and then shave their head and then sell the wigs that's what they do in Russia this was also part of our research now the problem with the Russian wigs is because number one it's unethical it's unethical to to do such a thing to to take something against somebody's will it's considered giz it's considered stealing but even more so the Russian wigs are not really the market 99.999% of all the hair in the market today is not coming from Russia even if it's blonde even if it's blue even if it's green even if it's anything and the reason why is because in all of these places whether it's Cambodia Brazil Russia everywhere else someone is selling the hair someone is selling the hair and it's relatively small number so let's say for example even if you go to all the Russian jails you shave everybody's head okay so let's say you shaved heads I don't know 100,000 women you have now destroyed the market for the next 10 years why it takes time for the hair to grow so now you've taken all of the hair you could possibly take from Russia for the next 10 years but that only supplied those 100,000 people people only 30,000 wigs at best 30,000 wigs is one small little market it's one small little neighborhood so meaning that even if all the Russian wigs were great and kosher and was allowed to beat people up and take their hair and everything else it still wouldn't be enough to supply the market because the market is a 20 billion Market there are Jews and non-jews buying these wigs and the reality is is that you can't verify where the hair has come from and according to business research that Bloomberg did and many other research agencies did according to as well as us is that the only place in the world that can supply the wigs is India because over there 20 to 30 million people a year donate their hair no other Market comes close no place else can make a market even Cambodia a lot of people sell their hair in Cambodia for cheap but that's I don't know maybe 3,000 people a year 10,000 people it's small Mark small numbers no one in the world not Russia not Cambodia not anywhere else can provide such numbers in magnitude like a uh like uh India so the reason why the wig say made in uh different countries is because people know that if it says at this point it used to be different at this point India has a bad name India is a bad name it's it's in essence you say India it's like uh it's like in the old days if it was good quality it was Sony if it was bad quality was Sony guts it's not really Sony it's like Acer or something but it's like uh you know deed Sony in reality it's a wig if you say India it already drops the price by 70% so what do they say no it's not India it's uh somewhere else it's Brazil it's somewhere in Europe it's somewhere else and how do they do it legally every single time in manufacturing every time a a wig goes to a different place a different Market a different manufacturer and they add one small little thing it's officially becomes made there even though originally the source is India doesn't make a difference that's with anything that's just it's with anything so the only time you see made in Made in India made in China made in anything is when it literally came from there that's where it was sold from but most of these wigs are not sold from India the original byproduct is there but the resellers are in Italy or in uh France in Germany and different other places like that in America and so on so it's it's the biggest lie in history and unfortunately religious people are behind it that's the saddest part the saddest part of the kosher wig industry is that it's impossible to kosher them for two reasons number one because like I said you have to follow the wig from step one from the minute it was shaved or it's called tonser until it actually becomes a wig now it's impossible to follow it because they mix up all the hair in huge giant jugs all the hair it's not like one hair is done okay finished another one one hair is done or finished another one one hair is done no there's certain parts where they dye all of them or they clean all of them and they put all the hair together and then they separate them by length so the hair of Samantha and Wilma and Stacy and Dynasty and this tea and that everybody else is mixed together so no nobody else is the same no one knows where the hair came from no one knows if this one is an idol worship and this one is a tadik no one knows anything and then it's all mixed together as far as length and now so that's the first problem the second problem is is is that the there's only one place there's only one institution in in the entire world that kosher wigs it's run by a person named Rabbi gross now unfortunately is either he's a liar or he's being lied to I'm not really sure quite which one it is either way there's a lot of lies and the reason why is because he himself when he was asked 14 years ago do you believe that wigs out of India that come from AAR need to be koshered he says no why says Ah just not necessary yeah but it's according to all the P because yeah it's not necessary I don't believe in that meaning that he decided that to make his own law and he doesn't believe that you need to koser wigs the problem is if it was just his opinion great the problem is he's the one that's koshering it so the same guy that doesn't believe in Kosher meat is your M the same guy that's uh you know that believes that everyone should get divorced is the one that's doing your the prosecutor's attorney is your is is your best friend and you're the defendant doesn't make any sense he's on the other team how are you being the kosher guy that's so that's the other reason that the whole thing the whole the this the the semantics behind everything behind it doesn't make make any sense and that's why it's purely business that I know a little bit about what people are willing to do for money they're willing to kill they're willing to cheat they want to lie they want to sell their mother their father and their neighbor even if he didn't want to go for sale if a woman wants to come but she's not up to up to saying it's better for not to wear wig than so there's two there's there's there's uh there's three different options one is you cover it with a scarf with a scarf there's a website uh called Rapunzel w a p u l.com it's a woman that uh found very nice creative ways pretty ways to cover your hair with a scarf and you don't necessarily need to look like you're from the 1920s there are nice creative ways if you want to make the covering your hair beautiful it's not only allowed it's a Mitzvah it's a Mitzvah to make yourself look good with a Mitzvah it's magnifying a Mitzvah no different than a buying a $2,000 pair of instead of the bar mitzvah boy for 400 bucks okay you're magnifying the mitzvah you want to make your look pretty there are pretty ways to make it that's option number one option number two is wear hat there are a million and a half different hats that are very good and very nice and even many of the go and Superstars wear them not just Jews wear hats go to the Queen of England she wears a hat for I don't know she's I 300 years old she's wearing a hat for 300 years already say all these people wear hats there's nothing wrong with wearing a hat wear a hat it's not it's not so bad all these superstars classy Superstars at least not the ones that are naked in every movie they wear hats they're it's a classy thing to do it's not like a such a bad thing it's not like everyone oh she wears a hat oh wouch where'd she come from it's wearing a hat there's nothing more wearing a hat No One's Gonna ask you so that's second opinion that's second third opinion again Shalom said there is two type of women that are that don't need to wear one is someone that's not married if she's not married if she's still single she doesn't have to cover her hair even though the r says you should but either way is you don't have to the other one is if she simply just doesn't have a head if she doesn't have a head she doesn't have to cover a head if she doesn't have a head she doesn't have to cover her head now the fourth option which is your real question is what does she do if she's not ready for a she's not we ready for a kov she's not wearing for for for hat and she's not ready to chop off her head so what does she do the answer is do chuva that's the answer the answer is do chuva now if you're gonna ask me should I benefit from idol worship or not benefit from idol worship obviously the answer is don't benefit of because there's already one sin of not covering your hair it's a bigger sin to put idol worship on your head are there different places in India that make because I heard rki said that did research also Ken and that um he concluded that the wigs in India are not Ken with all do respect to Rob bsky is's wrong listen I can't compete with any any of the p as far as as far as Pim the smallest of Pim the smallest one you find anywhere in a little shook in a little market it's bigger than me why that's their life business that's my thing business research thank you let him travel to Janam too and come back I still know more business than him I was doador in I was doador in business I know business I know what to do when it comes to business I know research I research markets economies uh uh products this is one thing I know for sure it's not something I'm not I'm not talking about that he doesn't know I'm telling you that I'm not blind I went into a market I saw what's in the market I saw what my eyes saw I saw what's there I I saw what the market is I saw what the process is I spoke to the vendors I spoke to the product I spoke to the uh to the people that are selling it I spoke it's not like a guess I'm not guessing this it's not like an opinion this is a reality maybe there are two places I'm saying even if there was two places not donated but that's the point it's not s if there's 1% chance 1% chance of idol worship you're still not allowed to do it if there's 1% chance of something being idol worship you're not going to do it how the pro proof proof is not only tah it's also based on logic let's say for example all of you didn't drink all day you were waiting for me to finish talking all day to drink you didn't drink all day all of you are thirsty as as can possibly be and I said okay you know what guys here's some 100 cups of water it's 100 cups of water but before you jump before you jump I just going to give you a little small tiny disclosure there's 100 cups of water it's free and if you want I'll even give you $10 to drink the water but it's one tiny little Clos for fun for fun I put a little poison in one of them for fun who's first who's going to drink first no one's going to drink why no one's going to drink why why is no one going to drink because there's 1% chance that there's poison no one is going to risk their physical life that's temporary for 1% poison why would you risk your n that's Eternal for poison because again the reality is if you read if you want to if you want to listen to what really happens after life I have a sh it's not for everyone it's not for everyone this is one of those shs I actually have to give a disclosure on all of the other sh are for everyone this one sh is not for everyone it should be but it's really not it's about G I did a sh about Gom one thing that most people are not willing to do or even listen to and there's actually there's a tra that talks specifically about G so if you want to know the risk if you're having a saf should I put Idol wor on my head or I shouldn't should I be or I shouldn't should I continue going out with the non-jew or I shouldn't should I continue stealing or I shouldn't if you're if you're having that doubt and you've watched a lot of sh and nothing does it for you go to that after that you'll be here speaking to people after you have all those doubts you come you listen to that you'll do chuva why if you don't do chva you're crazy so you're anyway if you don't do CH if you actually know what happens in you don't have to do any why because you're and is but that's the reality I'm only here telling you the stuff that's a little scary and a lot of admit because I know the price I got Gom in this world seven years of it seven years seven years you forgot it's the beginning of this two hours ago seven years of Gom screaming and yelling my lungs out every single day a surgery every month imagine having a surgery every month imagine being in pain every single day imagining all your best friends becoming enemies imagine just one of them what about all of them what about the fact that at one point I had to walk around with a king I couldn't walk or at one point my my feet and legs doubled in size for absolutely no reason and I went to the ICU at Cornell University top Hospital in New York City I lived in Manhattan went to top hospital they told me maybe it's the Heat I told him maybe it's your brain why would my legs double in size because of the heat no one knew what was wrong until this day there was no diagnosis there's no diagnosis so how am I here how am I here talking to you for two hours plus and I feel great I'm standing and you're all sitting how also says I am God you're healer same God same God the god that's responsible for everything not really the god of Al money the the uh the god of Israel the one that took us out of Egypt the one that did everything for us he's also our God our healer so just like I get sick for absolutely no reason I get cured for absolutely no reason so I know what Gom looks like in both places it's both places the reality is chuva is not really optional we just think it is it's nice to think that we have a choice but we don't have much of a choice yeah app to if you're lending money to a Jew if you own a business or you do it privately and you lend money to a Jew if that Jew is a sh Shabbat you have a serious problem which means that a lot of these new short-term lending businesses that are founded by Jews and many of them are religious Jews are very problematic businesses they're very very problematic businesses I know this is the new thing that a lot of Jewish guys are going into this business uh similar to how Electronics was 20 years ago similar to how real estate was 15 years ago and 10 years ago similar to how mortgages was about 10 years ago every decade every five years Jews find a new business so now there this new thing of short term lending they lend people that are desperate uh you know money for for high interest 25% interest or above sometimes less sometimes more and they don't care if the guy is Jewish or not Jewish now the problem is if the money is coming from a Jew and it's going to a Jew you have a s very very serious problem if the money is coming from a bank it's coming from a bank and it's going to a Jew it's less of a problem but it's still a problem why because you as the broker still benefited out of it it's not as big of a problem but it's still a problem if you ask me you should leave the business if you're in it whoever is in it should leave it if you ask me a second question why are religious people the one that actually running these businesses because they have the god of money not the god of they believe in money more than they believe in God in the dollar bill it says What In God We Trust unfortunately for them they believe the dollar is God that's it it's all it means so it's a problematic business what about the banks in Israel banks in Israel banks in general owned by shareholders so it's a it's not it's not a single person that's uh owns the bank and for the most part shareholders are mostly non-jews so that's how most of the people use that that leniency since most of the owners of the bank most of the owners of the shareholders are unknown and they're usually go because the vast majority of the world is go then you're allowed it gives the leniency for people to take a mortgage or a bank loan and so on but there are some people like my rim who refuses to take a loan at all from any bank because even if there's a one% chance that it's majority Jew or not or something like that he's not willing to take it but that's his that's a it's not you're allowed to take a loan from A bank but again it's a uh it's it's that's the the short-term Lending fing business is not quite that usually there's one guy that's funding it in many cases that's a Jew and so on yeah saying that that Judy supposed to bring families together right but in reality it's actually separated how for example uh bhari and Jews they used to used to more like communism used to not keep Shabbat not keeping kosher okay I think you tell to keep kosher keep but it's it's um it's a h for them too much for them and then one someone in the family starts keeping Shabbat you know you're just like a burden it's too much it's too much for them so how is it that you know you're going to the truth but then when you're in when you're when you're in the processes it's just separating more and more people okay so you ever travel on a plane before yeah okay when you're on a plane in every single plane there's a law that says that the steward has to tell you a few safety features before they take off and one of the safety features that the steward says is that if something happens if there's a crash there's going to be uh or it goes to a certain oxygen level goes down to a certain level there's going to be oxygen Mass to come out from the roof it said says and every single Steward says the same exact thing it's all law it's all they all read it it's not like some K they all say the same thing they say if you have a baby and the baby's really really cute and it's your son it's your daughter it's whoever it is it doesn't make a difference and you love it more than your own life still the law applies to you the same save yourself first and then save the baby even though the baby can't save itself and it's waiting for you to save it the reality is first you have to save yourself so this is how you have to look at things first we do Chua first we do Chua first we start learning tah first we start keeping Shabbat first we start keeping kosher after you start doing what hasem wants and you start doing chuva people are going to watch you without your words you don't need to talk they just going to see how your life changes how it improves if you're really doing chuva automatically you're becoming happier so any one that you see that does chuva and and he's not happy that's because he's not doing chuva he's just learning stuff to tell people what to do a lot of people learn things just to tell people what to do that's not chuva chuva is you're working on yourself you're fixing yourself you're fixing that n that's like half broken it's like missing a wheel or two we're angry too much we're cheap too much we're uh you know we're arrogant too much we're a lot of different things we have a lot of things we have to fix Chua is fixing those mid it's not just going to it's not just learning it's not just a going for it's fixing ourselves is becoming better people better quality people once you become a better quality person and you're connected to the source of all sources you connected to automatically you become happy once you become happy you're contagious everyone wants what you have they look at you like what are you taking I want that your mom your dad your brother whoever it is it could be a Nazi he looks at you he's like what are you doing why you're happy everybody wants to be happy everybody wants to be happy so how come people are not walking around to all the religious people and saying I want to be like you because the reality is they haven't done chuva either they're religious but they haven't done chuva because they're not happy yet to be happy you have to do real chuva real chuva means you have to fix yourself you have to have full what's what's is saying no that's not is saying no that's not that's a nice statement what's is when everything is dark as dark as the night and you still know that hasem is not only there he's the night when everything looks like it's the opposite of good everything looks horrible left money's gone parents hate you kids hate you wife hates you husband hates you even the dog is spitting on you everybody hates you and you know this Darkness that's God why he's talking to me is talking to me that'sa when we get there that's when we're contagious that's when everybody says Ah what are you taking I want that why because whatever I'm doing with my Millions with my billions with my whatever I have it's not that so that's the thing that if we do we first worry about us and we fix us little by little other people are going to start asking you and when they ask you you're going to have you're going to have answers now of course it's not easy all the time if you're still living with your parents if you're still living with somebody that's not religious if you're already married and you're ready to do chuva but she's not or you're ready to do chuva but he's not so that's obviously a problem but it's not impossible it's not impossible so first and foremost most people are able to afford 10 bucks a day most people could afford 10 bucks a day we're not homeless we're not uh and if you can't I'm sure somebody can give you $10 a day or $5 a day with $10 a day you could eat for the whole day so even if everybody in the house wants to eat pork with cheese on it and some bacon on top just to make sure it's it's really you could eat kosher meal at a kosher place for 10 bucks don't eat at home don't eat there they want to eat let them eat you don't have to go on top of their head right now why because for them if you start telling them listen stop eating pig because I'm doing cha they don't even know what you're doing yet until they start seeing that you're Chui serious and you haven't eaten with them for six months and they start asking you questions don't even say anything yet why you're waiting for them to start seeing the effect of it until you become sure with what you're doing telling them anything they're not going to listen to anyway now this applies only to the people that are really close to you the people that are living with you now if it's a stranger if it's a stranger right now you go outside and you see one of your friends you go tell him something now why cuz he's a stranger people that are living with you are much more difficult to help them do Chua and the reason why is because they're always going to remember you before you did Chua they're never going to give you credit for doing Chua your parents your brothers your sisters they're always going to remember you from before so them they're the last option to help them you pretty much have to pray for hem to help them because they're not going to listen to you right away it's going to take time for them to listen to you but the strangers in the world somebody you don't know someone from the Kila somebody from school somebody from work all these strangers go to first give them a CD send them a Shure send them a link do different things to get them to come to do Chua but as far as if if you're living with people that are going against the tah 100% if you could move obviously move but assuming you don't have a choice and you're let's say for example you're in a one of those circumstances where you don't have any money you don't have a job and you don't have any way to get out of this and you live with your parents then the reality is that all you have to do is ask your parents for 10 bucks a day or get a job that's going to make you 10 bucks a today and go eat kosher elsewhere Shabbat try to find a place to stay out to keep Shabbat don't stay at the house for keeping Shabbat there's an application called shabbat.com shabbat.com is an application where different people host different people for Shabbat uh this is actually very good for people that are looking for z a lot of people have actually gotten married as a result of going to different people's houses their daughter their sons their so on so this is a good idea for people that are single you want to go to a sh Shabbat house it's definitely better than being alone or being with a bunch of people that don't keep Shabbat so Shabbat stay somewhere else holiday stay somewhere else and once people start seeing the important people in your life start seeing that AEM is important to you if they love you it'll start becoming important to them too maybe not to the extent that they're going to change their life automatically but at least they'll start respecting you and respecting your desire so they're not going to eat the pig right in front of you don't leave it behind your back they're not going to watch the TV in front of you on Shabbat they'll watch it when you leave so even if they're against it they're not going to do it in front of you that's if they love you if they hate you you should move out anyway but the point is is that there is ways to go around it it's not impossible just because the whole family is not doing Chua doesn't mean we can't do Chua just means that your time came now their time will come later but there are always ways creative ways to to make it work uh I mean I when I first started doing cha I lived on a 35th floor in Manhattan now the reality is you can't be part of a community if you live in a 35th floor because to go up and down 35 stories on Shabbat or holidays is not happening number one I was very sick and number two that's just not happening even if you're not sick you're not going up and down 35 stories so on Shabbat it was one of two options either I was going to my parents house in ston Island and stay there for the whole Shabbat stay there for the whole weekend or I would just stay at home and not leave that's my Shabbat so I didn't go to beet but it wasn't fine it was fine for me for almost two years until I want to be part of a community so we moved out we moved to Florida and so on and so forth but the point is that if you want to do you want to do the will of hem you'll find a way you'll find a way don't depend on other people next question yeah go ahead question pointed that you said you had a question um actually I don't have a question I just didn't want to be um I totally agree with the rabbi about the of woman covering their hair excuse me that I'm bringing it back again I know everybody wants to be but I just don't want to be like who kept quiet I agree that a woman should cover fully her hair okay I just want the RAB to know that the B Community is doing a tremendous movement in religion and my parents deal with the barkarian community and tell telling the community that a woman should not cover her hair at all if she doesn't if she if she doesn't want to cover it with might do some sh bik issues or like have have men have issues you know dating certain girls which I don't know if that's what we want well that's the thing if if we knew for sure that the wig that someone is getting is coming from a kosher Source if we knew it's coming from some Jew that's decided to donate our hair and our two friends decide to join them and the factory decide to make that into a wig so we know for sure this wig has a problem as far as but it's not a problem as far as then you're right the problem is we have no we have no way to do that we know based on Research that I did based on Research that did from 15 years ago based on the that actually looked into it much bigger than I could ever be if you're buying a wig there's no way in the world for you to know it's not Idol meaning the majority of wigs are idol worship so it's better all men should their no one say divorce wife just don't wear a wig no but the woman wants to wear it or if she doesn't want so he should not get married to her because he does want to right I just want to understand the logic behind it okay like I get it I get it not allow so it's not allow okay so now right so if let's say for example somebody has a shid hold on guys if anyone wants to leave you can leave quietly anyone wants to stay can stay quietly okay so this is a very very serious question there's two questions number one first question is first question is ready first question is two very serious questions first question is we have one guy that's on shid and the woman comes from kabad kabad is a very big promoter of wigs that's there there's two main forab mashia is the rebi and and wigs that's the two big things of kabad huh oh three different things yeah three different things so it's three different things that they that they're big on re is mashia sometimes he's God and and and the wigs that's the three big things I'm not I'm not saying it's reality no majority majority well anytime it's over 80% it's you it's it's consider reality it's not a reality it's not no it's against God they're doing something that's against God saying things that are against God whether it be wigs or being the the Reb's mashiah it's against God so that's not that's that's that's huh was very supportive of he was very supportive of according to what they say not necessarily not necessarily not necessarily not a ago I asked him I said If a woman in New York in America wears a wig I asked have on video should I bother her to take it off he said don't bother her what he writes in the he said this is he said's wife didn't cover the hair saying cover then we got one second one second then he got to the whole thing with India there's places that that they say that from India that meaning if it's not from India you're not sure then maybe you could wear it I have a customer who has an elephant in front of his room okay every day he comes he puts a Dollar by the elephant that means I can't take money from this guy because it's suff 1% of that dollars from this elephant I mean no no that's do dollar is not from the elephant the elephant is a simple statue the hair itself is the idol is something that was offered to the to the uh the dollar wasn't offered to the elephant the hair was offered to the elephant dollar to the elephant the question is is it called is it called idol worship what they're doing it's 100% idol worship they r on that's the argument I know what rki is saying I know what R is saying they have what to not it's definitely not so I read okay so I read I read okay so I read the whole thing of what rski said not just this conclusion I read the whole thing and RAV bski himself in the beginning the middle and the end says I'm not even in a position to go against R yashiv and what he says this is simply my opinion he's not even telling you to follow what he says he says is my opinion it's not Al he's not being a he's not not he's not going against it's just simply what he thought of it he says this is just my opinion but go listen to R yashi he's not saying listen to him he's not saying go start wearing wigs he's not saying everything is kosher what everybody else saying it's the same thing with the re saying oh no he preferred wigs over K that's not true at all and the reason why you think that is because that's why kabad says oh he preferred wigs over that but that's not true cuz I have letters from the rebi where he says he prefers the over the wig is another topic hold on so now answer the question let's answer the question you have two questions male should look down on his wife because she's wearing a wig two questions two question not Mar her to begin first question is if you have a and the woman is from or from other sect of Judaism or she just in general she wants to wear a wig and you have heard have listened and you believe you believe everything I just say second question is if you're married to her already now if you're not married to her already if you're not married to her already and you know that it's impossible for you to have any any night of sleep with certainty that you don't have AB in your in your in your house you know that the wig it's not maybe it's not maybe it's abar it's a reality you you could disagree with me as much as you want anyone could disagree with me I saw it I know it you can do whatever you want the point is the market research is the market research the customer is the customer now the point is if you have even if it's not 99% like I say it's 1% chance 1% chance that it's a if you have 1% you have 1% you're not going to want in your house you're not going to want your in your house that's as simple as a get you're not going to want your in your house so now if a woman that you haven't married is not only telling you I'm going to bring what you believe is potentially a into the house but also against what you want meaning you're telling no I don't want you to wear a wig and he says no I am going to wear a wig and if I don't if you don't let me wear a wig I'm going to leave you then it's not a problem of then it's a problem of why you even with her in the first place she doesn't want to listen to anything you say you're not in the same p to begin with why you going to get married you're just going to get divorced few years because she doesn't want to wear a wig doesn't mean she doesn't like him doesn't want to be with him if she wants to wear a wig that's only because she wants other boyfriends no that's not it's only because she wants other husbands he's very obviously and not wearing wigs he himself says that if a person is dating somebody and she wants to wear a wig he should not not marry her because that reason he said you should marry her but slowly by slowly should try to convince her and Inspire her to wear but it say you should not should marry for want to wear WI I'm not saying I'm not I'm not saying I'm not saying don't marry because of the wig I'm saying you say no she says yes every for reason I'm not saying you say you're telling her no and she says yes that means you guys are are disagreeing on a foundation of Judaism you're in two different pages you're in two different pages that's one so that's if you're not married answer to the second same second question which is if you already married to her if you already married to her and she's wearing a wig and you know for sure it came not only from India it came from the idol worshiper himself and she doesn't she simply doesn't care doesn't care she says Let It Come From Buddha himself I don't care I want to put it on my head I'm not listening I want to wear the wig do you get a divorce no you don't get a divorce not we're not suggesting people to get divorce well when you're dating not when you're married I know what you said if you're already married to her you don't get a divorce but you have to get her to do chuva over time obviously how to get it to do Chua takes time different people different ways some people it's learning about some people it's learning about modesty some people it's about learning different things the reality isai is any single woman any woman that has listened to the shim that we have about wigs about providing all the sources all the all the facts all the Industry facts all the facts all those things I have a bunch of sh about this topic the women that have taken off their their wigs it didn't happen overnight some of them it took a month some of them it took a week some of them it took uh two years but the point is the women that took it off at the end after they finally took it they all admitted the truth the real reason of why they wore a wig in the first place is simply because they wanted attention from other men which by default makes it not allowed I don't believe that you don't believe I'm lying to you even if a woman even I'm lying to you I'm making make husband yeah a woman woman wears a hat she looks older than she is she looks older you know the way woman do not one person at a time it can't listen to everybody at the same time no it doesn't no it doesn't in general women are moreci about their beauty even if a woman was born yesterday so even within the woman go to a woman party the want to wear a wi CU they want the other women to look at them oh this this girl is pretty okay so okay okay so hold on okay let's let's answer let's answer this next question okay so now so you want to answer the question ready okay so now as far as as far as the the the the joke as far as far as the joke of the year of women using the excuse of I want to be attractive to my husband the reason why it's the joke of of the year is because no one said you shouldn't be attractive to your husband because when you're with your husband alone you could show your hair no one says you're not to show your hair in your house show your hair no one says don't show your hair but the reality is that most of the day most of the day your husband's at work and you're not at work with him you're somewhere else so in reality most people that see you and not your husband you go to the supermarket with the wig you go to the mall with the wig you go to the store with the wig what so your husband's not there so how come all the women that are wearing wigs don't only wear wigs next to their husband how come they're wearing it next to Mustafa also and Steve from the supermarket and Wilbur and and all and Patrick how come they wear it for them also how come they not wearing a hat for all those other people and only the wig for the husband because it's all a joke the reality is any real woman that's is emit it's a real emit that she's looking for the truth and she'll stand up for the truth even if she has one live it will tell you there's only one reason I want to wear wig why to attract other men that's it there's no other reason women like attraction that's a reality hem created them that way it says in it's not mym says you will depend on the man for what what depend on what for money there plenty of women that are successful not any men on your men yes any men in general why the man who gives his woman attention she's not going to seek it anywhere else that's why not going to want to wear wig nature of the woman I'm not saying for you're right and all woman should not wear a wig not it's but the question is why and if she does how should the men react I just don't want to in the houses of these people who are really trying hard very hard like I said in the beginning of the sh I asked you a question I asked you a question how much does God how much is God worth to you how much how much is he worth to you to some people he's worth a th000 bucks to some people he's worth a million dollars to some people he's worth a simple wig that's a reality if you know that by wearing a wig there's a 1% chance 1% not 99% like I'm saying there's 1% chance that you are now officially a member of idolatry you're benefiting from idol worship in reality it's 99% if not 100% but let's say it's 1% 1% chance that it's idolatry so there's a 1% chance you are officially benefiting from something that Hashem specifically says 12 times in the Tor it's disgusting to me disgusting you and now to your father in Heaven that gives you everything gives you your eyes your ears your your tongue your nose your hair your Z your kids kept them alive all these years your wife your husband your business everything you have you are doing something that he says outright it's disgusting to me if you're willing to take that 1% chance 1% chance you have a serious problem you have a serious you have you have a serious crisis in your relationship not between your husband and wife between hasem and you because you're willing to do something that he says to you it's disgusting to me that means you don't know what he means that means you don't know what it means to be disgusting to him that means we have to do Chua like I said there's no such thing as from from birth there's no such thing as religious anymore there's people that do chuva and people that don't do chuva now as far as people that are wearing wigs they want to continue wearing wigs enjoy your wigs I don't care what am I selling hats what am I in a hat business am I making some some major money from you taking off your wigs wear your wigs enjoy your wigs what the hell do I care I'm just trying to help you you want to violate Shabbat fate Shabbat there's a consequence that's all I'm telling you there a consequence for it you don't want to believe it don't believe it do you think that Rabbi bski and the laichi rebi and any rebi and the local rebi and this rebi and that rebi are going to help you when Hashem says oh by the way you're the idol worshipper that I've been waiting for for 30 years come come I have a Gom sweet right for you over here you think they're going to help you oh no but this guy said it's alloud he said it's alloud he's also in G home right next to you he's in get right next to you it's the same sweet all we're mixing up two things one thing you we're mixing up is ID wor the other thing is the woman attracted to her husband or not know wife from non sure not allowed that's allow right that's not a problem not allow not allowed because you have to C AR hold on hold on also okay would you like would you like for me to answer you guys want to do okay hold on actually you know what I have something for you guys I think somebody asked me about wigs yeah actually have something anybody know that I read Hebrew yeah okay so okay so here here I have now the m the m of wigs no wigs yes wigs all this stuff like I told you for over 2,000 years it was based on was based on modesty even though the wigs in previous generation looked like brooms they were not allowed because of modesty issues 400 years ago it became a debate meaning for 2,000 years it was not allowed 2,000 years it was not allowed 400 years ago somebody said it's allowed to wear a wig so meaning the whole issue of wig started 400 years ago it didn't start 2,000 years ago uh uh B didn't wear a wig s menu didn't wear a wig no one wore a wig until 400 years ago now this by itself should give you the conclusion AR about yes there is and they say how they wear sh back then it was people that didn't have hair and they wore it under a hat Under a hat they wore it they didn't just wear the shato by itself they wore it under a hat why because they were missing hair and it wasn't it was it didn't look nice for them to have just a hat or just a me covering their hair because you still could tell they're bald so they put some wig so it still fills up the that's how the original wig was 400 years ago 400 years ago he said no you don't need the you don't need the Hat just weigh The Wig by itself now that's when the big debate started which already should tell you that in reality the wig is not allowed because if it was allowed s would wear a wig Rifka would wear a wig ra would wear a wig B would wear a wig KH would wear all the but let's say move on let's move on hold on a second guys now out of the last 2,000 years there's been 127 Pim 127 Pim and recently there was another 10 added so it's 137 pusim but in reality it's 127 Pim all the way from the days of thean benel yonan benel if you look at the beginning of first uh I think it's the third or fourth page it says yonan was the first one that started he started the oral Tor before before him he started the P the first P first commentary wasan benan was the first one says not allowed no wigs are allowed in regards to modesty not since then 126 more all the way to Rya said it's not allow Rashi R and so on and so forth now if you compare that list to the number of Pim that say it's it is allowed the numbers can't compare and the reason why is because you're looking if you're looking as the size of the Pim from to the people on the other side can compare not just necessarily in stature but also in regards to number we're talking about more than 10 to one more than 10 to one States not allowed which means plent of today that that it's completely today today is not comparison to or or any of them first I don't know the held that it's Au I'm telling you it is I don't know if that's true because I also spoke to Rob who he the the whole thing starts from from it's whether it's going on a s right that's where the whole thing starts from if you're going AA any covering is okay if you're going s then there's a fourth in there's a fourth that says that it goes by right that you go by what the most of the people are doing and then you go according to that if you see you go to G you go to ER you see that most of the women there are wearing wigs then I spoke to R who spoke to post him then then it's okay so either way you go now you you're coming on the a separate like a different topic of V that's a different topic but if you're going to go as far as is concerned there 127 post that say it's not allowed the argument that would have is a girl who's not married should would have to cover the also that's the argument girls who are not married based have to cover their yes the rum bump fcks like that exactly that's why they bring air stronger reason but the point the 127 P are not saying about it they're saying as far as not allowed to wear a wig 127 Pim exactly I have the list 127 pusim it's not it's not a madeup number I didn't just make it up on the way here 127 P you compare it to historically not this generation this generation you can't compare to 400 years ago 500 years a thousand years AG you can't compare people from our generation now which is a generation of there's barely any left there's barely any people that actually speak out about some big issues and the reality is 90% of don't keep so you can't compare this generation to the generation of even 100 years ago 200 years ago you can't so of today are not like the ones from 100 years ago 500 years ago a thousand they'll tell you themselves they're not no is if you compare the list number-wise number-wise of allowed versus not allowed we're talking about a ratio of 10:1 not allowed versus allowed 10:1 now or more than 10:1 now the ones that say it's not allowed they're not saying it's not allowed and you know what but if you do it no big deal not saying oh it's not allowed but if you do it ah it's okay you could rely on something there's a list of different things different M of all of these the the bab uh and so on there I don't know maybe 70 or 80 over here each one of them of what actually wrote you can read this you could take this if you'd like these are these are learn with them this is what they said the stuff they say is much worse than the stuff they said about wigs you want to take that risk enjoy go have fun with it what doesn't affect me I at least I'm P I told you I'm P I'm not going to G for somebody else I didn't tell him about it I told you you want to take you want to rely on somebody that says it's allowed enjoy yourself you're taking a risk I'm not willing to take that risk so that's in regards to in regards to that's not even a debate and the reason why is because as great as they are in Torah didn't spend 16 years on Wall Street I did I know how to do research you can't challenge that I was on TV I was on Bloomberg on CNBC on CNN that's what I did for 20 years you can't tell me any Rabbi in the world knows more about market research than I do I don't even need to know who they are and they just don't that's what I did for a living it's like me telling I'm a better pect than you because I've been learning for five years it's a joke so it's not that they're not smarter than me they just never spent that much time doing it I did the research I'm telling you the the market of wigs only comes from India that's it there are of course small markets everywhere in Cambodia and this one and that one but as far as the market the Market is from India you want to take that chance that there's a saf maybe yes maybe no you're either a part of idol worship or part of not that means there's a different sh for you the sh Is Not About Wigs the sh is about that she should be about not wigs why because if anyone that has 1% of 1% of fear of hem 1% they're scared that hasem may punish them 1% they're afraid that hasem may make them sick 1% they're Afra afraid has make their kid die 1% they're afraid that hasem may take all their money 1% they're afraid that hashm is going to make them die alone and never have anybody in their life 1% they're afraid the IRS is going to audit them and torture them for 10 years 1% they're afraid they're going to go to Gom and never leave 1% they're not going to take a chance they're not going to take a chance why for 1% chance forget 99% I gave you 99% reasons to be scared you're still not scared the she should have been completely different should have been we need to understand who hasem is and that's the reality so that's what we're missing today we have no idea what we're dealing with we think that God is our friend he's our buddy he's our roommate we could play with him we could rely on on on this local Rabbi that translated things in his own different way and like he's going to help you in G he's going to help you in sham yeah he's G oh yeah yeah yeah I told him yeah it's okay it's okay he's going to help you when you're up there he doesn't even know you and that's the reality you want to rely on him rely on him that's your chance me I went through hell I went through hell I know what it looks like here and there both the part I'm telling you and the part I'm not telling you I know what it looks like me I'm not taking a chance I'm not taking a chance not telling you I'm not taking a chance doing it myself why I know what it looks like the B one that start a m movement he had a had every one of his students was a bigger Angel than the other one day he brings a giant fish giant fish to Thea giant fish with a big giant uh uh knife he puts it on his table everybody stops and see what is he doing what's the r doing why ises he have such a big fish he puts it on a table and chops it in half he's looking they have noidea is he going to make a sushi why is cutting a fish and half like what's the what's the what's the what's theat he sees everybody chops it again people again are like maybe he's making us two Sushi chops it again now everybody's like okay something's happening here he's not making salad and after the quiet stops he says to them you see this this is what's going to happen to you if you don't learn to and do chuv he's telling this not to people that are that are like half chv half yes half no maybe yes maybe no maybe they keep Shabbat maybe no maybe they learn once a week maybe six times a week he's not talking to that he's talking to anashim that considered angels and he's telling them if you don't do chuva this is going to be your end that's what hasm is going to do with you you think he was joking if you think he's exaggerating you don't know what it means to be a Jew this I'm not taking the risk you want to take the risk with your life enjoy at the very least I told you at the very least you can't go up to sh and you can't say oh I didn't hear why because this says heard you heard also why yeah his wife his mother oh yes that's also true that's also true represent well that's the one thing that also is the big kept secret in in kabad God bless them kabad does a lot of good things they're everywhere Starbucks they help a lot of people do but one thing that they're escaping from in regards to the wig issue is that they're telling you that the only opinion that the laichi had is predominantly About Wigs and it's not true and the best proof that I provided so far is the fact that I showed pictures not it's not it's not a Deon it's not my imagination I actually showed pictures more than a dozen pictures that I have of both his mom the's mom and his wife both of them in every single picture are wearing a hat in every single picture of wearing a hat or k meaning his own wife his biggest T his own mom his biggest teacher as far as women in his life both of them are not holding by him they're not holding by the wick thing why because they held by what the Torah says what Tora say wear wear a hat doesn't say wear a wig it doesn't say it and even his own family knew it what he tells his Tam or whatever he wrote in a few letters different story in reality the people closer to you know the truth your wife knows exactly what you really are your husband knows exactly what you really are why he knows what's happening behind closed doors you could look like a sadik in with and everything else but she knows you're a thief she knows you're a liar why she knows where everything comes from you could pretend all you want but she knows his wife knew exactly what he believed that's why she followed it she put a on she put a hat on you want to hold by at least hold by what she did look at what she what his wife did and that's it so the point is if she's not willing to take a risk if theab J's wife and mom are not willing to take a risk why are you why is your wife I'm not saying go start fing GS every day and start divorcing your wives but at the very least the conclusion of the sh should mean every single one of us needs to do for something some people for wigs some people for some people for but don't start relying on local rabbis I don't care who they are even me go double check everything go double check everything and until you know for sure this is the Adit that I'm willing to testify for that it doesn't matter what they're going to tell me in sh I'm going to hold to it even if tell them you're going to again up for it right I'm going until you can testify this is the don't do do it that's why and they're both right they're both right even though we hold by bet it says mashia comes We Hold by bet Shi why they're both right why because both of them believe that what they're doing is 100% Amit not because it was their belief in their heart but really because they fought for their and they reached their us we're just relying on some local guy we we watched a few YouTube videos of me or somebody else and we're we can't do that you have to look for it fight for the emit fight for being emit don't just say oh this guy said it's okay so it's okay I'm willing to risk going against 127 P that say it's not allowed I'm willing to risk it I'm going to go fight them in sh because that's who's going to show up to theed how 27 Pim say Hey listen how come you went against me no what are you gonna have say oh the rabbi told me who Rabbi uh Smith who is he oh yeah you know he graduated from uh Yeshiva University with 3.8 GPA who are you talking that's that's who that's who you decide to bet your on some guy with a 3.8 GPA that's against okay I think you got the point we'll have more sh tomorrow we have two sh one in ston Island at 7:30 and one in Brooklyn right after maybe around 10: completely different amen am [Music] [Applause] [Music]