Cleaning Out Our Inner Chametz In Brooklyn (Rabbi Yaron Reuven New York LECTURE TOUR)

[Music] good to be back little less people than last time because of this uh snow storm it's a is uh convincing people that if there's snow they're not allowed out of the house uh but uh hopefully some more people will come along the way um we have uh P coming up uh very very soon we just spoke a little bit about it as far as working on our midot working on our character traits uh trying to fix ourselves really work on our inner instead of uh just focusing on the bread the bread's important don't eat bread don't eat cakes that are not Kosher don't eat cookies that are not Kosher but the reality today between you and me it's actually extremely easy to keep PES these days it's so easy that if hasem made a new mitvah today and he said PES the entire year especially if if you're spartic nothing really would change because Technologies advance so much that they make perfectly delicious cakes and cookies and pizzas and pretty much all the food that you can eat the whole year in a kosher for Passover way okay it's not as great it's 90% of the way there it's 80% of the way there it's not like when they first started it was like I think 20 years ago was like disgusting today it's delicious so the food doesn't really change unless you're askinazi you can't eat rice if you still keep the the you know what your a told you as far as the and things like that in reality nothing really changes but what really changed today is that we have forgotten why we keep it that's a bigger problem we keep a lot of things but we don't really know why whether you go to religious people or not religious people you ask them why do you keep P they'll tell you basically all cuz my uh forefathers came out of Egypt they were slaves they came out of Egypt hasm saved them and so on and so forth when you start talking a little more seriously to people you spend some more time with them and you ask him a basic bottom line question let me ask you something do you really believe every word in the Torah every word like everything that it says happened it says M according to theu was 20 feet tall you believe that 20 feet tall tall guy today is considered 6 feet five he's three times bigger and not only him all the major Le were 20 feet tall you believe that hasem spoke and all the words were in the sky you were able to see the sound you believe it Hashem split the ocean into 12 you believe it it's a serious questions and you find out before I take your question you find out that a lot of people they believe the overall story is real but there's different different details that maybe yes and Maybe not maybe there's like a saf there's like a doubt about small points here and there and our sages explained to us is that if you believe that one letter a single letter in the Torah is wrong is not true not a whole sentence not a whole commentary one letter one letter in the Tor you considered a you have a serious problem you're considered a heretic if you don't believe not just what the five books of me but one word in thear thear says M was 20 feet tall you don't believe one word out of that sentence you have a serious problem says someone that looks at the hand of a woman looks at the hand of a woman now when he's giving her change he's giving her change she's doing business with them she's buying something and he's giving her change but he decided to take his time take his time give her change so she so he could look at her hands he's enjoying how pretty her hands are he says nothing will save that guy from G meaning he must go to Gom for that you have a problem believing that you have a problem just by saying that you don't believe it obviously we all do cha we could always fix ourselves and work on ourselves the point being is that a person needs to understand T is T it's either you believe everything or you believe nothing because according to our Tor if you think one word is wrong the whole Torah is wrong and that's that's what a lot of people simply don't understand don't know and that's what we have to have the where you explain to people and you give people an opportunity to ask questions you have a question you where do we get such and such mitvah where do we get such and such story what's the source for such and such like this or that's the point the point is to take all these empty spots that you're not sure these doubts that you have and try to address them so there's plenty to talk about but I'm sure you guys have some questions so who wants to start what question you have a question I know you have a question how did he split in 12 how the O how did hasem split into 12 what do you mean how was the 12 isn't like seven or something no so what happened is that that when we left Egypt uh we had we have 12 tribes we have 12 tribes each representing one of the sons of yobu now when we left Egypt each one of these tribes had their own people tribe of Yuda the tribe of Ren the tribe of Shimon each one had their own crew so let's say this guy was y's crew this guy was ruven's crew this guys was Benjamin's crew now each one of them stayed with each other they didn't uh all combine together they have they have and so on like us today Safar Kazi and so on similar to that some extent now hasem wanted all of them to feel comfortable that they're not going to change so much not such a drastic change overnight so you can still stay with your own people so he literally made such a miracle the rambam explains it and it talks about it also in M that he split the sea into 12 different tunnels so let's say for example we're trying to get from this point to this point okay now the the Torah actually says we didn't cross the ocean like we didn't go from let's say from uh this side to this side they didn't go from here to let's say the end of the room that's not what we did actually what it was it was a half a circle which means that we went from here we went all all the way around we came back here the same side that's actually what the splitting oan and theem actually the ramb draws it in his book he says that he literally split the ocean made 12 different tunnels of water so each tribe was able to go with their own people but at the same time he made the water clear like a clear wall that each one was able to see each other so like he didn't think the other guy died his friends from the Benjamin tribe or the guys from the Shimon tribe he didn't die soem made it miraculous obviously and he split the ocean into 12 different tunnels next question until we finish the entire okay so now the AR Shalom says that the month of Nissan the month of Nissan is such a miraculous month it's called Nissan Nissan stands for Nim for for miracles it's a month of Miracles and this is a month where if there's special blessings if there's special things that you want to attain this is the month this is the month to ask for them and this is also the month to get them he said it's so big Nissan is such a big month with so many miracles that each day is considered the equivalent of one month usually the most important significant day of the month other than Shabbat ises KES is considered like almost like a y it's a very special day we take on is special things that we do on ones now on Nissan we change the whole month the whole month for example the people that do the uh in which is mostly Safari people in in America and Safari askanazi that have in in Israel as well they do every day the V the entire month of Nissan we don't do it why right we this is a month full of Miracles and the says that literally every single day is a is is like magic it's a month of its own now the question is why is it such a big month okay so we had some Miracles big deal what's a big month so we see that most of the Miracles the big Miracles that happened happen around here happen at this time so for example the The Exodus happened around now but before hasem decided that he's going to take us out of Egypt there were the plagues 10 plagues took a year after that year and so on and so forth all the plagues still he didn't take us out of Egypt even after the 10th plague he didn't take us out of Egypt still he told is you have a mitvah to do you have no okay so I made some miracles for you I'm destroying the Egyptians but the Merit it to take you out of Egypt you need to do something for it I have to give you something what I have to give you I have to give you two mitv there's going to be 63 mitv later on I'm going to give you but there's two mitv you have to do now what's the mitv first one is Brit every Jewish male has to have a Brit Mila imagine he's not 8 days old he's 20 he's 30 he's 50 60 years old that's has to cut a piece of himself no anesthesia everybody has second Mitzvah everyone has to take aan take one of the sheeps take one of the uh the um uh not sheeps the uh t t is a um goats take the goats and tie them to your bed for a few days make sure that the Egyptians hear it leave the door H open make sure the Egyptians hear it and when the Egyptians come they're going to ask you what are you doing with my God because the uh the goat was their God was one of their Idols what are you doing with my God and you tell them I'm going to cook your God in a couple days that's you're going to tell them they were your boss a week ago now you tell them I'm going to cook your God I'm going to eat them and theim say that the biggest Miracle of the entire time we were in Egypt was this why the fact that the Egyptians were too got to a point where they were too scared of to kill them a week before they were willing to kill us in a minute were slaves they were killing kids everything now they got to such a point they were scared to kill us even though we told them by the way you're G I'm about to cook and put them in a soup but not only that make sure that after you time to your bed for 4 days and he's screaming and yelling and he's getting all the neighbors to know that it's happening when you cook him make sure you cook him full so anyone that passes that maybe didn't see it sees not only did you cook it but it's a full you can't break the legs off you have to make sure that it looks like it's a goat no one's going to mistake it make it in a way where you fill it up completely you cook the whole thing pleas don't cut it into pieces you cut into pieces you're not doing it so now these two literally put the life of on the line why if you do it wrong the guy can continue bleeding thean you're telling somebody Listen by the way your your uh your God I'm about to uh kill him he's going to be willing to kill you if you go into a uh one of these Catholic churches you go into the church and you start telling by the way you know you guys are all uh Idol worshippers and you're praying to some idiot that died 2,000 years ago they're not going to take it so well maybe they may not kill you depends where you are in the United States or in the world but they're not going to keep you in they're not going to keep you in they're very leashing they probably going to get a beating you go to the Muslims and you tell them by the way your uh your Muhammad he was illiterate he was illiterate he actually didn't know how to read he didn't know how to write that's true though he didn't know how to read did to write which how did he write the Quran then how do he write the Quran if he doesn't know how to read he doesn't not to right who was the who was the witness to what he said he saw in the desert no one was there you have problems in your Quran you said that Jesus was uh the nephew of mosenu they live 1500 years apart you have historical problems in your Quran you know what they're going to do to you they're going to make you into a bomb not to not they're going to make you into a bomb you tell them such a thing so now am is goes to the Egyptians he tells them hey you I'm going to eat your G you have yourself a problem put their life on the line the second thing is is after they did this Hashem says good job you did you didan because you can't eat theban unless you haveit that's Torah says if you don't have a you're not allowed to eat the sacrifice you're not allowed to eat the sheep on PES you're not allowed to be part of a now we fast forward we leave Egypt we got the Merit to leave Egypt we get to yamu we get to yam we get to the Sea of reeds we get there nothing to do there's an ocean in front of us the Scorpions and snakes on both right side and left side and behind us the Egyptians just showed up and they want to kill us again just like they wanted to kill us a week before they changed their mind before they were telling us leave leave leave now they're telling us no no we want to kill you again so we're confused what do we do if we go back to Egypt we're going to be slaves again if we fight them we're going to die they have weapons we don't have weapons what do we have we have uh rocks what do we have if we go right we go left the Scorpions and we're not going to survive all we have is the ocean so mosu starts screaming to hem because all of starts crying Hyster what do we do starts crying to hasem and hasem says the says why are you screaming to me m why are you screaming to me what do you want for me was where else he's going to scream then he says M listen you and your people had just enough Merit to get here you had just enough Merit you had a account of merits of yob and so on that was enough to get you out of Egypt okay but meaning to destroy Egypt to get you out of Egypt you have to do theit and theban that's to get you out of Egypt that's it you're out there's no more there's no more there's no he finished finished no more merits what do you want me to do the came to me with the Mal which the angel for Egypt and they said listen why are you going to let am sled across the ocean and the Egyptians you're going to you're going to drown them they worship idols and they worship idols meaning am was still Idol worshippers at this point why are you going to free them so hasem says to Moshe Moshe the angel is right is does not have any Merit to across the ocean what do you what are you screaming me for me for move forward tell them to move forward what does it mean move forward do something to turn things around do something to earn a merit for me to do something for you this is a business there's nothing free there's no free lunch with hem there's no free lunch it's a business you do I do you don't do I do anyway what but I do something that you don't like so the leader of the yudah tribe the Judah tribe realized that the one thing we need to that's worked for us before is sacrificing our life it worked for us in Egypt it's going to work for us here he jumped into the ocean he said listen going back to be in Egypt obviously hasm didn't bring us all the way over here to go back to go right on left is not really an option because the Scorpions and snakes is nothing here reality is we have to move forward so he jumped into the ocean and as soon as his people from the udah tribe saw him they followed him too but up to the point where the water started covering their face they started drowning the Benjamin tribe the Benjamin tribe they saw our brothers are going in the water that must be the right place to go we're going too the other tribe went in it created Unity even though technically they're watching him die they're watching them drown Hashem says you want to sacrifice your life for me I'll split the ocean for you and I'll split it into 12 so we see that the biggest Miracles we got in history have been during this month of Miracles the month of Nissan but we also notice that there's a requirement for these Miracles Hashem asks us for something in order to give us the biggest miracles in our life he has a treasure chest full of Miracles he wants to give us but he says there is a password what's the password self-sacrifice sacrifice something for me make yourself uncomfortable in my honor so if you're comfortable only giving $20 give a 100 if you're comfortable going to one Shure go to two sh if you're comfortable wearing a skirt that barely covers the knee get a skirt that covers the whole leg if you're comfortable going to sh at 8 this month go at 6 try harder try harder why there's a big reward for you for doing it now in page 20 the sages themselves ask how come the previous generation before us got so many miracles there asking they are also they see Miracles these are sages they see they hear aem's voice all types of wonderful things but they said that if you compare them to the previous generation before them you can't compare each other it's like two different worlds so they ask how come they got so many miracles the gar says they got so many miracles because even though even though they actually studied less than you did they sacrificed more than you did they sacrificed their convenience they sacrificed their comfort much more for Hashem than you did and for that they merited much bigger Miracles and this is what I tell people for example when people want to convert to Judaism and they start telling me about how hard it is it's hard to learn this it's hard to remember this it's hard to go to sh it's hard to deal with Jewish people all of a sudden it's hard to afford it it's hard to move it's it's hard to this as soon as a person start telling me about all the things that are just hard I already know they're not ready to convert why he didn't get the point of being a Jew it's supposed to be hard that's the point that's the point it's supposed to be hard you want a proof I'll give you a proof yov everybody heard yuu prayed to he said hem please just don't put me in a situation when I'm St where I'm starving or I'm in I'm in poverty just make sure I have clothes and food he didn't ask for a million dollar house like us he didn't ask for three cars in a parking lot just in case two break he didn't ask for a all these wonderful things he didn't ask for a retirement account all he said just make sure I have food and clothes that's it that's all I want Hashem says you're trying to be too comfortable you're defeating the whole point what what happened yadik yadik happened you fast forward a few years what happened yadik happened his son he lost him for 22 years why he said you're looking for Comfort if you're looking for Comfort you're missing the whole point you're missing the whole point you're not supposed to be comfortable in this world in the Book of Job tells us Prophet himself a person was brought to the world to work what to work work for hem to work for hem you didn't come for vacation there's no vacation in Judaism there's no off time you never stop being a Jew once a Jew always a Jew you just have to decide you want to be right Jew or Wicked Jew so now the idea is that on one hand if you're a righteous Jew Hashem gives you a reward how much reward endless it doesn't end he's waiting to give you so much and it's literally above and beyond what you can imagine but at the same token if a person does bad then the sages explain that that person does bad he's forcing hashem's hand he's forcing Hashem not to give him the good he's forcing Hashem not to give him good because he knows that if I give him good for bad it's going to ruin him if every time the kid does something bad you give him a present what is he going to do do more bad things if every time he steal you say ah don't worry about it what is he going to do he's going to become professional Thief that's what happens I heard a story just the other day Amazing Story there was this one guy young guy little kid got caught stealing got caught stealing once twice caught stealing from family but the uncle didn't say anything God if I tell him the community is going to frown upon them going throw him out of school maybe they're going to uh not have he's never going to have a they're going to look down on his family and so on and so for it was a very close Community Kish Community say no maybe maybe I'll grow out of it maybe I'll stop stealing you know what happened because he didn't say anything and not only he didn't say anything no one else said anything the kid continued stealing and later on he grew up you fast forward about 15 years he started an investment business and just a few years ago he found that it was a panzi scheme he destroyed many and and and Jewish organizations all over the East Coast why he was a thief from the beginning and no one said anything I think his name was Weinberg Weinberg something like that and the uncle after everyone lost all of their money all these lost their savings all of these coling lost their everybody lost their money lost a ton of money we're talking about millions and millions of dollars not the everybody lost 50 bucks millions of dollars destroyed lives were destroyed places had to be shut down what did the uncle say he says you know what I'm sorry I should have told you guys 20 years ago he's a thief I saw him stealing I never said anything I saw him stealing I didn't say anything that's the problem there's no such thing as doing something bad and there's nothing there's no price for it if you see something somebody doing something bad and you don't say something you're now a partner in crime and that's what theat says when somebody sees another person do something bad and doesn't do it and doesn't do anything about it he's now officially a partner in crime that's why hasem punished the rabbis before he punished the and bet mikash mikdash says the BET mikdash was not Destro destroyed for any other reason other than desecration of Shabbat yeah but it says we no that's what the says it's destroyed forab he says so how come the the the people okay so just kill the all the people that desecrate Shabbat then why you killing all the rabbis the says kill the rabbis not only kill the rabbis kill them first first why they didn't tell the people to go do Chua they didn't tell them to go do Chua how they going to do Chua if no one tells them they became bigger criminals than those people by staying quiet so wants to give you good but once you put a situation where you start stealing you start looking in a place you're not allowed to you waste seed you violate Shabbat you're dishonest you're doing things that are against Hashem now you're forcing hem to not give you good and to him that's the only purpose in this world the only purpose of this world is to give you good but he can't give you good if you don't do good which means you're stopping him from doing what he wants and for that is the reason of why we get punished it's not that he's so offended that you drove your car in Shabbat he's still going to be perfect with or without your Shabbat it's not that he's so offended that you stole money from Steve and gave it to Joe it's all of his money anyway it's the fact that now because you did bad for yourself he can't give you good and because he can't give you good there's no point to the world there's no point to the world now so he has to punish you for it that's the reason for punishment so now on the good side the amount of good that hasm wants to give you is endless endless but you see that there's a lot of there's a lot of disasters in every day just today just today just today I found out about two people that have cancer brand new two people just today I'm talking about three hours ago every day that somebody else that's sick two days ago heard about little baby that's drowned in a in a bathtub she's in ICU right now to save our life every day there's a disaster suffering there's car accidents there's diseases there's all type like you feel like there's like a holocaust but no one's talking about it it's like a silent Holocaust we're dying everywhere this sadik from Israel older woman 73 years old she sends me a long email but right off the first sentence I knew I had to read the whole thing everybody knows I don't like long emails because I get a lot of emails so I can't read long emails but this one it got my attention first sentence I already knew something's happening here I read this story honestly I started crying at the end she tells me you have to come to Israel and teach these people some fake rabbis came from the United States she says to the community not too long ago and they started telling people that all you got to do is donate a little bit of money do read some T do some weird prayers they said and everything else will be fine you could wear wigs you could drive on Shabbat you could do anything you want whatever you want whatever you do is good enough for hem just make sure you donate do some weird things that they're recommending because they're cabalists they're mealine they're this they're that they're going to fix everything for you you have nothing to worry about she says you don't understand since these people came someone dies every week in the community every week somebody's dying in a community a kid an adult a married so somebody's dying somebody's getting a disease some tragedy every week in the community it's not that big of a community and no one is willing to listen to me she says she says no one's willing to listen I tell them listen these people are leading you astray they're not telling you the truth we have to do chuva like nah it's not that it's just an accident it's not that it's just a bad thing they're blaming nature they're blaming bad luck they're actually thinking that these cabalist fake people fake mikim they're going to be the ones that save them but in reality they're the ones that are killing them they're the ones that are killing them says you have to come to Israel and actually tell these people show them theim nobody knows anything and people are dying but it's not just this community same thing in New York same thing in Florida same thing everywhere if you guys haven't noticed there's almost there's a shooting almost every week this year in America just today another shooting happened another today another shooting today another school had a shooting I think it was in Michigan somebody told me in Michigan or some State Michigan Maryland another shooting today boyfriend girlfriend got mad and the guy just decided to shoot up the school so every was like oh yeah but only he died it doesn't matter that only he died the fact that he was a he decided to go start shooting people that shows there's something going on here there's something bad in the water there's something bad in the water something's going on it's not normal do you hear about shootings in Russia no shooting is in Russia you just say you want to shoot they shoot you you hear about any shootings in Israel no there's no shooting in Israel it's terrorism but there's no shootings no Israel is are not shooting each other you hear about shootings in France no the Arabs are killing people but they're not the France are not killing each other something bad in the water every other day there's a fire in uh in Brooklyn or in Queens every other day it seems like this year you guys don't you're not paying attention am I the only one that reads the news sees this stuff I don't even read the news but I find out from people fire one house two we three weeks later I fire like Three Doors Down A month later I fire Three Doors Down every week somebody dies from drug overdose in the Jewish Community I'm talking about talking about the world the world the Jewish Community overdoses literally on a weekly basis weekly basis kids overdose on drugs and are dying like flies like flies fires people's entire houses businesses lives disappear into fire every other day you find out somebody closer to you has cancer every other day somebody knew has cancer just today two people I know have cancer I don't know them that well but I know them two people in one day nobody's paying attention there something wrong with the water something's H hm's talking to us it never happened like this before there's always been problems but not like this there's literally a holocaust happening and everyone's pretending like everything's okay why because the rich guy in the neighborhood is buying another house because the guy that's trying to be the rich guy in the neighborhood is extending his house because this guy has a brand new car in the lot because that guy has a new Venture because this one invested into Bitcoin early because this one invented the next Bitcoin and everyone is so busy that they forget about all the tragedies that are happening in the world now I'm going to show you that in the Tora all of what I just said is written how when mhu comes to is he tells them I'm the one that Hashem sent I'm the one that Hashem sent and I'm here to save you said I'm here to save you so now he goes to and Par doesn't want to listen in fact Paro makes things worse he oh you guys have a lot of time to think I'm going to give you more work so you don't have any time to think and now am is not Happ with Moshe and he tells him listen I'm trying to help you and so on he said listen we're too busy with work we're too busy it's too difficult this extra work that is giving us we don't have time to listen to you so M who says to Hashem why did you bring me why did you make me be the one that's bringing all this bad to is they're not even willing to listen to me because they're too busy with work they're too busy with work hasm says that's the way of the Satan the Satan is going to get you to be too busy with work too busy with business too busy with Bitcoin too busy with the stock market too busy with reading the news too busy with trying to be like the go and get you to forget to be a Jew forget who runs the show forget we're supposed to do Chua forget all the real reasons of why you're here why you're too busy you're too busy doing other things you're too busy doing other things if you're too busy doing other things you're not going to have enough time is to like meditate to yourself to think to yourself what am I why am I here what was the last time anybody here actually asked that question why am I here why am I in the world and not only why am I in the world why am I in the world and I am one out of 8 billion people out of which out of the 8 billion people I'm one out of the 20 million that's a Jew and not only one out of 20 million out of the 8 billion but I'm one out of the 20 million that actually is interested in doing what Hashem said to keep Shabbat to keep kosher to all do all the things why why why I mean who put me here to want all these things it's so unusual if I said listen uh you're really special why cuz you eat Chinese food okay thank you very thank you buddy for the compliment but the reality is 8 billion people eat Chinese food it's like Oh no you're really really special you have a beard thank you very much for for for for for the compliment but even the goat has a beard so it's not it's not such a compliment everybody has a beard doesn't make you special it's like oh you know you're really really special you have eyes oh thank you very much even the octopus has eyes you're not really it's not helping me the compliments are not working I say thank you you are very special you are a religious Jew oh now you're talking why not that many of us there's not that many of us there's some people that pretend to be there's some people that try to be there's some people didn't even look like it but there's very few that actually do it but those are the the ones that Hashem took out of Egypt those are the ones that Hashem took out of Egypt those are the ones that Hashem gave the toah too and those are the the ones that hasem is keeping the world going for but those are also the same ones that the Satan focuses the most on Satan focuses the most on them he says listen you're doing too good of a job forem you learn T you keep Shabbat you not wasting you're going to do you're doing all these m f you're killing me enough enough's enough I get you busy I'm going to give you a better job make more money I'm going to give you a wife that needs a lot of attention I'm going to give you a husband that can't stop talking I'm going to give you kids that are really annoying I'm going to give you this I'm going to give you I'm GNA get you busy why you busy you forget about God you busy you forget about God this is why in the month of Nissan means get out of your comfort zone it's not comfortable to leave the wife at home and go learn tah it's not comfortable why you want to be with her she wants to be with you what do you want to be with this uh smelly that you have with the beard you want to be with your wife what can I do that my father in Heaven told me go learn tah every day I want to be with my wife but I got to go learn Torah I want to be my kids you think I want to be in New York right now what all du respect guys I love you you really think I want to be in New York right now and it's freezing cold this G no I think it's jealous already like look it's cold here come over here it's warm it's so cold in here there's traffic old you think I want to be here I got my two little angels at home the two little babies and my wife love of my life you think I want to be here but why am I here needs help is the only way people do CH only way people do ch the book of Nai Nai says there was a tribe of Benyamin tribe of Benyamin made a very big mistake they saw a Woman They mistreated her she went back to her husband her husband found out he cut her into pieces killed her this created a war a big war and another war and another War eventually 70,000 of The Tribe of Benjamin were all killed Eli says you know who's that fault in sh you know who's at fault you know who's responsible for 70,000 Jews dying you know the rabbis which rabbis the heads of the sanin the heads the top rabbis in the world whyi says when they came to is each one of them found the corner this one's going to live in Kaa this one Tel Aviv this one yush this one's Nat and they said listen if you need to learn something come to us you want to learn M come to us you want to learn Al come to us we're here we have an office he says and because the San the head rabbis in the world did not go around the country teaching people M The Tribe of Benjamin never learned never learned how to behave and they made that sin they made that sin created war war happened they all died who was responsible the rabbis that want to stay home is a prerequisite of being a Jew if you're looking for easy you're looking for a different religion there's no easy in this world you're looking for a different world a different life there's no easy in this world now the good news is the says in and also page 16 and 16b and both respectively says the following on he decides what you're going to have how much P you going to make you're going to make a 100,000 you're going to make 10,000 you're G to make a 100 million you're G to lose 100 million whatever you're going to make he decides on everything is decided on so the B gave a he says thear says that hasem already decides on R how much money I'm going to make but why does the Mish which comes before the say that hm decides every day how much I'm going to make if he already decided in how much I'm going to make why does he decide again every day why he changes his mind what is a human being no what's theom said he said decides how much you're gonna get every day he decides how you going to get it you're going to get it from your job you're going to get from a car accident you're going to get it from a deal you're going to get it from a lotto how you going to get it somebody can be decreed hey this year you're going to get a million dollars wow amazing the next day he got fired Guy starts crying hitting himself in the head I just lost a million dollars the rabbi said I'm going to make a million dollars what happened how I'm going to make a million dollars if I don't go to work the next day gets into a car accident it's not his fault to do the two judge favors him he gets a million dollars did he get the million dollars or no he got judge to get a million dollars the problem is he got it in a very painful way he got it in a very painful way the good news is that you can get it in a good way you don't have to get it in a bad way but that all depends on our actions it all depends on our actions it all depends on who you think is making the money you or God if you keep busy and you don't have time to learn tah every day morning and night that means you think you're making money I don't have time to learn T every day I'm GNA learn you know once a week I go to sh T I'll listen for an hour two hours rbody speaks nice I'll talk to them I'll listen for an hour two hours is one of the of the generations he says a person needs to understand Tor is not an elective someone that doesn't learn Torah at least two hours a day at least two hours a day has no business thinking that they're going to have if he doesn't learn t two hours a day at least two hours a day has no business thinking he has why it's very rare somebody can make it to without learning to at least two hours a day why you need to know what to do to get there you need to learn how I'm Gonna Keep Shabbat how I'm gonna keep kosher how I'm Gonna Keep how I'm gonna work on my how I'm gonna work on any how how are you going to know what to do to get toaa is not just sleeping on Shabbat and eating chulent is not just coming to for half hour an hour two hours a week and that's it you finish that'sa finished I'm going to work the whole week for the Satan two hours for I geta what you think AEM is a fire he's a fool what do you think Hashem is what do you think Hashem is where he's just oh yeah you want Eternal good yeah yeah just work for me for half hour that's it Satan worked for him the rest of the week we're good we're good what you think AEM is who do you think you're dealing with this is one of the biggest realizations that changed my life why I realized I'm not working for a man a man I can convince him a man I could convince him a man I could fool him I could lie to him I could do something AEM there no fooling there's no changing there's no nothing he has a rule finished beginning middle end a person needs to learn Torah you need to learn to to get to how do you learn T in this generation when every girl walks around naked even though it's n degrees outside it's 9° everyone walks around naked anyway I don't understand the mentality I don't understand the mentality it's cold it's freezing at the very least put on clothes it's freezing forget the modesty just put on clothes it's freezing no clothes how do you learn T in a generation like this how do you learn T that every button every button on your phone could be could be himself you go to a porn site you go to a gambling site you go to some sports or some other thing that Wast your life instead of learning Tora you spent 3 hours learning about the salary cap of a NFL team One Bun can ruin your one button on your phone one button on your computer one button on your WhatsApp schat all this stuff one button could ruined somebody's life one phone call it's the wrong girl one phone call it's the wrong guy somebody showed me a video they did an experiment experiment this girl she was nothing more than maybe 11 years old 11 years old 10 years old nothing baby and the parents pretended to leave the house and the guy pretended to become her friend on Facebook became her friend on Facebook this little girl 10 11 year old girl puppy he pretended to become a friend on Facebook and he's like hey you want to get together she say yeah yeah come when my parents are not here she never saw the guy she doesn't know who he is and she's willing to meet him and they literally videotaped the whole thing of how this girl leaves our house when our parents leave and she goes to the park to some unknown place to meet this strange guy who says he's somebody else who could have easily been a rapist could have even a murderer pedop but that's that's our world today One Bun can kill somebody one button it doesn't have to be an atomic bomb meaning that if we're not holding on to AEM 24 hours a day like it's dear life we have no chance we have no chance I tell my wife and I tell each others all the time all the time I tell you the truth tell your family secret you know what the secret is we're both trying to work nonstop for hem to a point hopefully we can get into somehow sneak into ganeden with like no wheels hopefully we can get to ganeden that's what we tell each other hopefully he's going to let us in we're probably not going to have any Wheels on the car but hopefully we can get in we could like get in somehow fool the system like we did enough mitv hopefully that's the reality you know what my day is like my day is like I have to start with Tor and finish with Tor it's either my Tor or somebody else's Torah and I'm still hoping maybe we'll get geden because that's the reality you think you're going to get the Gan Eden with 15 minutes of of of of whatsap you watch the sh a 15 minutes you get to ganeden you have the wrong God the god of Israel wants more from you he wants to give you more too he wants to give you more but there's a price it's a price if it was a man you could fool him you convince him you could bribe him you could do a lot of things but it's not that's what changed my life what changed my life is I realize I'm no longer dealing with a man cuz with men I convince him I'm a good speaker I convince any of you to do whatever I want want if it's business anything I want it's business I convince you you're a man something I could say could convince you to do it him I can't convince him to do anything why he's God I'm nothing less than nothing you understand the difference once you deal with him you realize oh whatever he says I just got to do it there's no there's no accounting no questions whatever he says let's do it but I don't like it it doesn't make a difference it doesn't make a difference now I said this in the previous sh but it's worth another on top of it the sages say that the Messiah is not just some ordinary person he's a special Soul that's a combination of the soul of no more no less now this soul is so special that it's alive in every generation and every generation has an opportunity to have mashia arrive that minute at any minute he's always around now the soul itself is around at all times which body hasem decides to put the soul in is a a different story that the generation has to have the Merit so thear says if it was in a generation of the Prophet Daniel the Prophet Daniel which has the Book of Daniel in the Tanakh if the mashia would have arrived in a generation of mosenu it would have been mosenu and mosenu almost became the mhia to he was the first mashiach that took us out of Egypt he almost became the official mashiah forever if am Isel didn't make the sin of the golden calf but because they did it he couldn't be the mashiah anymore we were six hours away from mashia 6 hours away six hours from him being mashia forever from never having any Holocaust never having any prgrams never having any inquisitions never having anything having 5,000 years OFA here and then Eternal six hours away six hours away 6 hours away almost mosu became the Eternal mashia but we messed up fast forward if it was in the generation thear says in the generation of the Prophet Daniel Daniel would have been the mashiah the Prophet Daniel would have been the mhia if it wasn't a generation of yudah reos that wrote the Mish before the they said it would have been y it would have been why he was the perfect human being aside from being rich aside from being a aside being a giant he also had the physical description of being very very tall and handsome and so on there's actually a physical description for the mashia which by the way removes me from it but anyway at least I know what he's going to look like very very tall and very very handsome okay what about would like to think that he's mashia uh and at best case scenario at the best possible case scenario according to our sages maybe he could have been while he was alive but once he died he could no longer be a m there's has a what are the names of the mashia one of them is is a um but what they don't tell you is they tell you that minim also had a last name and it's not the laab Reb's last name but anyway says one of the quality different possibilities of mashia what they tell you oh it's because it's me what they don't tell you is the says last name too it's not his last name but anyway let's skip that let's pretend it didn't happen didn't happen now it says that the mashia could potentially be Prophet Daniel it could have been the prophet it could have been y it says that and says that it could also be it could also be if somebody reincarnates comes back but what they don't tell you about that is that if there was a reincarnation meaning somebody comes back from the dead it wouldn't be anybody from here it would beavid it would beu it would be would be the Prophet Daniel it be it's not going to be anybody from now why you have to go to the greatest and he's not as great as he's not as great as he's not as great as how do I know because in the Tor decided at one point he's going to be the mashia the M he said he's going to be the mhia he's going to be the mhia he decided I'm going to bring the mhia he's going to be the mashia but then didn't celebrate hm's name one time one time he messed up a miracle happened Hashem stopped the Sun in the sky for him and he didn't sing to him that's it that's it he just didn't sing to hasem the Satan came to hem and he says look you made miracles for him and he sank to you he wrote he did this he did this and you still didn't make a mashia you still don't allow him to build the mikdash how are you going to let how you gonna let him be the mashiah if he didn't do at least as much as his ancestor David he says you're right he's not the mash anymore he's not the mashia anymore but the point here the here the point here for any watching online or here to understand if it was what the the commentary from Abel says that it would be somebody come back coming back from the dead it wouldn't be from now it would be from the greatest from before us it will be the rambam it will Beav it will be somebody from before be the prophet Daniel will be people that hasm specifically named not somebody that we just like and is nice sadik I'm not saying he's not sadik Al was even a shoe string for him but the reality is we can't create something and that's what happens sometimes we love our rabis so much that we make them God we love our rabbis sometimes so much we turn them into idols and that is not allowed that is not allowed in the Torah that's called idolatry you're not allowed to pray to a rabbi even if he's mosenu even if he's mosenu you're not allowed to pray to a rabbi that's why hasem did not tell us where he buried mosenu he didn't tell us where he buried mosu he says why M his whole life was for me his whole life was so what I'm going to have a bunch of people come to his grave and ruin it you don't know where he's buried you don't know where he's buried why we we're not going to we're not going to turn him into an we can't pray to rabbis but the reality is that the messia the soul of the msia is alive and well and is always available says that Yeshua B Lei Yeshua B Lei his best friend wasi and he said to him when is the mashia coming he said tomorrow said really where is he can I meet him he say yeah he's at the Gate of Rome the Gate of Rome so he went to go to the gate of Rome and he saw that the mashiah is full of wounds all over his body just like everybody else was but even more but everyone else the way they took off the the covers and the bandages that they had around their body they would take it off all at once and then replace it all at once but the mashia would take it off one at a time one at a time he would take it off so yesh says to them why are you only taking it off one at a time he says to him because at any moment they can call me to be mashiah so I have to be ready if I took it all at one time there will be a delay it take me a while to put all of them back on so the asked why does he have so many wounds why does he have so many wounds why is he full is mashia isn't he like giant Kad and so on they say this soul is so extraordinary that when hasem decided I'm going to break up the suffering that's going to come to the world into three a third goes to theob mavl and so on the greatest a third goes to the D the generations of the Holocaust the pgms the inquisitions the BET mikdash destroyed those horrible Generations where the major destructions and hundreds of millions of people dying Jews dying not just Millions hundreds of millions dying if you look at the of what happened at you'd start crying from the numbers it was much much worse than the Holocaust hundreds of millions of Jews died hundreds of millions not a few million either one is bad but it was much worse a third of the suffering goes to those generations and a third of the suffering goes to mashia why because in order for him to be mashia he has to sacrifice he has to sacrifice himself the Christians use this this stuff this teachings from the sages and turn it into Yos turn it into their stupidity their idolatry oh the suffering servant the suffering servant it's all nonsense they took one word from a they created a whole religion out of it just because you suffer doesn't mean you're mashiah trust me I suffered a lot I'm an expert in suffering I'm not mashiah so now the say what happens to this suffering how does it what what happens with it they say every month ones and yob go to the soul of mashia they say mashia please continue suffering why if you don't suffer isra is going to suffer so the mashiach says to Hashem hem I'm not only willing to suffer I'm willing to die for even a single Jew not to break a nail not not to die for one Jew in your nation to not break a nail I'm willing to die for him not just suffer so the biggest bu the biggest embarrassment for us if we have the Merit to see Mas if we have the Merit to see him if we do CH and he's not killing us with his words he actually is going to save us is that the first thing we're going to see hey that wound that scar over here yeah you did it remember when you went with that girl yeah yeah that's you that's this is you oh remember when you wasted seed that time yeah that's you that's over here right here every single one of us is going to see what we did to the mashiach and we're going to die from embarrassment but that's why we have to do Chua that's why we have to do Chua because the mhia is not going to save 50/50s he's not going to save the guy that's going to you know his entire to of the week is three short five minute WhatsApp videos it's nice but you got to do a little bit more to be saved by mashia you got to do a little more to get the ganeden we all know that how many people believe that you can get rich you can get rich or for five minutes work a day does anybody here really honestly believe not through lot logically normal regular without lock and all that stuff a regular actual real job that you can get become success sucessful at of 5 minutes work a day no one's raising hands okay how about 15 minutes 15 minutes a day you could be successful 50 minutes a day you could pay for a mortgage especially in New York a mortgage I know there's a million dollars here a mortgage just to get a hole in the walls a million dollars how many people think you could actually afford a mortgage yes for the kids kosher food a wife a husband the kid everything 50 minutes work a day how many people believe believe that honestly 50 minutes a work day nobody right 2 hours we start becoming more realistic 2 hours it's possible if you're really good at what you do you make sure that every second of the two hours you're actually working you make the right calls you make the Right Moves it's possible possible not so likely but possible possible I know if I go back to Wall Street two hours day is more than enough I'm still not going to go cuz it's a waste of time but the reality is 2 hours it's possible for you to make it 2 hours of T it's possible for us to make it to Heaven it's possible to make it to it's possible it's not a guarantee but it's possible we're start now you start talking this is what p is all about it's not about matah yes eat matah enjoy the matah I don't so me it gives me stomach aches but you guys like eat matah enjoy matah but it's not about matah you're supposed to eat matah if you eat if you eat bread it's a it's a sin so you have to eat but it's not the point of P it's not the point of P cleaning the house God bless all the women that are cleaning the houses and the men everybody is clean good that's not the point of P it's good you have to do it you can't have in your house but that's not the point of PES the point of p is to get rid of thez not just the physical that you could just get a cleaning lady to help you do it 100 bucks you got all theet out what do you think the whole Judaism is is is B based on whether you could afford a 100 bucks for a cleaning lady your entire is based on whether you could afford 100 bucks does anybody honestly really think this p is about self-sacrifice PES is about what are you willing to do to sacrifice for AEM in order to clean out the inner the bad midot the stinginess the arrogance the selfishness all of the bad character traits that we have we have to work on you get angry like every two seconds you have to work on it you're stingy you have to work on it you're over generous you have to work on it you all these bad character what are you willing to fix what are you willing to do to fix it you don't have much knowledge what are you willing to fix it you know a lot about sports but nothing about mosu what are you willing to do to fix it you have some type of an addiction you're addicted to drugs you're addicted to alcohol you're addicted to girls you're addicted to wasting seed you're addicted to sports to video games you're addicted to something other than God what are you willing to do to sacrifice for hem what addiction are you willing to get rid of in order to sacrifice something for what Corban you gon to bring him that's what p is all about that's the the is not just a physical you can get a cleaning lady to clean for you the is inside every one of us has to do something something whatever you did now I'm not saying we're not doing anything who am I to tell you you're doing anything you may be the biggest sadik in the world you may be the mashia I don't know but the reality is if you're still here you have to do something if you're still here you have to do something if it's Shabbat keep Shabbat if it's wasting seed stop wasting seed if it's gambling stop gambling whatever it is compare where you are to what Hashem says what does hasem say in comparison to what you are and start matching pick one you can do everything at once pick something but don't pick oh you know what I eat a little bit too much candy I'm gonna stop eating candy no one goes to Gom for eating candy butat people go to Gom for wasting seed people go to Gom for have to pick something big you have to pick why it's p it's not a regular day but you'll see something magical the says you'll see something magical what once you sacrifice something big you are now living like 3,300 years ago they sacrificed their life multiple times in a very short period of time for what they got miracles in return you want a miracle you want an amazing job you want an amazing wife you want an amazing husband you want an amazing kid you want all these big things you ask for a you start you start by doing something big you start by doing something big and you have something big any questions yeah Heards know can until he has the soul of mashiach he doesn't know he's mashia but he's definitely a sadik but he's sadik he's not one of the uh public people and uh actually there's more than one source that says that the world is going to be surprised when they find out who the mashiah is it's going to be someone that's uh a BAL Chua it's not going to be a someone that's a uh has been religious and righteous from day one he's going to have very very extraordinary traits uh but in general he's not going to know he's the Messiah until he becomes the Messiah which means that anybody that tells you he's the mhi is by default definitely not the mashia anyone says I'm the mashia which I get at least one person a week tell me he's mashia at least once a week somebody sends me an email tells me I'm the mashia I need your help what do you need I need you to invest in me so I could take over the government I need you to do this to do do these mashia are all broke they're all broke they have no powers and 90% of them don't know anything about Torah some of them are not even Jewish that's the best part so the reality isai is that the Messiah has certain qualities but he's only going to know he's the Messiah after it's officially made public to the whole world not just like he's going to know by himself for a while and then everyone else is going to know he's going to know Hashem is going to put in him he's going to put the power of God within him he's going to be able to smell our meaning he's going to be able to see every single sin you've ever made since you were born and based on that just by smelling you smelling your sins he's going to judge you dead or alive just by that just by that it's not like oh let's go to a bed prove this prove that there's no case there's no talking there's no handshake there's no excuses nothing it's like the BET of sh two seconds finished so now it's a big thing so it's not just about mashiah arriving it's about us surviving the day of judgment so the people that say they mashia they're all there is they're fulfilling the prophecy that hasem says that's going to happen at the end of days there's going to be a lot of false Messiahs a lot of people that say their mashia or people that say that somebody's a mashia a lot of false mashia that's unfortunately part of the Prophecies of what's going to happen right before the real mashiah arrives so it's unfortunately happening and you'll see you'll see a lot more of it there's a lot of Jews and non-jews that are pretending to be mashiah and uh some some of them are on the way there's one particular guy in my opinion I mean I don't I don't really care about mentioning his name because the guy's R but in my opinion he's only I don't know I have give or take it's a over under a year he's going to start a new religion but if you look at him he looks more religious than mosu pay reached the floor the beard reached the floor but if you actually listen if you know even one ounce of Tor one ounce of Torah you listen to hisim you know the guy's a and one Shi says your wife if she doesn't want to go to mik you could uh you could still be with her if she doesn't want to be with you at all she doesn't want to be with you intimately you can go to a prostitute if you if you have a just put on black clothes and you're allowed to sin if uh you know if um uh if you want to smoke marijuana do it if it's going to help you learn to smoke marijuana even though it's against the all these things he starts creating things and then one time he'd give a he said God spoke to me to him he said God spoke to me and he told me thank you God spoke to me and he told me thank you his name is d d this guy's rash but the reality is you see his followers they only increased in the last year he has a lot of followers a lot of people like him he has a I know Charisma people like whatever it is but according to the Torah is's a he's a he's a heretic in my opinion I've already been following the this for almost 2 years in my opinion he's maybe a year away from starting an his own religion maybe a year away maybe less it's already his own religion just nobody knows it I think he's officially going to be like a false Messiah it's my prediction let's see if I'm right but the reality is already has a different religion he hasn't called it anything else yet I think within he year he going to called something else that's my opinion but either way the reality is there going to be a lot of him a lot of false Messiah he's not the only one there's plenty of people like him that are quieter and are louder there's this one guy shly something that's one of the head guys in open Orthodoxy open Orthodoxy they pretend to be Orthodox but in reality they're reform but they call themselves Orthodox to fool people he tells people that Al is like something you can change mix and match you could this could you could renew the Torah this by itself by definition is and there's plenty of people like him and then there's the reform and then there's the conservative and then there's the Christians that pretend to be Jews today by the way you can't go to any sh and assume that everybody's a Jew you cannot do that doesn't matter if it's kabad or Orthodox or modern Orthodox or whatever it is it could be Cheerios doesn't make a difference whatever sect you is you cannot assume that everybody in a schul is Jewish why because there are many people that are not Jewish that go to Sho because they like Judaism but they haven't converted yet but if you look at them if it's just the exterior they look more religious than you and me there's at least a handful of people that I'm friends with online that are my students you can call them but they already like stop being my students because they don't want to listen to me anymore but I still follow them on Facebook and I see once in a while they put pictures of themselves online all the time you see these guys it's like from 400 years ago all the way to the floor the beard reaches this the Hat reaches this it's m like it's like pulling him every day the guy's not Jewish he's not even Jewish not him not his friend not his friend not his friend it's a whole group of people but they're all over the world one guy looks like rambam like the whole thing the beard he looks he's like replicating rambam the way you know he's not rambam is he's Kushi he's black it's the only way if he wasn't if it wasn't black he wouldn't be ra but I'm telling you there's a lot of things a lot of confusion but the guy's not Jewish I don't have any thing against anyone but if you're going to want if you pretend to be Jewish just be Jewish you want to be a Jew be a Jew you don't want to be a Jew don't be a Jew the problem is abai is that us actual Jews don't want to be Jews that's the problem that's why hasm is letting it happen that's why hasem is letting it happen because the Jews themselves don't want to be Jews so he says you don't want to be a Jew I'll bring people from other nations and they're going to become the converts they'll be the Jews somebody has to be my Nation you want to go worship idols he tells the prophet Ezekiel you want to worship idols go worship idols I'll find somebody somebody will serve me I will have a nation of Israel this is what's happening right now in front of our eyes page four says before mashia comes going to be an enormous amount of converts throughout all of history this prophecy was a complete joke throughout all of history to say there's going to be a lot of converts was a complete joke why to be a Jew was a life danger why would you want to become one just to be a Jew forget about learning religious not religious forget about all that just to be a Jew your life is in danger the Nazis Haman the Romans the Greeks the Turks the Spaniards everybody wanted to kill us every week for re good reason bad reason it didn't make a difference they created reasons so you want to convert to one of the people they're going to kill probably last week something wrong with you this prophecy was like a joke like who's going to convert to Judy and not only convert says it's going to be a lot of them we're seeing it right now every single day the are converting people every day first time in history I went to the bed yesterday in New York I spoke to every single day somebody's converting every day some places more some people less but I'm talking about real conversions not the fake uh fake convers real conversions real people that are sacrif iing their life their marriages their CH everything forem I have one student sad you know what she sacrificed I bet you none of you are willing to sacrifice it why I know I don't think there's two people in the world willing to sacrifice it she sacrificed a marriage and five kids a marriage of 17 years and five kids for who for Hashem who's willing to do it raise your hand we're not willing to do it the reality is if we were born not Jewish we probably wouldn't even want to convert that's the reality that's the reality why it's much easier to be a I could eat whatever I want I could party however I want as long as I don't worship an idol I don't eat the animal while it's still alive I don't steal I have a court system it's pretty easy to be a why should I go and add 600 laws to my life why that's because we don't know what it means to be a Jew we look at it as a something that's like a like a burden on us to be a Jew it's a burden on us to be a Jew the 600 me vot is a burden that's because we don't know anything we don't know what it means to be a Jew we don't know that you won the lot every single second you're alive as a Jew the entire world exists because of you like it or not entire world exist because of the Jew there could be a tower the Torah says a tower in the middle of the desert a huge tower Tower could reach the sky one huge billionaire could build this huge Tower why would Hashem allow this guy to build a tower because maybe a sadik will pass by the tower one time and use it for uh against the sun to use it for a shadow against the sun to use it as cover against the sun to be a little less one time in his life the tower exists for a million years one time a sadik is going to pass by the desert and he's going to be a little less hot because he's going to use the tower as a cover that's it that's the only reason he gives the guy from Saudi Arabia the ability to build a tower to reach the sky CU maybe a Jew will benefit out of it he's going to be less hot for five minutes the entire world was built for a Jew like it or not you don't know it you don't like it you still haven't become a Jew yet even if you're a Jew but that's the difference the real Jew knows this many of them unfortunately coming from other nations they want to become real Jews so when you told the woman listen you realize if your husband's not converting you can't stay with them she goes no problem what do you mean no problem you're 17 years marriage what can I do what do you mean what can you do you stay married you could be a non-jew stay married for another get all just keep s God comes first yeah but you're a kid your kids can't convert I love them they'll come visit once in a while what do you mean but they can't you willing to do it you will I'm not willing to do it I'm barely willing to come to New York CU I have three kids at home I have my wife and two babies you want me to to to to to give up five kids and do you understand the logic here that someone that knows what it means to be a Jew we're still learning we're still learning and that's whyem says going to be a lot of converts before the end of times because he says if you don't want to do it I'll find somebody that does I'll find somebody that does and there's plenty of them millions of them they're dying to be Jews question is where they will be Jews that's the only question they will be question is whether we will be to be a Jew get used to self-sacrifice get used to getting yourself uncomfortable uncomfortable is the normal state of a Jew you're constantly chasing more Hashem gave you ambition not so you chase Millions Hashem gave you ambition so you chase more T It's never enough I have one now I want two I have one now I want two I have one gar I want another gar more more more that's why the Torah is endless and RAB hulo says to R AKA if the entire ocean was ink and all of the land was paper and all of the trees were pens it wouldn't be enough to write the Torah that he knew that hulkus knew and he says in that amount of Torah is not even a single drop in comparison to the Torah that my rabbis knew he said it's not even a drop next to his Torah in his Torah is not even a drop in comparison to the Torah of the previous generation and that Torah is not even a drop of the Torah of what we got on Mount sa and that Torah by the way is not even the real Torah yet what we got in Mount saai is the essence of Torah not the entire Torah the entire Torah we can't handle that's why theat says whenu went up to sh in Mount saai the angel said to Hashem what is the the the the son of a woman doing up here with us Heavenly Creatures what is he doing here he's a son of a woman he's a flesh and blood he says he's tell says I'm here to collect the Torah so the sages say why why why are they surprised I mean they're Angels why are they surprised that Moshe is here so the Angels say hasem that Tor that you wrote and kept and and and maintained for 974 Generations before the world was created you're just going to give it away to the son of man that's probably not even going to keep it hasem says don't worry I'm just giving him the essence him I'm going to show him the whole thing but his people it's just the essence of it it's a drop of water of it and the drop of water of it the drop of water of it that we have if you studied for a million years 24 hours a day without sleeping without drinking without anything you wouldn't finish 1% of it and that's why the sages say what do they do Ina they learned tah how much tah is there endless endless tah and this what we have right now this beauty that we have right now is just the essence tiny bit tiny bit Torah is endless if you don't love it if you're not infatuated with it if you're not obsessed about it that means you haven't you haven't learned anything yet you haven't learned to yet because once you learn it it's very easy to be addicted it's very easy to leave your wife your husband the kids the everything leave different religions once you have Torah all you have is God but of course the Torah is in order for you to fulfill it so Hashem is not advocating getting divorced he's not advocating killing people he's not advocating Le is advocating for you to fulfill the T if keeping everything as is is fulfilling the T staying married having kids and so on then that's what you do but if you want to be a Jew and this current status does not allow it you have to make an exception the point is is that there are certain people that are will to make exceptions that we're not and that is a against us that's a decree against us that's a judgment against us in sham because in sh going to they're going to ask us why weren't you so why why don't you keep everything why oh it was hard for me was hard for me why was it hard for you oh I had a lot of money so going to bring you they're going to bring you razar I bring you razar who had ships in cities zillions and zillions of dollars thear says that is was 120,000 cows is M was 120,000 cows and every year his M was 120,000 Cals I did the math he made over a billion dollars a year so now show you him did you have more money than him he was sadik he was a t he was able to revive the dead he knew a lot of Tor he had more money than him no okay what else was reason oh you know I was really goodlooking the girls were chasing me you know every girl you know the good ones they were after me I couldn't keep it what they going to bring you they're going to bring yadik y sadik was so beautiful women threw the their underwear at him threw their underwear at him there was a few women that looked at him while they were cutting salad they ended up cutting their own hands and they didn't notice he was so beautiful they started staring at him they forgot they were cutting their own flesh not little Nicks they cut their whole hands off that's how beautiful yadik was so you were more beautiful than yadik he was tadik he was KES he's one of the 12 tribes was more hard for you than him what reason you have every reason they're going to give you somebody and one of the biggest reasons he oh but you know what it was really difficult in general you know I had to leave my life had yet I lived in New York I lived in Miami I lived in jenam I lived in Las Vegas I lived in all these places the girls are naked the guys are naked everybody's this everybody's that there's the gambling there's the this there's the Bitcoin I couldn't do it hem what are they going to bring you they're going to bring you my student they're going to bring you my students why theik and you know why they converts they converts many of my students they're going to come to you and say oh yeah had a more tough than him what he's the one that left his entire family in Haiti left his entire family in Haiti no he has nothing here no money no job no nothing what are you leaving for to convert is another guy he left everything everything in India he came to be with hem he does more C than anybody else in the world God bless him you have you have a um Emmanuel Emmanuel gave himself a Brit Brit gave himself Brit who he's going to do it here today Brit Mila the same day he had Brit Mila he went back in the computer and did kir who's doing that today without the Brit without the Brit Mila you had a woman leave family 177e marriage 177e marriage finished why AEM every single one of them had one reason AEM leave India leave Bulgaria leave anywhere for what for AEM you're going to say it's hard for you because of your Bitcoins and your your your your smartphones and everything else they're going to show you my students say was it harder than them what are you going to say then ah I don't know you know I didn't know was like that oh now you know now you know now you know so that's why is a very very important time to do CH very important time to get rid of all the the number one is excuses number one is excuses excuses why we're not better than we were a year ago excuses of why were not better than we were a year ago how come we don't know a lot more how come we only know a little bit more how come we don't remember what happened to sh we only remember a little bit of the Torah how come we're still not doing what we're supposed to ifem hasn't given you a z yet there's something wrong if hasem hasn't given you yet something wrong if Hashem is giving you health problems there's something wrong if there's a shooting in your country every week There's Something Wrong somebody came to the I just came back from Africa collecting money for the asks him how are the Africans doing over there the black people Rabbi ask him what why does the rav care about the the not Jewish because I know how are they doing over there I hear that they're being persecuted in Africa they're being persecuted how are they doing are they still being persecuted he says to be I'm not sure but maybe a little maybe yes maybe no he wasn't really sure where where's this question where which is this talk about he says why you don't know anytime there's anything bad that happens around the entire world whether it's persecution of a black guy you never heard of in Africa or an earth earthquake in India or a tsunami in Haiti or a shooting in America or too many leaves or too many uh uh bees dying in some place in the world bees dying there's going to be less honey in the market there's going to be less sugar in the market is going to be inflation anything bad happens to the world that's AEM talking to is he says it's time to do Chua yeah but the black guy died but the uh Indian guy died but the uh school over there that no no no it's all connected to is it's all connected to am is the tsunami happened over there because of if was doing good tsunami wouldn't happen if would would be doing good the shooting wouldn't happen and that's what we have to understand you sit here for an hour two hours you learn Tor the world exists Because Of You the world the entire world continues to spin because of you even if you half asleep the world exists because of you why you're fulfilling the purpose of the world so this is the number one Mission we have learn Tor take it seriously stopped acting or wanting to be like the go because they want to be us they should want to be us we just need to be want to be us we need to be want to be us we want to be we need to be Jews not them if they want to be welcome but we still need to do it anyway and that's the most important thing that we need to learn in p p is all those excuses it's hard for me it's this for me it's that for me it's that's that's that's all year round it's all year round enough with the excuses because if I told you if you make this call or you go to the Shure or you do whatever you say that's going to take you two hours a day you get a million dollars you tell me how many can I get of those I'll do anything for a million dollars I'll do anything for a million dollars I'm telling you get infinite dollars just learn to two hours a day now if you haven't started yet learn 15 minutes a day and know that the mat the goal is two hours three hours or more if you have zero now you can't go from zero to two hours a day so start somewhere start like I did 15 minutes a day but every day after you've done that for a while you can handle more increase it to a half hour every day you see you're handling that for a little while another week another month another two months your half hour day is good increase it to 45 minutes to an hour but get to a point where you're on the on your direction on your journey to two hours a day you can't go from zero to two hours you can go from Zer to 100 either but the reality is you have to start somewhere you have to start somewhere if we don't start start start somewhere we're never going to get anywhere any more questions the back anyone finish the entire you guys ready for PES you guys know all the for p no you want p in five minutes okay okay so this is what you have to do so tomorrow we're going to put the online so you could watch it again but I'll give you all of the in I think anywhere between 5 to 10 minutes this is the minimum of minimum meaning there's obviously a lot more details but this you do all what I say you're good okay this P now first and foremost the month of Nissan the month of Nissan from until the end of Nissan there's something called the fruit trees that grow so if someone that sees a fruit tree the beginning of the fruit starting to grow you have to do a blessing of if you're seeing two fruits grow that's the source of that is 226 or the page 43b I'll give you sources so you know where all this is coming from and you don't think it's my idea or some stringency or something so that's one thing that's the easy part if you have it good you don't have it then you're P second thing is AAL AAL means that if you're going to use the same utensils as you did for the rest of the year let's say for example you use the same pots same pots and pans as you did for the rest of the year it has to go to AAL if you cooked warm things in them stew and things of that nature that are meat then you have to go to something called liun liun is usually the Jewish communities all Jewish communities have at least one or two or 10 people that do this liun which is they burn they burn the actual pot all over again with a blow torch to make sure that they reopen all of the holes within that metal to remove all of the from out of bit if you're going to use the same thing today on one end it's very easy to get brand new and number two most of is in a decent Financial shape that you can get you know a brand new or at least enough for the set of pots and pant from Walmart or from Amazon for 30 bucks so most people don't do this Leon but in case you want to use the same pots and pant you have to do this lion where you use this blowtorch to make the things that you cooked hot things in with libon if you cooked if you made things that were cold then it has to go to aala aala means that you have to put it in boiling water you have to put this uh this whatever tool that you're using in boiling water and this is comes from the source of removing something foreign we get this from the um chapter 26 verse says don't do something don't bring something foreign into yourself to the point where I'm disgusted by you because of this foreign object it's something foreign that you're doing so on PES we're not allowed to bring the rest of the year with us PES we start new don't make AEM disgusting dis disgusted so the aalim is if you use the same things now for for anyone at Safar which I'm assuming is almost everybody here there's a very big leniency when you're using glass so glass cups and glass uh uh plates you do not need to kosher them you could actually use them all year round for PES and for out of PES you don't have to do anything if you're spartic if you're ashkanazi you have to do the same thing as what your tradition is now you can't be just ashkanazi on PES or just Safar and P and the rest of the year different this is by the way one of the arguments that I forgot I learned it again today is one of the arguments when it comes to this wigs craziness that people say yeah but such and such Rabbi says it's allow yes the reality is even if what he says it's right you're still not allowed to do it why even if what it's wrong what he says but even if what he says is right you're still not allowed to use it why he's not your Rabbi you're not allowed to use multiple rabbis you can't say I'm all the way except this there's a in page 14 it says if somebody takes all of the leniencies of sh and is you can't use the leniencies of both houses what if he does theas he takes all of the stringencies of bet sh and all of the stringencies of bet it says on him it's it's written the fool will walk blind the fool will walk blind you can't use two you can't use two houses if you're Rya all the way if you all the way whatever it is one Rabbi you can't pick and choose Rabbi it's not uh it's not a uh Trick and Treat bag it's said you have one Rabbi so this also another thing next thing is cleaning out Kitz cleaning out also is mentioned in the Tora it's removing all of the leaven bread from the house all of the things that are whether it's pasta or other things like that remove it now disposing of the comes from the 433 and it says that to get rid of the is there's a couple of ways of doing it number one if it's opened if it's open type of KET it's an open box of pasta it's an open Candy it's open potato chips or some other chips or something that's KET that's not a sellable item you have to throw it out unless it's very very expensive uh whiskey or wine or something like that which people traditionally preserve over an extended period of time if it's like a bag of some snack that's not something that usually people keep that stuff you you go and you burn it you burn it during the time where they actually burn out the which is you which is the day the P Eve during the day now the uh the stuff that is um brand new you know people buy more than they need they go to Costco Walmart or all these places they buy more than they actually need so they don't have to go to the store all the time that stuff you sell what do you mean sell do you have to remove it out of the house no you make one place in your house closet you put all of the KET there that's still brand new you seal it or you put something on there so nobody opens it you go to your local Rabbi you tell I want to sell my K he's going to ask you where is it located in the house you're going to Define where it's located in the closet here in a kitchen and all the stays there throughout the entire you're not allowed to open this closet or whatever you put it into and you sign a uh agreement with the rabbi that you sold the he's going to sell that K to some for the duration of the K after the is over the now goes back to you as your yourit but this is brand new stuff it's not like beastly bags that you ate half of them it's stuff that really if you really had to sell it somebody would buy it no one's gonna buy a half a e bag of beastly and a half a Snicker bar so be realistic with yourself you know if it's something real that's really it's brand new it's technically resellable that the store would take back then that's something that you keep and you sell the kit after you sold the then you have to check forz whatever after you sold it and you burned it and everything also the night before P you have to check forz now the says that in this day and age even though in the original 433 and also the page 2A it says that you should do it with a uh feather and you should do with a candle he says today's age it's uh it's okay to do it even with a flashlight you even do it with a flashlight instead of a candle because sometimes the candle fire could be very dangerous with the carpets and so on that we have today so you can use a flashlight to check for now the there is a there's a debate whether this Minag is a good one or a bad one but the Minag is is to if you know you clean the house you know this probably notz but the Minag is is that one member of the family the wife is going to hide 10 bags of KET somewhere in the house and the husband and if he has kids bring the kids along with him to show him to go find theet on his own without her telling him now she has to know where she put it she has to write it down cuz in case he didn't find it she has to find it she has to get rid of it but the point is is that to show that at least he exerted all effort to find a that's the that's the custom the reason why some people say it's not a good custom is because some people forget where they hit stuff and it stays in their house so they have KET in their house so whoever's hiding it has to write down where they hit it and usually they do 10 things you put it in a Ziploc bag you put a little piece of P or some type of bread in a Ziploc bag and you somebody hides it in a in a in a different spots in the house and that's the it's very very fun for little kids to do it also with parents for whoever has kids now in chapter 445a says you have to burn the like I said usually most of the Jewish congregations usually have one or two different congregations that have a big barrel where they have a fire where people throw their KET in there that's to burn theet that's not sellable after about 10:00 a.m. you have to check your local time because it's based on when the sun comes down and sun comes up it depends on your time in New York is different than Florida and so on there usually around 10:00 a.m. usually around 10:00 a.m. the night of P before the began around 10: a.m. you're no longer allowed to eat you're no even though the doesn't officially start till later on the S is not till the night you're no longer allowed to eat as around 10:00 a.m. you have to check the exact time locally also also yeah also if you're first born Jew if you're first born you have to fast you have to fast all the way until the SED but there is a little trick to get out of it a trick to get out of that fast how you go to a b that has somebody finishing a finishing a tractate of if you listen to him finish the tractate of G you don't have to uh fast because you can be part of the sudv no if you're firstborn you have to fast firstborn you both have to fast but it's easier to go find somebody finishing a because there's plenty of synagogues that have people finishing M on it's a very known tradition uh also at around noon again you have to check the exact time at around noon you're no longer allowed to work so if you have a business or you work for somebody or something like that you have to finish before that you're not allowed to work anymore even though the officially starts later on the SED is later on and so as of noon regardless of what day of the week the hug falls on you cannot work anymore can't work in the stock market can't work in the phone place you can't work anymore pretty much your H as far as no work part are no longer allowed yeah what if then you quit not allowed to work calling sick calling sick if you were sick he would tell you to still work okay so call and sick cold sick I'm sick today I have a stomach cche my or you could just tell my doctor told me not to work okay you can tell my doctor told me not to work which doctor the rambam the rambam was a doctor okay my doctor told me not to work the Ra was a doctor permit so it's true so you're not lying see good you gave me remind me so you're not lying you're telling them the truth the ram told you not to work but you don't tell him it's the ra you tell him the doctor told me not to work so that's it why huh rking job you have to find a new job if that's risk your job if to not work for a few hours is going to risk your job you have to find a new job because it's not a normal job no normal person would fire somebody for not being able to show up it's just it's a it's freedom of religion by the way by the way if anybody fire you you could sue them it's called freedom of religion there actually a right in America for that if that person was a Muslim and they told him listen I'm not working because it's our Ramadan it's our uh whatever it is the guy the guy even peeps the wrong way looks at her the wrong way or him the wrong way she consume fam Millions close down the business it's called freedom of religion so you don't have any excuses and trust me if you do what hem wants he'll make it so so no more working afternoon again check the exact time you're also not allowed to eat mat not not not so what do you eat throughout the whole day until the you could eat chicken you could eat meat you could eat fruit you could eat you can eat everything else except bread and matah you cannot eat this is again 471 B all of these have sources now to prepare for the S is not just showing up don't just show up to the S because the responsibility of the S has a few different things first off eating matah is not like we thought most of our life as long as you take a bite you're finished take a bite you're supposed to eat matah four times during the SED and drink wine four times during the SED take a little sip take a little bite you're finished that's not that's not right the actual is you have to eat each time each time that they say you have to eat matah you have to eat 30 grams 30 gram of matah now if you're going to use the square matah 30 grams of matah is unfortunately it's like almost more than one it's like one and a half of them it's a lot you have to eat this four times so so what a lot of people do is they eat is something that the yemenites and a few other sapharic have which is like a soft matah it's a soft mat and the reason why they eat it aside from it being tasting a little bit better for some people it's also more worth it because because it's thick it's almost like P but it's co P it's thicker so 30 grams of this is literally just one tiny little slice so you don't have to eat so much of this matah and not be able to eat the rest of the delicious food that's going to be available on the S but in general you're supposed to prepare yourself for servings four servings of 30 grams of matah whichever matah you pick yeah why not different custom F you're sfar aren't you it's not a custom it's it's it's your your Sor it's not the the the the the ofon has a whole place where every year he makes he's not everybody's tradition he's the he's the head in all of he makes it for people of all types so obviously it's a uh it's not a uh just uh excluded for just people that come from Yemen or Morocco or something like that no if you want to eat it you could eat there's no problem with it the second thing is you have to make yourself make sure that you have four servings of three ounces of wine or three ounces of grape juice it's better wine but if you have grape juice that's fine too but it's four servings of it four servings of it and also two servings of Maro Maro is lettuce Roman lettuce now the uh the servings of the lettuce the mar is kazite so it's a relatively small piece make sure that it's not only a good size but it's also has no bugs because if you eat if you eat a lettuce and it has even a single bug on it it's better off you didn't do the whole s because each time you eat a bug it's six different sins from the Tor so it doesn't matter how many guests you have if you have five guests or you have 5,000 guests you have to make sure that you know for sure that whoever is monitoring it it's not some catering company you're monitoring it you know for sure somebody knows what they're doing doing when they're washing the lettuce one by one against the light with salt and so on to make sure there's no bugs in the lettuce and they unfold it because if there's one bug in your lettuce your entire SED has become one big sin it's not impossible it's not impossible this is actually not even difficult it's just that people are lazy people are lazy so wash the lettuce it's not impossible now during the afternoon one of the reasons why you can't work is because you have to rest you have to rest during the afternoon take a nap for a couple of hours and the reason why is because the biggest mitvah of the the biggest Mitzvah of the S is not the matah it's not the wine it's not it's not even sitting down with your family the biggest mitvah of the is the the mid is going over the entire story of The Exodus now what the exist to say that am was in Egypt Hashem took us out of Egypt he split the sea finished takes 5 Seconds no no no we're talking about all of the mid all of the things you know all of the things you're going to start studying now about what happened there the behind the the the scenes if you don't have the books get them if you don't have the ability to get them watch my sh I have it online just type in your Exodus or you could just send me a text and I'll send it to you it shows you different details of what happened with each one of the plagues what happened in Egypt what happened at yam there's a lot of mid a lot of details of behind the scenes of what happened and we need to know these things we need to know where we came from that's the biggest Mitzvah in all of P why because the mid you have to do it during dinner after you finish dinner and until you fall asleep until you have no power at all and you fall asleep there's no talking about baseball there's no talking about basketball or Bitcoin or schmitcoin or Pokemon none of that is only that's all you talk about and if you have to bring bring a book now what if you're with a bunch of people and they start falling asleep she went to sleep he went to sleep he went to sleep but you're still up what do you have to do you keep going who are you teaching yourself you keep going that's the biggest mitah P the why know where you came from know where you came from it's very entertaining and usually the family loves it so the make sure you have enough aot for all your company whoever is coming over if they need English reading make sure they have English be polite make sure if they speak a certain language make sure you have an a for them in their language don't be one of these people where you expect everybody to speak Hebrew everybody's going to speak your language okay and also if you have a guest if you have a guest that doesn't speak your language you cannot speak your language next to him it's not polite it's not polite to do that if you guys speak if you have 10 people they all speak Hebrew and one guy comes in you invited him to the house and he doesn't speak Hebrew you can't speak Hebrew amongst each other it's not nice it's not nice to speak Hebrew amongst each other why he thinks you're talking about him and by the way realistically you probably are because if he didn't you would talk in English so the real you have to learn that having a said to having people over is also having manners having manners we can't make people uncomfortable because they don't know or they're new or they don't speak the same language you have to speak in a Common Language to people make sure that if you're not comfortable speaking online don't invite them invite somebody else so the S has you have to say the go over the also there's the obligation is to say the the the same thing like you say during KES you have to say the when you eat the matah and when you drink we're almost done when you eat the matah and when you drink the wine you have to do means you have to lay down and and what each one of us have to do you have to bring a pillow you have to bring a pillow and lay on the pillow like you're lounging like a king or a queen now if a man forgot to do it he just ate the Mato he drank the wine he forgot to go like this then he has to do it again if a woman forgot it she could she could skip it she doesn't matter she doesn't have to do it why because it's not too modest for her to do it in the begin with so she did it once good she didn't do it she doesn't have to now you have to leave yourself I know there's going to be big dinner a lot of food especially us Jews we like food so you have to understand during dinner don't eat to the point where you're about to explode eat just a little bit before why you still have to have room for the you have to eat the that has to be the last thing your your mouth tastes for the night you cannot eat anything else so don't do until you're ready to pretty much call tonight cuz you're not going to eat anymore there's no more eating after that no candy no fruit no nothing after dinner and a you're finished so that's why make sure that you're ready to finish eating for the day even though you're probably going to be up for a while longer talking about PES because you're going to watch my sh and you're going to know a lot about PES and about so after the S like I said continue the stories about the Exodus and then you have completed the S the good news is you have to do it all exactly the same again the very next night very next night brand new now if you live in the Exile you have to do it again the next night now what happens if you're going to Israel what happens if you go to Israel you went to Israel you they keep only one day over there what do you do is if you're moving to Israel officially you're moving to Israel at that moment you can be treated like an Israeli meaning you keep only one day but if you're just going to visit you're still in the Exile you're just going to visit you still have to keep two days even though everybody else around you is keeping one day that's your problem and I know it's uncomfortable and I know people don't like to keep this law and so on and so forth that's you want to change Al talk to God not me I don't change Al the difference ISS is that in the in the the the new month and the calendar was based on time that was determined in Israel now because the we didn't always have atomic clocks and clocks that were very ex exactly we have today the way we determine time is based ones and when the moon would show up in the sky so by the time it arrived in Israel they would determine this is a new month now by the time the news travel to the Exile where the Exile is in Spain or in Egypt or somewhere else it could be even a day later even though it was relatively a fast system because they would have a lighting system on top of mountains where the guys that would see it and say it's officially a new month it would light a light and the guy that's in a a top of another Mountain 10 miles away would see the light and he would light a light and then a guy another 10 miles away with see the light it it would travel pretty fast to the destination it wasn't like some horse had to travel half the country it's not like the like people think am was always the Geniuses we weren't stupid ever we always smart it was a very relatively smart system but still there's always a chance that there's a flaw in the system there's a delay in the system somebody got injured somebody got this this could always be a delay of a day up to a day they give it so they say maybe they started the month a day late so because of that their holidays in the Exile all over the Exile America Egypt anywhere out the Exile must be two days why so they celebrate the main yum 12 on the same day regardless so it's better that they have two PES rather than starting on the wrong day of PES why because if you it's it's the worst sin in Judaism so it's better you keep extra than make a mistake and start it late but in Israel since the time is the time so now today we have clocks that tell us exactly the time everywhere around the world but we still keep two days and the reason why we keep two days is because once there is a custom for that's already generation after generation after generation for hundreds and hundreds of years we're not allowed to change it yeah one very I heard once that okay doesn't contradict it the mitvah the mitvah gives you a big reward but it doesn't cancel out the sin so let's say for example just argument sake it's not a a real thing it's just a hypothetical example let's say for example if you I don't know you gave somebody a ride you get let's say if you gave somebody a ride on your horse 500 years ago it was worth from 1 to 10 it was worth two but today it's it's such a big thing to give somebody a ride in the car which really it's the opposite but let's say it is such a big inconvenience to give somebody a ride down the block with your car then now it's worth eight okay it's that much more it's great it's amazing wow wow wow you're tadik great that still doesn't cancel out any sin you made meaning if you violated Shabbat you're still going to have to pay for the sin the fact that you gave the guy a ride and it's worth a lot more is great you'll get a reward that's great but the fact that you violated Shabbat is also great so without Li T without learning toat there's no way for you to know how to keep Shabbat how to keep kosher how to keep how to work on yourid how to fix ourselves you're not going to know without learning Tor which means that yes you may make a few MIT that makes you great but you're also going to make a lot of sins because you're not going to learn to you're not going to know it's even a sin I'll give you guys an example I said this in the last year but it's also worth it does anybody think does anybody think that if you told somebody something you told somebody something and he didn't listen to you he didn't listen to you he told him listen you shouldn't go down the street shouldn't go down the street and he said I'm going anyway I'm going anyway and he and he got the wrong way he made a wrong direction he went the wrong he went against you and you were right he was wrong he went the wrong way and you said ah I told you so do anybody here think that's a sin any normal person think that's a sin normal person if you're sadik then the is not for you but if if you're a normal person like most of us usually most people don't think it's it's maybe annoying but it's not a sin it's annoying I told you so it's annoying sin ah come on a sin eating not coach is a sin but telling I told you so what if I told you there's a mish there's a there's a and there's a all say it's not only a sin you could actually lose for it someone that gets a uh honor because of somebody else's failure loses we do it for fun because we don't even know it's a sin we like to say we're right we like to say I told you so it's fun for us to say I told you so because we don't even know it's a sin now without learning Torah without coming to the shield tonight if you didn't know it you're probably never going to know it that's what we have to learn T brother and issues then the brother the brother says listen I told you he doesn't want his brother that so that's the thing now if you told somebody something and they didn't listen to you you and you are right they know you're right you don't need to remind them you're right they already know trust me the first thing somebody knows when they make a mistake after somebody told them is that somebody told them you don't need to remind them so reminding him is like putting it in their face and putting salt on a wound so you don't ever want to be the guy I told you so and you don't want anyone else to be I Told You So and actually if you have at the beginning of every beginning of every it says this blessing you do on the page supposed to do this blessing before you learn in general you're supposed to do it all the time hem you're supposed to say may be your will asem my God that a mishap not come about through me meaning that I don't learn the wrong thing that I don't miscalculate where I say this and it's this really and I may I Stumble meaning hopefully I don't stumble in a matter of law and cause my colleagues to Rejoice over me meaning I don't make a mistake and people make fun of me why Also may it never be that they make a mistake and I make fun of them why the says why is this here say because if you make a mistake and your friends made fun of you all of them losta if you if they made a mistake and you made fun of them you lost so what you're saying at the beginning of your at the beginning of your teaching isem may we never make mistakes or at the very least not make fun of each other why because then we lost everything anyway so that's the point we not allowed to make fun of each other you have to be very careful each one of you you have to understand each one of you is a son or daughter of hem that means you're very very precious you're much more precious to him than you are to each other even if you're twin brothers even if your mother and daughter or father and son hem loves you more than you even love yourself so when one of you makes fun of the other he says no no no no you can't F make make fun of my son yeah but I'm your son also exactly don't make fun of my other son I love him and I love you you're not have to make fun of each other so it's very Hashem treats us like Priceless diamonds because that's what we are if we do his his will so making fun of each other first of all is bad midot it's a bad character trait it's not a good thing to do regardless of whether you're secular relig secular religious and second thing is it goes against the Torah because we make mistakes every two seconds but you never see God make fun of us you never see God make fun of ah you loser look you did it again he never says that he never says that why he says you want to do CH come my son come come he keeps telling you come okay but I just went against you yesterday okay fine I'll take you back anyway I love you come back come back come back he's always going willing to welcome us back even though we were his enemies for 20 30 years of our life he never makes fun of us once we're not allowed to make fun of each other either and that's the thing so again if you made that mistake like I did like pretty much everybody in the world has made that mistake I'm sorry I didn't even know it was a sin forget about that didn't mean bad by it and I didn't really mean to hurt my brother or my sister or my friend or my colleague forget about the fact that I actually didn't mean bad and it was even a joke but aside from that I didn't even know it was a sin I'm sorry finished I'm sorry and that's why is the biggest secret in seph the first in the entire torim says if would have simply said I'm sorry Hashem says what you do you ate you did something and instead of saying oh it's the wife you gave me instead of saying it's the wife you gave me instead of that he would have said you know what yeah yeah I ate from the Tree of knowledge I'm sorry you would have never been punished he would have been in geden forever for what one I'm sorry one I'm sorry how much it cost I'm sorry how much it cost I'm sorry it's free one I'm sorry one I'm sorry sh the first king the first official King of the first official King sh says in was kesim he was so holy that his descendant and he was so modest that his descendant was EST St EST was his descendant because he was so holy he made a sin he didn't kill the entire uh nation of amalik and when the prophet came to him and said how come you didn't do the will of hem you went against him he said no I don't think I did it I don't think I went against him I did something for him after he said no you went against him he goes okay okay okay fine so I'll do Chua says Ah it's too late you already you already didn't apologize right away you're no longer going to be king Hashem says you're not going to be king anymore you're not King anymore it goes to DAV if you would have said I'm sorry you would have forgiven him one I'm sorry how much does I'm sorry cost why did DAV make even more mistakes than sha he made more mistakes than Sha but kept him as the mashiach why because every time when the prophet came to him and said listen David I think you made a mistake here says I'm sorry what do I have to do I'm sorry he didn't say I didn't no excuses no it was hard for me it no excuses as soon as he saw there's a sin I'm sorry your I'm sorry is priceless it's bigger than it's bigger than anything you could do just say I'm sorry to hasem and that you could do anytime you could do every day you do every morning we do it in every day before we go to sleep you say I'm sorry how much does it cost you I'm sorry one second I'm sorry obviously if you put more meaning into it takes a little more time but it's easy just say I'm sorry and you'll see a lot of yes in your life you'll end up getting a lot of what you want because of the I'm sorry more than please more than please hasem give me you'll get more because of the I'm sorry why because once you show I'm sorry you show that you really care about the relationship between you and Hashem that by the way is the secret of loving Hashem caring about the relationship saying I'm sorry saying give me give me give me doesn't show any love it just shows like you're treating hasm like Santa Claus give me like he's a story he's a piggy bank he's a welfare people treat like it's Social Security office give me this give me this give me this give me give me give me Hashem is not a social security office he's not wellfare he's not footsteps he's AEM say I'm sorry you'll get whatever you want anyway any questions this is the P by the way not y but anyway it's good old time yeah who something somebody say something anybody [Music] or things that of if the guy has sins of K violate Shabbat wasting seed going with a married woman um eating uh eating uh uh these 36 different sins that are cor if he does chuva if he does Chua for those things he's good if he doesn't do Chua he's no huh it's one it's the calls it the number one sin in all of Judaism calls it number one sin in all of Judaism to waste seed on purpose huh number no number three as far as there's three major sins there's three major sins that it's better off that a person di than make them one of them is to worship an idol better you better you die than worship an idol second thing is is to murder somebody better off to die than to murder somebody else cuz our blood is not more expensive and more valuable than his blood and the third sin is G is having illicit relations illegal sex crimes which is either wasting seed being with a woman that you're not allowed to be with even if it's your wife while she need or it's not your wife it's a non-jew it's better off that you die then make that sin these are the three cardinal sins huh third one is illicit relationships means sex crimes sex crimes like uh anything that has to do with anything has to do with uh uh intimacy pretty much having sex with a woman you're not to have sex with having uh uh wasting seed um you know pretty much those two those those Jud Jud the whole the whole because one it's not one sin it's the entire T somebody that waste seed on purpose on purpose because because let's say a person was testest test for your whole life right so the the have two questions number one question is mashia and all that so thear says there are three things that require the only way you're going to get them is with meaning a lot of sacrifice first thing first thing is T you want to have a lot of T you want to be a it requires a lot of self-sacrifice two today does not fit as sacrifices just convenience so in order to get to become a we have to learn a lot more than a day and even more than two hours a day that's to acquire it requires second thing is Israel someone wants to live in has to know that sacrifice is required to live in is third thing Isa anyone that wants to get TOA which is an eternal good Eternal amazing Eternal amazing times infinity has to sacrifice their entire meaning they have to overcome their desires overcome their bad midot and so on and so forth now Hashem created a world where you have a lot of desires a lot of different things that you could potentially sin and lose youra but he also created chuva this is why a person needs to do chuva every single day regardless of whether they're religious from birth or they B chuva whatever but a person needs to do chuva every day but chuva is serious chuva not just chuva like you know for sure you're going to sin because there's a it's also it says in someone that says I'm gonna sin and then I'll do chuva I'll sin now and I'll do chuva tomorrow I'll sin now and then I'll do Chua tomorrow that person hasem says is chuva is not welcome why cuz this ch is not really because he cares about what he did he's just trying to get like keep doing sins and he thinks that this is like a loophole he's treating my Torah like it's a Harry Potter book this is not a cha that we accept and not only that if let's say for example he doesn't keep Shabbat and he goes to Yum Kip he goes to yip he fasts he prays the whole day the whole night he prays everything is good but he continues he plans on continuing to be a Shabbat he's not planning on starting to keep Shabbat it says that yum kipur doesn't help him at all even yum kipur doesn't help him why he's planning on sinning he just it's a show it's just a show it's not a real thing so that's why the Tor is not a joke it's not a game now the fact that we're a weak generation and we're it's very tough and so on and so forth that's the gar already tells us it's not a told us it's very very hard to get to but it's not impossible because once you fulfill the Torah once you start learning it and you want to do what he says you actually start liking it how much do you like it you fall in love with it how much do you fall in love with it if you really know Torah it becomes literally number one in your life that any minute in your life that you're not learning or teaching or having any type of involvement with Torah is suffering for you this world become suffering for you because you become a ish KES I give you an example of a ish KES one time Steinman they wanted him to come to a certain event and he was already old and frail so somebody would help him get dressed so one time they wanted to buy the rabbi new socks he was very very you know he lived an ultra Ultra modest life they wanted to buy him brand new socks brand new socks so they put the first sock sck on fine and the second sack on they started putting it on he goes ah ow it hurts it hurts and he's old so you're afraid to like break a bone or something so the guy immediately took the sock off he immedately took the sock off you okay everything looks everything is fine okay he puts the sock back on oh it hurts it hurts he's screaming yelling it hurts it hurts where is it but they're looking there's nothing nothing there's no like uh nothing in there no plastic no metal nothing like what hurts she said we have to try it again oh it hurts it hurts it hurts it hurts it hurts and then he say we have to try a different pair of socks they put a different pair of socks everything was fine they said give it to what is this sock check it they checked the socks and they saw there's a little string of shotes shotes in the socks he didn't have to see it being Woolen and Lin linen and wool and the same being being tied together which is not allowed he didn't have to see it but his holy body felt it his holy body felt it meab not all to wear shes what do you mean we ches no it's that's why he took off the sock but he wor it for that second yeah for that second it's not it's it's an he's not wearing it he's not wearing it a because he wants to wear it he didn't it's unknowingly I Wasing he it still counts like he wore I mean as far as he wore it yeah he wore it but it's not like he he put it on himself listen if somebody's putting on a sock on your on your foot and you're feeling pain you're is you have nothing to worry about until we start feeling pain from shatz we're we're still trying to do CH just to keep just to learn to off for a couple hours a day the reality is is that the Torah is not supposed to to be easy it's not supposed to be walk in the park but it's also not meant to be impossible it's not impossible you can do it and the reason why I know for sure you can do it is two reasons number one I can do it if I can do it anyone in the world can do it I have a million and a half more excuses than all of you together if there was a person with excuses I was the guy he worked for me for I don't know 10 years he knows me from my past he work for 10 years I know him for a very long time ask him how many excuses I used to have every excuse in a book times it by a thousand every excuse you can want I had it money Fame Fortune whatever you want I had it I had all the excuses in the world hating loving all that stuff every excuse in a book I had if I can do it you can do it that's the proof number one number two it was given to you by your father in Heaven what does that mean all of you have parents you have a father you're a mother maybe they're both alive maybe one but the point is you have a parents you didn't come from some foreign planet now no normal parent no normal parent is going to say to their kid when they're three four five six seven years old hey my son my daughter go do me a favor and pick up the car or pick up the truck on top of your head go pick it up on top of your head let me see what it looks like he's not going to tell you that she's not going to tell you that your mom why because she knows you can't do it and because she loves you she's not going to give you something that she knows you're going to fail in she's not going to give you something she knows you're going to fail in which means which means that anything she tells you to do for sure she knows you can do it you may not want to do it but you could definitely do it are you saying that your mom and your dad love you more than God because by saying that I can't do it that means that God gave us something that we can't do our father in Heaven hates us if he hated us he wouldn't create us you understand our father in Heaven loves us he wants us to do good and that's why he gave us something good you can do all of it each one of you the ra it's from the r each one of you can be like each one of you doesn't matter where you were it doesn't matter where you are each one of you can be like mosu doesn't matter if you have tattoos or earrings here here here and here or you are T from birth it makes a differ everybody could be like mhu all you got to do is try your best just like mhu just like mosu everybody can beu there's no excuses there's no degeneration is weak the rabbi is there there's no excuses that's that's commits don't worry about the generation and don't worry about what everybody else is doing worry about you worry about what you're doing do your chuva once you start doing your chuva start helping other people but the reality is that if we're consumed with excuses better off not even start why you'll never finish excuses the world will end and the excuses won't the world the time for the world will end but our excuses won't end why there's no end to the excuses because the excuses come from the Satan himself he has every excuse in the book he's the master of excuses he's going to give you a good excuse not to go to beet he's going to give you a good excuse not to learn T he's going to give you a good excuse not to have kids he's going to give you a good excuse not to do a lot of things anything but that's the point by listening to him We're failing miserably so no more excuses this year will wake us up teach us a little bit about P the real purpose of P of P but the most important part of p is to know where we're coming from so we know where we're going amen amen [Music] [Applause] [Music] he [Music] he [Music]