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Russia welcome everyone thank you to urgentair Rally bald and the entire network for giving me the opportunity to share with you some divetaira in preparation for khardes typically the parisha that we read at the beginning of usually the way the calendar works out patches for a is the Parsha that we Lane at the beginning very often even Shabbos a teaches us the very important principle and that is that the Parsha of the week is connected to this man of the year even though it's something that we all recognize instinctively obviously the Parish of the week is connected but nevertheless according to the gemara the gemara only mentions specific instances where a certain parachute has to be Lane at a certain time the gemara says at the end of Magilla that Ezra was misakane that before schwus we lay in the kaisai and before Rosh Hashanah we landed from kisavai other than that any Powershell could really fall out any time of the year and one would then think that there's no specific connection between Hanukkah doesn't say in the gemara that a certain parish is connected to a certain time of the year but nevertheless says the schlach and if a certain parish is usually land at a certain time of the year there's a reason why it's slain at that time that parasha is specifically connected to that time of the year so the question we have to ask ourselves is what is the connection between Parsha Surah and why is it that parashas Ray is always the beginning of the most well-known REM is to the month of LOL of course were all familiar the pasta concerashiram Ani di rashe tavois that if we are for the ribunished will be for us of course this is of the words this corresponds to the 40 days the third time a Shabana went up to harsinai first time he goes up he comes down kaisor serving the egos so much he smashes he goes up again after a second time and this time the ivanishum says okay let's you know take two maishrabinu makes his Ascent he goes up and at the end of the 40 days my shavenu comes down and he hears the magical words for all time Yom Kippur was established as the day of sleep the 40 days 40 days here's a question the Rebellion has many names how many times in Hamish is how many times in state for voracious zero how many times and say for shemais zero how many times nowhere in the entire Columbus it's a beautiful name but it's not hashem's name he's not ever called doidi so why when it comes [Applause] where do we drum up that's the question why do we specifically use the word in connection with so let's start our journey tonight let's see how the first possible comparison is connected to the process of chuva says the villain number one noise saying here's the first impediment to chuva here you have a guy at 13 years old he made a bad decision he decided he's going to talk by Dominic he made a bad choice and he's been doing it for 10 20 30 40 years now it comes he wakes up he says you know but the guy says to himself Avada I believe in bakira you know I was once giving Ashira and um we were talking about free choice and somebody raised their hand by the way you know there's no such thing as free choice Hashem runs the world now Hashem makes a person do mitzvahiros so the guy was in his 80s and he's a kaifer but toy rakula he's an epicarus he lifts up a battle of wine and it's yeah he's a from Aid the guy who has a long beard but he's a kaifer he doesn't believe in bakira that's the fundamental principle of ayados that nothing compels us we have absolute free choice a person can make a decision to do the right thing to do their own but a person might think says the gra that maybe we only have bahira in the beginning of our life when we first set out in advance Hashem but once we make that initial decision to do right or to do wrong maybe we're locked into it you know a person might say I used to be able to learn or I used to be able to do certain Mitzvahs when I was younger but now that I took a certain path in life I'm locked in I can't Veer off of that that's not for me anymore no the first principle of chuva is noisane every moment in life a person has a free choice to choose again no one is lacked into type and no one is locked in Torah every moment in life a person is liberated from past choices and can make an absolutely free decision every moment in life is a new opportunity to choose good or bad says the gra here's the next problem the problem is okay I could choose but I feel so dirty I feel so solid I feel Unworthy of the Goodwill of Academia forget about what you did in the past the first step in chuva is that what was yesterday was yesterday what was last year was last year every day is a new opportunity every nashama has the ability to say it's a new opportunity it's a new Choice nothing I've done in the past will affect who I am today so you say it's too hard it's too overwhelming it's too difficult the hurdle is Too Tall [Applause] I'm with you I will help you if I will help you you could do anything it is too hard that's the truth is it is I I am with you I will give you the ability I will give you the strength so person might say okay great do we banish with me with me I'm gonna stay in bed to do everything that I need to do I don't have somebody told me they went to a macabo the guy doesn't learn a word and the mccobel told him don't worry the Revenge some loves you and he's gonna make sure that you do whatever you need to do in this world to get to islamaba nonsense no they bunch of not doing anything for you if you're gonna stay in bed the revolution is going to make sure you shliff gazunt you have to make the choice but at the end of the day it's your choice it's your decision it's your call you have to take the first step you have to make the first move that's nehem so the unless the person say but here's the problem but nobody else is doing it I want to do the right thing I want to be good I want to be a Sadiq but nobody else is doing the right thing so why can't I just do what everybody else is doing says rebanisham not but it doesn't matter what anybody else does doesn't matter what anybody else says everybody lives in their own world says the opening possible is addressing already the impediments of chuva and the the Notions that a person might have that will prevent him from doing chuva and therefore says every individual has their own Accra I'm Gonna Be With You noise saying every moment is a new free choice forget about the past ultimately you have to make the decision let's talk about Shiva we're good to start over no okay okay let's talk about chuva tuva is a process chuva works if a person does chuva it wipes away Navara can everybody do chuva is chuva available to all of mankind one would think yeah I mean you look through Tanakh you find Yana Yana was sent to the city of ninvee they were not yet in apparently chuva is a process that's available to all of mankind and nevertheless there's an incredible mattress if you have the matter of kindness if you look at number four on your sheets now this matters Town Huma asks a stirrah that the gemara and brachry's answers differently and Rosh Hashanah answers differently but the tanhuma has a different take on it there's one Hashem will show favoritism to you he will countenance you he will look away he will favor you because not show favoritism that the revolution will not countenance show favoritism not show favoritism answers it all depends there ain't nothing you could do is not going to count against you he's not going to show you favor that's the matter but then the mattress continues I would think that anybody could do chuva in Brooklyn they could do chuva in Florida they could do chuba in Nebraska they could do chuva if you're a yid you could do chuva if you're a goodie why not either works doesn't work says the medrish no you saw [Applause] um do we pass in this way this is how we pass again the base silicon just to be familiar with kadai to be familiar with the safer basilikim there are not too many svaram of rishinam written on shuva you have sharich you have the rambam you have them and then you have the basala Kim of the mabitrani he was a contemporary of the base Josef foreign foreign by the way so you asked what was going on in inve what was yoina telling them duchova but goyam can't do chuva the answer is they weren't gonna do chuva ultimately ninvee was destroyed didn't do chuva the posix says in 40 days will be destroyed and they were says the album is 40 and 120 years often means years in 120 years ninvee was destroyed that's what the navi said the navi says he's going to be destroyed it's going to be destroyed all ninvee was able to do it was able to defer punishment push it off but there's no concept of chuva Rabbi said there is no concept of chuva in life no somebody's standing in front of a judge the judge says you know you've been convicted of X Y and Z I've had a judge but you don't understand I'm guilty and I have I feel very bad and I'm never gonna do it again so that's it let me out so Joe said yeah Behind Bars you're never gonna do it again there's no such thing as true in life just because you feel bad about something okay good for you how does that remove from reality what you did there's a special matano toiva that the rebanishum gave claudi Israel a guy is not able to do that's what the murderer says the ma bites and the question is why other ya adarnished is it a real process is it a real mechanism if the revolution accepts the regret and the confession of a human being then it should work and if he doesn't accept it it shouldn't work why would it only work for Aid says this is the secret of chuva here's the problem somebody goes over to the king and somebody insults the king so the king happens to be he was just learning Musser he was just learning the gemara that says if you're insulted you don't insult back you hear your disgrace and you don't respond Allah so the king just learned to muster say there and a guy came in and said King you're you're a dummy and the King says I just learned to muster say foreign so then how could chuva work he did not Vera Hashem is the dictates of the Torah so you didn't have Vera how can the Revenge them it's a big Kasha the answer is because not only malkano ivanishum is avino so the kid comes into shul and the kids sitting in the father's seat the father could say stay stay why Ave says beautiful you know how chuva works the process of chuva is that the Republic is our father and therefore as the through the principle through the mechanism of they say but they say in the world aren't we all the children of the Lord you ever hear that we're not all the children of the Lord the um are not the children of [Applause] you are the children the way that shuva works is foreign [Applause] he's in big trouble he could stall he could push it off he could convert but he can't do chuva foreign that's right that's right the the if best in down here is nothing you could do that's because Dustin's not your father business the court you can't chuva will not help with bezen chalmata absolutely not you're right one of the reasons is how and how does best and how would best know if you did true or not how does best know if you had harata how does bezen it could be in the sarim that if a person does a genuine will orchestrate it that the best then will maybe make a mistake or bezen will acquit you but achuva doesn't help forbezen shamata so how does tuva work what's the engine what's the mechanism of chuva which plastic and Hamish is the mechanism of chuva bun him and the first parisha that we read in because and as we're embarking on the power the process of chuva the person thinks to themselves chuva that's wonderful but how's Revenge so I'm gonna be macabo my chuva the banish them is [Applause] so the first power is where we read That's step one that's the introduction to chuva the fundamental principle the basis the inside of chuva their engine of chuva the mechanism show the way it operates is through the principle of Bonham but they're different kinds of chuva you ever go to schulenium Kippur this is very strange practice that we have the end of the essay on Yom Kippur all of a sudden people they start confessing right they start confessing now if you were confessing how would you confess Ed and I killed a lot of people right you would think you'd use like uh a Snappy upbeat imagine a guy came in I stolen right what in the world are you doing foreign what in the world are we doing singing a Happy tune for video it means like you don't recognize you're doing something wrong you sing a happy tune when you have a cash register and you're counting the bills you don't sing a happy tune when you're standing in front of someone admitting to them what they did wrong you ever you know you need to apologize to your wife so he said why are you smiling you know that's the worst thing you could do you're smiling you're dead and you're we're singing a tune we're seeing a Happy tune what's going on Leo Rosh Hashanah we Dive In hirat signo increase our merits so we eat Marin so here we're sitting on the table we're not doing anything we're laying back we're being lazy and we're asking God God give us a lot of Mitzvahs says are you kidding me I should give you a lot of Mitzvahs you get off your chair and do them what do you want for my life the one thing the emotional can't do for us is he can't do midsource for us why would you ask the rebun or some to give you a lot of Mitzvahs you want to do the midspace there's something called open it up and learn it what do you want from the rebounder so man imagine you're sitting there with the gamaracos rebuner shalaim give me the gemara open it up learn it yourself what kind of feel is that I say no that's the one thing you can't diving for says the gemara and brochures where the ballet stands the completely righteous will never stand as if somehow the bauchovas on a higher pedestal than the sadakamur in what way is the balchuva on a higher pedestal we're talking about Azadi Gamora we're not talking about somebody who's doing things by Road he's doing he's serving Hashem his entire life from the time he's 13 years old he's thinking about is like the Baal shemt of his level of learning in London and this guy's about you he hasn't learned for 40 years exactly what did this balachuva do that that sadikum or didn't do in what way not talking about somebody who's doing it you know um there are two kinds of chuva foreign that intentional sins are downgraded to unintentional like the posix says you stumbled in your intentional sin meaning you did an intentional sin and now we're gonna say it's only a stumble it's only a shoyeg so from here we see if you do chuva intentional is downgraded to Shag egg Julius that through the other you'll live that the average will turn into a Mitzvah sisters says it's downgraded so here you guy who's driving 100 miles an hour he got 150 fine and points and he got an attorney and he got the points off and he pays the fine that's the first statement downgrade and then race Locker says no yeah you're driving 100 miles an hour and you regretted it and the judge paid you the 150 dollars so sistira says the gemara it's not astira Khan that if you do chew out of Europe it's downgraded it says like this you didn't have Vera you didn't realize you're going to be thrown into a hot oven if you would have known about the onshim of the Avera you wouldn't have done it so it's like you did the Avera so now the availa you did intentionally it's like a matter if you would have known the repercussions you wouldn't have done it so now we downgrade it to shoigeg but if you do chuva out of ahava then the others turned into a mitzvah says what we're davening for the night of Rosh Hashanah as we're saying there's really only one way to add to your merits without doing anything if you do chuvame Abba if you do then all the others that you've done are turned into midslice so a guy went to McDonald's if a guy went to McDonald's and now he does chuva may I have a it's a huh so you have two people you have one side the Gummer that sat in the basement his whole life the only problem is it's his bad Mazel he lives in 2018. so he was never very but this guy who used to be a Russia went to McDonald's for entire year every night then he did Shiva mayava when he gets up to shamayim he's going to be rewarded with hundreds of achilas carbon PESA um will never have them he'll never have the Mitzvah of gazela Geneva Shakira sharpness the port sadik is limited to the 248 mid slice the Russia the possibilities are endless you could do I don't even want to tell you and don't try this but if a person did do an Avera and they do chuma may have the possibilities are endless so limited in the ways he could come close to Hashem the person who does chuva the vast array of that you never heard of this guy has in his repertoire Vega the official biography of Vegas is the biography of Samsung said every Jewish Home must have this safer they asked should you have good Island books he said you should have the it was written by the son of the sav Cipher I see my friend from Torah Treasures he's gonna get it in tomorrow and he'll give me a commission yeah we'll make a deal later foreign so the gamara says we're trying to confuse the Satan says a famous shot that first we blow the Satan things were being Makai in the midst and then we blow again the Satan thinks mashiach is here and he skedados Rashi says a different shot look at number 17 says Rashi yastin we confuse the Satan we don't want him to instigate Israel then when he hears that claudiusra loves Mitzvahs Miss abdomen devarov he's silenced you hear the Rashi then when the sultan sees that we blow the sheifer twice and we love doing midsize the Satan runs away I understand if the Satan sees that we love Mitzvahs he should be instigating more he should want to be mikachu more he should want to interfere more why does the fact that we love mitzvahi stop the Satan from his kid rug by are very passionate you see until now the southern figures the light the level of chuva that we're doing the type of Chua that we're doing is so he starts reading to rebanishum the laundry list of qataram here's the guy he wakes up in the morning he comes to shul he's texting the whole davening and then he's talking about why didn't anyone tell him that the kafakhim says he's better not even coming to shul how come no one ever told him that he would have gotten more gun Aiden if he would have stayed home in bed and the whole the Satan's reading all the others that the person did and then the Satan sees that we blow the shepherd twice and the son says this guy loves if he loves Mitzvahs he's doing if he's doing Ava into the river I better keep my mouth closed [Applause] maybe we're going to do and he keeps his mouth closed because he's afraid that every Avera that he tells him the devotional is going to be mahapic says that Pharisees you know what the happiest moment of the year is that if we could squeeze a little avas Hashem out of our heart it's like we want a windfall oh [Music] what is it was that we were guilty and we did the average that we've done in order that that's why we say the osham because if we do the chuva May Ava then the laundry list of khatam that we have is actually a list of that are oi made for us as a mailitz and as we're gonna see on the yomadin actually the biggest hagana the biggest custom that we're going to have are the aviros that we did that the revengeham was mahape and we're going to explain that's the shot says if you never went to Burger King you were never Immaculate of the carbon pesach his words I'm not making this up look at number 22 says the Joshua hello it's amazing how close you could come to Hashem through average so here you have a guy you heard about this the biggest oyster in the world he's a multi-billionaire and he's mizavic his daughter with the guy his father is an univ Avion so the two Michael meet you know and the father of Hassan comes in he looks like a shematah and uh the father comes in he's immaculately dressed so father akala just says look we're not going to fool around here we know what's going on I'll take care of it I'll take care of it don't We're Not Gonna We're not gonna do 70 30 percent it's covered just do me one favor just get your kid a suit like you never saw he couldn't even get the kid a normal suit he went to you know he went to one of these stores you know buy one get 10 free and he got his kid a suit and the kids coming and uh gets into an accident on the way to the hasana he goes flying through the dashboard the suit rips he falls into the mud he comes into the disheveled dirty the suit is gone okay the schwer looks at the kid he said okay but we need a new suit this time he tells you're not buying the suit this time I'm buying the suit and when the sphere buys the suit he ain't going to a Hamish store to buy the suit he's buying you know he's buying a nice suit he says as great as any Sadiq will ever be you can never do even one mitzvah to which you could stand up and say this mitzvah is a perfect Mitzvah because every Mitzvah that will ever do will always be limited by human shortcoming there's only one way to get a perfect mitzvah and that is when you're not the one who did the Mitzvah but the Mitzvah was given to you by the revolution that if a person ate a novela but then had genuine harata and genuine and genuine Assad I'm the schwer now I ain't giving you a Mitzvah from uh a local store I'm giving you a custom-made Mitzvah I'm giving you my kind of Mitzvah I'm giving you a gem I'm giving you a perfect Mitzvah says we banished will give somebody who does far surpassed even amidstad you could have inside the Gummer who could have been learning in the basement their entire life but if somebody didn't have Aaron the genuine chuva his Mitzvah so emotion will be on a level that will make all the mits of more pale in comparison and therefore we come to the month of Elo and the revolution says don't settle in the month of Ella you should sit there but don't do the chuva just from tethering because if you just do the chuva from sittering then all the avoid noise are going to be downgraded Caesarean Asylum you know they're different kinds of credit cards you want to you want to have a premium credit card you want to have premium chuva if you want to make sure that the avaros are not just downgraded not just wiped away but elevated and upgraded and shined and Polished to the highest level you want to do a real chuva chuva may I have is what we're talking about for premium chuva says that's not the kind of Chua we're talking about [Applause] I am for my beloved the kind of chuva that we're trying to create and we're trying to accomplish foreign that's that's you know for big Sadiq looking It's the Final Chapter a regular Jew could a regular Jew have a sashem there are many levels of Abbas Hashem but every single year it has a certain Baseline fundamental feeling of avataracho it says look at number 24 Hashem like the love of a child to his father a child doesn't love their father because of it's avatives It's a natural love says he's your Tata therefore it is possible for a person not you don't have to go out and bring it home bring it in it's there you need to draw it forth you need to bring it out you ever wonder it's one of the 613 Mitzvah centers very interesting writes in the safer said that the same way you don't eat before the Avenue you don't eat before you put on your filling you want to make sure that you've accomplished the basic mits of say the arise in the morning before you even eat what about it's also one of the 630 Mitzvahs says do not go home from shul in the morning until you could check off that today I was makayam the Mitzvah of Ava sashem foreign it takes two seconds the same way you put on filling you know in the morning how many mitzels Ma Torah cities Hashem don't go home don't start until you know you've been making that mitzvah even to little children so that means madriguez madrigo there are many many levels of ABBA sashem just uh just basic idea what's the difference between Ava and the vacas you know we Linked In last week's passion what's the difference between Ava and the vehicles rights the vehicles means that the feeling of Abbas Hashem is permanent in your heart you're always enraptured Hashem that's the vehicles but Ava is just even if lefrakim even if upon occasion a person is so uh a few months ago I had the privilege to speak in London there's a very important um item in London that it's the only place in the world that these still exist telephone booths right on every corner there's a big red telephone booth and the telephone booth serves a very important purpose so Victor Miller used to say that at least once a day ayid should say remember how he used to say I love you Hashem the only thing is people are gonna think you're crazy so I would say that you know people know already it's okay but if you're worried so he would say you go into a telephone booth and you make a long distance phone call you know and you say I love you Hashem but nowadays revanchum gave us a new invention we don't need a telephone there's something called I don't know if you know about there's something called a cell phone that a lot of people they holster it onto their belt like a gun like a weapon and you could actually take it out at any time of the day and they're people I don't know if you've ever seen they're walking through the streets as cars are coming and hitting them they're still on the cell phone so if people are attacking using it you know all day long why not you take the opportunity to make this to say their resin if you're too embarrassed you could text it also it also works but if a person would squeeze a little Ava sashem until they're chuva and take advantage of the fact that the month of Ella is not Anil Miller Kim Lee then their chuva will become Dynamite then it will be the happiest moment of your life then the ashamnu will sound like this he quotes from a very important safer called I don't know he quotes in the safer Sovereign story so there's a kid playing by the uh Seacoast and all the kids are playing they're playing dodgeball and one kid goes all the way down to the water he's not playing with the rest of the kids and he looks like he's doing something very strange and the kids look what in the world is this kid doing and he has this stick he has a flag and he's waving the flag he's waving the flags so the kids Cloud come play with us why are you playing by yourself what are you doing so the kid says no I have something very important to do he said they said what's going on I'm waving a flag so who are you waving at I'm waving at the ship so you look out in the distance and they see you know what their binoculars this little speck you know slowly moving across the Horizon they said what do you mean you're waving at the ship the ship can't see you not only could the ship see me he says I'm waving my flag at the captain of the ship see where you can't even see the ship hat how do you expect to see the cab they said no not only am I waiting at the captain I am confident that the captain of the ship is waving back at me so yeah why are you so confident he says because the captain of the ship is my father that's why I'm so confident why are we so confident in the month of ello that if Anila doidi says that if we put our best foot forward why are we so confident that the Rebellion will respond in kind and return to us and as we wave our white flag of chuva that the evolution will wave back at us how do we know how could we be so certain and if you came just to hear this it was could I there's a very frightening Gamora the Aus this is a very frightening gamara I ask you a question honest question a person sits and show the whole Yom Kipper and fast the entire day let's say a person fast the entire day what happens to their hatayam absolutely nothing what does Yom Kippur accomplish zero and Kipper doesn't do anything we don't pass in like Webby Robby says maybe if you're lucky you lost the pound or two but that's it shuva without chuva nothing will ever happen to anything come people open up their checkbook we're building a Shoal in the five towns I have good organizations you could give to writing out a check has absolutely nothing to do with you it's not gonna do anything when you give money to Sadako what happens to a hate nothing sadaka is not chuva she was three things foreign capara if a person violates an assay they woke up late one morning they missed this man kushima if they do chuva bam immediately their Avera is wiped out they do not need Yom Kippur Yom Kippur doesn't do anything for mits as I say it's not needed for Mrs I say chuva gets rid of Mr SASE alive and they did shuva the Avera is not wiped away you need shuva and then Yom Kipper that's one of the reasons we have a sued the air of Yom kippers to show the whole year we're worried what if we don't make it to you I'm keeper what's gonna be with all the Lavin that we did chuvan that the chuva is ineffective for until Yom Kippur comes foreign [Applause] Yom Kippur is a very limited and specific medication Yom Kipper's over um my nesham is clean don't fool yourself Yom Kippur only works for Lavin it's gamara and by the way this way that this Gamora is only talking about shuvamira because if you do chuvamira then the maze it is downgraded to shoigeg so downgraded to shoy gig there's still a remnant of the Avera so you need your I'm keeper Misa but if you do chew them says you don't need your Kipper you don't need you surim casual you don't need Misa if a person does in one moment that's why the bunchem reminds us it's not aniley Kimberly Kim Lee I want to give you the opportunity premium chuva right now you don't need Yom Kippur [Music] foreign that's the mechanism of chuva that's the first message of the Torah and so I'll tell you a story my father told me many years ago so my Maize was a rough in Pittsburgh since 1951. and as a Pulpit Rabbi one of the one of the big jobs as a rabba you have to officiate at an unveiling why you need a rabbi at an unveiling I have no idea but it's good for the paranasa you know so you call on the rabbi he reads the grave and he reads the chapter of Psalms you know because you need to you need smika to be able to do this and uh that's a big job of the rabbi so but my grandfather was not uh well at the time he just had surgery so my father stepped in and this uh big six foot five Western Pennsylvanian man comes to the door in his big pickup truck and he says rabbi I'm going to take you out to the uh Cemetery I have a couple things to show you so it takes my father out to the cemetery and he says rabba see this this is my aunt this is my aunt see this this is my uncle my brother my sister you know he's showing Graves like he'd be showing off a battle camp collection is my son this is my daughter no emotion cold like a rock this guy is in a big rough guy and then he shows the grave of his father and his mother who passed away 50 years earlier and he breaks down crying like a baby for his father and mother the first emotion planted in the human heart in a way is the strongest emotion the love for a parent even though one would say you know you love your child more than more than anything else in the world that's the strongest love right but even so the love of a child comes later in life the first Ava that's nitzbah that's programmed into the human heart the love that you're born with into this world is the love you have for a parent that's the most basic love says massage the love for who is an avativist it's a natural love it's not a big madrega you just have to access it you just have to pull it out he's your father we're in davening is the midst of ABBA sashem in the beginning of Shema how could you tell somebody to love something either you like it you like spinach you don't like it love it love it I'm telling you have to love it either you love it you don't love it you can't force somebody alone how could we run some command us to love him but there is a way in this world that you will automatically love some someone who loves you someone else says what does it say right before the middle Israel loves you and you feel it then it's natural it's upon him foreign for the very inspiring Joshua although tadaka as the road said may not it's not chuva but it still helps on the husband of Mitzvah at least until Rosh Hashanah according to the firstim after Ashana is a different story but till Roshana now holding before USANA Sedaka still house for the husband for the Mishka of Mitzvahs and Alvarez and a perfect opportunity which is now to help against your 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