Chinuch Questions And Answers - Rabbi Zev Smith

he was told that he's really doing an outlet that was giving the children the candies and they're eating before Abdullah so is that a problem of native if you're able to get to do another but as we'll see there's really a more serious issue here in fact someone told them sometimes the boys don't make a process so there's a double listen but he heard that epis that when it comes to food you don't deny a child you give a child to eat even if he doesn't make a broadcast even before kids and the truth is as we'll see today this question about giving food to children in the wrong time to give him out of the sukkah as we'll see it's a timely and Timeless giving milk after meat if you don't wash Attila see Italian fascinating child up we're twice here we all become Candyman we give our children the clothes to give them before kidish so basically as we'll see this question is it takamoto to give a child food to eat because the child needs food he's right and he's wrong but the problem is he's more room than he's right and I will learn the sugar will sing the Emma says that the we have a big agenda today is in the in the abdoma but basically there's a midst of the rice which is really two parts a parent has the magana patrol to do mits this and also prevent the child from doing aveos is only on the parents if a yid see a child doing a very is not his child he doesn't have to stop the child we pass again if you're not a parent it's not your business I always tell the bathroom Brothers it was like to beat up the younger children there's no heal it's only on parents is also the mother and also Henner has a certain age the age of the child is able to do that Mitzvah because the exact share is very hard to say it depends on the child and depends on the mitzvah but basically this is very clear the Mitzvah is number one and number two only if you're a parent so now we're left with a unacceptable conclusion does that mean that I could go with a child and give them tires to eat and could a parent give a child a child therapist it doesn't sound right maybe this came to my lathe but is it true there's no problem of giving a child typhus can a person put a child on an outfit that contains sharpness and has to be your child so here we come to the inside of today basically it's a gemara in the end of the Obama's coffee with gemara darshan from three different sookin the instant that we're going to refer to today which is the site of today are called Safina it says hey and igamara is concerned it already says why the posseck repeat this whole busting foreign to put this very clearly there's an inside every single yet me and you we can't Supply Safina means to provide your supply we can't give any child even if it's not our child we can't give a child to do an Issa he's talking about this obstruction the Umar makes a sick quotes a second bust regarding this of them don't give any child even not yours dumb to drink and the third the most famous mrv America regarding Kahuna lahazuktana you can't take a baby Cayenne into an oil mace of this is of sphere or Safina which is one of the same is two parts first of all the east of three is even if it's not your child even a stranger don't give a stranger to paraphus foreign explore discusses and Aces and Asia's Korean that has a baby because she can't bring that child into Loyola maze now you have to realize if I give a baby Tire face because the babies and I can't give a child to office because the child is too young it's an issue of Safina and your life is an Issa wearing sharpness I can't give another Yiddish a child to doing this and this is Mr burub and shin man gimbal so you've gotten download spells this out so we have basically two different Eastern one is finna on the parent and number two to give him typhus or give him any insta for that matter even a non-parent and even lawyer we have a lot of problems the candy man should not give a child to eat before kill this ah he's not his child Safina how do you give your child to eat before kidney before kids before The Happening I will say I'm not feeding the child but that's wrong because good morning Shabbos that Savage discusses giving a child a hug of tummy a tray for Grasshopper And as Rashi explained as it is of Safina you're giving it him to play with but he's going to eat it and that's a kiddish you're giving him a live hug up and it's it's considered Safina because first he'll kill the God and then I'll eat it so we see Safina is laughed after putting it into his mouth it's giving him the opportunity or setting up the situation supplying with Innocent so now we have a host of questions giving them to eat before Abdullah before kidish as we said the Candyman is a problem and we'll soon see many other problems giving him milk after meat it's endless so maybe we'll suggest the following truth is the rise of Safina and I must tell you like most be sure their eyes it's based on silky but maybe the only is of Safina is when you give him an isotherizer to do after all the trips took him about damn schwarzan and Tomah they're only sued with their eyes who said if you give him to eat before the happening or before kidish which at Moses there are born on maybe there's no Safina or maybe you'll say that explains what stack of the reason for the east of Safina is later so once the it says don't train the child to do with student maybe it includes either abundance also or as we said if the three people are talking about their Isis who gives you the right to extend it to history with your opponent and indeed nationally he writes that by is no it's of Safina like this Raj but you could give your child to eat before kiddish before Abdullah without a bracha milk after me because they're only sweet Deb on but the problem is that the rajba himself concludes writes that even by an Institute are born on CE base writes what I said what I wrote in the circus so the ram the rasp himself basically says it's not Lamesa so now we have that even the rajver agrees that is that's a Phenom applies and I imagine that's why in Chicago right you can't give him any isab even what's awesome medivray sorry for him and that's the random ship that he didn't even mention the Raja now you might think it's a little strange because it is [Music] but I'll tell you something that's even more surprising maybe he says let's say a person gives another yid to eat the person is but the one that gave him that is or even at the rise of naiva why you gave him a message who cares if it's their eyes they're born so we see that the one that's eating is not eating there instead of on him but the one that's with the Eva is doing the rice so it's not so outlandish to say that the same applies to Safina so we're going to have to say that even though the rajva is making so now we have to deal with giving before kid dish to eat before Abdullah without a broker milk after meat and economics but they're still Safina So La Mesa there is an extremely important word that we have to learn which is a big Hector in our studio in Yuma this is the following cloud you're allowed to allow the child obviously a child that's not bar mitzvah to eat drink sikha the only history because he can live without leather shoes means he needs for his growth for his development like us now this is the side well the word reply you mean it's what he needs it for his health for his growth for his development and basically Mario says there's no insta on the child in a Yom Kippur now as we'll soon see in those days they wash their children regularly the police community and today we don't wash children so they don't have the Yom kippa but is perfectly motor to a child until he gets to an age of 12 he doesn't fast even 12 some people don't fast today because we're weak but no doubt about it we beside you mean that since he needs it there's no answer of Safina and I'll give you one beautiful illustration there have been a new time in a safe he writes there that there was some from Up that refused to feed their children even though it was a bit it was young children they told you I want to eat eight I'm not giving you because I don't believe on Safina his response he says that they're they're being overly from because even though this is safenon that's when the child could survive without it but don't forget they musty damn Kipper the gamara and Yuma and therefore there's nothing wrong with feeding a child on Yom Kippur even though that seems like it's a phenon and the BET really is you're giving a child this but a yam Kipper that needs it for his development and his health the parents allowed to actually feed his child there's no way say something on so this is what the world we're going to use is with busayo what he needs it for his development this motor I'll give you the sabrasa origin we passed out what he needs why because the child by definition is weak he's frail so it seems that the same idea applies to ribusayu and indeed allowed to give a child to eat or drink Mr Brewer says it's not Safina because this is I'd rather than Mr Brewer there does end but there's no heads up today at least regarding Vegeta because he doesn't need your pizza so we have the special Hector called ribisai now the truth is you think about it from the original source a child does not have to eat dumb or shrutsen that's why it's Anissa of Safina but yeah but he can't fast the whole day now before we apply this more specifically we have to say one more Hatter another just about another keyword foreign you're giving the child an Issa of drinking without kiddish the child's not eating there does not make them soothing for the child as well ah you'll give it to it so that's wrong first of all subpoena applies how can you make a bracha and make a dish so the magnavram struggles with this and he says well maybe the only safety is by an Issa this is a Mitzvah a kiddish maybe the fact that it's not alive is then he continues maybe his mother because the child but he rejects that what he comes with it seems to be his real turrets is that Safina is awesome but not something that's Heather this man is and now we're going to use the word of an Isis money all these are giving him damn or even Thomas is awesome don't give a child an issue but here it's perfectly close to Wine the only problem is it's before it's not about computer that's an Issa tolly bismar foreign so basically we have the following that something that's totally in his mind is says the same you saw it but he adds a few keywords a cost of Master him the tiger gave it over to trazal to figure out when it's awesome now this is an important point because it always bother me how can we make her by Safina if it's either is giving us the answer we find regarding halamoid which is or or such a terrarium here it's also a horizon but the Tiger game to say when it's also when it's not and evidently since the isurim of Safina are all is [Music] maybe something that's just a time-related Issa because the wine is motor and one is you want to sit down and have a suda you could drink the wine if it's only time related there's no it's a Safina and what I found really beautiful the usual Perry base oh it's Olive has a new plastic that is an east of Safina regarding Hamas on PESA so Takashi that everybody asks is why do you have to have a fourth plastic what's wrong with the first week and say who I did my beautiful it's kosher bread what happened to be the wrong days you wait eight days it's perfectly motor so you have to have a special cribbage that even though this is my name is it is will soon apply this to myself when the child meets his development number two there's a header of an Issa zamani with only a time-related Islam and a question will have to which we don't pass you like but it's good to know the rajpas hector Maybe by in this side so now sit back and enjoy and learn all of these questions and when it's looked at when it's a problem I think the most common question we have children we have grandchildren we give them breakfast at home and then you go to yeshiv and David and Yeshiva the Bell starts to ring what about Safina you're giving him and don't forget it says so the answer what's the head to give your child to eat before The Happening we have all three ethereum first of all he well after night's sleep the child is hungry he needs breakfast he needs Kaya number two the food is kosher it's just before the happening and also like the rajma it's beautiful here because the Mahaba says you're allowed to give him to eat before the evening and what he's saying is just like you got to eat before Candice he let it before it's happening foreign so he does add if he doesn't need the food so let him wait but the rav and Mr Brewer and Simon both say you allowed to give a child to eat before darwining because of the we beside you that's a good idea child and say listen we adults don't eat before the happening but you need it and we want you to eat before darling it's better than Daven to eat to hurry up the Avenue but he has to eat before he goes to Yeshiva he needs the Kaya but what's another important question which is very standard a child comes on Hanukkah time five o'clock 5 30 and he wants to have supper like he always has tell him I'm sorry we can uh you know that I eat they have to like America the fast coming on for 6 30. is it also for the child to eat before in their hanukkahima to remind them or he eats a snack I'm talking about a full-blown meal so past this we have all three I tell you number one we're beside you you don't want to stop the child he's hungry number two it's not an Issa the full discussion is this is money and later it's Elizabeth regarding the aluminum writes a little sarcastically episode where don't give a child to eat because whenever it doesn't cost them any money that's very right but it means to say it's really motto but let me tell you share with you a treat that I found the marshag and the two vehicles discusses this question of giving a child to eat before a Mitzvah again a lot of mixes so he doesn't like the book of Ram's Head of this is money he says it's they don't find in a gamar it's a very good score but we don't find it before the magana from beside you maybe you could wait but this is classic Martian I have another handsome or maybe there's no problem in the first place there is no Institute before a mitzvah none of us if you have a Mitzvah to do with a Mitzvah so you have an entity before you do a Mitzvah the Issa of eating before a Mitzvah is dependent on the tree of Mitzvah if you ever is it the immigrative you can eat before you do limits but a cotton has no mitzvah a cotton spots of a mixes as we know the love this is not the child so if he has no Mitzvah to do anything there's no issue and that's what he says but he has an unbelievable analogy this again this is classic Martian before Kura is but he can't eat tarfus these parts of a mix is not to be sue him so frag them are shag why don't we say that he can't eat because of eating the four mitzis Swiss there's no Institute before The Happening so the mashaga has a whole new Hector that a child is no Institute before a Mitzvah because he's okay on the father now let's see how much you can we could apply visa so it is including the Martian let's say a typical case of people are traveling and the child is hungry wants to eat a sandwich but there's no washing facilities in a car some planes also don't have the ability to wash so the question is is there a heter to give a child to eat bread without Nutella and that's a problem because the ensure of the end of course says don't feed someone bread if you want washed with naiva but we weren't lost about Safina even if it's not your child so the embassy that's the way it should be done if indeed you could stop by a road stop and let the child wash that's what should be done the question is if it's if it's eating without washing or not eating at all let's say you can't stop this would be a Hector of If the child is hungry now typically there are other Foods you could eat and tell them to wait for the sandwich but if it's a question the child is hungry it's wrong to the private child because again this is the head of river beside and the lung the London could clear is it is there a head of the magana Rama of an Issa zamani maybe Taco before washing is like eating typhus the bread is not great but he didn't wash his hands he's Tommy so you could follow them a little bit if there's if they had the Magna drum applies but it's often that if the child is hungry it would be beside but again as the I saw the beneficial the child is hungry they would be a header to give him to eat without washing but this is only he has his own problem he can't eat before washing so he should find a way to wash to give a child to eat that will not make a bracha again so how can you give a child to eat without a broccoli so could be the same you saw it that it's not an Issa of the Hafeez that it's perfectly kosher food the only issue is Al Safina so again Avada Nevada when you're a Candyman gives a child can he say make a brother you could do both you could make a Brock and you can eat but with the truth is we do have the head of the Marshall it's very possible that the martial of Safina would apply If the child has no hip to make a problem then maybe there's no intervening without a broccoli and I saw tackle the the the the Hanoi that's a Bianca is safe in the beginning of Perry could download he clears the child up in giving a child to eat without a bracha is that an Issa because just like eating without a brock is more out like Azalea maybe giving a child to eat without a broker is like you have to show himself like you like Escape as a guzzle but FCC F says but it's not a hype but that's awesome so again the right way to do it is tell the child make a broken if he's a lawyer and you're afraid he won't make a broken this is what to be saying this is Mani as we said and also if it's written say you of the child if again if between Messiah the child now the truth is it has to be mutter because if you can assume that you can't give a child D without a broken how could you feed a baby who can't make a broken Bianca Blake points out it has to be there's a Hector at least by Allah regarding the question of giving a child to eat before kidish so you have to realize even if we're not parents we're grandparents so there's no grandparent but you give your grandchild to eat without care this should be necess Athena even a Benjamin even a non-parent but here we have the whole mug and Abram that we mentioned that this could be beside you of the child it could be another Issa of the faiths and Michigan you're allowed to give a lawyer to eat without kiddish of course it is to make sure he makes he has kiddish but typically the children that go to the Candyman are Loya and remotely but there's one fundamental question that we have to clarify which nigaya tiankippa and other Childs as well a very basic question with us we find in the gemara Yuma in hastaman base that you're allow to give a child eating because you can't fast is that across the board Hector any fooled his mother there's no it's the food to a child there's no Safina or maybe the head is because we're beside you and a lollipop is not right beside you of the child it's maybe supports the dentist but it's not the child that's needed for his development maybe we'll say the health is food that he needs potato chips and popcorn is a food that that has a certain amount of nutrition but a candy salmon developed around maybe it's not that's not good beside you so here the question is is beside you cross the border all food or what's necessary for his development so the truth is we might be able to deduce a mascara because two of the three is safinan are food stuff damn I mean not a very popular food but they drank down and schwarzen was a food and yet this is Safina obviously it's not all foods that are it's food that you need knew that a child has to eat we saw the what I mentioned earlier the the side of the that was to decide what's awesome what's not and could be categorically food stuff are excluded on the east of Safina so I found a wonderful safe he points out the boucher's throat Rapport Franklin all seem to learn that the head of South Africa is what the child needs but stop gnash that he doesn't need and I mean I mean candy they have no nutritional benefit there's no head of ribisayu or other foods that have no nutritional benefit should be avoided for a child but he does point out the yadafrayim and that's the mascon of the Orleans across the board after any food so the Candyman can he give a child to eat on Yom Kippur lollipop or as well as we began with before kidish we could say it's not so positive now the truth is sometimes your child's hungry he said sure and does nothing else to eat but lollipops so that might satisfy his crate for food so maybe that's mutter but it's taka not so positive to give some things that are not do not eat any nutritional benefit that might not be the healthy side interesting question which I never looked into until this past week but it was fascinating to me the camera said we we give the children cloyers in to keep them awake now today if you give your child uh walnuts he's gonna sue you for abuse but today it became candies and chocolates and Allah but you ever wonder when is this meaning in effect you give your child or grandchild candies what is that before Kurdish or we have to kill this let's say the mother's home with the grandchildren they're running around and they're falling asleep should they should she give them to eat candies it's before kiddish I don't think Dominic is is able to be over on an Issa of eating before kidish when is the meaning of giving Chloe is it before kadish Safina Africa this is perfectly fine and we have to make it broccoli but it's perfectly fine foreign before kids you're running into a problem of Safina but the truth is if we assume that that they're hungry and it's needed if you give them a a decent snack that might be the header of it beside you it might be the hector of the magana from it's not an Issa of Taurus before kids you give him a a good snack and that basically beside you it's not not an Issa on the graphics released with the Justified the meaning of giving place that goes in before kids regarding giving a child to eat before Abdullah so you have to realize that he's not fasting that job it's not a kind it's alive but the child you already ate to Sue this he just finished all the shooters so maybe Riverside doesn't even apply because you can wait till I go and especially don't forget eating before Abdullah is and typically developed this before Abdullah you wait for Abdullah you're not hungry you could manage but if someone says the child didn't eat whatever he's hungry so this is what to be saimah Khan and we could assume that hopefully that the means of escura is someone that has an easy to eat before Abdullah If the child does not have no Institute because if he needs it for his development again but typically the HR students let him wait a few minutes and you'll hear up though an extremely challenging child who just had just about a month plus ago is Tish above that falls on Victoria Shabbos Let me refresh your memory we typically make up doll of course natoya Shabbos when I can eat until Sunday night so we don't make up doll till Sunday night we make the broke up there but nothing else the question is a child who is not fasting obviously and he's playing and having a lot of America that night why not it's a lot of Shabbos he wants to eat does he have to make half dollar before he eats again we don't make a dollar because we don't eat so we don't need a dog he's going to eat so and it's not so hard to make Abdullah take a cup of grape juice you don't need we don't use the salmon there the fire is making any help and you can make a bell and he can eat this is totally in the above because if we can assume that a child's allowed to eat on matai tishima and since he's allowed to eat there's no issue of eating before Abdullah as we said it's only this is Mommy so then July to eat before have done so why should it maybe a throma and drink or via some wine foreign if you don't need it don't do it but maybe beside that I had to to eat anything it means when you have no other choice you gotta eat if you have a choice make up dollar and then you could eat better and the truth is so now the question is but he could avoid the hector Beside You by making a Bella first and eating Vegeta so the material this skin and the consciousness seems to my career that he should make Abdullah usually is he might come to drink wine more often but then he said that doesn't apply he knows why he's making up dollar because he's a cut there's a very thorough tour of the kleisenberg and there are Yachts of similaration gimmel who who's emphatic about it that a child should not eat before Abdullah so the child will have to make a dollar and ask his own to hate but as you know Dominic is not like that and the meaning is that a child amatoya Shabbos eats without a villain he is Abdullah Sunday night I why is the child different than a coil that has to eat that makes up dollar so thirds we have all of our head table if it's not it's it's his money this is Hector that the issu is a product a cotton better off not to make up dollar but really there's another key factor here is practice when he gets old he does it also but when he gets older he's not going to be a cotton he's not going to make half dollar s so I this year yes somebody asked him but so so what's so why do some people do makeup dollars as far as a good smarter so he says yeah but maybe when he gets older he'll be a hoiler now as a child to make up dollar because if becomes a god that's where he explains the Muriel discus I didn't ask him to make Abdullah I try to explain those that do make up dollar but he himself seems to hold seem to hold that Dominic is not the makeup dollar and the sweater is and when he gets old he's not gonna make up doll besides that there's no is it to eat for him before Abdullah and there's no escarole so why drink wine unnecessarily again if someone says his meaning is to make a dollar for a cotton I can understand that but the minute seems to be that we don't make Abdullah and we rely on the head of the bisai but I want to mention two points number one let's say you come with your child to shoot and you want to give them something to eat and shows to keep him busy we study lady before kids but by giving him a pickle to carry you're you're really helping him carry your Safina and the Israelites up now the truth is when a child carries for a parent that's a very serious essence of their eyes on the parent spot that's kind of like I'm talking about the child's carrying a peckle for himself so here we have this we have the hector of the Raj but if it's not of surrounder Isa the child is carrying in a caramelisk and that's for his purposes that's his way beside you and the rajbah says there's no way but says to be Allah but but for the child to carry a cinder or a Satan for the father definitely wrong of the parent but let's say he's caring for the child carrying for himself and it's at their born on situation it's not a zombie racer would be allowed like the Raj would to give a child the pickle to carry to sure now if you live in a place that is the head to the garage won't apply I would beside you today afternoon if the child is nothing else to eat then you can let them you're allowed to give a damn or let them take it if he's alive now of course he can't carry but Allah that needs the food if he takes it on his own he'll say hello to let him and even to give it to him we have the head the base on the Raj but if there's a heads up buy a drabon another fascinating sugier the the Blazer Tales of laser good one of the greatest London of his times and gives it behind briska he had Aura LA maisa or actually in the and the law of the certain he was he cleared this a child allowed to nurse in the mother until the age of five the question is on Shabbos why is it we're assuming that nursing like how the looking account was Allah so why is this a Safina If the child could manage without that close this horror from a Blazer tells them he said but the Maison Dominic is that a child does nurse so miss almonds discussed if a child can nurse right before this mandatory Shabbos let the child wait a few minutes and the truth is this sound seems to be Safina ah it's a young child to a young child so the basic turret is it's not an insta capture you have the rash bisecta not trade and also this is really beside you chewy doesn't need it but lamai said this is his development and Kaka although you hear this occasionally today we have a viable options there are formulas maybe there's no head to nursing but that's already playing with their birthstones World they've also made a world that that Mother's nurse that's when you say you and we don't have to worry even though we could think that it's their Isom maybe even the rise of that doesn't apply if this is the characterize but the head is this is a real rip inside moving on to uh sometimes a child wants to eat matzo air Pacer he doesn't want to he's he's tired of potatoes and Brady can't have can a child be given mat to every PESA so the chuma sedation was he asked this question and he said now we could wonder why everybody and it could be right beside you but says the rap who says that you Sebastian wants a child is of age that he knows about CPT as the Triumph so he has to wait to eat much like the rest of us until at night now obviously he's not being same behind the head beside you could have other Foods you want to eat the mats okay but you can have other Foods yeah your development doesn't need the match it's your taste that is not ahead and talk in tough eye and olive sea Bay the Mahaba quotes this from sedation and the age of Judea about sea particular Triumph the tokyakov says the age of five or six so a child over five or six should not be given much on every PESA I don't know why but I'm telling you they write my Hagen when a child has the comments on pesach what do we do evidently they didn't have so many different Alternatives like we have today and a child that was weak needed Hamas are PESA but then they Hagen to give a child what do you do now this is tricky because the logistics don't even make sense because a parent can have comments outside and also we can't feed our child forget about subpoena you can't feed a pet lahab though so but the child needs comments so both of ramen took place Mr Brewing both places say the question is if I have a guy feed my child now of course not the guy takes my food because it's my problem the guy takes his food and I wasn't kind of the food I say do me a favor he's doing it on his own with his food the question is is there an Issa Safina very interesting question Safina means I Supply my child let's say I tell a guy to supply my child is that included in Safina maybe it's only been an eye giving or maybe I'm supplying by telling the guy so this is you it's it's you are causing the child to have himself and don't forget xiaomi says is a real Safina and there was a boy is but I can understand it that there's even tempt in my life when you eat comes on PESA even though it's called soup bread but for eight days it's in is so it's probably an Instagram if there's an is a symptom of life but then again the fact that the child very much needs it you'll be surprised I'm giving a job I'm having a child be fed commented by a guy the answer is you stay out of it don't use your own you don't have comments the guy will give his comments and hope that like to see this is no Safina Ayah Charles is a problem but if he needs it again today we don't rely on this head that we have other foods and don't forget about the symptom Factor as well the someone asked me an interesting question to go back a few weeks ago he had a four-year-old child can you give a meat during the nine days and the truth is that question is a lot more challenging than it seems because the truth is that we find that Allah we climb the nine days we don't wash or we don't wash clothing of a child even a young child so the reasons given is availas of a silver has to be complied by all the parent when the parent sees I can't wash my children's clothing unless of course he needs there's nothing else to wear I must message the parent is why the parent cannot be all do things for the child and that's why the Dogma River in tough government and um like this to give a child meat over the age of three even though he's he doesn't know what Avail is all about but as the parents are Bayless you should not give the child to eat meat now that sounds fine but the question is what about you beside you we assume that meat is very important for the child's development I mean today they're worried about it the cholesterol but what about bisayu and taco consumeration with verb feels that it is the outlet seon and Allah and you had known they say facade because the meaning of nine days is basically fashion Adams was a cowboy so it's a really tricky issue that really it's a tissue bug issue of availas for the father to see the child not eat meat but if a child really needs it so until age of three all agree you'll have to give a child meet above that age even though he's I wonder what the age of who feels that fails even some adults don't feel heavily it's a little trickier issue but zip up above three years old Dominic of ashkenazim Dominica above three don't give a mate if a child needs it if he's weak then it was what to be saying even above the age of three is okay let me be very clear the minute the bahaba and that's the meaning of Israel were not Croatia had from that war but we you're allowed to feed your child because of the that's the right age and there's no problem the food because the child has to eat the food the the question which is about to eat because he needs it but once he ate and is enough to live on to feed the child more than he needs which is very challenging you have to know if the child is just to stop eating or if he needs it but there I the police can say and the child wants to eat you'll have to feed him and now if they ask him if this is just extra the other question that we began with the the Candyman doing his job on Yom kippa that's question this is not a question of eating extra food there's a question of eating food that's not right beside you in the first place and there are those that hold that just like on Tish above and a kindness for cloud a person has to eat should not eat fancy foods the child should also respective with the tea board so the Candyman has a day off I am now you might reason well Tish above is availas but it's not that type of young that is a child so I can't say it's wrong but the Candyman should have a day off onion Kip hey another interesting question which okay assume is a child eating out of the circle so of course as we know remember the camera a cartoon emo he's an independent and mature enough that he can manage on his own it's high of deed in the circle the police can give the age between the age of four and six depending on the maturity of the child especially with the father in The sukkah so we are pretty much Christ at it before on a child that's a mature child should eat has to eat in the circle now you have to realize that for a parent to give a child to eat out of a circle who's ready six years old the holidays is higher but also you're giving a child to Vanessa for a stranger or period for a a caring grandmother just eat that don't want the sucker it's too far If the child is being or even Safina the only Shayla is what about the bisayu the child it's food he's eating he's eating a tuna fish sandwich there's this question and the truth is I must tell you that the other ineza has his religion Simmons that besides the midst of eating in the sukkah there's an estimating out of the circle so you don't even have the hector that it's only a Mitzvah not an Issa this is an Issa out of a circle and it's possible that might it be tempted my life if it is to eat out of the circle maybe it's even tempted my life which is a goodness I mean I still I understand we saw the Argos this pimpedo because all eight days but this is just a bits of circle but the truth is one sees you should eat and Messiah doesn't play a role what I found amazing the mishta says the famous mishnah nicely America that she had a newborn baby and she put him in the circle that sounds like a very really extreme fetishki in his original safe to shine Allah maybe shall my help applies even to a venue and of course a baby until the age of four to six is Safina the question of eating of giving a child milk after meat so people are very Mac good about this but the truth is there is a sad to be making let me explain there's no Issa the rise of eating milk milk products after meat in fact there's no Issa the rise of eating chicken with milk the Easter Ice is like Sebastian Bahama milk after meat is Dominic of waiting six hours say hey look a minute the shark right so whoever plays Dominican is not quote the meaning of six hours they're more quotes one minute awaiting an hour so the truth is under the age of three a child can eat meat and right afterwards milk enough this is an important part of the child's growth and also subpoenaed by a minute who said after three there's a minute quote unquote that we start have your child wait a little bit because until nine he feels there's only a minute you could be more Michael but after three years old a child should start waiting an hour it child insists he's thirsty and wants milk you'll have to give it to him because beside you so the way that we find by children is a humra which is six hours but until the age of three there's no um Beyond three an hour is enough until he's really wait to six hours to have his milk now ice cream maybe is more of a of a problem but definitely the milk when the child wants it till three there's no nothing to talk about even Beyond after an hour it's okay the last question is probably most important because it's really touched upon the biggest side of Alaska I heard someone told me that he had a vitamins he couldn't verify the casters but he gave it to his child because now I can't now that's a serious mistake I mean am I getting in about the cautious of that vitamin but assuming the vitamin is trade you're playing with a very serious issue first of all if it's like a trade this is Safina this is the real McCoy's Athena you're giving him but besides that we come to a fact that we have to clarify because it's Nigeria and that is even if he's a powerful has a devastating effect on a child's Mission and that's the concept of my life I can't explain it but I can tell you Allah pay all of Zion that a child this child should not nurse from a mistress from a Croatian woman because the milk that he will take in will be with now this is not trade from that sense of the word foreign she should not nurse her child afterwards should I give the child leftovers she's down there giving us alcoholic it was transformed into milk but she should not nurse a child because her life now this is called of Israelis not a geisha woman but somehow the temptum overrides its transformation and the shark says because tarphus is because his mother had a ray of Desire that came to my life and the reality he says that royiv because of Tim to my life so who knows you know they said Robin said every American boy has a little bit of a tarfism you know being initially I hope that's not true but we don't we don't look for trouble that's for sure and the power is the taraphas is something we can't explain it to the woman's eating she's my husband but somehow it affects the child there's a lot to say but this conception is famous too when you're in a high and pay gimbal about a child that was a show item and the question is putting him in an institution in a home that will feed him and take care of him but concept is worried about the tempt of my life was like are you still home now obviously if there's a head to the door what's his symptom is really Beyond terrorism and I'll leave you with the story hurts one of my availability once he came to this year he says I can't relax calm myself down he just read a story and it's printed in a number of swarm was once in a certain city he was traveling he stopped off in the city and they came to him for breakfast to Aces a woman came crying that she has a number of sons mitsuyanam and the youngest are as a youngest son and Ben zakuna personally can't capture nothing go they tried tuners promises up there's an unnatural problem here Vegas said ask them did the child ever eat karthus some of it where is it Heaven my my childhood did he ever eat out of the house because you haven't my child I'm very marketed he asked me if you ever made out of the house so she went there as the child the child said once on the way off Yeshiva she started he stopped up by khasana and ate a piece of meat Vega says find out which casanovas