🏠Chesed Starts at Home

This is called Godly, the Torah, the Huppah, the Ma'asim Tovim. Shouldn't Ma'asim Tovim be before Huppah? Don't you want your kid to be a mensch before he gets married? This is called Godly, the Ma'asim Tovim. So, they they answer that when could you tell that a person is a true ba'al middos, that is a true ba'al chesed? When he does chesed with his wife, when he does chesed in his home. That's the chesed that we're looking for. If it's an over here, if you know chutzpah mi'pnim. A lot of people they run around and doing chesed to this one, chesed to that one, but in their own home they're they're pretty achzarai. You could learn the outside from the inside. When when a person you see like for instance is mischased with his wife and his children, then you know that he's a true ba'al chesed outside.