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Chesed of Netzach - Counting the Omer - "Success comes from G-d" - Rabbi Alon Anava
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we're starting the week of Metsa Nitza
is of course can be translated as
victory I translated Nets up in many
different ways because last week we
talked at Nets off is also nice cute
eternal something that is eternal but
now we're going to concentrate that
knits up is coming from the word needs a
horn it's a horn means of victory and we
all like victories everybody likes to be
victorious I don't know anybody who
plays a game and is like a please I
can't wait to lose I want to lose this
game our nature is to win we want to be
winners and not only that we want to be
winners we vote for the winners I want
my team to be the winner the whole world
is one big game if you're looking at the
game at the world it's a world of games
not only right now that the the majority
of population of the world their entire
focus is on some type of a game whether
it's basketball or baseball or whatever
it is I mean this is the most powerful
thing in this planet in sports and games
everybody it's about games and it's a
very competitive world so you can look
at it in a very negative way but it's
coming from very very positive place
then we all in house have this power
that wants to win to be victorious so
going into the week of net suck it's
important to focus on what we need to
what we need to work on week of the
ferret then we had to refine the beauty
week of the strength and so for now
we're gonna have to concentrate on this
power of victory of net soccer net
surface it's a hone to win now like I
said people like to win and like I said
also the world is full of games and I
don't know anybody who walks into a game
with the mindset of how am I losing here
you're walking into a game how am i
winning here so important thing to know
is because I
said twice that the world is full of
game the world the whole world is a game
if you're looking at everything in this
world is one big game even in the eyes
of a shame it's all one big game what's
going on here we're in a game we're like
a you know there's now some movies about
it this world is like a video game that
you have a mission you have stages and
you know sometimes it's easier to give
analogies in the Torah and to compare to
a video game but nevertheless in this
world some games are serious some
serious games sometimes you play chess
it's a game now you have world leaders
that are playing games that can cost
millions and millions of lives so some
games in this world are serious games
and they're not something to joke around
with now you have a few world leaders
that are bumping shoulders to each other
all it takes is one of them to be angry
that he lost and that's what it takes
you see this motion it's not a hard
motion it goes like this and hundreds of
millions of people are gonna be under a
mushroom cloud that's how sometimes you
see wait a minute Who am I playing games
with here
nevertheless some games should be taken
serious now we all have a certain pool
in us this is a custom made its built-in
to win everybody has that everybody has
this Drive take now three-year-olds put
a board game and they all want to win
and if one loses the whole board games
is upside down there's always the one
that usually who likes to lose some
people they have a little bit of a
quality that they're fine with losing
and you know why they're fine with
losing because they have a mechanism in
them and this can even found in young
kids
next time I'm gonna win next time I'm
gonna I could I saw what he was doing
next time I'm gonna come from here which
is a very healthy way of thinking
sometimes you know when he brews Salo
Misaki Mobley matically me this is a
term in in in in Hebrew which to say it
in the in kindergarten I don't want a
break I'm breaking older all the vessels
this is what kids say slow mustafa games
okay lame it's a song we go to
kindergarten that's what this thing
looks okay I don't want to play you want
I'm not playing with you
but nevertheless we all have a pool to
win we also have a pool to the one who
is the winner we all want to cheer for
the winner if my player whatever or the
team that I cheer for they lose I'm not
happy about that
some people take it to such an extent
you see what violence there is when the
team loses shame you'll examine some
football games or whatever if the team
loses or what's going on in the exits in
the in the outside I recall it there
where the seats are but nevertheless we
constantly get pulled to the winners we
like winners as a nature and you know
why because we want to find some common
denominator with the winner I want to
find like oh I like this winner because
I find some resemblance here in Hebrew
it's called mr. him I see something in
him that I like that I want so with that
said taking the definition of net sock
which is Nitza horn victory it's also
can be explained in a completely
different way and that's called success
and everybody wants to be successful in
business in relationships and whatever
you do in your studies I don't know
people who go to university and says I'm
just fine with just getting my license
no I don't get good grades I want to be
successful here so victory can also be
equivalent to success success in
neighborhoods called ha ha ha now here
comes the major test who is responsible
for your success and the answer is very
simple on the ecological you win because
the Chimel a debt and when you lose
because of shame honor that this is what
all boils down to how do I take my
victories in my success and on the other
hand how do I relate to my losses and my
failures so I need to learn and this is
not an easy thing
but I need to learn how to take a use of
the pool that I have in me to win and we
all have it by the way it's custom-made
its built-in it's part of our components
I need to know how to take advantage of
that now how do I do that usually and
again I'm talking very very general when
you're looking at the territory of
sports let's say a young boy he plays
basketball he finds one basketball
player that he likes the most and says I
want to be like him so he learned his
moves right he wears the shirts like
like the guy he's number seven I'm
number seven why cuz you love the winner
you love that that's your and I'm
talking an example in the sports world
you take it to anywhere any any
territory you want I'm saying sport cuz
that's very common it's also easy to
relate with but the point is that I want
to take this love to win and to really
nourish it and take advantage of it
saying in other words to want to be the
winner I want to be a winner a lot of
people they lose so many times they're
ready give up I'll never make it and
which is very childish never give up
you might win after 80 years and again
the idea of Metsa now let's put aside
the word victory needs a horn let's
concentrate on success and everybody
wants to be successful what's very
interesting here to see this is very
hard to teach sometimes in English
because in English it's hard to give
over certain things look at them in
Hebrew it's just perfect because that's
their the source how do you say how do
you write to win Nessa or the sphere of
nets are known sadiq and hit right how
do you say success in hebrew ha ha ha
the roots of success of santa ha is
Salam Sadiq lemon head very very very
similar to nitsa Salah Anita I have the
static in the head ok here has alarmed
and unknown but the roots
very very similar so the victory is
where we taking that victory is really
the success in my life so what is Casa
Bonita what is the love in Nessa how do
I apply that first of all I have to
understand so because this is the
beginning of the week of nights are that
the week should be concentrated on the
power of victory and success and we all
want success in our lives and we all get
very disappointed when there's no
success and the success can be in dating
I can date somebody now I love the
person and the didn't wasn't successful
the person doesn't like me called off
their wedding whatever it is some people
go into depression for 3 years because
somebody dumped him and the pastor said
I'm not trying to hurt anybody's
feelings I'm just putting things in the
right perspective it's not only
successful in business I don't know
anybody who starts a business and says I
want this business to go down to the
ground I'm investing now a hundred
thousand dollars and I'm expecting in
two years to lose all the money who does
such a thing why because I want
everything that I do to be successful so
first of all I have to understand again
Nessa we're gonna concentrate a lot this
week about Vic to be victorious but also
success now what is hesita Bonita has
said is love that's my tool to be
successful now why do I need to be to
have a pool to be successful because the
colosseo has a system that he likes to
put somebody down not to humiliate or to
break that person to see how you're
getting up let's see how you're gonna
get up and ashame will do one time and
another time and another time put you
through a challenge question another
challenge crush you not to hurt you to
build you tomorrow Brasada shame it's
Friday we're gonna learn and we're gonna
read every Friday we read the same song
like howdy everybody rings it everybody
reads it far the ashkenazi has he name
everybody reads it and with no changes
some things in our prayers everybody
does the same reveal ecology was written
by Rabbi Olivier Sir Malcolm it
yeah Holly be he's buried down here next
to the result he compiled it very very
mystical some but in the fourth power
it's not really a verse but in the
fourth line there's a magical line that
says Heath Nariman Falco me get up from
the dust from the dirt and brush off all
the dirt now in many ways of
interpreting it but God pushes you now
he says now get up let's see how you're
gonna get up are you gonna stake down on
the ground
excuse my language right now you like a
loser or you're gonna get up and say
nothing happened I messed up I lost this
time next time I'm gonna get it next
time
and that's the attitude that I need to
build you know why because Hashem is
doing it not from a place of evil from
price of building I want to build my
kids now I have a lot of young kids I
want them to be strong I want them to
have good personalities I want them to
affect their communities and people
around I want them to be normal healthy
people I'm not designing architects or
doctors I don't care
what they want to do my son wants to be
a plumber let him be a plumber I can
care less what he's going to be you know
what I care that he's gonna be honest
that is gonna be a mensch that is gonna
be loving and giving and he's gonna have
good me do it what he's gonna do for a
living I can care less
that's up to the calash baho some
parents are like no you have to be a
lawyer I don't want to be a doctor why
are you putting me somewhere I don't
want to be want me to be a miserable
doctor I rather be a happy plumber so
with my kids what's important to me
that's where I told my wife from the
first moment that we have our first
child we are the architects of these
kids of that person's life my goal is to
get good human beings out to the world
so I care about the minute that they
should not lie should not steal should
not say do anything against another
person don't talk bad about other people
don't slander other people don't use
other people but I want them to be
successful in whatever they do whatever
they want to do I'll support them you
want to be a basketball player I'll
support you you want to be a makeup
artist I don't care I don't care what
you want to be you need to find out what
you need to be I'll support you
what I care is that you never give up
and you know what I all my life I was in
two different types of sports I was very
competitive in many different things I
mean some things I was actually
extremely very very very very good and
the characteristic that I had I don't
care how many times I'm gonna be given
knocked down to the ground I'm never
gonna give up I was the kid with
attitude oh you wanted me now wait till
the next match next match I'm gonna
overpower you
so the Shi Bonita is to first of all
understand that I have in me the power
and the desire to be successful and
that's what a shame is trying to make me
to make me successful successful by the
way doesn't mean that you're billionaire
or that you're number one artist in the
world successful means that whatever you
supposed to do you're doing it in the
best way possible and a Shem gave you a
certain talent we stopped spoke about it
in the week of Gua
you have strength a certain strength let
him give you strength now be successful
now how does the sham build you he makes
you fail I trained for many years from
the age of four used to trained in
martial arts
20 years I trained in martial arts
different martial arts I got to very
high levels in martial arts my best
trainer was it would beat me up all day
long why I want to see how you get up
not how you fight let's see how you get
up let's see if you give up let's see if
you are able to get another punch and
another punch and another punch and
still get up now I'm talking about it in
a physical way but a sham is doing it to
us in many different ways and he says
let's see how many times you can be
pulled push to the ground and still get
out
so the hazard of netzer is to have the
love to I to arouse the love to win and
in order for me to win I need to know
what's the source of winning and again
winning is being successful and
successful I can be successful in my
relationship I can be successful in my
business I can be successful in my own
spiritual growth some people go on a
journey and they want to be spiritually
enlightened they want to grow
spiritually
I need success here now sometimes a sham
will give me successes in life business
and so forth and sometimes things don't
work out sometimes it
looks like your luck is something wrong
with your luck Chum the Shem is
preparing you to the next battle so I
have to understand I have to look at it
in two ways first of all the head of of
the the head of netzer is that I have to
arouse the love in me to be victorious
to be successful and to understand
there's gonna be a lot of challenges on
the way and I will fail many many times
but nevertheless next time I'll be
successful and next time and even if it
takes me a hundred times we're counting
here success not failures you can fail a
hundred times one time you'll be
successful that's what counts
and it's not only another other people
might relate with it was business I need
to be successful in business you know
when I became observant I had a lot of
problems that I needed to deal with
everybody has problems and not because
something's wrong with you because the
Shem gave you a sack of problems it says
now work on them don't think for one
thing there's something wrong with you
definitely don't try to blame the world
Oh my mother my father my teacher my
neighbor everybody has problems and you
are not doing well some people they
create their own problems but you come
down to the world with the sack of
problems you know my famous joke I'm
sure you heard it a few times I'll say
to the ones who didn't hear it there was
one man who was a very very nice man
observant followed the Torah did
everything it says in the book but he
had the worst life everything in his
life well went wrong never had money
kids didn't talk to him his wife was
mean sick all the time
had the worst life in his 80s one time
he goes and crosses the street the car
hits Emily dies he goes up to the heaven
waits there an angel named number tells
him listen I want to talk to the boss
I'm very unhappy with this whole
arrangement I did everything it says in
the Torah I did every little Mitzvah
this is what I get I I want to talk to
the boss okay they take him to God he
walks in chantels and what he wants is
this some very unhappy you gave me such
a hard life I did everything you said in
the Torah mainly if I would a wicked
person I understand I said everything
you said in the door I did with
so there's shrimp sales in what do you
want she's not one I want another chance
I want to go down to the world I want
you to give him know a good life
assurance is OK I'll grant you wish but
just that you know everybody has to go
down to the world with some type of
problems
everybody has their problems so the man
says to what are you suggesting
a shrimp says do you know I'll grant you
your wish I will send you back into the
world and you get to choose this time
your problems ok I like that God tells
him go down in the corridor second door
on the left
knock on the door the angel that opens
the door tell him I sent you
he will guide you ok he goes down all
happy got his wish he knocks on the door
the angel opens the door yes how can I
help you tells him well the boss God the
creator of the world he sent me here
okay what do you need he said that I can
choose my own problem no problem he
takes him in to this massive warehouse
looks like a Home Depot you know full
aisles very very high and the whole
place is full of shelves and all the
shelves are bags big sacks bags he tells
the Angels what is all this he says this
is all the problems of all the people in
the world and every bag belongs to one
person and he says okay now go choose
your bag he's running up and down I'll a
I'll be I'll see up and down climbing
all the bags big bags bugs small bags
wrong bags he's like I'm gonna be here
I'm gonna find the smallest bag I can
find he's running up and down the aisles
finally his eye caught he sees like a
little bag he climbs it puts his hand in
between the two bags he pulls out a bag
this big bag
he's happy I guess what and what I'm
gonna take he runs to the angel tells
him this one the angel scans it no
problem he goes back to a sham no you're
happy everything's good you ready to go
now is it there I'm ready to go did you
choose a bag of problems of course I did
can I see which one you chose he says
there this one so she says oh that's the
bag you have last time so we all have to
come down to the world with a bag of
problems
then you can get away with it with these
problems of course we're gonna have
problems but nevertheless I need to know
how to deal with these problems and
sometimes my success is not making money
when I came down to the world and other
challenges I mean when I became
observant I had to get rid of a lot of
bad habits let's put it this way and for
me to overcome one bad habit was a big
thing but when I was able to do it that
was for me success I can get rid of it I
got rid of it
what was the approach and that's the
approach that I teach many others yeah
you will lose a hundred times in this
battle one time you won that's it mark
on the board one victory some about how
many times you lose it's how many times
you succeed and how many times you lose
is that you don't give up okay next time
and I'm talking with myself my own
spiritual growth is not about making
money it's about how do I get rid of bad
habits some people for them bad habits
is smoking another person bad habits is
drugs another person is gambling and
everybody has bad habits you want to
grow spiritually you have to get rid of
these bad habits so for me success was
if I can get rid of a bad habit so if I
was able not to do this bad thing for
one month and then I failed I didn't
look at the failure I looked at I was
able not to do it for 20 days success I
was able to be successful and this is
success I'm talking about it's not
necessarily how much money you make
Hashem will decide how much money you're
gonna make the point to take from that
is that we all have the drive to be
successful and you want to be successful
in the in the challenges that ashame
gave you in building a relationship
building a business being emotionally
and a stronger whatever it is a chef
will give you challenges you know in
Hebrew the right word is it God and if
we have two words used alone in the army
the destination the yard what's my
destination my destination is to quit
smoking right that's my destination to
be a nonsmoker not me Boko sham sham
made a miracle for me I quit smoking 18
years
go like that and you know what I'll tell
you the story quickly sure you'll see
exactly what I'm trying to say but this
is a destination this is my challenge my
guy how am i good going over this
mountain so I have a tool in me to be
successful and the hazard Shivan Itza is
two to love this pool not to give up you
know when I give up when I fail that's
the complete opposite of Casa Bonita
tester Jimenez sir he says no I lost
this time next time I'll get it I'm not
gonna give up so that now how is the key
here what's the key to do that the key
is to understand where the success is
coming from if I think that I have
control over the success I'll never be
successful the next time
and don't think for one thing is
something wrong with you a shrimp probes
and programs it in a way how many times
you're gonna fail but when you remember
the whole time that the success and the
failure they come from a sham that's how
you arouse the ability to next time I'm
going to win because you know even when
you failed that's what a shame on it now
she wants to see the effort not the
result whether you won or lost that has
nothing to do with you
how many effort you put that has to do
with you and needless to say what I need
to remember constantly the back of my
mind is where the success is coming from
and not to say I did it you didn't do
nothing
you made it maybe an effort the success
came only from the kadosh go how did you
make money behzod a shame how are you
able to succeed hashem helped me so i'll
tell you quickly the story with the with
the quitting of the smoking and not the
whole story because it's long but to see
the the idea i was a very very heavy
smoker for 15 years i would smoke three
packs a day of red Mile broke like a
chain chain smoker I don't know even
know how I breathe but nevertheless to
make a very long story short after my
near-death experience I moved some
machinery over to Chicago and I started
changing my life and but one of the
first
things that I put on my agenda as I got
to get rid of all the bad habits you can
serve a shame I can't be a slave to a
shame if I'm a slave to anything else
and I had a switch in my mind that I I
cannot have anything in this world
control me if something in this world is
controlling me I'll never be able to be
a true over the shame slave to a shame
and if a cup of coffee controls me a
cigarette
whatever it is I'll never be successful
anyways don't to make a long story short
I moved into Haley I I moved to a new
home and like a good Jew you need to put
misses out on the door okay so I said
okay I'm all ready now show me who I am
it's what I gotta get mrs. old okay I go
to a store that sells miss resorts and I
had a lot of money at the time I come in
I tell them I mean the best missus what
you have here the best but not like the
cheap the best ones and I need nine
mezuzot every door in the house usually
people buy one this was out they put it
on the first door on the main door okay
now I wasn't I was made and barely
observing there was literally when I
moved to Chicago I came in I had long a
short sleeve shirt and I had a big
tattoo on my hand so that the tool was
showing and they kept looking at my
tattoo pulling my shirt down like this
stop looking now out of respect for the
place I put a yarmulke on you know you
sometimes people they walk into a
synagogue they walk into a Judaica store
they put a yarmulke on I I call it the
the glove box yarmulkes because they
look like this you know because they're
stuck in the glove box for like three
months and then you put it on like these
bar mitzva yarmulkes that the real
identity right
they don't really sit well on the head
anyways so I had a glove box yarmulke I
walk in
anyways I buy my name is resort and then
I drive back home now it was already
Friday afternoon in my mind I was like
you know it's I don't want to move into
a house and riedel Shabbat and probably
bad luck
okay I call the landlord can I move in
the wicked no problem okay motion so he
tells me you need to bring the first
month rent in a money order and the
security deposit in the money order am I
gonna get a money order now okay I'm
driving on the highway I see a bigger
sign Western Union ice to get off the
exit to a very very unpleasant
neighborhood in Chicago Chicago has some
neighborhoods that you don't want to
drive there by mistake nevertheless I go
in there probably the first Jew that
ever stepped foot in that place I'm
standing there Friday afternoon and you
know minding my own business
and there's like maybe 200 people there
Friday everybody coming to cash their
checks okay and there's a guy in the
back he's talking so loud and I turn
around to see who's this guy is talking
like that and the second that I turn
around he screams to me Shalom Shalom he
comes to me there's like six seven guy
hugs me Shalom picks me up in the air
I'm Jewish
I'm also George I'm Jewish
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what are you talking about and he starts
telling me my mother is Jewish I had a
bar mitzvah
my grandmother's joy she's like shut up
I don't need to ask you history and in
my mind I'm like how does he know Jewish
I mean I know the nose is pretty big but
how does he know that I'm Jewish and I
forgot I had the yarmulke on my head I
went out of the store totally forgot the
yarmulke on my head anyway the guy's
telling me his whole history where he
had the Bar Mitzvah who his uncle did so
in the conversation he tells me
do you smoke so I pull out a box of
cigarettes no do you want a cigarette
he's like no he tells me you want to
quit smoking well yeah I want to quit
smoking so he tells me come tonight to
this hotel you'll quit smoking now my
worries were what is it about
he's like ever heard of quitting to
smoke through hypnotism so said I
actually did it says okay come tonight
so I told him and this is again this was
Friday night I was like is this costing
me money I don't want to do some
business transaction on Shabbat and bear
in mind I'm not religious at all this is
a month
than what happened to me but I'm in
Chicago so he tells me give me $40 and
come day okay that night they decided to
walk to that place okay I walk and I'm
not observing Shabbat nothing maybe 40
people in the room and doctor comes up
gives a two-hour lecture what's going on
to the body when you smoke shows slides
and pictures and research and then the
hypnotist comes on the stage hypnotizes
us and he wakes us up and he tells
everybody don't look at your watch how
long do you think you were out everybody
says five minutes six minutes I also
thought it was like five six minutes
we're looking at the clock an hour and
15 minutes long story short I walk out
of this room and I never touched a
cigarette since then 18 years I walked
out of this room I went to like a coffee
shop where the hotel where I was sitting
there in the smoking area and a
stigmatism and I had in my hand I don't
even light it up I was such a heavy
smoker I would go to sleep sit in my bed
smoke three four cigarettes before I go
to sleep then go to sleep I would wake
up in the morning say mo dicks
Ernie I would wake up with a cigarette
in my mouth I woke up in the morning the
cigarettes are in front nothing
sorry sir I didn't want to tell anybody
I was like this is not gonna last this
is gonna like it'd be a day or two and
my sister came to visit me right after
that after a week this issues with me
she was like why aren't you smoking or
am I gonna quit she's like oh come on
you I could have been believing myself
few months later I went to visit a
friend in New York he goes out with he's
smoking in smoke he's like why don't you
smoking I told him I quit is that you
you quit anyways long story short this
was success this was a hundred percent
success of overpowering challenge that I
had getting rid of a bad habit but from
the first day up until today if you ask
me how did you quit smoking
Kalash bajo he made a miracle
you know why you made a miracle that's
how I saw it clearly because I went and
bought the mezuzot it was such love
I was like I knew I had to buy measles I
know what most people do you know many
people call me and tell me ask me if I
can help him with a mezuzah how much do
you want to pay
give me the cheapest one $20 I was so
excited to buy a mezuzah and I had a lot
of money I gave a told him give me the
most expensive miss resort the most
fanciest miss resort and for every door
even on my storage I wasn't even
religious that wasn't barely observant I
don't know my storage I'm putting him in
Susa even when I had like a beautiful
home with his arch even on the arch
everything everywhere I could put him as
I put him into that doubt no doubt
I had such love and excitement to do
this Mitzvah the best of my money effort
excitement then when it came to the
transaction I wasn't even sure about
observing and everyone observe Shabbat
in my life but I didn't do I didn't want
to do a money transaction that night I
walked that time to the another hotel I
said I can't do much but I'll do a
little effort but you know that effort
has to come with love with authentic
love to the Mitzvah and a shame made a
miracle like that like an ATM I went in
and I went out I never thought in my
right mind that I'll ever be able to get
rid of smoking I loved smoking it's not
that I didn't love it I loved it I was
the type of smoker that if you see me
smoke you want to smoke too I would
pleasure on the cigarettes I would blow
rings I loved it I I even if the
cigarette was not on me but I had a
cigarette in my hand I loved the whole
thing the secrets the lighter I was like
I started smoking I was 12 years old so
I was in my mind I was like I'm gonna
die and they're gonna put on my
tombstone box of cigarettes so and I got
rid of it and and you know why because
Hashem didn't and up until today
somebody asked me how did you quit
smoking
Hashem made a miracle no but how did you
do it with patches shame made a miracle
I didn't mitzvot with a lot of love so
ashamed gave me a reward the nets are
there are the has such a bonanza you
have to apply this love to the power
that a Shem gave it to you to be
successful
did not create you a loser and if you
are losing that's cause a Shem wants you
to be build up you know how you become a
winner
only if you lose if you always a winner
you never be you're not a winner you
know you become a winner when you lose
three four times I told you I was into
martial arts at some point I got to such
a high level then when I was a teenager
I traveled around the world in
tournaments and world tournaments when
it before was before the army I lived a
year and a half in Europe I trained
there massively and I used to go like to
to this world champion at tournaments
and half of them I would lose but when I
lost it made me train harder I'm gonna
next time going into the rim next time
I'm gonna win how do you become a winner
when you lose so xem pushes you down
sometimes so you can get up and say oh
heat now me my you me exactly what
we we don't show Matt get up from the
dirt brush it off nothing happened big
deal a little bit dirty move on so this
is the power that I have enemy denitsa
the Hestia germinates up as I have to
develop this love how do you develop the
love when you understand who gives you
the success the success only comes from
the kadosh below and on the other side
the failure also comes from a shame if I
failed you have to make an analogy if
you were lazy if you didn't put any
effort if you lied cheated and
mistreated the situation okay of course
you failed but if you put everything in
your heart and you failed I did my part
I did my effort I was honest I was
truthful I put a lot of excitement and
love and effort I still felt that's the
hot Sun of the kadosh Mahal that's the
will of Hashem so we have to be very
careful that when I have a success not
to take any credit this was a toss is
cojiro SMED
why I did it I made money I was
successful I didn't do nothing
kadosh before somebody not too long ago
we had an issue as a certain individual
and the person did also so not nice
things and it all boiled down that the
person was jealous and when I confronted
person said what are you Jim what are
you jealous you wear a beard you you
call yourself a rabbi - and I notice
what kind of a god-fearing individual
you are that you jealous of somebody
else's success you think I do something
a sham does it I don't do anything else
with me they angry - em you have an
issue with me you have an issue with a
sham with me if I'm doing something good
Christian wants me to do that and a sham
gives me that success I do my effort in
fashion once I'll be this big what are
you jealous of this is why jealous is
one of the worst things ever why you
jealous of somebody else you're
basically saying I'm not agreeing with
what Hashem does if somebody has a lot
of money because Hashem wanted him to
have a lot of money and you jealous of
him because he's successful he's more
popular or whatever I mean it's the most
childish attribute you can think of what
are you jealous of we're Shem chose him
to be the one needless to say it's
momager sin not to be jealous is one of
the Ten Commandments
lot enough not to commit adultery this
is in other words don't be jealous
that's something somebody else there's
something better than you but
nevertheless I have to be very careful
not to do to the success should go up to
my in Hebrew we say it share the success
should go up to your head don't get a
big head out of it I have to constantly
remember the success is coming from the
kailash mahal so what do we want to do
to apply that we want to develop the
desire the will to win and to be able to
fulfill my desire to make a destinations
and i'm getting to this destination even
if i will fail hundred times i will
reach this destination this destination
i'm again I'm not talking about business
business it's very important to do my
destination I want to stop lying I wanna
stop say Michonne ovah I want to make
sure they're like three three times a
day I want to learn one hour a day I
want to finish a whole tracted I don't
care you come you make your own
destinations
I want to overpower this bad attribute
that I had that's a destination you put
destinations and then you develop the
desire to win to be successful but the
key the key to the success is to
constantly know that the success is only
with the help of a sham Corbis out the
shrimp
how you gonna do it that's not a shame
you're gonna wait beside a shame a shame
is the one who's gonna get me to succeed
and Hospital even if I fail that's the
will the cannot go home of course if I
was doing it the right way so we're
having now a whole week of Metsa where
we have the ability to win and to reach
goals and this is a very important week
because we have to put goals if you're
not going to have goals how you're gonna
get there if you don't have a
destination one time I was driving not
too long ago and somebody you next to me
tell me why is the GPS not guiding us
that's because I didn't put a
destination in you know sometimes in the
new cars the GPS is on the screen it
shows you where you are you know what
I'm talking about a lot of new cars
there's a screen in the car and the GPS
is on the person's memory why is the GPS
not talking cuz they didn't punch in a
destination I'm just right I don't want
to get there just happens to be the GPS
is on so if you don't punch in a
destination don't expect anything to
take you there so you have to put the
destinations goals what is my goal my
goal is to quit smoking my goal is to
open the business my goal is to refine
myself I want to stop cheating I want to
stop lying I want to stop saying the
Shannara I want to be more holy I want
to be a better father a better husband
whatever it is you have to have goals if
you don't have goals you never do
anything how do you succeed when you
know Shem will help me get to this goal
if that's the redzone of the garage
below my goal is not to become the next
billionaire it's not a goal this is a
dream my goal is way to also understand
what Hashem wants me to do put goals
what a shame wants you to do a shamble
take you there he will help you be
succeed successful and he will assist
you as long as you give him the credit
and the calash book was the one who
helps you and again like I told you when
you fail the love for victory next time
I'll do it and if not next time then the
following time and if not the following
time it will take me 500 times if I
succeed one time before I die let's say
that's what's important the other stream
should have a very successful journey
that all your goals should be fulfilled
in the best way possible
and you'll be able to count many
successes and even the failures he also
stank ashamed for the failure because
the shame took you on a school on a
learning curve how the next time know
what not to do like I said before when
do you succeed is when you know what
mistakes not to repeat so obviously you
have to make some mistakes when you have
mistakes you can learn from your own
mistakes and that's how you become
successful just don't forget to give the
credits at the end thank you god for all
the success that I did
and once you thank the kailash mahal
you're able to to nourish this media of
hessin Shaban it's a phrase to love the
ability to be successful and victorious
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