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Chesed, Din & Tiferet: The 3 Underlying Principles of Reality - Rabbi Shmuel Reichman
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there's a story of a homeless man who
walked into this really fancy building
in New York City and he walks straight
to the elevator walks past the secretary
who was frantically waving her hands and
saying you can't go up there go straight
to the elevator go straight to the
penthouse the top floor goes out of the
elevator
marches right past the secretary who
once again was saying excuse me you
can't go in there
March it straight into the CEOs office
sits on the chair puts his feet up on
the CEOs desk CEO turns around faces him
and says son I told you you can't come
in here anymore you're a disgrace
you're a bum you're not doing anything
with your life you have a free ticket to
Harvard and you're throwing everything
away you're living in the now you're not
doing anything you're throwing away your
life and the son looks at his father and
says oh you're one to speak what are you
who are you yeah you're so successful
you have all the money in the world but
you threw away your marriage you're
never there for me you what exactly are
you doing with your life what about
what's important I'm at least
experiencing life I'm enjoying the now
living in the moment all you care about
is your goals your destination becoming
great well what kind of life has that
left you so the question is who's right
who's right and anyone who's emotionally
aware should be torn on the one hand the
father's right you should have goals and
destinations in life on the other hand
that the son is clearly right you
shouldn't be so stuck in your goals and
destination that you forget about what's
really important then you stop a living
life you stop experiencing life but you
throw away your relationships and
everyone close to you they represent two
extremes and the actual ideal is
something in the mail so let's talk
about the concepts of class ed din and
to Ferris concepts which most of Jewish
wisdom is built on the morale uses these
terms I'm how uses these terms definite
Haim uses these terms what exactly is
fascinating difference will be spiritual
concepts
also why are the others after Miyazaki
Yaakov why do those always represent the
concepts of hasad did into Ferris what's
the deeper ideas here so let's start
with acid acid din and - ferrous are the
three stages of a process has an estate
one car side represents outflow it
represents the starting point the
initial C the initial stage it is the
beginning of the process din represents
the second stage which is restriction
which is limitation which is creating
boundaries which is taking that infinite
potential of that first stage of the
outflow and giving it boundary isn't a
container and restrictions so that it
can exist so if you think about it
dinners exactitude it smoothly connect
it meter which means that you get
exactly measure for measure what you
deserve dinner is something limited it's
something which isn't boundless but has
boundaries and some practical examples
are rain if you have infinite rain
Cassatt just under has no boundaries
you'll have a mumble you have a flood
when it comes to parent if all you do is
give to your trial and give and give and
give and give and you have no rules no
boundaries or limitations no order no
structure your child's Minh and the you
know very undeveloped you need structure
a child needs a structured world to
allow him to grow or her to grow
properly and when it comes to teaching
look in the one hand the Gemara Sock'em
Duff coffee would be is I mean Allah
says that more than the calf wants to
drink the cow wants a nurse the teacher
wants the gift
once the teach wants to outlaw of the
wisdom that they have but if you teach
too much you'll drown your child's
you'll drown your student it's too much
but if you teach too little
you'll also it's not appropriate the
student needs more the ideal is that
downs but it's important to recognize
before we go to that third stage that
then the restriction is also Hassan it's
just less classes so when you limit the
infinite amount of rain that's still
rain it's just the last frame
when you're teaching just not more than
the child can handle and still teaching
it's just the last teaching then isn't
something else it's merely focusing and
a limitation of the infinite of stage
one and what's also really important to
realize is that this is the concept of a
current FL of what's essential giving is
occur and then is always that which
enables Tuffle secondary is that which
enables the giving to be appropriate and
to be well received so that first stage
of outflow needs the second stage in
order for that first stage to become
real and to be ideal and it's also
really important to recognize that
unbounded facade custard that has no
limitations can be extremely
inappropriate so I the Torah refers to
an incest which relationship
relationship which is arise which is
inappropriate as being Crescent why
facet cuz closet is when there are no
limitations no boundaries no rules no
structure you need structure
unstructured house it can be very
unhealthy and that's why then it really
is what enables has it to thrive but
that third stage to Ferris harmony
that's the perfect balance cuz that's
the million-dollar question how do you
properly balance for example when it
comes to teaching you might want to
teach Tamachi while auntie - lil how you
how you get that perfect balance where
you're teaching exactly that which is
challenging to a student but not too
challenging and not too easy at when
you're parenting how do you know when to
say yes I want to say no how do you know
when it's appropriate to give when it's
appropriate to say now I can't give
right now you need to hear now for you
not for me I'm not saying no when you're
a parent you don't say no because you're
angry at the child you say no because
the child needs to hear now needs to
understand a great examples one comes to
cover or yireh how do you know how much
cover an offer to have for you I'd be
how you know how much your to say whoa
you know like you're on a completely
higher level and I'm gonna respect you
you're not my friend you're something
you're someone that's tremendous it
comes - em how you know how to have that
balance of a plan era where you're not
just living a few oriented life but
you're not just living a love or life
where I'm gonna be a never - I'm when
it's good for me when I'm in love with
that Shawn beware
not feeling so good I'm not gonna do it
you have to have both but how do you
strike that balance it's like when it
comes to eating honey it's hard to find
that balance because you have some honey
you think it's great but by the time you
create that structure of okay it's
enough honey you're way past the
boundaries and you've probably eaten too
much honey so it's really hard to find
that perfect balance but that's what
Safari says to Ferris is finding that
perfect balance and just to give you a
couple demonstrations and illustrations
of the concept of defensive of that
perfect harmony and balance the first is
beauty bear beauty beauty is not a bunch
of pieces that exist it's when seemingly
opposite pieces harmonize in such a way
that beauty transcends to some of the
pieces and emanates from them when you
look at horizon on the beach it's not
that the sun's beautiful or the the
ocean is beautiful or the sand is
beautiful it's when all the pieces
harmonize in such a way that what
emanates for them transcends to some of
the pieces it's that perfect balance of
all the pieces coming together also real
Fay which is the same the same letters
of pay air beauty Ralph a a doctor
creates inner harmony homeostasis within
the human body
that's also why when you think of also
ms/ms truth truth is that ultimate
harmony oneness it's not there's no
single piece of truth the truth is the
collective of all the pieces coming
together it's like if you think about it
there I'll give you a demonstration
let's say a boy comes to his father and
says I can't believe it trying to the
neighbor he kicked me so the father goes
over there Klieman says happen you
kicked my son so Shlomi says are you
kidding me your son punched me in the
face so it goes over his son you didn't
tell me you punched him in the face the
son says yeah but he pushed me down the
stairs so then he goes back to Shlomi
and says you push on that say yeah
that's cuz he tripped me and called me
names like who's saying the MS who's
lying they're both saying the MS but
they're only saying parts of the Animas
the MS is the absolute collectives truth
with with all the sub pieces of truth
coming together and it's also the idea
of Shalom Sholem isn't just the lack of
conflict
Shawn is when conflicting ideas
conflicting parts come together in a
harmony that's why they're also the root
of song is shall aim completion
wholeness
that's why Pincus got the beer how
strong the Brock of Shalom not because
one another thing is that he killed
zimri Zimmer in Cosby it's why he needed
a bra Shawn nuther he is he created
harmony Clara was in a chaotic state he
created her me he got the breath of show
and marriage is also that concept of
oneness two people coming together to
create a one this a child is the result
of oneness when male and female come
together to create and once a child's
that which manifests and that's also
like a ferris and Jewish thought is
called rahama mercy it's not too much
faster than not too much there's rocking
there's that balance that's why the
place where child was born the creation
of one this is the rasa the womb the
place of oneness now rasa and in back to
original concept represents the console
of a current affair so one of the
greatest paradigms of liquor in TfL is I
say and Llosa say I say a mitzvah the
myths us to do the positive Commandments
those are the occur those are building
your connection with us and building
your love fresh I'm building the
relationship a little sachets are that
which create boundaries they create the
structure they create the limitation of
that which will potentially break and
destroy your relationship and connection
with Russia now give you a Marshall when
you have a factory the purpose of the
factory is to build that's the fact we
have a fence around the factory that's
you just that which is tough that's just
to enable the factory to thrive and to
prevent unwanted people from coming in
when you have a marriage the real Iker
of the marriage is building the
relationship the fact that you're not
supposed to betray one another is not
building the relationship it just
prevents the food relationship from
breaking down the purpose of life is to
build it's to be kind it's to grow the
tough fell that which enables that is to
also don't break things down don't
destroy don't be corruptive and just one
great illustration of this example is I
say no hello so say one of the most
fascinating concepts
and Abajo you're not allowed to do a
mitzvah which was the result of nivara
there's something called MIT Sahaba
Bavaria so for example you can't steal a
lulav and then shake Louisville submits
our Bubba there there's one exception
which is when the Mitzvah and the heir
come big nough at the same time so for
example you're allowed to wear it
sisters with shaatnez on it and you're
allowed to do there's an insert to cut
off your ass from any part of the body
but when it's on the Bruce Mila you're
laughs - Kyle off of the organ because
you're doing the myths of Bruce Mila
while you conflicts Rass and the
question is why
well what's the idea of a Sado hallucis
a so the first option is that a knock
out there I say knocks out the Louis
outside that I say is so important it
knocks out the law so say the second
option is that it's a net gain let's say
the AH say is ten positive points and
the Llosa say is five negative points
we'd rather get the net gain of five
points so you can do it so the third
option is that we can define the act in
one way so we can define it as a
positive act with a fourth option most
fundamental option is that we can
redefine the Llosa say as being positive
so the whole purpose of the Louis essay
is to create the structure of allowing
you to build a relationship with Hashem
but on the only reason you're doing this
Louis sa the only reason is that in
itself is allowing you enabling you and
itself is an essay bringing you closer
to Hashem then we can redefine it almost
like in a very lush ma or as something
which is a Uyeda loss or a Holly or
something which is actually inherently
good that's creating that connection now
we're not gonna get more into the lung
disk because this is very connected to
su give Kim let me grab a BA or we have
that same same different options or IMAP
Ellis lower shown with a cloud similar
topic but the idea is is that the occur
what's really important in life is
always what should be at the forefront
of your consciousness and this is the
idea of offering music and Yaakov said
didn't I Ferris Alvin I'm always
represents the beginning the beginning
of a process he is
you know hath Luxor him proactively
opening up his house on all four sides
Ruth and beginning of Clay Shaw endless
expansion every one from high school
emanates and comes from
lovino the beginning is always
represented by Avram the first reference
moon s ring is from harem chakras the
first wheel in the morning that's a
groom he it's luck always represents
restriction and self-control that's why
he gets hook repeated everything out for
him did he read ugh the wells he we went
down to meet Ryan he repeated going with
a female he even looked the same as
Avril the Gemara says that the first
person of age was after him because
these Huck looked exactly like him and I
haven't wanted to give you talk an
independent identity so he allowed his
to have his own sense of self so
I've an agent starts a little different
than the at a desk it's Huck is the
binding of you talk restriction holding
yourself back self-control that's why
Google Agee bore is a keyboard what's go
around brewers also connected to dim
he's a deeper mission kobish a seat sir
someone who controls his e sahara
strength is not just physical Mike its
self controlled restriction holding
yourself back that's then that's why the
cause I'll also say that's someone who
was able to have self control and
control himself is even stronger than
someone who can surround the control of
city questions wise and say he's
stronger than so who can conquer City
cuz Niebuhr is not about conquering it's
about control it's saying that it's even
greater to be able to control what's the
inner battle inside of yourself and to
be able to control and surround an outer
battle outside yourself and Yaakov
represents the Barris Yaakov is M s
teaching Emma's Leo Kovak of the story
activist the idea of oneness of perfect
balance he had the 12th shot them of
Clara Clara are all the individual
pieces coming together and melting it's
that one that's that perfect balance and
harmony and the real idea here is that
we have to recognize the importance of
the current offer we have to understand
what's important in life but we also
have to be able to harmonize all the
different components of our life and
don't want us then it'll actually
emotional the physical all the aspects
of ourselves we have to recognize that
oneness in that harmony and we have to
also recognize what's really important
to us how we spend our time what we talk
about what we desire as a mirror into
who we are and when we read can
recognize what's important to us and we
can build on that and develop a thicker
and
we can really build a life of one is a
life of Harmony bringing together hazard
in antivirus
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