Tell Your Children How Good They Are

when your child comes to you and you put your hand on their head and you give them a kiss afterwards tell them something that you are proud of that they exemplified and demonstrated that week this week I saw you help mommy clean the playroom we are so proud of you I heard this week you went there was a kid in your class who was missing a snack your teacher called me and said you give away a snack that doesn't create jealousy cuz everybody could do that and every week a father has to be cognizant and looking throughout the week for the good in your children how many times do we do that we don't focus on it so I'm very Ultra focused and sometimes I even write it down what am I going to say Friday night and it's an unbelievable tactic it shows love a connection a concern and the kids look forward to that