Rabbi Yigal Haimoff | CHAZAQ Tisha B'Av Marathon

‏First of all than the organation for inviting [כחכוח] think even more any time of and [כחכוח] always the last ‏I don't know why so today I spoke on the zoom for about I would say hours. ‏So if I sound a little bit you know horse a little bit so you have to excuse me but my question is why are weing for what we teaching ‏You don't c over milk that was the milk is spilled. We lost the temple. Let's move forward. Why are we crying already that something that we don't know? ‏We never saw it. We don't know even what it is, what went on there. Yeah. ‏And if you pay attention and that's what I wan to talk about two big disasters happen to the Jewish nation and of them surprising enough was not because we keep מצוות the temple was destroyed because of what because of what because a person was not sensitive enough to the other person. ‏out of the party I don't know what and nobody nobody where is the what happen to you that's why when they ask the why did all this ‏out of Israel and destroy the temple. Why is it? Nobody knew the answer. Why? ‏Everybody was in everybody went to everybody learn people in the so why [נחירות בוז] nobody not even the nobody until himself why did you do it why you do עלזב אתורה we were learning all day there isור and there is my you have your own if learning if you don't care for the שם תורה תורה so השם the temple number one number two when again we doing all kind אבל בסירת העומר תלמידים died because of what because learn because they didn't learn no giant שלא נהגו כבוד זה וזה give respect enough to each ‏to the other generation because this is not my day we have to yes ‏on what [נחירות בוז] I don't know if people aware so I came to make some awareness today every home this is the temple now י מקדש ושכנתי בתוכם בתוכו לא נאמר בתוכם השם every home is מקדש make sure I can in your house that's we today we far away from that ‏So many problems, so many divorces, so many kids been thrown to the streets and they need help. What happen to us? That's what we have to cry about. Let me read you a gemara. ‏Maybe we going to wake up. I'm by this year. ‏surprisingly I have time because us I have may 10 minutes [כחכוח] I think because he knows I talk for my heart because is painful and people have to be aware of it not to neglect it דגמרא מסכת שבת לב עמוד ב תניה רבי נחמיה אומר בעוון שינאת חינם מריבה רבה בתוך ביתו של אדם because the husband and the wife don't know how ‏and that's what the not my you hating each other I don't think they not behaving properly st you ‏Because there is either you love a person either you hate a person there is no something in the midle בתוך ביתו של starting to fight every day ואשתו מפלת נפלים all thees kids inside the w all the because there is no ‏And that's what happens. Our own temple the main temple to big for us. We have to fix first what close to us and we see it every day. ‏So now if you don't like a person you have argument so if you have problem with somebody outs will bring it to your מדה so the I saw in the books of the meaning the old books ‏two people fight two people ar the is thean becauseing this is peopleight ‏and he is the cheer leader contin you know andשלקישבטרז עמוד א' הוא השטן הוא יצר הרע הוא מלאך המוות ‏Thean is not lightly he is the angel of death. ‏So the outcome is when you argue with a person you have to know the Satan is there. You don't see it but is there. Did you see it? ‏at once do you know who see it the baby in his mother wound דוק ראשו גמרא בנידה דף ל ד נר ד דלוק לו על ראשו זה קנדל והוא רואה מסוף מסוף העולם ועד סופו he the whole world sees >> [נחירות בוז] >> ‏expecting for example what happen who sees the satan husband wife who seeing him the baby because he is in a different ‏froming and go we don't know what mean to a ‏I advant he will tell you what it means many of us when it comes to [גניחות] which meet is this יוסף which יוסף ‏comp מי זה ממש צדיק וחסיד אוקי תפילין every to the מקוו go 55 times yeah but interesting הכשרים בדבר מספing is there ‏is level but for you noting there is maximum if you be over עבירה מדאוריתא not exting impossible בדורס אל תונו איש את אחיו אן דגמר עשת בהונאת דברים הכתוב מדבר יש הונאת ממון and there is הונאת דברים what is ממון item that cost 20cks and you have to you find you know a person that don't know much and you selling it to him for 80 bucks that call you cheating you causing him pain you causing והונאת דברים מה זה אה when you hurting a person הוא are you בכלל מה הוא are you that your brother אונאת דברים מדאורייתא every time we hurting a ‏We can build our own so what you build the main temple will not happen we have to start then you go ‏What do we say today? If you heard a person, we got used to it. What did I say? This guy don't talk to him. He extra sensitive. ‏So sensi is noting to a stoneing to a person I don't know if you ארץ ישראל הרצליה is place not של צדיקים much you know the all the are there no שבת no חוש but what can we do ‏So there is one je look like me living in her הרצליה. מסכן הזה בטבחת שבת car going in and out and even goes up people the the light in the staircase he already he fell up with this he goes to the ster the father רב חיים קניבסקי צדיק שבצדיקים הרב I don't anymore in הרצליה I want to move to what the says no no stay there why should I stay there he says no no no this people they should ‏Je hope you remind them hell you I am here I am טוב stay there will help you will help you two years passed he coming back and I ‏Pleas come get out go back I you want all people to go toell are you stay me why ‏any הרצליה הרצליהם ‏I got used to it. You got us to it you have to move to we got used to I can tell you curses it's a slang. ‏SL all kind ofes and if you are not that kids will come that and you have to kids when they take something from the othering ‏And they say it's mine it's mine and they and somebody got hurt. You know what you gna do if you gna see your child in McDonald? What you gonna do? You gna jump up and down. No. You child right now eating pork. Pork. ‏por of proper are you normal with you let me tell ‏I was byom of חסיד חסיד he was 52 years old his wife was 49 years old this is the first child ‏going to the fineck swerland to France any place may ‏America did all kind of work of them healthy healthy work so the last one over here in America, the professor told them you hopeless. ‏You can go back home nobody will help you. ‏You can imagine 10 hours on the plane how they felt. They came home the same way they left the house the same way stayed pharmacy. No kids and he thinking why what did I do? ‏and may you can think what in that you learn whenle something was there cleaning the after she was a widow with kids small one she don't have where to ‏K and kid is a kid you know jumping up this is and the one side to the other side the זה theyed seven months finally they said impossible we cannot learn like this so they chose him to talk to the lady so he came and he told in a nice language first he started with complim thank ‏for cleaning you so good bless you he all the then he told her you know you kids are making over here too much noise maybe you can leave him somewhere we need to learn you know so she said don't worry ‏in any and he is blessing him have kids and be like Chinese soldiers but 2 in the morning ‏May offend noation the morning the executive ‏Jer 2 in the morning are you not I need do you know where is this after 25 years for בים שמה address I have I don't have to wife get into the car we going toam they arri there 3 in the morning old lady 3 in the morning are you normal he ‏I can't she probably still have something in heart he on the door in apartment 3 am in the morning that's what he saying to us in sha 3000 people came to theomar he prepared for 300 3000 they even one if you want to drink אין כלום off thecking of food let me tell you the story how this baby came to the world so she open up the door who are you say you don't remember me know who are you what ‏I know you doing and he said all the name of the kids and said how do you know them said you the one who came to clean he said yes yes she said so he reminded her what happen said yes ‏I was he said it was not my intention I don't have kids maybe you can give me a kids that I feel also give you many [כחכוח] kids ‏will you the of Dan had only one son he was the biggest tribe of Israel done for one child he said after she gave me this 10 months ‏you see what me tour person the ster thean came to him and after the eng but you ‏engבי 10% break [כחכוח] will chase מהר אבל today what a generation today why why send me pictures investigation left and right FBI and ‏in my time we have so many I don't know because we not sensitive enough we lost it we have to admit we lost it we have to build back a long bite of everybody enough it's enough in my ‏of papers that I put in a book I don't have time even to eat I cann sleep not youngster anymore and working more than I worked years ag no day ‏Why? ‏because people lensity youing to what you are you noral with you so temple home you the one so בעזרת השם ‏I bl you all you respect each other and the is you have to respect your wife one thing I'll tell you she is born to be a recipient you are born to be a giver you the rich she is the ‏and give you and now tells you what you do for me he will tell you that he will tell you why not that's ‏in need only to then you make it אם השם בשנה הבאה >> בירושלים הבנויה נטויר than you very >> muchקשה בקשה >> כן ‏M.