Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser | Having a Positive Mindset During Difficult Times | CHAZAQ

[Music] good evening welcome everyone to this very special evening this the first annual yard site event for Toby gashin Al shalom it's been dedicated by the gwiin ab off lacer perk of All Families memory of toas mosha Ali alyah amen it's being presented by the kazak organization and the Young Israel West Hemstead clar Klein adult education committee and of course we want to thank the Young Israel West Hemstead for being such a place of Torah and and in the community for so many decades he such a um a role model for for for a sh one of the leading shes in the entire in entire New York and entire America and tonight we're going to have the great honor to hear from DOA goas and RAB Gita is going to give some special opening remarks and I think to give an introduction for tonight um if you look at any successful business company organization they all have a mission statement so if someone would ask me what is the mission statement of of Mrs Toby gashin I think I think you could see it in four short stories so the first the first thing is is that if anyone go to indd Glad or any supermarke and queens and you would see like why are there no more why are there no papers left so one of the reasons one of the secrets one of the reasons could be is because is because to is because Toby took seven copies of the paper because she took for her friends and the neighbors and the friend that no one thought about so she cared about every every individual and and you could tell a lot about a person about the last words they say on on Earth so what was so some people then what their what their last words on Earth what they might be that they they say oh this is uh this the the Swiss bank accounts where's the money where where's how much stocks do they have and what was her last words that she said she said take care of dad take care of her of her husband so she cares about she cared about family and and um when she lived in with my grandfather in Jamaica States one of the highlights of the year she marked on the calendar was the was was the clothing Drive where she where where for like 15 hours a day for a week she would she would she would work day and night organizing the clothing and that that clothing obviously was it was a fundraiser to support AEL to support Israel and and of course she cared about Jamaica State's community and of course she loved the westa community for all the years that she lived in West Hemstead and um on yum shal she would like get at 5:00 a.m. in the morning and she would help out Patty gendler and the whole team it was so of course she cared about community and and last but not least she she cared of course um was that I look back on a text message that she sent me she sent me and she she was talking about the it's about the singles and she said this is a quote she said it's a crisis and things need to be done to improve the situation so she cared about the Jewish community at large so she cared about individual she cared about family she cared about the the her own community and she cared about the Jewish community at large so I think that if you would put a mission statement for for her it would be that in two words she'll be she cared she cared about she cared about every single person and it wasn't just uh it it wasn't just it wasn't just like a statement but she really believed in it she cared about every individual she cared about family she cared about every single person in the Jewish Community entire world and um something of course that she cared so much about was was that was that her grandchildren my my brother and my S were involved in the kazak organization and whenever we have a kak sheir in West Hemstead she would she would she would tell me Robbie print out small flyers I would hand it out to my friends and encourage them to come and she was very big into Jewish um education and and which which kazak focuses on with um after school programs in 15 different locations and um a special division to help transfer kids from public school to Yeshiva and um and and and somebody who who who she really cared about and she really admired was was uh was Rabbi Galler that that for for so many years I I remember back um when I was a kid that that we would stay over at my grandparents house for for shabas and she was she would encourag you have to go to you have to go to the youth minion G is leading it and and and even in West Hamstead the Highlight every shabas meal on shabas day she would say rabag said this during the drusa and she was just smiling and she really admired Gala and of course ra Gala is somebody who himself cares about the individual and about family and about Jewish community and West Hamstead and about Jewish community and as a whole and it is our honor to call upon have a go thank you very very much for those kind words unnecessary but kind words a few weeks ago and Robbie asked me she said uh he said it would be an honor for you to give introductory remarks at the IDE cheer I thought to myself those words are appropriate because the word honor um truth is for me to be able to speak about Toby Al Shalom is an honor because she was a person who truly gave C to every single person that she came across a a tremendous amount of Cabo to everyone that she met and uh it's a privilege tonight to be able to give uh some remarks in her honor and uh as I always say to Charles and the family children the grandchildren I can't imagine still the pain of your loss magnitude is unbelievable but uh suffice to say that she's still very much the part of all of our lives every day every week every month she thought of all the time her sweetness her kindness is truly Unforgettable and I hope that's a source of comfort to all of you the great now he was a person who was a um and a great would see people all times of the day and night and one time a came to the re and said I'm having financial troubles I can't pay my bills family to feed things are very challenging I need some help financially the rebit said to himself he said you know I recall you have a a cousin a second cousin who's a very wealthy person this is an easy one you're in need I know your cousin I can reach out to them it's a slam dunk so he called the cousin to a meeting the cousin came in and uh he said you know I seeing you again your second cousin who you know very well going through some challenging times could use some help some support from you please be generous the second cousin he took out his checkbook and wrote a check and gave it to the rabbit and said here please my pleasure to help and the rabit Lo saw the check and he said he has seven children the L family to feed and I told the needs are great no maybe you can do something more to help your cousin the fellow said well respect to the Reb it's only my second cousin you know it's not like my sibling or my child it's my second cousin I I give a nice amount but you know I give other people it's my second cousin theab said he said let me ask you a question you D in Shak this morning sure this afternoon absolutely tonight of course when you DAV what did you say in the first braa he said I said what everyone says the same words and what is it say in there what's that braa called it's called the BR of the forefathers and what do you say in the BR ofos the reab asked him he said you know you uh say Hashem answer myos on behalf of Abraham and the forefathers or the three fathers the rebi said to this fellow he said can't you question can you imagine in sh if when you DAV and you invoke Hashem listen to my prayers in the in the Merit of andov they are your three forefathers and I say Hashem you know the truth is Hashem I you know this guy's a nice guy but he's my great great great great great great great great grandchild yeah I don't know the guy that well we're not so close we speak a couple of times a day what would you think about that so the fellow I'd be horrified everyone knows that if you want to have your TR accepted you invoke I'm related to the great the re said he said to him just like like the AOS don't say about any one of us it's such a distant distant relative what right do they have to invoke our help what right do you have to say it's only my second cousin whether it's AOS thousands of years ago or your sibling or your child or your second cousin were one clout we one doesn't matter what the relationship we're always there for each other we treat one another as if we're the closest of family thousands of years away or only two generations away it doesn't matter doesn't matter needless to say the fellow took out his checkbook and wrote a second much larger check but I realized the message of the great Amon I've read when I saw this story I thought of Toby Al sh of course spoke so beautifully about her incredible affinity and love really special unique love for her family but truthfully she treated everyone like family if you were a child her grandchild her husband her friend somebody who just met a few weeks ago no matter who you were she cared about everyone like they were the closest relative to her her kindness knew to No Limits it's such a unique Mila that so few can replicate and the year side the time of course we have something we need to learn from from a person out of all of her amazing amazing qualities for me personally and for many of us here Gather in the room manure that's a tremendous meia to learn from no matter who came to her for help matter who approached her in the store on the street in SHO was kind and patient and caring for everyone because to Toby second cousin AOS imos thousands of years away a generation away or one step removed or family or all part of K Israel it's all that matters it's truly incredible Meda we hope and pray that hasem we all continue to learn from her incredible example of AAS truly loving every single Jew just like they're part of her immediate family and that's was hopefully continue to give her and alah and Shay for many many many years to come when rabie showed me the flyer for tonight and it spoke about the idea of positivity first reaction was well that speaks beautifully about Toby always rainy day was always sunny everything was always positive but then he showed me the name of the speaker for tonight who I want to say I just met for the first time last February and when I stood downstairs last February introducing her by gold waser I said the very same thing I'm going to say tonight which is that his his Radiance is contagious when you meet him you shake his hand you just greet by gold waser he oozes positivity it's truly contagious it's something something so special and unique that I believe all those who encounter him it just you can't help but be inspired by his we said before but his tremendous love for life and forish for Torah and for people and we are so fortunate and blessed tonight what a tremendous cover for all of us here in our scho our community tonight to be affected and Infused by his tremendous without further Ado and making it more uncomfortable tonight it's our cover please rise truthfully to come and to listen to the R I wish he would have continued a little bit longer it is so interesting that Eli said I remained alone the only Prophet the question is we know that hid over 100 well how couldi say I was the only Novi theot says that ELO Novi had the singular way he had the language he had Thea he had the ability to get the m message of hem across to the masses when I hear RAB G it's Unique it's you singular not everybody not everybody can do it we are that the does have it and that we are all n from him in good health we come today to further pay tribute and the earth side of a great great woman and and not only for her family for her wonderful children for her grandchildren but it's for Community it's for friends it's for people she know for people she didn't know she was a light in this world a light that kept on Shining further and stronger as the years went on you just remember that face you remember the eyes you remember that light the malim the great malim when he died and left this world so everybody was inconsolable they were crying such a great light to leave this world the following was said as words of zikaron there were some people in the forest and it grew night grew dark outside each one had a candle to light their way through the forest the candles eventually began to go out and then suddenly the one who was holding the last candle that was still lit it also went out and the man started to cry they came over to him and they said my my friend you knew that eventually the candle's not going to last forever it will go out he said yes I know but I thought that we would be out of the forest before that light went out Toby we thought she's going to bring first Messiah and she's going to stay with us until then there were other plans from shamayim they needed her up there they needed her the work in Shay the entire family should go in her should remember her way should continue her MIT her presents her gifts all the things that she did it should be a zus for your family should be Aus for your community should be a for CLA Israel especially during these trying times I cannot begin without saying a word about my Robie he is indefatigable he continues to CLA Israel like nobody that I know he's a y he is there's nobody like him he's got a one trck mind CLA he doesn't get off it I just want to say on him one little praise small praise everybody knows comes to be we all stand up everybody in the show we stand up the great he says why you stand up for what's special about the I said as stand up for ash why he says something fascinating a lot of times in different shs they have the Min that they collect so they collect the money Hashem has all of the ashir the person that goes around the the one that works for the cloud that's why we stand up in his honor in her honor the person that does the Mitzvah Mitzvah Robbie I tell you from my heart when you walk into a room people should stand We Begin uh as a big topic very big topic positivity keeping the right Hasa knowing how to frame things world events things that go on happened to be by the Elder he came from a distant land he heard the cry he heard screaming in the in the city he didn't know who it was all of a sudden Omar he said it's not in my house I know it I know for sure good morning check it out question is asked by several of theim the great ra of ly asked the question how did he know how was he sure that it didn't come from his house fascinating answer the reason is is because H made sure that the people in his house were ruggle they were smart they didn't cry they didn't scream they knew that all the different mat him all the different situations in life they had to keep it together they had to make sure that they realize that everything is from when the sun is shining in the time when the Sun goes down and it's dark outside we will praise hem H knew that would not be their reaction even if the tar even if the challenge was in their house they would not scream they would not cry they would DAV they would would pray they would contemplate his bodus they would be deep in thought but they would not scream and so too for all of CLA Isel and especially in the days that we are right now this is our reaction prayer coming together to be each other that is the single greatest power that will help in ER Isel that will help protect the that will help bring back the hostages take each one safe and sound what will help positivity what will help praying to hasem mitvah all the things all the learning in the all the things that we do that's what greatly helps I have to share with you I got a call on AR Shabbat it was unbelievable there was a couple that called me they have a son two sons in fact in the army they called me up in the beginning rebi could you say some to heal him could you keep them in mind we want to give you their names I said okay they gave me their names they gave me other names and they said please I said I promise you I promise you are my word I get a call he was in the tank Kobe Kobe the son of KH he was in the tank the tank was hit it began to fill up with smoke they couldn't go because they couldn't get to the hatch to open it up there was no air didn't know what to do all of a sudden they realized they were being shot at on the top they could not go out the top of the tank because it was SAS they had no idea what they could do all all of a sudden from nowhere was not supposed to be on that particular stretch of land another tank joins Fires at the one that was firing at Kobe's tank was able for a moment to create a diversion the Commander in the tank hurried out went around opened the hatch was m nees saved their lives the guys inside on fortunately when they were running they got hit shrapnel so they went to a ruins and they stayed there for a while until they could people from the sahal could come and save them and take them to an ambulance that took them to two different hospitals and they were able successfully to get everything out one person had some uh in his back they had to operate but I got the Beautiful news that they're going to say I said you must take you must take a picture of that b they said Rabbi if you tell us to do it we'll do it but it's going to be on chabas okay in that case you don't have to take it the unbelievable thing is I get a call this morning as soon as Kobe can go back in he's going to to go right back exactly where he was from the beginning they just asked me could you keep up theot I said I'll keep it up from my side but I'm not sure that's exactly what was the uh the deciding factor here that's positivity that is looking in the correct lens because if a person does not look with the correct lens they look with their own feeling they look with their own perception they could be far off from what is correct just like you and I have to have in all that hem says in the Torah in everything that is written in all the so too says each and every one of us we have to believe in ourselves in our own Co it's extremely important that we frame things in the right way that we realize what Hashem wishes us to see I could be scared I could be upset however if I say before I go to sleep or when I wake up in the morning hasem I trust you my spirit is in your hands I'm with you Hashem you're charge of my life I have complete complete that whatever is going to happen and it should always be good for all of Cl Israel I trust it simple Marshall everyone we're going to AR Israel sooner or later hopefully sooner everybody we're going right I want to know if anybody before you go on the plane it's a big trip before you go on a plane do you interview the pilot do you uh ask the pilot for their experience you get their resume you see where they went to school how many years they've been flying what their ability is in the in air and if they've ever been trained you know and did you see them did you talk with them did you make sure they're up that day had a good night's sleep before uh you you interview I mean basically you're in their hands for how many hours it will take I went to Australia it's a long time to be in somebody's hands right no we trust them the same thing when we come to hem in our life no worries no upset Hashem I put myself in your hands take good care of me everybody we have that amuna we have that that hasem is watching and see L to each and every one of us I know it's an interesting idea a person never knows what their perception is Rev galinsky was once walking past an institution an institution people neb they didn't have it together not Bish mentally so there were two people in the institution was in Europe and uh to yeen they call reab reab come to the fence come come over here they're incarcerated in the institution they are NE inmates they can't get out so so he goes over he says yeah says reab it is the biggest Sim that we get to see somebody Jewish there's nobody no one from B Israel in the institution nobody at all it's an unbelievable that we can talk with you we can hear aish v a Jewish word oh he begins to speak to them and he says you should know the reason that we're here is really false reasons people put us in here they had us locked up we are sayane we are perfect like everybody else it's raus there's nobody to talk to could you be M on our behalf with Kinski said I got to help them they're in the institution he begins to take down the name and who they are and the address and everything else and he says okay I'll be Madel I'll try one of them said well Rabbi please you got to hurry up because every minute that I'm in here you're holding back the Gula you're holding back the Redemption reab Glen says what do you mean he says well I'm the Messiah and you see that as long as I'm in here I can't save CLA Isel R galinsky began to see all of a sudden the other guy said he is not I'm telling you he is not I know that he isn't he is not Messiah R galinsky said how do you know he's not mhia maybe he is the guy says because I'm Theon sometimes person has to keep the clear perception Who Am I who is hasem we have a certain amount of ability we have great great we all do each one of us but we have to know the way that we utilize it and that we ask everything thing we askem every bit of that we have when we're we know it's hem only with are we very fascinating idea if you take a look in the paraa there is something that is uh for me one of the most uh moving parot in the Torah one of the most mik so what happened yud y right Yehuda said listen bamin is a problem if we're going to take bamin down here it's going to be a problem my father is gone through a lot yobu went through so much he went through all kinds of things in his the Y was taken from him and begins to say please just do a SW swap let me stay let me stay let me not take bamin please please do a swap so he says the following I took responsibility for B I took responsibility I would like to ask everybody The Unbelievable members of The Young Israel him everybody how's it possible to take AAS Egypt parro locked up a couple of yeden walking around in the and he's going to take responsibility no matter what happens he going to bring bamin how could he take responsibility how could he take AAS that's like I would come and I would say take AAS uh whatever needs to be done right now in the Army I I'm going to cover all the expenses can't take fascinating fascinating the ab ner says when a person takes Aus they are given a person that will take responsibility will have Satay more than they could do through natural means just by taking AAS you think about it a lot of things happen we start to wonder about could I take a they need a minion uh can you come to minion uh what time minion seven I tell you the truth sometimes I sleep in I'm not sure I can give you my word on that uh can you help us out we want to go uh I don't know if I'm going to be in town that day I could be I could call you up take a take responsibility the person that takes responsibility they will be Z to get every everything in this world they will be they're going to be successful because they took you take something like uh things that we want to help out in ER Israel who doesn't think constantly about the hostages take a hostage a baby separate that from her husband she said I'll stay in prison don't separate me don't free me I'll stay right here he it's tremendous I'll stay here they went letter closenberg Reb saidas previous closenberg rebas is worse than the Nazis you can take a look at his s and I don't have to comment on the Reb's words they wouldn't permit him they would not permit her she is the one that when she came out stared in the face of her captors and gave them a look that everybody in the entire world saw she didn't wave goodbye she didn't smile she stared straight in their face and gave them a look as in that alone they should all be freed so you think how could I help I want to help the hostages I want to help I want to do my part the r schle and I were just talking before about various ways that possibly a person could help but you think but but the hostages but it's the thing quar and this place and the diplomats and all kind of thing you know what I tell you the truth I would rush the doors I'd come in I would love to go to the negotiating meeting I have a few things I would like to say they may not want to hear me but I sure would like to say a few things but what could we do what take a we may see it in a different way years ago thear Zar Nikolai made a decree took children hostages put them into the army from a young age never returned them home and every once in a while they would do their riches they would do their evil deeds and grab somebody from the street there was one woman in am Leno a widow she had a little boy and she didn't have money she was forced to go from door to door to raise money to get money to feed to put clothing on the little boy and she was walking around the Army came they had their instructions to bring a number of the boys back they saw this mother easy Mark with the boy they grabbed him out of her hands and that was it what is she going to do he's done he's hostage a hostage that may never return so she cried to herself however that chabas the great sadic reel salant the father of the musim movement came to town she don't know who salant is she's more of a simple person but when she saw the P when she saw shining out of his face she realized that this is AA this is somebody great and she ran over to him and she said please sadik help me my child and she began to tell him what happened salant listen listened to her story and said okay I will try whatever I can do when R salant takes AAS he takes AAS he takes responsibility it's not words it's responsibility Friday night beautiful ding Friday night everybody they were so enthusiastic ding together with reel salant nothing bigger than that in the world in every everybody was excited everybody was singing and was beautiful R salant didn't say a word he waited for the right time shabas morning ah Asos everybody came and everybody wanted to be together with him everyone watch him and everyone to get next to him and sit next to him shake his hand they made a beautiful Kish for him after in one of the big homes and R salant in his honor everybody body came he made Kish everybody heard his Kish after the Kish he stood up they realized he wanted to say some words so he said to them you are gim remember re salant never raised his voice never said a word that wasn't beautiful pure nice gentle derit he said you are all goov you are all murderers each one of you each one of you a kidnapper and he began to explain you're careful you eat matura highest level highest level it's got to be certain you won't e [Applause] it you're looking with the loop like it's a diamond to make sure even though 100% it's koser anyhow but you pule it up 10 times oh you want to be sure every don't cause pain that you're not so careful in h Mitzvah that you're not watching so much and when they kidnap somebody and they sell him most and it's found in his hand the guy has the death sentence that you're not so careful about oh other mes you choose and you pick well I want to tell you something re salant does not remain in a city with kidnappers with thieves with rug I am leaving shabas he walks out he leaves the city outside the city they were in an uproar you got a guest like Rus so salant and he leaves it's not simple somehow they were able to make the right connections and they got the boy back only when they went to tell salant outside the city that the boy was back did he agree to come back when he came back the mother of the boy was waiting for him with the little boy when risel salant came there she fell at his feet risel salant asked some ladies please pick her up this is not how R salant is m i could help I can't help there's a certain amount we could do there's a certain amount we can't do a person can do a tremendous amount we are of hasem We Are I can't say in another person everybody knows we know the you've learned it probably doing more learning than I am but you learn right not allowed to say it but you know what says why I can't sayar not only because it's not nice because each one of us is aim is the image of God I'm going to say lanar on you h I say I say every person has a little bit of Hashem inside of us that is the kaak that we have been granted from Hashem that coak a positivity of the way to look at others of the way to look at ourselves is what guides us through our entire life that a person should never allow things to get them down never allow themselves Toom to be never to think in any way that the situation is gone hopeless that boy will never come back he'll never be a good student she's off the D forget about it don't worry there's some people stay on the DK other people go off the DK ah this person never made a penny in his life he's a he'll remain a who says who who who you got the right to say it then correct your oner each one of us has the ability in one moment this marriage I want you to know there's certain marriages that okay but this who says who says Rim beloved friends so beloved friends is on a different level everyone is Hashem came to each one of our Hashem blessed us the great when it came to a wedding during the month of Alo he was afraid to look up was under the when they called him for he used to look down he was afraid to look up is there there is nothing that is beyond nothing that is beyond a person's ability in this world world I would like to quote to you for just one moment from the from the says that no matter where a person is at in life no matter what an individual is currently going through whether they are going through a time of great Sim whether they are going through a time of challenge sadness whether it's a time of riches whether it's a time of poverty whether it's a time of OB ET whether somebody is bothering them whether they have some source of aasish of pain in their life he says there is not a period of time does not matter what it is that a person cannot see the wonders of Hashem if they will open up their eyes no matter what the time no matter when it is no matter what the circumstances are are no matter how bleak a person merely needs to open up their eyes I would like to uh comment just about the amuna factor in being positive uh a lot a lot of good examples about uh positivity a lot of examples that are uh important on basically in every area of life when a person thinks good when when an individual knows that is for us the Y says that the reasons why things happen in our life is that a person should be misal that we should pray so sometimes I think maybe this is above prayer maybe I'm not that great of a d maybe I don't say all theas like I should maybe I'm not the holiest person I did a few AAS few not not me personally other people do have ARS I don't but just a know that there is no in sh a person could do a virus everybody does person could do it their ding is their ding their is their rebellious F said one time if you take a look and you see I don't know uh in west henstead but on con Island Avenue uh there's a few blocks you go out during a certain hour of the night you got all the the carpets out you got rebellious faith says you don't know what their prayers are doing you don't know what their prayers are doing imagine the from B Isel from us a person prays the doing that we do is so great the doing that we do can make the difference in CLA Israel the doing we do can make a difference in our own life a lot of times we say what's my prayers going to help maybe I'll go to the r and I'll ask him maybe I'll go to somebody who's great and I'll ask him my's what's my prayer we say exactly the opposite say it say your own says doesn't matter make it up say what you want talk to Hashem go out say to Hashem everything that you want and express it but express it with positivity say hasem I know you're the k you can do it you have the ability is the hand of ever too short never Hashem can make a way out of nowhere Hashem can help even at the time when we think that it is an impossibility that's the amuna that we live through life that's the ability that we have to call upon Hashem in every single circumstance no matter where we're at uh interesting shil theam says what happens if you have a person that doesn't have money a poor man lenu everybody should have a d hoer a lot lot of money poor person comes over he wants to borrow $1,000 $2,000 so he goes to a person who has means and he says could I borrow $2,000 the guy looks at him he he probably doesn't have $10 in his pocket he wants a borrow $1,000 someone asked Are you allowed to borrow or you allowed to lend you allowed to lend a person that money what happens if he can't pay back you can't set him up he can't pay back he becomes someone that doesn't pay back we have names for that but are you allowed toer says it depends when but AI a person could why because there's nothing that says that the person that's today's poor man or poor woman tomorrow they could be very wealthy tomorrow they could have tremendous amount of money who's to say our am and our is positive we take every single thing that happens in life you have a child a child grows we're positive about it we only say the correct things that will bring him or her to the higher level it's so important you know a little girl showed me her report card uh I got to tell you uh report cards we could save it from a different time but standardized testing and standardized grading and you know it's aoo by itself the little girl came to show me the report card in sh it was the cutest thing she I don't know how old she is she showed me the report card so instead of the A's and the B's they put smiley faces a beautiful thing little smiley faces like you get three smiley faces I I was I wish I got some smiley face we won't go into it but anyhow she shows it to me so she says I got three smiley faces in that area but I only got two smiley faces in the other area I didn't know whether Sheed that it meant that she didn't get the grade that she could have gotten I didn't say anything I was quiet when she went out with the older brother I asked the father does she understand what it is if you got two or three he said you know I was hoping that she didn't and she doesn't positivity that child does their best they deserve four bring it four that child give him five you me two your brain you you know thinking not everybody's Einstein not everyone's be ke AER not not everyone's rabits and kvi what does it mean when a person's s positive you're going to be great right each person according to their own abilities according to their own situation according to their own mat that's positivity that's when we look at everybody and we see their own cus we see the ability that they have to bring something out in themselves that is great I would like to say that uh if you take a look at ysep Yakov aino Yakov aino no greater example in the entire world than both forun for positivity look what happened y look where he's at look where he spent his time did he say one word did he say one word in when he was reunited with yakobin no he's living in MIT he was put into slavery he was put into the board they were going to kill him he was saved he was not mugal to be a slave to the isim he was not to be in the the impurity of he was not believe me you don't take it s like that out of the B medes and put him into into depth somewhere yob all the time yov went through all the he just want a few moments peace and Tranquility Hashem give me a little bit easy time give me a little downtime no Hashem said it's not meant for you look what he went through during his life look at this son that he had to be separated with all the years and they came wild animal L I have to think about that that's the thought that's the that yobu should have all the years unbelievable when finally they were all meeting back together so you know you know the story what happens is y falls on his shoulder yobu falls on his shoulder y cries yob says question all asked why daa at this moment specifically at this moment he had to sayma tell us that yobu was m sh he had complete faith in whatever happened he said all the 22 years I was in s the 22 years I was burning inside 22 years but now was revealed that there was a that there was a reason for it a m there is no happen stance there's no just something happened coincidence there is no coincidence in the world everything is and he said now it was revealed to me that Joseph was a m that he's going to save CL Isel he's going to save the world now I can understand so that's the reason he said kishma because when we say kishma we cover our eyes we realize that we do not know what happens in the world we realize that everything is badma we realize that we don't have a SOA we don't have a grasp of all that is going on and maybe when we cover our eyes it's also dark darkness we need to have great faith however when he saw all the that's when he chose to sayma because it all came together and listen listen to the words Hashem El the Divine attribute of strict Justice it's all one yobu said it's all one that's why he wanted to be M at that very moment the same in our own lives am Isel goes through this now I had a lady wonderful lady I met her in the Rockland Community College they brought me up for a a special uh series as a a woman and the lady uh very little background very Jewish but little background in terms of Jewish Education and she keeps in touch she is learning little by little the woman grandmother she is taken with the war in Israel she cannot get away I had told her you cannot cannot be peeled to the device you can't watch it's too much you can't do it it's every day she's worried about and she's worried about it I try to text back I'm not great in the texting but I try to text back to give her some words of however we should know that even the time that we are living through now is a time of greatness we don't even realize the things that are going on in this world we don't know how much we are moving closer to the time of we don't know what theia look like right now we're hearing from every side nees my nees from every my nees of the of the hostages that are there and the families there's no greater families in the world look at CLA Israel look at them anyone would crack anyone would be crying and on the floor and they're out being M other people it's a it's an amazing thing so one of the organizations and there are so many that are doing unbelievable work uh I saw a picture of Ari giving out in the uh in the troops zaka organization that helps in the times that are not so happy of bringing uh all that is necessary to cev you and to ensure the sanctity of anybody that was uh n to make sure that every little bit is uh taken in and there is nothing that belong to anybody any of the kados that is left behind and it's given the proper Covenant proper dignity so there was another member of the zaka organization that was called to kibuts to do what they call the removal of all the debris and things that might have any trace of the koshin he worked there for days and days and days came home one night after days of watching seeing the scene that a person should never see in their whole life he sees it every day nightmare replaying every day every day one night he goes to sleep and he has a dream no one to interpret it a woman who they brought to Kev Isel that day comes to him and says there are four other people that were nem and they are there in the same spot where you got me and they are waiting to be brought to C is he wakes up cold sweat ah dreams speak for all sorts it doesn't mean anything after this guy what he saw in his eyes he shouldn't dream he's not going to have nightmares he's not going to have Terror at night of course he's going to have it went back to sleep disregarded it next night didn't tell anybody next night same dream the woman comes to him and said I'm the woman that you brought TOA I'm telling you that there are four people in that area they are waiting in sh they are waiting for them they're waiting for them to come to their he wakes up again now I had to dream once so I going to have the dream a second time he disregarded it he disregarded it the third night it repeated the third night she came to him and she said I am begging you on behalf of the NEOS they have asked me to beg you please in sham they are waiting I will show you where they are buried in the dream she took him behind the house in theer in the courtyard there was a big stack of leaves and debris and all kinds of objects underneath underneath she points with her finger underneath are those people this time kazaka he couldn't deny it he get up he went himself the area was closed off it was sealed it was dangerous goes to the officer in charge the officer said you can't go he said I'm zaka he said you can't go I don't care who you are I'm zaka he kept saying there are people there that we didn't get he said you did all your work that you needed to you don't need to have any more work you're not going to go back he says I have to finally he was afraid to tell over the dream he shouldn't be looked at like somebody who's you know needs to go to uh for help he tells the officer I'm telling you I had a dream the dream was very clear the officer said you had a dream I have Kal too no no no it's it's bothering me the officer said I tell you what I don't know if you're crazy or if you had a dream I'll go with you the officer came together with him they went to the Courtyard exactly where the lady pointed out there were leaves and debris and they began to move them and move them and move them away underneath there was a wood under the wood they found four kosim that were brought to kurur M who knows the days that we're currently living who knows yob was M upon himself the when he saw Ys he was maabo he was accepting upon himself that am that in life everything that happens no matter what is min after all that has gone on within the past months all the good all the tiits all the tiits that are being worn the NIS one woman she was in the kibuts she looked out the second story she saw the rash coming down the street she realized what's going on she heard the gun she heard the fire she had two little children she looked out the window she knew she's finished completely not religious irreligious she said Bor save my children I'm their mother save me I promise you I will light candles for the Shabbat but save me so I can be a mother to the children who knows the power of a cabala nobody came into her house the next week they made a reception for her in the place where they settled her over 500 women came to see her light with a sheu for the first time in her life we are a nation that lives with positivity that will get us through the current time and B I got no question that we will be happy and we will be as the days that we were Afflicted just want to be to my good good friend you are a matriarch a patriarch Allin one now continue to lead the family continue to do your job we we all look up to you in good health and in happiness will'll all be reunited in the future everybody