Pesach Perspectives Part 4 Compassion & Sensitivity towards Others Rabbi Paysach Krohn

[Music] I want to tell you something also that is so surprising and just very thrilling for me personally because as you know my name is ASA no you'll see in a second you won't believe this you know when I used to play ball with the they caught me Passover right no Jenny would say Pesach today I made a hotel arrangement stuff like I'm going for Shabbos said to be in I'll tell you no I do indeed she asked me what's your name I said you know what I'll send your CD if you can pronounce it you know like they get a pizza no the can't say 2 CH right that's why they call it Chanukah so right they can't say 2 CH right so but what does place that really mean you're going to be surprised because the plastic tells us like this again she moisture base protocol kimmel var var Hashem lingo if estimate Ryan I shall test through Matt Ryan to play them Bourassa dumb alum Ashraf and he saw the blood under lento vez NOS dejan mezuzahs opaza Hashem you know Rashi says the pasta he know the means the homo Hashem and Ramona's that's what Pesach means some say it means Passover that's why because I shan't ESO no means that Sam and Ramona's and take a look at the target charge and says Viejo's Hashem Hashem Heydrich Manas and then a few become leaders most basic of Zion again it says Zeva fess up what is it Argan say devar Kai us anytime there's a Zion in the finish you take a look at this arguments of dollars so instead of Zeva it's devon but what space are is having Ramona's oh that's a different type of what the young turf is all about the younger folks pay suckers having compassion having Romanus on fellow Gidon that's what it's all about and that's why in my humble opinion when you open up the show Honora what is the first din that we learn in hill cause pays off what is there are more how did you begin the basic tells us Sheryl umbilicals place outside of my presentation I'm 30 days before you have you got to start learning dialogues that's a Simmental cause pets syphilis what is there a Marseille or mini-league no freedom look how kalanjiam lazarev Tessa you got Avraham onus on those poor people there many people here on West Hempstead that don't have the money you think that they have and when rabbi Kelemen these other two diem are collecting money for paisa that's a few of that we have to give that's the first din and you know what the mission brewery writes it's unbelievable it's frightening the mission Brewers have got involved the Ayla Hamish dumped and those who refrain optimum alien chemical name those who don't give my freedom or those who don't give for poor people yeh shoving the other that's a big Avera one of the first things that we must do this week if we haven't done it already is to make sure that the poor people have money for young cos not only matters but for meat and all the food plays as an expensive Yuans if everybody knows that and you have rubber bottoms that are collecting and of course they're never going to tell you who they're collecting for because we look around we think that you know everybody's prosperous in Long Island it's not that way the many translations organizations if you would come many knows what time Cassavetes in Kew Gardens is how many times if you would see storehouses storehouses of food that I give being given out to people and sometimes when I'm there it's embarrassing to see who's getting packages just embarrassing because you thought you darling with this guy right like what in the world is he doing taking these packages terraces because he's been out of a job you just don't know about it he's able to camouflage it that's the first thing of Rahman it's the second thing that I think is that this is the weekend we have to start inviting people not only to the Saddam's sometimes it's hard to invite the Seder because after all you want to spend very close time with the intimate family but for the meals of Pesach you can't do it next week next week it's going to be late already I want to tell you a story that happens with me I'm so humiliated to tell you the story but I'm going to tell to you anyway because I think it's a great lesson there was a fellow on my neighbourhood in Kew Gardens he used to come all the time used to come to my house for Shabbos and then he stopped coming then came the holiday of suckers I invited him any case the first night I was sitting in the silca it's ready after benching everybody left and I set them you know I just want to it's a question I hope you don't mind you know you used to come to my house so many times for Shabbos and you stopped coming like how come you stopped coming he says you really want to know oh boy if somebody tells you that you know you're in for it right you really want to know so I said yeah tell me he says okay let's go out of the sukkah so we're walking down the long driveway and he says to me what's a hood spur do you have to call me on Thursday to invite me for Shabbos you don't think I know Shabbos is coming you don't think I bought y'all or made soup or both challah what do you think I'm you're Eric I'm your hey fatso Mitzvah if you really care about me you don't fight me on Monday and Tuesday or you see me in show Friday night you're gonna invite me this is a show that it just shows you want to do a mitzvah but you know I'm not your garment I'm a human being I have sensitivities if you care about me you'd invite me early and that's the truth nobody wants to be invited as a second thought as a last minute now's the time now's the time to invite either to the star or the meal so first day of the second day of the shadows color mode whatever but you show people things you're thinking about that so wanted to give money more creative and the second thing is to invite and here's the third thing that most of us don't even think about and that is now a lot of children there have no place to go on Hollywood you know many of us are going to take our children eat at the concerts or to amusement parks or the Tampa Bay Yankee games Thursday night in Yankee Stadium now in Australia they won't know what in the world I'm talking about right Yankees are baseball folks but anyway in Cuba Latino or in Mexico and Chile where they play baseball right so that's great you can take your kids to ball game that's wonderful right you have to be able to afford it but ok that's another problem but there are a lot of children have no place to go and a lot of parents are embarrassed because they don't have their children on the way to take them because they can't afford it maybe now that we're planning what we're going to do with our children our column might start thinking about your neighbors kids or your cousin's kids or the kids down the block who don't really have somebody to go with that's what it's all about no single mother and no single father should be at a meal alone on yontiff you know I have a different Yakov Solomon he once told one of the saddest stories ever he told a story about a single girl who was never not invited anyplace and was the second night yontiff and she had to make kiddush and she's in her home alone and she forgot she didn't know that then on the second night yeah if this wasn't pizza I was like sure and she forgot do you make hishaku Yano on the second night of yontiff or do you only make sure he owned a bike it is the first night of yontiff and then when she spoke to Yakko Solomon who's a therapist she started crying and she said you know then I was thinking even if the din is that I'm supposed to make a chef you know so I really want to make a chef you know is this what I was waiting for Shakya no Vecchio monavie Gianna las manos they're a single girl to eat alone at a meal we have to have in every show somebody who has the responsibility to make sure that no single person a person who's living alone is going to eat one meal on Yom Tov alone that would be a tragedy all of us wouldn't want to do it we will polish so let's think about it let's make a list let's make a committee and make sure that no single woman no single man no single child no one that's looking for you should do comand living alone it's going to eat alone on yontiff and again especially with the children that's all parts what I believe was of that rough honest I'll tell you a great story if Sloane is Alberto Bravo was such a beloved god--all and Erica Sorrell a half a million people came to his l'viyah and he once he had a nephew named Mikkel he called his nephew and he said I want you to come to my house after you burn the comments in the morning and Mikkel his nephew said I don't know what he called him uncle or Roma zomling it's a girl out there I don't know how he called him uncle but whatever he called him he said you know it's such a busy days anyway that I come you know a couple days before he enters he said no you got to come after Bill after you burn the comments now don't forget energy show they have only one Seder you know we have one it's how could they manage only on one Seder right they have Ramona's enough like how can you go through to the d'oeuvre you know we love it I don't know what they do they manage it but whatever so everybody gets used to what they used to but energy stolen it's only one night so it's very busy that day but their son is almond insisted fine after Brio comments he comes running to his uncle and his uncle has ten envelopes on the table they're all sealed they're all address he says deliver these ten envelopes around you shall I am to where they belong now this Michael was involved with many many wonderful things and he had given out tremendous amounts of money for us of the poor people and he takes a look he recognizes some of these addresses he didn't know all of them but some of the people he knew and he said to his uncle these people already got money for your death there's no point in giving them money a couple hours or four years of nobody's going out shopping every under for moccasin wine whatever they have they have already he says don't ask me any questions just take the envelopes and deliver them okay he delivers now the first five that he delivered he was running from place to place because he didn't think that he would have time you know for all of them but by the sixth one he tallied a little bit he carried a little bit and the guy was so excited to get an envelope for some time he opened it up and Mikkel couldn't believe what's in it there was some money of cash but then there were tickets to the gong ha ha yo to the biblical Zoo tickets to the biblical Zoar who's going to the biblical Zoo Erev Yom Tov what in the world was the rush here so now when he gave to the next one he waited around to see what was in his envelope every envelope the same thing maybe 100 200 shekel of cash and tickets Tarragona health well he could not believe it now he had no time to go arrogant if Kay asked his uncle but right after young right after dawdling chakras call him whitey runs righteous oh he said you gotta explain this to me what was the rush to give these people tickets that I got a Hyeok listen to another goggle things he said I know the kids in your shil I'm on junk if they were going to come to shul and they would stop talking and they would start asking will you go for yontiff we're your parents taking you and some kids that would be so embarrassed they have no place to go they know that parents aren't taking anything so not only are you ruining the simplest yontiff of these children but these children are going to go home and complain to their parents how come you're not taking me someplace and you're going to rule the simplest yontiff of the parents so I wanted all these families to know they also have a place to go that's godless that place up that Romanus that's an awesome God oh that's thinking and we can do the same thing tonight that's what we have to do think about those that have less than we have and there's so many unfortunately out there that's what the young turf is all about now I don't know what goes on in West Hempstead but I'm sure that there's places just like template Shabbos in different areas where you can pack packages and deliver packages and if there's any way you could do it together with your children it's such a wonderful you know it's such a wonderful way of showing children that we feel so grateful so blessed by a Shem that we are able to be givers and not receivers and so if they're packing the packages or helping deliver them that's really incredible I want to share with you now a great great story that I heard from the person himself to whom this happened when I spoke to him he was already the RIBA and kayfa the cereth vision it'sa Rebbe he was a man probably 70 when I heard the story from him but this story happened to him when he was 8 years old see in 1945 when the war was over there were many uten who came back to Romania and they won the town of chair of it now they did not want to go back there but that was the only place that they could go until they could get visas and come to either at Israel or America Canada England or whatever so the schooling arriba revelry as osetia Portugal was just a wonderful wonderful person he helped so many people during the war he had so many boys and girls living at his home to make sure that they didn't have to go into the army that they would be protected and now after the war he was able to get a fellow and I just want to mention his name it should be a Swiss version of Shama his name was official careful fellow the city fellow a faucet of the Rebbe and accept him listen I'm giving you money I want you to go buy some wheat I'm going to go make Montez and now the Rebbe had a number of Malthus and he was going to give out to the hush of Raavan him that had come back from the war and settled in generous just for a little while until they could go someplace else so the Rebbe was giving out three martyrs to every other person to every person that had come especially if they were much of a people and he knew they're there he would send them to me monsters and this Rebbe who told me the story told me he was eight years old at the time his father at that time was the Sarah division to revi and his father said to him he said marshal I want you to go to the river and get me Martha's it comes to the river and the river says who are you he says I'm the son of the Sarah division to River or your father is such a Sadiq here I want to give you the best mother and he gives him three mothers and the little boy doesn't leave so their ever said you don't want to go home to your top down he said my father said I can't leave until you give me six months he said six martyrs what are you talking about I can't give you six I don't have enough I could give everybody for the first Seder I can't give I can't give out six martyrs the little boy said he says he told me he said to remember what should I do keep it over aim my father said I can't leave your house until you give me six so now the river stuck between a rock and a hard place right this little kid wants to be a tonic where it's trying to listen to his father and you know he doesn't have enough montes so the river said you know your father's a big Sabich wish him a good Gionta for me and here six months and he gives us six months to three weeks ago by air of youngters this little boy told me his father sends him back to the school honor ever and he gives them back to him at ease wherever test him what are you doing were you making fun of me what's going on here I didn't want to give you six matters I didn't have enough and your father made me give six month is now you're giving me back three listen to what the little boy said he said my father said I should tell the river that he knows that the Rebbe is such a big topic that he probably gave wait all the best mothers to everybody else and he has almost nothing for himself so my father took extra Montes so that he should be able to give you Erev Pesach the best mattes and these are the three that you could use for the Seder and you know something scaliness see them told me those were the three that he used that's great people the school in Rev is thinking about everybody else and the sarod vision so every is thinking about the calendar every that's what godless is all about that's what the yontiff of Pesach is all about that's there are Manas that sensitivity I want to share with you an amazing thing that you could tell over at your Seder because it's so vivid and it's so amazing this story and it has to do with a little child who again told this story when he was an old man and that was her Shimon Schwab it's not an easy story to listen to as you'll see in a second but he asked a question the Gomora tells us I'm sucking cooked as I am a base and we read this in the Haggadah behold darvid or high if Adam Leroy sits at my every person has to see himself te lo who used to live in China as if you want Adam it's Ryan Suresh Wahby how could I feel that I went out of a tribe that happened thousands of years ago what connection that we have we live in a different era in a different place how can we connect in such a way how can we feel that so that's what I was telling you before about showing about the children with immigration but rush once tells a different story he said when he was nine years old he was raised in Frankfurt in Germany and unfortunately he had the whooping cough now the whooping cough is a terrible illness for children the kids go into terrible coughing spells the facial veins are swollen and they can go into violent coughing and they just have shortness of breath it's terrible so every generation has its own way of healing things and the way they heal kids who had the whooping cough is they would take this huge pot of hot water that was lit up by kerosene and the child would bend and the vapors would go in2 he was suckin the vapors into his lungs and hopefully that would clear his lungs so I'm sure I've said that's exactly what they did in his house and he was bent over the big heavy pot that was with kerosene never somebody walked by tipped it over and a hot scalding water fell on his left arm and he was screaming and yelling and crying until the doctors were able to come with Sam's an oink bent and take away at least this thing of the burn but he writes that's for one year one year his left arm was discolored now he wrote something I couldn't get over this he said that there's not one cell he said if I show you now my left arm this is the left arm that got burned he said but there's not one cell in my hand today that existed then he said cells and I looked it up live for a hundred and twenty days I couldn't get over it we tell everybody they should live and be well too longer than 20 cells also live still on June 20 like amazing right so cells live to 120 days sir I'll Schwab said you see this arm if I tell you this is the arm that burned but it is beyond that burned but there's not one cell that then that was then out so what's the answer because it regenerated and if it regenerated and regenerated it's still the same arm and he says that's how we have to look at it although 600,000 men and their wives and children they all regenerated over and over and over and we are the same arm so to speak as what they are we have their DNA in a sense because they rebirthed they had children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren all the way down to us that how you think about it and you tell the children this story so we may not look like them and we net may not experience what they experienced but we're their direct descendants and that's why we could feel this