Eating on a First Date

[Music] the first rule of dating is and don't ask a big shock of girl out on a first date to eat if you're taking a girl out for the first date and don't invite it to a fancy restaurant and don't ask you out to eat why because likely she's gonna be very uncomfortable after all she'll be sitting there and she's gonna say what do I do slurp the spaghetti crunch on the lettuce she's very likely not going to agree to go therefore don't ask a girl out to eat on a first date now that's a very interesting piece of advice but I'd like to share with you a very interesting observation imagine we have a young woman who's 21 years of age and assuming that she's been eating square meals since she's about three years of age now the average person eats three meals a day 365 is a day about days in a year about 1,000 meals that means this young woman has eaten approximately 18,000 meals in her life why did she have a wonder before what I do slip the spaghetti crunch on lettuce how did she manage to get past all of those meals till then and the answer is she has no problem eating but you see when she's on a first date it's a very uncomfortable position why because listen this might be my bye shirt and this might be the person I spend the rest of my life with and she's very concerned with making a very good impression that single cognition is the most fundamental to a Jew's growth if I could ever get clear one single fact Hashem is present right here not up there in the heavens and of course a Shem is there as well and more significantly Hashem is here as I speak as I walk as I get behind the wheel of my car and the greatest exercise to bring that understanding to me is Dominic when I Dom into a Shem and I speak directly to my Creator I begin understanding it I began understanding that Hashem fills the entire cosmos with his presence but that means also here and as I speak to a Shem and I further understand it I gain I grow more than anything I recognize that a Shem is my Creator upon him I depend and a sham is present with me all of my life [Music] you