Chazaq event with Rabbi Jonathan Rietti on the "Laws of Thinking"

we're gonna start off with most obvious question who's the real me who's the real you your body yes or no no is it your clothes obviously not is it your career is it your money your assets who's the real you your soul in what sense is how do we know the real you is your soul and how do we get a grip on what that actually means for those still awake so we're here tonight to talk about reality thinking versus non reality thinking because the real you the real us as we know is really our mind our mind actually is our neshama we're gonna talk about this with a few references your soul your neshama is limited or unlimited how do you know it's unlimited because God said so where did God say your soul is unlimited all right okay we're gonna start at the beginning it's a good place to start I had a friend actually who went to a psychiatrist and he the doctor asked him you know so tell me know what your issues are look I have so many problems I don't know where to start he said well it started beginning oh okay in the beginning I created the heavens and the earth I created the heavens enough alright nevermind he thought he was God so we're gonna begin at the beginning when a college Sparkle created man what is the description he uses to describe how man is created by eat sashimi okay mush em yet so but it's I mean comes from were designed yachts are is designed bara means create the difference between creating and designing is what when you create you create from nothing only I got his power couldn't really do that but answer means you take something that already exists and then you form it you shape it transform it this make sense but it's irrational Kim Adam Arthur mean Adama man was created no so created man was designed by a core Sparkle afar the dust the dirt from the ground so so far the component of man is that he's made from Adama you are made out of all the minerals from the ground the epoch top of the verse is not finished yet and he blew into his nostrils nice Matt I am a soul and how do you translate high in so the King James Bible says life and unfortunately almost all our translations follow so one times they should be living soul let's do this very quickly I am is lasagna heat or a pin is it singular plural plural so what's the correct translation life thank you your soul is called nish mark I am the work hyeme means lives there is no word in Lashon ha kodesh in biblical hebrew for the singular life the work hi is an adjective it means our life o Avinu hi our Father is still alive in respect to Yaakov Aveeno oh dear ourself hi you know step is still alive there is no word in national Kaddish for life if there's no word in national kodesh for life in people people what does that mean about the word that you and I say as life what does that mean if we've got a word in English and there's no equivalent in logic I - and Larnaca - Biblical Hebrew created reality so it's in God's dictionary crime is in dog code section right high means alive there's no singular there's no word for life in logic Irish which means what it does not exist there is no such thing as a life Khayyam means lives that means that your soul is an ich Mart a soul of the tough at the end of the word neshama means its construct which means it belongs to the next word it's a soul of lives every time you come back here that's another life but really it's not just that it's this world it's not the real world Alam Hauser is one life but the real life is Olam haba Obama's air is called a La Marche care it's just a dim yawn it's not real even science agrees that the vast majority of you and I experience is not real your granite countertop at home is solid work well it appears that way but scientifically what will a scientist standing next to you tell you out of this solid rock how much of it is actually matter physical reality and how much of it is made up of empty space and the answer is there's an answer to this depends on what which physical material take but granite is 99.99999 you've gotta go eight points till you get to the one meaning it's 99.9999% empty space it's point zero one one one point zero zero zero zero zero zero zero zero nice faces later 1% physical matter that means to say that the atoms are moving so fast that you know in our interface with this solid granite experience it as completely solid but in reality in physical reality it's actually mostly 99.999999% empty space this means to say om has a really is Adam young and it goes way beyond that what you and I see is not real don't trust your eyes that's not me speaking a Kurdish Pope who warns us luta Toru don't follow our a levar CEM your thoughts we're gonna get then a few moments we are very a nation don't follow your eyes why not well whose eyes am I supposed to follow whose thoughts am I supposed to follow if I can't trust what I see what am I supposed to trust and the answer is the latter sorry trust that Shem who tells me what reality really is 10 points for gryffindor that was very good do you follow that do you follow so comes along a college Bachmann says please learn my Torah so when you look at the world you'll be looking at it through my eyes so how does God think so I know what to think this making sense because the real us is not our body that's just a colleague that's just a vessel that takes us to where we go but the real us is our mind the word for mind most of the time throughout Tanakh is live live unfortunately because it's miss translated in the King James Bible oh is popular to translate it as heart but the majority of times the word life is not referring to your heart it's referring to your thinking the proof of that and this this will take from Maharani offers whenever you want to know the meaning of any word find it where it first appears in the Torah so the first time that the Torah tells you the word live is in the paragraph pass okay in Bereshit the yarra shemesh m sake rapid on the negativity of mankind was abundant the coal yes sir and all the design mahashiv 'it was massive amine source where did you thinking in your mind the cold hits and mohabbat leap or rock rock all iron all the design of the thoughts of his mind were negative all day long you do your thinking in your mind you don't you thinking in your heart so the correct translation is actually mind shalom america we quote in everything good morning in our prayers are about mahashiv vote believe ish what you thinking there are many thoughts in the mind of a person robert mahashiv earth believers that's a Teixeira he took home really God is going to have his way and that's guaranteed what's his way so what I'm just trying to build a case here for a first understanding that the real us is not our body it's our mind it's our soul and the soul lives forever because it's nitch mark IM it exists in this world and it will continue to exist in the next world that's why when we make the barakah it's 1s ray there are many topics assume I said which one topic is repeated than most times anyone anyone here tarbush - ray so well you take a quick scan the one item that is repeated five times in Shmona s ray is three automate him go check it out when we make the Baraka Baruch Hashem Muhammad in Mohammed vomiting is it ye hai yeh he will revive the dead or make oh yeh he's doing it now it's in present tense do you hear the question what do you mean you're doing it now Takata meet him hasn't happened yet no no no no the main theorem a team that we are looking forward to is after me share comes but the main one is happening all the time every time a person dies what happens to their soul it's elevated and reunites to miss original source and therefore he may I am a team a shame is constantly bringing life to the soul that is leaving the dead body when it's buried and now it's reunited with a college bar aku so let me explain this a little clearer when Hashem says I made you out of two components our farm in our Dhamma very year popped up of new schmuck I am two components the ground and soul breathes in to us by Hashem car vehicle it's a it's a metaphor in the lotion of the result that when you see a glassblower fashioning the shape of the glass at the end of this long tube where is the glass getting its shape from what and the answer is your breath which is coming from your lungs so caviar all so to speak the essence of you your air in oxygen as you breathe out that is actually fashioning the glass so caviar explains the result when Hashem gives the metaphor of him blowing in the nostrils of man his soul which lives in lives this world and the next forever as many gill ghulam as many times we have to come back down again that would be another life in another life another life says the Ariza then you are helic Alok anima Hashem can yahoo is breathing into you from his essence and that's the language of Yavin and hazael tell us hey let Elohim email is a reference to the neshamah the soul this breathe into you now listen to the curse Adam gets from Hashem when he ate from the tree he got a number of curses one of them was you will return to the ground he are far Arta avatar shove you are dust from the ground your soil from the ground and you shall return to the ground the problem with that basu is something is missing what's missing what happened to the soul in the description of man's design and creation there's two components but when you talk about him dying you only talk about the body going back to the earth what about the soul and the obvious answer is you can't destroy the cont'd I goes back to where it came from Akash Morocco oh so reality thinking has to do with recognizing that we are our thoughts our soul is made up of our thoughts who is our teacher I'll take your question coming just a few moments who's our true teacher your answers correct mater Sparkle how do we know he's out - teacher so let me share with you please be more for me if I quote the Christian Bible are you okay with that please forgive me because this is this is what doing all the time how do we translate Rebbe teacher what's the origin of that the word Rebbe is translated by the Christians as rabbi teacher how do we translate Malamud teacher that's the correct translation according to King James Bible how do we translate the word Mora teacher thank you how do we translate the word minute mechanic teacher or educator does anyone have a question what's your question is your question on the Christian translation or do you think I have a question on lost okay - where's your question that the gospel would shows four different names for what you and I call teacher teacher teacher teacher so who's wrong who's wrong the Torah or the translation just be honest obviously the translation how can we have four names for the same thing it's impossible so please be mocking me if I if I quote you am i offending anybody if I base the Torah on on CASL and not the Christian translations am I not I don't want to be accused of breaking the Messiah here's I'm I'm okay okay so so listen carefully what is Amal Ahmed so says Mitsuda David you'll find this in paragraph game of puzzle half dollar initially on the word year Leticia yo let her come on the world you let her come when you give birth to a wise person says the matsuda tavad yer lid giving birth is a lotion of Malamud what's a Mohammed that we translate or miss translators teacher here's a mullet hokhmah the lleva talmud he's causing the birth of wisdom in the mind of the student you see contrary to what we usually think as a teacher I'm here to teach students here to learn I'm here to talk student is here to listen I'm here cuz got the answers student has not got the answers teacher has the information student doesn't have the information that is a one-way street comes along the Torah and it's written the Kailash is written so you can understand it the minute you read and you know she regime you know the verbs and you know all the prefixes and suffixes all the shamash him guess what's going to happen the minute you start reading the Torah you know you will be forced to what think and ask questions because the troubles written so it won't make sense the touch of our pair is missing and that's what's that's gonna give you fill in the missing information but the trial itself is written so that the non-jewish world has no access to a Torah the Torah was written so anybody who wants to be part of this has to be part of the missing information the trash about path you cannot understand a single pass up is not one worse verse in the entire Torah that makes any sense literally it's always written with grammatical inconsistencies lost and sokka's possibly cave in a cave is 'aka yock head rubbing rubbing rocket inconsistencies in shut constantly and it forces you to ask questions forces you to think where you can get your answers says the mutsu that muhammad is someone whose mullet you caused the birth of wisdom in the mind of a student how do you do that repent lemon the answer is before you were born and got this knock over here what what were you busy doing inside the womb of your mother learning Torah oh so it's all there already do you know what a shame is called you say every morning in piccata Torah Baruch Hashem ha Melamed Torah liam Oh Israel you are extracting from us the information that was there originally you help us reveal what's already in here you have innate intelligence innate wisdom innate divine connection that's your soul that's your mind literally so you're gonna see in a few months where we're really going with this if this is really true that you are more a mind than anything else and your eyes even your eyes our eyes deceive us all the time I'll prove it to you there's something that's extremely obvious but so obvious your brain has decided to not pay attention to it even though your eyes can see it and I'll prove it to you I will not manipulate you close your right eye and look down to the bottom right corner with your left eye what do you see what do you notice your nose now close your left eye and with your right eye look down to the left bottom left what you notice the other side of your nose is that right now open both eyes and look in front of you where's your nose it's still there but you're not paying attention to it why not because you don't see with your eyes you see with your mind your mind interprets what you see and even will block out what's literally I can't say in front of your nose because it's it's even sooner than that oh so you and I don't see with our eyes we see with our mind so if I've got an interpretation that's negative about life about my wife about my kids about my spouse about my house about my health about my wealth I'm a poet and I know it if I'm going to have a negative impression about you my mind will tell me what I'm looking at and if I don't stop thinking negatively about you I will actually file the negative reports my mind has made about your character and theirs in the Torah how many Mitzvahed how many my spot in the entire Torah 613 how many of them instruct us what to think how to use our mind how many are Atari ugh it's an important question and the answer is 51 safer car radium one of the Maria misses one of the counters of the Mitzvahed gives you the the full listing of every part of the body which is done by different mitzvot the one that's done with your mind there are 51 Mitzvahed you know why that's significant I'll tell you why because even though there's only 8 percent of of teriyaki it's not shall tell you why because today until the share comes and the actually she is rebuilt the temple and we got all the mitzvahs of to man Tara and all the proper agricultural laws guess how many miss bought apply to us today 279 how many of those apply to women by the way and the answer is check it out yourselves 270 out of 270 279 Mitzvahed what is the percentage of 51 what is 51 out of 250 one thing this pops me one for this I write could take a vote if you like we can take a vote your mind is everything what you think not just matters it creates your reality but there's two parts to this presentation reality thinking non-reality thinking reality thinking God exists in my life non reality non reality it's you for the children I'm going in the way about we ways reach them it's useful the finance is such a mess I gave you the best years of my life when I'm blaming other people where's God out of the picture so I'm in non-reality thinking jealousy no talk mud lot it's over there's two myths out there one is Tony don't plan ways to get what the other person has and the other one is control the desire jealousy is in the top ten literally of their sera congi Brad got it got the top ten what's it doing there where does jealousy take place in your pinky your elbow your kneecap where's jealousy oh it's in your mind unfortunately thanks to Christianity please be welcome if I'm knocking cuz I'm not here to caucus now I'm just explaining they had an agenda it was very very clever when they when they translated our Torah in King James Bible 1604 through 1611 the sorry 6064 I believe it was now 47 sorry 47 Cardinals 46 of them were professors and Cardinals they were linguists they were in the three most prestigious universities in the world which were Oxford Cambridge and Westminster of course all in England Harvard didn't exist yet it's only about 300 years old you're going back 1604 these 47 Cardinals had 15 criteria conditions of how to translate our Torah based on the Hebrew Bible and search of Septuagint the Greek translation and a Latin translation into an English which King James wanted to be the final revised version of the Bible that no church would be allowed to read any other version of so amongst those 15 conditions was that if any word in logic adesh translates into a word that doesn't match Christian dogma what should they do change the word slightly so throughout enough and these weren't these were not our mejor ups him completely because they he knew Latin Greek Biblical Hebrew Mishnah Hebrew there were grammarians they were extremely precise in the Hebrew grammar so they knew exactly what they were doing when they took words that don't match what it really means but I'll explain the word llave they translate his heart the problem though is that the word live has four meanings throughout Tanakh one is a metaphor it's a muscle like you say Caputo remote Bolivian every morning you say the earth congealed became dry and in the depths of the center of the sea as we went through the answers so there's no lathe in the young it's a metaphor it's a Michelle but in the middle it congealed so you use that as a metaphor there's no lave there sometimes as we had last week's parasha by a canon not yesterday's last week's where Monsieur Boehner was described Hasini Azhar Harbor where hard labor Jemima the James on the mountain were flaming odd lavash mime till their heart in the skies there are not there's no heart in the skies as Russia explains it means in the midst the talk in the midst of all that noise and the fire and the darkness and the cloud and in midst of all that that's what it means it's simply a metaphor sometimes the word lave means your physical heart like our on a coin parapet impartial tits of a he wore the ocean El Libre on against where his physical heart was and sometimes it can mean an icon of your emotions very rarely verse vast majority of times is referring to your mind your thoughts so once you know that now translate the Torah not according to the Christian Bible let is not a bill evolve eka don't hate your brother where in your mind now the word live means mind but says safe car radium whenever the word live is doubled over live Arvika or live avec m it's referring to both parts of your mind what are they excellent the Torah tells us that a Shem wants me to love him behold the valve occur with all your thoughts lave means mind or thought live bakka means all your thoughts which are all your thoughts so because I'll tell us it's last mission in bra code Barrett para para cute a pair of tests sorry pet hahaha hey Vishnu Vishnu it's a record-high yet sir told the her yet Sarah so they're two types of thinking there's positive and this negative yetzer Tov literally means a designer a y it's our as a designer via Terra is a negative designer so you and I each of us have in our mind there are two ways to design our lives some people look at marriage as a battle some look at it as a challenge some look at it as hey I'm really growing from this very difficult and others are actually blissfully happy can you believe that no but that was not meant as a joke is just pure him okay no mind so comes along the Torah and tells me the whole of Africa means with all your thoughts which thoughts you're good and you're negative so when you see something that you shouldn't look at how do you love Hashem with that and the answer is by switching the thought to a good thought and Hashem says you did that because you love me when a person gets angry and then controls their anger and switches it to an apology appreciation admiration kind words less accusations less blaming that's taking the it Sahara the negative thinking which the Christian Bible translates as the evil inclination that's not what it says yet sir says the Zohar on part benefit when Hashem created man he designed him for Yeats irish-american a farm in Adama yes sir is miss spelt with two years there's no misspellings in the Torah but it's misspelled you know you don't spell yet kids are with to you it's only one so why does the Torah do it with two years and the answer is there are no mistakes in the Torah it did it deliberately to force you to think and ask a question what are they two units you don't need to you it's in the words are so answers the first part there when Moshe Ben wrote that word he asked a sham Rapunzel um why am I writing to you it's for you sir soshim said oh because there's two painters - designers inside your mind there's a good designer yetzer Tov and a esraa a negative designer you get to choose the pictures you hang on the walls of your mind you get to choose the meaning of those pictures on the walls of your mind you get to choose what life is you get to choose what marriage is what children are you get to choose what your impression of yourself is you get to choose everything it's all in your mind to be more precise likutey my run from rebbe nachman of breslov interim tests in the first hillock of of liquid iran hmmm test he actually says yet sir yet this negates rim they hit Sahara Hema Mohammed wrote the ayats had taught him a moksha but to avert this is really spelled out the it sort of is what your thing when you're thinking good reality the it is thinking negative non reality jealousy is what reality or non reality why is it non reality why why and it's negative why is jealousy non reality what's the what's the reasoning because if Hashem exists reality thinking and he knows everything and it's true that I say every morning shower Sally cold turkey he's already provide his bastards already provided all my needs then what you've got doesn't belong to me and if I want something I should work for it and if I don't get it obviously I don't need it so that's called reality thinking non-reality thinking is every time I look I seek I wish I had a wife like him I wish I had a husband like her I wish I had his intelligence I wish I had her looks I wish I guess lots I wish I had his figure her figure and listen if it motivates us to change ourselves that's permitted and that's positive jealousy you can use jealousy to your advantage because the gates at opiates are how I think negatively or positively is not dependent on you the shape of your body or how much money you have that I don't or the size of your home that's bigger than mine it's dependent on what am I thinking how do I interpret what you've got and if I open your intelligence as hurting me I will have a choice to either be hurt and resent you for your superior intelligence better marks in class or more let at the end of your name in your career or I will turn the jealousy into let me work on myself let me read more books let me become more curious let me try and harder so that I can develop my mind like he has like she has so jealousy is not intrinsically negative but our Shem listen very carefully if I tell you don't eat that put drink that poison obviously it's predicated on you having the ability to avoid it is that right so every single law I said every single don't in the Torah is actually a vote of confidence when God says don't be jealous what's he really saying I designed you with the ability to not be jealous hey it might not be easy I might have a very difficult background where I was put down and compared all the time to my brothers and sisters and therefore jealousy comes very easy for me but nevertheless God says hey if I told you you can control it that means you can I've designed you with a mind that can control itself sinner hatred where does that place take place your pinky your elbow your kneecap wears sinner notice not it's a key card bill barber co don't hate your brother in your thoughts because if I don't stop thinking negative about you what's going to happen and this is where it gets really bad news if I don't control my jealousy if I don't go to all my hatred look Tito don't bear a grudge what's that mean Rashi tells us natira means guarding don't God negative judgments about other people and remember what they said or did negatively against you because that creates resentment and if I go to bed resenting you tonight guess who's not sleeping a good night you or me I'm suffering Anna Shem says Lotito don't hold a grudge don't bear a grudge don't remember negative things people did or said against me and where where do I have to work on that oh that's my mind that's my thinking so she was giving me a vote of confidence that I can control my interpretation of dad mom brother sister-in-law friends neighbor boss who's really not nice at all sometimes very unappreciative and very demanding and over micromanaging drives me nuts and college Baku says don't go to sleep with it if you want the myths of taka car where you ask them my friend Lamar see Takako why did you do that or why did you say that and give them a chance to apologize or explain that's a separate Mitzvah but the Mitzvah of the Lotito means don't hold a grudge over here lotty calm don't take revenge but where's that start Oh planning how to get back at you how to you got me I'll get you back but much worse Lutie calm don't take revenge where's that start is controlling the mind is this clear there are so many mitzvot of the mind bit said ich dich put on me TECA what does that mean you saw someone do something wrong and it's possible in your creative imagination to select an interpretation that puts them in a positive light which of the two does the Torah ask you to select what you heard and saw or start exploring your creative imagination and come up with any story you can put them into a good light which of those two does it ask us to do look for the good and if I can't find any what would I say to God God will say look if I told you that santak teach bottom attacker which has several meanings one is for judges in court that's one of the meanings of that mitzvah that I have to be righteous in how I judge them so you don't get to sit down while this guy stands up and you don't get to have less time than he does to speak it's got to be equal but there's another explanation which is this it's also the same Mitzvah but select ish but Amita is the source for having done it call Adam like after good and that reply of refers to all of us who are also judges because you and I are judging every waking moment of our lives with judging ourselves with judging God were charging the world with judging our husbands our wives our children our careers our boss our co-workers our neighbors our neighborhood our leadership where our community constantly making judgments making decisions and God is telling me please be in control of my mind because if I don't stop thinking negative I'll end up feeling it in my heart oh no if my heart the icon of emotions gets controlled by jealousy hatred resentment interpreting you negatively instead of positively but said that each parameter car what's going to happen to my emotions they become angry bitter frustrated resentful and now what might happen is guess who becomes in control of the real me me or my emotions that's dangerous when my emotions take place that's really dangerous but the good news is this your emotions are completely helpless without your thoughts and the reason why I correspond there are several reasons why did I Shem allow the word Lev to have more than one meaning the simplest answer is most of the time you and I are not paying attention to what we're thinking but you know what's much more obvious what we're feeling so if I say I'm feeling very frustrated by now or very angry what am I really saying what am i revealing I'm revealing I've got angry thoughts frustrating thoughts do you understand the reason why a champ wants the word Lev to mean both my thinking and my emotion is because he wants me to understand that my emotions are clues they're very big clothes for me to understand me this one frequently angry what does that say about what's going on in my mind frequently was a person I frequently get angry with I'm thinking negative about that person is this making sense so a Shem gave us the emotion in order to reveal to ourselves what we're thinking because the moment we caught then my emotions are not triggered by you behave by the market by the snow on my party and the rain on my party and it's not really my boss that I'm angry it's my thoughts about my boss about the weather and therefore do I have to wait till it stops raining snowing boss stop lacking appreciation and micromanaging or can I change my mind and when we change our mind what happens over here it switches immediately do you follow this and therefore the word lave has to be both there's other reasons rabbi a victim L who talks about this many times on his tapes many times the word lave correctly translates as mind thinking he he translates Calvo to Olive avert he avoids the the translation that weave is classical based on the Christian translation of lave he doesn't translate it duties of the of the heart he calls it duties of the mind because that's what it means do you follow the vast it's not just the vast majorities more than nine times out of 10 it means that the word lave is there to help us understand the connection between our emotions and our thinking and it's very liberating because if I really realize hey it's not my husband it's not my wife it's not my children it's not the finances and it's not the health it's my mind if I change my mind about health and start paying more attention to eating more healthy drinking more sensibly exercising taking care of my body because I've changed my mindset about who my body is guess what will happen I will feel differently towards junk food smoking drinking the wrong drinks our feelings are controlled by our mind and the more we analyze our feelings being triggered by other people and circumstances background and then try and analyze and tear apart another layer of where the pain comes from without recognizing that in one second we can change the entire essence of who we are I'll prove it to you sure hon oh look code of Jewish law synonym of head I believe it is section 38 in ebenezer I'm gonna embellish it slightly but the halacha is you know someone is a Russia he's he's got a head soccer he's a known to be a wicked person I'm gonna give you a scenario which is not what it's describing but it will help you understand what it's referring to when it's close him a Russia you see someone killing a ham cheese sandwich on right at the end of Yom Kippur and in last seconds of Yom Kippur without a barakah of course he takes a bite and he swallows the last bite just as Yom Kippur goes out you saw him in front of your eyes grill that's a melaka itself cheese and ham - is sirum that's possible olive and her ham is also trait and he grills it together so it's real bitch'll between the two and now it takes a bite swallows it in the last second that they he swallowed he takes out a ring he puts it on the finger of a lady next to him and says hurry up Mika definitely behold you are betrothed to me a lot on condition Shawn eats a dick then I am a righteous individual says rabbi akiva ager the correct gear sir is Shawn it's a big Gomorrah I'm completely righteous once the halacha makuta Shetty is it a valid marriage yes or no interesting yes it is what's the reasoning Shema perhaps here to Shu verbally poor in the moment between swallowing and saying you are betrothed to me unconditional I'm a completely righteous individual perhaps he had a thought in his mind he her tissue a burly boy oh really and therefore Miku - yet it's a valid marriage and if they don't want to stay married then you need a real divorce do you follow them now let me share with you how does God look at the world positive-negative somewhere in between what's called reality thinking we already know anger is not reality jealousy is not reality thinking having a grudge against a person I'm out of reality it's not just I'm out of reality I'm not living because every moment I'm angry at the world Hashem people my life my party I'm angry with my children my siblings I'm losing in that moment who I really am I'm a mind that's supposed to be paying attention to God's reality and the more I'm in tune with his reality the more we are aligned with the real world what's the real world it's all in embarrassed it's any clues you want of how we are just looking better at the end of each day of creation except one Hashem gives a report well he gives a report at the end of each day but there was one he'd missed out the full report at the end of each day by RFM ki Tov now if God says something's good that must be pretty good do agree I mean if I give a headshot it's relative but God gives there so oh my gosh do you agree them and probably everyone should accept that hexler to agree says he said it's good do you agree yes or no now that's good the world's not finished what's good the earth appeared on the third day the fourth day the Sun Moon and stars they're put in their locations the fifth day all the birds and insects the sixth day will the animals and then man himself right at the end and at the end of each day except for the second day when the waters will split if something is meant to be together and it split where it's not meant to be then a gem said I can't say that's time so but he made up for it by saying time twice on the third day but but what was so good if God is saying it's good he's saying he's thinking it's good yeah listen I'll ask you like this having anyone got teenagers anyone here got teenagers so you appreciate why some animals eat their young but as pure humans not reflection on reality whatsoever so let's say you go into a teenage room oh my gosh you know your room so you know what you want to be able to use my car Saturday night Sunday then you got six hours to make your room completely tidy that's it six hours that's it you come in one hour later and you look at the room oh my gosh what a mess it's much worse than when we started you come in an hour later and you give your book this is crazy it's just total chaos here third hour you come in and you start noticing oh there's a pile of dirty linen here a pile of books and they start noticing Oh things are starting to be put in their place and by the end of it then you realize oh there was a process then until it switched from complete chaos to starting to look tidy and eventually be tidy I would easily fall into the trap of thinking it's not good so God comes along and about his own unfinished job says it's good really yes process is good now watch this when was man made six day which hour of the sixth day give my wrath Sanhedrin da Flom it had page 38 check it out the body was created in the third hour his body was taken from different continents so that wherever it would be buried that ground would accept him because it it contributed to his body so it's part of that land literally fourth hour Lisa baunach muttered in the fourth hour god injected in him he is neshama fifth hour on that but I'm a paragraph he stood on his feet standing is always a metaphor for independence that's where the English expression he could stand on his own two feet in the penance six-hour he names all the elements in creation all the animals he gives them names he had dart alien Hashem had given Adam a mind where they get his mind from Hashem himself so he had such a perfect mind he could see which are taught which letters Hashem had to pronounce to create every element in creation and he was able to identify what the names of every single element every single animal seventh hour he married cover eight hour she gave birth to kine and sorry and to Kai pebble no kine and his twin sister ninth hour he gets at Savoy he gets her a command don't eat from the tree ten hour he ate from the tree eleventh hour Hashem sits in judgment 12 hour expelled from granadan at the end of the 12 hour just like at the end of every other day God sits down so to speak to give his final report hmm saw it Casa all that he had made vahini he needs a very spoiled important worth here the Christians got it right means behold now what is behold mean the homies pay attention now every letter word in the Torah requires me to pay attention but when Ruben later on the more to the universe actually wrote in his Torah he lay please pay attention that means oh my gosh there's something extra special that's been communicated a message I must not miss out on Hashem saw all that he had made Vahine a pay extra attention tough night it's exceedingly good Roberto excuse me Adam just ate from the tree setback the typical alarm fixing the world as we now know almost 6,000 years so good what's so good gents and a question Tencent question this is his report at the end of 12 hours seconds minutes after blew it he was only given one Tsuboi she was given to the first one was eat from all the trees they call Eighth Circuit read in the garden Alcatel please eat enjoy Wow focus on the GERD Mesa does Tyra oh by the way the tree which is in the middle of the garden Tiber ah that's the only one you can't eat from thousands and thousands if not tens of thousand one hundred thousands of trees in car Nathan please focus on enjoy mate Nicole eats a gun please every single one enjoy this beautiful world and he blew it that's so good can you say that what's the patient's answer please don't look at the world through your eyes is a much bigger picture you see I gave Adam the ability to change how long does it take to change one second he'd already offered Adam a chance to change when he ate asked him why are you embarrassed about being naked oh did you eat from the tree I asked you not to eat from and that's why you're feeling embarrassed now why did I share asking a question why why why did you send him straight away what was he inviting him to do teshuva says the madrugada check it out Marisa God Ahura she quotes it many times the madrugada on that puzzle tells us that had ad said one word catotti I made a mistake what would have Shems response be he would have been local him Makela by the West very strong language Makela is lush of makkah which means a race it's gone there's no record but what did he do I assure the woman who's he blaming a sanitary muddy that you gift it to stand by me who's he blaming he's blaming a Shem for the gift that was given to him instead of taking responsibility and saying one word so Shem says I'll deal with you later turns to cover and asked her why did you eat from the tree what was he hoping she would say I made a mistake but instead she blamed the snake dissuaded me it's in that context a chorus Parker I could never say these words the Gemara in a never desert after chemo tells us he was called a coffee table Adam was called Affairs the original from the English word cover coffee means to deny the good of marriage deny the good of a partner that was created to partner with him oh and he took that gift Natasha is a lotion of Madonna Hashanah Tata Amati the gift you gave to stand by me he was coffee tov that ticked God off but here's what's really interesting had harvest said one word catotti says the madrugada hashem would have been more hell he would have forgiven both of them not just cover both of them that's the power she had takes one second so same answers don't get stuck with what you see and what you read there's a much bigger picture man can change in a moment teshuva takes a second even if I fall again and again again it doesn't mean might achieve up to 4000 count it counts every single time and what's really interesting and this is quite astonishing is who gets more points the one who doesn't do any mistakes or the guy who does mistakes again and again and again and again and keeps doing teshuva guess who gets more points now don't don't get carried away with this but but the answer is live from Sarah Agri if someone has an addiction ask for solemn and out but it's up down in out in out he's looking shouldn't and he he pulls himself away and then falls a few days later and does whatever he does up down up down in out in out don't give up start again says God don't worry I created man with the ability to change did you follow so in God's mind he wants us to realize he's telling us focus on all the beautiful world oh I gave you one civilly okay but the vast majority is enjoy this world and even when man makes a mistake and blows it and sets us back we're here fixing we we died because of Adam he brought death to the world and I am says no I want you to know the world is exceedingly good and has I'll tell us when Moshe being said about lamb when you said tough but now you're saying tough me odd what's the mod that could possibly add to you 12 you must be perfect so how much what's my referring to if it's your time it's gonna be perfect already you know gone on sets is unbelievable it's a magistrate rubber on that path look not only just referring to the yet Sahara it looks really good negative thinking really why why because when we turn ourselves around our weaker or stronger you get into a a conflict with your wife with your husband and you make Shalom and you talk it through fight it through and afterwards what happens oh you're stronger get more mature more admiring more understanding more listening more empathic more giving more sensitive more grateful oh the yet Sahara is very good not good very good death the MA the Medes robber adds on death is very good yes sir it is very good really what I mean is sir is very good suffering is good no it's very good what are you talking about when do I really appreciate my body parts anyone been on a skiing trip and broke their leg or had an arm in the sling and set themselves I can't wait til I get out of hospital I can't wait don't out of this cost I'm gonna I'm gonna be so happy being mobile again like I was before I'll be a different person so sometimes it wears off but the purpose of the negative is to appreciate the positive I don't take it for granted oh the worst thing we think is death it's not true it's not true because if we really believe that life is this world and the next death is only a short vacation of their body but when we reunite how long will that be for Oh forever that's God's thinking that's called reality thinking that's why we do mourn 7 days 30 days a year for parent but beyond that Hashem says don't more and more because they're not giving the impression that you're never gonna see them again don't say never don't say I'll never see them again I'll miss you forever don't say that it's not true that's not reality thinking we're going to be reunited and it's coming soon hold on tight reality thinking is what enables us to take control of our minds and therefore our emotions our reality thinking enables us to let go of resentment reality thinking allows us to reduce the complaining and anger and frustration and accusing and the denying and excusing and replace it with gratitude which is the reason were truly created gratitude yahoodi the essence of which is Hadar which means grateful and also means literally because video means to admit I owe you that's why gratitude and admitting are the same cherish in logic I - there's much more to be said on the subject but if you look at all the mitzvah'd of the Torah which have to do with your mind eruption mind where's that take place Alva - an artist well it's all thoughts in the mind where after a wreck a car marker if you were being commanded to love your neighbor friend welcome like yourself that's telling you two very important messages then your friend is love April there are parts qualities virtues in their character in their behavior that God says you can love otherwise I wouldn't command you and if he's also telling me I should love them like I love myself what's he commanding me to do love me I am a mitzvah to love myself who's the real maid I should love oh that selam aleykum we were created in His image the neshamah in us is a hillock ellicott my mouth from a sham himself is inside of us and that is told three times that were created but selam aleykum chapter 1 verse 26 27 and chapter 9 verse 6 we're reminded three times though the real us is not our body the real us is our mind and the more we nurture happiness which is gratitude and the more we nurture kindness thinking of the kindness I owe you and you've done for me and therefore feel grateful towards gratitude is what feeds happiness if I'm grateful I'm gonna be happy when I'm angry frustrated jealous upset resentful guess what I'm what emotion I'm going to experience unhappiness unhappy is not an emotion the emotion we call unhappiness or depression is because what I'm feeding with my thoughts and if I do that not for a minute or an hour or a day or for a week or a month but for years yes I could get myself clinically down depressed but really it starts with who is riding this horse is the horse taking the rider for right or is the rider actually controlling the horse and you and I we could guess who it is but really you know you can't be certain the mind is the writer the horse is the body the mind is the writer the horse are the emotions who's in control who do we want to have be in control jealousy is not real gratitude is for everything you've given me and when we say God I'm grateful and for everything give me guess what he's warm more willing to do sign a bigger check and give me more cuz they're not be more grateful really Oh some math but okay he's enjoying his Halleck that's the Archaea that's true wealth but listen carefully there are three meanings inhale I'm happy with my lot has some marital coin is referring to his own Kayla but it could also mean says the never time has some I'm happy with D follow is a simple logic but the ultimate simcha is a some milk but I'm happy with hey look he has given to the world to me to my friends oh really happiness is not what happens to us happiness is a choice I make to notice the good that's in my life in my wife in my children in my home in my health in my wealth happiness is not our body happiness is not even our health it helps a lot but happiness ultimately is what am I thinking what am i focusing on what am i paying attention to the good in myself and in you and in you and the beautiful world you've created and the more we do that the more we experience the emotion we call happiness but really the emotion we call happiness is the product of what I'm thinking happy thinking good thoughts equals a good life happy thinking equals a happy life I'll close on darvany Melek you can't get better than him here he is lined up with his brothers no he's not lined up Shmuel Hanavi doesn't don't get any nerve work with all the brothers sons of yishai and so he asked is there any up anyone else says here that I do have another son but I didn't think to line him up because we're not sure about his legitimacy so Suffolk where these a mom's there or not that's that really unbelievable so he was completely objective how old is diving a medic at that age 29 he's called in from the fields and what's small enough is he's a Navi what's his first impression of domina Mela oh my gosh he's red-faced redhead oh my gosh who a dummy a dummy means he's got all the traits outwardly of a salve what is that sham SATA Shmuel Hanavi your Navi what are you doing looking at the outside Ashman says a coach poverty Shmuel Hanavi since malala's parroted zine pass of zion by yamaha all tibet el mal a who don't look his appears what you're seeing with your eyes there go become a saw don't look at the height of it now he's referring sorry to Eliav who was extremely handsome very tall he nasty I I've rejected him kylo sure you are dumb when a person's looking that's not what they're seeing Giada Mira Ellen I am a person looks with his eyes Varsha mirar Aliyev of but a sham looks at their thoughts because that's the real person and what what's governor Melek who Adame in Yaffa a nyam with beautiful eyes but I've ruddy and he sees good domina Malik was someone who was accused of stealing from someone in Bethlehem he was brought to bed in and he was convicted it was not true he was innocent do you know what he did he paid it in full and the first thing he did was ask Hashem to be Marco him that the person who's accusing him should not be punished because he was innocently punished that's what was going through his mind he had a beautiful eyes what beautiful eyes mean he looks at the good inside other people and assumes it Donna Malik was able to carry that throughout his life you look at all the bus took him that talked about his interaction with Scholl and other people his own confidence who wanted to kill Sean and he wouldn't let them know don't you know who he is his house shamsky ashamed made him King well Shem wants me to get the kingdom he's anointed me for he'll do it but I'm not gonna take it away Colossians ready the other male earth who's looking at the world with the eyes of Hashem the world is good people are good people make mistakes they can do teshuva there are a shame who can't do teshuvah so this is only or talking in basic principles of how the mind works I close and I truly mean it must look it where's that start there you know like me I don't like what you think or the way you behave or your way you want the world to be or the community or the leadership to be it's all about my complaining that's really what muck like it if it starts up here how long does it take to change as long as it takes for me to realize where's my muffler kit coming from it's coming from what I'm thinking as much as I'm fired up against you or the sin I have against you it's really it's not coming from here it starts here and the moment I realize that I can stop it over here but if I let this my emotions take over my mind I'm in big trouble because now every time I look in what doesn't make it makes no difference how good you are my emotions will rule my thoughts and I'll be so easily triggered without realizing it's not my emotions it's my thoughts that I'm allowing to continue but the moment I know I'm in control and I don't have to blame I can change the only person I was created to change and if I'm a big bummer lookit I have a lot of sinner and I change whoa the fun Sarah Audra according to the difficulty is the compensation oh so we're here to change our minds we're here to nurture ourselves we're here to mine our minds we're here to dig to the good that's already in there because Hashem is Muhammad or alarm we so he is helping us extract the neshamah which is already in us the good that's already in us the connection we feel to other people and when we change ourselves the world changes in response to a different us in the socket in the merit of us knowing that thinking is the most important part of who I am and that when I come up to sham I am the only part that I bring is not my body it's my mind and the complete accumulation of all my thoughts not my emotions all my thoughts that I had during my lifetime and our Shem will judge us based on were with an Oscars were we grateful did we turn around that anger not did we never get angry did we get angry it's a table told me odd he's sort of Nod she was not worried about the yetzer Hara he he tells us no you can turn it around it's all in my choices of what I'm going to think in the school of that name is okay to have much simpler lives on men [Music]