Changing Lives, Foundation of Modesty, Yeshua or Yeshu and More - STUMP THE RABBI (69)

[Music] is all the old faces new faces every time we have some new faces always good um back here in Florida doing our stump the rabbi series you guys ask questions will give us the answers tonight's sh will be for for Leana ra M Stefan Ben Karina YH benel Jonas Ben Sher Haley Talia bsar David Bena and also for a for sha Ben faran Mara B Julie our daughter Isa B Mara OS B gab bis elad benav and all of is especially the ones that help us do everything that we're doing to their time their efforts a lot of things we're discovering there's some even some amazing people that are even doing K with the work that we have with our sh and making videos even without us even knowing it was a um uh yesterday I think it was I uh ran into somebody sent me a video I ran into a video that somebody who has been making already for I guess the last few months it takes a uh one minute uh of one of the sh and he makes a really uh well-presented video out of it uh I'm not usually a good a big fan of short videos when it comes to Torah but uh if you know how to do it uh it's uh could be really powerful and he's already made almost a half a dozen videos publicized an article about me all types of wonderful things never never contacted me never told me anything about it and it's amazing you know because you see that when somebody does something like that and there are other people that in different places do the same thing um when somebody does that you see that it's it's for sh they want to do it for the right reason you know sometimes people you know they want want to help but they want to get uh paid for it I don't mean paid just in money you have you know uh all the rights in the world to make a living if if this is what you do for a living but uh sometimes people want to uh do things only if they're going to get the credits or they're going to get the uh you're going to mention them and um when it comes to kiru from my experience anybody that does it for some type of uh you know agenda like they have they're only going to do it because of this rather they need this because of this uh it doesn't work it doesn't work you know I mean it's a again there is a very big a uh uh debate among the about whether a person is allowed to charge money for teaching Torah because as mosenu said uh that to hasem they uh when there was the whole accusal between kak and his uh followers which were 250 of the biggest rabbis in the world at the time uh there was a big debate between them and uh when Moshe was pleading to Hashem he says they're accusing me of all types of things including adultery including stealing money all of these nonsense obviously hasem knows what Moshe is but Moshe fights for himself and he says they didn't even pay me for my donkey meaning even the Donkey that I used to go to Egypt and and be the mashiah for them even for that I didn't take money and just like I taught you Torah for free you know uh you teach Torah for free in that sence he says so the rambam uses that and he says that a person is not allowed to charge money for a uh for for doing uh for teaching T but then some of theim uh go into it and say no it's not necessarily quite that it's that it's all depends on you know what is a person teaching number one is this something that he's doing as a uh you know as he does it for a living is this something that he's uh could he be doing something else uh so in so many words there's a very big debate between it why because it's saying listen you uh should teach Torah should teach it you know and you should teach it for free but at the same token how is a person going to eat how's a person going to eat so some people that are uh very uh uh you know I guess removed from the world say no no you should always do everything for free for free okay so how is the person going to eat oh well you should have worried about that before okay so you do it too then you do it too so it's not realistic so how how does it really work so explain is that it all depends on your uh opportunity cost opportunity cost if let's say a rabbi is allowed to charge or teacher whoever is allowed to charge what is opportunity cost meaning if your time let's say is worth $500 or $1,000 or $2,000 or whatever is worth then that's what you're allowed to charge meaning if if with that time that you teach Torah you could have made $1,000 doing something else then that's what you're allowed to charge you're allowed to charge because that's your opportunity cost um you know you're not supposed to go into poverty for the sake of teaching toah you know you have to live because if you would tell somebody listen you only uh you know you're only allowed to teach to if you go into poverty no one would teach to it' be very difficult so that's why you'll see sometimes that there are people that charge for their lectures and the pay him at the end uh that's why there some people that charge um so it's not necessarily a sin but then there is also something that I learned from my r that over the years that there is something meaning there's special Divine assistance assistance from Heaven that help a speaker influence the people to do the right thing meaning if you're teaching tah generally speaking the only purpose of you teaching to is supposed to be for the sake of helping people get closer to hem if that person is a Shabbat then your goal should be to help him start keeping Shabbat if that person is uh being intimate or married per se to a non-jew and he's a Jew then your goal should be to get him to get out of this situation that he's in as soon as possible if a person is promiscuous then your goal should be to get him to understand how much of a disaster he's building himself both in this world and the next if your student is an immodest woman and she doesn't understand that immodesty is the you know straight route to Gom then you have to teach her this now she doesn't understand because she thinks you're only talking about Gom in the next world but she doesn't realize that this Gom that you're talking about is the Gom in this world a woman that walks around IM brings Gom to her life in this world so your goal as a speaker as a person that's teaching to should be to show her a little bit of color on that that's missing in her mind in her in her heart so if that's your goal if you're teaching toah that should be your goal now but if your goal is to make money then what ends up happening is that the the Divine assistance is either nonexistent to help you bring that point across or is very limited why because your real goal is to make money it's not really to help the person if you help the person as like an after effect and okay great and apparently is very picky with the people that he chooses that are going to be the the and is not just a prophet but it comes from somebody the speaker he's very picky with the ones that are going to be the the the speakers theim that are going to help his children uh come back and get closer to him uh simply because the reward for it is Beyond extraordinary says to the prophet jermiah in I believe it's Chapter 19 Verse 15 or 1519 either way it's a he says that uh if you bring somebody to do chuva you'll be like my mouth meaning that whatever you pray for I'll fulfill so AEM doesn't just let every average Joe succeed in their kiru in their uh Torah speeches and so on and so forth and you see it you see it a uh you know in the world where you see there are certain people that perhaps have been uh speakers for 20 years and maybe they got uh 20 or 30 people to keep me vot maybe I met one guy that was very proud of the fact that after almost 25 or 30 years of uh being a kiru organization he says he's proud that he has a 100 Jews that he believes are now you know more observant now you know listen every Jew is a world in itself but which is of course is very very precious but if it took you 25 years to get a hundred of them to uh to keep mitv say you shouldn't be proud of it because that pretty much means you got for a year for a year with today's technology is a uh is not enough to say the least to say politely it's simply not enough because even a person that doesn't speak even a person that doesn't have a queue of organization should be able to easily get 10 or 15 of his friends or colleagues or strangers to get closer to AEM every year so so you see that there are certain people that are able to bring people to do chuva in the droves the dozens something that uh I think is one of the most astounding things in the world uh that have uh that's uh has happened several quite a few times but more so recently is I see that R frim he uh 99% of his lectures are online we doesn't have a uh a large crowd in front of him but uh something has happened over the last several months where he has a enormous uh following of uh secular but I don't mean just secular like they you know they live around a Jewish neighborhood and once in a while go to sho I'm talking about about as far removed as possible homosexuals uh uh drug addicts all types of people from like you know the people that are on like Tik Tock that application Tik Tock which I've never been on but somebody tells me that's all the filth of the world is over there apparently something happened where every one of his shers he has two live sessions at the same time and he has like two 3,000 people watching now so the Facebook feed you see 10 20 30 people watching but the other feed is like 3,000 which is like ridiculous and the amount of questions they ask and it's so interactive and so on but the point being is that a lot of other people get a lot of fans to watch there are even some people that say listen I'm doing a lecture next week 500 people will show up a big audience doesn't mean much doesn't mean you have what do I why do I mention this because during the lecture which again is not in front of a living crowd like you guys it's online it's a person camera and people are you know watching it at some point during the lecture he starts asking okay who among us is going to start taking something on himself Shabbat this that and you see the messages coming droves I'm going to start keeping Shabbat I'm GNA start being modest I'm going to start D dozens and dozens of people doing Chua live never seen anything like this unbelievable what does that mean because there's plenty of people that speak online and have YouTube videos and so on and so forth but not everybody has that so where do that comes from if your primary goal is to helps you're going to be like my mouth you say something it's like I said it and when hasem says it obviously people take it more seriously on the other hand if your priority is to make money then doesn't give you that same so how do you know if somebody about the money more than they care about the people simply ask them what's your fee he tells you I charge $5,000 to come for an hour speech okay fine we don't have $5,000 but we have 500 people we have a 100 people would you come you know if he's Local 100 200 people if he's far five 500 people would you still come we don't have the $5,000 though if the answer is no that means that the priority of that person is money so he may very well or she may very well be very entertaining but they're not necessarily going to influence anyone to change their life because that's in essence what's supposed to be the goal of this speaker is to really influence you not just during the lecture like a movie where you're influenced during the movie you get emotional maybe a few tears uh you know come out of your eyes and then 5 minutes after the movie you're back to to your life back to your stresses back to your problems back to your anger back to everything else the point of a Torah lecture is supposed to be that the impact of it is not just going to stay with you during the lecture or after the lecture but will be strong enough that will impact your life meaning you decide live I'm going to change my life how I'm going to do one of those things that he said I'm going to do one of those things that she said now how does somebody have such an impact simply decides this person is going to have when his words come out it's going to hit certain people and you see it many many times people tell me listen RAB I I can't believe it I came to the lecture and I was thinking already on the way to the lecture I was going to ask you a question after the lecture I had three four questions but you answered them before I asked I said it has nothing to do with me it has to do with you you wanted an answer I wanted to help oh simple so that's the thing it's a if a person if a person thinks of kiru that way thinks of helping people that way then they can succeed even without being a speaker because many times people ask me listen you know I don't know what to do I have friends family and so on colleagues that are uh you know either uh you know off the D or Idol worshippers and so on and so forth and I tried sending them some of the lectures and I tried sending some of the videos but it's not working question is why isn't not working now surely it's very easy to blame them it's not the time they're not receptive uh they they're glued to the impurity sure that's the easy uh that's the easy uh uh thing to do to just blame everybody else that's what did says what did you do you ate from the Tree of knowledge go no no the wife the wife that you gave me the wife that you gave me meaning he's blaming hem so he goes to goes to Eve what' you do you ate from the Tree of knowledge you you gave it to Adam too it was the snake he he entic it's him it's him it's him didn't like that didn't like that at all he punished them so for us to just blame everybody else oh the reason why they're not doing chuva is because they're not receptive or better yet the speaker is too strong that's the best one no no listen Rabbi do you have a sh that's not so strong because I think it's turning off some people I think it's turning off some people you know because that sure that you did yeah I liked it but I'm at that level to like it I need to give it to certain people and and it need to be like you know like PG it can't be like uh rated R you know it has to be a little low you have something like that you my friend are mistaken the Shure is a Shure if the sh is the way you want it it won't help anybody how do I know the vast majority of lectures in the world are what you want and look how many people are doing Chua with those people nothing on the other hand you look at how many people are doing CH on a daily basis unbelievable just on a few hours ago I got a message from somebody I still don't know what the name of the person is but it's a wonderful message one of those messages that touches my heart why because the uh the person says to me where is it here you go course can't find it on time uh anyway the person says to me uh I grew up in a religious household but I only did Chua once I started watching yeshu meaning they lived a religious life if you will but they only realized oh here it is dear rabi ruin I grew up religious but I can't say I was religious until I started listening to your lectures thank you so much for teaching me what it really means to be a Jew I don't think there's any way to really truly thank you enough now again I don't know who this person is they're from a different country I believe they're from the UK I think or some other country but the point being is that these messages come by the dozens and it's what Shield did they watch I don't have any soft chewing I don't have any puppy shoeing I don't have any uh any kindergarten chewing every sh is scarier than the next I get scared of them I finished the sh I said I can't believe I said that wow scary and then some of the guys God bless him that make movies out of my out of my sh I'm like wow that scary the does things with my voice I'm like I really sound like that but that's what gets people to do chuva that's what wakes people up why why is it that the scary stuff wakes people up more so than the lovey doy stuff cuz you can see listen there's a lot of lovey doy rabbis a lot of Care Bear rabbis I like to call them a lot of them and you can say listen they're uh you know they're uh saying nice stories to get people to perhaps maybe light some candles on Shabbat maybe uh they'll get them to put on to filling here and there maybe they'll get them to watch some more lectures perhaps donate but for all intents and purposes you're not getting anybody to change their life what's changing their life he's married to a Goya she's married to a and you got them to get a divorce not by telling them listen I'll wait for you at 5:00 in the morning morning get your backs packed I'm picking you up not that simply you said something on a lecture explain to this person what kind of danger they're in they've put themselves in they try to rectify it in whatever way they can they simply can't the person that they're married to is dedicated to idolatry they're not willing to abandon it that's it they tried they failed said listen I got to save myself or better yet couple one was a Jew one is not or perhaps sometimes even both of them are not Jews they watch and they realize they're living a forbidden life they're living a forbidden life you get them to do chuva if they're intermarried you get one of them to you know want to convert and eventually to convert that's that's a huge change or somebody that's living in a secular World their whole life their whole life they're driving on Shabbat eating pig eating snakes eating everything that moves and doesn't move if it doesn't move then we push it and moves and we eat it whatever anything and everything all of a sudden you mention you have a little clip talks about kosher the guy's like okay you know from now on I'm going to eat kosher from now on I'm going to start keeping Shabbat from now how come how could that be that's changing somebody's life but you know what the biggest change is the biggest change for my experience and I believe that there is a uh no doubt that this is indeed the biggest change that somebody can do altogether in anybody's experience is getting someone to stop immorality if it's a man stop wasting seed stop being promiscuous if it's a woman then stop being promiscuous stop obviously doing anything that's forbidden with herself or with others and also become modest if you can get a person to change their life in such a drastic way you're a superhero why because that is a brain rewiring a heart rewiring about simply how you look at life altogether and if you're able to get somebody to let's say keep Shabbat it doesn't necessarily mean they're going to go to heaven why because he can keep Shabbat but he's still married to a njw she can keep Shabbat but she can still will be uh doing all types of filthy things and walk around IM modest and so on so the Shabbat in itself or kosher in itself or even learning a little bit in itself is not always enough to rewire the brain and the Heart of the person but if you get the person to understand that so long as they're immoral so long as they're promiscuous with themselves or with others they are in essence putting themselves in a situation where they are an enemy enemy of hem not because he wants them to be an enemy because they're making themselves one they're murdering his kids both the living and the ones that are not yet if you can get a person to stop such a thing that means that person has to look at life completely differently from that point and also meet why because there's no way that you're going to convince that person to stop being immoral simply because it's unhealthy oh listen wasting seed being promiscuous maybe uh you know it's it's not good for health because of the brain cells or perhaps maybe you can get an STD or perhaps maybe this that no you're not going to get somebody to stop for that long why because the will have a million have excuses the only way you get a person to stop doing all that stuff is simply by telling them this is the will of hem the will of hem is for you to stop and once a person accept accepts that will of hem all of the other MIT become easy all of the other MIT become easy keeping Shabbat becomes easy and even pleasurable learning to becomes easier and even pleasurable it's like listen I'm already changing my whole lifestyle and mentality let me at least find out why now to do such a thing to get somebody to stop being immoral according to the Torah cannot be done in in a lovey Doy Way simply can't simply can't you can't teach the subject that way you can't teach the subject listen wasting seed is not good the end the guy's looking he like I going prove it to you it's good let me show you my girlfriend let me show you my boyfriend let me show you movies wait what it's not good who says not good God say it's not good ah a maybe God does make mistakes huh guy's going to what do you mean it's not good unless you tell the person listen every single time you waste seed you are murdering people every single time you woman walk around IM modestly you're not only murdering people but you are actually bringing poverty the says you're bringing poverty to your husband and your kids so much so so much so that says that the kids will be considered as if they're nothing's in the world what does that mean you ever meet sometimes there's certain people that exist in the world and it almost seems as if they don't exist meaning like there are certain people they stand out they stand out this guy this woman there go get better they do stuff they're part of the community they build things they make things they they they're there somebody like everybody oh yeah that guy yeah I know him people know who this person is it's always those people but then there's somebody that's almost like wallpaper you don't notice that they're even there like whether they showed up to the party or not no one knows where they attend the same school no one knows whether they existed and they lived in the same neighborhood you live you're visiting no I live here for 15 years come on seriously yeah yeah I live 15 years where do you live next door to you wow really are you serious yeah some people like this there's some people like this now if that's intentional because the person is very modest and they are to themselves and they're learning and they're doing their thing not necessarily a bad thing but the Torah promises otherwise Torah promises that if you learn tah and you are that way and and and you are doing everything that you're doing your modesty your seclusion is for the sake of heaven hasem will publicize it at some point meaning it won't stay that way Forever at some point your Kusa your Holiness Your Glory will be publicized to the world because that's a meaning that if a person is not that way he's not learning toah all day he's just an average guy Average Joe keeps or doesn't keep but he's like wallpaper what does that come from that comes from me modest mother why a king no matter what he does will always be recognizable when a king walks into the room everyone's quiet everyone's quiet we learned this from a mid on M of what happened with after he ran away from and commanded him to go to Mount Si Mount and uh tanak says that first there was wind and then the B call came out and says hem is not in the wind and there was an earthquake says hasem is not in the noise and the says on this when the king why is when did hasm eventually come to toi when it was all quiet says from there we learn that when the king arrives everything's quiet there's no R nothing everything's quiet why it's the king everybody knows the king you don't need a big show that's the king and there's nothing the king can do about it the king will always be recognizable as the king when aadh wants to show his glory it's he doesn't need much look at the world today a year ago the world thought that everybody was on cloud n most powerful armies in the world thought they were the most powerful most powerful economies in the world thought they were the most powerful most powerful politicians in the world thought they were most powerful everybody thought they were powerful on Cloud9 some people even thought maybe I'm never going to die because I have so much money some people thought they're going to ReDiscover the wheel go to different planets maybe uh mutate uh uh Humanity to the extent of you know making multiple people from one cell and so all types of crazy things that people do and everybody was doing good why because it was a lot of money a lot of sustenance the economy was doing good more or less relatively peace in the world with the people you want to have peace with and war with the people that you just can't have peace with anyway but everybody felt strong the whole world the one that was losing felt strong the one that was winning felt strong everybody felt like was strong the guys from Venezuela their entire economy dropped 99% but yet the guy running it that that still felt like he's on top of the world his entire civilization over there is virtually eating from the garbage but he feels strong to stay in his way North Korea hides their poverty to the world guy feels strong Iran the whole world hates them their economy is practically went into shambles the guy feels strong America has their own issues practically on a verge of Civil War any other day everybody felt strong the Jewish people 80% assimilation one or two generations away from there being no Jews a with the way things are going we felt strong looks at everybody says oh you all feel strong he sends a little microscopic virus that no one can even see with the naked eye and all of a sudden everybody becomes frail oh you wearing a mask no mask you're you're putting everybody in danger what danger from what where do you see danger where's the danger where's the danger no it's the virus where's the virus show me show me the virus where's the virus no I'm not leaving the house for next nine months what happened nine months ago you were a superhero walking around the streets with no shirt on sometimes no pants on sometimes no head on everything you were strong B you could live 500 lbs over your head you were strong nine months ago how come this little microscopic virus that you don't even know virus disease this no one knows the difference how come all of a sudden you're wearing a mask like a little poodle what happened where's the strong person where's the strong Iranians where where's the strong Koreans where's the strong Americans what happened to everybody the king showed up but he doesn't have to show up with all of his glory he just sent you a little microcosmic tiniest the smallest of his creation the smallest of his creation show you I'm running the show I'm running the show you're nothing so we see here that the King of Kings his glory when he wants to show it there's no way to miss it by default that means that the prince and the princess of the king they also will always be recognizable a flesh and blood king if he sees his daughter look like a street woman is either going to throw her in a jail cell until she does chuva and realizes that she's a queen and she's she's a a princess and she can't walk around like this or I'll kill her simple if he sees his kid if he sees his son walking around like some Thug with his pants down and he has a lip like he just came out of prison or something guess what he's going to put you in prison Until you realize you're not a thug you're not from Harlem you're not from the projects you're a prince so no matter what the prince or the princess wants to do they have to continuously look the part throughout all of the generations since the time we received the Torah and even beforehand from the time of abrah ainu the Jewish people have always been recognizable and we stood out like a sore thumb everywhere no matter matter how big the civilization was that hated us that was running the world we stood out the Assyrians conquered the whole world but yet they cared about the few Jews that were around them few minor not even a small neighborhood they cared about it what did hasem do destroy the Assyrians those few Jews suffered a little bit but until he destroyed the Assyrians the Babylonians conquered the whole world 120 seven countries hasem said to the prophet Danielle tell he's going to be the strongest King that ever lived until mashia arrives a promise from he conquered the whole world what do he care about few Jews few Jews not even a small neighborhood he has millions of people few Jews he cares about we stood out we the story same thing with all of the other civil ization we constantly stood out why doesn't matter how great in number you are as theem says to in this week's par doesn't matter how great a number you are choose you you're the smallest number but still you're always going to stand out in the world population today is nearly 8 billion we're not even a rounding error as far as our population of Jewish people in the world yet we stand out constantly so The Prince and the princess whether they like it or not the world identifies them the world recognize them the world sometimes can't stand them but needless to say knows that they exist now how many Mongolians in the world are there does anybody know how many Japanese people are in the world does anybody know there's a lot of Japanese people in the world you know you don't know how there's a lot of Mongolian people in the world you know that right right no you don't how many kazakhstani people are there how many Georgian people are there do you even know where Georgia is no not the Georgia that's next to Florida Georgia the country did you guys even hear of Georgia before Japan probably because you have a Sony uh something in your house but the reality is there are so many huge countries huge civilizations you've never heard of before and yet they have 5050 100 million people you never heard of them Jews that are spread around the whole world few million here few million there finished that's it it's not like a few million everywhere half of them are in Israel half of them are in in America a few uh small little titbits around the world Australia England so on and so forth that's it but you hear about them every day why says that's the prince that's the princess I'm going to make sure you realize who they are but yet the whole point is that among ourselves there are princes and princesses that can live an entire life as if they didn't exist like wallpaper he could live next door to you you never knew she could live next door to you you never knew how could it be I mean you're the prince you're the princess this is one of the curses that comes on a woman's children when she is IM modest because aadh who says a woman that's modest understands that she is a princess and therefore her children will be Kings says Kings and Prophets but a woman that walks around immodest then unfortunately what ends up happening is that not only does the blessing on sustenance in the house suffer even if the people have a lot of money they end up spending it on things that they don't want to spend it on like IRS and medical bills and so on but on top of that their kids become nobodies not nobodies like he had a company in theany he made $100 million but nobody knew like it had no impact in the world the second he died it's like finished he built a company today it's worth $5 billion but nobody knows who he is why cuz somebody bought the company at some point and I that guy put his name on it and you know maybe when they have a documentary on him or something one day 500 years from now it's part of a commercial that put his picture somewhere that's it how come that's a curse that's a curse and it's why is so critical of a woman that's immodest because this is one of the fundamentals of Creation in itself when says you be holy because I am Holy he says to them that your Holiness is your modesty but that Holiness didn't begin with you but rather it began at the time of creation when literally creation the mid in par 182 after you read this mid you'll see how foolish people are when they say no no I only uh read the written t i don't go with those mid it's all fables and uh and fairy tales you know what that means anybody anytime somebody tells you a midash is a fairy tale or it's a uh nonsense you know what that means they never read it that's what it means because the amount of wisdom that you see in the mid you simply will never arrive at an inkling of without it but let's see Rua of said in the name of RAB from the word we learned certain things what do we learn this is to teach that contemplated from where in Adam's Body to create a woman meaning we all know that created first and then he took his her his rib bone and made but it wasn't like oh you know what that rib bone looks tasty let me make a person out of it what the midash is trying to tell us is the thought process the Divine thought process that went into why the rib bone and not the toe why the rib bone and not the nose why the rib bone and not the I know one of the fingers you got 10 maybe take one off that's it you got nine you don't need tell 10 why the ribo not may be I don't know somewhere else why this one he said I will not create her from the head so that she will not bear her head proudly and not from the eye so that she should not be overly inquisitive well elaborate on these points in a moment and not from her from the ear so that she should not be an e dropper big brother and not from the mouth so that she's not too talkative and not from the heart so that she should not be an envious person and not from the hand so that she should not be one who touches that which is not hers and not from the foot so that she should not be one who who steps out rather I will create her from a place on the man that is private that even when the man stands naked that place is private in order to instill in her traits of modesty meaning aadh chose a section of the body that even if a man were to stand naked it's still covered and there's really only one part of the body and that's the ribs why cuz your arms are covering it at all times I mean even if you you don't walk around with your hands up all the time generally naturally person covers their their ribs that's modesty why the source had to be modest why to instill modesty in her now you're going to say wait a minute but we also know that when Hashem first created they're walking around naked so where's the modesty from here we learn modesty is not only your clothes modesty is the behavior of the person surely the clothes have to fit the behavior and the behavior have to fit the clothes but the point being is is that from here we learn that yes hem created them to be naked only because they sin are they now and we are supposed to wear clothes but modesty was still expected from the moment of creation despite being naked because modesty in its in its real source of it is the behavior of a person so then he continues and with each and every limb that God created in the woman he would say to her be modest be modest he put the little finger in there be modest he put another finger be mest put another finger be mest another finger be mest the jaw be modest the uh toes be modest and so on and so forth every little inkling of the woman's body every bone every uh you know anything that he has in our body he talked to said be modest that's your whole job in the world and yet nevertheless God said and you rejected all my counsels as it says in Proverbs 125 despite all my advice I told every single finger to be modest every toe to be modest every leg to be modest every head to be modest you still didn't listen to my counsel he says you still didn't listen to my counsel I did not create the woman from the head yet at time she Bears a head proudly as it stated in Isaiah 3:16 because the daughters of Zion are hoty walking with outstretched necks she walks around conceeded why she just finished her diet she lost 50 PBS so she wants the whole world to know look at me look at me sh doesn't like that you lost weight you gained weight who cares your husband you everybody else shouldn't even know shouldn't even know why it's not their business if you want your body to be everybody else's business it's the opposite of the point of your creation the second you tell the world that your body's public property you are now literally working against the instructions of the manufacturer because he told you the whole point of why I didn't take a piece of adar's head and make the woman out of this is though she she's not proud she's not arrogant but you talking about your body talking about your things and this and that all types of surgeries what are you doing you're not listening to hm's counsel and not from the eyes yet at time she's overly inquisitive as it stated and gazing eyes what are you doing nothing no I see you're doing something yeah I'm doing something on my house why do you care you're my neighbor not my wife you're my neor why are you always looking at somebody else's stuff why oh did you see honey did you see what they did to their house no I didn't see what what happened oh they just got an extension oh why do you care I don't know I thought maybe we should get an extension do we need an extension no but they're getting an extension it would be weird if they got an extension to their house and we don't have an extension to our house why are you looking why are you constantly looking at your friend at your colleague at your enemy what business is of yours AEM did not create you from adar's ey specifically because he wanted that you don't look elsewhere the only place to look at is your own for your own life you want to focus your attention focus it on your husband focus it on your kids that's it you have extra time under your parents that's it finished more extra time do kindness go find some poor people feed them why you wasting all this time looking at everybody else's life because once you do that is its brother you start looking you start talking it's one of one comes with the other it's a package deal it's two for one same price when you do it you're defeating your whole point of creation and not from the ear yet at times she's an eares dropper as it says in Genesis 18:10 now sah was listening at the entrance of the tent even when AB ainu was sitting with the angels He thought there were just three different Arabs he didn't know there were angels and one of them says where's Sarah your wife show Sarah is Mother she's not hanging out with the guys unfortunately like today's women you see sometimes the the women is hanging out with the guys more than the guys hanging out with the guys oh hi honey oh Steve's at our house what do you mean Steve's at our house no he came over so we were just talking till you came home why is a guy at my house and I'm not here why are you hanging out with him anyway even if I'm him here no we're friends hey Rabbi am I allowed to have guy friends if you're a girl no if you're a guy yeah why not because it's inappropriate you can have co-workers hello hello goodbye goodbye that's the extent of the relationship you know if you need to talk about certain things to do with work no problem but there's absolutely no purpose whatsoever no useful purpose whatsoever for you to ask him what are you doing on the weekends why platonic relationships are one of the biggest causes of divorce that there is in the world today who do people cheat on their spouses with their friends you don't cheat on your spouse with some random stranger you met at Starbucks you cheat with someone that is friendly the accountant that became like a family friend the lawyer that's like a brother the next door neighbor that just is like a housemate the cousin that spends a few months a year at your house that's what cheating cheating is from that as soon as you stop distinguishing the difference between men and women and you simply allow women and men to hang out with each other even if they're not married to each other you're ruining all senses of of of Shame all senses of modesty You're simply ruining the world why because in essence you're telling people that s menu was mistaken when when she was in a different room while the men were having a conversation yeah but she wants to talk too okay so get a girlfriend talk to her there is no reason for you to talk to an opposite gender unless it's again like I said for work purposes why because the mind of a man does not work like a woman it doesn't no matter what you do doesn't work the woman could look at a guy or at least that's the way he used to be and she sees a personality she sees the guy like oh he looks funny he looks smart he looks honest he looks like a genuine person a guy looks at a woman she looks delicious like a steak that's it that's how guys think it's a reality it's a reality over the world If you deny that then you're simply naive platonic relationships are simply a weapon of the Satan to make you think that this is going to work no you're wrong I've been friends with them for 10 years and nothing ever happened yet never an opportunity perhaps he was never interested yet maybe he wasn't uh this maybe he wasn't that but the point being is that trust me when I tell you at some point or another if opportunity presents itself he will or you will because that's just the nature of the Beast so even s menu was as modest as she was she went into a different room but yet her nature still inclination she still wanted to hear what's going on and the M didn't say we won be allowed to say it says that the inclination still was like listen would I be socializing with the guys if I want to talk to women I talk to women there's no reason for me to be among bunch of guys for what I still want know what's going on Curious says I didn't create you from the e specifically so you don't do that what do you care if there's something important your husband will tell you your husband will tell you if there's something important your wife's going to tell you what do you need to do all this for but that's the nature the nature of a person even if the person's righteous they still have a nature in them then it says I didn't create them from the mouth yet at time she's a talkative person as it stated M and spoke against mhe numbers 121 even though was holier than holy she wases she was a prophet the only reason we had a river of water that tasted like whatever you wanted whether you wanted milk or you wanted wine or you wanted orange juice that River T that was like the man the river of was like the man whatever tasted you wanted that's what it was on what on her Merit that's how amazing mam was yet the moment she had a little bit of time with her brother said Aron what's going on with Moshe why did he leave his wife T says that those few words were already too much why are you talking about somebody else I didn't create you from the mouth you don't talk extra you don't talk extra and he punished her for it every day we read about it in our reminder of the act that mam did because as righteous as she was she made a mistake once in her life Al we only made one mistake once in her life only once once in her life she made a mistake and hasem reminds us of it everything which is to her Merit but nonetheless he says I didn't create you from the mouth so you don't talk too much do I really need to explain this one sometimes you have certain women the husband comes home from work and she's still on the phone tell me say hello to the husband 50 minutes 20 minutes an hour after he's home she comes hey honey how's work I've been home for an hour yeah I was on the phone with my cousin I was on the phone with my mom I was on the phone with somebody in Judaism your husband is the king the wife is the queen what does that mean that means that as soon as he comes home there is no phone you hang up the phone my husband's home click not like listen that no my husband's home bye click honey that's the way supposed to me what he's a king if the king shows up anywhere what listen your highness I'll talk to you in a minute okay I'm I'm finish the call I'll get to you in 15 minutes okay I'll get to you do he trink a king and he say ah well he doesn't treat me like a queen if you treat him like a king maybe he would stopped working but why is she why is she why is she forgetting to treat her husband like a king she's too involved in her own talking in her own conversation with her girlfriend with her mother with her cousin with her sister with somebody else she's so involved in somebody else's life she forgets the responsibility of her own life she you forget that the king just showed up or maybe the little princess and the princesses which is our kids kids show show up at the house she hasn't even notice why she's busy with other stuff your kids at home your responsibility in the world is your husband and kids and who says I did not create you from the mouth specifically to try to remind you not to waste so many words because wasting so many words is going to lead to problems number one it's GNA lead to which in itself could cost you Heaven number two simply talking so much about other people's lives will make you live through them vicariously to the extent where you'll forget about your own life you're so busy talking about other people's life you forget about your own life and he said I didn't create her from the heart yet at times she's envious as it says in Genesis 31 the became envious of her sister why is a say that Envy jealousy of other people is such a terrible thing that anyone that's jealous will not be resurrected with the dead they may still go to heaven but they're not going to be resurrected with dead they lose the Merit of being Resurrected with the Dead one day after mhia comes 40 years after mhia comes there's going to be a resurrection of the Dead all of the righteous people that have lived in previous generations abuav schl AKA all the sages all theim the ones you know about the ones you don't know about they come out they live in this world for a thousand years if a person dies a jealous person they lose that right even if they keep MIT they may still go to heaven but they're not they lose the right to be in this resurrection of the Dead why because jealousy is a form of heresy jealousy in itself is a form of heresy why you're jealous of somebody else because they have something that you don't which in essence says that you believe that you should have it now who's the one that gives everyone what they have hem so in essence what are you saying when you're jealous of somebody else's wife when you're jealous of somebody else's husband when you're jealous of somebody else's car you're jealous of somebody else's Fortune you're jealous of somebody else's Fame you're jealous of anybody else's anything except Torah knowledge Torah knowledge you're allowed to be jealous of and you should be other than that you're not allowed to be jealous of anything when you're jealous of all of those things what are you in essence saying you're saying I'm supposed to have it IE you're making a mistake not you're making Mist hm is making a mistake is what you're saying cuz you're saying I'm supposed to have it you're jealous because you feel like you should have it which in you're saying to hmm I think you're making a mistake you're giving it to him and not to me I'm more righteous than him I'm smarter than him I'm better looking than him I'm this I'm that you're saying that made a mistake and hasm says oh you think I'm making a mistake I'll show you not mistake you have to remove all jealousy from your heart and says when you're jealous in essence you're working the opposite of what the instructions are I didn't create you from the heart so you're not envious but yet our nature is to be envious I didn't create you from the hand I didn't Creator from the hand yet at times she she is one who touches that which is not hers as it stated ra stole theim that belonged to her father in Genesis 31:19 meant well stole the uh the idols that La had even though she meant well to take away his idols she didn't want our father to worship idols so she stole them the mid says yeah but it's still stealing even though you meant well it's still not yours it's still not yours there's a way to do things that wasn't the best way that wasn't the best way sometimes people will do certain things in the name of the Tor and he say listen I know you mean well but that's just not the way that's not D there's a way to do things I didn't create you from the hand because I didn't want you to touch things that are not yours but yet we constantly do that we constantly do that somebody goes and they touch things that don't belong to them they touch things that don't belong to them sometimes it's money sometimes it's people and not from the foot yet at times she is she is the one who steps out as it's stated now Dina the daughter of Leia whom she had born to yov went out to look over the daughters of the land I didn't bring I didn't make from the leg so you don't go walting around the malls just to see what everybody's wearing what's the fashion today go walking around why I have nothing to do so I'm just going to walk around why what purpose is it going to do if you have a purpose you need to go buy something go buy something but you go watching around doing nothing it's the opposite why all of the honor of the daughter of the king is inside meaning modesty is not just keep certain things in your house but even yourself in the house why because there's problems outside even if you are a righteous woman Dina was a righteous woman young girl she said listen I just want to go walk around just to see what the other girls are doing Hashem punished her severely she got raped why what do you care what they're doing what difference is it to you what they're doing the point being is that when a person understands that AEM went to the extent of choosing the rib bone in order to have modesty instilled into a woman you see that it's not he just chose that because of that first thing that I said because the arm covers it but rather because there's a reason why he didn't choose anything else also when a woman understands the depth of modesty and she understands that this is her Crown of Glory that's your Crown of Glory when you're a modest woman that's your Crown of Glory so much so that when a woman is emodest the house itself gets cursed to the extent where the husband loses sustenance the kids lose sustenance and like I said they even lose recognition that their daughters and and and Sons of Kings but even more so when she is modest it's the opposite when a woman is modest blesses the husband's so even though the husband is the one that go went and made 100,000 200,000 500,000 the blessing is coming from the wife not from him not because he's a hard worker meaning if she wants a credit card with no no limit to go buy whatever she wants say please take it why the only reason why you have sustenance because of our modesty the only reason you have any sustenance you have blessing in your sustenance because of our modesty that's the reason never be cheap with a modest woman if she's not modest be as cheap as possible so at least she makes less sense but that's the reality that's the reality so when a woman understands how to view modesty and see it as a Crown of Glory then she says you know what maybe I should be but to get a woman to that extent you have to teach some things that are hard to hear you have to teach some things that are atrocious to hear but nonetheless to get a person to desire to change their entire wardrobe from what people have today to a kosher wardrobe you have to rewire their brain you have to rewire their hearts and you have the only way to do that is by telling them some things that are a little hard to hear so with that being said there's a lot more to say but like I said I want to want you guys to uh talk actually didn't even plan to say that much but anyway hopefully you guys have some questions El if you want to start or some El U um it's in regards to working with people and like if you're working um let's say you have a job to do for someone someone ask you to do a job for them and it's a certain amount of money and you go there and uh you perform the work because you know more or less what the problem is and few days later the same problem happened you go again you fix the problem because you know what I mean generally what it will be and again a few later the same problem then when you do search and it's manufacturer so the money you got paid is it like since the job wasn't completed like they wanted do you return that money or that money is still yours since you spend the time to do the job anyways you ordered some I'm sorry I I I lost you at some point repeat it again you were you were asked to do a job so let's say you're fixing something a job to fix something service job or a job like you're you're you're providing a product okay no a service job like okay someone has their computer is broken and they want it to be fixed you did the job okay and then you fixed it and you came back a few days later it's broken again you fixed it it broken later you have to charge every time so but since the problem wasn't resolved at the end of the day it's not because of the work wasn't done it was done but it was manufactured the problem was um like the printer was bad and it's not I got you okay I got you okay so you have you you uh got hired to do a service job and uh you did the job you uh serviced it but it kepts breaking breaking Because the actual product in itself is broken not because of you you still charge for your time you still charge for your time you're still a uh are entitled to to get paid because in in the business world it's not like the Torah world that's the major difference between the business world and the world in the business world whether you succeed or fail you still get uh you you you you charge you charge uh because if you're a lawyer uh defends you in a case and he's going to charge you he's going to take a 5 10 15 20 $30,000 retainer depending on your case and depending how much money you have which he's sure to double check before he talks to you the first time before he decides what the bill is and uh after uh after he charges you that retainer he's going to you he's going to do some work uh and um if you lose the case he doesn't refund you the money if somebody says listen I'm the best doctor in the world look at all the plaques that they have on the on the uh on the walls look at all the commercials and all the people in the magazines writing about me and I could do a surgery and the surgery goes bad and the person dies guess what he still gets paid the insurance company will still give him a check a big one for that surgery why cuz he still did the work he still did the work he has to get paid same concept you got hired to do a job under the the the uh understanding that it is not a unsolvable problem but rather it's a solvable problem because had you known and had the owner known that this is not a solvable problem you would have never agreed to do the job you only agreed to do the job because the owner in essence gave you information under his understanding or her understanding that this is a solvable job they just don't know how to do it they need to hire you so you only agreed to come because it is a solvable job you would have never come and done what you did if had you known that you can't fix it therefore you uh you have to get paid even though the job itself could not be done because it's not your problem it's not your job to fix uh you did what you had to do and that's in essence that's the uh that's the truth now you have to about not solving it the person will feel like oh you never give me the solution so you don't have to feel does the doctor feel bad that he killed the patient yes but he still charges the money why because he still did the job he still has to get paid he still has employees he still has to keep the lights on does the lawyer feel bad if if the uh if he loses the case maybe I'm not really sure about them but assuming he does assuming he has a heart in him and he does feel bad uh then uh he still charges the money he's like listen I feel so bad let me give you the money back never in the history of man has that happened I know I spent over half a million dollars on lawyers I have a Harvard degree in lawyers after you spend half a million dollar on lawyers you could know everything about lawyers all types of lawyers big lawyers small lawyers stupid lawyers other stupid lawyers some smart ones here and there but still not necessarily the best point being is it's the lawyer takes the job I had a I give you a situation of a lawyer I had I had an agreement I was going to sell a piece of my business for a valuation of uh I think it was $48 million and I was going to sell it was going to get $4.8 million from the guy it was going to buy 10% of the business and uh long story short he had to come up with the money with by selling a piece of real estate and uh or not selling a piece of real estate by borrowing some money against one of his real estates long story short he needed some liquid money and um to to do some other deal that he was doing and uh yes but he's like listen do you know anybody that come up with a half a million dollars or a million dollars yeah I I can give you half a million dollars you're giving me once we finalize this deal and you get the money for what you're doing I'm getting $4.8 million from you so you know we're doing business it's not it's not like I don't know the guy so I said I'll give you half a million dollars and we'll have the agreement that we add us to the agreement that you're not only going to give me the 4.8 million but you'll give me now 5.3 because you owe me half a million dollars but there has to be a separate agreement for this $500,000 so the lawyers drafted up an agreement they charge me $177,000 for this agreement now when you somebody when a lawyer charges you $177,000 for an agreement you don't spend too much time double-checking it why because you spent $177,000 on four pages of paper surely somebody out of the 800 lawyers they have double checked what they're doing so I signed he signed I sent the money and I'm still waiting for the money 10 years later 14 years later how come how come I'm still waiting because the whole Market crashed within the deal meaning he never got the money for that real estate that he had he ended up losing the building and on top of it the stupid lawyer which was one of the top law firms in New York and probably in the country the dumbest lawyer on planet Earth charged $900 an hour what did they do they made the future ownership in my business that the guy was going to own the collateral for the $500,000 that I gave him meaning they made something he doesn't own yet the collateral for the money that he owes me in so many words it was better that they made the cat collateral cuz at least I would have a cat but that's what happens so trust me lawyers and you know what the best part is they still want the money they still listen we did yeah we messed up but we still want the money still want the money so they feel bad no point being is this choose your lawyers wisely that's point one point two double check everything and don't trust anyone that's point two Point number three is when you do work you have to get paid this is what I tell always I tell people this in general listen yes I know I'm a rabbi but I still have you know a businessman body and you know if you're going to be you're going to be working in the world make the most amount of money you can in a legitimate way don't be humble when it comes to making a living like don't be like oh because I'm Jewish I'm going to do things for a discount it's not a Mitzvah to do things for a discount it's not a Mitzvah to do things for a discount there's no mitvah of being a discount broker of being a discount Merchant there's no Mitzvah there whatever you do whatever it's worth charge that why because you're working if you think you're worth $1,000 an hour charge $1,000 an hour you think you're worth $500 an hour charge $500 an hour what you're already working if you're not going to do that go learn if you want to be if you want to live just uh paycheck to paycheck barely eating go and be an a don't don't don't go to work at all then might as well be but if you're going to already work if you're already going to be a engineer a builder a lawyer whatever you're going to be and you're doing legitimate business again I'm assuming everything you're doing is legitimate make your money do whatever you can charge whatever you charge Don't Think Twice don't feel bad for it and by the way as like a little side note of a person that knows a little bit about money people don't like discounts as much as people will make you think no no only buying discount the guy that only buys a discount he's not a good customer you know who's a good customer the guy that doesn't buy discounts he wants to buy the most expensive that's the guy you want that's the guy you want who are the most successful companies in the world it's not the dollar stores I promise you dollar stores are always on a verge of bankruptcy you know's who's the most successful Apple Coca-Cola why cuz they charge a lot they charge a lot but they make sure it's worth it they're the first compan said listen you want a phone $1,000 what do you mean $1,000 I could buy a phone for 50 bucks I get for free well would I buy a phone for $1,000 because the best and they delivered and now they're I don't know $500 billion company whatever they are the point is that people want to pay more but they want to get what they want so if you can deliver what people want you should feel perfectly fine charging whatever you want to charge for it but if you're a you know if you're a con artist and it's it's better you jge for a discount at least you'll go to G for a little shorter time but the point is is that you know if you're doing business honestly with Integrity don't be a discount broker don't be a discount person charge your money do your thing and uh it it's not a uh it's not a sin to uh to uh to make money but again it's under the uh understanding that you're doing business honestly and as far as the the customer uh sometimes the customer wins sometimes the customer loses if you did your best and you delivered what the contract and understanding is it's not your fault it's not your fault you did the best you possibly can it's not your fault the patient died you did your best if you were negligent if you were negligent then that's your problem then obviously you have to pay for it you'll get sued and so on the reason why the doctor by the way as a side note the reason why the doctor you know that killed the patient still charges $50,000 or 100 or quarter million for surgery even though he killed a patient is because he knows he did his best and he also knows that if he was negligent then he's on the line for millions and millions of dollars of lawsuits you saying so he knows that at some point someone's going to sue him because at some point he's going to mess up even if he doesn't mess up you're going to get sued at some point the more business you do the more likely you have to get sued especially in America so he charging a full bill because he knows that if it was the table was returned and he messed up somewhere that patient that family that grandchild is going to ass for everything he and his descendants will ever have why because that's the way people up it's a killer be killed mentality so again if you're doing business honestly with Integrity according to the you should have no problem charging a full price and perhaps even a premium if you could actually deliver what you say you can deliver the problem that I find with people is not that they uh uh charge too much or that they charge too little to find the problem that I find with people and I've dealt with thousands of people in business over the years is that they can't even deliver what they promise the overwhelming majority of people are liars by default they're simply just conmen people simply cannot even deliver what they promise forget about the over promising no no they they tell you listen I'm going to sell you this paper 10 cents paper I'm going to give you I don't know $100,000 of them okay so I'll pay you $10,000 for this uh this paper delivery comes half the papers are missing what do you mean I paid you for a full paper listen this was what the print was okay but I'm not paying you no what do you mean not paying me that's what happens people simply cannot even deliver what they say if if you deliver what you say in this world you're already worth a premium you're already worth a premium if you do a good job what I'll hire you I don't even know what you do I'll hire you I'll pay for it I'll buy it just because it's the right thing that's how hard it is to find people that are honest in the world today people think that dishonesty is the only way to get ahead in the world and that's become the standard so if you're doing business honestly charge your price just make sure you're more concerned about delivering what you promis than you are about price price is not significant according to the T you can charge whatever you want to charge again as long it's worth it you can't like uh you know tell sell this thing and uh you know he could buy it on the internet for 5 cents you tell him no it's worth $5,000 that's not allow that's not that's not honest but if your if your business is worth something especially service business it's not a problem for you to make a living no problem next question trying to make the response a little short so we get more questions so a a couple befriends a Jewish couple the Jewish couple man he's born and raised Jewish and the wife his wife is convert as time passes the goish couple listens to shim and um they also get invited over to their house and on Shabbat however it's grown upon the goish couple that during Shabbat at their house they're violating Shabbat and it just hurts them to see see them going through that more and more the goish couple has tried to the man has tried talking to the man but he's somewhat borderline of a scoffer and when the wife the goish wife talks to the Jewish comvert wife uh wife she's just not really interested um what advice would you give to the goish couple if the non-jewish couple is is uh you know is on the process of conversion and uh they've made friends that are Jewish that uh along the way and uh they uh but their Jewish friends are not uh observant if those Jews are not observant because they're ignorant and because they simply don't know what they don't know but yet they're interested to know then yeah they should grow together with them you they could you know they uh they could be each other's uh helpers to become more religious but if the non-jewish couple is serious about their conversion but yet they see that the Jewish couple is not only not serious about Judaism but actually the opposite they mock it they disregard it they uh they don't think of it as at all then you should stop hanging out with them uh uh especially on uh on uh uh Jewish holidays and Shabbat because number one you don't want them to make sins for you that's number one uh which is already increasing their bill as it is uh number two it could actually discourage you from converting because it's a as much as we as many times as we say it people still you know uh need to hear it over and over again which is that Jews are not always the best representation of Judaism you know it's a there are some Jews that are the greatest representation of Judaism you know RAB AA mosenu the rambam the sages the people that toil over Torah the righteous women uh you know those people are the greatest representation of Judaism but you know unfortunately uh due to our many sins that not that's not the majority of our people the majority of our people are quite the opposite where they disregard Torah some of them even make fun of Torah some of them are against the Torah and anti- Torah so those Jews those benon of the world those a uh uh Heretics of the world are not the best representation of Judaism so it's unfair to say that anyone that's a Jew is a a representation of Judaism so you have to understand that if you're serious about God you're serious about Torah you're serious about converting to Judaism and so on you have to surround yourself with people that are likeminded with the right ideology or else you risk misunderstanding what Judaism really is about and as the ramb he says that a person will be influenced by his surroundings it's just it is it is a reality I studied some psychology in school in high school and in college and so on you know and there's the famous battle nature versus nurture whether there's the genes or there's the the the outside influence and the reality is both of them influence a person both of them influence a person but the ROM specifically emphasizes that the the the the outside influences your friends your family your your colleagues and so on they will influence you whether you like it or not whether you're a strong person or not whether you are whatever you are if you're constantly hanging out with gangsters it's only a matter of time before that will impact you maybe you won't become a full-blown gangster and start uh thugging it out on the streets and doing drive-bys but you'll start talking like them you'll start acting like them a little bit you may even have a limp and that's just the reality it's a reality I mean I I remember seeing it in high school it was always the kids the little white kid nothing that that but he lived among the projects and all of a sudden he decid that he wants to act like one of the one of the black kids from the football team it's like why are you talking like this what do you mean son what what do you mean I'm not your son you're 14 what are you talking about why are you talking like that why you talking keep from the surprise Pro what's the matter with you and it's this little white kid and he's acting like he's like I don't know what's the matter cuz his influence that's what we saw that's what we saw and I know this is funny to hear Rabbi say that but that's I I grew up around this and then you see this little white kid with his pants on his ankles and he's acting like he's like uh you know 50 Cent but he's nothing he's like a little guy but guess what that also happens in the opposite happens in the opposite you have a guy hangs around a combination of Muslim terrorists and some white people it becomes Barack Obama same thing same thing same thing Muslim terrorists white people he becomes Barack Obama same doesn't mean that all are like this and all like this but you are going to be influenced by your surroundings yes I'm not politically correct no so the point is the point is is that you have a situ you have a reality you have a reality deal you have to you have to mark it a little bit just to lighten the issue but you have to you have to be realistic with yourself you have to be realistic with yourself if you're going to hang out with thugs you're going to be influenced with them if you're going to hang out with M Shabbat you're going to be influenced with them if you're going to hang out with Heretics you're going to be influenced by them that's just the reality now what do you do if you are in the process of chuva you're getting stronger but your surroundings are not that's the real question that's the deeper question why because many of the people that are watching this year and are laughing along with you are are in that process they are changing but the world around them hasn't caught up yet what do you do then just today I got a question from a nice kid who used to be a sports fanatic used to love TV and so on and so forth and now all you care about is learning to so his question is very different today than it was a year ago two years ago why two years ago he's asking me why you serious about now watching sports today he's asking me listen what do I do about not speaking mundane things on Shabbat when my family all they want to talk about is mundane things they want to talk about politics they want to talk about business they want to talk about sports they don't want to talk about toah what do I do that's a serious question why because that's a difficult one that depends of who your surroundings are not just necessarily where they are in their life but who they are if it's friends you could replace friends like you could replace underwear but if it's parents you can't be that way you can't just abandon your parents because you decide to put a keep on cuz no matter who and what they have to be grateful to them to a certain extent now unless they specifically tell you to go violate the Torah you still have to show them some type of Honor but if they tell you to violate Shabbat you are not allowed to honor them if they tell you to go out with somebody that you're not allowed to go out with and do things you're not to do with according to the toat not allowed to honor them there is no honor to a heretic parent that's trying to get you to to to sin but if they're accepting reasonable they're just not doing what you're doing but they're relatively reasonable people you have to honor them you can't just like say listen from Sundown to sundown I'm not going to say a single word to you it's not going to work out so and by the way it won't be good for the religion either it's not a repes it's not the right representation of Judaism Judaism is not a uh you know Rim secluded in the cave for 13 years he was an exception he was an exception the average Jew is not going into a c for 13 years just because you decide to keep Shabbat and start learning to doesn't mean that you disconnect from the whole world you have to learn how to bring the Torah to the important surroundings you have again if it's friends friends you throw them out like underwear that's that's not not so important why because you know friendship in reality the older you get the more you realize that you're lucky if you die with one friend friends go up friends go down friends are like you know you like everybody thinks oh yeah the younger you are the more you the more uh friends you have the older you are the less friends you have why because as you get older you're more picky about who you're going to have friends when you're young you just want as many people around you as possible when you're older you want real serious people when you're a little older you want people that are honest too when you're a little older you want people that are honest good but also care about you and so and so for then if you're lucky you end up with one good friend so friends I wouldn't invest so much into is a different story K is not a friend K is like a marriage somebody you study to with is like a marriage but a friend like someone you socialize with don't invest too much into it if these people are conducive to your spiritual growth continue the relationship if they're not and in fact if they uh hurt your spiritual growth disconnect from them like you you would from a virus on the other hand your your uh your uh parents and siblings you have to be a little bit more careful with you have to be a little bit more uh uh more careful and and simply more uh understanding uh but at the same token you can't abandon hasem for them either so what do you do if let's say for example this young man's question about what do you do about if you want to speak only Torah the entire Shabbat and they don't really want to talk about Tor the whole Shabbat so what do you do you have to do a few things number one you have to have a plan ahead don't plan on the go meaning before Shabbat starts you already have to have a schedule okay I'm going to wake up you know I'm going to go to the sh is right before Shabbat I'm going to get home at such and such time from the sh after that we're going to have dinner I already have one or two things to say about the weekly par then after I say it or whenever I say it during that time anybody else is going to talk I'm going to try to stay as quiet as possible and let everybody else talk whatever they want to talk I'm not going to tell them not to talk I'm not going to tell them not to breathe let them talk let them do whatever they got to do why cuz that's where they are in their life now if they ask me to talk what I'm going to do while they're talking is try to scan their words and try to figure out where I could take something that I learned and fitted into their conversation so he's talking about President so I'm going to talk about M he's talking about politics I'm going to talk about the fight between and he's talking about so use the things you studied to show him oh you know what that's interesting because I learned something similar in my learning in my Torah and try to bring the Torah into their conversation to show them how the Torah is relevant now if you haven't studied enough if you haven't studied enough to to know how to fit the Torah at the conversation then you shouldn't really be so judgmental of them and also then you shouldn't be so judgmental in the first place you know so but if you can fit the Torah into everything then okay try to fit the Torah so many words try to finish dinner then try okay I got my learning schedule good night and don't stay till you know the whole night with everybody else say I have my learning schedule you finish dinner you hang out with everybody for a little while be social be nice be cordial and so on try to see if people are responsive to what you're saying if they're responsive if they're into it continue the whole night with them but if you see that they're completely oblivious and careless about Torah they car they they're mocking it and everything else pick your legs up bye-bye where you going oh I got to learn no but we're talking okay you talk listen I have a schedule I have a you know this my life I have to finish this tractate I have to finish this book I have to finish this and people by the way in the beginning they'll bust your chops a little bit but over time they'll respect you why because you have a system you have a schedule you know when they won't respect you when they know you're full of it how do they know you're full of it because one day you're like this another day you're like this one day you with the book another day you're watching sports with them one day you with the book another day you have a girlfriend one day you with the book another day you're cursing the contuct driver so if you're really serious ultimately everybody's going to say this guy is serious and they'll respect you for it but if you're a hypocrite then guess what they're going to call you out for it and they'll mock you more than you can even imagine why because it's funny it's funny that you're pretending to be something that you're not and they're right so that's the thing so if the the people around you especially parents are conducive to your spiritual growth stay close to them and little by little they'll grow with you if they're hurting you you know sometimes you have to make a very difficult decision you have to run away from them now if it's your parents and like I said if they're anti and there's nothing to do about then even that you'll have to cut off but hopefully you're you know you're not in that situation but if it's friends friends don't uh try try try a few times but uh don't uh sacrifice your life for them you know don't sacrifice your life next question are you guys asking good questions yeah give him the mic next so in it cites about 93a that if a person curses another and seeks Divine Justice even if he is a good person he is punished before the one he has cursed he will not Escape great evil his deeds are carefully examined and all his sins are recalled so with this in mind is the individual Jew or a minion exempt from the consequences when saying the blessing against the Heretics in the amida is an individual exempt from a I I don't understand the question so when you say with this in mind essentially when we say the the blessing against the Heretics in the amida is individual Jew exempt or is a minion exempt why exemp exempt from Oh you mean like is it part of the blessing ah okay okay so there is a uh teaching that uh we should watch our mouth to the extent of you know make sure not to curse anybody else because even if you are as righteous ASU you should not curse somebody else that uh especially if they don't deserve the curse if that person is a righteous person if that person's a righteous person you shouldn't do what men who did which is she said to abah Hashem will call judgment between me and you and the reason why she did that is because she uh said that look before I gave you Hagar we didn't have any kids but after I gave you ha right away you had a kid with her which to my understanding she says that means that when you prayed for kids you only prayed for kids for you not for both of us and therefore you got the kid in the end but I'm still Barren I still don't have a kid and she was upset at Abraham ainu for uh what she thought was he didn't pray for her so she said Hashem will be the judge between me and you and she was wrong for it and that's also why she died many years before ab ainu and the reason why is because again it's a uh she when when you say specific curses especially it's not just any curse when you say God will be the judge between me and you in essence what you're saying to hasem hasem judged this case because I'm very confident that I'm right so because you're calling hasem to judgment in Ence you're calling hem to get off of his throne and judge your case because you're saying you're so right says okay so let me check let me check if you are right before I look at the case let me check if you are right let me check if everything you ever said is really true if everything you ever did is really true which the reality is many many times we fail and we don't even know our own failings so it's a mistake to ever do that even s menu that did it uh she cost her her life uh cost her many years of our life and that's why in you'll see that in the word that that cried over Sarah it has an unusually small uh say the reason why the letter is written smaller in the Torah scroll then the rest of the letters uh is meaning half the size you have a regular that looks like a c but this in this word the whole world is the whole word is normal size on a Torah scroll and even in your but that one letter is half the size why say that special letter is to symbolize that AB cried a little bit over s the minimum requirement and say it's because not allowed to cry over somebody that committed suicide not to mourn over somebody that committed suicide and in the eyes of uh the said this and the eyes of when s menu said let God be the judge between us she was committing suicide she was committing suicide so now that's in essence the background the question is during our amida prayer every day we do it three times a day there's a section in amida that we say that on the on the the missionaries or the ones that cause others to sin or the ones that sin on purpose uh there won't be any hope for them and hasm will remove them from the world and so on and so forth now in essence you're cursing every day three times a day the people that are wicked and you're wishing for hem to kill them so if the guy is a is that person you're wishing for the gift so how does it fit on one hand you said don't curse here you're cursing actively during your prayer so his his uh his uh answer was is it because you're praying in a minan that you're exempt but what about if you pray by yourself are you exempt because it's prayer no it's not because of that yes it is partly because of that it's a nice answer to say because you're praying you are exempt but it's different also why because you're talking about the wicked to pray for the wicked to die to pray for the wicked haters of asem to be destroyed is a Mitzvah it's mitvah I'm not talking about the people that are wicked without even knowing it the guy never heard about Shabbat and he's driving on Shabbat because he was born out in some jungle or something and he never knew that he was a Jew to pray for him to die we don't pray for him to die I talking about the guy that knows you're not let to drive on Shabbat but he still does it anyway the guy knows you're not let to to be intermarried but he still does it anyway the guy knows not to eat non kosher but he still does it anyway that gu we pray for him to die not because we hate him not because we hate him but because it's better for him to die why cuz every second he's alive he's doing more sins meaning his punishment will be greater so for his own interest let him die already or do CH whichever one happens first if he does CH that's obviously better but if he's not going to do CH it's better for him to die soon why because his punishment will be lesser but the point is to hate the haters of isah so that's why cursing them is not a problem the issue was that what he was mentioning in and in other places is when you are calling people that are righteous to the judgment to do that is is is always a bad idea always a bad idea now as a side note never be the judge or the jury of people and decide for yourself who's right or who's Wicked simply let hasem be the judge meaning if what they're doing is clearly against hem with no doubt whatsoever they're clearly Heretics they're clearly haters of hem then there's no problem for you to hate them on the other hand if this person is maybe has a few bad character traits or things like that there's no need for you to hate them secondly don't do this with your spouse as you learned from it didn't work out so well don't do this with your spouse don't do this with people that are important to you don't uh do that pray you know pray ideally for people to do Chua but again there are some people that are haters of Hashem and you know those specific people uh it's actually better for them and even better for us for them to die I actually met one particular person that I told him I'm going to pray for him to die every day um and uh he got offended I told him okay you know nothing I can do uh well and the reason why the reason why is because was he was an unusual case I've met a lot of types of people in my life uh some people are Torah observant some people not so much some people are atheists some people are not uh but even the people that I've met that weren't you know very religious for the most part they many of them have been respectful and and decent people in this particular case this guy was uh initially showed himself as if he has some questions about the Torah after I uh answered his questions in a live uh lecture we had in New York and uh I guess he got embarrassed a little bit he says he has some more questions and I told him listen you could I'll give you my number and you could ask me whatever questions you want and uh after that some people told me this guy this guy's a famous heretic I said what do you mean he a famous heretic he's like this guy works on getting people to stop being religious and I didn't really want to believe it because he seemed like a nice person uh confused but he seemed like a nice person but then when I talked to him personally he glorified that he got seven people that were to stop keeping Shabbat and he was proud of that like that was his medallions so at that moment I told him this is the end of our discussion from now on I'm going to pray for you to die three times a day and if I can maybe more if I have extra time because it's not a matter of you not being religious you're not being religious I'm going to try to help you and if you don't want me to help you I'm gonna let you do your life do what you got to do but if you are such a hater of God such a hater of the Torah to the extent that it bothers you that I am religious it bothers you that he's religious it bothers you that other people are keeping the Torah that means you are an enemy cuz I can tell you listen I'd like to help you but it doesn't necessarily you know bother me that you uh decide that not to eat the same food I eat it bothers me for for your own sake but it doesn't bother me like I don't think about it on the weekends like oh what happened to Joe on I don't think about that you know I think about CL I pray every single day for to be able to do CH but doesn't neily bother me that you specifically have a different diet that's not Kosher but if it bothers you that I am keeping kosher you're a bad person because it shouldn't affect you it shouldn't affect you like my religiosity my beliefs don't affect you it doesn't affect you that I go to Sho doesn't affect you that I read books that called the Torah it doesn't affect you that my you know we we keep family Purity doesn't affect you so why are you working so hard to make me not religious so that only comes from Evil and if you're evil it's a mitvah for me to pray for you to die mitvah and as a you know unfortunately let's say there's one person there's another person I uh I met like that but I never really prayed for him to die maybe I should start he's still alive but yeah but man seriously no there there's some people that are just evil listen there's some people are evil just just it is what it is listen let me let me make it easy for you guys to understand cuz I know some of you guys are like w it's yeah some of you guys are understanding it some of you guys are looking at me like I have three heads like I'm some mass murderer let me explain it to you in an easier way imagine imagine this is going to be a little graphic but I need you guys to understand how bad this is imagine a little baby you know imagine a little kid 2 3 four 5 years old and some pedophile filthy disgusting you human being does what they do with them right that's what pedophiles do right they simply destroy that kid's life right are you going to pray for that person to to to have a good life are you going to PR pray for that person oh hopefully does chuva maybe if he's not your kid maybe if you're so righteous you're like a little mosu in Disguise if that's not your kid maybe in reality if that's your kid you're praying for that person to die if you if you could actually help him to die you'd help him that's in essence what I mean here when a person is bothered by my brothers and sisters serving God and he wants to kill them it it's killing me so I pray for them to die that's that's it's no it's worse than the pedophile it's worse than the pedophile so just like you would pray for some pedophile or some rapist or some murderer to die same thing same thing same thing it's the same concept because again that kid didn't bother that person he didn't have to do that with that kid the fact that he has crazy Desires in as a sick person that shouldn't be that kid's uh problem that kid shouldn't have a trauma for the rest of his life because he has a sick mind that girl that was walking around innocently doesn't have to uh you know she doesn't she's not at fault that he has a sick mind and he feels like he's allowed to touch her that person that was walking around and doing whatever he's doing he didn't you shouldn't suff because you like to kill people so again when somebody violates another person and that person is close to you you pray for them to die it's even more so when someone is keeping toah and there's somebody out there that's trying to kill them spiritually that's even worse so surely you pray for them to die that's that's an Essence because it's a uh it's according to the says that someone that causes another person to sin is worse than a murderer is worse than a murderer there a actually a whole midash about it a we see from uh we learned from the midianites in Bak uh Bak in the Book of Numbers 25:8 and the whole uh issue between when you uh saw that uh uh Zim Z from the Shimon tribe sinned with kosby sned with kosby from the Goya so Hashem sent the plague and started killing a bunch of Jewish people until pazar P the son of elazar the son ofen came and killed both Zim and kby right so the is that if a Jew is a true Zealot which we really don't have anybody like that in the world today but someone like Pinas was allowed to do it because he was always zealous if someone was a true Zealot and they see a Jew cohabiting with a non-jew actually in the ACT not like after the ACT or before the ACT but during the act itself and that person is Zealot it's a mitzvah for them to kill them so now the say okay so to kill the Jew to kill the Jew that's cohabitating with the non-jew we understand it's a death penalty that's what to says a Jew cabit with a non-jew it's death penalty it's terrible and so on and so forth but why kill the Goya what she do okay the Jew Z he's not allowed to be with Aya fine but why killed the NW why he killed the woman she's she's a woman why does you have to kill her also who wants to give me an answer David answer yeah because she enticed him so so she's part of the sin so the the answer is exactly what he says that when a the r writes in the chapter 12 number n that when a uh when a gentile engages in relations with a Jewish woman if she's married he should be executed and if she's single he's not executed Now by contrast if a Jewish male enters into a relationship with a gentile woman when he does so intentionally she should also be executed meaning if they both know what's going on and uh he's Jewish and she's not Jewish you don't only kill him but you kill her too why she's executed the rambam rights because she caused the Jew to be involved in an unseemingly transgression just as the law is with animals this applies whether the Gentile woman was a minor or or not an adult whether she was single or married and it even applies if the Jew is a minor of 9 years old she's executed the punishment is explicitly mentioned in the Torah in exactly what I mentioned the uh The Book of Numbers chap 31: 16 and 17 where it says behold they are involved with Children of isra according to the advice of bam execute any woman fit to know a man through lying with the male so so we see that the AL according to the r according to the Torah is to kill the woman and it says simply simply that uh it's because she enticed them to sin so what's the final Point why is so bad to entice to sin so comes rimon and he says from here we learn that someone that entices a Jew to sin is even worse than the murderer itself because if he murdered a person then he's only killing his body but if he's enticing his sin enticing him or her to sin then he can be killing their Heaven he can be killing their next world he can be killing their soul itself so therefore in the eyes of God it's a much much heavier judgment there and that's why not only does the person the the Jew get punished but also the non-jew gets punished because just the fact that they existed even if they're an animal the animal didn't entice the guy to SA what you say mo what you say to him what you say to him nothing but the fact that you are the cow that the guy sinned with and you are the woman the guy sinned with and I and Hashem is in essence forced to kill his own son forced to kill his own daughter because of you it cannot be the reality cannot be that he kills his own son or daughter and the person or the animal that was involved is still alive it cannot be that reality cannot exist and there hasm has to kill both good question next um next uh question again start together what's going on with this thing today it's memory memory oh if it's memory then stop it don't bother go ahead hasem communicated to AB in this in your opinion how did know that hasem was communicating with him and that that wasn't him going [Laughter] crazy um so the what we said earlier today is that when the king shows up everything is quiet in essence the point of that was that when the king is there everybody knows everybody knows now what's the biggest difference between Judaism and all of the other religions the difference is that while all of the other religions as promised by God all of them were started by a single person whether it was Mary having a dream that uh that uh God entered her through her ear and therefore gave her birth the little Yos or it's a thereby starting the whole Christianity or it's Muhammad that was illiterate uh meeting with the the uh by himself in the desert meeting the angel Gabriel and telling them all of the secrets of the Quran or it's a uh Buddha getting the light seeing the light or all of these other religions every single one of them they all claimed to have talked to God but it was always as God promised in the tah it was always started by one person Judaism on the other hand is the only religion that was started at Mount sa where kadh for the first and last time unfolded and uncovered himself in front of millions and millions of people and everyone knew including the non-jews that that's what happened that hasem spoke to Amy slay spoke to everybody else and one of the strong arguments that Judaism has against all of the other religions that claimed to be a continuation of the Torah I.E uh the Quran Islam or the new testament's Christianity is that if the New Testament or the Quran was a continuation of the revelation of God then surely the the major event that happened in the past at Mount siai would be repeated again at least as much if not bigger meaning when God wanted the whole world especially the Jewish people to know that he is the god of the Jewish people and he is giving us a book called the Torah he made sure that it was big enough that no one can dispute it because he wrote things in the Torah about the people that were there not just the people that died he didn't just write about abah and yob that weren't there in Mount Si he also told them things about the people that were living that were alive there where there's verses in the that all tells all all of you heard God's voice all of you so if somebody says listen I didn't hear God's voice there's a mistake in the T somebody would have said something so the point is that Hashem when he gave us the Torah he wanted to make sure that everybody knows indisputable that God is talking and uh and and he's talking to millions of people with the other religions they started with an individual in essence it's all Blind Faith everybody just follows based on Blind Faith that you know hopefully she really did have that dream and she's not really a prostitute hopefully he really did have that dream and he's not what high in kashish and hopefully he really did have that light and it's not just uh you know some the sun you know it's just hopefully everybody's working on Blind Faith and billions of people are relying on this Blind Faith now which means that when God wants to show you himself he makes sure that it's in disputable and it's undoubtable right so Abraham talked to God how did he know it's not that Abraham knew based on his own intellect but rather God made it so that it was clear as day was clear as day that it is God that's talking to him and nothing else and one of the main ways that he understood that it's God talking to him is that Hashem did certain things that only God can do whether it be saving him from when threw him into the fire uh or it was the other Miracles that happened there where hasem fixed his uh his wife's uh uterus and Ence put the uterus back in her body or made his wife uh uh make made his wife's body go back to when she was 20 years old in an instant and so on and so forth so Hashem made sure that it was not only clear to a but it was also clear to others that it's God that's talking to him and not simply him you know being high uh why because when God is talking to you he's going to make it clear you're not going to think you're crazy you're not going to think you're crazy it's going to be as clear as day to you now I recommend you know there are some people that say listen God spoke to me God spoke to me and you know what you may be right God may have spoken to you but my suggestion is keep it to yourself why number one no one's going to believe you and anyone that does probably think God speaks to them also so I recommend if God spoke to you keep it to yourself that's my recommendation um and uh generally because it's not you know it's possible God spoke to you and if he really spoke to you you would know for sure you wouldn't think you're crazy if you think you're crazy most likely it's not God talking to you most likely it's just your imagination or maybe a demon uh likes to mess with you a little bit which you know they like to have fun with people sometimes um they do they do they do they they demons can come to you in all types of forms they come to you as your mother they come to you as your father they come to you as your cousin they come to you as some big Sage they come to you you can have a dream somebody says oh I'm it's really demon just likes to mess with you it happens but uh point is that if it's God I promise you you wouldn't have any doubts because if God is talking that means he wants you to know he wants you to know he wants you to know that it's him so I believe that when it came to abam because an entire people were dependent on this conversation and this relationship that Abraham had uh it had to be as clear as day and that's where there was many many Supernatural things that happened the uh B Ben when he uh brought the sacrifice to AB when AB brought the sacrifice to hem uh there was a if you look at the midash there's all types of spiritual things that were happening there a uh special Spirit if you will of wind went through the animal you know it's all types of other things that made it as clear as they uh that it is God that's talking to him and and and not simply his mind uh and again that's uh not because of uh ab's intellect even though he was the smartest man uh uh ever really um some say even smarter than than schl but uh but it was because God made it clear God made it clear hopefully that was sufficient yeah behind you give him the mic M so um right on on that question there's a lot of uh Christians at times that like to say that they have visions and uh Supernatural encounters and all these things that with what you just mentioned might have like allowed them to to get fired up right to be like okay so you see I do have that kind of uh blessing per se or you know they believe in all these prophecies how how would you kind of just cut them cut them while they're while they're mentioning that how do you just cut that conversation and let them know hey you're you're in disbelief or you know you lost yourself there that depends it's an answer I can give you in two seconds or I can give you 25 minutes and we'll end this year with it and that depends whether you want me to give you a quick answer and we'll move on to other more you know to other questions or you want me to show you another uh way to destroy Christianity in a second which one do you guys want well that's you you have a lot of other people here also uh the simp the simple answer is this there is no way to connect to God when you're doing things that are against him there's no way I actually got something just yesterday um somebody showed me just a regular church has on their website what they believe in and he writes on his on his website we believe in the 66 books of the olden New Testament meaning that believing in a New Testament is a foundational belief of Christianity um furthermore that uh they believe that um God exists in three persons Father Son and Holy Spirit all three persons of the godhead are equal and eternal in essence they believe God has three parts that's idolatry according to our Torah so there is there's no way to connect to the real God through idolatry no way meaning get him to favor you and so on three we believe that God reached out to us by becoming a man the Eternal omnipotent God entered the human race when Jesus was born in Bethlehem becoming a man in no way diminishes his deity and be being God did not make him any less than human except that it made impossible for him to sin so again I mean I'll spare you the stupidity but in essence the point is is that this is the belief the belief is is that God is a man which according to our Torah that's 100% idolatry thinking that God is three that's idolatry so according to our Torah and we have many many verses and famous debates throughout the years that the Sages have had whether it was the ramban famous debate or it was the kuzari famous debate or other debates that showed that Christianity bottom line is is 100% idolatry according to our religion according to our Torah which means that if the person that you're talking to understands that what he believes in is idolatry then he would know that there's no way that it is God that's talking to to him but rather the is talking to him or one of his soldiers meaning it's either the Satan or it's one of his demon Minions that are that are talking to him even if they say whatever they say why because they are involved in the Tuma of the world the impurity of the world if the person obviously and most likely doesn't believe that Christianity is idolatry then he'll say you're crazy and you'll say he's crazy and then it's just simply a waste of time so the most critical thing that you want to do with such a person if you think that they're intelligible and and open to uh to to seeing the truth then I would recommend you show them the material instead of debate them directly you just show them the material you show them let's say Rabbi toia singer's website Outreach Judaism or Rabbi uh y mra's debate or perhaps my about Christianity and if they speak Hebrew RAB has about 60 children about Christianity and many other things to show them the facts of why Christianity is it's it's simply idolatry there nothing else but if the person is not open to it then just move on along move on along don't don't waste time there is a lot of things about about Christianity that people don't know uh but uh in essence the uh the ultimate thing that you need to know is that it is possible that some people um could see things hear things uh uh even do things but it's not coming from the Holiness but rather from the impurity from the impure side the impure side is also strong but that's because God allows it God allows the impure side uh to have certain amount of strength in the world because it's that's part of our free choice that's part of our free choice so it is possible that they see things it is possible that they do things uh there a lot of things that are possible but you you need to know that it's a it's coming from the impure side so just because you see that somebody can perform a miracle doesn't make them righteous that's why there's a verse in the Tor that says don't be impressed by anybody that just could perform Miracles it doesn't mean that they're righteous doesn't mean that they're holy doesn't mean anything you know we don't uh we don't uh uh decide who's righteous based on Miracles we don't just decide who's a messenger of God based on Miracles we decide whether they're righteous or not based on the tah meaning there's rules in the tah of what they need to do and not to do and and so on uh Jesus of Nazareth was a or he's also called is that other man uh or yes that that person he started off uh on the left side because his mother was a uh you know was a uh woman that cheated on her husband and uh she cheated on her husband but of course if her husband knew that she cheated on him he would have to kill her so uh you know that the bedin would kill her so she said no it's God came into me and that's how it's a virgin birth and uh that whole story doesn't make any sense but two and a half billion people believe it but anyway that means that Jesus himself was a MZ was a child not just MZ is not a child out of wedlock a MZ is someone that uh was came uh through a adultery that's who Jesus really was but still that didn't mean that the Jewish people gave up on him he actually still went to Yeshiva and he actually had one of the greatest rabbis ever his teacher Yeshua paraka Yeshua paraka was his teacher uh and uh he was one of the original sages one of the zot and uh he was a uh extraordinary person and it's mentioned in thear a couple places now if you buy an art scroll one of the modern day garas many of them will not have Jesus's name in it but that's because of the censures that we had to do over the years because of the uh uh that were killing us the Christians didn't like that we told the truth about Jesus in our in our talud so they started killing a bunch of Jews and uh you know started burning it and so on and so forth so many of the uhar don't have the name they have uh you know things that uh portray it but don't say the name itself but we know it is and anyway we still have some of the old that say is actual real name in it now anyway it's mentioned literally in and the story between him and yesu is mentioned page 47 and also in I believe it's 107 and it talks about how Yeshua paraka his teacher uh was uh fleeing uh fleeing the country and uh they went to Alexandria which is in Egypt and the host over there the woman that was hosting them over there was a very nice woman and um yeshu the rabbi was a sadik and he said oh he was telling he told Jesus ah look at a uh how nice she is and uh Jesus in Hebrew is Yeshua now we don't call him Yeshua we call him yeshu yeshu is an acronym for for May his name be blooded blotted out why why do we miss the we'll find out today um so even though you want the short answer I'm still going to give you a long one uh so now why what what happened there he he said uh look at what she's a nice woman kind woman she's helping us you know it's say they were in uh uh in danger life danger and Jesus was a person that uh like to uh you know freshen up his eyes if you will by looking at girls so he was like some of the modern day fools today that they think that they rabis just like them you know it's like oh listen what's the big deal that he's a rabbi and I'm not why we're just the same we're both people no if he dedicated his entire life to learning toah and you didn't you're not the same person you think you are but that's that that that's foolishness so anyway Jesus was one of those fools where he thought his Rabbi was thinking the same thing so when his Rabbi said look at us she's such a nice woman and he thought that he's complimenting her her looks so he said what's nice about her look at her eyes she has a she has weird looking eyes like little pebbles in our eyes she apparently she wasn't an attractive woman According To Jesus and the rabbi said this is what you use your for this is what you use your your eyes for this is what you do and he kick K him out kicked him out of the Yesa now Jesus came back a few times to say I'm sorry but the the rabbi wanted to teach him a lesson and show him that you can't think like this because this apparently this wasn't his first offense it seems he looked at women several times and apparently he was a uh like the ladies even though he was learning a lot of Tora and even though he was apparently a smart person anyway uh as The Story Goes he uh the rabbi told him know a few times but then when he was ready to accept him back Jesus came at the wrong time he came during a time where the rabbi Yeshua B parak was a was praying and is if you're in the middle of praying you're not allowed to stop to say hello to somebody you're not allowed to stop and talk to somebody you have to pray you're praying to God but uh but uh Jesus didn't care about that so when he came to him came to the teacher say I'm sorry the uh the rabbi had was praying but he didn't want him to go so he told him like this like he move he made a motion with his hand like stop like meaning wait for me Jesus ran out of patience and Essence thought he was rejecting me again and he ended up leaving and he started committing idolatry he found the says he found some rock and started worshiping it and started using all types of Witchcraft to do all types of things uh to uh to get people to follow him and so on so uh the uh thear says that uh really although he was and he's judged in a very heavy judgment page 57 uh B says that where is Jesus Jesus is now in boiling feces even though he was judged harshly they also says that the rabbi was uh you know incorrect In how he treated him in a sense that uh he uh he was too harsh with him he was two hours with him it took him too long to to get him to come back so don't be like him be a little softer if somebody is a tough student don't reject them constantly you know be a little softer with him not to just let them run over you but you know if he says I'm sorry okay y move on already move on so anyway uh surely he knew what he knew now the question is why was it decided in heaven for Yeshua which was his real name to now be known in the Jewish world as yeshu meaning there's a missing letter in his name now the Christians love to argue no it's not yeshu you guys are talking about a different person it's Yeshua especially in recent years all the messianics they like to say Yeshua Yeshua and feel like they're all Jews already why what happened now in reality that's his real name his name was Yeshua but why why do we say yeshu yeshu like I said is a curse a curse because he created a lot of damage for us and we suffered a lot because of him the the uh most amount of Jewish Jewish people killed has been because of him but the point being is as why was it decreed in sham so in a SE called byah C who was one of the head rabbis of Israel and uh he was a great but very very misunderstood by many and uh when somebody spoke against them one time and next to Shak R Shak said how dare you speak against R cook who's a person that hasn't looked at the face of a woman other than his mother and his sister since the age of nine that's how holy was so he wrote in a in a called bit that yesu made a sin with what with his eyes by looking at girls and that's why he lost the letter I from his name what did he lose out of his name it's yeshu or Yeshua so why did he lose the a because is a letter but also means eyes an eye why did he lose the eye because he s with his eye and R brings this and he says Where do we learn this from we learn this because it says in the prophet job 11 verse 20 says the eyes of the wicked will be destroyed and although the missionaries continue to keep trying to convince the world that is it's really Yeshua and not yeshu they're right they have it is Yeshua but it's yeshu why because he lost it because he followed his eyes he followed his eyes and it's well known that a uh a t tells us that anybody anybody that is going to look at immorality he's going to look at immodesty is bound to sin it's just a matter of time before it happens there's no way for a person to continuously look at women and not sin it's just a matter of time and page 28 says that anyone who looks at women will ultimately fall to sin and meaning the worst sin wasting seed promiscuity and so on and so forth and yes was not careful with his eyes ultimately that led him to sinning with his eyes and ultimately that led him to a uh to actual a itself now from this we learn that there's a measure for measure Accounting in sh but also there's also a certain type of a uh um treatment that a person needs to have when he deals or she deals with Christians in the world because there's still two billion people in the world that believe that he is God uh and even if they say no no we only believe he's mashia their definition of mashia is not the same thing as our definition of mashia so in essence their mashia also means God by the way so with that being said is that you have to understand that their whole the whole Foundation of Christianity comes from the S side of Tuma comes from impurity from the foundation from the mother committing a sin to Jesus making other sins and all of it comes with the same exact sin which is immorality which immorality comes with with all of the things that have to do with sex crimes and that's the reason why you'll see many times in the church uh and there this is very common sex crimes are extremely common whether it's pedophilia or it's a other types of promiscuity and things of that nature all of those things are very very common in that world uh not to say that the rest of the world is innocent for other things but needless to say that for them it's not necessarily as intolerable uh as it should be um but that's also because that's coming from there and uh so when it comes to a Jew you have to know that we are not allowed to uh to join forces with them or do any uh any type of uh uh co-working like the Jewish Christian Alliance is forbidden and the reason why is because page 44 says you have to stay away from something that's viewed as ugly by heaven and even something that looks like it's ugly so needless to say Christianity is ugly in the same in the eyes of God but even if it's no no it's judeo Christian still ugly or it looks ugly point is you have to stay away from it stay away from it but then say yeah but they have a lot of money they donate a lot of money King David says in Psalms 371 don't compat with evildoers and don't be envious uh don't be envious of them why because you see that many times people want to do business and they want to do uh all types of uh Jew judeo Christian Alliance type of things because of the money or because it looks like they're winning or things like that but this is creating much more damage than people could imagine creating much more damage people imagine this is obviously uh becoming a bigger problem in modern uh Orthodoxy today even though they leaders whether it was slovic or even uh he uh he himself actually just read something I read a letter that he wrote years ago that uh clearly says you have to stay away from idolatry and from the uh the people that are uh uh the rabbis especially that are um doing all types of uh um Gatherings I'm sorry herel uh he um he wrote that people that are um uh rabbis that are saying that you know we should work together with the Christians and really they have a connection to Israel and things of that nature they don't realize they're playing with fire they're playing with so point being is this as far as uh you know Yeshua yeshu yes it is Yeshua but we call him yeshu and in heaven they call him yeshu why because he lost the right to have that ey because he sinned with his eye what happened to his uh to his name it's it it got changed now as far as what happened to him thear says that he is in boiling feces now uh there is a uh we'll finish with this point the the was one of the greatest sages that ever lived said everything I just told you and more to the king at the time the non-jewish king at the time and non-jewish King at the time said it's hard for him to believe this and the marag because he was a cabalist and a enormous Sage holy of holies he says I could show you like I show you and is the same that made a Golem he took the the non-jews were hurting the Jewish people so we need some protection he took a bunch of clay made a goem made a giant and that was the defender for the people anytime people would come this thing would come to life and start killing people start killing the Jews and you go to Prague and there's actually a till this day 400 years later 500 years later there's a building over there in memory of this of this Golem the the movie Frankenstein was based on that by the way just so you know so I mean obviously Frankenstein is some fairy tale but the actual Golem actually existed no you could say no it didn't didn't but there is a place I there's no building with my name there's a building for the Golem so there's a building for the Golem I don't know apparently the people over there believe he existed so the point is the created him he was used he created something and put life into it and this person had a the name of God on his forehead and that gave him life and eventually when he wasn't needed they took it off and the thing you know uh you know became dust and Ashes again but the point is the is known for some very very Supernatural stories that's the one that's very popular of what I told you what I'm about to tell you I don't think is as popular I only heard it from myav I hav heard it from anybody else doesn't mean much but nonetheless this is what it is the king the non-jewish king uh heard all of the things that the marag said about Jesus and he said it's hard for him to believe so the told him I can show you I can show you Jesus in burning in boiling feces right now he said show me then Mar wanted to retract but the king already said you said it do it so the marag used what's called cabal which is a different level of cabala which you could create things and he brought Jesus from Gom to this world in front of the king in front of the people he brought him he was right in front of everybody and he was full of boiling feces and obviously this stench and the filth is not of this world so people were suffering a lot the king was suffering a lot he told him get him out of here you know I get the point get him out of here and the M had a hard time he couldn't take him out he couldn't bring him back until he said a holy special holy name of God and he hit him at the same time and that brought him back to Gom of where he is only problem is that the supernatural filth that's on y right now is not of this world and got stuck to the hand of the m so from that day forward he had to always wear a glove and constantly have perfume constantly have perfume to put on his hand so other people don't suffer for the rest of his life so again if you tell this to a bunch of Christians they're not going to be so fond of you uh but uh the uh the truth is is that the uh there is a about it that says why is why is Jesus in a uh in Gom why is he specifically in that one and it says anyone that makes fun of the sages of the of Torah Scholars is end is to be in boiling feces that's the place for them designated for those people in G and that's what Jesus did ultimately that was his biggest sin his biggest sin was that he made fun of the rabbis and went against them and got people to follow him and so on so most of what I said is really for your education it's not really to go uh go and uh don't use this material for anti-missionary purposes it won't help it'll probably be insulting for Christians it know they'll probably take it offensively uh they won't like it uh or best yet they won't buy it they won't they won't agree with you uh the real things that you should use to uh deal with uh people that are you're trying to get out of Christianity is simply the proofs that there is more mistakes in the New Testament than you can possibly count whether it's geographical mistakes or biblical mistakes and so on and so forth those are the things that are the best to use for uh you know for uh for that purpose but again it's always good to know some of these things for yourself in case the uh you know somebody comes to you and uh confuses you with something it's good to know some of this material to know that listen if you follow them and their bad ways you're not going to be so far away from their leader also and their leader is not such a good place last question and we'll finish for the night anything yeah somebody didn't ask questions you ask questions everybody didn't ask questions Ken you have a question in the back yeah I have a question give the mic is just a little late so I don't know I read a prayer on a Thanksgiving prayer I don't think it was from a sedur and at the end it said I am Dustin ashes and you are the entire universe and I started to not say that end of the prayer because I was thinking like how can you say that Hashem is the entire universe I felt it was a little bit Blasphemous somehow even though I understand it in a way I just thought it was wrong and felt maybe that was man-made is that Blasphemous in any way like where's the prayer from it was I think it's from a bre Center or something oh so it's probably something that put it together so uh you know it's not a uh I don't I don't you English translations are not always the best but uh it's you should know that in general uh even the rambam wrote it that there's no perfect way to translate uh Hebrew really there's no perfect way to translate any language because there's certain languages that have unique words that you can't translate and you do your best no but nothing will ever be like the original now when it comes to uh prayer specifically when it comes to uh Jewish prayers there are C certain things that are uh simply untranslatable because those words don't exist in other languages but to say that God is the whole world uh you know and you are nothing is not a problem at all because he is everything uh he he is everything and we are nothing um and we actually say that in amid we say that in amid three times a day that he is everything and we are nothing is the literal translation of the Hebrew words slightly differently than he is the whole world yes but I don't know of a better translation than that though I don't know if there is a a better translation than that at least not off the top of my head so I don't believe it's Blasphemous I think it's perfectly fine but again it's a uh if it's if something was written by if something was written by one of the sages surely they got it from somewhere they're not just creating blessings out of thin air I I don't think so anything uh else anybody okay give him the mic please my mon 27 questions here maybe we'll answer depending I'll answer iure my Mones wrote about being more specifically eating healthy how much significance or lack of significance do you give to this aspect of daily life uh the r promises he writes in in he says that anybody that follows his his uh guidance is guaranteed not to get sick now uh does that mean that a uh the body of a person is the same today as it was 900 years ago no there are certain things that the rambam used as medicine that in today's world generally speaking don't work because the body has changed uh the body has changed for many reasons the the diets of people have changed the the water has changed the uh the makeup of people has changed generally speaking again we're still the same species we haven't be become monkeys or at least not to my knowledge but uh you know the point is is that to make of a person has changed somewhat and certain things that was utilized as medicine in past Generations doesn't always work like it did back then but if somebody does something because it says so in the Torah I.E also the sages because they said it surely they'll have a blessing for it they'll have a blessing for it so a person should take care of their health they should do whatever they can to take care of their health but they should know that if it comes to their uh their health being taken care of it doesn't mean they have to be a bodybuilder with a sixpack and they have to run every day at 6:00 in the morning you know be you know the best you can but again sometimes it's a depends on what you use your energy with if if you're going to learn uh tah if you're going to learn tah seriously it's going to be very very hard for you to uh spend any time in a gym uh but does that mean that you should eat like a pig no doesn't mean you should eat a pig you should you know take care of yourself do the best you possibly can but uh if if you have to pick your spiritual uh uh maintenance or your physical maintenance your spiritual maintenance is more important your spiritual maintenance is much more important and that's also the reason why you'll sometimes even see very very big that are extremely heavy it doesn't mean that they've abandoned and they don't care about their health it's that their priority in life is Torah and uh their body wasn't necessarily the uh the number one priority it's not that they intentionally got fat or they intentionally this just that they didn't spend any anywhere near as much time uh taking care of their body as they did their n and uh certain things SW certain things happen but uh again people spend an enormous amount of energy taking care of their body and rarely do they take care of their nsh as much you know they say no no but I'm I go to the gym five times a week an hour a day two hours a day how much T do you learn oh I learn 10 minutes okay so you'll have a you know you'll have a geden that's uh you know 5 minutes of gunen you'll have why because again you're woring you spend a lot of your time you know fixing something that's here today gone tomorrow whereas the thing that's here eternally you're not spending that much time in so that's the thing but again a person should take care of their body but don't go crazy don't go crazy don't uh in essence the main message is do do not go to a mixed gym if there's boys and girls in a gym it's forbidden permanently with Corona without Corona even though that means that you're not going to be able to work out the same way like I said your spirituality your soul is much more important than your body if you go to a mixed gym you're making a sin from the Torah from the Torah you'll go to Gom for that for that sin if you're a Jew if you're a non- Jew you're allowed to do whatever you want you know when it comes to that as far as going to mix JY it's not a good idea it's not going to be good for your marriage it's not going to be good for your life because you're going to see a bunch of naked people but nonetheless you're allowed if you're a Jew you're not allowed to mix go to a mix gym just like you're not allowed to go to mix Beach it's better to die than to go to there that's how bad of a sin it is why because you know for sure there's going to be immodesty there and you're still going not allowed so now a person that understands that says wait but how I'm going to work out work out at home yeah but I don't have the same equipment so what you're n is more important than your body your n's work is more important than your body you can do some push-ups sit-ups maybe buy yourself some dumbbells and you'll be perfectly fine perfectly fine or you could just go to a men only gym same thing with women women allow to go to mixed gyms either she has to go only to a women's gym and same thing with yoga classes and all those other things yoga in general by the way is not allowed you should know that yoga in general is not allowed it's a form of idolatry you're allowed to do certain movements with your body and meditate but you're not allowed to do yoga itself because that comes from idolatry yoga itself comes from idolatry so aside from that if there men and women in that yoga class for sure it's not allowed because again immodesty but the point being is that people need to understand your body is important but it's not as important as your soul your Nish is much more important if taking care of your body will jeopardize your Nish it's not allowed not allowed but if taking care of your n will jeopardize your body it is allowed it is allowed so that's it no you have a question in the back so and many times in the in the Dua you can see that there are examples where if for example for self- defense you're allowed to kill the other person if he's coming to kill you or as you just said if someone's as Spas which there isn't anybody has it's very Zealot taking so is there any other example that you can kill someone today we're not allowed to kill anybody unless somebody's trying to kill you if somebody's trying to kill you you're allowed to kill them but if somebody's not trying to kill you you're not allowed to kill them because we don't have any permission to do to kill anybody uh unless it's an act of War meaning if you're in a war then obviously a war is war but if somebody's trying to kill you uh then uh you know and again they don't necessarily have to say they're trying to kill you like if a uh if a person is trying to rape a woman and she ends up killing him in the process it's not a sin for her it's not a sin for her or anything like that uh but uh generally speaking you're not allowed to take the law into your hands it's only self-defense only self-defense um you know so even if somebody's a heretic Idol worshipper missionary uh hater of God still not to kill him not let to kill them homosexual gay prade parade not let to kill them not let to kill them not have to hurt them not have to beat them up nothing not why you're not the law you're not the sanedrin it's in the in the hands of God so even though the sanedrin is not here it doesn't mean that death penalty and the rules of the sanedrin are not being instilled into the world they're just being instilled into the World by God so in the old days when they would let's say for example Stone somebody for violating Shabbat today hasem just allows a car to run them over or plane to crash or building to explode or something like that you know and so so anytime you see somebody oh wow he died from a plane crash you know that's stoning that's stoning you know and then there's Alo all all the different deaths that people have is a uh usually one of the punishments and the vast majority of people if you look at statistics I don't know if you want to necessarily spend time doing doing this but there about 60 million people die every year in the world 60 million people it's a lot of people okay so coron virus a million people dying is not exactly such a big deal just just just so you guys calm your you know your whole nerves about Corona it's not such a big deal there's more people dying from the flu even during Corona than Corona but still Corona is very good for politics it's very good for politics just like the uh I remember years ago during the Gulf War there was a lot of uh you know a lot of talking about similar things you know in oil and things like that all of a sudden everybody wanted to uh was was interested in Atomic Warfare um and therefore they used that as an excuse to go to war anyway the uh when when it comes to to um when it comes to just any mitvah any mitvah that you're going to do you have to know that if the sages put it together if the sages talked about it there's a reason for it there's a reason for it but in today's world people disrespect the tah people disrespect the tah now in because they disrespect the tah hasem has to enforce his punishment into the world so because there isn't a sanedrin it doesn't mean that the law is not being forced into the world it's just that hasem does it so out of the world's 60 million people that die every single year the overwhelming majority of them and by majority I mean a very very high majority die from unusual deaths most people don't die going to sleep like you know like in the movies you know the guy is 90 years old and he after he lived a nice full life and he said goodbye to all of his grandkids and Grand grandkids and even his puppy and then finally goes to sleep he's like ah and I it's not real life and real life it's you know horrible things it's car accidents it's cancer it's Strokes it's sucks it's really what it is it's a horrible horrible situation and guess what it's all ages there are just as many people that die at 25 years old as they do at 70 years old so why because the sanedrin of Heaven still works still works still works that 24y old that died it got a death penalty from heaven for whatever sin he made Jew or not so that's the thing so people need to understand that God is still running the world he just doesn't run the world the way you would think that you you know he sometimes has patience with certain people and he sometimes does not have patience with certain people because he already used it up on other things but when it comes to us instilling the death Penal Y in our hands that's forbidden we don't have the right to do it because the Torah the same Torah that says that this person gets a death penalty also tells us that we're not allowed to put that death penalty in force unless we follow certain metrics certain rules like even for example death penalty that a Shabbat would get the only way that the bed would be allowed to kill someone that violated Shabbat is if there are two witnesses that saw him violate and they warned him and they told him about what the punishment would be if he continues which means that the that violated Shabbat in the first Shabbat he was not like they just saw him oh wow he's violating Shabbat let's kill him no like they saw him violating Shabbat they told him you know you're violating Shabbat he said yes told him if you continue I'm going to kill you he said yes he continued and then they they brought M killed him so even then it's not like just like oh you see somebody driving on Shabbat death penalty doesn't work like that so much but that's only because the saned was doing it when it's God doing it then it's different when God is doing it doesn't you don't need Witnesses because has the Heaven and the Earth is the witness for everything so that's that yes next question but are there but he he sends you warnings before he kills you I'm assuming send you War before he kills you uh I'm assuming he he sends you a lot of warnings throughout your life even before before death is even an option every single day is a warning the the B say growing a gray hair is a warning every time you grow a gray hair is a warning why you're closer to death you know so I mean when a person understands that everything is a warning everything is is is is a connection to hasem then sure you're getting a warning every second of your life I mean the truth be told is that the fact that you're able to go to the bathroom without dying or you're able to eat without choking in itself is a miracle because think about it you need the very same place that you used to eat to also breathe and the very same thing that would cause you to stop breathing is what you need to eat the fact that you able to eat without losing a breath is a miracle in itself you could EXP explains in all types of scientific ways but that the Tora says the says that the hour of of eating the hour of a meal is the hour of War it's a miracle that you're able to eat and live just eat anything and live is a miracle to go to the bathroom to go to the bathroom is a miracle the fact that this candy this piece of meat this uh I don't know whatever it was that you ate your body new to take whatever is good out of it and turn into blood and whatever is not good out of it turn into waste that leaves your body that's a miracle why because if that bad part of the food that you consumed whatever is left of it that your body doesn't want didn't turn into nutrients didn't turn into vitamins didn't turn into blood that part if that part doesn't leave your body after a few days it starts killing you like if you can't go to the bathroom for 3 days you start dying I know I went through it you know my eyes was bleeding and the ear bleeding everything else yeah that's that's usually what happens after you go come to the bathroom for a week so again the fact that you're able to go to the bathroom and that's a miracle but are you going to think about this maybe tomorrow you're going to think about because you heard about it today but did you think about it beforehand unless you have stomach problems probably not why because we get used to it we get used to stuff we get used to things you're the bathroom no big deal you eat no big deal you listen to things no big deal you see things no big deal uh you know you walked in a street A bug flew right into your eye but right before he damaged your eye your eyelids closed how did your how did your eye know that the bug is coming and how did it react so fast to catch the bug in your eyelid and not inside your eye but we don't think of it as a big deal why because we get used to this stuff so again when it comes to warnings from God you're getting it every second you exist question is whether you're paying attention I'm going to try to answer these six questions very very quickly because they're here I'm assuming I'm going have to answer them anyway so you might as well benefit from them also one once a woman does her full conversion to Judaism how would she integrate herself into a mikve there is no integrating into a mikve there is only if she is married a married Jewish woman is the only one that's allowed to go to a mikve if a woman is not married she's not allowed to go into a mikve as a mistake that some women make and they go to the mikve without being married this is a mistake the sages said it's forbidden for a woman that's not married to go to a mikve if she's married she would go to the mikve once a month when she is uh she has clean days she would have to know the uh family Purity laws of how to have a certain amount of clean days and certain amount of a days that she was need and usually it's 5 days plus 7 days but again it depends on the woman and how long she bleeds and so on and so forth but the the point is is that she would be allowed to go to the mik once she's married um you know once a month uh two giving money to other Charities you mean you're giving Charities to other people I'm just kidding uh giving money to other I had to do something I giving money to Charities uh example giving money to homeless family members needy is that considered a form OFA yes it's uh actually if you have family family members parents uh uh kids uh that are uh like immediate family members that are in need not that there's a short change and you know they they want to get a bigger TV like if they if they're in need you actually have to give them your takaka before you give takaka to anywhere else your own house first before somewhere else for somewhere else uh three do righteous Gentiles go to ganeden absolutely righteous Gentiles go to ganeden but that's only if they're righteous according to the Torah which means that they're following the laws of Torah which is the noahide laws the noahide laws are seven noahide laws but in reality it's not seven noahide laws it's seven categories it's seven categories that break down into other laws similar like the Ten Commandments break down into the 613 laws many of the seven law the the categories within the seven noahide laws are actually part of the Jewish laws there's not really that much difference which is the reason why I suggest for people to convert to Judaism if they can four how did the sages know that the creator has approved one of the rabinal laws that involve nature uh aside from the story that the baby can grow from a Hyman what do you mean the involved nature I can't follow I don't follow uh generally speaking as far as just to answer the the question the best that I possibly can how do the sages know that what they uh what did is approved in in heaven is this there are a rules that we got at Mount sonai not just the uh what's allowed what's not allowed but God left a certain portion of the Torah to interpretation of the sages meaning he left a certain part of the Torah as a great area for the sages to toil and arrive at the truth of what it is why because he wanted to make us partners in the Torah and not just robots because when you invest into something you care more about protecting it so for example if I gave you uh money every time you uh you uh you woke up and every time you came to the shoe and every time you laughed and every time you just got a bunch of money guess what within no time you'd stop valuing money why because you didn't work for it that's why when you spoil kids you ruin them you know it's say it's it's just a reality so in order for you to care about something you have to work for it so God wanted us to work for it he wanted us to become part of the Torah so he left part of the Torah up to interpretation but it can't be up to interpretation based on human intellect there had to be divine rules so there are Divine rules that he gave the sages of this are the Divine rules that you have to meet in order to arrive at the truth as long as you use those rules whatever you arrive at is the truth which means that sometimes two sages or four sages would use all of those rules but actually arrive at different conclusions but yet the Torah tells us both this and this are words of the Living God meaning they're both right they're both right it's not it's not black and white with the T sometimes it's black it's white it's gray it's burgundy it's whatever God wants based on those rules now there is a uh mid called for many years I myself thought the tulos started with ulos the gcos the convert truth be told that t we already have from Mount saai that commentary we already have from Mount saai And the reason why is because it wasn't just the Torah that God gave us but also what is the Torah saying that he gave us meaning it's not just the verses but the simple interpretation of those verses like what are you actually saying here because it's not common day-to-day language so that started at Mount sa andos in essence brought it back to the world because it was lost for a amount of time so as far as to to know who's right and who's wrong it's based on whether they use the rules and that's why you'll see that in thear you'll see that the sages are constantly using verses from the Tor to justify everything that they're saying and if someone uses something from the Torah from the five books of Moses it has to be that this is the reason why this is used you can't use one verse for multiple reasons you can't say this verse is for this law that law and that law not allowed it has to be for one law that means you're limited now if somebody says yeah but I have a verse from the T I have the verse from the prophets I have the verse from the we don't make laws from the we don't make laws from the uh from the prophets they're important they're called but it's not you don't make it's not like the five books of Moses but again these are some of the rules some of the rules that we have in the Torah but does that mean that you could just if you don't if you have a verse from the or from the prophets it's not important no it is important it's called but it's not like the five books of Moses if you want to be a law it has to meet the guidance and one of them is that it has to have a version of T so and again there's many many other re other things I'm just trying to make it uh for you so the sages that that uh put something out there they're following the law generally speaking there is no new laws today and already for almost 2,000 years there is no new laws everything that we have today is simply a clarification of a pre-existing law that was already passed many many years ago just that it's modernized we're using the law of fire on cars the law of you know fire on Shabbat on cars love fire and Shabbat on on uh you know on uh let's say other things uh uh for for your phone let's say phone the energy in your phone is not really fire but you could say Okay technically it is fire but it's not fire but that's not the only reason why you're not allow to use the phone on Shabbat second reason is because it's you're completing a circuit that's also a a thing point being is that this law that tells us not to use a phone on Shabbat is not a law that was passed today it's a law that's already from the tat 3,300 years ago but there was no phones back then so we know we need the sages of today to know how to applied that law from 3,000 years ago to today next question what are some of the 46 Commandments that protect converts uh one of the main things is that Hashem says that he'll provide converts with food with sustenance uh that's one thing second example is that people that cause harm to converts Hashem says I'll take personal revenge against them and even kill them with his sword so it's a very bad idea to hurt converts very bad idea to hurt converts uh so bad that hasem says that he'll take personal revenge against people that hurt converts you're not even allowed 1thing is you're not even allowed to pressure a convert someone that converted to judism you're not have to pressure him you have to be a very very civilized salesman if you're dealing with converts uh one of those salesman that's a terrible salesman like would you like to buy it no okay no problem no problem no problem you know what oh no problem by the way you do that in my company you get fired no problem what do you mean no problem what kind of salesman are you but if you're if the customer is a convert no problem okay you know what how about this take it for a week try it out if you like it you can pay for it that kind of salesman that's what you got to be with converts why because says that's my kids everybody all his kids but he says that for the converts he's their father and their mother number six lastly can someone's fate or judgment CH be changed after Yip yes page 16a and B 16b says that a decides how much money a person is going to make on R until R but the uh the M says that hasem judges it not just but every day so the bmov comes and says how could it be every day and once a year it doesn't make any sense it's either this or it's that so the clarification the BM says is that the amount that a person gets is decided on R but how he gets it is decided every day but also also even that can change not only how he gets it but how much he gets can change and even what happened could change based on certain acts that he does there are certain acts that could hurt your living there's a certain acts that could improve your living for example if somebody weigh seed they've just simply guarantee that they'll lose money on certain things if somebody gave uh money for staka for a good cause for Torah and so on they just increase their their salary why because that same gar says that the salary that's decided on somebody does not include money that's used for Mitzvah and for Torah not included meaning if a God decided that you're going to get $100,000 this year if you end up spending $20,000 on doing MIT you bought you uh gave someaka you learned T you did all types of good things you K and so on that $2,000 will be added to your income meaning the money that you ended up with let's say you ended up with $100,000 wouldn't have been $120,000 had you not spent that $20,000 either way it would have been $100,000 either way it was $100,000 the fact that you spent $220,000 that's AEM added that to your salary now sometimes it'll even give you more but you're we're always thinking with our logical human brain our flawed brain that tells us no what do you mean I already knew what salary was going to get because my boss already told me that's the salary I'm going to get that that's the salary how much you going to keep decides decides plenty of people make a million dollars a year but still go home broke plenty of them plenty of them so a person needs to know that it's not necessarily what your salary says but also what you keep and also what happens with the money and so on and so forth I think that's about it for tonight unless there's something really really pressing I'll let you guys get some rest unless you guys want another scary story no noen we've completed another year at R and I are very proud to announce some major Milestones that we've achieved and with your help our dear Partners over 60 million minutes of our Torah has been watched over the 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