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We're starting our stump the rabbi
again. Baruch Hashem.
There's a story I have to tell you.
There was a couple
that
lived a life
of a lot of
prosperity.
Of course, the husband
made his money from cash advance
business.
And
felt
good about it.
And donated a lot of money
to Yeshivot,
to the synagogue, Jewish causes.
And the wife was happy about her life.
And they lived
many years together.
Everything seemed like it was going
great. And then one day he died.
The wife was heartbroken.
And
she really couldn't
let go.
So she found through a friend of a
friend
that knew somebody that can speak
to the other side.
Even though it's
problematic and against the Torah,
she went for it.
And she went to this person.
And said, "Can you help me speak to my
husband?"
So person, "Sure.
Give me a $1,000 and you guys can have a
whole conversation."
So
she gave her the money.
And within a few moments, after a little
ceremony,
she said, "Yep, your husband is here.
Tell him what you want to tell him."
And the wife says, "Honey, is it you?"
He says, "Yeah, it's me."
So, so, so, tell me,
"How is How is Gan Eden? How's heaven?
What What What do you do over there?"
And he said to her, "Well,
in the morning,
I eat some carrots.
And
uh
and I just relax and then at night I eat
some more carrots."
She says, "That's it?"
He said, "Yeah, pretty much."
She says, "That's what heaven is?"
He's like, "What are you talking about
heaven?
I got reincarnated into a rabbit in
Australia."
Now, this joke
is not really a joke. There's a lot of
musar that we can learn from it.
And
through this musar, we're also going to
address the question of whether the
Holocaust can happen again.
But of course, tonight's shiur always
has to start off with
thanking Hakadosh Baruchu for another
opportunity to learn Torah and also to
make sure that this shiur goes for the
refuah shleimah of some important
people. Rabbi Chaim ben Shulamit,
Rabbanit Sarah bat Anat,
Rabbanit Levana bat Sarah, Sarah bat
Levana,
Avi Mori David ben Asria, Imi Mori
Tidoris bat Zora.
And also for a Tsofnat Chaya bat
Sigalit. May Hakadosh Baruchu wake her
up from her coma and bezrat Hashem
she'll have refuah shleimah and live a
life of kiddush Hashem.
So, rabotai yakarim, I'm very, very
excited to to be back to learn together
again with you guys, even though what it
seems like is that the topic is going to
be a little heavy.
And uh
it's not only that our parashah always
always always by siyata d'Shmaya directs
us in the right place and our dear Rabbi
Ephraim always always always directs us
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But, needless to say, there are many
people that sent questions to me and
uh you notice that the same questions
keep coming up from different people
from different walk walks of life,
different parts of the world, whether it
be in Virginia or it could be in
Connecticut, New York, Australia,
uh England,
all over the world.
Montreal, we get many baruch Hashem,
Toronto.
Get lots of questions from everywhere
and uh but in the
past few months and especially the last
month, we've gotten a lot of questions
about
the warning that they heard about
people, the Jewish people needing to
leave America, leave England, leave
wherever it is that they are and make
aliyah to Israel.
There's a new warning to make aliyah
posted daily.
And
antisemitic attacks are obviously on the
rise.
Every other day, unfortunately, we hear
about either a new protest, a new
newscaster that decides to express his
hatred of Judaism or the Jewish people,
a new commercial, a new comedian,
someone, somewhere
is doing it, and if it's not that, then
it's the attacks, physical attacks that
are happening, unfortunately, in
different neighborhoods, Jewish
neighborhoods around the world.
So, all of this antisemitism,
coupled with the new
warnings that are coming out, which
seems like daily, from different
speakers,
both religious and non-religious, to
make aliyah, to run away,
the question of the Holocaust again has
actually become a real topic of
conversation. Now, we've discussed this
several times over the years,
but apparently, some things need a
reminder.
And it will Many will find surprising,
our Torah portion, Parashat Tazria,
actually clarifies a whole lot
about the topic,
which may actually lower
the fear for some of you,
while increasing it for others.
Personally, I'm very excited
about the things that are happening at
our organization at Beis HaShem, the
few huge projects we're working on right
now. I don't think I've been excited as
I am right now in at least 10 years.
Lots of good stuff, baruch HaShem. I
don't know about you, but I'm putting
all in on Be'ezrat Hashem and anyone
that has the spiritual and mental
fortitude
should invest as much as they can to be
partners with us in what's actually
about to happen because what we've done
in the last 10 years is nothing in
comparison
to what's going to be happening in the
very very near future Be'ezrat Hashem.
But we still
have to face with the reality
that all of these questions are real.
Anti-Semitism is real. Being on the
rise, it's real.
Holocaust happening again,
being a possibility, is real.
New, well-known
speeches uh uh speeches by well-known
people
about making Aliyah is real.
But what's more real than everything
else
is da'at Torah. What does the Torah
actually say?
And what does Parashat Tazria have
anything to do with it?
Parashat Tazria, Rabbotai Yekarim,
tells us about
a person
that gets tzaraat,
which is both a physical and a spiritual
disease
that's unlike anything else. And in
chapter 13 verse 12 uh verse two,
it says,
Adam ki yehe be'or besaro se'et o
sapachat o baheret vehaya be'or besaro
lenega tzaraat uvah el Aharon Hakohen o
el echad mibanav Hakohanim.
Translation: If a person will have on
the skin
of his flesh
a se'et or a sapachat or a baheret,
these are different types of marks,
and it will become a tzaraat affliction
on the skin of his flesh. He shall be
brought to Aaron the Cohen, Aaron the
Cohen,
or to one of his sons the Kohanim.
Later they says that the Cohen shall
look at the affliction on the skin of
his flesh.
If hair in the affliction has changed to
white and the affliction's appearance is
deeper than the skin of the flesh, it is
tzaraat affliction and the Cohen shall
look at it and declare him
tamei,
contaminated.
Later on,
in chapter 13,
verse number 44,
the Torah repeats,
Ish tzaruah tamehu tame yatameinu
hakohen berosho nigao.
He's a person with tzaraat, he's
contaminated.
The Cohen shall declare him
contaminated, his affliction is upon his
head.
And the person with tzaraat in whom
there is a an affliction, his garment
shall be rent, the hair on his head
shall be unshorn, and he shall cloak
himself up to his lips.
He is to call out,
"Contaminated, contaminated." All the
days that the affliction is upon him, he
shall remain contaminated. He is
contaminated. He shall dwell in
isolation, his dwelling shall be outside
the camp.
Here we see Rabbeinu Tam Karim,
the same expression
repeated, tamei tamei.
I mean, obviously we understand that
after the first one, but the Torah,
obviously,
from the hand of a Kadosh Baruchu,
tells us, "No, no. It's not enough to
just say once. It's not enough to
declare it once. It has to be done all
the time.
And this guy has to be thrown out of the
camp.
He has to be in seclusion
because he's tamei, he's contaminated.
All right, we get it, but
aren't you embarrassing the guy? Isn't
it enough already that he's sick?
In fact, the Hakhamim teach us,
"Why are we even using a kohen to
identify the tsara'at? Can't we just
send him to a doctor?
I mean, you can send him to the
religious leader of of Am Yisrael.
It's embarrassing.
It's like going to check for some type
of
venereal disease or something and going
to your rabbi to go check it. Like, it's
not exactly the ideal situation.
Already, so can I just go to someone
that I don't know?"
No.
Why say THE HAKHAMIM?
BECAUSE THIS will bring him shame,
which is the goal.
To bring him shame that he has tsara'at.
It's actually the goal to bring him more
shame, to say, "Contaminated,
contaminated."
To go bring him to the kohen, say,
"Contaminated."
Yes.
That's the goal. Cause him
embarrassment. Make him cry.
Make her cry.
Sounds mean,
doesn't it?
Doesn't it sound mean?
It sounds mean when you don't know the
reason they got it.
But the Hachamim teach us
different reasons
of why
the people got tzaraat.
In fact, also why the Kohen, if he
himself got
these marks on his skin,
and he has already has experience for 20
years of checking for tzaraat, he is the
world expert,
he's still not allowed to check himself.
And declare himself
tameh or not tameh.
Why? Because again, he has to go to a
different Kohen.
So if he is tameh, if he is
contaminated, he could also benefit from
the shame and the embarrassment
of the public declaration
of him being tameh.
How is this a benefit?
The Midrash Rabbah in Parshat Metzora,
first section,
chapter 16,
says on
the verse
in Proverbs,
a whole lot of explanations
that will give us an understanding of
where we really stand.
HaMelech in chapter 6 verse 16 in
Proverbs says, "Hashem hates these six,
but seven is the abomination of his
soul.
So, HaMelech
lists
people that Hashem hates.
And the Hakhamim say
that this means
that
all of these things are
hated by Hashem, but the last one
is an abomination. He's worse than
everyone.
And HaMelech says,
"What are these?
Hardy eyes, a false tongue,
and hands spilling innocent blood,
a heart plotting iniquitous thoughts,
feet hastening to run to evil,
one who spouts lies,
a false witness,
and one who stirs up strife among
brothers."
And Rabbi Yohanan says, "All of those
who engaged in these behaviors were
stricken with tzaraat."
And the last one among them, the one who
stirs up strife among brothers,
that is
the abomination because that person
is the defamer.
That's the person
that was the motzi shem ra.
The word metzora, to have tzaraat, the
contraction,
comes from the words motzi ra, motzi
shem ra, which is bringing forth a bad
name, a defamer.
Telling
other people that, "Oh, he took money
from me." when he didn't.
Telling other people, "He did to me when
he didn't.
I don't have to give you more examples
of defamation. I'm sure each of you are
familiar with it. If
you did not experience it yourself, then
surely you know somebody that has.
And apparently, that's the worst one.
And the bottom of page
15 B
says that as much as
comes as a punishment
for other sins,
the Torah is specifically
referring to
which shame
which bringing the defamer
because he was the worst, he got the
worst punishment. Because there are
different levels of
that.
Which will be told to us later on.
There are two dozen
levels of
that. That one is the worst one.
The last one is the worst one and that's
the guy that defamed everyone. He gets
that one.
And as the also says that
someone that defames
kills three people.
Himself, he's the speaker.
The listener who accepts what he says.
And the person
that he said it about.
Everyone gets hurt.
Now,
of course, the sages
they don't just take things at face
value.
They want proofs.
How do we know this really happened?
Torah is really only mentioning here
that
somebody that's a defamer with the other
things you mentioned that Hashem hates
them. Melech says Hashem hates
them.
Okay, they did some bad things. They
have haughty eyes. They have false
tongue.
They're running after evil things, but
they got tzaraat.
Give us proofs.
And that's exactly what the
Midrash is going to do.
First, it goes into a lengthy story
about haughty eyes.
But we're going to start off with the
others
because they're much shorter.
So we can cover all of it
and then go back to the haughty eyes.
The
false tongue
we learn from Miriam.
Miriam, the prophetess, the tzaddikah,
made a mistake, said lashon hara about
Moshe Rabbenu, and Hashem
punished her with tzaraat
as we see from
the Torah
which says in the wrath of Hashem flared
up against them and he left.
And the cloud that had departed from
atop the tent, and behold, Miriam was
afflicted with tzaraat like snow.
The one that
his hand spilling innocent blood
getting tzaraat, we know from Yoav.
Yoav was a
long-time army commander
for David HaMelech.
But he violated the David HaMelech's
instructions
and he killed two people.
Avner
the son of Ner
who was the commander of Shaul
HaMelech's army at one point.
And Amasa, the son of Yeter
who was one of David's uh
uh
generals.
And before David Amalek
left this world, in the Book of Kings 1,
chapter 2, verse 5, it says that David
Amalek commanded his son Amalek
to kill Yoav
for killing Abner and Amasa.
Okay, so he killed him. What does that
have to do with tzaraat?
So the Midrash says,
in the Book of Kings, chapter 2, verse
32,
"Hashem will thus return his blood upon
his head."
And it says, "The guilt shall rest upon
the head of Yoav.
And may there never cease from Yoav's
house contaminated men, metzora's." This
is in the Book of Shmuel, chapter 3,
verse 29. So we know that
Yoav got tzaraat
for spilling innocent blood.
For the fourth evil trait of a heart
that's plotting iniquitous thoughts,
the getting tzaraat,
we know from Uzziah, who was one of the
kings of Judah,
who even though he was overall
a righteous person,
he became arrogant.
Like some people that do teshuvah or
convert, and they start
learning a few things, they watch a few
shiurim, they read a few books, and all
of a sudden,
they start acting more righteous than
thou,
criticizing everyone, no one is good
enough.
"You're not as religious as me. You're
not as this." And they start literally
looking down at everyone else.
That type of behavior is not only
despicable, but it also shows that they
are not even close to being righteous,
needless to say, as righteous as they
think.
Uzziah
did a lot of good things, but at one
point he crossed the line because he
wanted to
do the ketoret.
Even though this is something that could
only be done by the Kohanim.
And when he came to do it, and the
Kohanim told him, "You cannot do this."
He said, "What do you mean? I'm the
king. Of course I can do it." He said,
"No, you cannot, Your Highness. You
cannot."
HE GOT SO FURIOUS.
He wanted to kill everyone.
But at that moment
THE BOOK OF CHRONICLES 2
chapter 17
talks about how
he got tzaraat on the spot.
On the spot.
And he remained with tzaraat until he
died.
When it comes to feet that are hastening
to run to do evil
instead of coming to a shiur Torah, they
go to
a nightclub. They go to casino.
How do we know they get tzaraat?
The example comes from Gehazi
who was at one point
the gabbai, the
helper of Elisha Navel.
Elisha, the attendant of
Elisha, who was the the attendant of
Eliyahu Hanavi,
after Eliyahu Hanavi
left this world without dying,
Elisha
was blessed to have double the miracles
of Eliyahu Hanavi.
And a non-Jewish
general named Naaman
came
to Elisha Hanavi asking for a cure, and
he
told him to go dip into river seven
times
because
Elisha knew
that he had seven seven character
deficiencies
that brought upon him the tzaraat.
And each dip would
fix that character deficiency, in
essence being a humbling
experience
that will make him do teshuvah.
After this, Naaman was so impressed, he
wanted to convert.
He wanted to give a lot of money to
Elisha. Elisha said, "I don't want your
money."
He was even more impressed. But Gehazi
was not happy with this, and he wanted
to get money from this very wealthy army
commander
against
the
clear word of his
of his leader, of Elisha Hanavi, of the
Gedolei Hador.
And after Elisha Hanavi found out, he
cursed Gehazi, and he says, "As Hashem
lives, I swear that I shall run." Oh,
this actually Gehazi says
after he sees that
Naaman is running away is going without
paying,
he says, "As Hashem lives, I swear that
I shall run after him and take something
from him."
And he chased after Naaman.
And when Elisha Hanavi
finds out
he curses Gehazi.
And says, "Naaman's tzaraat shall
therefore cleave to you
and to your children forever."
Tzaraat that I cured Naaman is now going
to go on
you, Gehazi, and your children forever
for what you did, for the chilul Hashem
that you did.
And Gehazi left his presence and was as
white as snow with tzaraat, the Torah
says.
And then when it comes to the seventh
evil trait
one that stirs up strife among brothers
deserving of tzaraat, we learn from
Paroh at the time of Avraham Avinu.
He got tzaraat for causing strife
between Avraham and Sarah
because
we see that he got tzaraat.
And the Chachamim say it's because Sarah
thought that oh, she's becoming a
hostage now to Paroh.
But surely her husband Avraham got a
blessing from Hashem that he's going to
go to
go away from there, he's going to leave
Charan, and go to Canaan, and leave her
there as a
prisoner.
So for this, Paroh got punished
severely.
And the Chachamim say that he got the
worst type of tzaraat.
Rabbi Shimon ben Gamliel says
once I was traveling on a road between
Tiberias and Sepphoris.
And a certain elderly person met me
and told me
there are 24 varieties of
sheen, which is the tsaraat.
But there are none as harmful
for marital relations except the raatan.
And Rabbi Pedat says, and it is from
this disease, from the raatan,
which is the worst and most severe form
of tsaraat, that Paroah was stricken.
Why? Because it has
specific attack on the brit.
And this is also why Moshe Rabbeinu
cautions Am Yisrael
by saying to them, "This shall be the
laws of the metzora."
Meaning that if you are a defamer,
you're going to get the worst type of
tsaraat.
And what's so bad?
That if somebody still
stays
with his wife or with a husband,
the children that will come out of there
will be epileptic kids.
All types of horrible things will come
out of it. So much so that the chachamim
themselves were scared of people that
had tsaraat.
That Rabbi Yochanan
said, "Even be careful from flies
because maybe they stood on someone that
had tsaraat." Rabbi Zeira
would not sin sit
next to someone that had this raatan.
Rabbi Elazar wouldn't even enter his
house, his tent.
And Rabbi Ami and Rabbi Assi would not
even eat eggs
that were from the neighborhood of
someone that has this tzaraat.
Why? Cuz it was contagious, too.
Now,
the first type
of tzaraat,
the first type of person that gets
tzaraat
were the people with haughty eyes.
And the Midrash tells us,
how do we know they get
and who got this in the Torah?
Says, we know this from the story of
b'not Zion, the daughters of Zion,
where it's written
in the
Book of Isaiah, chapter 3, verse 16,
also in chapter 5,
because the daughters of Zion
gav'u,
they're walking with outstretched necks
and mesakrot eyes,
walking with a taphoph steps and takasna
with their feet.
And their punishment for doing these
was
that Hashem will afflict them with
lesions the head of on top of the heads
of the daughters of Zion.
What do these words mean?
When it says that the daughters of Zion
gav'u, it means that they would
raise themselves to full height. You
know, you ever see
a woman walking around straight up like
a stick
because she wants everyone to see
every curve, every move she makes.
They walk around like spears, says the
Midrash. They would walk around proudly.
They would walk around with outstretched
necks.
And they would wear all of their finery
and turn her neck into different
directions.
Oh, you see my Louis Vuitton? You see my
Donna Karan? You see my $50,000 bag? You
see my
You know, you You ever meet You ever
meet people like that? See people like
that? Heard about them?
Maybe you haven't, I don't know, but
they existed.
They existed.
I don't know, maybe they don't exist
today.
But something tells me they do.
Some of them even have social media
profiles.
Instagram.
Instagaynum.
What happened to them?
What happened to these women?
Well, first you have to know
they wanted to display their jewelry.
And the Mesakote
Rabbi Mani Obsar Ara says
this means that they would paint their
eyes with dye.
Mascara.
And Resh Lakish says that they would
paint their eyes with red dye.
And walk with a Tafof.
Tafof steps.
So they would look tall.
They They have these high heels. You
ever hear women walking around with high
heels?
They exist.
I heard about it.
They even have
social media profiles.
Even in Jewish communities.
Believe it or not, they exist.
You heard about them?
Torah says they exist.
They walk around and they want people to
see
how they stand out, so they would even
make sure to bring
two other women that are shorter than
them. One on each side.
And she can stand in the middle and they
can see how beautiful she is and how
tall she is.
And how nice her bag and her shoes are.
And if she was short herself, she would
still bring two short girls and she
would wear high-soled shoes on her feet
to appear taller, says the Midrash.
This is over 2,000 years ago. It's not
new.
And the kasna
with their feet
Rabbi Abba bar Kahana says this is
referring to
a serpent that was on their shoes.
What is a serpent on the shoes?
The
Chachamim
say that some would paint a design of a
snake
on the shoes.
But the Midrash also says
that she would bring an eggshell
and fill it with balsam
and place it beneath the heel of her
shoes.
And when she would see a group of young
men,
she would tread on it, stamp on it
forcefully,
and the scent would spread
in the air to those men like a poison of
a snake, arousing their passions.
And Hakadosh Baruch says to the prophet
Isaiah when this WOULD HAPPEN,
"WHAT ARE these doing here?
Let them get up and be exiled from
here."
And in turn, Isaiah the prophet would go
and tell these immoral women,
"Do teshuvah, repent before the enemies
have an opportunity against to come
against you."
And what do these women say in return?
"Even if the enemies come against us,
what can they possibly do?"
What does it mean, "What can they
possibly do?"
What, you're not scared of
anti-Semitism?
You're not scared
of being attacked?
Attacked?
Why would they harm us?
If they wish
to engage in acts of immorality,
why not? We wish to do it, too.
And those who say, "Let him hurry, let
him hasten his action so that we may see
it."
This is in Isaiah chapter 5, verse 19.
These wicked men said, "If only a
commander of the non-Jewish invaders
will see me
and take me in marriage. If only an
officer will see me and take me in
marriage.
If only a general will see me and place
me in a state of in a state carriage.
In his Bentley.
In his private jet.
Yeah, but he's not Jewish.
So, he's he's he's a good person.
Therefore, the prophet Isaiah says
these women, you know what they're
saying?
They're saying, "Let the plan of the
Holy One of Israel, meaning Hashem,
approach and take place so that we may
know."
What does it mean we may know?
So, we know whose plan actually
succeeded. Our plan to go and hang out
with the and being their Bentleys
and private jets and carriages
or God's plan.
And the Midrash continues and says,
"When their sins became even greater
than their enemies,
their enemies came to Jerusalem
and these women
adorning themselves AND WENT OUT BEFORE
the enemies
like zonot, like harlots."
AND YES, WHEN THE commander saw them,
THEY TOOK THEM. SURE, "COME, I'll I'll
marry you."
A general saw them and he took them and
he seated them in the state carriage.
Just like they wanted.
Well, I'm not getting married right now.
I'm just having fun.
In response to this,
the Holy One, blessed is He, said,
"My wishes will not stand,
but theirs will."
Meaning, will these promiscuous women's
plan be realized and not mine?
Certainly not.
So, what did God do?
And therefore, Hakadosh Baruch Hu
the heads of the daughters of Zion.
Rabbi Elazar and Rabbi Yossi, the son of
Rabbi Chanina,
said,
"He afflicted them with tzaraat."
That's what it says, sapachat
And Rabbi Yossi bar Chanina says,
"No, he also brought swarms of lice
to fester on their heads."
When did this happen?
While they were in the carriages, while
they were with
their new boyfriends.
And then Rabbi Chiya bar Abba said,
"Hakadosh Baruch Hu also made them
mechudannot
enslaved maidservants, like the Arabs
do,
to foolish Jewish girls that fall into
their trap."
Rabbi Chiya bar and and uh
and Chilfa bar Idi
in the name of Rabbi Yossi says,
"Why does it say vesipach?"
God guarded the families
of Ami Israel
so that the holy children of Israel do
not mix with the people of the other of
the other lands.
But how did he accomplish such a thing?
Sending lice? Sending tsaraat? How is
this protecting anything?
He says, "No, no, you don't understand.
The holy one blessed is he sh'tabach
shimo la'ad
said, 'I know that the nations of the
world do not separate themselves
from another
because they want to have relations even
if they have tsaraat. They don't care.'
So what did God do?
He put
the disease
in their meat.
He put
this
in
the place
of sin.
So much so
the Midrash says
that the women
started discharging large amounts of
blood
filling the carriage, the fancy
carriage, the private jet
the Bentley with blood. And when the
officer would see this
new wife of his, new girlfriend of his
bleeding everywhere
he became so enraged that he would
pierce her with a dagger and throw her
out and then have
his carriage right over her, crush her
to death.
AND THAT'S WHY THE PROPHET Jeremiah
said, "Sulu Sulu
away unclean one."
People shouted at them. This is an Eicha
Lamentations chapter 4 verse 15.
We see from here the Karim
that
the Midrash not only tells us about the
heinous punishment
for those promiscuous women
with Instagram profiles
with Facebook and TikTok.
They didn't care about what a Kadosh
Baruch Hu says. He says, "When the time
comes
the sin will be the most heinous,
horrific, painful, and shaming
embarrassing type of punishment you
could ever have." Why? Because you acted
arrogantly.
Ga'avah tedem tishpilenno. The arrogance
of a person will be his downfall.
Another example of this
is in the Gemara in Maseches Chullin.
What happened to a non-Jewish woman?
Who was this non-Jewish woman?
The Caesar's daughter.
In the Gemara in Maseches Chullin page
60A.
The Caesar's daughter
said to Rabbi Yehoshua ben Chananya
mocking,
"Your God is a carpenter.
Where it's written in your Torah
who roofs his attics with water."
So since he's a carpenter
perhaps she was talking about the Notzri
God
being a carpenter.
But apparently
she got a surprise.
She said to Rabbi Yehoshua,
"Tell him
that he should make me one reel."
This is a
certain tool
that was used to spin thread into
spools.
Rabbi Yehoshua
said, "Very well.
I'll tell him I'll pray for you."
And shortly later
she got tzaraat.
When she got tzaraat, even though she
was the daughter of the Caesar, they
threw her out.
She became homeless.
And the only place she could ever be is
in the marketplace of Rome.
And she had nothing to do. No one would
come close to her.
She did what the rest of the people that
have tzaraat do.
What do they do?
They sew, they knit,
they spin thread.
So, they gave her a reel.
So, they could pass the time.
And she would sit in the marketplace and
wind coils coils of thread.
One day Rabbi Yehoshua was passing there
in this market and he saw her.
And she was sitting there winding coil.
And he said to her,
"Ah, is it a fine reel that my God has
given you?"
Making fun of her back.
You said that he's a carpenter, give her
a reel. So, he gave you a reel. Here you
go.
You got what you asked for.
And she said, "Oh, tell your God to take
back what he has given me."
And Habir Ashua says, "No.
Our God
he gives. He doesn't take back.
He doesn't take back.
What are we learning here, about time?
What are we learning here?
In the Kuntres Ashua by our own dear
Rabbi Ephraim Kachlon
in page number three
he brings
a quote from a interview
of a professor
Professor Bernard
Wasserstein
who is interviewed
on December 24th, 2018.
And he is a professor in Chicago
for Jewish history.
And he says
"At that time before the Holocaust
the Jews of Europe
were in a demographic
period of destruction.
Because
their
new ideology
made their primary goal
to intermarry
to be like the nations.
To such an an extent
that the language that the Jewish people
speak
Yiddish or Ladino
was completely collapsing.
The religion
the religious community was collapsing.
And the rabbis of that generation
were telling people that tragedy is
going to come.
In fact, says the professor
even when anti-semitism
skyrocketed
it still did not slow down the
intermarriage.
And what I'm trying to tell you, he says
is that
European Jewry
was in a
state
of destruction
even before
there was a threat
from Hitler.
When people ask
can a Kadosh Baruchu allow such a thing
to happen again?
A holocaust happening again.
Should I worry?
Should I protect myself by let's say
making aliyah?
Well, that all depends about the time.
Do you fit
the description
of those that Hashem hates
or not?
If you are on
the arrogant
train
if you are on the liar train
if you are on the deceiver train, the
defamer train. If you do not care about
what Hashem says
to the point where
the behavior
of these wicked people that got punished
is similar to your behavior
then guess what? Not only should you
worry about
the inevitable holocaust that's coming
but you should be certain
that it's coming.
And in fact
making aliyah to Israel or even hiding
in a bunker
in a one of the mountains in Colorado
will not help you.
Because Hakadosh Baruch Hu
has no limitations
of where and when and how
he punishes the wicked.
If you're acting in such a way
like the daughters of Zion at the time
of Isaiah
if you're acting in such a way like the
guy that reincarnated as a rabbit
doing business
by destroying other people's lives
if you are concerned about how beautiful
and attractive you look with your
idolatrous wig more than you are
concerned about
how beautiful you are in the eyes of
Hakadosh Baruch Hu and your husband
then yeah
a holocaust is certainly something you
should be concerned about.
Cuz it's coming.
It certainly is coming.
Anti-semitism is on the rise.
All the arrows are pointing in that
direction.
Yeah.
But Aliyah's not going to help you.
Talking about it is not going to help
you.
Saying never again is not going to help
you. Politicians are not going to help
you.
Voting for or against Trump is not going
to help you. Moving out of New York to
Florida is not going to help you.
None of those things that people are
doing are going to help you.
What will help you
is changing camps.
Go to the other side.
With those people
that are doing everything they possibly
can to avoid being included in that list
of who Hashem hates.
Of doing everything in their power
to serve Hakadosh Baruchu, to follow the
laws of Hakadosh Baruchu, and even when
they fail, which is inevitable, they try
again
and again, and they try better. And this
WEEK I'LL BE MORE modest than last week.
And this week I'm going to be more
honest than last week. And this week I'm
going to protect my bleep better than I
did last week.
And it doesn't matter where I live
because Hakadosh Baruchu is everywhere.
I need to live where I'm going to serve
him best.
If I can serve him best in Israel, I'm
going to Israel. If I can serve him best
in America, I'm going to be in America.
If I can serve him best in Antarctica,
in Mars, in Pluto, WHEREVER IT IS,
THAT'S WHERE I'M GOING TO BE. THE BAAL
SHEM TOV SAYS, "IF I CAN SERVE HAKADOSH
BARUCHU INSIDE GEHENNA, I'M JUMPING IN
THERE. WHY?
Because the whole goal of life is to
serve Hakadosh Baruch Hu, to do His
will.
Because it's for our benefit.
So, if you are
doing everything you can
to avoid being part of that list,
to become one of the servants of Hashem,
then you should be very excited.
Why?
Anti-Semitism has thrown still on the
rise.
Third World War already started for more
or less.
Gog u'Magog is a series of wars, so
certainly we are in the series.
How much more time we have, whether it's
another month or another two decades, no
one knows
other than Hakadosh Baruch Hu.
But what I do know for sure, THAT IS
DAAT TORAH,
is that Hakadosh Baruch Hu promised us
that the last exile is not going to be
like the first one.
Where in the first one there was some
sadness because many people were left
behind and even the
whole situation
was traumatizing, was painful.
The last exile,
the last salvation, the ultimate
salvation,
those that serve Hashem
to the point where
they not only are not part of that list
of arrogant, obnoxious, despicable,
wicked people,
but rather
they are
doing everything they can to serve
Hashem,
then Hakadosh Baruch Hu will bring your
salvation wherever you are,
because wherever you are, you're turning
it into a holy place. You become a bit
mikdash katan, whether you are in
Florida or you're in Netanya or you're
in somewhere in Melbourne or in
Lakewood. It doesn't make a difference.
If you're serving a Kadosh Baruch Hu
the last
exile
the last exodus
the ultimate salvation
will be the ultimate celebration for
you.
And you don't need to worry.
You don't need to worry about
the Third World War.
It has nothing to do with you.
You don't need to worry about
all of the things
that everybody else should be worried
about. Why? You're on the RIGHT TEAM.
YOU'RE ON THE RIGHT TEAM. You're not
worshipping some man that died and then
people turn him into a god.
You're not in a corrupt business that
hurts people.
You're not an immodest, immoral person
that's constantly promiscuous and doing
things just to get attention.
No, you're on the right TEAM. YOU'RE THE
OPPOSITE. YOU'RE FIGHTING AGAINST IT.
YOU'RE TRYING TO HELP PEOPLE DO
TESHUVAH.
YOU'RE TRYING to help people return to
Hashem. YOU'RE TRYING TO PUBLICIZE
HASHEM'S NAME. YOU'RE TRYING to do
everything possible to get people to
wake up and join the right team before
it becomes too late.
The only worry you should have
when you're on the right team
is that you're doing as much as you can
to help as many people as possible join
the right team with you.
And if you're doing that,
doesn't matter where you live,
it doesn't matter what happens in the
world.
A Kadosh Baruchu bechvodo beatzmo, he
himself
will give you a personalized salvation
unlike anything else you've ever
imagined.
Why?
You're on his team.
That's what he promised.
So, yeah.
Holocaust happening again?
It's inevitable.
Torah talks about it.
Worse than the Holocaust. Prophets say
two-thirds of the world will die in the
beginning of it.
And in the last third, only some will
survive. So, yeah, it's going to be much
worse.
But if you're part of
the right team, you're on team Hashem,
then do everything you can. Open another
place for Shiur A Torah.
Make more channels. Publicize more
Torah. WRITE MORE BOOKS.
PUBLICIZE MORE OF Hakadosh Baruchu's
glory everywhere and anywhere and every
language.
That should be your only concern.
Concern for
getting hurt, damaged,
has nothing to do with you.
That's their worry.
And they should be.
They're on the other team.
This, Rabbotai Yekarim,
is the reality.
Those that are worried are not worried
enough,
and they're not even trying to solve it
the way they should be solving it.
You're not going to solve anti-Semitism
by moving houses or by moving countries.
You're not going to solve
the danger of your eternal damnation
by moving addresses,
or by simply putting stickers that say
never again.
It's not going to help you.
If you really want to help yourself,
join our team.
It's called Team Hashem.
We do everything we possibly can
to serve Hashem, to follow his laws
that are in the Torah,
that are
what he told us we have to do,
follow his sages,
and the beautiful words that they used
to clarify the will of Hashem,
and
to encourage as many people as we
possibly can around the world
to do the same thing.
Even if
they were born not religious,
even if they were born in a different
religion,
even if they're located
in our city,
or at the end of the world somewhere.
If we could get a chance to help them,
that's our job.
So, I recommend you join our team.
It's a good team. It's exciting.
A lot of good stuff's happening.
It's the winning team.
It's the greatest thing in the world.
You already know you won before the
game's even over.
Shh. Who's better than you?
That's the team of Hashem.
And that's what Parshat Tazria That's
the the whole issue of Tazria is trying
to tell us.
It's not
the disease that kills. It's not
anti-Semitism that kills.
It's the sin that kills.
The sin.
Being hated by Hashem because you went
against his word.
That's what kills.
That's what causes
tragedies.
And the biggest tragedy of all
is that
not enough
rabbis and well-known speakers and
leaders
are saying the same exact thing.
Instead,
they're just telling people to change
addresses, change locations, change
everything but themselves.
Hakadosh Baruch Hu told us
many times,
it's not
your diet that he wants.
It's not your sacrifices that he wants.
It's your heart.
The Shulchan Aruch
in Orach Chaim
in siman
Taf Kuf Pei
talks about the different days that we
fast.
Tragedies happened throughout history.
And
one of the things that
Reb Yosef Karo is telling us here
is that Hakadosh Baruch Hu
didn't make all of these tragedies
happen
simply
for no reason. It's actually Taf Kuf
Ayin Tet, one siman before Taf Kuf Pei.
He showed us that
everyone can do teshuvah
with the story of
Nineveh.
Paroh did teshuvah.
Hashem is not looking to kill people.
He's not looking to punish people.
He wants people to do teshuvah. And if
they do it, he'll reward them. He'll
save them.
It's easy
to simply
realize and recognize the truth.
If you're on the wrong team,
your only worry should be that you're on
the wrong team.
And how quickly you can join our team.
And if you're already on the right team,
and you're worried,
cut it out.
You should worry about the wrong thing.
Instead of worried about holocausts,
you should be worried about
getting more people to do teshuvah,
supporting it, helping it, doing
something about it.
That should be your only concern.
And if you do that,
you'll do all right.
You'll be a good member of team Hashem.
This, Rabotai Keriem, is some of the
things we need to learn.
Baruch Hashem.
Now, I'm going to answer the question
and ask you guys another question
that in our last year we had.
Reuben and Shimon were friends, but
Shimon was not exactly the
nicest friend. He decided to make a fake
sit letter from the chocolate company
and gave it to
Reuben
telling him that he could buy a thousand
dollars worth of chocolate.
The fake letter was so realistic that
even the store believed it and gave him
a thousand dollars worth of chocolates.
And this
was only found out that it was fake
once the store sent the letter to the
chocolate company
to get the thousand dollars
reimbursement.
Now
there's a thousand dollars in debt for
chocolates. Who has to pay?
Some of you said everyone agreed that
Shimon
is not a nice guy.
Some of you used different
adjectives to describe him.
It's agreed.
Not a nice guy.
Question is
not nice, nice, does he still have to
pay for the chocolates? He didn't eat
any.
Thousand dollars of chocolates were
Ruven. He ate them.
And the answer is as follows.
According to Alacha
the damage that Shimon caused was
horrific.
Almost in the
comparable to a
moser that sends that tells the
authorities
about
somebody
that's doing something against the law.
Like unfortunately people are doing
these days where they do business
against the law
and when the police catches them in
order to get themselves out of jail to
get themselves a lower punishment, they
start writing out on
other people in the community that are
in the same business or doing the same
type of criminal activity.
This by the way is against the Torah
even though those other people are
violating the law of the land
you're still not allowed to be a moser.
And in essence you're losing your olam
haba.
Perhaps we're going to have a whole
shear about it at some point soon
because of the shear.
But this type of
corruption
that
or lie that Shimon did
is
in essence guaranteeing that his friend
will be
getting in trouble.
So, he doesn't lose his love of uh but
it's it's a it's
stems from the same
same world.
And therefore
Shimon certainly has to pay for the
chocolates, but not all of them.
Why? Because after all Reuven did eat
the chocolates and enjoy the chocolates.
And therefore Reuven would have to pay
a third of the value out of his own
pocket
and the rest of it Shimon has to pay.
Why a third of the value? The Hakhamim
say that if something was
such a steep discount of 67%
even Reuven that wouldn't eat that much
chocolate
would buy it at that price. So, he still
he has to pay
a third and 67% 2/3 has to be paid by
Shimon.
The bad friend and obviously do
teshuvah.
Now, the next question.
There was once
a driver cab driver
a hot day
religious guy.
And
uh
it was a very very hot day. Air
conditioner wasn't even enough.
And he was working.
He sees that there's a
professionally dressed man
waiting for a taxi. He pulls over.
So, yeah, can you take me to
Tel Aviv?"
He's like, "Sure. It's a long ride.
Get in the car."
As they get closer and closer, long
ride,
the passenger says to the driver, "Can
you do me a favor?
Can you stop by the
uh store before we get to the
destination? Can you stop by the store
so I get a drink? I'm really thirsty."
And it's hot.
He's like, "Yeah, sure." So, it's more
money on the meter. Stops by the store.
The guy runs out,
gets a couple of cold drinks,
and comes back in the car.
He's like, "Yeah, here you go."
He goes, "No, no, no, I appreciate it.
You know, the the driver was embarrassed
with me. A free drink from this driver?
He doesn't
supposed to give him give him service."
The guy says, "No, come on. Take it.
It's uh it's fine. It's a hot day. I'm
sure that you're hot, too.
Take it anyway. If you don't take it,
it'll go to waste. I already you know,
already opened it."
He's like, "All right, thanks, man."
He makes a blessing
cuz after all, he's religious.
Makes a blessing, takes a drink,
and blanks out.
He wakes up
after a few hours,
he finds himself
near the woods.
He looks, he's in the car.
He looks at his bag, it was opened. He
looks inside.
The guy robbed him.
And apparently, the guy robbed him of a
lot of money because that morning,
he actually went to pick up
his savings from his bank that he's been
saving for many years because his
daughter was getting married. So, he had
a lot of money on him.
So, apparently this guy
was watching him, following him, and uh
targeted him.
But, being a righteous Jew, he
realized that everything is in the hands
of Hashem.
But, he still went to the rabbi and he
said, "Listen, I have a problem."
According to Alachah,
if you
are going to benefit from something,
you have to make a blessing.
So, I made a blessing on the
drink
because I was thirsty, and I wanted to
make a blessing.
Is that blessing
a blessing taking Hashem's name in vain
because there was
a drug in there that uh
was was hazardous to me?
And if
it's not,
then shouldn't I make an ending blessing
for the drink?
Even though I got hurt from it?
This is the questions of
tzaddikim.
He knows that the money part Hashem will
take care of. He has to take care of his
situation. Should he have made the
blessing on the drink?
Is question number one.
The first blessing, and should he make
the ending blessing?
Should he make only one of them?
Should he not make either one of them?
That's the question.
Think about it.
And as Hashem next week you'll tell me.
Well, I'll tell you the answers.
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Is the guy with the turn into a rabbit a
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Over there, I'll give you the option to
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Android.
Okay.
Uh
let's see.
Do you consider October 7th God's
punishment?
The Gemara says
there's no
suffering without sin.
Meaning anytime there's any suffering,
then certainly there was a sin that was
made.
So, certainly it was a punishment.
Uh
>> Okay, let's see.
The Torah says that one can test his
faith with myself. To what extent is
this without crossing the line?
That means that a person needs to
give 10%
of their income on a regular basis
without exception
and they'll see that they will have the
blessing coming as a result of it.
But again, you have to make sure that
you're giving the 10 10% the tithe
to the right place because if you're
giving it to
a church, to idolatry,
to things that are against the Torah,
then it's not only not going to bring
you blessings, but in fact it'll bring
you curses and problems.
Do you speak Hebrew? Can any of you
speak Hebrew?
A Noachide is allowed to go snow skiing?
Sure, enjoy.
What does the Torah say about
euthanasia? It's forbidden, considered
murder.
Should I put my yad tefillin if the rosh
retzua is broken
while I wait for the replacement? Of
course, they're two separate mitzvot.
Somebody that's uh
somebody that's missing an arm,
missing arms, let's say he doesn't have
arms, he still puts on the head
tefillin, he has to have somebody put
his head tefillin on.
But really what you should do is
borrow a tefillin from somebody.
>> A rabbi is the greatest innovation that
ever existed. Baruch Hashem.
>> [sighs]
>> Rabbi Reuben, I want to join a study
group under your scrutiny. I don't have
a study group, tzaddik.
I don't have a study group.
I don't do uh
uh
one-on-one classes or anything like
that.
Can a lady that is
pregnant be chayav mitah by bet din?
Yes.
Yeah, and the Gemara in Maseches
Sanhedrin talks about it.
If, let's say, she committed adultery
and she's pregnant, then yeah.
If my scroll falls out of my mezuzah,
can I get a new one and put it in or do
I need to
Both no. No, you could certainly change
the scroll.
No problem.
The uh
the case is doesn't have any religious
uh
value.
So, uh
it's just to protect the uh the scroll.
But, make sure you get the scroll from a
reliable source, from someone that's uh
has yirat shamayim, and is not just
sending you some computer printout.
Um
>> [clears throat]
>> hanging out hanging up pictures of a
holy man you've never met is she tooth.
No, it's not, but um
you could uh
learn the laws of Avodah Zarah
and you'll see that what you're saying
is complete nonsense.
Rabbi, give me a dollar.
No problem. Send me a dollar and I'll
give it back to you.
It's wonderful to see you live. I have
been watching your channel for years and
they're always a source of wisdom.
Thank you very much.
I agree obviously that Hashem doesn't
need us, obviously. We need him. But how
do we explain
in our davening
we say lema'ancha, save us for your
sake.
So,
it's not just that. You have many many
places where you're saying it's for your
sake. So, it's not for your sake like
Hashem needs it. Meaning
it's for your honor.
For your honor, who will
Who's going to honor you if you destroy
us?
So, since
the uh
the goal of our existence is to sanctify
Kadosh Baruch Hu's name,
then allow us to do it. Lema'ancha. So,
it's it's a In essence,
it's not that he needs it, but it will
serve your will to keep us alive, to
give us what we need so we could honor
you.
I have a cousin named Bassem.
He's probably Arab.
There's some
that use that name.
Okay.
I'm trying to
Can you ask a question? Yes, as long as
you're not a troll like some of the
others on the thing, you could ask
questions. I'm going through
different
uh threads of
uh
people asking questions in different
places.
Also, we just started doing live on X,
too. So, you guys could ask questions on
X, also.
Uh let's see.
Do you have a study or a series on
Mesilat Yesharim?
No.
I can't I still can't understand every
rab- every single rabbi in Brooklyn
allows cash advance.
Even the rabbi community leaders, people
look at me like I'm insane
when I say it's not allowed.
Rabbis even syndicate.
Well,
whoever allows whatever rabbi allows it
is one of two cases.
Either he is uninformed
about
what the
actual business does
or uninformed about the halacha
of what actually is
ribbis
that's assur and so on.
That's option one, uninformed, meaning
ignorant.
That's not going to absolve them of the
punishment they'll get
uh because the uh
Mishnah in Maseches Avos says shiga
talmud lo zeidon that uh he uh someone
that
uh sins as a result of not studying
is uh considered as if it's intentional
and even though again
it's uh
not intentional that they're not
studying cuz certainly they're studying
Torah, but if you see that your
community is flourishing
uh with people that are going to that
business and your and people are asking
you if it's allowed, people are
questioning whether it's allowed
people are telling you tragic stories of
happening to to to different victims of
that business and you're still not
studying the topic further and still
saying it's okay, it's okay then
certainly your ignorance is not going to
be ignored.
So, but still the reason why they're
saying it's allowed is simply out of
ignorance of what the business really
entails, the fact that they're actually
a predatory business
or ignorance of the law itself, the
halacha itself of what
uh is assur. That's option one. Option
two
which is more likely in many cases, not
all cases, but in many cases
is that unfortunately they're bought and
paid for. Meaning they get so much money
in donations
from the cash advance business that
they've literally become spiritually
blind to the truth when it comes to that
business.
And are literally an active partner in
the crime. So much so that I have people
that have told me that their rabbi,
their community rabbi in New York and
I've had it in other places also
are actually partners, literal partners
in their business where they gave them
$100,000 to go lend out with high
interest.
So this so-called rabbi is obviously a
criminal
that is no less criminal than the rest
of the cash advance business because he
obviously is is is himself a lender.
Uh so
criminals that pretend to be rabbis
exist. There are many of them.
Not all, but many exist.
Just like there are criminals in every
other field
in the rabbinical field it exists too.
There's criminal politicians, there's
criminal doctors, there's criminal
lawyers, there's criminal rabbis.
They're criminals.
Some are spiritual criminals, some are
spiritual and legal criminals.
So it's a reality. That guy that got was
part of the terrorist attack that they
shot his fingers off
he's a criminal both legally and
spiritually.
I don't know his name
but
it was proven that he's both a criminal
of
spiritually and legally. Legally they
found out that he stole money from the
government and
he
uh
got caught for that.
Spiritually he's certainly a criminal
because the guy said that the Christian
missionary that got assassinated,
whatever his name was,
is in the same level as Avraham Avinu.
So, obviously he's a criminal coffer.
A because Russia.
But,
to a ignorant person that does not know
Allah, that does not know a scoffer,
that does not know anything about the
Torah,
that rabbi is a nice guy, is a nice
rabbi, is a good rabbi.
He's the best rabbi even.
But, according to the Torah and the law
of the land, he is 100% a criminal.
So, criminals do exist.
And unfortunately,
many people in the communities
that are looking for the truth, that are
looking for that Torah,
are not able to find that that Torah
from their local rabbis because their
local rabbis are criminals.
Just because somebody is a rabbi does
not mean that they're not a criminal.
The criminals exist.
Just the reality. People have to
understand that's a reality. Doesn't
matter what his position is. If he's
going against the Torah, he's a
criminal.
>> [clears throat]
>> Should a person avoid going out for
Shabbat meals and inviting people over
for Shabbat meals?
If it's strictly for fun and there's no
real purpose of it, no, not necessarily,
you mean.
It's not Some people want and need the
company.
And you can do it, no problem.
As long as you're going to a place
that's going to be
kosher food and kosher people, kosher
conversation, sure, why not?
Some people like that stuff.
I say some people cuz it's not
necessarily for everyone.
But if you like it, enjoy. Go ahead, do
it.
Any tips to look out for to know
which one is your Zivug?
Well, a uh I have a lecture
that uh was part of the Oshana Rabbah
lecture where in that lecture, there's a
segment of maybe 20 minutes or so
that I talk about all of the different
things
that a person should do in their
shidduch, in their to look for an
Azivug.
I recommend you uh
um
watch it cuz it gives a lot of details.
Uh you could just go to my channel and
just type the word in the search box
shidduch. If you can't find it, you
could just send me a message on
WhatsApp.
Uh and I'll send it to you.
A discussion on ethics of predatory cash
advance business.
Where's the question? I don't
understand.
There's a rabbi charging monthly
payments to learn Torah. Is this
allowed?
Uh
technically, yes, but it depends what
he's teaching you.
Uh
depends what he's teaching you, how much
time and uh
technically, yes, but it's uh
it's allowed. It's uh but not egregious
sums, meaning that he's not supposed to
become rich off of it. It's supposed to
be at least, you know, enough to cover
what he would make if he was working a
regular job.
Uh so, if let's say he uh has a skill
set as let's say a lawyer that makes
$100 an hour, then he's allowed to
charge $100 an hour.
But uh if he's charging $1,000, then no.
But again, it depends what he's teaching
you.
Uh depends what he's teaching you.
The uh the issue of uh paying for uh
rabbis to teach has come up a few times
over the last few weeks. I mean, many
times obviously over the years. Uh one
one person
uh
uh reached out not too long ago
uh saying that uh they want to study
with me
because they know I don't charge for for
teaching.
And uh they want to the the the rabbi
that they're with is charging them $200
a month
uh for him and for his wife.
But what do you Why is he charging you
$400 a month? He's like, "Oh, no, we're
in the process of converting."
I said, "Oh, well, you know, so if
you're in the process of converting,
then there's you know, obviously it's
not a uh he doesn't have an obligation
to teach you. So, certainly he could he
could charge you for uh for the
conversion classes, whatever it is. If
you want to pay it, pay it. You don't
want to pay it, don't pay it.
But you know, trying to come to me to
teach you, it's it's not, you know, it's
I don't do that. I don't do uh
conversion classes, one-on-one classes,
group classes. My teaching is in the
general public, what you see here.
Uh b'ezrat Hashem, when we get our uh
our place, we'll have live lectures
again where people can attend and I can,
you know, give these lectures not just
online, but also in person to whoever
attends.
But, it's not going to be a
small group study or or or one-on-one
studies. I don't have that kind of time.
I'm My goal is to try to impact as many
people as possible and not small groups.
Uh because these the effort is the same
and there's no reason for me to to
um you know, limit the exposure.
Uh but as far as people that do dedicate
their time to giving one-on-one lectures
or one-on-one
study sessions,
for conversion,
I don't you know, I don't know anybody
who doesn't charge for it. And in fact,
you should uh pay for it.
Uh and
it's if you really want to be Jewish, if
you really want to do all those things,
then you you need you know, if this is
what you need, then certainly you can do
it. Now, do you need to have conversion
classes? Not necessarily. I mean, if you
can study everything on your own
and have a close enough relationship
with your sponsoring rabbi that they can
test you from time to time to see how
you're growing and where you stand,
uh then you may not need the conversion
classes, but I still recommend for most
people to take conversion classes if you
could afford them. Uh you could
certainly should take them because
a lot of the times you know, people do
not have that type of relationship
uh with the rabbi or even if they do
have a nice relationship with the rabbi,
the rabbi doesn't have time to test them
and to
see if they know what they need to know.
Uh so, yeah, going to conversion classes
requires payment and there's no problem
with it as long as it's reasonable.
As far as
uh
classes like people that learn Daf Yomi
or learn the weekly parashah or learning
I don't know other types of classes of
Torah,
uh uh to pay for it, I don't really see
a reason for it just because there's so
much Torah that's available for free.
I don't really understand why anybody
would pay for it. Uh we have
uh between myself and Rabbi Friedman and
the rest of the rabbis of our
organization, uh B'ezrat Hashem, we
probably have somewhere in the
neighborhood between 16,000 to 17,
000 uh lectures online.
I can assure you, anyone that watches
even 30% of all of those
is going to become not only good enough
to convert, but good enough to be a
rabbi.
Um
and there are certainly other lectures
out there online that are good that you
could watch from uh from different
rabbis that you could learn from. I
don't really understand why anybody
would pay uh for those types of classes.
The only thing I would ever say somebody
should pay for is either conversion
classes or tutoring.
If somebody's teaching you how to study
or teaching you uh you know, like a
one-on-one type of tutoring, yes, for
that you should you should pay.
Um and why? Because that's obviously uh
the the rabbi or the teacher is limiting
their
uh
their exposure to to to less people,
specifying time for you, uh then
certainly it's uh something that uh
um you should pay him for that time.
Uh but uh for other classes, to learn,
let's say, the Daf Yomi or to learn the
weekly parashah or to learn mussar, to
learn about emunah, all those different
topics, is literally tens and tens of
thousands of lectures available online
for free.
Um
you know, there's there's no reason
whatsoever to pay for it.
Mm.
>> Rabbi, could you explain why Jewish
people don't believe Jesus is a savior?
Because he wasn't. He was a wicked man
that went against the Torah, told people
to follow him instead of following God.
And um
there's no reason for us to believe that
he's a savior. He did not
do any of the things that the Messiah
would actually is promised to do.
The last I check, the world is not at
peace, which is one of the things the
Messiah has to do is bring world peace.
We are in the middle of a war as we
speak.
Uh the last I checked
uh there's no second coming that's
mentioned in the Torah.
You know, cuz a lot of the Christians
say, "Yeah, he didn't do all those
things, but he'll do when he comes
back."
Do when he comes back and you know
>> [laughter]
>> but he can say that, "Yeah, yeah, I'll
I'll I'll pay you when I when I come
back." You know, but you the bill is
owed now.
So, it's it's a unfortunately
a belief in Jesus is based on a belief
in the New Testament.
Because it's the only place in the world
that says positive things about him.
And any other document that has him
um
that's a authentic document that says
from the time that he lived
is not speaking favorably of him.
Uh so, the only document that speaks
favorably of Jesus is the New Testament.
And the New Testament is not divine.
It's a man-made flawed document that has
endless errors
uh that uh we've discussed in many other
lectures in the past. So, if you really
want to know all of those different
errors
uh and what is the Torah's opinion of
Jesus and the New Testament, you can
watch those lectures on my uh YouTube
channel. You can just go to the YouTube
channel Rabbi Yaron Ruban, type in the
search box Jesus or New Testament and
you'll see that there is a bunch of
lectures that I've made discussing the
topic, showing verses in the Torah that
prove that there's no such thing as a uh
uh second coming or
man-made God or all the other nonsense
they say about Jesus.
And number two, uh showing even verses
from the New Testament that show that
there's errors there that clearly show
that it's a uh not a divine book.
So,
uh it's uh sad that uh many people
uh believe in the New Testament, but
before Messiah comes, everyone's going
to have
the opportunity to see the truth, to
hear the truth,
uh to research the truth just like
you're getting right now that it may not
be music to your ears what you're
hearing right now, but believe it or
not, this is
divinely inspired message from Hashem as
part of his
kindness and mercy on you to give you an
opportunity to actually go research and
double-check your beliefs because your
eternity
is uh dependent on it.
Cuz think about it this way.
If you're wrong,
if you're right,
let's say if you're right and your Jesus
is is is is is whatever you believe him
to be,
then double-checking
wouldn't change anything because you'll
look and you'll see that what I'm saying
is wrong
and you'll stay faithful to your
beliefs.
But if you're wrong,
which means that you're going to ignore
double-checking
and you end up dying and then realizing
that your belief is wrong,
your eternity is doomed.
So, before you rely on your eternity,
that it's going to be heaven like they
told you at church,
double-check if it's real.
Not from the mouth of the pastors and
the priests that are
bought and paid for with their private
jets and all the other
uh
uh monetary motivations they have, but
rather
by the people of the book.
And see, can the New Testament hold up
to the test?
And you'll see that the New Testament
does not hold up because there are
endless errors in it
that show that it is
simply a work of fraud.
So, you may not like hearing me say
these things because it's conflict with
your beliefs, but I promise you that
once you watch the lectures I've made
about this topic and other lectures that
I recommend that other rabbis have made
about the topic,
uh you will thank me for the rest of
your life for waking you up and opening
your eyes to the truth like countless
people already have.
Countless people that were born
Christians, Catholics, Muslims, and so
on
that
uh
discovered the truth
does not
come from where they were born. It's
It's It's It's actually the opposite.
And guess what? After they realized it,
after they found out,
uh they uh abandoned all of those false
beliefs, and their lives became better.
Many times had Some of them had
miracles. Many times some of them had a
lot of good things happen to them, but
more than anything else, all of them
were happy to have found out that they
were
living a lie and are no longer living a
lie.
Right now,
you're in a situation where you're part
of a religion
that you will never find two Christians
that are have the same belief. Every
Christian makes up his own religion.
One Christian believes that Jesus is
God. Another Christian believes that he
was a good guy
and he was the Messiah, but not God.
Another guy thinks that uh the Jesus was
something else.
Every Christian has a different belief
than the other one. You don't have two
Christians that are the same.
That's obviously
a problem. If it was so clear and so
true, then why why isn't even the church
have a unified belief?
Why is the pastor that was born 30 40
years ago
speaking at some mega church
contradicting the words
of the pastors and priests that lived
100 years after Jesus. Logically
speaking,
the guy that lived 100 years after Jesus
should know more about Jesus and what
the truth is
than the guy that was born 30 years ago.
But that's not the case in Christianity.
In Christianity,
the people of today, the pastors of
today, make up whatever they want and
claim to know more than the original
pope even.
So, once you start thinking about these
things, you start realizing there is a
systemic problem
in your ideology, in your belief. And if
you don't want to take my word for it,
no problem. Go watch the lectures.
You'll see that there's verses
in the Torah, in the Tanakh, and even in
the New Testament and the Quran
that prove everything that I'm saying
and much more.
Go check it out. Like I said,
if
you see that I'm lying, then nothing
changes about your life. You didn't lose
anything. In fact, you gained more
strength cuz now you are even more
confident believer in your existing
beliefs.
But if what I'm saying is the truth,
then those lectures are going to change
your life forever and your eternity
forever.
So,
take this as the kindness from God that
is having mercy on you to at least give
you the chance of seeing the truth. You
and all the other people that are keep
commenting about Isaiah 53 and other
things that you guys think are proofs of
your false beliefs.
Isaiah 53 is referring to the nation of
Israel, who was also called the
suffering servant in the previous
chapters of Isaiah. Like Isaiah 52, 51,
50, 49, 48, 46, 47, 46, 45, all of the
other chapters before it keep saying
that the suffering servant is Am Israel.
It's not like your pastor and priest
said in the mega church that it's
referring to Yoshke.
Why is there a different Jewish schools?
Why Mizrahi rabbi are different than
Ashkenazi rabbis?
Well, as far as different Jewish
schools, number one is different Jewish
schools because there's different
locations, different uh
people, communities, and so on. And even
if it's in the same community, not
everyone prefers the same teachers, the
same curriculum, the same uh
strategy of uh learning and teaching,
and so on.
And there's different levels.
As far as why is there a difference
between the Ashkenazim and the Sephardim
or the Mizrahi,
it's because there's customs. The
Mizrahi Jews,
who are also called Sephardi,
were mainly in
the Middle East.
Um
this is where we've been since the
beginning, [snorts] since Moshe Rabbenu.
Moses was Sephardi. Aaron the Cohen was
Sephardi. Yeshua bin Nun was Sephardi.
Uh David Hamelech was Sephardi,
even though he had red hair. He was
Sephardi. Ashkenazi Jewry was only born
after
uh the destruction of the uh Beit
Hamikdash. That's when the Jews went
into exile and Jews went to Europe,
uh different parts of Europe, Poland,
Russia, Ukraine, and so on.
And uh
they started developing there after
hundreds of years of being there,
developed their own customs that are
called uh Ashkenaz. Ashkenaz is the uh
the uh
nations of Ashkenaz, Germany, and so on.
Uh so uh
the customs
from the Jews
that lived in the Middle East,
like myself,
>> [snorts]
>> are different than the customs of
the Jews that lived in Europe because of
the living conditions, circumstances
that they had to endure, to live
through, and so on. So, the rabbis that
teach the uh from the Sephardi
perspective are teaching from that uh
school of thought.
Um and the Ashkenazi might teach from
that school of thought. Now, in general,
the laws themselves, the foundation of
the laws of the Torah, are the same.
But, there are certain things that are
slightly different because of what I
just mentioned. But, the basic
foundation of the Torah is the same.
It's not like in uh Christianity where
one believes in statues, like in
Catholicism, and the other one says
statues are idolatry.
Uh and one believes in snakes.
And the other one, uh, believes in, uh,
other things. It's not like them that
they're all different religions from
each other. They just call themselves
the same. Protestant, uh, or, uh,
Lutheran, and, uh, all the other, uh,
uh, Scooby Doos.
Does the Torah teach reincarnation?
Sure. I have a whole, uh,
segment of, uh, multiple films, and even
a film about reincarnation on my
channel. You can watch it.
Brings Torah sources to discuss it.
Sure.
Yes, of course, Moshe Rabbenu was
Sephardi.
There was no Ashkenazi Jewry in, in
Egypt.
Nobody was eating gefilte fish in Egypt.
I promise.
Gefilte fish was not even an invention.
Not even our enemies were eating gefilte
fish.
I mean, people that like gefilte fish,
uh, may book, enjoy.
But, uh, for for Sephardi Jews, usually
gefilte fish is more like a curse.
No disrespect to my dear students that
are Ashkenazi. It's just that it
for Sephardi Jews, we
are not fond of gefilte fish.
There are other, uh, food that the
Ashkenazim have that are good, but
gefilte fish is not one of them.
I actually do have to make an exception.
There was a friend of mine,
there's a friend of mine that he was
Sephardi from Tripoli,
but he married an Ashkenazi woman,
and they made a gefilte fish with
chreime, which is a Sephardi dish.
So, it was gefilte fish with sauce of
chreime.
And that was actually good.
So, I stand corrected. There is a
version
I never heard a version anywhere else
other than this house
that of gefilte fish that actually is
good.
So, yes.
But, um other than that though.
Now, if you are if you like gefilte fish
and you're Sephardi
that doesn't make you uh less Sephardi.
Maybe you should check your taste buds.
But
When you die, doesn't your soul go to
heaven with God? Not necessarily. If
you're wicked, it doesn't go to heaven,
it goes to gehenna. Or goes to kaffa
killa.
Or a bunch of other punishments. Do all
Jewish people follow the Talmud?
If you're referring to religious Jewish
people, Orthodox Jewish people like
myself, yes.
If you're referring to anyone that was
born Jewish, no. Obviously, there are
many Jews that are completely secular
that are atheists. So, they don't follow
not the oral Torah, which is the Talmud,
or the written Torah.
Uh which is the uh you know, five books
of Moses.
So
if you're talking about religious Jews,
yeah, of course the oral Torah, which is
part of it is the Talmud is the
foundation.
It's the foundation alongside the
written Torah.
What is a Zionist? Now, a Zionist,
that's a political Zionist. The word
Zion comes from the Torah. But, when it
comes to when it comes to the Torah
it's referring
to a place
and to people that love the the place.
It's it's a it's so has a religious kind
of uh um
uh reference.
People that are loyal to God, to to to
uh to to his Torah.
But, that's what people
claim Zionism today and for the last
150 years or so,
the Zionism that was founded by people
like Herzl and uh all of the others,
they were anti-Torah. They hated the
Torah. They hated Judaism. In fact,
Herzl uh himself uh
had a Christmas tree in his house and
did not uh circumcise his son, Hans, uh
and uh practiced Christianity. So, and
many of the other Zionists were
atheists. Uh so, they uh the Zionists
are a political movement that has
nothing to do with Judaism. Rather, it's
a enemy of Judaism. I have many lectures
about this topic that you could also
find on my
uh
on my uh YouTube channel or our app. We
have a uh phone app you could watch the
lectures on or you can watch on our
website. We have a website, bhtorah.org,
uh
that you can watch the lectures and uh
about Zionism, what the truth is about
it, and what it is according to the
Torah, and so on.
So,
uh Zionism is not referring to Judaism.
It's the two different things. Now,
when people say, "I don't hate Jews, I
hate Zionists."
If they are specifically talking about
politicians
that are, let's say, in the government
of Israel,
then okay, I believe them.
But, if they're simply talking about the
soldiers in Israel fighting for their
existence, the people that live in
Israel fighting for their existence,
Jews that are uh you know uh are uh uh
living around the world
and they say I hate them, they're
Zionist. And you just declare whoever
you want as a Zionist. No, that's not
really Zionism. That's not really
anti-Zionist. That's anti-Semetics.
That's anti-Semitism just you know
renamed.
So,
hate is hate no matter
what what color you put on it. A pig is
a pig even if you put lipstick on him.
But as far as if you're talking about
the political aspect of it, the Zionists
and the religious Jews are
enemies
for each other, especially now.
No, it's not enemies like enemies
against the nations, but rather the
enemies within. We fight constantly
about uh
what is the right things to do, how to
protect the people, and so on.
How do we observe the world from God's
perspective?
We don't. We're not God.
We could learn about what God said by
learning the Torah, but to observe the
world from God's perspective,
you'd have to be God to do that.
>> [snorts]
>> Who's worse, Zionists or Christians?
Or Christian rabbis?
Well,
Christian Rabbi
is just another name for a priest
or a pastor.
Um
Now, again,
if somebody's against the Torah,
whether they're an atheist or they're
preaching idolatry,
it doesn't matter whether they were
born Jewish or born non-Jewish. If
they're against the Torah, they're an
enemy of the Torah.
Um but
just because somebody has false beliefs
doesn't necessarily mean that auto-
we're going to go kill him or something
like that or go hurt him.
There are many people that have false
beliefs that have decent traits, decent
characteristics. They're decent human
beings
and unfortunately, they're just simply
ignorant about what the truth is.
And we try to help them, we try to
educate them, we try to uh
uh do whatever we can to uh
you know, to to help those people even
if they're not Jewish.
Um
in fact, I have many students that
came from Christianity, Catholicism, and
different religions that uh became
students of mine as a result of watching
the lectures and uh many of them
converted to Judaism. Some of them, you
know, stayed righteous Noahides. But the
point is that just because somebody
comes from a different religion doesn't
inherently make us like an enemy of
theirs.
Um
Now,
on the other hand,
if a person is preaching against the
Torah
or against the Jewish people,
then obviously, they're a enemy
regardless of whether they were born
Jewish or born non-Jewish. Doesn't make
a difference.
If they're an enemy of the Torah, that
means they're an enemy of God. And if
they're an enemy of God, they're an
enemy of the Jewish people.
That's it.
>> What's your advice for a teen that's
struggling with his Jewish beliefs?
Uh best advice is for that person to
either send a text message to my uh
WhatsApp with whatever questions they
have and I'll give them different
lectures that we've made
uh to answer all their questions.
And that way they'll uh get answers and
won't have any more
uh doubts about their beliefs.
There's no
uh no question that doesn't have an
answer.
If they don't want to send a text
message, then they can just simply watch
my lectures that are on
my uh
website or uh YouTube channel
and they can pick a topic by simply
writing the topic that they want and
they'll have they'll find a lecture out
of the thousands we've made.
They'll find a lecture that discusses
it.
Or they could also subscribe to our AI
Rabbi and ask the uh AI Rabbi the
questions and I'll give you the answers.
Whatever you want, but there's
if they're really looking for the truth,
we're more than happy to help them.
Ritualistic Jewish sacrifice?
Sacrifices are forbidden since the time
the the
Beit Hamikdash was destroyed.
No more sacrifices.
Uh
>> [sighs]
[sighs]
>> What is it?
>> [sighs]
>> All right. [gasps]
I have a couple of questions. Is there
any halakha which teaches that tobacco
is forbidden? No.
Do you agree with the Satmar Rebbe's
regarding the Zionist ideology?
Uh to a certain extent, yes. I mean,
let's say uh
um
Yeah, I mean, I mean, I have a whole
lecture about uh a whole series about uh
against
uh all the beliefs and the foundations
of Zionism. So, if that's what you're
referring to, yeah. But
many people interpreted things that the
Satmar Rebbe said that are not exactly
what he said. So, uh that's why I'm
reserved before I say I agree with
everything.
But if you're talking about that the
Zionists are inherently heretics and
that are against the Torah, that's not
some You don't have to agree with the
Satmar Rebbe for that. That's they
themselves The Zionists themselves said
it.
That they're against the Torah.
Going back to the maaser question, does
the maaser have to be off the top? Can
it be off the net?
Can you deduct food costs, living costs,
taxes? What's the proper way to do
calculation?
So, I have a uh video, a short video,
maybe
10 minutes
that you can uh watch about it. But
short explanation is
if you get a check that the taxes are
already deducted from it,
then your maaser will be off of the net
amount. Meaning, let's say you make
$1,000, but after you remove taxes from
you, you only get, let's say, $600. So,
your maaser will come from the $600, not
from the $1,000 cuz you didn't really
get $1,000.
But, if you get $1,000 in your hand, and
you are going to take pay taxes, let's
say, at the end of the year, then you
should give maaser off the $1,000.
Uh
that's one.
As far as deducting food, no, you can't
deduct food
uh or uh rent or anything like that
because that has nothing to do with the
uh with the money. If you deduct all of
your expenses,
then you'll have zero left.
Um so, no, maaser is supposed to be off
the top.
But, again, off the top of what you
actually got in your pocket.
The only things you are allowed to
deduct from the money is
cost of doing business, which is, let's
say, for example, if you sold a car,
you sold a car for $5,000.
Now, when you got the $5,000 in your
pocket, that's not a 100% profit
because, let's say, the car cost you
$3,000.
So, out of the $5,000, only $2,000 is an
actual profit. So, your maaser would be
off of the $2,000 profit, not off the
top 5,000.
Because the 3,000 is the cost of doing
business.
Uh but, you know, uh your food and rent
is not considered cost of doing
business. It's not relevant. So, maaser
will be off of the money that you get in
your pocket.
Off the profit.
Uh
>> [sighs]
>> Are we allowed to shave our beards
during the omer for Rosh Chodesh or
Shabbat?
No, is the short answer. Shulchan Aruch
says that some people that have
the custom of shaving during the omer
um
for Shabbat or
uh or Rosh Chodesh are making a mistake.
So, no, we don't shave.
>> [sighs]
[sighs]
>> Does Hashem grade on a curve? For
example, if a ba'al teshuvah grew up
with certain challenges that they
continue to struggle with that
uh they were not exposed
to or challenged with.
I mean, there is obviously a uh
a test that Hashem gives each person.
But, whatever test Hashem gives you,
surely you can pass it. Why? Because he
would not give you a test that you can't
pass.
He's a loving God, not a uh he's not
looking for you to uh to fail. He's
looking to for you to succeed, so he's
going to give you a test that you can
pass. Now, the path to success
will have failures in it.
Failure is inevitable necessity
in the path of success.
Nobody just goes from zero to success in
anything.
Anyone that reaches any level of
success, whether it's in serving Hashem,
or it's in a good marriage, or it's in
business, or anything else,
they
will have failure until they reach
success.
So, the fact that you're failing along
the way
is doesn't make you unique.
Makes you normal.
Now, that doesn't mean that failure is
is is okay to just decide that, "Okay,
if I failed, I might as well just
continue failing." No. What we're we're
allowed to fail,
but we're not allowed to give up.
Meaning, failure is expected.
Hashem knows what he created. He created
us as, you know, people and not as
robots.
So, failure is expected, but we're not
allowed to just accept failure as this
is it. No, we have to keep trying to get
up. It's just like if somebody fell,
they wouldn't if they fell three times
in a row,
they got, you know, they they they
walking somewhere and they fell, and
then they got up and they fell again,
and they got up and they fell again. No.
Nobody would just say, "You know what?
If I fell already three times, I'm just
going to stay on the ground for the rest
of my life."
No. What do you do? You get up again.
Yeah, but I fell already three times.
Okay, so you fell three times. So, you
go again. What if I fall four times? So,
you fall four times. You get up four
times.
So, failure is expected.
And a person needs to know that they
will fail.
But, they also need to know they're not
allowed to give up. They have to keep
trying to succeed. They have to keep
trying to become a better servant of
Hashem, a better Jew, a better person,
and keep trying to get better.
>> [sighs]
>> What is the best website to have the
whole Torah read out loud to me at
bedtime?
I don't know of one, but you shouldn't
uh
listen to the Torah at bedtime anyway.
It's not respectful.
You could listen to a Shiur Torah,
but Torah reading
is not music.
>> [sighs]
>> Does praying for 30 minutes be more
effective than short prayers?
It depends how the person prays. If
they're paying attention the whole time,
then sure. If they're not paying
attention, then instead of
a short prayer where they didn't pay
attention, it was a long prayer they
didn't pay attention.
Depends.
>> How do you know what your mission is,
Rabbi?
So,
in order for a person to know what their
personalized mission is, the first thing
they need to know is that there's a
general mission, and then there is a
personalized mission.
The general mission for every single
person is to follow the Torah laws that
Torah laws that are applicable to them.
If they're a Jew, the Torah laws that
are applicable to them. If they're a
male, female, obviously there's slightly
difference between the two as far as
laws, obviously a male has to put on to
fill in and pray three times a day. A
woman does not have to pay three times a
day, does not put on to fill in, and so
on.
Um
so, the laws that are applicable to you
as a Jew.
If the person is not Jewish, then the
laws that are applicable to them from
the Torah that are not for Jews, that
are for non-Jews.
So, that's the general mission. So,
first thing that person needs to do is
to do everything in their power
to follow
and fulfill the laws of God that are
applicable to them.
The personalized
personalized one is to
overcome
your
deficiencies in character traits
that make you
reluctant to fulfill the Torah.
Make you a
difficult person,
bad person
uh to to other people, and so on.
Uh so, a person needs to develop their
character trait
uh and and perfect themselves, become a
better better person through
the uh the teachings of the Torah.
Uh and more specifically to use any gift
that Hashem gave you, any blessing that
Hashem gave you, whether it's a specific
talent, resource, or whatever it is, in
order for you to sanctify Hashem's name.
So, whatever it is that Hashem gifted
you, whether it's money or it's a
specific talent or it's a specific
ability,
or whatever it is, to use that to serve
Hashem with that tool.
So, if you're a good singer, then you
know, you could become a, you know,
chazzan, cantor.
You could,
you know, sing Jewish songs. Now, you
could also
use that
that ability for your professional needs
and to make money with if if, you know,
if needed. But, the point is is to use
whatever resource Hashem gave you in
order for you to sanctify his name.
So, between the general goal and the
more specific, you're certainly going to
keep busy. Now, as far as there are
temporary goals that each person has
along their life
and that's again, that changes from time
to time, from person to person.
What about praying at nets?
If a person could pray nets, pray nets
good.
Just make sure that you pray
before it's too late, so you don't miss
the Katchma.
Has everyone counted the Omer today?
I don't know everyone.
Hashem I did, but
everyone is a
a lot of people.
>> If the Arabi blesses you, does it become
blessed?
If he curses, does it become cursed? The
Arabi doesn't bless or curse.
He gives you information.
Rabbi, I haven't shaved, but am I
allowed to clean up the edges of my
beard to look clean?
That's shaving.
No.
Again, it's it's a custom. I mean, some
Hakhamim say it's the Halakha, it's but
the point is I don't know why guys are
so um
so like
feminine. Like
It's okay, have a beard. Guys are
supposed to have beards. I'm not saying
everybody has to have a beard like mine,
but
it's okay to have some facial hair.
You're not a girl.
Oh, but it's not the clean look. Okay,
so it's not Who decides what's a clean
look?
Still, it's Stop it. Stop looking at
yourselves so much, guys.
Get over yourselves. Stop it. Just
That's for girls. Girls spend a lot of
time in front of the mirrors.
It's not that's normal. That's a good
thing.
Guys spending a lot of times in front of
the mirrors, being overly concerned
about their looks.
Stop it. It's not good for you.
It's not It's just It's feminine. It's
not good for you. It's not good for you.
You more become overly comfortable with
looking yourself, you'll end up sinning
as a result of it.
Ay, ay, ay. [sighs and gasps] okay. I
think we've answered we've answered the
questions.
Oh, here we go. I know from a locker
from your teachings that we cannot
shave usually, but I wanted to know if a
shalom bite
um
for my wife feeling more attracted to me
according to her words is there a
leniency possible
to shave
during the Omer? No.
No.
But um
if in general your wife doesn't like a
long beard
and
she finds it disgusting or something
like that
and she wants you to have a shorter
beard then you could certainly have a
shorter beard.
Um
According to Halakha, there's not a
problem. I mean according to the Baba
Sali
then absolutely not
and he would actually
uh speak very harshly of your wife uh
if she said to cut your even a hair out
of your beard.
But uh as far as a person that uh
is married to somebody that wants a
shorter beard, that's fine.
That's fine, but uh you don't
necessarily have to have a long beard.
But um
during the Omer, no. You just keep it.
If she doesn't like it, she doesn't like
it.
It's not a big deal.
So she's not going to like it for few
weeks.
She'll get over it.
The truth is
no wife in the world
cares
enough about your beard like she cares
about your compliments.
Which means that
if you are very generous with giving
your wife compliments of how beautiful
she is
and how good she is and how good our
food is and how good our parenting is
and whatever other compliment you can
give her
you can look like a troll
with horns coming out of his cheeks
with a nasty smell from the tip of them
and she will still say you're the best
and most beautiful, amazing husband in
the world. I'm so lucky. Why?
Because you're giving her what she
wants. You're giving her the love and
care she wants.
Wives that complain about husbands'
looks are wives that are looking for an
excuse
to show you they're not happy.
They're not happy.
So
become generous with compliments.
Certainly be generous with money if you
can.
Uh
and um
and the more generous you are with your
wife, especially with compliments, more
than anything else
uh the more your wife is going to be
happy
and I promise you she's not going to
care an iota about your beard or your
haircut
or your nose or the size of your feet or
even what shirt color you wear.
Women do not care about those things.
They simply do not.
They don't. Now, you'll say, "Yeah, but
some women they're only going to date
you if you have a certain car." I'm not
talking about zonat. I'm talking about
women, women that have a quality to be
wives. Zonat is a different category.
They're worried about bills. They're
worried about, you know
people that can pay for their house. I'm
talking about women that are quality
that are
either your wife or somebody that you
want to make her your wife.
They do not care about a guy's facial
hair or about his uh
color of his shirt.
They care about does he think I'm
pretty? Does he like me? Does he treat
me well? Does he have uh you know uh
a way to understand me? Does he at least
pretend to understand me? Does he try to
understand me? Does he have time for me?
That's what girls look for. That's what
women look for.
If your wife
is complaining about your shirt, your
hat, your beard, your nose, your shoe
size,
your
uh stinky feet,
whate-
That's in in in in real I'm going to
give you guys a secret. I'm married for
25 years.
I know what I'm talking about.
25 years happy married.
I have the best, most beautiful wife on
planet Earth and all other planets if
there's women there.
Best wife in the universe.
But she's my wife, she's not yours. So
don't even try.
But
with all kidding aside,
I'm telling you this
from experience.
A lot of it, not just my own, but also
by helping many, many people over the
years
with all types of marriage issues and so
on.
People that are helpable.
If your wife complains about your shoe
size, about your shorts, about your
hats, about your beard, about your
eyebrows, about your facial hair,
in women language,
she's telling you I'm not happy with
you.
Not with your beard. Don't care about
your beard. You I'm not happy with, but
I'm expressing myself through your
beard,
through your hat, through with job that
you have, or whatever it is she's
complaining about.
In reality, if she was happy, she
wouldn't care if you're 50 lb overweight
or 50 lb underweight, or if you eat fast
or you eat slow, or if your shoes are
this She wouldn't care. Why? She's
happy.
She's happy.
I'm not saying guys should let go
themselves and become disgusting trolls.
But what I'm saying to you is that if
your wife is complaining about those
things, she doesn't care about those
things.
She cares about how you treat her. And
apparently,
you're failing in that department. You
have to get better.
Become generous with your compliments,
generous with your resources,
and be that as it may, you succeed. And
of course, do all the things that are
necessary to bring blessing to the to
the house, which is to learn Torah,
to do mitzvot, to have yirat shamayim,
to give tzedakah, all the things that
uh are uh are things that bring
blessing, and certainly stay away from
things that ruin blessing, like
immorality, gambling, wasting seed.
Things like that destroy the blessing.
Thank you very much for learning with
me, rabbotai. Baruch Hashem. Glad to be
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